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Seven signs of a emotionally neglected person :- 1) overachiever 2) attention seeker 3) hyper independent/ hyper dependent 4)never satisfied in relationships/ career/life 5) perfectionist approach 6)shows love with gifts and money only 7) can't express their feelings in proper words Or Can't articulate their feelings properly.

Non monetary ways of showing love 💕: 1) Being genuine listener for family members 2) Giving quality time to your child / partner 3) 100 % acceptance of family members qualities including flaws 4) not expecting obedience all the time -letting people be. Obedience is not respect . 5) cooking or playing sports or activities together 6) celebrating small happy occasions together - laugh & cry together 7) Having healthy boundaries in relationship

I'm 27 years old Indian living in London, my mother passed away during COVID, not sad not happy, I just never felt more free in life. Narcissistic abuse by parents is a real thing. Taking therapy to fix myself. This man is on point with everything. Your own parents/partner/kids/friends can be the reason why you are always not good enough.

Please Please Please start a whole parenting series with age categories Its a must for indian society❤

Yes. Without money or fancy stuff we can show our love- 1.When needed - by Listening and confirming them 2. By offering self cooked food 3.Going on a normal walk 4. Doing their one or two jobs when they need or just like that. 5 By giving tight hug for no reason 6. Looking after when not well 7. Just sitting and watching TV together,eating ,dancing together

Hug, care, listening to them, doing small things for them, laugh with them, morning walk or evening walk with them... I mean seeing something natural like stars, morning sun etc Cooking something when ill

Expression of love without money: 1. Appreciate (Not boasting) your child in public place after any achievement 2. Giving moral support to the child in his low phases and struggling days 3. Reassuring the child that we as a family will take care of every ups and downs in life 4. Having a rule in a family where everyone can help in each other's work, cleaning, cooking, studying. 5. Showing gratitude towards god for their child, infront of them. Showing kids that we're thankful to god that kid belongs to them

I can relate to 4 or 5 of them. Sometime i feel guilty for having fun or spendng on myself. Like i always wanted to celebrate my birthday when i was young but havng cake nd invitng people over was considerd as waste of money in my house and i m an introvert so i never insested. But i always got some gifts or clothes by my parents. so now i dont like to celebrate my birthday at all even i feel wierd if anyone wishes me or i buy something for myself. sometime i get anxious on that day But i always try to give gifts to people on their birthdays.

There is one more sign that is linked with childhood neglect. Which is that you can't say no to anyone. You always are fearful that your friends or family will abandon you if you say no to them. You always try to be available for your friends and family even if you already have a lot on your plate.

I am 37 and realised quite late in life that how blessed I was for having parents who still treat us with the same love as they had when me and my sisters were kids. I can see around me that people who were neglected during childhood are on a self-harm mission and are getting miserable day by day. I really thought of telling them the real reason for their misery but the way you have articulated is marvellous. All your 7 points are bang on and I hope this video pops up on their feed so that they can live a lil better lives as sharing with them seems a lil risky to me. This video can be brutal for people who are actually suffering. But at the same time it is imperative that we start talking about these issues and amitji is doing a great job on it.

Aapke jesa guru 40 saal pehle mila hota tau life kuch alag hoti

When l was child my mother never remembered my birthday. Forget cake & gift no one in my family wished me happy birthday. I did very well in my professional life Now my mother stays with me& wishes happy birthday. Now l know the reason why I feel so awkward on my birthday.

Yes childhood traumas are the extensions of mundane and subtle things . I am 30 years have been on a healing journey for 8 months and found out that roots were in the childhood. You are a reformer ❤ it's so good that we have you around to guide people through !

Hello sir you didn't include following points. 1) Different treatments between siblings 2) making kids feel inferior about their looks. 3) expecting to show matured behaviour on every occasion. 4) never teach children to do household chores... And then taunt them tht they don't know how to do it. 5) never show love and affection. 6) putting their decisions(self interest) on kids... Using various ways of emotional blackmailing. As a kid you think whatever your parents are saying is right... But as you become mature you realise... All the decision they have taken.. Was for their comfort not for kids.

My mother told me that I was unwanted child. These lines broke me....

Kaafi badhiya video.. Sir ka ek-ek example - gear waali cycle, pencil-eraser khoya tha, not buying something for kid even though parents had more than enough money - can realate

Spending time with kids, going for walks, telling stories, listening to what children have to say without being judgemental, not comparing n so many other ways that are more important than spending money unthinkingly.

Sir, I'm 21 years old, been bingeing your content for a month now. I broke down watching this

Mai bhi b tech bilkul nahi karna chahta tha but my father forced me to do it. Aur pura 4 years +6months trauma me hi beeta( 2015 se dec2019). Aur fir pandemic. In 2023 I get joining of cgl 2020 exam. Aaj bhi lagta hai kaas simple collage se BA kiya hota to thik rehta bekar me itni mehnat kar li mila kuch nahi

Very true sir🙏 i am 30 right now sahi hai wo khalipan reh jata hai...I had faced gender inequality...bada dukh hota hai ek teref bdi-bdi baatein karne Wale parent aur action me different. Aise parents ko bus social accomodation achhi lagti hai...bus tareef karde to khush aur usko proof karna hai esliye continue karna...pr sach to sach hai samne aa hi jate hai ❤ God gives peace to that children 🙏👏 i am praying them to be healed Fully... by the name of God 🙏

I feel your words now "muje sunn kar he healing ho jaegi" And yes rightly said healing happnes when we help other suffering with such trauma Thank you for making this video

Very much related…so many trauma I have …mera birthday kabhi nhi celebrate kiya jata tha aur bhai ka hamesha And bhai ko trips pe bheja jata tha aur muje kabhi nhi ..aaj bhi yaad h muje aur ye sab cheeze ab mein apne bacho ko deti hun like I celebrate their birthdays always with so much enthusiasm

Just fantastic ,😊❤️👍😀. In India 80-95 % families are going through this . Actually it is the over disciplined home environment where the father is strict and dominating and mother is soft , submissive not strong enough to make the husband understand child feelings also financial constraints played a vital role . It is very painful for the child to face life in adulthood or childhood to face emotional turbulence , external world dominance and cruelty, life gets really painful . I still remember one incident that I faced in childhood that was craze for Barbie doll which was very famous in early 90's I was desperate to have one but my mother never brought it for me , anyways later i managed to get a teddy bear and other toys without much fuss from mother . Once you loose that desire for getting something in life which you are desperate for then you will never show desire for anything even if you achieve anything higher than that still that pain creates a dent on your emotions and never feel for asking anything in future .😥😵🙄😱😤

I am so so thankful and I would love to say that I have been the child who was privileged and lucky enough to not have gone through any of the above mentioned challenges. My brother often tells me that you are lucky and the world needs more people like you who do not carry unresolved childhood traumas

Cycle wala baat sey toh emotional kar diye aap mujhe😢

7 Signs --> 1) You are an over achiever. 2) You want acceptance, admiration, affection from everybody. 3) Extremely Depedent Or Extremely Independent Towards Everybody. 4) You keep trying doing many things but not complete in every thing. You are not feeling complete. 5) Being hard on yourself. 6) You are incapable of showing love without money/gifts. 7) You are not able to express feelings with words.

Too much of self love and self loathe is not good. But the challenge is draw a balance of both.😊

You are right. Aur jab sibbling smart ho aur aap smart nahin ho to bhi childhood me bahut kuch dil me dab jata hai jo mind me asar karta hai.

All the aspects you have touched are real.... No doubt.. Sir...at the age of 50 now I started healing.. Me and my daughter are living king size life.. With grace and and self respect... ❤ regards from hyderabad...

You are so true sir.... A very nice video where parents should really see it and understand it so that they can see to their kids in a better way

What a deep insight you have given in the last point sir 🙏🙏 I regret to say , I had no freedom of speech in my family as a child , so after my marriage I have suffered like hell .. i didn't know how to express my emotions or anything for that matter .. never knew how to put my emotions into words

I have all of them, i have been planning my escape from my parents house since i was in class 9th, right now that dream seems closer and closer, i will graduate next year and will give cat, which i am preparing for right now, i live in delhi, but i will purposefully take the farthest college i can, so i can finally live in peace, ever after, after my MBA will take a job, away from my town. Although i have all seven, i have a girlfriend, but i have never been able to truly love her, cause i guess i even have rejection trauma, being rejected by multiple women, when i was just 15-17, i never looked good in my entire life, have some traumatic experiences, i dont talk to my family on a regular basis, my saving grace would be, atleast i am not becomming a violent person, that will harm others, i am just withering away in silence. Dont know how i will feel, when i finally achieve what i wanted for all my, i would be free and happy, for how long i don't know, i guess thats why i am trying and wanna do so many things in life, like guitar, piano, singing, vlogging etc. Cause i dont know how i will be if i am just left to my own demises, I've so far stayed away from drugs, alcohol and cigarettes, but i don't know if it will be like this in future, who knows, but having a life with no joy, nobody around me and me not taking any substance to numb this loneliness, grief and pain, i cant imagine that life

sir kya content hai...not because you touched ...but because aap jo higher order thinking sikhate hai.......gurudev aap to gyan ka khajana hai.... and i love to think & learn new aspect in my field of interest 🙏

6/7. From first till 5th and then the 7th point. Every instance of emotional neglect that guruji mentioned in this video, was exactly how I was brought up. And the consequences of those actions are also exactly the same as Guruji mentioned, for example, "Not being able to articulate emotions perfectly and expecting my parents to understand everything on their own." These were cases for me until last year, for many years. This year, I have slowly started to heal, work and understand a lot of things in me. Life is not like Dear Zindagi, but my mental health has surely improved a lot. It's like my head feels less heavy now and the constant chatter has mellowed down. Sure there are lapses at times. But I can handle them better now. Emotional neglect during childhood is scathing, to say the least. It ruins people. And then it takes a lot of willpower, awareness and time to bounce back. Please seek help guys, if you are facing any one of these things. Otherwise it will eat you up from inside.

I m 22 rn stared earning a good amount, kuch bhi aaj ke din leta hu khud ke liye, yah salary aati toh Khushi hoti hi nahi.... nothing, now i know why

Your topics are exceptionally good and highly needed for everyone. Pl do continue to bring such videos. Hats off

Bina paise ke love show krna, hmmm.. good listener, samay dena, comfort provide krna, unke liye khud ko change krne ki kosis krna aache ke liye, choti choti cheezen krna jisme paisa na lag rha lekin effort lag rha ho jisse samne wale ko pata chle ki aapke liye wo kitne important hai, thoda bht bachpana, etc

Touched my heart. Thankyou for your exceptional information

Thanks Guruji ! Aap jab bolte ho - Don’t share this video and the reason you have given, I have understood your are so genuine as a person. 😊

Uncleji me yeh ek ek saari cheez se gujar chuka hu aur sab samjhta hu. Mere mommy papa ne kaam ke chalte ki gaun me transfer ho gaya school ni hai to mujhe nani ke ghar bhej dia tha 4-11 saal ki age me. Sara hi mind emotions usi time develop hote hai. 3 mosi 1 mama aur nani. Mujhe lagta hai jese mujhe kuch ni mila bachpan me jo mujhe milna chahiye tha, is cheez se bade hone pe bhut jayada effect padta hai par uska bhugtan nahi ho sakta. Matlab khane ko chocolate bhi ni milti thi bachpan me chocolate ko chocolate bolte yeh bhi ni pata tha. Yeh to ek hi example hai. Papa saal me ek baar aate the ek chocolate late the, me thoda sa tukda khata tha aur fridge me rakhata tha aur gayab. Naam bhi ni batate the ki kahi yeh maang na le. Esi bhi kya garibi ki freez to hai ghar me par 5 rup ki dairy milk na de sake. Aaj me 36 ka hu aur yeh me jab 5-6 saal ka tha tab ki baat bata raha hu. Yeh cheezo se pharak padta hai, jo bachpan ki udaan bharne pe hathode padte hai to usse pankh to tut jaate hai aur bade hone me insaan choud me nahi ghum pata.

7/7 But I always blamed myself only as culturally I believe parents can’t be wrong.

Hi Sir! Thank you for the valuable information as always🙏🏻

following your channel for the past 6 months, never commented on your videos, only watching. But for the first time i am commenting. Yes what u said is true and i can relate to the points which u said. Thank you for talking about this topic.

Guruji I carried childhood trauma unknowingly. Your words are inspiring.

6/10 for me. I can express my emotions without any hassle irrespective of how others feel. I will always prioritize myself over others. Good insights guruji. Thank you! Need you to cover topics on all 7

Highly relevant issues you have discussed. Thank you so much for your efforts as well as the information.

Very good sir u actually got the topics that matter most.... The upbringing ...... Please next

Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa, Guru Ji 🍾🔥 Pls make detailed videos on all SEVEN points 😍😍😍

Childhood emotional neglect can be even restricted to certain amount of hours in the day, for example, when a particular relative was coming and interacting and the mother was ignoring the child during the day.

Video was very informative. Thank u so much for showing light on these topics..

I had this 7 out of 7 symptoms of childhood neglect and emotional damage. But two years back I join two Krishna bhakti fully at least doing 15 out of 24 hours a day and in this due time of last two years I have healed completely out of all these thing. Now I don't even have a single out of this 7 symptoms in me. Now I am a fully happy and satisfied person.

At least parents should have either love or money. What about those children whose parents neither have love nor money, just imagine the situation of such children how heart broken adults they become. Childhood trauma is a real thing and very serious. Thank you Guru Ji for speaking for us and on our behalf.

Very good content, much needed

Very deep touching video, striking at the root level....

Acc. to me these are my way of showing love without money: 1. Giving frequent massages when anybody i love is stressed. 2. Sitting quietly and being an active participant in their rant. 3. postponing my work for sometime so that i can help them if its really that important. 4. proactively helping them in their work, if i am capable of that task.

You have explained in a good way. I have a different question about this. Such trauma happens to everyone. There’s no one who might not have experienced it. But few people can overcome it without having a long lasting effect. It means it has to do something with individual nature. Some people are so sensitive that they can’t handle even minor issues. Of course l am not talking about major issues. But if I am not satisfied with anything, l can’t be satisfied even in future because of my nature. The events may not be important. That is where 2000 yr old knowledge is helpful.

Superrrrbbb Guruji, u hv absolutely nailed it. I hv never heard anything more relevant than this....

7 out 7 with exact precision and accuracy and the day I get acknowledged for my achievements and how hard I tried is the day I can die in peace. Thank you so much.........just pure gratitude🙏🏼 Even my parents, fiance and close friends, none of them can accurately describe me this well.

Ways of loving : giving a selfless hug, just listening, a simple pat on the back, not always giving lectures on life, just being chill at times.

All relevant points. Better don't have children than to scar them forever...past karma settlement? Don't know!!

Wonderful content Amitji👌👌

Excellent topic , real rrue topics which should be discussed. Trauma of parents which affects children , should also be discussed. How ro forgive parents who had their own flaws, but respect their positive aspects

Sir great content. Thanks for everything.

I could relate to most of the points but no. 7 made me cry 😪 Pls make a video on how we can release our emotions which are piled up inside

Beautifully explained guruji

Omg this man is bang on true in his all videos...👌👌👌.....who made u...ur thinking...practically soo true...

Sir you have addressed correctly. I have suffered a lot in childhood, my parents always appreciated other children and said how they are so efficient and you are not upto the mark.

sir you are truly connected to roots...MAG❤❤

We can show love through 1. Cooking food for the person 2. By giving your time

7/7 😢 and I know. So many things happened in young life and realised that it's due to childhood troma.

Best video ever period plz make a series on this

Zabardast. Psychiatrist Amit ji

Very good video Sir. Appreciate your efforts.

Wow.......Sir one of the best video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Great You are really Great an eye opener 🤩

Thank you sir.. for making this video after I made a request to you in your earlier video...

After watching this video I realised how blessed iam to get such great parents. Sir your videos are really informative, i have switched to cat preparation from govt job preparation at 23 and now I came to understand why you said it that if your father is in govt job then don’t prepare for it. Thank you very Much❤️

Great video...want more of these.. 1 to 5 happened with me..

Having a talk, cooking togethet, not trying to occupy their space, not interfering in other's space is showing love.

The channel deserves million subscribers.

Jai Shri Ram Guru ji. Great topic. Thank you ❤

Excellent video 👏🏻👏🏻

It's exhausting to function & cope with the "ordinary stuff" when you have to try and compensate for all the developments milestones you missed because your childhood was filled with Trauma , Abuse and Neglect. Thank you guruji 🙏 I could relate to most of the points.

Brilliant video.

Love can be expressed by appriciation and behaving friendly with them

All 7. Thank you for sharing

Loved this video

I saw the video twice jus t make sure dt i dont have even 1 of these.....im really fortunate to have had a great upbringing...i always felt so but now guruji ne mohar laga di.... thks guruji

We dont depend on others because parents proved untrustworthy . We try to do everything because it helps in self esteem issues, to prove to self how capable you are because parents never acknowledged or praised. We hate losing things because our parents always spoke about money value and either we try to do same with children or go bang opposite , we lose our childhood worrying about expenses because we were constantly told it was waste . We try to earn lots of money as we were told money is everything , no hug, no words of love ,no going out of way to make you feel special. It's difficult for such people to show love bevause they really dont know what love is as they never got it.. yes, children who dont get love, appreciation, in house get carried away when showed admiration outside . Trauma unlimited . It either makes you strong or weak like creeper

Maza aa gya sir... bahut tym se jo prob hui h uska reason aaj samaj aya..

I relate to 6 out of 7. Some are only partly, but they exist. Teddy aur pichkari mangne se pehle hi samajh me aa gaya tha ke ye bahut costly hai. Thank you sir for Self realisation.

Love language except money is By caring for them By cooking great food for them By beings available to them by listening to them By giving emotional support to them By giving your time & effort to them By going extra mile for them By providing advice to them

So good topic. Very nice sir

Good knowledge👍

Almost all 7 covered😢....so relatable

I always thought being physically, emotionally, financially independent on any other is being a strong person. But in actual it's weakness But I love to be independent Don't need anyone Don't put or take anything from my life Just come, enjoy and left

Thanks sir for touching this topic.. each and every word sir said is 200% true as I am 30 years old now still struggling with my childhood trauma..faced all 7 signs..Bliss to find this video on you tube ...sir I request for your consultation regarding this matter kindly tell me the process except joining Chanel... which I am joining right now.. thanks again.

@clarityforyouth sir you nailed it so well! When I was young my mom didn't send me for picnic from school as after few days my exams were going to start....Still remember those days... And apply my learning on my son... But kya nai karna hai ye bahut zyada hain points.... Feeling like cry while watching your video😞

Your words are inspiring

Over achiever, perfectionist, highly independent,