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Closing the loop😂

This made me laugh so hard😂

I DIEDDD 😂😂😂😂😂

LMAOOO

Because modern obgyns are in a profession built off of stealing the job of childbirth from women and torturing women for centuries since they did it (uncomfortable medical procedures w/o womens comfort in mind, experimentation on women -literally, on pregnant women in general but also enslaved women for the modern foundations of it, forcing women to birth in unnatural positions like laying on our backs, etc).

Bc they prefer to sit down and have a well lit birth canal at or just below eye level in front of them.

@@ajaxajar4349 so wierd tho right... like do they feel all mighty watching a new human enter the world? Is it like a power play? Stay in this exact position bc I said so. 😑 🙄

@@natabulous6429 I think for some doctors it's for sure a power play. For others it's just, "we've always done it this way," "I need to be able to see in order to act appropriately," OR "this is my 12th birth today I need to be comfortable." But like srsly, just wear some comfortable shoes and get over it. If it were me, I'd rather deal with lower back pain than have my patient have to get stitches from a torn perineum.

@@ajaxajar4349do you not know the history??

The feeling like a horse comment got me 😂 congrats mama!

She's so right😂​@@nicoleluce544

If you get care through a birth center, you can birth your baby in whatever position you'd like!

Crazyyyyy

Just don't let them. Honestly, when it came to my 3 unmedicated vbacs I had to be tough because they 100 percent attempted to control my birth. I allowed pitocin because I didn't mind speeding it up and do very well with it BUT when it came to positions they wanted me on my back if they knew I was close to delivering. Something that helped me was I allowed checks up until 6 cm(just my preference you can fight to have no checks at all I just wanted a general idea becauseI labor 1 cm per hr) after that no checks because they are going to attempt to catch me around 9cm. I'd always just say "not just yet" which really meant nah.. Anytime they asked did I feel a need to push I played dumb. "I don't feel like I need to push yet." It worked mostly fine and 2 of those being the last babies and honestly they slid out just from allowing my body to do it and I was able to birth my favorite position which is head at the headboard. They definitely looked annoyed but thankfully IDGAF. 😂😭 baby 5 and as long as we can confirm for sure I don't have accreta I'll be playing that game one more time. Lol Sad we even have to do that but I have to have hospital births simply from having a rare health problem that if it decides to act up while my body is stressed I'm in a safe place so no home births for me, unfortunately.

no one is going to force my to be on my bacc. Not King Arthur not anyone. I'm not giving birth in the same position I made the baby in 😂

@@s.c.2424can you explain the position more? Were you standing?

Even me, I don't understand

long story (from what I know you should look it up to double check) but a tradition started from a doctor who was a creep and liked watching pregnant women give birth.

So it’s harder to give birth and then they can convince you in the most vulnerable moment to get a C-section

I think it had​ more to do with the Baby falling because that fella is gonna be slippery as hell so having him come Out horizontally was/is? more safe. Im not too sure but i saw some like 1960s training Film which talked about something like that.@@eliza_chuchu1211

This time I will go with this

Because some weird ass king, like one of the Louis', a long time ago, had a fetish for watching women give birth and doctors noticed they'd be able to see better and took the supine position and ran with it

It is confusing, but it's knees together, feet apart

Knees need to be facing inward, both can be apart. You don't wanna have closed knees but the more flexible you are the easier it will become

They shouldnt of stopped you moving around. On the bed. Its for thier convienience to have monitors straps cathiters attatched.

Close

​@@aboutliyah9ooooooh! I thought it right but was still a bit confused.

Pro tip: Just keep switching from both positions as fast as you can.

​@@aboutliyah9 no? It's obv u have to open 'em

No knees together feet apart. Opens up the pelvis ​@@Franciscsx

You dont always get that choice. Things can go very bad very fast. My third baby was born in hospital with a midwife that was part of my obgyn staff. He was a shoulder dysplasia baby and stuck badly. Emergency c- section was on standby and they almost called it. He came out blue/ purple not breathing, no crying, limp, no apgar and needed immediate neo-natal care. If i were home he would have died, and this was my third child after 2 other normal deliveries. Its a risk i would never take after seeing that.

I reccommend that you look into hypnobabies probram to learn about prenatal care, hypnosis, and delivery for a calmer experience.

Have you gone to see a pelvic floor therapist? Ive heard that all moms before and after baby arrives should see one. Id reccommend you see one get their opinion on whats going on since its been an issue for some time.

Knees together and feet apart opens up the pelvis, increasing space for baby to pass more easily.

@nah.-wy6fj thank you for responding. Clearer now.

Excusez-moi pour le français que j'apprends encore Etirez-vous et ouvrez vos hanches, c'est ce qu'elle dit.

@@midnightaro merci

It may seem weird, but she is giving tips for child birth. So it’s easier and less painful

abre tus caderas

@@AJaySmiles gracias 😊

Some videos show what she is trying to tell. Just some search and you'll find it. I've seen no pain in the mamas and it's so fast.

Exactly.

Bet you a boy 🙄