Girl that position was how I got pregnant in the first place, I got this
@Mummyto4millersАй бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Alizarin1crimsonАй бұрын
Closing the loop😂
@Sariahzuri-xg6ob29 күн бұрын
This made me laugh so hard😂
@myaa3426 күн бұрын
I DIEDDD 😂😂😂😂😂
@shae663925 күн бұрын
LMAOOO
@natabulous6429Ай бұрын
My one question is whyyyyyyy do OBGYs ignore this kind of knowledge 😢💔
@dinosaur___7209Ай бұрын
Because modern obgyns are in a profession built off of stealing the job of childbirth from women and torturing women for centuries since they did it (uncomfortable medical procedures w/o womens comfort in mind, experimentation on women -literally, on pregnant women in general but also enslaved women for the modern foundations of it, forcing women to birth in unnatural positions like laying on our backs, etc).
@ajaxajar4349Ай бұрын
Bc they prefer to sit down and have a well lit birth canal at or just below eye level in front of them.
@natabulous6429Ай бұрын
@@ajaxajar4349 so wierd tho right... like do they feel all mighty watching a new human enter the world? Is it like a power play? Stay in this exact position bc I said so. 😑 🙄
@ajaxajar4349Ай бұрын
@@natabulous6429 I think for some doctors it's for sure a power play. For others it's just, "we've always done it this way," "I need to be able to see in order to act appropriately," OR "this is my 12th birth today I need to be comfortable." But like srsly, just wear some comfortable shoes and get over it. If it were me, I'd rather deal with lower back pain than have my patient have to get stitches from a torn perineum.
@vmofu7317Ай бұрын
@@ajaxajar4349do you not know the history??
@jessicacardenas296828 күн бұрын
Gave birth on Mother’s Day this year and watching your videos gave me strength to be able to do this natural. I was on all four on the bed and pushed him out in under 2 minutes. I felt like a horse 😂 and I thought I was going to die 😅 but fast and easy no stress on the baby. I’d do it all over again so they never feel an ounce of stress coming into the world. Breathing and meditation was key to overcoming the pain. Thank you 🙏
@nicoleluce54425 күн бұрын
The feeling like a horse comment got me 😂 congrats mama!
@sallyyvette852823 күн бұрын
She's so right😂@@nicoleluce544
@YamalieАй бұрын
All mammals get to birth in the position that they’re comfortable in, but we are forced to layon our backs, crazy
@tianapetiteАй бұрын
If you get care through a birth center, you can birth your baby in whatever position you'd like!
@tiffanypersaud3518Ай бұрын
Crazyyyyy
@s.c.2424Ай бұрын
Just don't let them. Honestly, when it came to my 3 unmedicated vbacs I had to be tough because they 100 percent attempted to control my birth. I allowed pitocin because I didn't mind speeding it up and do very well with it BUT when it came to positions they wanted me on my back if they knew I was close to delivering. Something that helped me was I allowed checks up until 6 cm(just my preference you can fight to have no checks at all I just wanted a general idea becauseI labor 1 cm per hr) after that no checks because they are going to attempt to catch me around 9cm. I'd always just say "not just yet" which really meant nah.. Anytime they asked did I feel a need to push I played dumb. "I don't feel like I need to push yet." It worked mostly fine and 2 of those being the last babies and honestly they slid out just from allowing my body to do it and I was able to birth my favorite position which is head at the headboard. They definitely looked annoyed but thankfully IDGAF. 😂😭 baby 5 and as long as we can confirm for sure I don't have accreta I'll be playing that game one more time. Lol Sad we even have to do that but I have to have hospital births simply from having a rare health problem that if it decides to act up while my body is stressed I'm in a safe place so no home births for me, unfortunately.
@alannamaria433Ай бұрын
no one is going to force my to be on my bacc. Not King Arthur not anyone. I'm not giving birth in the same position I made the baby in 😂
@betterusnowАй бұрын
@@s.c.2424can you explain the position more? Were you standing?
@totranquilityandbeyond28 күн бұрын
respectfully, explanation in your video would be extremely more helpful! I do not understand what I'm watching as fully as I believe I could. thank you!
@oladejiolasunbo11383 күн бұрын
Even me, I don't understand
@meghansullivan6812Ай бұрын
I will be doing birth MY way if and when the time comes !!! Thanks for all the info
@hannag9938Ай бұрын
If this is the case (and it makes complete sense honestly) then why do they make hot lay on your back with your knees outward…that would mean your pelvis is closed off. 🤷🏻♀️
@eliza_chuchu1211Ай бұрын
long story (from what I know you should look it up to double check) but a tradition started from a doctor who was a creep and liked watching pregnant women give birth.
@YamalieАй бұрын
So it’s harder to give birth and then they can convince you in the most vulnerable moment to get a C-section
@lazarpejic6415Ай бұрын
I think it had more to do with the Baby falling because that fella is gonna be slippery as hell so having him come Out horizontally was/is? more safe. Im not too sure but i saw some like 1960s training Film which talked about something like that.@@eliza_chuchu1211
@winnienyolei5399Ай бұрын
This time I will go with this
@rachaelcahill3035Ай бұрын
Because some weird ass king, like one of the Louis', a long time ago, had a fetish for watching women give birth and doctors noticed they'd be able to see better and took the supine position and ran with it
@Tkiaglows28 күн бұрын
I’m confused. Which position is safe. Legs wide or closed ?
@mysticthehorselover597927 күн бұрын
It is confusing, but it's knees together, feet apart
@SanyaaJune138 күн бұрын
Knees need to be facing inward, both can be apart. You don't wanna have closed knees but the more flexible you are the easier it will become
@dmm1648Ай бұрын
When I was giving birth to my daughter my body would go to this position and I pulled back and made to lie back down on my back to give birth. Mind you I chose a drug free birth and I was in labor for 3 days. Yes it was hard at times but I wouldn't change anything except being able to be in the position I wanted to be in originally. Without having doctors mess with me
@user-TheBlackSheepАй бұрын
They shouldnt of stopped you moving around. On the bed. Its for thier convienience to have monitors straps cathiters attatched.
@iyalowe7247Ай бұрын
Sorry I’m trying understand, do the stars open more when I open my legs or when I close my legs?
@aboutliyah9Ай бұрын
Close
@nkoyondiokho4027Ай бұрын
@@aboutliyah9ooooooh! I thought it right but was still a bit confused.
@robothug6688Ай бұрын
Pro tip: Just keep switching from both positions as fast as you can.
@FranciscsxАй бұрын
@@aboutliyah9 no? It's obv u have to open 'em
@littlehorrorbunny3347Ай бұрын
No knees together feet apart. Opens up the pelvis @@Franciscsx
@Cocoricky1254Ай бұрын
Amazing❗️Ladies are Prefect😮😊
@themimsyАй бұрын
I’m 100% doing an at home birth when I have kids. Gonna get a doula and everything.
@lauracollins345128 күн бұрын
You dont always get that choice. Things can go very bad very fast. My third baby was born in hospital with a midwife that was part of my obgyn staff. He was a shoulder dysplasia baby and stuck badly. Emergency c- section was on standby and they almost called it. He came out blue/ purple not breathing, no crying, limp, no apgar and needed immediate neo-natal care. If i were home he would have died, and this was my third child after 2 other normal deliveries. Its a risk i would never take after seeing that.
@skeleton_wa_migraine173627 күн бұрын
I reccommend that you look into hypnobabies probram to learn about prenatal care, hypnosis, and delivery for a calmer experience.
@ambermcginn348829 күн бұрын
I really wish i would have invested ina birthing coach for my last kid...having had 2 kids prior that were between 5 and 7 lbs was no issue for me since i have wide hips(im 5'9" and weaigh about 138) ...but thw last baby, omg! He was 9lbs and 11oz. It took me 6 months to walk without my hips feeling like they were loose and sliding out of socket...then the years of pelvic issues and pain afterwards...i still have severe pain and other problems. I gave birth to him while.lying on my back, it was terrible..he got stuck and both of our heart rates and my bp dropped significantly
@skeleton_wa_migraine173627 күн бұрын
Have you gone to see a pelvic floor therapist? Ive heard that all moms before and after baby arrives should see one. Id reccommend you see one get their opinion on whats going on since its been an issue for some time.
@user-TheBlackSheepАй бұрын
On knees was my default birthing position except with my eldest they gave me loads pain meds and episiotomy and vontouse 19 stitches sewn soo tightly I couldnt poo for weeks 8mth before anything remotely went there. Far too much unnesacarry interventions in hospital.
@thelifeofmaryd.249428 күн бұрын
One position is how you got the baby, the other one is how it's coming out!😂😂😂
@breannamoore563526 күн бұрын
Always have a birthing plan with support to help encourage what YOU mom want as you are the one BIRTHING ❤
@ashleynicole748820 күн бұрын
I am on child number 5 and just learned more from your video than I have learned from any doctor! LOL
@fvoconnorАй бұрын
Thank you!
@alinamelnic649720 күн бұрын
I wish I knew it! My labour lasted 17 hours and I was on another dimension 😂❤
@mariadelgado-rx6heАй бұрын
Woouuu aprendiendo un montón en este video
@cfkay3727Ай бұрын
These types of vidoes are so empowering for new and future moms. Thank you ❤
@alyssahawkins4001Ай бұрын
Thank you for these ❤ wish I had someone to help me through it like you instead of feeling like I'm at the dentist
@redhead320024 күн бұрын
Какая вы замечательная! Спасибо за ваши знания ❤
@Dietitianmercy26 күн бұрын
Watched this severally trying to understand what you mean? ❤
@nah.-wy6fj24 күн бұрын
Knees together and feet apart opens up the pelvis, increasing space for baby to pass more easily.
@Dietitianmercy22 күн бұрын
@nah.-wy6fj thank you for responding. Clearer now.
@nkoyondiokho4027Ай бұрын
This is one tip used in reverse all this time. Waow!
@dianeallen8330Ай бұрын
IF IT WAS ONLY THIS EASY 😮😢
@JodieHardwick-h4x4 күн бұрын
Thank you , Peterborough city hospital. My midwife looked at me and said "you're fully dilated" then lowered the bed completely flat. I said "I don't want that", she told "me I had to". when I julted onto my shoulders and tiptoes because of the pain involuntarily, she pulled my legs straight so I couldn't move until after my baby came out. She told my partner it was normal. Is it normal? Is it normal that every single word or request is ignored by the midwife?? I completely understand that midwives deliver babies everyday however the average human being possibly has 1- 4 babies.
@Tenebrisvis5 күн бұрын
I understand the physics behind this what i dont understand is this relaxant hormone 😂 violant charlie horses, foot cramps thigh cramps hamp strings tying up. I cant wake up and stretch in the morning unless i want my calves to feel bruised later that day
@crystalturner827418 күн бұрын
This is how I birthed my 6 home birth babies. Nothing else felt right
@ashleynicole748820 күн бұрын
They made me put my ass in the air like a dog for 2 and 1/2 hours trying to get my son to flip over. Mine you the whole time there's a nurse coming in and out telling me how it would just take two fingers and 2 seconds and she could have the problem fixed and we'd be ready to push. Eventually I had to ask her to stop telling me how easy you can make it on me unless she was going to do it. She said she will lose her license. And my ass stayed in the air for another hour LOL... That sucked
@jeaninehabacucelongiyafete2107Ай бұрын
Je sui tout ses vidéo mais anglais+ les silences de ladame, ca me dit rien J' aimerais bien comprendre tout les monde ne parle pas anglais désolée 🤷♀️
@midnightaroАй бұрын
Excusez-moi pour le français que j'apprends encore Etirez-vous et ouvrez vos hanches, c'est ce qu'elle dit.
@jeaninehabacucelongiyafete2107Ай бұрын
@@midnightaro merci
@anda26626 күн бұрын
I bore my first child lying on the side with my husband holding my leg 😅...but it went well...at the second birth I was told to lie on my back and I hated it....
@thetreehugger-jv6ikАй бұрын
I didn’t even think about what positions could hurt my baby 😢
@brownybroquin6012Ай бұрын
Que acabo de ver😳 Oh my god😱
@totallynotsophiaaАй бұрын
It may seem weird, but she is giving tips for child birth. So it’s easier and less painful
@minervaarciniega2916Ай бұрын
No comprendo
@AJaySmilesАй бұрын
abre tus caderas
@minervaarciniega2916Ай бұрын
@@AJaySmiles gracias 😊
@sadiaali5273Күн бұрын
Dont understand
@bemonwolfy6971Ай бұрын
Ima stick with a c section even though it will suck
@005Amergin18 күн бұрын
Lying on your back should be banned fr all obstetrics. It's a completely useless & far more difficult for delivery.
@lovahellgren136829 күн бұрын
Sorry but this does not make sense from a biomecanical perspective, since the hips and the sacroiliac joints are not the same.
@erikanascimento7424 күн бұрын
Some videos show what she is trying to tell. Just some search and you'll find it. I've seen no pain in the mamas and it's so fast.
@clairevergel78826 күн бұрын
Im still confused. What is she trying to say 💀
@pierrettelefeu4801Ай бұрын
no choice but bit to lay on my back
@shaypink4013 күн бұрын
⚠️ None of them exercises go HELP U! 🛑 having these old fashion a** child births! Because in case of emergency you still go have to go to the hospital 🏥