Oh my gosh that’s so true 👏👏👏👏👏

So fucking true

Well, yes. I haven't. Should I?

Thank God. That sounds like a stress-inducing heart attack.

@@TuomariMuller no!

It is everything, it is the only thing...shallow sex

She is such a vain, shallow, whiney, self centered creature. Not that pretty either. What did guys see in her?

@@katkrause679 Well, according to Big and Carrie: amazing sex

I remember that style from the late 90s (the shiny dress with the skinny straps). . .it looked so good on women with her body type but I looked like a dump truck in it ahahah it was so frustrating and I'm so glad it's not the current fashion!

Totalny

Renaissance Light Pathetic in your 20s is normal. Pathetic in your 30s? 😟

@@srkh8966 ...is real love

True.

@Alexus Watkins Oh, I know-that’s why Carrie is toxic

Yeah, the rich one!

I read this at the same time she said it 😃

Yes she has a very child like frame and most men find that attractive

@@snogglewort1 ewww wtf. No one was talking about her body being childlike. She's an adult woman with an adult body. Get outta here

@@snogglewort1 I'm sorry that you equate being slim to having a childlike body. Women don't have to be fat to be womanly.

@@snogglewort1 I'm shocked. Not sure how a grown woman's body is childlike.... 😶

Oh sweetie, we've all been there....

She was always his second option up until the last episode of the show because she was so desperate and clingy. Notice she can never say what she really wants to say to him. She speaks in riddles and sometimes when she has some courage, she punks out at the end of her rants about what her needs and wants are. She chickens out because she knows he'll reject her and will refuse to commit, love, and respect her the way she craves. So in order to keep him, she puts up with it, thinking in time he'll change. Big loves this because he gets non-committal sexual access and takes advantage of her insecurity. Natasha didn't lift a finger to get Big's attention, and it wasn't because she was younger and prettier, she just expected to be treated a certain way. She didn't chase Big. She let him chase her. Although the marriage failed miserably, I believe she knew her worth much more than the older Carrie.

@@jazinegrrrl I like your analysis and agree with it.

@@jazinegrrrl Phenomenal analysis. R u a therapist? (serious question)

jazinegrrrl You’re spot on about Carrie but I disagree on the reason Big married Natasha. Natasha was safe and Big had an ideal female in mind that Carrie didn’t fit. Big was a sophisticated suit and tie. Carrie was wild, complicated, full of drama, and wrote about sex. Big was embarrassed to be with her. Where as Natasha was the clean cut cookie cutter drama free type who he could be seen with and not be judged for being with her or embarrassed of. Big said it himself; Natasha was easy to be with.

that's life my dear. everything is fresh and fragile in your earlier years, and sometimes later on you kind of lose yourself. but if you keep watching, that doormat becomes a queen-- as she was all along.

Um, you don't see an emotionally charged doormat here? And being emotionally charged isn't unrespectable; it's the way she _behaves_ when she is. Can't believe I used to love this show. It was always best suited for an age group well below its rating.

Because his actions already spoke it for him. He's at a park at 3 in the morning with her.

Y'all gotta look at actions vs word's sometimes.

Me too ...he does that a lot of times in the series ...he just doesn t answer and she interpret it as she wants

Houda Ch classic bad guy s Behaviour

He also didn't reply on "Tell me I'm the one" .... again... so sad...

I don't think we hate her because of her choices and wrong decisions (which we can relate to), but just because of her attitude in general. She is very selfish and self-centred. Not a good friend for the other three characters. Just think about the day Charlotte tells the others that Henry proposed... She waited for Carrie to share this important moment and it was supposed to be her special moment. Carrie arrives and after 20 second focuses the attention on herself and the post-it Berger left her. And she manages to keep the conversation on her problems, ignoring the special moment of her friend. Totally stealing Charlotte's thunder. (even I have to say that the line: "paper cover rock" is amazing :) But this is just me :) maybe somebody else can give you a better explanation.

People are uppity. It's the internet. Someone can have one flaw, and it's like it's the end of the world. Carrie was self-centered. So what. Some people are like that, and they're still good people.

@@MissCozzetta She was self-centered at times, but the show is about women maturing and learning.

And how, when and where did she mature?

And still the show was mainly about her. At that point of the story most of the Girls were already on their way to a happy ending. Carrie had some issues but mostly about herself. I Think its good that also the contrary of a strong woman is portrayed and Carrie fits in it perfectly. There were still a lot of Moments in the Show when she listened to her friends and stood up for them though

Good eye.

Maybe the character has a twin 🤣🤣

It happens quite a lot that the same actors play several different roles during the series. It's because the series filmed in NYC so cast out of the same pool of actors. Justin Theroux played three different roles in the first two seasons for instance.

Stop fucking taking my pictures.🥴🤣📸👩🏼‍🦱

preach it, brotha Leon!

And most woman like aiden

True. Ironic how Aiden gave her everything she thought she wanted from Big but got freaked out and ended up cheating on him and throwing up when she found a ring he was going to propose to her with in his coat pocket. People want what they can’t have and when things are easy someone gets bored. Natasha was the complete 180 opposite of Carrie and Big got bored and went after Carrie again because she was in a new relationship and was more hard to get to. The more Big was aloof the more Carrie wanted and got needy and when Carrie was more aloof when she was with Aiden the more Big wanted and came to her first and wouldn’t leave her alone.

Exactly, love me or leave me...

He demonstrated

Exactly. I read somewhere when someone retaliates your question with a question and doesn't answer a direct yes or not, it's better to let them go. You see...till the end, Big never answers clearly.

Well, he was standind still, fool!

@@Dzanarika1 shat up, fool!

It was the easy sex and amusement with her antics

@@mikeg8276 he was pretty rich and handsome. He could obviously have had it from multiple women

@@MsLoila And probably he had, including Carrie.

Entertainment value.

​@@MsLoilabut he always went back to her

Yeah, he's quite credible as a rich lion :)

He's alright. But he is no Keanu Reeves. That's for sure

He is though. Truth be told.

@@SurahOnline I mean I like them both.

Bruh his eyes. Is what gets me.

He said IN the city

He really was (patient that is)

Unfortunately, it’s not that simple. When a narcissist love bombs you, it’s very hard to resist. He was already hooked in from the beginning. Lots of people are a bit more educated in love bombing these days thanks to the internet, but it can still be hard to recognise. So there might be less guys that will put up with these tantrums, because they know what to look out for, but narcissists will always find victims

Damn right 😂. Big old block! A few did that recently lmao

I think Big just wanted someone that wasn’t self centred and immature, like anyone in a relationship wants.

He looked like the photographer of the runway in the Series

@@mayechka Same actor. :)

They are in the city that never sleeps

Because it was clear Big was dating LOTS of women. Enuf for his friend to assume she was someone else. Big was the only guy she was seeing.

She opens up to him, spends time with him and he slams the door in her face every time.

Agreed. She should’ve either just dated other people too or she should’ve let him go.

Omg relax it’s just a tv show lmao