Cindy Gallop Is Not A Relationship Person And Cannot WAIT To Die Alone

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Last, but DEFINITELY not least for this year’s leg of our What’s Underneath: Defying Ageism series…. Meet Cindy Gallop! What happens when we zoom in on our society’s internalized misogyny around the taboos of how we choose to love (or not love)?
Is coupling up, getting married, and having kids all it's cracked up to be?
Founder of Make Love Not Porn, a platform for real world sex videos that redefine how we think about sex, Cindy Gallop believes it’s not.
Having tossed patriarchal oppression in the trash, Cindy’s video inspires us to:
~ Question the status quo around what older women are allowed to wear and redefine “rules” when it comes to dating, relationships and f*cking.
~ Start asking ourselves what would TRULY make us happy when it comes to marriage and kids, and make decisions based on our needs versus societal expectations.
~ Separate real world sex from porn, and kickstart an open conversation in everyday life about sex and intimacy.
Cindy’s aha moment came in her 30’s when she realized that she - and most women around her - lived their lives searching for “the one.” When she finally quit looking outside of herself to feel complete, she realized she was complete all along. At 61, Cindy is the living definition of free: she chooses to date younger men for sex, regularly thanks the Lord that she didn’t have children (“Halle-f*cking-lujah!”), and she can’t wait to die alone.
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@StyleLikeU1 2 жыл бұрын

@elizard418 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, is there any way to get the products in France ? I would love to gift them to my mother :)

@cosmicsprings8690 2 жыл бұрын

Saucy old sausage lovers like her are not really good role models for younger women..she acts hard but she is clearly very sensitive , desperate and crying inside..Have all the saucy sausages you need grandma 👵 but please please don’t pretend you are a hip young chick in her 20s , it’s very very sad and cringe worthy ✨🌼🎶🌿🕯🌸🧘‍♀️🌸🕯🌿🎶🌼✨

@putyoutoworkgirl 2 жыл бұрын

@@cosmicsprings8690 km

@jaky411 2 жыл бұрын

@@cosmicsprings8690 I agree with the sexually active lifestyle not being a good role model for young girls to grow up to be but I also cannot takeaway from the idea that just because we start aging that one cannot enjoy looking good for themselves. I don’t think young people realize or ever think how isolating it can be at times for folks of a certain age to all of a sudden be treated like they are invisible. Her wanting to dress up and look good for herself reminds me of people like Madonna that still has the motivation and drive to live up her time still being alive and living in however way/ shape and form that makes her feel the most beautiful/confident in her self and gives her joy🙂

@moyrarobertson4562 2 жыл бұрын

@@cosmicsprings8690 You are projecting your preconceptions onto Cindy.

@zeeenno 2 жыл бұрын

“Women are sold that the concept of love is self sacrifice.” So fucking true.

@Ari-ze8wm 2 жыл бұрын

Fuck yes

@candycommander 2 жыл бұрын

What man would want a wife that isn't going to sacrifice for her family? What exactly do you think being a mother entails?

@lolicdia 2 жыл бұрын

@@christy7344 this is not about a misogynistic religion

@lolicdia 2 жыл бұрын

@@candycommander being responsible and loving to your kids doesn’t mean forgetting you are human being with aspirations, if you don’t put yourself first you can’t give the right care and healthy love to your children. Asking that is just selfish

@lolicdia 2 жыл бұрын

@@christy7344 like it or not, not everyone follows those beliefs, so it may be true to you but for others it’s an absolute lie lmao and no one should be thought that love equals sacrifice and selfishness

@Mexicobeanpole 2 жыл бұрын

I’m 60 years old, and I have been married to an amazing and beautiful man for over. 40 years. I’m beyond thrilled that I (we) didn’t buckle to the consistent pressure to conform and have children that we never wanted.

@ytknits4892 2 жыл бұрын

“It’s just been a gradual realisation, over the years I’ve lived, that- fuck that shit”. Love her.

@aketzalopez1157 2 жыл бұрын

Probably the most important note I took from her is the comfort and peace I felt listening to her. I witnessed someone in love with themselves. In love with their life. In love with their ideas. Their identity. And their voice. This person is quite beautiful 💖

@KJ-lb4tj 2 жыл бұрын

Being in love with yourself and how much sex you can get hinders seeing others and their needs in society.

@ageautistic6957 2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately others will see this as narcissism 😑

@akashalove 2 жыл бұрын

@@KJ-lb4tj really? How?

@abeautifulcountry9353 2 жыл бұрын

And not being afraid to acknowledge her darker days - when she isn't being productive and spends all day in bed, or back to her younger days and all the men she dated dumped her. That is true self love - acknowledging, forgiving and accepting the gifts from the 'bad' things in life.

@guntertorfs6486 2 жыл бұрын

That is describing a narcissist.

@SkyePhoenix 2 жыл бұрын

Amen! I'm 57 years old and I feel the same way. Edit: I've been married... twice. ("F**K THAT SH**" indeed!) My kids are grown. I live alone and I love it. I've been single for 14 years, and I plan on staying that way. I don't do casual sex well, so I plan on being celibate and channeling that energy into my creativity.

@harmonywhite9320 Жыл бұрын

Way to go! Ladies like you are an inspiration.

@kylieshaye6562 Жыл бұрын

Much love to you! You spent years being held down by what society expected of you and you have so much time for you now ♥ hope you're doing well now!

@nonhlanhlathesewingbee5162 29 күн бұрын

Beautiful ❤

@katiek.982 2 жыл бұрын

I'm child-free and in my 30s, and I think this is the first time I've heard an older person talk about being thrilled they didn't have kids. It's GREAT to see!! Makes me so excited to get older!

@MadAboutBrows 2 жыл бұрын

CF and single at 44 here! There are challenges, but I'm also living the life of my dreams 🥰

@lauracraig8110 2 жыл бұрын

I can't wait for my future now since realising I was childfree. Before my future just felt like it would trap me - having children is not for everyone.

@annag467 2 жыл бұрын

Yo same ⚡

@callen.6371 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah nah your all rong ! having kids rocks ,

@lauracraig8110 2 жыл бұрын

@@callen.6371 For you maybe - I have no desire to ever be a parent so quite happy with my decision. Everyone likes different things.

@kathleensozzi2368 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 55 with no regrets about never being married and never having kids. It IS a choice!

@nishasankaran 2 жыл бұрын

Yas yes and yaaasss. I’m 45, single , no kids, live that auntie life, a body with lots love, I have a job…. And I am waiting on no one!!!! I will date who and when I want , if at all!! Liked before watching!

@nuwavegurl 2 жыл бұрын

Live it up, Sis. You've got the right idea!

@MagdalenaShakti 2 жыл бұрын

As did I! Just took one look and said, Yep! 63 here with a gorgeous and brilliant daughter...single and "working" in a job that never feels like work. I adore my own company and am looking for no man.❤

@christinenewhouse6920 2 жыл бұрын

To each their own.

@lisaeve6426 2 жыл бұрын

Same! Turned 46 recently... love life with pets and younger bfs

@eli2ots 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 19 and would love to have you in my life!

@purenkool2011 2 жыл бұрын

But as a “childless” woman I could tell you this: you could have lots of kids (through birth), they grow up and leave. Being ALONE vs being LONELY - you could still be lonely and alone with your kids or husband in the same home. However, when you are on YOUR OWN, you will not feel lonely or alone if you do something you like, sports or passions and adopt animals for company. It makes zero difference HOW OLD YOU ARE, YOU MUST FIND HAPPINESS WITHIN YOURSELF.

@1suitcasesal 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@8thousevirgin 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Many people with kids insist that having kids make people less lonely. They are just dependent on their kids for their emotional and psychological well-being instead of developing a strong personality that doesn't get lonely whether with kids or no kids.

@jaky411 2 жыл бұрын

@@8thousevirgin my mom was was very codependent with her family. I believe my mother was also brought up that way as well as seeing how much she was being ignored and not given much attention by my father, who was all about himself and his career.

@sunnni_ 2 жыл бұрын

I just made 25 and I told my bestfriend that I genuinely don't want to date and I don't think I want to be married anymore and I thought something was wrong with me until I realized I just simply enjoy being with myself and living my life the way I want. I honestly can't imagine myself having kids or a husband anymore and I simply just want to live my life the way I want and live it happily in my own way. Love hearing her story!

@abeautifulcountry9353 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful. And please don't listen to the naysayers, especially as you get older and into your 30s and beyond. Many people (especially men) are threatened by women being single AND happy.

@kuja5809 2 жыл бұрын

@@abeautifulcountry9353 lmao who told you that b.s. 🤣

@UrAveragePvzGamer 2 жыл бұрын

@@abeautifulcountry9353 threatened? You mean they care about what you do with your life? Fucking grow up. No man is threatened by a woman. If you can't do what he wants, he moves to the next. Like what drugs are you on?? God!!! All these shaming languages cos a man is not interested in you just shows your level of thinking and why no one is interested in you. And the main chick that owns this comment, don't make decisions based on what a 61 year old says cos she's on camera. You don't know what she faces in real life. You are young and get the most attention now but you get older and you become a woman that men only want for sex which is sad and lonely. If you feel this is the life you really want, good for you but don't do something you will really regret. Your mother will rather have you in her life than a guy that just wants casual sex.

@govannieloera818 2 жыл бұрын

@reiiii please think bout the kids i mean come on u chose to have them n they need their momma. But if u might be neglectfull selfish and live life like no ones depending on u than im sorry them STREETS are calling.

@govannieloera818 2 жыл бұрын

Oh n if i read u wrong n u dont have all those things n u see urself not wanting that, my bad. Same caller though what should i tell the STREETS?

@Chick4choice 2 жыл бұрын

Turning 43 on Sunday. Childless. Divorced from my college sweetheart since 2011. I escaped a reality I wasn’t even mature or intelligent enough to choose for myself. Not really. Could. Not. Be. Happier! I hope my outlook is as cheery and energetic as hers when I’m 61! Love this!!!

@meghanburke7 2 жыл бұрын

As a single, 29 year old woman who also doesn’t want to have kids and maybe also never get married, she is so incredibly comforting and inspiring. Women like this make me less scared of aging and more excited for the experiences that lead to older age. Thanks! 🙏🏼

@coiledsteel8344 2 жыл бұрын

No Soup For You. ☹️

@hv3115 2 жыл бұрын

You are still young. Dont be foolish and stop listening to fem inist garbage like this. Most women who are 40 and over and who remain unmarried and childless regret their choices and are miserable.

@freudianslip2192 2 жыл бұрын

And if she's only showing the good and none of the bad. What then? You can't turn back the clock.

@docbrown3139 2 жыл бұрын

She can always adopt a child it’s not the end of the world wtf

@PAJA63 2 жыл бұрын

@@hv3115 You sure about that? Isn't life about finding happiness in the mix of relationships, friendships etc that you care for? Regardless of traditional societal expectations?

@juliemoses1909 2 жыл бұрын

StyleLikeU should sponsor a conference post-COVID on pro-aging and feminism and invite these women to give talks, sign books, lunch and cocktails/mocktails. Heck, I would go.

@tdstar1757 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent idea! I would go too!

@dianamitchell2888 2 жыл бұрын

I would def attend!

@r.boettner4792 2 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@amandae2908 Жыл бұрын

I would pay for that!

@debradeane6151 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 60. Never had kids. Dreamt once about being pregnant and it felt like prison. That sealed it, no kids. I dress how I want, do what I want, manage my $ how I want. Just let my hair go silver - and love it! Women are so powerful!

@toomuchtruth 2 жыл бұрын

COPE. If lying to yourself about your terrible decisions helps you to sleep at night well ok, but people like you encourage young women down a path of destruction. Misery loves company.

@mikepakione5608 2 жыл бұрын

@@toomuchtruth well said.

@scarletwarlock3261 2 жыл бұрын

@@toomuchtruth explain please

@shawnlove4502 2 жыл бұрын

@@toomuchtruth lol yall be so mad that women don't want you It's hilarious

@steveredstone1711 Жыл бұрын

I actually liked that silver hair thing. Colored hair looks weird on old people in my opinion.

@Lindaheal 2 жыл бұрын

Just watched a video on the Celtic goddess of sovereignty, and Cindy gleefully personifies her. Bless you for including her in this series, and bless her for shining a bright and welcome light for women. As a 73 year old, it's a delight to know that she's part of my tribe.

@equinnox70 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Linda, would you mind sharing a link to that video? I am an older Celtic lady, and would watch it with immense gratitude. 🙏

@Lindaheal 2 жыл бұрын

@@equinnox70 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mquamJl1y9Lblmw.html

@articleresearch7305 2 жыл бұрын

I feel old at 32. I felt old at 25 tbh. I know it's stupid, but I can't help it. Unlearning this script takes time and women like her definitely help.

@genlabonte1478 2 жыл бұрын

Your perspective is upside down unless you mean " old soul"...I can say this as your "polarity" 😉. You're young by even indoctrinative generalization. This bitter tubby referred to my chronological age as "old" as she passed away of a heart attack a year ago. It is your state of consciousness that defines our view of This World if weak minded/low Spiritual vibration that Powers the Soul Fractal in this dimension of space/time when physics tells us they cannot exist. Pray to big G AllSource Creator whom NONE can see as all lower frequencies are vaporized when perceived closer yet IS the Emotion of LOVE to send the Holy Spirit to disclose your identity. It will feel as a recovered amnesia (how I would discribe it as this I corralated to Jesus telling us " the truth is within you already, as IF written on your hearts"....yup, kinda just like that. BTW I"m not Religious nor could be fooled by the illusion of this world as the indoctrinations pre-set for us by Neg Energies reminds me of the lower g "God" of this world prepping us to perceive ourselves deserving of an unjust set up when he split us to female/male in " the garden of deception" IT has been shown to me but long story.

@missbeaussie 2 жыл бұрын

Ditto ❤️

@sashavladimirova1458 2 жыл бұрын

I felt old at 16, I understand you so well. 💞

@shawnlove4502 2 жыл бұрын

I'm starting to feel that aswell. I'm 32 and I always feel like I was always to mature for men my age. I had a child young so I was always older than my age group. I have to stop seeing myself that way.

@hopefranklin9155 Жыл бұрын

Ladies embrace yourselves. Enjoy who you are and where you are. Don't waste years beating yourselves up. Age happens. I will be 68 in a few days. I retired at 62 and remarried. The past few years I have sit in my chair day after day thinking gosh I am old and really feeling it. I feel and look older. I finally got an aha moment yesterday. I am the only one that can change my thinking. I choose life. It is a privilege to be a live and be this age. Yes I am older but I refuse to be old- live old anymore. This is the first day of the rest of my life. Ladies run with life. Be happy quit making yourself old. Life will pass you by if you let it. Trust me the years fly by. Blessings to you all and may you be filled with joy for life and forget the age number. Stay young at heart. ♥

@llkoolbean4935 2 жыл бұрын

I love her. I'm childless and I feel what she's saying. People are nosy and rude and often jealous of the fact that you don't have kids but they'd never admit it to themselves.

@queenneurotica4591 2 жыл бұрын

I much prefer the term ‘child-free’. ‘Less’ means you are lacking something - you definitely are not!

@llkoolbean4935 2 жыл бұрын

@@queenneurotica4591 great point!❤️

@aisharicci6400 2 жыл бұрын

People are very rude and feel entitled! However I can't even begin to explain the immense joy of being a Mum. I would never ever change it for anything!

@UrAveragePvzGamer 2 жыл бұрын

@@aisharicci6400 finally someone with a working brain has spoken. It's your choice to not have a child which to be honest I would prefer a child not to be born than to be born with a woman that regrets having that child. But stop saying shit like people that have children regret they do. Maybe a few but the vast majority don't. Sure they come with stress but so do everything in life. For you to achieve or accomplish something, you have to go through that stress. You will never know how it feels having someone you call when you are old and maybe lonely. You think having sex for a couple minutes takes away that loneliness? It just makes you even more lonely cos you know those men don't care about you other than sex. Just like older men despite all the money are not that happy cos the woman is just there with her cos of his money and not cos she's into him. God!!! You guys need to grow up!!!

@UrAveragePvzGamer 2 жыл бұрын

@@lookupyourredemptiondrawsn7285 it might have been but is it something you wish you didn't do? If someone came to buy your kid will you sell it? Don't listen to all this crap about being happy when being childless and focus on raising your child. You probably won't regret it.

@wren5291 2 жыл бұрын

"I date younger men for sex. I want lots of stamina and very short recovery periods - I don't get those with men my own age". It's like watching my future self😆 Cindy's candour is just so satisfying😁

@sorpy6972 2 жыл бұрын

SAME!!!!!!!!!!

@rosiebottom3870 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 58 and my man is 40. I'm not with him cos he's a sex machine but I like his mental energy. It's not good to use people like sex machines.

@patriciaa2976 2 жыл бұрын

Couldn't have said it better myself. Love that!!! Speak sis!!!!

@coolcat6341 2 жыл бұрын

She is spitting the truth men from. 37 they start going downhill,, am 39 and I only date 35 or less,,, much fitter, excited about life, and have open mind..

@woodspriteful 2 жыл бұрын

I respect this woman's personal life choices. My personal reaction, as a single mother and the only one providing for my daughter for all her 7 years, has become: (1) I do not feel nourished by sex outside the context of genuine and holistic friendship, which is difficult to find, and I'd rather be alone than share with someone who just wants something from me (2) men should be paying for casual sex but if you're being paid for casual sex it's going to mess you up, so it's a catch 22. There are long- term psychic, emotional, and spiritual consequences from both paid sex and casual, body-only based only sex (3) Even though we can't expect young people's first sex encounter to be with the person they spend the rest of their life, I want my daughter's first to be in the context of a respectful loving relationship and for her to have a good sense of her only pleasure before she shares an experience that will likely try to inculturate her into believing pleasing the man is her pleasure when it is not. I didn't start off with these opinions. Life experience has brought me here. The difference between myself and the speaker is that I am a mother who has chosen not to let men into my life for sex. I don't think I'm anymore lonely or any less healthy than her though. Quite the contrary.

@anas.6870 2 жыл бұрын

When she mentions the reaction 'oh, poor thing, no one wanted to marry her', it's just so interesting to see how people in general look at marriage/relationship. No one wanted to marry her?? I'm not a thing to be given away. It's ME who didn't want to marry anyone, not the other way around. Do people seriously believe that amazing women sit around waiting to be proposed to?🤣😆😄

@cindygallop5910 2 жыл бұрын

Yup. I can promise you that if I'd wanted to be married, I could have been 🙂

@annag467 2 жыл бұрын

Damn straight

@dace8828 2 жыл бұрын

@@cindygallop5910 exactly. More than once even 😁

@mysticalvibe4241 2 жыл бұрын

These parents and society are funny because the divorce rate in the US is at an all time high. I’m not sure about the UK and other countries but even dating has gone to crap

@freudianslip2192 2 жыл бұрын

@@cindygallop5910 You can’t promise an untested hypothesis.

@darrisnelson5223 2 жыл бұрын

The “shit show aspect” of parenting is no freaking joke…🤦‍♀️ My son was a surprise…I was almost 41. Best thing ever but parenting should be seriously considered. Staying child free is a solid choice. 17 years ago I married a younger man. He’s 10 years younger than my first husband. We are much better suited. I’m happy with myself and my life at 67.💪🏻❤️

@christineann7620 2 жыл бұрын

I love her! Every woman should really see this. Watching these videos has been so inspirational to me. I’m 44 with 4 kids and I stay at home with them. Sometimes it starts to feel like you’ve already been through your prime. I can honestly say that I have really had a reawakening of feeling sexy and beautiful and like there is still so much out there for me to do and experience. I’m still worthy:)❤️

@MrDazza082 2 жыл бұрын

You have been through your prime.. just because guys want to smash you doesn't mean you are .. it means you are easy

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 жыл бұрын

@@MrDazza082 - Err. NO it really doesn't mean that at all.

@MrDazza082 2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat just because you feel in your prime doesn't mean you are.. it's up to you too decide its nature.. men and women are both past it at 40.. women just go into cope mode as they get older to try compete with younger women and the only way than can do that is by sleeping around.. wrinkle sagging and drying up is not your prime

@GUCC1197 2 жыл бұрын

@@MrDazza082 Speak for yourself. Fortunately not all men have your limited world view😊

@MrDazza082 2 жыл бұрын

@@GUCC1197 not all people do that's true.. but nature does :) Alot of older women have an ego.. they think that just because a young guy sleeps with them that they are high value.. newsflash young guys will fuck anything

@abeautifulcountry9353 2 жыл бұрын

Yes. Yes. Yes. Throughout my 20s and early 30s when I was single I was very unhappy because I wanted so much to be married and in love. Now 50 and married with a beautiful 12 year old, Ihave a good life, but look back and think - there was absolutely nothing wrong with my life then - single is amazing because you are FREE. Make your own money, don't marry and don't rely on anyone for financial support - ever.

@boyandcatmum 2 жыл бұрын

This lady is so happy and free spirited it was a delight to listen to her.

@opus0070 2 жыл бұрын

“I can’t think of anybody I’d rather be” perfect, lovit!

@kharden8231 2 жыл бұрын

She is my new hero! It took me two marriages, two children, a 40-some year career, and 61 years to finally get to where she has lived her whole life. Thank you Stylelikeu, you consistently produce wonderful relevant videos 💗

@prettypoison111 2 жыл бұрын

How refreshing, thankyou Cindy, you are a breath of fresh air, Coming from a childless, single 49 year old perimenopausal woman! We need more women like Cindy speaking up loud and proud!

@sansiaray777 2 жыл бұрын

Girls at a younger age should really think about if they really want children or not & be prepared to be a single/divorced mother as that's what ends up happening for most of us. We tend to romanticize it too much without thinking of the real hardships that will surely be involved. It's been hard for me with no emotional or financial help all these years so I really hope young ladies will think long & hard before committing to having children. Even tho I love my daughter's if I had to do it over again I would have just adopted 1child in need of a home as so many are in foster care. Thank u for raising awareness 💜

@roxylqm111 2 жыл бұрын

“The moment you decide you don’t want to be in love, that takes a whole layer of crap out of your life!” Amen. I’m there. It’s not that I don’t *want* to be in love. It’s that I am deciding I don’t NEED to be in love. Life just got a whole lot simpler. So much energy freed up. If I get hit over the head with the Love Stick, then Brillant! But I’m not going to design my life around hoping for it anymore.

@stormysmom222 2 жыл бұрын

I am 36 and single. I am not sure partnered life is for me. However, I do need more authentic and sustainable human connection. Not sure how that works. I love being alone, I just need humans sometimes.

@essenceg6327 2 жыл бұрын

Platonic relationships are amazing relationships to have as we both "need humans sometimes" and in my case, more often because they are that great.

@ronnie-lynn 2 жыл бұрын

Same

@hv3115 2 жыл бұрын

Well i am a man and feel the same. It is a basic human need to want that human connection, meaningful relationship and love. That is why i am skeptical of her claims that she is so happy and fulfilled and so should women here be.

@ThothTheAtlanteanK 2 жыл бұрын

Is "humans" a synonym for Men in your comment? I'm not trolling i seriously would like to know.

@ronnie-lynn 2 жыл бұрын

@@ThothTheAtlanteanK I didn’t make the original post but how I took “humans” was human contact like from friends, men, woman etc

@MyWorldofFragrance 2 жыл бұрын

Oh, how I love Cindy. If only I had a role model like her as I was shaping my own life. I will share this with my younger girls. 🌹

@veritasdude1358 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂💩💩💩

@noahidewarrior5838 2 жыл бұрын

Misery LOVES company. Ladies do not listen to this women. Wake up, traditional families are extremely happy. People with families tend to be healthier since loneliness can cause depression and harm the immune system.

@thedieseldiet 2 жыл бұрын

@Skeeter Valentine Women are not in to simps. So stop acting like one. You should hang out with a young hot babe who is not angry and jaded like this woman. She is bitter about getting dumped by her boyfriend in Oxford. She also has a very bitter and angry tone. It's ok if she doesn't want kids but she bragging about banging young dudes like it's an accomplishment. Overall she sounds like she is coping hard. A genuinely happy person wouldent be so hostile with her message.

@SuperHellokitty1973 2 жыл бұрын

Every time I think you guys can’t top yourselves, you prove me wrong. She is a beast🥰💕😍

@jasminflowers9400 2 жыл бұрын

She’s my favorite interview on this channel thus far! I love her confidence, positivity and outlook on life! Beautiful inside and out ♥️

@bethduffus4598 2 жыл бұрын

I have thoroughly enjoyed listening to every word that Cindy Gallop has spoken in this video. I am 60, unmarried and childless and I give thanks for this lucky escape every day. The truth Cindy speaks that women are told that love means self-sacrifice sent shivers down my spine.

@roseblackmore2225 2 жыл бұрын

59 never wanted to be married or have children ..I'm happier at this age more than anything , Cindy you're a gem 💎❣️✌️

@AmanGillNow 2 жыл бұрын

I wish this confidence to my daughter!! Like wow! I feel like this now at 36! So much strength in self love!!!

@mswifeycatlady7583 2 жыл бұрын

For all the younger people out there.. LISTEN TO THIS WOMAN. Please. Don’t rush and do not ever live your life to please others. Edit: OHMEHGERD I cannot love this woman enough 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@thistooshallpass8081 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love this woman. I am 38 and am so happy I will never have kids or a relationship. I am happy alone and will die alone. Can't wait!

@susanvargas6166 2 жыл бұрын

I recently was surprised with Cindy being a creative reviewer of my work. I could not have fan-girl'd any harder. Cindy is a BADASS!!!!

@user-pb1cc3bo8v 2 жыл бұрын

What work of yours are you speaking of?

@karinec.2131 2 жыл бұрын

Proudly childfree also!!

@larsstougaard7097 2 жыл бұрын

😁🙏❤🌏🌻

@seltzermint5 2 жыл бұрын

me too! Since age 14...celebrating 31 years so far. I wouldn't have a child if someone paid me 50 million dollars.

@zingarassong7531 2 жыл бұрын

Me too hallelujah

@MrDigztheswagking 2 жыл бұрын

😴😴

@ninetieskiddo 2 жыл бұрын

When I grow up, I want to be like her. I'm 34. I have time to grow up.

@kemicecormier5687 2 жыл бұрын

OMG I love Cindy! I’ll be 53 next week and I’ve uncovered all the lies we as women have been told. Thank you for sharing!!🙏🏽🤍

@_Alimm 2 жыл бұрын

I'm twenty-something and I'm so eager to see representation of bold, sexy, confident single older women but they're barely any. This interview feeds me! Love love love

@marlak4203 2 жыл бұрын

Because folks like her aren't the real world. And that isn't wrong. You have some people like that. There are many confident, strong and everything else folks say about her that you can find in women opposite of her. So if you want a family or just a mate you can still be all these "brave and resilient, strong" things she is JUST as much.

@fran791 2 жыл бұрын

@@marlak4203 that's true, you can be your happy confident and best self even in a marriage or a family, as long as you choose the right man who encourages you to be all that and doesn't get in the way

@marlak4203 2 жыл бұрын

@@fran791 Yes. Both do that for each other it will work, healthily.

@noahidewarrior5838 2 жыл бұрын

@fran791 2 жыл бұрын

@@noahidewarrior5838 actually statistically women are happier widowed, divorced or single, BUT you can be happy as long as you find a good man. But the reality is that MOST don't and those women lose themselves in their marriage or family. You'll be happy only if you choose well

@lenorman5375 2 жыл бұрын

As a fellow aquarian and 60 as of next month - God I love every word Cindy is staying! I read Xavier Hollander as teen for sex education and now have found another bold and giving woman to take me down my next path. Bravo Cindy and thank you!!! 😘😘

@carlieamado6153 2 жыл бұрын

Periodttt Ms Cindy she came preached and we understood the assignment

@cookingartguy2170 2 жыл бұрын

I love what she has to say. Society is so conformist and they like to believe there's only one way to live and if you don't live that way, you're just a sad person. My mother was pregnant at 16 by my creepy older father,, hated her life,, was strapped with 2 kids at 18, and was a very unhappy lady for most of her life.. I would have rather seen her happy.. P.S. Newsflash! Everyone dies alone.

@isabellalora6533 2 жыл бұрын

How old was your father? 🥺

@woodspriteful 2 жыл бұрын

Your mother would appreciate that you saw her, loved her, and wanted her to be happy.

@ibetudidit23 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, everyone dies alone, but most would think having someone look out for you is something you want compared to being found days or weeks later by your dead smell.

@cookingartguy2170 2 жыл бұрын

@@ibetudidit23 well, personally, and that is how we all see things, I've never really been into the "most of us think" thing, I really don't care what the masses think. The masses for the most part think circumcision is normal and staring at a dead body for a couple of days at a wake is normal and I think both those practices are extremely bizarre and have since I was very young. I have family I love very much, but I kind of hope I'm found dead as a doornail in a beat-up old Airstream trailer somewhere near Roswell in the desert, with no one to mourn me but two old plastic flamingos at the doorway of the trailer.

@jaky411 2 жыл бұрын

I am not very fond of the idea of how much of our society pressures people of a certain age, especially women into believing they have to settle for a partner otherwise life is thought of as being meaningless or not lived to the fullest. There’s a lot of expectations that come with women also having to act and behave a certain way just because they are married. But iam also starting to see a lot of changes in a lot of younger couples now where there’s more equal roles being shared in taking care of children as well as allowing mothers more freedom to have a life outside of the home😊

@sephorahora127 2 жыл бұрын

Cindy is a treasure, been following her on Twitter for a few years and she’s just full of fun and wisdom!

@cacevedo07 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this. I'm in my 50s, never got married, and didn't have kids. I've been proposed three times and I rejected all of them. I'm now fighting stereotypes that somehow women who never got married are somehow available for guys (whether they are married or single), that we are a threaten for married women to steal their husbands, L-O-L, that we are dysfunctional for never wanting to have kids, ...and the list goes on. Thanks for sharing it!

@kuja5809 2 жыл бұрын

Yes you're absolutely delusional

@cacevedo07 2 жыл бұрын

@@kuja5809 LOL

@Breathenow12345 2 жыл бұрын

Omg so lovely to hear a woman my age talk so confidently and unapologetically about not being married or having children. I don't have either (for different reasons to cindy) but I feel that womanhood and even adulthood, is so often defined by marriage (or a partner) and children and even age. So amazing to hear Cindy speak about this in such a refreshing and validating way. She is just so authentic and so comfortable in here skin - she is right - being truly who one is what makes one attractive. I love this series soo much.

@MissAngie25 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I’m in love with this woman, she’s me in 20 years ❤️

@Lisa-xr9wn 2 жыл бұрын

What’s her ig

@aaldelphia8272 2 жыл бұрын

Such an inspiration! “I can’t think of anyone else I’d rather be!” I want to be there as well. Thank you.

@janicecass2713 2 жыл бұрын

I was married for 3 weeks, big white wedding, 3 weeks afterwards I got up one morning and thought , this marriage malarkey isn't for me, and I left. Never wanted kids, I've got one, I only date or have sex with younger man, I lived with someone for 6yrs and he was 20yrs younger than me, he was an only child, he wasn't bothered about kids, his mum wanted grandchildren, I eventually ended the relationship, I couldnt deprive his mum was grandchildren. She was right this lady, I was young low confidence, and when you get older you don't give a shit. I don't want to ever go with someone my age.

@ThePurpleHaze1234 2 жыл бұрын

This wonderful woman is amazing. This has been my favourite episode so far! I loved everything about her and what she said. Thank you for featuring her 💜

@truthseeker5941 2 жыл бұрын

My kids and my ex-men have acted such a damn fool, I can't wait to die alone in peace too. I thought I was the only one that felt like that. LOL.

@IagainstI. 2 жыл бұрын

This comment sent me 😂

@EllysaE 2 жыл бұрын

No one ever talks this honestly… it’s always “kids are amazing” “get married” …

@truthseeker5941 2 жыл бұрын

@@EllysaE That works for some families, but other people get those kids that go back to the criminals, liars, addicts, mentally ill, and fools in their DNA and act out! You can be a good parent and get one of those... Anytime you are dealing with people it is just a roll of the dice...crap shoot. Forest said it best, "Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are going to get." That goes for people period...

@MrRottweiler72 2 жыл бұрын

@@truthseeker5941 maybe the same was said about marrying you. Roll of the dice.

@truthseeker5941 2 жыл бұрын

@@MrRottweiler72 Both of my wasbands still tell me they love me and both want me back. One of them invited me to move in WITH HIS WIFE AND TWO SMALL CHILDREN so "I could take care of you in your older age." LOL. Men don't forget the sweet loves, baby. I am a real one. 👑

@anonleeleichner3915 2 жыл бұрын

She is certainly living her own life. Love it

@DMariaWoods 2 жыл бұрын

Ahahahah, I relate to the part of not being the round peg in the square box. Never wanted a mini me, in a god forsaken world, and spent a lot of valuable time looking for mister right. Endured long-term toxic relationships that left me thinking, "do I really need this!? I love Cindy's character, full of fire💚💕

@mimisilvertongue9665 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 55 and I was brought up to find a man and settle with children. I have so many regrets and yes, my life has been a shitshow. I would have done it all so bloody differently. I have nothing but admiration for women who know they will not have children.

@sadhnarao2084 2 жыл бұрын

I follow her on LinkedIn to spice up the feed because she is one of a few authentic voices there - love, love, love this

@leniruess1719 2 жыл бұрын

love her. she is so right about everything.

@freudianslip2192 2 жыл бұрын

Right about what?

@PAJA63 2 жыл бұрын

@@freudianslip2192 Maybe about how to build self-esteem as a woman, or a human being. Societal expectations aren't what builds true happiness.

@freudianslip2192 2 жыл бұрын

@@PAJA63 All she said was she likes being naked, playing by her own rules and having tons of casual sex. I mean that doesn’t make someone “amazing” in fact our society is built upon people playing by the same set of rules. Monogamy was the stepping stone for the large nations that exist today. Being proud of your naked body, cool, but not exactly an unprecedented concept. You do know there are people curing diseases and creating technology to save the planet. Unfortunately, the vast majority of those people don’t get the recognition of this woman.

@eg4848 2 жыл бұрын

@@freudianslip2192 Its not like thats the only thing shes done or does... they didn't just pick some random woman in her 60s to interview. Also plenty of scientists and doctors get praise (rightfully so) and some of the biggest videos on youtube are just random cat videos so ya its not like this has a billion views

@PAJA63 2 жыл бұрын

@@freudianslip2192 Well, you haven't followed her story then. So only some doctors and engineers would need recognition for their work? Well, some do. They get paid, being interviewed and get awards.

@elizabetholiver777 2 жыл бұрын

I love this! Thank you Cindy Gallop for basically validating what I feel, which is that as a 49-year-old woman, I have so much to explore, and gain and enjoy

@garlenehicks369 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love when people articulate things that you feel even better than you can ever imagine to express. What an absolutey amazing role model…. As a 44 year old child free single woman…. Her bold expression was so compelling. Thanks for featuring this wonderful human being.🥰

@freudianslip2192 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you have the 2.4 million needed from the retirement age of 65 till the end of your natural life. Good luck.

@1love847 2 жыл бұрын

I hope to grow up and think just like this woman and totally be myself of course at the same time.

@MelP3121 2 жыл бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I like her! I think she's my spirit animal 💜

@user-zp8sk2rc4m 2 жыл бұрын

MEEEE TOOO!

@garlenehicks369 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣Hilarious….. she’s freakin amazing!🥰🥰

@judykekesi5174 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Cindy! Finally someone was able to voice my opinion. I'm turning 60, although now happily divorced because never had the desire to wanting children. Living and probably dying alone and loving it too!

@butadara 2 жыл бұрын

I needed to hear all of this today. This was amazing, such an amazing perspective. Thank you

@SparkleNeely 2 жыл бұрын

She’s so right about marriage. It can ruin your life. It ruined years of my life, wasn’t for me.

@h_3_x_ 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe u marry for wrong reasons

@shecalledmelisalou 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely ruined my life as well.

@minnieee123 2 жыл бұрын

Yes. My health and mental problems escalated quickly after marriage and now I’m stuck.

@Emily-pm5gr 2 жыл бұрын

Marriage can also be a beautiful thing...I've been in a very fulfilling 9 year long relationship and look forward to every day of it. At the same time it's true, some marriages can be awful.

@MrRottweiler72 2 жыл бұрын

what did you contribute to the marrige to end? its not always one person

@lindahebb4832 2 жыл бұрын

I have chosen to only have one child. It’s not the same as being childless but I can relate to the freedom that comes with only have to give my emotional and physical resources to one child.

@woodspriteful 2 жыл бұрын

You only need one child to have the mother experience. The mother experience changes when more children are added. I have one child too. It's so trippy how my instincts and habits change after she's been away with the grandparents a few days. I'm truly a different person when I'm with her. I'm better because of her.

@kaitlync4786 2 жыл бұрын

I don't know if I will ever have children, but if I do, I will probably only have one. That feels right to me.

@becomehealthytoday 2 жыл бұрын

what an incredible woman and interview have got to say, this hit especially deep.. *As* *women,* *from* *the* *moment* *we're* *born* *we're* *told* *that* *our* *entire* *life* *is* *the* *search* *for* *'the* *one*. This is deeply unfortunate because what this means is every social event you go to, 'will he be there?'. That means that you spend bloody hours glamming yourself up, worrying about how you look, what you're going to wear. You go to the event and then at the end of the night you know you trudge home going 'ah he wasn't there, maybe he'll be at the next one'

@shittymcrvids3119 2 жыл бұрын

As a 20 yo woman, do other woman really think that way?

@freudianslip2192 2 жыл бұрын

You know what young boys are told. That they are worthless unless they become something great. Average is not good enough if exceptional is the new barrier to entry. Average working class men are derided by society and especially the women in that society. I would much rather be told that I just had to pick a good partner. Sounds far easier.

@shawnlove4502 2 жыл бұрын

This is so true! My gosh, this is what they tell women.

@rekanagy6080 2 жыл бұрын

Hands down my favorite episode💓 What a woman🌸 Thank You Style like you

@brandnewyorker 2 жыл бұрын

authenticity at its best!!! thank you! brilliant, self serving, self aware, living her life to the fullest in bed and out of it, having ups and downs, and all in between fully immersed in this bodily experience and embracing the body she has received to express herself to the beat of her heart's music

@adni4929 2 жыл бұрын

She said exactly what I needed to hear! I just broke up with my partner of nearly 7 years and lost myself in that relationship…now I’m getting back to finding my feminine side and loving myself more again and also Meeting new Men. This really helped and inspired me 💕

@Freespiritedqueen 2 жыл бұрын

👍🏽✌🏽 so happy for you!😍 Wish you the stars in everything 🌌. Time for them to sacrifice for you dear.

@arlenewitt248 2 жыл бұрын

Well, she seems very happy with her life’s choices, so hurray for her. That is important. Life is too short to be unhappy.

@Ro-vw6pz 2 жыл бұрын

this is incredible. im so grateful for this channel and having such a wonderful woman on the show!

@mandybon04 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely love her. She knows exactly who she is and exactly what she wants, inspiring.

@justinwhite6787 2 жыл бұрын

Thrilled to see this! Happy to call Cindy a friend and an inspiration!

@bellarosa009 2 жыл бұрын

I love her honesty, confidence and bluntness. I’m totally in agreement with her.

@lakritz8732 2 жыл бұрын

Love Cindy on Twitter, she’s the perfect guest for this series. Made it to 35 with women like her as my role models and so far it’s fabulous.

@milliebird9934 2 жыл бұрын

This woman is bold, intellectual, strong and sexy as fuck. Wonderful listening and what an inspiring person.

@scarletwarlock3261 2 жыл бұрын

I love her

@thedieseldiet 2 жыл бұрын

The cope is very strong in this video. It's actually pretty sad. I hope people are not taking her seriously.

@shawnlove4502 2 жыл бұрын

@@thedieseldiet Why are you mad because men aren't the focus of her life? She is happy, why does that bother you?

@thedieseldiet 2 жыл бұрын

@@shawnlove4502 But they are focus of her life. That and she is sounding unhinged + she has a platform preaching things that she doesn't believe in. This is false feel good story. If she was truly happy, she would be talking passionately about the things she loves and not how awesome it was for her to get dumped. Her tonality reeks of cope.

@shawnlove4502 2 жыл бұрын

@@thedieseldiet She does actually. Look her up she's very successful and talks about all types of subjects. Not everyone wants the traditional life. People have to get over this ideal. Marriage end well over 50% of the time. Kids don't have good relationships with parents or siblings often. Lol family doesn't equal happiness.

@maya.lingreen 2 жыл бұрын

This interview is my favorite to date, thank you so much for this. It's so empowering to see a woman in her 60s completely owning her body, her sex, and her path with zero apologies. I am grateful and in awe. This is what I have to look forward to!! Yes.

@LostToAdventure 2 жыл бұрын

I might end up breaking up with someone.... I constantly have to worry and push them to step up and it's exhausting

@beckyaquino5007 2 жыл бұрын

@Lost to Adventure, If your love is not being reciprocated and your efforts towards the relationship are not being met even half way by your chosen partner, it’s time to walk away. Take it from me, at first you will be deeply saddened and heartbroken to walk away, BUT it gets better in time, I promise you. Better to alone and happy than be with someone and always experiencing anxiety, worry, stress and anger. If these emotions are constantly activated while in a relationship, it will break down your physical and mental health. Not worth the time and hospital bills. For fucking real. If you’re really invested in this relationship and still want to save it, then I would suggest couples therapy as a last resort. If they say “no way” to the therapy, THERE’S your answer. Seriously. Good Luck!

@sharajackson2129 2 жыл бұрын

Yep move on !

@govannieloera818 2 жыл бұрын

Wait miss please. Now whats the reason why u want to end it? You say step up n u push him, so do u mean job wise money wise or career Wise. Could be all three. If so why does he need to make more money? If thats not it sorry but if it is thats sexist and part of the patriarchy. Its ur choice. All things equal if its wrong to throw away this old woman or say she has no value u might be doing the samething. I wish u good things n hope u take time to make ur choice.

@mariadejucilene7659 2 жыл бұрын

48 no kids, I'm happy with how things have turned out. I really couldn't imagine a better life for me.

@ireneg.m.9365 2 жыл бұрын

All this is so true, being single or in a couple, with or without children, young or old! Living freely as per our wishes should be one of our mantras as women! She is really an increible reference.

@lsuzicosbw644 2 жыл бұрын

My first time hearing Cindy Gallop- she’s a true grand coquette. Very inspirational

@Redladymagick 2 жыл бұрын

This was absolutely amazing & necessary!

@celineypie 2 жыл бұрын

Cindy is my hero. Thanks for being you, Cindy. And thanks to y’all for making this

@drlaurab 2 жыл бұрын

I just want to keep watching this over and over. Amazing.

@mpycherek 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve followed (and admired) Cindy for years. One of the real ones. 👊

@myvibe9641 2 жыл бұрын

Ladies & gentlemen... HER! I love her refreshing approach. I really resonated with EVERY intelligent & articulate word & when I'm 60 would love to look, think & be this fabulous! x So happy I watched & will share with some friends I know feel the same way.

@cendthorgasm4936 2 жыл бұрын

How amazing is this woman!!! Thank you for sharing this video 💜✨

@sunelmusic3343 2 жыл бұрын

She is absolutely stunning. What a liberating experience watching this woman with so much experience and life advice. Beautiful

@mr.FRESHWATER 2 жыл бұрын

this woman is incrdible. thank you so much for showing us this and thank you Cindy for living an authentic life

@sophieballoons1375 2 жыл бұрын

Love this ! Love her ! So refreshing. Thank you ☺️

@peace.404 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. She is right about everything. What a gem.

@007peeper1 2 жыл бұрын

Inspirational for me because I was in divorced since 2008, never went back to any relationship because I was afraid to get hurt again and afraid to feel naked in my own skin. Thank you for prying up my shell a little bit.

@tiaram9813 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video, I finally feel like there are people who understand the want and love of being single and never having kids. 🙂💯

@EricB256 2 жыл бұрын

It's amazing how self-aware she is. Wonderful, beautiful. Thank you Cindy for being so open and sharing that with the world. That's so inspiring, especially for everybody also on a journey of self-discovery. She is really spot on regarding some of the myths of s*ciety. And the way she has put them into words has been quite brilliant. I learned some new stuff from this video, from her journey. Thank you so, so much.

@nikitaj473 2 жыл бұрын

I need more of this woman in my life. I actually cried when she said "Your body is hot as hell because it's yours. Live your life , don't give a shit about what other people think". My ex once said to me that he was less attracted to me because of my weight gain. Obviously that relationship had to end, but it has led to some insecurities when the person you love says that about your body. Everyone needs more Cindy Gallop in their lives.

@fran791 2 жыл бұрын

Yes but due to biology both men and women are attracted to healthy bodies that will substain procreation

@nikitaj473 2 жыл бұрын

@@fran791 Oh crap true! Completely forgot about that. Thanks for pointing that out

@hv3115 2 жыл бұрын

Typical female.. so you want someone to tell you pretty lies over truth. This doesnt someone has to be cruel for the sake of it.. but this woman is delusional. There is an objective standard for beauty and younger women with slender, hourglass figures, which is a sign of fertility in a woman, are what men find attractive and desirable. Nobody wants to see a lumpy, post-menopausal 61 yo woman like her dressing in a short skirt or half-naked. What happened to common sense?!

@capybara8477 2 жыл бұрын

@@hv3115 then how does she keep pulling younger men? everybody’s got a kink bud, nothing wrong with that