I'm just like you brother, children where afraid of me. I'm a giant man, I been feared almost all my life, until I joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Found that Jesus Christ loved me, that's all that counts.

I am not part of the LDS Church ( I hope I said that right and apologies if I did not) and I'm not sure how this popped up on my home page but this is the most beautiful and uplifting story. I really needed this today. Thank you for sharing this. ♥

"He may not always come on your timing but He always comes on time."

I came here (as a catholic) cos I really liked Mormons definition of faith and its essence.

“Victim or victor.” Powerful wording.

I just came across this video...and was shocked as I recalled last fall when I met Ben, and his sweet wife on an airport shuttle bus. We began a conversation, and, as he was traveling with a young child we discussed the challenges of traveling with a toddler, and he shared with me that he had TWINS at home. He was so positive, and engaging to visit with! I left feeling edified for having had the experience to visit with them, and was so happy to hear of others- that feel like I do, that it is a astounding privilege to be parents. I had NO IDEA of his full story... what a remarkable family! *Honestly! There are so many GOOD people in the world! What a privilege that our paths crossed... #miracleshapppeneveryday

"If you think my hands are full....you should see my heart" I love it

I was so proud to know Ben and cheer him on when he was our star wrestler at UVU. I am even prouder of him for his faith, testimony and moral character. He is a remarkable man and a great personal hero.

I’m glad they didn’t add background music to this. His testimony is perfect just the way it is.

I don't care what you look like... I just need a friend like you.. God bless 💟

My wife an I, have 2 little boys and the second was born with Crouson Syndrom and we feel eternaly grateful with the Savior, His Church, His Gospel and His attonement for such great blessings as this. Watching the man in the vídeo talking about his experiences with this different kind of life felt more hope, faith, love and gratitude, I felt the tender mercys of the Lord.

I've had similar experiences in my life. I was in an accident 30 year's ago that left me paralyzed from the waist down. It's hard to explain pain I first experienced when people stare or little children ask their parents what's wrong with him? I've since learned to smile at them and tell them I broke my back, if I get a chance. I've learned that if you treat the children and people with respect next time they see someone else who is in a wheelchair they will think about the person who took a minute to talk to them and realize we are all God's children.

Ben’s parents are THE sweetest and kindest people you would ever meet and instilled this into all of their kids

I met this guy at a conference before, he is a very kind, genuine person who has inspired me to be a greater force for good

I grew up being best friends with two of Ben's cousins and having the opportunity to watch Ben and look up to him. As a wrestler, he was one of the best the world has ever seen, but as a cousin, a man, a brother I have always been impressed by him. Watching this, however, my admiration, love, and respect for Ben have grown even more. Thank you Ben for your testimony, and the strength, which you have never lacked, in sharing this message with the world. The gospel brings such hope and peace.

Honestly when I first saw your picture at the beginning of your video I thought "What a handsome man". You are beautiful not only inside but outside too. When I was four years old I was in a car accident that left my chin scared. Then as an adult I was in another car accident that not only left my right temple and halfway back the top of my head with scars. Lost a portion of my hair not knowing if it'd come back. That was one of three times I lost my hair. I cried and said " not my face again". I felt attitude was what was needed. A hospital nurse told me attitude makes the difference. You Sir have the right attitude. You are amazing & so is your lovely family.

"Faith means trusting God in good times and bad, even if that includes some suffering until we see His arm revealed in our behalf." Elder Jeffrey R. Holland October 2020

"...and she wasn't fast enough, I caught her!" That made me laugh! I also chuckled and was very happy for your family when you rather suddenly got three children, like God was saying, "You wanted children, CATCH!" Stay strong and help others to stay strong. It can be so hard for all of us sometimes to see through the tears, but we have to remember they will be wiped away.

I can’t tell you how many time I’ve watched this- currently struggling with infertility and this video comforts me every time I lose hope. Thank you Ben (and your wife!) for sharing your story. 🤍

“[God] may not come on your timing, but He always comes on time.” Thank you. I really appreciate that this morning.

He went to my high school. He was a great guy then and sounds like he's still doing great things with his life. Thanks for being an inspiration and reminding us we have a choice, victim or a victor.

I don't know what to say. This another message from my heavenly father, telling me that, he is watching other me. Thank you Lord.

The struggles I had as a young woman prepared me for the struggles I’d face in adulthood. And yes, when the Lord comes through for you, he comes with his arms full. ❤️

This is like a letter from our future selves telling us that everything will work out for the best.

I love this man. He was one of my wrestling trainers back when I was in High School. Great motivational speaker, an even better man.

So beautiful & so true! Thank you for sharing! I’m victorious when I choose to be Victorious when our daughter was hit by a neighbor & passed away! They were in active and heavenly father filled our hearts with love for them and the gift 🎁 of choosing hope, peace, Comfort and love through this sweet/pain! Our hearts were filled with compassion for this man and their family came back into the church and were sealed in the temple. Through all this, I’ve learned to know my father in heaven knowing He was & is always beside me and that my Savior through His atonement brought hope beyond my understanding! We knew we would see her and have her again and learned lessons of our saviors love and all that, that has meant to us! Thank you for choosing victory and thank you to your mother for teaching you to stay in truth😌

I'm so blessed to have seen this story. Thank you Heavenly Father.

"She wasn't fast enough, cuz I caught her!" Love!

I’m in tears and can barely see, as I write. Your beautiful testimony was so powerful and relevant! Faith and hope is alive today! God bless you, your wife and your miracle babies. So beautiful!

The spirit told me twice to go back and watch this. I needed it so much. Thank you

My heart is full after watching this. These precious spirits are in a very loving home. Amen.

“God always comes on time” -so powerful

This is pure food for the soul! Thanks Ben for sharing your inspiring perspective and experience. My gratitude is full just hearing your story. This is what the world needs today.

Not gonna lie, I didn't want to listen to this one. But it put a smile on my face - something that doesn't happen often these days - and I'm going to try and keep up hope by making a daily effort.

You're amazing, Ben!! Seriously, such an inspiration to everyone. So grateful to call you cousin! Love you guys!!

Brother, you are no monster. You are awesome. I love you and your message

One of the most beautiful stories I've ever heard. D&C 111:11, God orders all things for our good, as fast as we are able to receive them.

There's nothing wrong w/his face! He looks beautiful

"He always delivers on time!!" "Hope works when you work!" Yes, indeed, Heavenly Father does when we let God prevail in our lives! :)

Kjar Family.... you guys are definitely an amazing family and amazing speakers! ❤️ Ben, you are awesome and we love you!

Your story builds faith. I can relate. I gave birth to my son at age 42 after bringing married for 21 years. I remember those fertility shots and discomfort. My son filled our lives with purposed and loves. We were the most engaged parents in his schools throughout his life. God gave us a GIFT. My husband and I have always been grateful for our son. Heavenly Father has blessed our life. My heart is full of love and gratitude for my Savior. He answered my prayer. I feel so blessed. My son just finish his mission and it’s going to college. Life comes with trials, but also with blessings. We must keep our faith. God bless you and your family.

This is truly an amazing story. I'm glad the Lord has come through so powerfully for you and your beautiful family, Ben.

Powerful testimony of Christ: “Hope works when you work.” Thanks to the merits and grace of Christ everything good is a choice.

This man is an instrument in God's hands. I am so inspired after watching this.

Fantastic message! Thank you so much Ben. Keep up with those beautiful angels.

Faith and hope is alive, and it's alive today.

That was incredible.. love being a victor and not a victim. Thank you for sharing your message Ben.

What a beautiful and touching story. A very good reminder to each of us to remember to stay positive, even among hard times.

This message is AMAZING!!! Such a beautiful story. Thank you so much for this! This was seriously exactly what I needed to hear right now.

That was the most beautiful story on hope. Thank you for sharing your inspiring story and faith!

Ben came to my school! He talked to us, and boy, it was one of the best guest speakers. His talk wasn't just about our church. But the spirit, was there. With a great presense. I was having a horrible day. And so I was closed off. Quiet. But afterword I felt better. I wasn't all of the sudden perfectly fine and dandy. But it's because of him that that wasn't the worst day of my life. Thank you, because I know it's hard to put yourself out there. Especially when you have chraniam facial condition. I thought that Ben was a member of the church. And when he showed the beuatiful picture of him and his wonderful wife I knew that he was member of this church. And I knew he had a strong connection with the holy ghost. Thank you

What a beautiful family! Thank you for reminding us to continue to endure to the end in this life. I love, love, loved your story! I choose to be a Victor and not a Victim! God Speed! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Thank you to all of you! Thank you for sharing your peace and joy!

Mortality sure can kick us in the teeth. Your story beautifully illustrates how God blesses us as we continue to work and strive and choose for the better. Thanks for sharing. God bless brother!

Absolutely beautiful message at this time of need. The way he conveyed this message with such hope and love is perfect! Thank you and may our loving Heavenly Father bless you and your family! Amen 💓🙏🏽

What a beautiful story and testimony! ❤️

That is such a powerful story When people ask me why I think the church is true it’s because of stories like this one !!! I’ve had some of these types of miracles and moments in my life as well . This story reminded me to never give up ! Hope !!! Never a a victim always a victor Praise God

Beautiful story. You are quite attractive. Interesting, perceptions. Gratitude and love push away fear. Learning to trust God and Jesus and let go of attaching to other people's opinions and fears

Thank you Ben. The legit side of life without the mushy stuff we usually want but so much not the stuff that builds our character and our ability to receive God's best blessings. The trials are deep but so is the Love. You made our day. What fortunate babies. What a lovely message.

I recognized Ben immediately I watched him wrestle many times What a stud It was powerful to hear his story and testimony

There is always light at the end of a tunnel 👍🏻 Awesome message 👍🏻

Beautiful story!! God Is Always on time, and He is ALWAYS GoOD!! He has carried me more times then I can count! Hope does work! It works, when you believe 💗 thank you for sharing!

God loves you. I love you. We love you.

What an awesome story of hope and triumph!!! So happy for you and your beautiful family!!!!

❤️What an AMAZING story❤️!!!! God is Good all the time and in HIS time❤️

"Hope works when you work" I like that and I love this❤❤❤

I named my son Liam exactly for the same special meaning, he'll be a protector. In fact, he already is, because before he was born we were having a lot of problems in our family, but after he was born we found happiness, and our family is protected from being separated. I'm grateful for this message.

Faith and hope is alive and it is a live today and it works. AMEN!!!

This guy is handsome, brave and inspiring. Their story is beautiful and shows with courage and determination we can achieve what we want in life. These children could not have been adopted by more perfect and loving parents. God bless and keep you all safe

I love you,I love you, I love you, you are so beautiful, so special, my tears are a rushing like a mighty river,hearts so big ,beyond measure ,I love our blessed lord, our churches temples, and all things pertaining to the lord, god bless your wonderful family, I love you brother. Love brother Skinner. Amen.and remember, For the lord hath redeemed his servant Jacob! Amen.

I'm not crying.. Yes, yes I am..

What a beautiful sharing and a beautiful family. Yes, our Heavenly Father knows us and wants us to be happy. He is always there for us, no matter how large or small we think our problems are. We just need to trust him. May you and your family always be blessed. You truly look happy. What a blessing.

Beautiful just beautiful story that was shared. Thank you for these words of hope and yes Heavenly Father is always on time.

Thank you so much for sharing your story

That's so beautiful. When he said he felt prompted to name the boy Liam and it turns out that is the name the mother gave, I felt the Spirit so strong and felt like crying.

Hi Ben - thank you so much for sharing your private, heartening, and very precious personal story of challenges you have been presented with in your life, and your courageous faith and strong determination to continuously seek the Lord's blessings!

Wow!!!! So so happy you shared this today!

What an amazing and inspiring talk that brought me to tears ! I so appreciate you sharing a part of your life. I too have a son by adoption. It was a long 9 years until we finally were able to become parents. I was not sure my son would ever get married, so when he did it certainly surprised me. Of course I wanted to be a grandmother but that proved a challenge for my son and his beautiful wife. They went through some of the same things you and your wife did. But finally a baby was born to them. A boy born Feb. 2019, now 20 months old and the light of my life. Imagine my delight when I learned they were to have another baby, due in October. This little girl needed no help in making herself at home in her mothers womb and was born on her own terms almost in the car on the way to the hospital. She was born Oct. 2020. I first thought I never would get married, I did, then I never thought I would have a baby, I did through adoption and grandchildren was what my friends had lots of. I am so very blessed to have 2 grandchildren a boy and a girl. I couldn't ask for more and my Father in Heaven knows the desires of my heart and in the right time (His time and not mine) those desires have been given to me.

Thank you for sharing your story! you are right everything is in God's timing, we have to keep our faith in God

Thank you to you, your wife and family for such a beautiful story ❤️

There is nothing wrong with his face that I can see.. really. And he got a great sounding voice

I was blessed with two boys four years apart. I wanted more and I wanted them closer but I listen to the doctors advice. Later we adopted two girls who have been a joy to my heart. I went on to teach preschool and foster kids for 17 years. You never know how the Lord will bless you.

What a modern-day hero, you and your wife! There is so many special truths here. So much love. And those babies are SO precious! Thank you for sharing your story!

Thank you for sharing, your testimony. I know how it is when we feel that our prayers are not being answered but in Father's timing is always better than what we ever could expect. Heavenly Father always answers our prayers as long as we allow him to. Again, thank you for your testimony and how it strengthens mine. It looks like you have a beautiful family as well 💖. May god bless you and your family in all that you'll ever need.

Thank you Ben for sharing a part of your life with us helping us to remember that God hears and answers all our prayers in His time and in His way!

Thank you ☺️ I also have something that has made me a fearful victim. Thank you for encouraging me to remember hope... Feeling blessed and comforted with God’s Grace and help.

This is the coolest story. Thank you for sharing. You are amazing! I love your thought of being a victor instead of victim. Powerful❤

This is so beautiful, I watch these every night. These help me so much with my anxiety and loneliness. Please continue these amazing messages! ❤💕

What a beautiful story. I wasn't sure what to expect in this video, but it moved me. Thank you for the love in your hearts and the strength of your souls. You're the epitome of virtue. I needed this right now.

An incredible story ♥️ thanks for sharing it with us!

Im just like you brother i experience being called a monster because my eyes are big and not normal but my hope that someday i will be normal and because Jesus Christ loves me it keeps me strong and the member also help me to love myself let us endure to end love you all brother

What a beautiful story 💗 Thank you so much for sharing

Beautiful story. The Lord is aware of every one of His children in our wide array of circumstances and trials. There is always hope, even when, and especially when, his timing doesn't quite align with ours. Keep hoping, the best is yet to come. ❤️

Thank you Ben for your story. To be a Victor and not a victim

Ben came and showed up at school at gave a motivational speech to the whole school. It was the coolest life story and and very inspiring. You did a great job here, and back and my school, and thank you so much.

I am still crying...this message was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story. I felt so empty and hopeless and this has brought me a message I needed to hear. ❤️

😥❤ So sad and so beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

Brian here and I have Parkinsons In my 40's and I was a slow learner in school elementary to high school and it's always a struggle. I put things in God's hands

What a gut-wrenching, sad, joyful and heart-warming story!! I'm so inspired by your life and message. Life is really tough, but God does hear and answer our prayers in His own time. On to victory!

Powerful testimony of our Father's goodness and mercy! Love to your family!