Christian Couple Q&A | Boundaries? Therapy? Living Together Before Marriage? | Melody Alisa
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Hey friends! In today's video, I am joined by my fiancé and we are answering your guys' questions about celibacy boundaries in relationships/ celibacy journey, Christian dating, dating tips, relationship advice, our thoughts on living together before marriage, Christians going to therapy/ having a Christian therapist, and more!
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Hi! My name is Melody Alisa - welcome to my channel. I lived in South Korea for two years where I met God and I documented my life as an English teacher (check out my Life in Korea playlist for more on this!) Now, I call Atlanta home. On my KZfaq channel, I share my Christian faith and life as a creative, a newlywed, a soon-to-be first time mama through weekly new videos!
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@mandisamondise3613 3 жыл бұрын
Whoa! "The ultimate goal isn't to get as close as we can it's to stay as far away from sin as we can"... This gave me goosebumps.
@staceyonuora5329 3 жыл бұрын
Legit!!!!! those words were on another level.
@girlmeetskingdom 3 жыл бұрын
Dead serious !
@sashacardenas377 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@karen6414 2 жыл бұрын
Made me think for sure... For anyone interested, I wanted to share this video series which has really helped me understand God's plan and prophecies kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gJiRZbtm19LWm2w.html Hope it encourages you, stay blessed!
@chefjuvon Жыл бұрын
I agree
@keepingupwithfrancine 3 жыл бұрын
I receive a christian blessed relationship😭😭....where we both live to please God and not just ourselves...#GODFIRST
@Jambuc829 2 жыл бұрын
That’s so weird. God is so narcissistic that he wants the couple to put him first? He is like the crying child that prevents the parents from getting it on. Why on earth would you want a married couple to put you first? Oh yeah he needs to be praised and worshipped 24/7 for being something he naturally is.
@reneeramoleta6262 3 жыл бұрын
This popped up on my feed while I’m currently praying for a man who I’m gonna grow in faith with 🥺 if this ain’t God giving me a sign 🥺.
@moreblessingshumba6706 3 жыл бұрын
SIS!!! SAME HERE! I hope you've receieved your mans! If not his coming:) God's timing is always correct!
@naomibrunson3369 3 жыл бұрын
He's giving you sign manifest and you shall get up
@FromTheHeartWithTaye 3 жыл бұрын
Just was scrolling I know this is meant for me as well
@Jambuc829 2 жыл бұрын
God is a fictional character
@FromTheHeartWithTaye 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jambuc829 who made him up?
@lindamartin6628 3 жыл бұрын
I am sooo proud of u guys for not sleeping together b4 marriage. It is not easy, but it is beneficial. God will honor u for obeying His Word. U guys will have an amazing marriage & family!!!❤️❤️
@Jambuc829 2 жыл бұрын
The Bible is not the word of some god but written by men pretending to speak for some god in order to control people. Men in the Bible are allowed to have a wife concubines and sex slaves. While a woman can only have her husband?? Does that sound like an all intelligent god or a horny man?
@sandyj3945 2 жыл бұрын
Please pray for me when God give my husband Not to sleep together before marriage!!! That is what I am doing, but I want to remain celibate...
@joannamarie3861 3 жыл бұрын
Being evenly yoked is so important
@KeleM. 3 жыл бұрын
It's great seeing a couple that put God in the centre of their relationship🙌🙌🙌
@kikiannette- 3 жыл бұрын
Loving her is an intentional action that I have to choose to do everyday. .... Oh I claim this so hard...God above all.
@lilcutie5082 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are so cute together! Love how you put God at the centre of your relationship! ☺
@tamaricashaw6967 3 жыл бұрын
you guy's make me have hope that there are really men out there who love God.
@ianthiaanson3757 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 55 and this give me hope. I'm looking for a man of God to be my spouse..
@keepingupwithfrancine 3 жыл бұрын
His so mature omg😱, shows that when you put God first He blesses you with what you truly desire... You won't have to force it....it just flows so well
@satarumbwa 3 жыл бұрын
Celibacy is so much easier when discussed before. My gf and I had the conversation before we had the dating conversation 😅 we were friends in that season. Then we began falling in love with the other person and their values and boom...lols ..I am grounded
@slimgrande4666 3 жыл бұрын
What type of activities or outings did you do as friends?
@tyronbethel7055 3 жыл бұрын
i’m currently waiting for this to happen to me 😂 in it’s due time godspeed
@Sona77. 2 жыл бұрын
It’s only hard if you had sex before. If you’re a virgin it isn’t hard to wait
@tinicoleofficial 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sona77. generally that’s true, but it depends on the person
@KrisE-ChronicIllnessandJoy 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sona77. Are you speaking from experience? For me, it's still kinda hard... But God is faithful
@nicoletteswinton5863 3 жыл бұрын
If there is confusion in it... there is your answer.... RUN!
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna 3 жыл бұрын
This is such a fun Q&A. Even after 13 years of marriage, my husband and I both have different Christian therapists to help us as individuals work through things.
@daralizumab 3 жыл бұрын
Ooooh I’ve been looking into Christian therapy glad to know you find it useful
@LoveGod2477 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Ayanna, Where did you find your Christian therapists at?
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna 3 жыл бұрын
Hey @@LoveGod2477, I googled and then found www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/christian to find a therapist near me.
@LoveGod2477 3 жыл бұрын
@@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna Great. Thank you! 🙂
@WithTheChablals 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely an advocate of therapy, my wife and I did pre-engagement counseling and it helped us so much!
@bridgestowisdom 3 жыл бұрын
He is very mature young man! My husband says the same thing, "I choose to LOVE you." It's called Agape. That is the LOVE that GOD has for us despite our disobedience and rotten attitudes, etc. You got a good one Sis!🤗💖 Trust me, you will have some tense times but that unconditional love and bringing GOD in to your relationship instead of people will assure your life long covenant! Keep seeking the LORD'S face in all things. BLESSINGS~🙏🏽☺
@nonyelumdivinefavourobi9804 3 жыл бұрын
You have been such a distant friend to me and I appreciate you. I followed your Daniel fast testimony and just when I finished the fast God gave me a career blessing that changed my life. He fixed my issues in my academic areas and now I believe him for the right person to come my way. Overall, I am thankful because my faith journey and walk with God is growing everyday and I just feel so blessed and excited. Thanks for encouraging words 💕💕💕
@fightforamericanfreedom 3 жыл бұрын
Seeing you live out a Christ centered life especially in the relationship aspect is so so helpful and encouraging!!❤️
@naynayhi93 3 жыл бұрын
COME THROUGH HONESTY, PEACE, AND STABILITYYYY
@WithTheChablals 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾
@nicolem1225 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are a great example for single people to wait for the person God had planned for them. God makes no mistakes and when we follow His Word, He blesses us with His best. I am married, and thank God everyday for snapping me out of my previous views of dating and doing things my way. I met my husband and we waited for marriage to live together and for physical intimacy and God blessed us for it. God bless you two!
@adezco 3 жыл бұрын
Omg I watched pastor Mike Todd series on relationship goals helped me and my husband when we were dating. Learned so much, I still refer to that teaching even now I'm married.
@PoIicy 2 жыл бұрын
That PASTOR IS AMAZING.. he helped me realize the person I'm currently with IS NOT THE ONE FOR ME.. im just waiting for time to let go of him... everytime I think of him, I think of lustful thoughts and very bad.. when he wasn't here, I was so focused on my life and God.. the moment be messaged me again, it deviated
@giftyackom1777 3 жыл бұрын
So inspiring to see a young couple put God first. Loved this
@MelodyAlisa 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@JasmineCase 3 жыл бұрын
I love seeing God fearing couples. Your relationship is so beautiful. God bless you both! ❤️
@WithTheChablals 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@brittxnyakawaii12 Жыл бұрын
Yes where God is there is peace no confusion
@marjn1030 3 жыл бұрын
Premarital counseling I think should be on the to do list because it can save your relationship, grow your relationship or let you see that you are not a good fit with your partner.
@lindapinkston6328 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are clearly on the right path. Your union has been blessed by God already. This is so amazing.
@WithTheChablals 3 жыл бұрын
Killed me with the “no dawg” at the beginning 😂😂. Awesome to see Christian couples thrive. God bless y’all🙏🏾
@anthoniabiks 3 жыл бұрын
Super loved this, alot of useful lessons for single folks and those in a relationship,and I honestly agree with the sex part, everything the lord advices us to stay away from is always for our benefit, when we actually calm down and allow ourselves to see the advantages over the disadvantages our heart swells with pure joy and gratitude to the father . May the lord bless you and keep you guys . Amen ❤️
@official-throwbacks3555 3 жыл бұрын
just found my 'the one' after a longgg wait. We met January 2020 but because of Covid restrictions we lost contact, miraculously we met again in November 15 2020 and officially started dating a day before christmas! never been so sureee. He was worth the wait trust me guys
@ani8256 3 жыл бұрын
My partner and I have chosen this exact path and it’s the best decision we’ve made. Nice to see another couple consciously wait while growing in Christ.👍🏽
@carcar7753 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are a good example of what my boyfriend and I are working to achieve together!
@adreneblake5570 3 жыл бұрын
It's the "it's a no dawg" for me lol, also great video guys❤
@MelodyAlisa 3 жыл бұрын
😂♥️
@berthamaoka2519 3 жыл бұрын
That also just cracked me up, 'it's definitely a no from me dawg' LOL
@marjn1030 3 жыл бұрын
He's so right about not living together before marriage....i highlight him talking about your SANITY you will save if you don't live together before marriage. Coming to a marriage fresh from really LIVING SINGLE and no PRE-MARRIAGE living together baggage creates mystery that makes finally living together EXCITING for what's to come so before dating make sure you have YOUR OWN and emergency finances just in case things get rocky and you would also want the same for your future partner. God blessing are apart of the marriage when we obey Him in our pre-marriage.🤗
@Lavish.38 3 жыл бұрын
This was so great ! Can't wait for more content, thank you for sharing your story !
@samrazzleberry 3 жыл бұрын
God brought you two together, this is all no coincidence. Bless you both! ♥️😊
@african.mulan5 3 жыл бұрын
Relationship Goals is so LEGIT 🙌🏾 love that series
@ycam9316 3 жыл бұрын
This feels so pure to watch. 🥰 Continued blessings to you both! Congratulations 🎉
@kenj.7104 3 жыл бұрын
I’m currently binge watching this channel! I am loving, LOVING the content!
@chosenstarseed1022 3 жыл бұрын
Wishing you guys the very best! Congratulations on the engagement🥳
@stephanymcbeauty9256 3 жыл бұрын
YAASSSSS💕🔥🔥🔥🔥 We definitely want a part 2! May God bless you both 👌
@shannicebrown-stokes6252 3 жыл бұрын
me and my partner had the same discussions about keeping our boundaries because like you guys we did not see nobody in our respective family waiting until marriage before having sex or living together... there are times when it is hard and the temptations come but with God in the midst all things are possible and its truly beautiful seeing couples like you showing us that it can be done. well done :)
@tonyah6944 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are so inspiring and I love how you both put God first in your relationship 🌺
@samanthalynch5095 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are the cutest ! So inspiring
@thetubbyeffect 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are adorable ! Excited for you both! May God continue to bless your journey to oneness❤️
@Sowedintears6 3 жыл бұрын
Your smiles are contagious! Love you guys LOVE and congrats❤️
@tracyelle2023 3 жыл бұрын
Melody! This was seriously so good! Y’all had so many good nuggets of advice sprinkled throughout this video that were so clearly communicated and thought provoking as well. God is truly using you and X through this channel. May God continue to bless you both!
@Brownpearl212 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, very helpful. May God keep your relationship strong!
@theseuntaler1914 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for taking out time to do this, I love how you both are looking forward to sharing your wonderful story with your kids, they will be so proud to say the least!
@_.CHI._ 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video! Wishing y’all the best in marriage!
@NasEllis 3 жыл бұрын
I loved you guys' responses for everything and you're such a beautiful couple, God bless your union 💛💛
@jamiyahflewellen4772 3 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing video, the way y’all answered the questions, the bond, and just being a Christian, being able to relate.
@akajazzy12300 3 жыл бұрын
I love to hear X perspective on these type of things , especially since it’s sooo rare for men now & days . Lol I cringe when you cut him off , I know it’s not intentional though . I wish you all would have elaborated more on the boundaries and just the struggles of waiting :) #LoveYourChannel ❤️🙏🏽
@pre.Heaven.Community 3 жыл бұрын
Such an amazing video, I love the transparency and honesty and how God is in the middle of all you do🙌🏾
@remondragin1429 3 жыл бұрын
Can’t wait to see that video for single season to dating/marriage
@letsedit3667 3 жыл бұрын
your relationship and your connection with each and God being center...its amazing 😊😊
@Fashion_With_Tamyia 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video, very insightful! Congratulations on 100,000 !!!
@amandaalva3205 3 жыл бұрын
This is officially my favorite KZfaq couple ever. You guys are the best!!. Much blessings. 🙏🏾❤❤
@dak670 3 жыл бұрын
every time I watch you guys I really just smile. God bless your union ❤️
@tiannabest9154 3 жыл бұрын
Love this couple video. Made some great analysis or comprehension of the things you want and need from each other and of your significate other as a whole.
@vf5454 3 жыл бұрын
Aww y’all relationship is so encouraging! Thank you for answering my question friendddd 💕 and may the Lord bless you both and your union together! #GodlyRelationshipsForTheWin
@AisheeyVerano 3 жыл бұрын
The way you guys look at each other is truly beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
@TheAfricansara 3 жыл бұрын
This was so cuteee🥺🥺 relationship goals! And let me just say y’all teeth perfect 😻
@uniquelyshellz 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are too cute, 🧡🧡May the Lord continues to bless your relationship as you continue to grow in God.
@samanthabowe200 3 жыл бұрын
I clicked so fast love the videos you'll are making together sending love❤❤❤
@altoniaanderson 3 жыл бұрын
You guy are such a beautiful couple. Setting a great example
@sassydebbie 3 жыл бұрын
This was so enlightening and really a blessing to me. Thank you for being so open and honest about the questions and the answers. Congratulations to you guys. May God continue to bless your union.
@kavezakabwoya7166 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are goals, totally inspired. You are also down to earth
@medline5140 3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos! I don't know who would dislike this video?! This Q&A is not talked about much in the Chrisitan churches. Personally, I do not want to live together with my future partner before marriage because it will lead to temptations for us. Hence, boundaries are so crucial.
@karenm9245 3 жыл бұрын
WOW !! Wise words on the living together question from X !! You got a good man ! God be the glory !
@janetics. 3 жыл бұрын
YES TO DOING IT GODS WAY. More grace to the both of you!
@ajafrei2442 3 жыл бұрын
wow , this has answered so many questions in my head . This journey is so exciting , PRAISE THE LORD BLESS YOU GUYSSSSSSS
@yenzisithole9494 3 жыл бұрын
So inspiring, I wish that I don't give up on finding a God fearing man 🙏
@lyfelearna 3 жыл бұрын
Melody can you please do a makeup tutorial? Or just a video on your everyday makeup look? It is so light, natural, and pretty!
@edithxfaith 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video 🤍 May God continue to bless your relationship as you keep honoring God. This world cannot have enough couples placing God in the center of it all
@temmyojey 3 жыл бұрын
This is an interesting Q&A session and it's really encouraging to see you both put God first in everything you do! I just watched your video on Daniel fast and I must confess that I'm blessed watching it. Thank you for sharing and God bless you 🙏
@caeleythompson8599 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are one of the prettiest couples I’ve ever seen wow
@tttholu-thando6396 3 жыл бұрын
Just started watching your videos today Melody🤗 May God bless your marriage and I wish you prosperity in all aspects of your life💓 loving you all the way from South Africa❤
@sonnykundi 3 жыл бұрын
Hey you give me so much inspiration as I'm embarking on my Christian journey Lots of love 💖💖💖💥💥
@MelodyAlisa 3 жыл бұрын
thank you!! sending love your way!
@borntoinspire-vanisetv1311 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Melody, I love your story, I am on the same path so it's very inspiring seeing young people like myself stand up for Jesus and that is what I promote on my channel. May God bless your union.
@Melanie-im8gj 3 жыл бұрын
God in the center of everything! I am so grateful for you and your channel! Thank you for helping me on my journey as I came to back to God and began seeking him wholeheartedly this year. Seeing your relationship is such a beautiful example and gives me hope 💕 . Many blessings to you both.
@jackiecolon6169 3 жыл бұрын
I am thankful to God for directing me to your channel. I pray that the Lord continue to Bless you as you honor Him through putting Him at the center of all you do. Many blessings to you and your fiance. Be safe and thanks for sharing.
@chelseaamira6894 3 жыл бұрын
This was very good! I really enjoyed this, thank you ❤️
@Juicycity2 3 жыл бұрын
Love this !
@beautifulbellarose1250 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love that you two young people are allowing God to be the center of your lives and relationship.I love the transparency and honesty…
@JenaPeters99 3 жыл бұрын
I met you on your first video and was so amazed at your journey and how God entered your life. I've been a believer all my life but only took it seriously at 21 years old . Your story is beautiful.
@Clara-jh8fj 3 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed this, you guys should definitely do more videos together. 💖💖 Also, I can't wait for next weeks vlog about singleness . 💃🏽💃🏽
@smchapman23 3 жыл бұрын
This was video was so insightful! I loved your point , Melody, about him bringing you peace when in the past, relationships have only brought you confusion. I resonate so much with that because I often overthink decisions but God is a God of peace so anything He brings will echo who He is. Additionally, your fiancé’s advice about clear intentions really hit home. I am going to explore what I believe to be the most important elements to a healthy relationship in God so I can bring those to the table on day one! ❤️ love y’all
@sabrinaspence1644 3 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this!! Y’all are so cuteeee. Watching from the UK 🇬🇧 (London) & I pray that God will bless you & your relationship. Thank you so much for sharing xx
@doneciadavis7717 3 жыл бұрын
Its oh so REFRESHING to see what GOD GENUINELY COMBINED...IM ENCOURAGE 🙌❤️🙏
@StellaLoveJesus 3 жыл бұрын
Putting God first makes everything beautiful.May the blessings of God continue to follow you in Jesus Name.
@priscillajones1560 3 жыл бұрын
I love this video❤❤❤ ya'll are gonna be such a blessing to so many couples...and just so many people! Keep up the good work🙏
@trinitylawrence5099 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this video! Thank you for sharing
@juniemarz1902 3 жыл бұрын
This was so cute and inspiring! Thank you both for sharing your insights with us :) ❤️
@rosyngodsent 3 жыл бұрын
I loved this❤️ You guys are perfect together and may God bless your union😊
@yonniezani 3 жыл бұрын
Such inspiration!! God bless you both!
@valerietaylor9629 3 жыл бұрын
Those children. Will be Beautiful 😍 you guys rock! Y’all had me at “Its a NO dawg!”
@beamgeorges3607 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple 🖤 It’s crazy how I pray for examples of people who are also abstaining and I find your channel. God is so great ❤️
@dawnegarcia 3 жыл бұрын
Nice job on explaining celibacy and boundaries. Blessings to you both.
@mayajohnson7172 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 it was a pleasure watching & learning more about you two. I really enjoyed when you talked about boundaries for celibacy, the benefits of therapy, and things to focus on in your single szn....... this might be a video I’ll have my future children watch lol 😂
@kikiannette- 3 жыл бұрын
You both are so gorgeous.💕💕💕💕💕😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍My God!!!I CLAIM THIS!!!
@mwanikiamy 3 жыл бұрын
absolutely love your videos! would love to edit like you one day! huge inspiration. Pray that God may bless the journey that is ahead of you. thank you for showing a relationship that glorifies God!
@Mutsa_c 3 жыл бұрын
aaaaw you guys offically started dating on my birthday....that made me smile for some reason lol
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