I'm 27 years old and I know how toxic this can be. Young guys be careful, don't screw your life for a girl

I think every one can relate to this at some point of their life 😂. Another amazing lecture from Sir.

I used to get hurt alot, even cried for a new online friend. You are speaking nothing but the truth, I was purposeless. The day I became focused, I stopped giving a fu*k. Thanks big bro for sharing real value

Wish Chetan sir had made this chennel a few years back 🥺 90's students sufferd a lot , there was no one to guide in this age of soo many distractions 🥺

Chetan bhagat is savage dad we never had 😂

5:18 The most important line of this video which is the solution "Tum Disaheeen ho, you are purposeless" 🙏🥺

NO offence but sometimes the person is nice but he becomes too clingy at time and we don't want to hurt that person so girls often ignore their texts to secretively let them know that we're not interested in them. However, some girls like to play hard to get, that might be the reason I personally feel I'm more attracted towards guys who are hardworking and ambitious and dedicated towards their goals, so i guess being clingy won't get you girls but your personality being hardworking or ambitious will get you both success and someone to share your success with. So don't chase girls, chase your dreams and not only girls but everyone will be attracted towards you. PS : just my thoughts, don't get offended because this might not be true for everyone :)

Loved this point "ladko ko daant sakta hun sab mere chote bhai ki tarah hai", yes sir sab aapki chote bhai ki tarah hai.. Your daant have changed many life. Thank you sir ❤️

Totally agreed sir..♥️ Focus on yourself & career ,because now I realised No one will help you when you are left with problems. so plan how to face the crucial situations alone. God doesn't give a problem which you cant solve.

I think the reason girls ghost guys is that they got some better option.

Hello sir , Though I am a girl I get to learn so much from u . Ur words and thoughts are so valuable u r so humble and broad minded . Lots of love and respect to u . And sir it's not only girls who ghost boys manier times it's also boys who ghost girls . Many times it's boys who friendzone girls . And all the these relationships are on emotional basis and emotions are unstable . Sometimes u r high sometimes u r low and u don't even understand ur own emotions and u end up messing serious relationship also . In my personal view one should not give hints to another gal / guy until u r very much clear with ur own emotions . And those people who simply make casual friends after a breakup or enter into another relationship make a huge mistake . They should give themselves some time to heal in loneliness , sometime to understand their own mistakes and settle with their emotions . Few people are so much messed up with their own selves that they simply mess up other people 's life too.

Some girls do this because they want attention. They give importance at first because they were lonely and wanted to pass time, but then when they got the attention and importance, the guy don't matter to them. Whether you're a friend or anyone in their life, it was all a lie. They will find someother person. Try not to get attach to a person until a certain amount of time or certain level. And when you reach that level, treat her good, but make sure you receive the respect and love

I wish we had this videos 10 years back. It would have saved me from making a lot of mistakes.

Ladko ko kisi ek ladki ko hi duniya nahi bna dena chahiye.., attitude aisa rakhna chhaiye ki... तू नहीं कोई और सही, कोई और नही कोई और सही, बहुत लम्बी है ये जमीं, लाखों मिलेंगे यहाँ हंसी, एक तू ही थोड़ी ना है इस दुनिया में हंसी। 😂😂 and must focus on career👍

Put yourself on yours first priority.......then to others 🙃

Actually it's not her fault, it's totally his fault. Because nowadays the boy who are making them valuable like Queen of his life, Jaan ,babu & sona etc........Just nonsense is happening nowadays in all over the world instead of thinking about future.

It doesn't matter which era do you belong but your expertise will be always updated... thanks to open our eyes sir..love you

Sir you have no idea, apki videos kitni zada help karri hai.. Thank you so much thank you🙏

Too many messages hote hain toh miss ho jate hain. And after a while, it doesn't feel appropriate to answer an old message. This is how even I have ghosted people. Feel bad about it now.

The way you made connection while delivering this is exceptional !!!

Some boy's also do the same :( even if we ask some studies related stuff they just not ans it completely u write five lines of an explanation and in return get only two three words ..kya acha ruko.. n never get the ans .... Problem is not girls or boys...some girl also answer girls even though they call them one of their close friends... Problem is less morality in people..they just want to prove themselves superior to u by not replying... No one is so busy that if can read a msg then can't say I'm busy I'll tell u later... It's just they want u to feel bad.... And this is what today's generation thinks coolness... Sbko lgta h ki ase busy hone ka drama or kuch msg ka jawab na dene krke vo khudko cool and focused proove krskte hn ...

I have seen lot of your videos but this one is outstanding , thank you for making us realise

I think entire line by Chetan sir was for me 😅 . This is the phase I'm going through right now

Sir you open my eyes on right time ⌚😅 I'm in same senerio which you tells us.. Thank you chetan sir and I'm focus on my career

My real motivator, love you sir from kerala😍

Thanks sir for such a life changing motivation 😊🙂

Love u sir... U r my favorite super hero...... ❤❤

If someone follows all what you say , that person will be limitless. All these things seem to be very small but I think these are the biggest obstacles which Stop someone from excelling in life. Thank you sir for guiding us of all such problems which others think to be silly . This channel deserves to be subscribed by entire youth ! ❤️🔥

Sir you're very good at understanding such big problems of life, of which nobody talks. Your content is highly relatable to every teenager or adult. It felt like you're our big brother and guiding us.

Chetan Sir scolds us sweetly for our betterment 🤗

This is one of your best video sir. Please making this type of video sir ... you are a gem for our generation

Sir it's really like an elder brother teaching us ♥️. Much love sir thank you so much for your motivation

Today I felt same thing it's to painful when you give to much importance someone in your life and they ignore you but thanks sir your videos are eye opener when ever I feel stuck in my life your videos are always there for me thankyou so much 🙏🙏

Sahi samjhane k liye or sahi rashta dikhane k liye bahut bahut dhanyabad sir

Sir.. Your words directly connected to the people... Love you sir ji

Bus train aur ladki - ek jati hai doosri ati hai.

Sir you big brother of millions of young people thank you so much for such type of guidence ❣🙏

Sir Sir, your topic touches directly on the heart. This scan has just come in my life too. now with a purpose I started my life😇😇

Very Great Sir, You are one of my role models. Your video topics have great correlation with my life at some point of time.

This video came at the very moment I was needing it the most 💕

This is what I want to hear....thank you...❤️ sir always motivate us or scold us like that 😂 I really like the way you are 👍🙏ab main bhi kisi ko khud pe control nai karne dungi

Kabiliyat ke piche jao, what a message sir!! 👍👍 Love love ❤ for u!

Aarti ,bindiya, charu disha ...abcd😂😂😂😂😂😂

I never seen on KZfaq these types guys who say by only heart.... salute sir....

Suggested by a friend.. now I am feeling better. Thank you very much sir.🙏🙏🙏

Ha ha described so well, actually people overthink a lot and can spend days thinking of one message.

मुझे भी ऐसा लगता था कि उसके जैसा दुनिया में कोई नहीं है, लेकिन कई सारे हैं।

Bhai bilkul exact😯😲😳 . To the point 🎯. Wo bhi phase tha ek life ka. But I overcame it alone 🏅🏆

Got your point sir..u have to be that much dedicated towards your goals so that distractions can't distract you

I've started to going gym since 1st of January along with my studies and will continue throughout the year. #selfhelp.😍👍 Keep motivating sir!!🙏🙏

Videos like this are proof that How Chetan Bhagat sir is so relevant, and touching to youth of India..you are my role model sir..🙏

Motivational to ni daat zrur h 💕

Why we care.... that's the point 👏

Excellence...hat's of your real thought & motivation..changes happing 🙏🙏🌺

☹Bhaiya ek overthinking pr bhi video bana dijiye.

This video is so relatable😂😂😂lol..Love you Chetan Sir❤️

Whatever you have said sir it had happened with me too 🤦🏻🤣... Thanks for guiding sir ❤️

I think I am blessed because I found your channel... Pls make a video on how to more focus and avoid distraction and how to prioritize things.. ❤❤

Love u sir ❤️....thnk u so much for ur motivation or wtever...i really loved this...i was like this type of chu...now chasing excellence✌️👍

Me 2 mahine phele hi yeh seek gaya tha aaj sunke badiya laga ❤️ chetan sir you are legend ❤️

Saving youth.. lots of love👍🏻

I have been following your content sir ...i find it based on practical and realistic issues... Regardless of the gender... Hearing from you always relieves me,heals me for some reason... !

Sir ap itna real kaise soch sakte hai... u are really awesome motivater thank you sir for helping us ❤

Amazing sir 👏 I am girl & I love you watch your lectures, Sir this same situation with me I have a crush on boy I decide to tell my feeling to him without any filter whatever I feel I texthim on Instagram but he seen and didn't reply and my mind stuck to him . Sir I text him in Oct 2021 now 2022 I try a lot to forgot him but day by day my heart told me aesa kya likh diya ya itni buri hu kya ki ek reply bhi nhi diya In jam 29 2022 I again text him he again didn't reply This hurts me a lot but today I feel jaise bde bhaiya ne samjhaya ho thank u thank u so much sir

Be the change that you wish to see in the world...~ Mahatma Gandhi 🎉🙏 Sir❣️

👍🙌every word is relevant, true advice for youngsters, thanks sir.

As usual, One of the best videos !!

No bakwas direct to point love u sir..🤩

Love you sir. You are the lamp of my hardest and darkest time phase.

You exactly told the reality sir . 😍👍

Now I will try to remove this habit.because you are my ideal motivational speaker.

Never been in a relationship but this so good advice. Shall keep in mind

sir aap itna relatable topic par kaise bana lete ho, jo currently meri life me chalta hai aap us topic ko utha hi lete hai, love you sir🥰

Sir i just watched only first 4min of your this video......one thing I only say......You are the game changer for our generation sir....thnqqq so much sir.... ❤️...much love. ❤️ for every boys....Khud ko thappad maar lo....but ye harkat kabhi na Krna..... because God have planned much better for you... 🙏girls ka respect jarur karo....but apni ijjat k sath....kyu ki life mai sab chala jyga....lekin tm aur tmhara self respect akhri saas tk rahega..... 👍

Thanks your guidance sir🙏

I wish I could see this video long before.... thank you so much sir....

Awesome Chetan ! Although I am a single child, I wish I had an elder brother like you. Thanks to Internet !!!

This is very relevant 👏 I have faced issues in life. There is no ..absolutely no support / material for boys / men in our society. Even if guy is always nice hardworking and good. There is always male bashing whatever happens...and then .. People misuse these good people. Happy to see at least some insightful content...for guys...and its actually for both male and female.😀👍

Best video ever I have scene on YT 💯.. hats off 2 u sir🙏 much needed and really eye opening.. Conclusion- girl is not interested(she is not the one) Action- Build your worth, work on yourself... have a purposeful life... Your self-respect first... Become deserving rather than desiring #aukat

Watching ur video in morning it refresh my mind and also it give me some knowledge as well as what else i want 🥰

I just undergone this thing .. And opened youtube got ur video.. Perfect!!

Reason is girls gets many messages, so they just miss or ignore. Girls talks to every way in nice manner, and boys things they talk only to him in that way😃 GIRLS DO YOU AGREE?

Always appreciate your words sir... 👌

Sir love u always ❤️ ur content is so much realistic and useful forever

Itna bhi sach nhi bolna tha sir 😂...!!!

No words to say for Chetan sir really appreciate sir... ❤️❤️

Thanks sir for this eye and mind opening video

He's like my True friend who make me understand something special with abusing But i really bless i got u at utube

Because it's her choice -Neha mam

Banna hi nahi hai Chu.. Sir !! Jai Hind.

Indian male ne jo ego boost kr ke rakha hai ladkiyon ka uske liye👏🏻👏🏻

Your genuine style is rocking

haha amazing video sir, i am married now and watching this reminds me of how i was during my college days haha, awesome

Love u sir your guidance can help in improve my habits

Title of every video is awesome 👏.It attracts me 💝

Sir it's ok you can scold us but your teaching will always b remembered..

Thank you 🙏 I believe maturity is when you don't wait for anyone just smile and accept the change and move on.

Recently I have finished ONE ARRANGED MUDDER , SIR MAZA AA GAYA , ♥️♥️ FOR YOUR CONTRIBUTION OF MOTIVATING US . THANGS TO VIRCHUAL MEDIA , NOW I AM WITH U SIR .

Sir ka topic bhut shi hota hai

Sir Kamal hi kar diya aapne, fully related,