Am I the only person on earth that had never heard of Meghan before she started dating Harry or had even heard of Suits??? Honestly, I can’t be can I? I never knew who she was or had seen her at all before Harry!! She has caused so much hurt 😔

A little funny thing about Suits: I really loved to watch it (because of the boys. not because of her 😄) and me and a very dear friend of mine hated it when her character started dating the main character. And once she started dating Harry, my friend said: "She ruined Suits, now she's going to ruin to Royal Family." It was meant as a joke but, boy, was she right!!! 🤣🤣🤣

A grown man obsessing over the woman he’s seen 3 times. So sad. So toxic. She knew exACTly what she was doing.

I used to think MM was pretty, but the evil oozes out of her now, she doesn't even hide her cold dead shark eyes anymore... I don't see any real beauty any longer, not like the natural, warm, glowing real beauty you see in Catherine !!!

No one in the UK knew who Meghan Markle was until she started dating Harry. I am pretty sure Botswana Airlines staff would not have recognised her but even if they did they would not have asked a passenger for photos or an autograph that would have been very unprofessional.

i personally dont believe she 'liked' him ...she thought he was wealthy

We never heard William and Catherine complaining about living in Nott Cottage for several years.. this woman is ridiculous, it’s so frustrating!

4:43 Doroty Parker, the iconic American writer, had a great quote, " Beauty is skin deep, but ugly is clean to the bone." Perfect description of that woman.

For a Vegetarian she sure eats a lot of Chickens!!

I am a survivor of NPD abuse and Harry is so trauma bonded to the wife I’m not sure he will ever recover when he is discarded and believe me, he will definitely be discarded.

She was like the 5th girl he has bought to Botswana and they were definitely glamping,, not as glamorous as Harry was used to but still all the amenities of a great Hotel, with less people and press. Harry has a reputation for being an oaf and not very romantic. All his previous girlfriends had dumped him and he was lonely. She pretended to like all the things he liked and her narcissism was held in check during the love bombing phase. She literally had studied everything about his mother and was smart enough to present herself as his mother's replica. She played him like a fiddle and though he was warned against her by his family who saw her as the gold digger she was, the dummy prince fell for her grift.

H dated Chelsy Davey for 7 years. During that time she got two degrees, in economics and law. She was an incredibly beautiful Zimbabwean-born girl who was absolutely the outdoorsy, go-getting, no-nonsense type that H professes to find so attractive about M, and equally as cultured, intelligent cosmopolitan and creative (she later started her own jewellery designing business). Yet H treated her increasingly casually, cheating more than once, until she dumped him. At no point does he ever seem to have been in awe of her in the way that he was of M, or desperate for her approval. Cressida Bonas, his only other long-term girlfriend, was equally as pretty as M and on about the same level of minor accomplishment as an actress, but socially impeccable with extensive connections to English aristocracy, very much at ease in H's world. Yet H took her completely for granted. It is hard to understand therefore a) his apparent complete lack of confidence and self-esteem with M, given his boorish behaviour with previous, equally accomplished, girlfriends and b) quite what M had to offer that so bowled him over compared to them.

Harry is as shallow as Meghan. I do not think he feels he has done anything wrong. I never liked him even before Meghan. He was the party prince leading an empty life.

This is is man-boy. He is incredibly emotionally immature. The fact that she is so incredibly busy but can text and FaceTime 24/7 doesn’t ring a bell in his head that maybe its made up? Shame shame shame. He totally doesn’t get that HE is the PRINCE here and she is???? She absolutely HAD to have him believe she is someone very accomplished and important because that was part of the manipulation tactic. She also had to expunge her past because none of the family fitted her narrative and someone could possibly let the cat out of the bag. It’s like hearing a story about two teenagers. Not two people in their 30’s!!!!! I love your narration and interpretations. Well done!!!

She said he didn't know who he was, yet when she told Doria, doria said, Prince Harry!!! So Doria knew who Harryvwas but Megan didn't 😅😅😅

He comes across as so needy. The predator recognised her prey!

For a couple of passionate nature lovers, how many more times have they returned to Africa since then? And no, let’s not blame “the kids”. They’ve left those alleged children at home for days and weeks at a time before. Not that they couldn’t take them along and introduce them, while they’re still young, to the continent they claim to love so much.🙄

Suits was filmed in Canada and most Canadians had never heard of it.

I think the saddest thing is How old is Haz at this time? I can see the King still cutting his food for him.

The only thing that made her special was the carefully constructed notion that she wasn’t aware of and didn’t care about his position and status, ( dear reader, she was and did) this must have been so unusual that it made her stand out. He was so desperate to be loved for himself that this was the perfect strategy.

She really thinks ANYONE will believe that anyone on Botswana Airlines knows who MM is? Oh come on! No one in Botswana has a clue who you are Meghan!

South African here - firstly, it is a long flight BUT I guarantee Meghan “private jet” Markle flew business or first class, so she probably got a solid 8 hour sleep - no wonder she wasn’t grumpy. Second - cutoff shorts are fine culturally but you are right that if you’re going to the bush they aren’t practical cos of thorns & ticks.

In answer to your question, I had never heard of "Suits" . Nor had I heard of Meghan Markle ; neither had any of my friends and family.

Australian weighing in - never heard of suits or meghen markle until reports daring harry. What was with Gayle King making out the show was sooooo successful?

Who packs a yoga mat for Africa??? I’ve been to Africa. I’ve slept amongst the rats, the scorpions, and the puff adders. I was happy to get a pup tent with no holes And she’s packing a yoga mat.

Professionals do not approach celebrities for photos or autographs.

“He didn’t notice the Prince shaped lump under the duvet”. Eye roll… 🤣🤣

Red Flags are flying high the entire time (for everyone else who knows Harry) In his book, Tom Bower stated that Meghan was 'on the prowl' for a rich British man and when she met Harry began to change her many aspects of her life including changing her Wikipedia page from actress and model to actress and humanitarian.

None of us knew Suits or MM before she married Haz. Also - didn’t it turn out later that she was already friends with Eugenie?? Ugh. SMH.

Somehow I don’t believe that Prince Williams and Catherine were huge fans of Suits. How could he tell that and get away with it? Not a lot of people had heard about Meghan.

If Africa is so wonderful they should have stayed there!

If Harry felt that afraid she was going to lose her tree and get mad and dump him because he didn’t text her every 10 minutes. Already that shows she was controlling him! He should have taken those cues and ran for his life!

Why is me-gain ALWAYS on the floor…….sobbing, vomiting…..faking medical emergencies……???

Not MM treating Nott Cottage like it's a doublewide trailer out in the sticks. It is a literal royal residence! Plus, Harry having an aneurysm every time Meghan is merely thought of is far too toxic and seems very exhausting.

I don't think that Prince William will forgive him so easily. King Charles might not either as Harry was so cruel with insults about his wife the Queen.

I thought she was a 6.5 when I first saw her. Not ugly but I had nothing against her, I felt neutral swaying positive. After seeing her behavior over the years she’s a 4 on her best day. Funny how personality shines through and changes beauty.

"Is he kind?" asked the spider FFS I was like him when I met my first girlfriend I was 15

As a Canadian I’d seen MM’s Reitman’s Ads but had no clue she was an actress - and her show was filmed here! Having now watched a bit of Suits, she had a VERY small role in the first few seasons - she’s basically a para-legal who gets a line or two every show - usually something flirty like “I’m not wearing any underwear”. She certainly could go out in public and not be recognized. In fact - even the STARs of Suits could have gone out in public and would have been virtually unknown.

What adults in their 30's...late 30's in her case have texting marathons? They are so immature that it's just ridiculous.

Anyone recall when Harry called her out for being late for their second meet-up? Boy, she did not like that!😄 Also, I would describe Meghan as cute. Pretty but not stunningly beautiful. My personal opinion aside, it does become difficult to recognize a person's physical beauty once you realize how ugly they are on the inside. Especially when they use that "beauty" to manipulate people and use it to get whatever they want. Also also, I completely understand that you need to worry about time, but I could listen to you go on about H&M all day. You're taking subject matter that would normally make me feel physically ill and making it entertaining and palatable. Thanks for that.🙂

Why is she ‘supposedly’ freaking out about the wild animals ? HADN’T SHE BEEN TO AFRICA SOOOO MANY TIMES ON HER HUMANITARIAN WORK, WOULDN’T SHE BE USED TO THE WILDLIFE OF THE COUNTRY THAT SHE WAS SUCH AN INTEGRAL PART OF WITH HER FUNDRAISING????

Eugenie and Will & Catherine both loved, loved, loved Suits, but Harold didn't know who Meghan was.....mmmkay

I've been Harry role. You either get out or die. I got out and am free.

Any woman would know exactly what she was doing. Hysterical 😂

Nott Cott was Prince William & Princess Katherine's former home that was renovated for them. It's gorgeous and the ONLY thing I think upset him is that he wasn't taking her back to the Palace instead of just a normal beautiful home.... Plus I can't imagine it being that tiny from the pictures OR the fact a family with kids lived there & Prince William is just as tall as he is if not taller...

believe the reason Harry fell so fast & hard for "M", was because all his previous girlfriends that he fell in love with, broke up with him. He was in his 30's & was afraid that he would never find someone who was willing to marry him. That is why H has put up with so much abuse from M.

If only her Google search history was exposed back then…so much would have been revealed

If what he says is true, then his family made up the majority of the Suits audience. lol He was out of his depth with her from the get go.

If she really had food poisoning, she would’ve had diarrhea just as fast as she was throwing up. I can’t believe we didn’t get to hear all about that!?!?! Must not have been food poisoning!

Most Brits didn't know who she was until she walked down the aisle!!🇬🇧

I live in Canada and never watched the show, nor had I heard of it.

He and megan make such a huge deal about Nottingham cottage ,how opera was shocked when she saw it ,he even said in that programme how low the ceilings are and God knows who lived here , he knows William and Catherine lived there for nearly 3 years and it was prince George's first home ,I'm from the UK and nobody I know had ever heard of suits let alone seen it

He just can’t seem to build her up without putting himself down!

Completely agree with you that the sandwich was a sweet gesture. An excellent woman could possibly have drawn out the best in him. It’s sad that his immature behavior eliminated the potential for that sort of woman to be interested. He made himself prey and never saw the predator coming.

Thank you for bringing humour to insanity. 🙂

I'll protect you!!!!!! She's going to be mad!!!!! So this is their whole relationship.

I don't normally listen to hour-long videos but you are so insightful, you just explained the full cycle of Harry's narcissistic abuse, right from the moment she manipulated him into fearing losing her, to where he is now, feeling trapped because of the children and the knowledge that she will use them as pawns. She will blackmail him, and triangulate and alienate the kids from him. The guy is a complete shell right now. He was an easy target for a zen-level master manipulator like Meghan. Great analysis and review.

In a relationship the one with the power is the one who cares the least..

He s been royally played...astounding for a man his age being pulled in so easily by such basic level of a manipulation. He didnt seem to ever question her narratives, stories...when it s easily accessible for him to find out for example how well-known "suits" really was. I had a 1min glimpse of it years before M met H, and i was immediately uninterested when i saw her acting (she & the other male character appeared in the 1st few min of the pilot). It s a bit much & she already seemed snooty annoying🤣

She was famous in her own mind, from being on Suits. In reality, it was a legal drama on a cable network. How many people even have cable anymore, and if they do, like me, they hardly watch but a few channels? Content is so spread out now, most people are scrolling their phones, not sitting in tneir living rooms watching TV. A flight crew in Africa were fans? Yeah, right. She convinced the cloistered Harry that she was famous, because she already convinced herself. Remember when she told Ninaki that she could not join her for lunch in LA, a year after joining Suits, because she would be recognized? So deluded.

OMG! How old are these two, why are they acting like spoilt teenagers? Get over yourselves!

When I first saw the Duchess of Narcissism, which was after she became engaged to Hypocrite Harry, I thought she was beautiful too. However, once her true colors were unfurled, I find her to be much less lovely, and much more plastic looking. Also, you’re a much better actor than MM.

No one in the U.K. knew Suits. No one in the world did.

I had totally no idea who MM was when she was introduced to the British public through the royal family and I had not heard of the show either. I wasn't even aware MM was a mixed race woman until on the day of their wedding, I followed it from start to finish and saw her mum at the church when the mixed race penny dropped. I thought her mum who was 'just a mum' was so brave and amazing, to be there in THAT situation and clearly alone. As a true royal loving Britt, I cheered that couple on throughout the whole day especially. I was pretty shocked when they accused the British people and the royal family of being racists towards MM‼️ On the whole, us Britt's as a nation are not racists so at that point, I instinctively knew everything coming from their mouths was all total bollocks. Totally loving listing to your show, I thank you. ❤️

If we were some what questioning if Megs had a hand in writing this book, are questions are answered with the passage about her fan base on her flight over then complains about them. That was totally Megs.

I'm pretty sure Meghan memorized the book "The Rules" and doesn't make a move without consulting it.

Actually all he had to do was take the sim out of his phone and borrow a phone. What a self obsessed todger!!!

Even without your delightful sass I see the red flags from thousand of miles away. Harry. Mate. There’s being blind in love then there’s being a male take on Helen Keller. 😂 Seriously loving you sparing me from the spare’s greatest hit. Waaaagh.

As an American, I had never heard of her or of SUITS!

Were Mike Holding and Tania Jenkins, his beloved friends, at the wedding, and have they been a part of his life since then? And, what do they think of Methane?

It shouldn't make you wonder what those two BABYSITTERS ARE ALWAYS THERE TODO?? THEY ARE THERE TO ALWAYS BABYSIT HAZ.!!!. The RF know he has to be monitored at all times.

This made me feel so sad for Harry hes so beaten down already by date 4. I agree with you cheree he needs to find jesus

I couldn't bear to read that book....certainly couldn't listen to that twonk read it himself, but it's so funny the way you do it. Thanks 😆

46:49 So Harry was worried Meg would slate HIS home (but it's okay for him to slate others' homes... Elvis? Graceland?) 🤔

No way they had USA network in UK.

I feel so uncomfortable. During every interaction with her his thought process is, "Omg, she's not going to like this/She's going to be mad/She thinks I'm lame/I don't deserve her." He sounds like a battered spouse from the first date. The orgasms must be astral projection level if he's willing to put up with...everything else. Regarding Suits popularity: for some reason that show really took off in Romania, but let me tell you, nobody watched it for MM. Her acting was passable because she was just playing herself. Rachel had that same grinding condescension, rebuffing her love interest calling her pretty in that cool-tell me-smth-I-don't-know-not-interested girlboss way and mocking him for not realising she's biracial, just to give a couple examples. She wasn't even a decent girlboss. I bet if you asked fans who their favourite female character is, a lot of them would pick Donna. She wishes she were Donna.

Can anyone honestly believe that she would have given him the time of day if he was just a normal middle aged ginger balding dim man/child with no money??? come on!!!! she would have run a mile if he even tried to talk to her!!!!

Someone should compile her dalliances during and before her marriages. There was Rory McIlroy, Michael Del Zotto, etc ...

I think Harry feels as many victims of narcissistic abuse from their spouse, they feel awful, and how something is very very wrong. They have that lump in the stomach, that anxiety, insincerity, and pressed down anger. But here Meghan have managed what many other narcissists do, she has him convinced she isn't the problem, and the reason he feels like that, is not her abuse, domination and manipulation of him, but pointing the finger at his family. And the press. And racism. And her family. And his friends. And everything is else is the reason he feels all this angst, all this anger, instead of the real reason he feels like this: her. But he is so trauma bonded with her, he is channeling everything that is wrong into hate, and Megs help fuling it on, fuling on to further her control over him, and separating from everyone who ever cared about him or everything that has ever grounded him, being part of him. She works JUST as a cult. They use the same tricks. So I think he is so far from happy you can come, but could never see Meg as the cause of that. So he channels all that rage, hate, angst, and all those feelings you have living in a narcissistic abusive relationship, and project them on his family (and the press) instead thinking that it's THEIR fault he is constantly in pain. When it's her.

Meghan makes me SO on edge I can’t stand it. Good grief

In the UK it was only possible to watch Suits if you subscribed to a certain streaming service. I think it was HBO. So for Harry to assume that everyone knew who Meghan Markle was is absurd.

One sided Relationships where one Person has all the Power never last long term And if it does last its a miserable union so either way he is up sh#tcreek without a paddle She played the Classic Narc Move of mirroring & lovebombing Harry so he thought he met his soulmate 😪

Should be, “Sparse”. Describes his lack of hair & intelligence.

Could his crazy attraction have as its foundation the desire to “out do” William-and does his rage come from William’s and Catherine’s disapproval of what he naively sees as an “accomplished” woman, and their correct assessment of her as an empty gold digger?

I never heard of Suits and I don't even know where to watch it. However, I'm not looking because the woman disgusts me.

The self importance to act like she needed to hide her incredibly recognizable face from the adoring public 🙄

She’s a grifter, played him so much…..he fell for it

Whipped is the perfect title

You are making this so fun and funny, thank you so much Cheerie ❤

Megain could sellout shows just for being a ventriloquist and Hairy to continue to be her puppet

No, I’m not holding your hair back, here’s a hair band.

I love story time with this group it’s great! I really hope you’ll consider what REALLY happened behind the scenes in the book Tom Bower released in July called “Revenge.” He spent over a year interviewing almost a hundred people who worked with them, most of them were staff MeGain screamed at, brought to tears and bullied. Tom Bower is older and has in reporting on the RF for years but he fact checked and triple fact checked ALL of his information and what he could not get signed on record he left out. He’s an attorney and The Harkle’s sue EVERYONE but not him, the book shows what a nightmare MeGain really is, how she treats people, and Prince Dumb stands by and let’s her bully staff that keep quitting who have been with the RF before Harry was born. It gets so juicy when word gets back to William about what’s REALLY going on, and they are confronted by a furious King in waiting lol 😂 at one point HAROLD hangs up on William because he refuses to deal with his wife’s bullying people, Will’s is like “OH NO HE DID’T!” He STORMS across Windsor to confront the little twerp in person! He and Kate really do treat their staff like family and are outraged because they gave them some of the best people to set them up for success and had no clue what was going on. William made many calls to apologize and ask for their account but many were too traumatized and afraid to be telling their little life problems to the heir. 😂 The book is so good if you want to know who MeGain REALLY is!!

Anyone else pick up on how Harold disparaged the notes his father left for him but the connection he sought with the notes he'd write out, took pictures of, to have his friends pass along to M? I can't possibly be the only one who, considering her past (was going to be deposed re: Epstein and Andrew but didn't know who the assistant carrying the Queen's purse was) and all the psychological manipulations, she's a trained operative? A hotel manager just hangs out in a room he's just brought two breakfast plates while his naked but for sheets girlfriend chats up the manager? There's no closet to hide in 🙄 but this employee of a discreetly accessed establishment missed rumpled men's clothes, two breakfast plates, and is in the room far too long. My alarm bells haven't stopped ringing.🤷‍♀️

He was so needy to gain a wife like his brother and friends, and his antenna was off if it was ever turned on. He'd not been successful in any prior relationship. Lapdog Harry was grateful.

When I first saw her (at the Invictus Games with Harry), I recall thinking that she was stunning and seemed bubbly and charming. Now I realize what a false front she can put on, and that she can look good and we’ll put together.

If you watch their engagement interview, he says he didn’t know who she was before they met. This conflicts with Spare’s version - that they met because he was bowled over by her beauty, bedazzled by the dog filter on her face on Instagram - because in 2017 when they announced their engagement they said they met on a “blind date” set up by a “friend” who they didn’t name because they wanted to protect the friend’s “privacy”. Right. Likely this friend was Violet, but it’s difficult to trust any version of how they met because they’ve already had multiple versions. But I digress. When Harry says in the interview that he “didn’t know who Meghan Markle was”, watch her face. She did NOT like him saying that. Other KZfaqrs have gone through their body language; the Body Language Guy is a good one to see. All that to say, I think Harry was telling the truth during the engagement interview, that he hadn’t actually heard of Meghan before they met, because she wasn’t that famous, and frankly, I wouldn’t have expected him to know who she was. His recollection of how they met and their early dates in Spare were heavily (if not wholly) rewritten by her, to hammer in her chosen version of herself as “famous” and the most stunningly beautiful woman Harry has ever met. The problem is it’s obvious as you’ve said that she was manipulative from the get go so it all rings like a ridiculous fantasy. I do think M is pretty, and she was on a cable show watched by millions (maybe?). But she was nowhere near the superhuman woman that Spare makes her out to be.

I live in Australia but I have a lot of friends in the UK & they all tell me that Suits wasn’t on tv (at least at that time) in the UK. They certainly had never heard of her when it came out that Harry was dating her. Thank you so much for reading this book so we didn’t have to! I love your commentary & look forward to watching each week. You always make me laugh as well as making excellent observations.

I had watched Suits, but when it came out that Harry dated Meghan and everyone was like: Oh, she was in Suits! I was like, huh, where, who did she play? Oooooooooooooooooooh, she was Mikes girlfriend that I found so annoying and dumb, haha 🤣😂 Also, why didn't he just phone Teej and Mike and ask for Meghans number? Why did he have to send a letter to Teej who then makes a picture and sends it to Meghan, since Teej had her Nr.???? This does not make sense at all, or did I misunderstand something?

OMG, the voice impersonations are great, especially meeeeghan's and prince Waaaaagh's whiny voice! Your book reviews are a lot of fun!

If he wasn't such a horrible person himself, I would feel sorry for how he was fooled by her. Bet she spends hours in hair 'n makeup these days- no more of the hiking boots safari girl act.