It’s the Hmong laws that needs to be blame it’s really made for dogs and pigs not for us Hmong to follow. Change that and you’ll change the situation.

Please know that you are worthy. You have always and will always be worthy. Just because you're a divorcee doesn't make you any less.

JUST AS AN ADVICE TO EVERYONE....IF YOU ARE GIVING A LOAN OR MAKING PAYMENTS....ALWAYS REMEMBER TO USED A WRITTEN CHECK OR MONEY ORDER. ALSO WRITE UP A CONTRACT BE IT A REPAYMENT OR PROMISINARY CONTRACT. BE CLEAR AND MAKE SURE YOU HAVE TWO WITNESSES AND GET IT NOTARIZED. NEVER TAKE THEM FOR THEIR WORDS FOR THEIR LIARS.

If anyone still doubts that the brudeprice is a slave price for Hmong women in Hmong society, they need to listen to all the women's stories here about how the brideprice bound them to abuse and slavery like this woman. The parents just sell these girls off and no longer care to refund it no matter the abuse or even if the girl dies. How sad for the girls. No wonder Hmong women just seek the protection of the state now as they should.

Dejavu. Life with a mother-in-law that hates you is the hardest life.

Niam laus aw cas koj zaj dab neeg thaum pib mas tu siab tiag tiag li os cas nim yog kiag kuv lub niag neej lwj siab os

Let them regret everything. They deserves everything that is happening to them.

What an evil mother in law!! She got what she manifest. A son's broken life!!

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Such a sad story...a woman with pure and genuine love whom I truly admire. Plse pm if you ever retrieve this message.

Sim Neej no yog leej twg tau ib niag txiv siab phem siab dub quav dev Mas lwj siab tshaj plaws ...li o hmoob e

I mean you begged the meskas people not call the cops when you were running for your life. You had a chance for freedom. Should never let an abusive person like that get away. Good luck.

UA CAS TXIV NEEJ HMOOB YAUV PHEM UA LUAJ

Very sad story 😢😢😢

Hell nah! If I didn’t do anything wrong and some random ass dude is gonna come yell at me in front of people, that dude is gonna get it. And if my husband doesn’t defend me, then my husband can marry his mom. Did you not have a mouth to defend yourself? Stop letting people hurt you!

Big mistake for you to let your husband fake marriage to his cousin in the first place. Leave that second husband too and don t remarry please!!! Don't be afraid to be by yourself with your children!!! You know he is no longer love and care about you, so leave. You have such bad marriages in your life so don't marry again. Just concentrate on loving and taking care of yourself and your children. Karma got him and his mom!! So glad you did not go back to him!!! Proud of you sister!!!

SHOULD of CALLED the COP 👮‍♀️ on him when he beat you. Put his ass in jail gosh! I’m so mad at this lady.

Kuv yog hmoob thaib. Nyiam koj cov neej neeg heev li . kuv caum caum koj kawg li os.

Cov niam pog zoo li ko. Nws yuav2 tub. Koj yuav lawm niam pog khib naw.

Tus siab heev li o😢😢😭

Wow another !

Zoo kawg li os

Brings Back Memories Of Me Too! People Like This Really Exists, STILL ... So Very Sad! :(

Niam pog cob tub siab nqig lawm lauj ….

I guess no Hmong sisters are familiar with calling 911 for help back then.

How evil. Imagine how many times this happened in Laos. Thank God you are here in the US where there is more justice.

Poj nrauj > Toyota Honda Supra.

This woman is still much in love with her 2nd ex-husband.

Los yog ho mus yuav nws niam cov nus nyob teb chaws no cov ntxhais thiaj li txheeb ze

Kuv ce kawg tsi tau txiv yuav li lawm o mloog tej no xwb ce twb tu siab rau lub neej

สู้ๆค่ะพี่ ตอนนี้แม่ของแฟนหนูกําลังทําแบบนี้แล และแฟนหนูด้วยแต่หนูเป็นคนสวยนะเลียไม่เค😎😎😎😎

I wonder how his mom feels now 😂😂😂

Tu tu siab li os yom ua ib tug poj niam nyob 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Omg...I don't understand why most of us women doesn't know how to love ourself. 💔 this is heart breaking

Yog li ,. Kuv muaj 29 xyoo xwb Es puas kam cia wb los sib hlub ma lov Kuv twb nyiam nyiam koj lawm os Zoo li kuv twb yuav paub koj li tiag Sau Rau ,. Tus tso tawm os mog Kuv ,. YeejSuab thanks

O yo tus niam tsev nos ces xyov nws xav li cas. Koj tus txiv twb tsis hlub koj es koj tseem hlub nws uas dab tsis nawb!

Kdrama stories boring please do ghost stories.

Niam pog siab phem yuav npam xwb xwb

twb mug txog lub teb chaw vam meej tib neeg tseem coj lub siab qub zwj poj niam ntaug poj niam yuav niam yau qeeg tij lub siab phem coj cai liam rwm2 koj thaum kawg nwg tsw muaj neej txom nyem siab tsw tau lub zoo neej qhov twg tuaj

Cas tej tug neeg no yuav ruam dhau qhov ruam lawm laud

Sister Aw yog lawv muab koj tus tub hu ua nraug zaj mas zoo heev vim yus tus yog neeg zoo nraug tshaj lawv cov lawm o

Tsis yuav tus hlub yus? Pheej mus yuav tus yus hlub nws xwb nes? Hais rau peb cov ntxhais hmoob txhuas tus. Hmoob txiv neej ces feem coob yog tub hluas yuav poj nrauj ces lub neej yeej tsis xaus. Txhob ntseeg txiv neej. Yus yog daim ntaub dawb tsuas kob lawm mus nrhiav daim zoo lis yus thiaj tsis muaj kev tus siab.

That a domestic violence should have call the cops on him 🤦‍♀️

I am glad you didn’t go back.

Why do these divorced people always wanting a person that's never been married before? Stick with your own kind. If you single marry a single, if you divorced marry a divorcee.

I never heard of getting tired of drinking coconut juice 😂

😭😭😭😭😭😭💔

Hi Nyob zoo os🇹🇭

You can still report him for kidnapping

Lady, even if you are a divorcee, you should love yourself because you are still human. Sounds like you think too low of yourself and allowed others to treat you like crap. You tried too hard to please others because you didn’t value yourself enough. Stop thanking him and repaying him for “loving” you. He wasn’t a man at all. He was a mama’s boy. Let him go and move on!

Nyob teb chaws Meskas twb muaj lub koos hoom Hu ua weave thiab 911. Cas ruam ua luaj li os tej me ntxhais aww

I’m glad you didn’t go back, you have been through so much, there is nothing wrong with you being a divorce woman, I hope you know that you are worth just as much as any woman whether you have had a husband before him or not! You are only worth as much as what you think of yourself not someone say otherwise.

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Koj tsis ceevfaj, npaj koj txoj hau kev lwm tus thiaj pheej rhuav koj lub neej. Twb yuav tus txiv 2 ntev, cas thiaj tsis ua ntawv txijnkawm? Ua neej nyob yog pheej ua yoojyim zam luag ces lawv tsuj yus kom tuag kiag xwb. Koj yuav tsum xyuas kom meej txhua yam koj thiaj tsis swb luag tas li.

Sister Aw cas koj tseem yuav uv niam pog ua cuag li ces kom muab rau txiv yawg yuav kiag seb niam pog pua kam xwb mas

Ruam ua luaj teb chaws kod yog ntaus cais hutub ceev xwm muab nws xyuas kiag rau nram nkuaj mam muab nrauj kiag xwb Ghov tseeb koj tseem ntshaw 2 nws tsis pub lawv ntes nws ne

Txoj hmoo phem ce raug tsim txom li kj xwb ma peb cov raug tsim li no peb thiaj li paub txog kev mob o tau tus txiv g zoo lo txom nyem siab ib zaug tau niam pog txiv yawg g zoo lo nyuab ib zaug o

Ca koj niam. Ho hai tsi tau koj tu niam yau ma hee npaum ntaw ca thaum kawg nw tu tub ho tsiuaj neej ma cov niam pog yuav tsum thim xav thiab os

ca koj zab neeg no nim yog kiag kuv zaj os me aw kuv xav koj tham kuv li thiab na

Koj yog poj ruam es koj thiaj nyob cia lwm tus tsim. Nyob teb chaw no es tseem nyob cia tus txiv mus yuav lwm tus los tsim yus thiab ces yog yus ruam dhau lawm tiag…

Nyuam qhuav ntxim rau niam pog xwb niam pog twb xav2 ua txheeb ze rau niam pog tus dab Laug ne kuj hais kom tau niam pog tus Nyab los pob tsam no niam pog tus tub lub neej haj yam puas es niam pog ho hais li cas rau tus tub naw

Sub nim muaj cov niam pog zoo li thiab o

Thaum tus hlub koj ces koj ua phem rau tsam no koj tau kev npam pob vim koj tsis xav yuav koj thawj tug txiv ne tsam no koj tau tus koj nyiam tab sis lawv ho tsis nyiam koj yog koj ua siab hlub tus # 1 ces ntshe koj twb tau lub neej zoo lawm os

Omg!!! Why did you let your husband do that, considering how your MIL treats you. Not a good move at all. I would stay far away from the MIL or just move far away.

เธอทำถูกแล้วผู้ชายเห็นตัวเธอน่าสงสารโชคดีอยุ่เมกา

Hais kom nws mus ua neej nrog nws niam xwb los maj. Nws twb mloog2 nws niam hais ne.

kuv muaj ib lub neej xav kom koj tham no tab ma koj li fev li ca

you should have stood your ground and not let him marry a girl over seas. if you stood your ground

Cov pojniam ruam2 li no mloog mob2 hlwb xwb es. Yus twb yog tibneeg cas tsis txawj nrhiav kev pab li. Luag yuav hu police pab yus los tseem tsis kam. Tus txiv thib 2 niam pog tsis nyiam los tseem mus quj qees. Tseem cia niag txiv mus tos dab laug tus ntxhais thiab. Oyo, nyob tebchaws mekas tabsis coj li nyob tim nplog ua ntej 75 lawm.

luag twb tsi yuav koj lawm es ca pheej yuav hai lo nyuag lu tia me koj txiv me koj txiv ca yuav ntxim ntxub ua luaj li lau yog tia tseem sib yuav no ma thiaj hu ua me koj txiv no pob koj thiaj nw twb tsi yog niam txiv lawm naj, qhov no tsi yog koj siab zoo os yog koj ruam xwb, thiab ntshe yog koj tseem khuv xim nw dhau xwb os

OMG…A man treated you that bad, and you wanna come back to look for this guy in your next life…how smart are you, really…😩!!!

Ntxhais los koj twb ua lawm. Niam pog los koj twb ua lawm. Cas koj ua niam pog koj yuav phem ua luaj es peb ua niam pog peb yuav tsum coj zoo. Txhob ua phem rau es tiaj nyab thiaj hlub nej.

Hmoob cov dab yog dab vwm xwb. What you do is calling 911 and let the cop determine the results. I am sure cov dab mas yeej yuav mloog xwb os.

cas tsis nyiam thiab tus txiv ua phem npaum li cas twb nyob mekas teb lawm hos tsis hu kiag police mas koj yeej ntshaws ntshaws sav maum dev aw

Wow! I thought he got a good job! Still ask for money from her! Just wow! Wow again! You trust that hmoob nplog who is relate to your momma boy wife so much. And now she left you too! Koj ce game over lawn os. Mu yuav koj tu mom xwb ok. 2 cents advice! Go marry your mom! She can save you.

Hmoob tej kevruam uas zij pojniam no yuav tau muab tso povtseg. Cov niamtxiv hmoob los ruam li ruam thiab. Lwmqaib xwb tsismuaj qabntxhiab dabtsi li os. Tus pojniam no los ruam dhau. Cas ho tsisnrauj naw...

twb tuaj nyob teb chaws no es tseem ruam npaum ko ces tsim nyog raug tsim lawm.

Your previous husband is selfish. He open his eyes wide to come marry you. Is your past, he was never in the picture. But what he did to you, is betrayal! He stabbed you in the back and expect you to forgive him like you owe him.

Poj nrauj > Kia

Sister..do you know 911? I thought you're an education girl 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Es koj niag niam pog ne tuag lawm los tsis tau ne

This lady is not too bright..god please help her!

Sister, let this man go and never let him back. If you guys just fought and have your own issues then it's understandable that you guys should give it another chance. HOWEVER, your ex decided to marry a "second wife" already and that already means his heart was not meant for only you. He had the choice to say no and forever say no to his mom. I hate boys who can't man up to their mom or parents. It's hard but you don't have to choose that life at all. I'm glad you decided to get out of it. I know where you are coming from because i used to be in that situation. It's a very very hard life to live with your man can't man up to his mom. I really HATE mothers/fathers/ parent-in-laws that are like in this story. I'm glad you decided to get out of that life and live your own. It's way better that way. Love yourself sister. Don't take him back.

I personally think this lady added too much spices to spiced up her story. Have to hear it from both sides.

Nyob miskas teb no es ibtug neeg tsimtxom u npaum koj hais ko ces hu police rau cia nws mus hlob kav hlau xwb cas koj ruam ua luaj na. Tseem cia nws muab koj ntaus thiab koj tseem tau them nws cov niag nqi quav dev.yog kuv ces tsis thublab vim nws yuam koj yuav nws xwb ces nws li nyiaj poob qabtsuas qhuav.

Sounds like my in laws when I first married my hubby. I was married once, no kids but yes I married my hubby who’s never been married and they hated me so much. Thankfully my hubby loved and defended me all these decades. If not for him loving unconditionally, I would had never stayed this long. After almost 3 decades, my mom in law have transitioned and changed so it’s a good thing. It’s as if night and day… He’s a weak man for ever marrying another…. Mama’s boy..

KOJ KUJ NPUAJ TES RAU KOJ NIAM POG THIAB KOJ TUS TXIV NKAWD OB NIAM TUB XWB MAS ZOO HEEV LI OS

niag me nyuam xwb ntshe kuv muab nqa taws nplawm hauv hoob nab kom tuag xwb tsis tsis hlub niag kas tsaub

Poj ruam li koj ces mag tsis txaus li os

You must not be beautiful..if you are I’m here lol

Your ex mother in law must be so happy. She ruined her son's life. Serves her right. Your ex husband is stupid. He listened to his mother and betrayed you. Do not go back to him.

You should foom your husband for lying about the $4000, sister. Move away from your husband and your parents. We women should not be afraid of being a divorcee and live without a man or husband in your life. You should not wanting and desperately needed of a man or husband in your life especially you just got out of an abusive marriage. Like the old saying, run away from a toad, going to run to a snake. Something like that. You remarry too fast, sister.

Ntiajteb no txoj kev ruam ces sau tagnrho rau pojniam Hmoob.

How come good one always gets a bad one….

Kuv mloog mas vim koj txoj kev ruam xwb

Koj ruam dhau lawm.

Niag poj ruam koj ruam cuag niag maum npua cas tseem txawj sib aim thiab ruam li koj thiaj mag ntaus li ko nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb, koj twb tuaj nyob rau lub tebchaws mékas lawm cas koj tseem tiv qws thiab ? hu rau tub ceev xwm ces koj tus txiv dev mag kawg mag nkuaj.

niam pog phem li ko ces tos kom nws laus tso mam tsis hlub tsis k nws xwb mas. li thaum kuv tseem hluas2 mas kuv niam pog phem2 rau kuv, niam no nws lub zog ntaug lawm nws mam tig rov los dag tias nws hlub2 kuv los kuv twb tsis niam cuab pog ntseg. niam no laus lawm mas ntshaw kev hlub kawg tabsis cov nws hlub2 twb tsis hlub nws. niam pog xav kom koj tus txiv yuav ces cia niam pog tus txiv yuav xwb mas. vim koj ruam xwb os thiaj li cia koj tus txiv mus yuav cov niag hmoob nplog blood sucking disease ko os.

Tus txiv tsev no yog txiv Sayao thiab tsis yog txiv > Sony nrauj zoo dua.

Vidncaus aw, koj twb nyob USA cas ruam los ruam, ntshaw los ntshaw lawv tus tub? Nkauj Hmoob Nplog nyuam qhuav tuaj twb paub tias muaj koomhaum Meskas pab yus. Ntshe mob koj tsis txaus li, 1 qho tag 1 qho tuaj, tim koj tsis tivthaiv koj tus kheej. Luag tsevneeg twb tsis nyiam koj kiag los tseem rua muag qees mus yuav. Tim koj lub hlwb ruam, xav tias koj ua zoo2 ces yuav yeej no. Tsevneeg phem ces tsis muaj hnub zoo, tsis tuag ces tsis tag. Yog tsis muaj pojniam, ces mus puag nws niam pw thiaj so siab. Nws niam lub qhov ncauj thiaj kaw tau.