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Never disclose your income, PPL get jealous and some will ask for money. Parents don't do proper property distribution. Spouse will ask for money for purchasing unnecessary items.

"Gujara ho raha hai" "Kaam chal raha hai" Noted for life 🙌💯

We Indians are never taught in school to say no. It's an art.

Asking a lady her age, and asking a man his salary is always inappropriate question. Lady will always tell her age less and man will always tell his salary more.

In standard 2 of cbse hindi book, there was a chapter called "Shistachar". It included it very clearly to never ask anyone's income.

I totally identified with this. All my relatives are like this. I told my dad in confidence and he went to his village and told the entire village just as a flex. God help Indians and their mindset. On top of that all my relatives will ask for money every now and then and won't ever return it. I am so done with this nonsense.

People just want to know your income so that they can set a limit to respect you Whenever i say KARCHA NIKAL JATHA HAI they look very happy

Once you reveal your salary, one type of people (those who have lower salaries than yours) will become jealous; and the other half of people who have higher salaries than you will feel superior, and at times will shun you as a possible liability if your salary is much lower than theirs. This is the divide you create amongst your normal group of friends. Everyone has an opinion about it no matter what, therefore always keep it secret as much as possible. Many who openly broadcast their salaries usually are lying with a much bigger figure than actually are, maybe to feel superior to the rest. High salaried people never reveal this secret. Thanks for this useful advice

Superb , Be smart and never tell anybody about your income - 1)These days people are interested in your salary and personal matters than your well being .2)They want to confirm whether your lifestyle is better compared to theirs or they are doing better than you .3) They want to know to what level they can exploit you for their own benefit . if somebody asks me my salary i tell them that asking someone salary is bad manners . 4)Never tell anybody about your salary /income else people wil start evaluating you based on salary. 😃👌❤️😊

So true.. I told my mother about my salary she started looting me and bought property for my brother 😖 Then I stopped sending her my money and never disclosed my salary .. my father never asked my salary even from beginning .. fathers are the best

People want to know your Income to determine how much Respect they should give to you..!

There was a time when my father used to share my salary with every close relative. I didnt like it, but because he felt so proud telling about my hikes or job switches, I never confronted him strictly, even though I used to tell him to avoid it. But soon, he stopped doing it, as he himself started seeing these things: 1. He used to tell my salary to the same relatives when it was very low. When it increased with time, some people started telling others how he boasts about his son’s salary. 2. Some people started taunting him, or even saying that he is lying about son’s salary (not to his face, but to others, who then told my father). Interestingly, most my relatives are government employees, so they have strong belief htat “salary can’t become X times in Y years”. 3. Some others started asking him for money, from anything and everything. Making a house, buying a plot, and whatnot.They would just look at the CTC number, and assume that I have money flowing down the drains of my house, so I should just give it to them. Here I am not buying my own house, as I have my own plan to reach a particular number in terms of net wealth before that. And they expect me to buy a house for them. And mind it, they have all the means to go and take a loan. But they rather want me to just give them free money, which they “may or may not” return. 4. Some relatives started eating my and his head with stupid investment schemes and business ideas.They wanted me to invest in their business. Once I actually asked one of them to get the business ownership documents ready, so that we can sign and start it. They got offended and complained to everyone, how “He wanted business equity on paper, and didn’t just give us all his life savings" 5. Some would even gossip saying that “If he is earning X amount in 30s, he must be doing something shady” 😞 6. And the last point was exactly what you said. Everyone kept taunting me for everything. “Why do you buy a 15k phone? Get latest i-phone”, “Why don’t you fly business class?”, and for thing I actually like to spend on, they would taunt me for them -“Why would you waste 30k on a chair?” There are things that people won’t understand, because they will see your salary from their mindset and experience. They will have their own notion of how much you “should earn”, and how much you should spend. You may want to retire at 45. You may want to start your business at 40. You may even want to not work at all, and do knitting or sell peanuts for a living after 10 years, so need to save for your retirement. They won’t understand. Dimag kharab kar dete hain log. Pair nahi tikane dete jameen par, hava me hi uda dete hain. Now my father just says- “Bas thik hai. Ham bachcho ki salary puchhte hi nahi. Apna ghar chala leta hai, hamse nahi leta hai paise. Baki vahi jane” I still sometimes tell my salary to close relatives, specially cousins who are working/want to work in the same domain as me. Just to give them an idea about what path they can take, and what would the incentives be like.

Sir im 21 years old, glad to find your channel at this comparatively young age. Thanks to you.

He is giving fatherly advise for youth..

If anyone insists on knowing your income even if you tell them "Bas guzara ho raha hai", you should not feel forced to reveal it. Just keep repeating "Guzara ho raha hai" or use any other phrase. Finally, that person might tell you why you are not telling me or "Bolne se kya hua". Reply politely that "Yeh baat rahene dijiye, mein salary discussion mein Jana nahi chahata hoon". Alternatively, tell him that you are under obligation by your employer not to disclose your salary and that you will honour your commitment.

Log apne dukh se dukhi nahi dusre ke sukh se dukhi hai...SUKH TO SABHI KE PAAS HAI LEKIN LOG DUSRO KE SUKH SE DUKHI HAI

My uncle saved every rupee that he earned. He lived a very simple life but when he died his son enjoyed all the money and property that his father saved being bikari . Learnings, never sacrifice ur needs by saving money for future. One day u will die and others will enjoy all the money that ur hardwork earned and saved.

Keeping the Salary confidential serves corporates far more than you. You should share your salary with your close friends. It really helps if you know how much people around you earn. It gives you an idea of your own market value and helps you in negotiating your hike/offers !

My father never told me his income. He has strictly told all of us to not disclose the income to ANYONE except if needed to your wife, because she has to take care of most of the house expenses. All we have is a general idea which may or may not be true. Plus I have seen that the people who work around him never discuss income, it's just an unspoken rule to not talk about it. All my relatives have some made up numbers in their head about the income but he never entertains them regarding such matters. He will make a joke out of conversation and turn the topic into something else if someone tries to ask.

ये तो income की बात है। 20 साल पहले जब मेरी बेटी 12th पास की, तो सड़क पर मुझे देख मुहल्ले के एक बाबू दौड़े दौड़े आए और " आपकी बेटी को कितने percent मार्क्स मिले "। मै मुह लटका कर बोल दिया " फेल हो गयी" ।उनके चेहरे पर सन्तोष की रेखा देखने लायक थी।🤣🤣🤣😁😁

my friend work in private co., when he changed his co. , he called me and said you know how much is my salary here..? and i said.. "No i don't want to know " he was like.. why? i said.. its your job, your salary.. i have nothing to do with it.. yes i killed his excitement 😂

You are right. IT people feel jealous of eachother due to salary variations...

Sir your audience not only Indians but like us PAKISTANI as well ❤

There is a proverb "NEVER ASK A WOMEN'S AGE AND A MAN'S SALARY" ! But no we have to know other people's salary and when you know the salary "Mera Kahan rakhoon" i completely agree with this content. I would say be BLUNT and say no I am not willing to disclose my salary!

so true.... I've seen people asking my salary directly and forcing me to tell them... initially I was little bit hesitant but then I learned to tell them directly that it's none of their business 😂

Even in the case of arrange marriage do not disclose your income related information, untill there is "baithak" which is gathering of elders. In "baithak" you can disclose ITR and other details. Specially to young bachelors, "do not marry a gold digger". Always try to find a generous and open minded family of spouse or reject the proposal for better one. Best arrange marriages are the one with families of good nature which even you are witnessing from long periods of time...eg. Friends within family circle, colleagues of father and mother, families of friends of brothers and sisters or someone who is in good terms with your most favorite uncles and aunts...etc. If fortune favors you, always go for a love + arrange marriage. To make it happen "Expand your social and professional circles".

ID, I always share I work in BPO and make 15K-20K. once I made a mistake and shared my real salary with my ex-partner and she expected me to spend all the time.

I won't tell my relatives my real income, but I will tell true income to my close friends.

Thank you sir.. Till now I didn't had the habit of saying NO. But from now, if anyone asks me for my CTC/package, I would say "I'm not comfortable in disclosing it". If the fellow doesn't understand or listen, I would say "Main nahi bataana chahta hoon. Tu khudh ka kaam dekh le"

I earn decent amount but my income is not secret anymore my family is joint family, whenever I don't find to spend money someone will say "bruh you earning this much, why won't you spend here, don't be so kanjoos, my fiance spends ultimately on her clothes because she knows I'm earning but nobody knows I have many plans to execute and amount is less to spend. I'm working so hard daily for my future but my cousin, fiance, friends , find it enough and they take their share from my income I'm stressed but now I have started to say no to people and I'm quite happy now.

My mother in law is very much interested to know.. my sister in law used to fill my ITR since she is working with a CA.. both the ladies used to discuss my salary like what is my HRA why I am not able to save .. itna paisa kahan jata hai etc..I thought bohot ho gaya saw a YT video and filled my ITR myself .. fir to dono ki khoon jal gayi .. itna suspense jo create kar di Maine..

I'm govt employee, 4200 pay grade, When asked about the salary. I do the same. I don't tell people my inckme. But people insist, I only tell them that I hardly able to save 10k monthly, baki sare kharche and saving hain.

I never did. My close relatives are always curious about my salary. In fact, my own uncle and aunty and few other family members even did CID investigation just to know what I earn and to make an idea to what extend my father can be deprived of my grandfather's property. All these just by knowing my salary. The thing is since the beginning I have acted broke as well as rich. So people cant really understand what the heck I earn for my living.

Sandeep Maheshwari - One of the biggest creators of India talked about your points about Middle Class in his recent video . I think he also watches your videos sir 😂😂😁😁🫡🫡

Pranam Amit ji 🙏 Thank you for taking the time out and imparting wisdom to humanity. May Shri Krishna quadruple the blessings and wisdom back to you 🙏💐

Yes this is true. In our society if we tell low income people start to ignore u and if u say higher relatives start to ask money. Kya kare

Always say "Bas Do Waqt ki Roti Mil Jaati Hai"

I partially agree with this, but there is a negative downside of this trend also, especially in IT industry the payout for almost same jobs is vastly different and when you don't tell or know people salaries the companies take you for a ride, because you are living inside you cocoon and don't know what your work worth, you assume other is also getting the same low salary as you are. 1. So, discuss your salary among peers in private jobs and ask way to switch companies or skills you need to reach there. 2. Relatives and far friends do not tell, because they do not understand the money and its dynamics, they are not the close friends and relatives because they are not at same mental state as you are. Don't be friends with people who come to you with investment schemes or judge you for what you earn, just shun them off, they are useless anyway. And western culture does not restrict from stop telling salaries, but the corporate culture do, because if everyone knows everyone salary exploitation of a introvert employee is difficult. It is a fine balance, there is no right and wrong answers, salary telling or knowing is good, if they also tell you what skill they need, or you have to reach to that level.

This man brings genuine perspective & dares to put it raw 👍

I remember telling my income to my relatives when we were partying, next day as expected they called me for money 😂

Well said sirji. We should learn and inculcate this habit. I personally feel embarassed if someone ask me about my earnings even they are my close ones. And I easily used to end up answering them the amount. I have seen people judging our decisions later based on our earnings. But now I adopted a strategy, I reply them that "You should not ask anyone their age and wage". And this is helping 😊.

So right Sir. I told my mom my salary ever since she is behind my life to buy a car which I feel its a depreciable property..She doesnt understand what it means,

So true. I experience this very often. My age and salary is so important for others.

Sir you're cent percent right. I stayed in Canada for more than 6 years no one except Govt. Dared to ask my monthly income. When I returned to India I found this habit of Indian people highly annoying and disgusting. As you addressed precisely these crooks assess our financial situation so as to exploit us at an appropriate moment. Indians are great exploiters!!

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Not only income,the important part of the list also include,your family dynamics which is your love live and immediate family members,your plans and aims for your future These three things one should never be disclosed to anyone even if you think they are closest to you,at times it may need to include your spouse and children for your safety.

Thanks Sir 🙏🏼 people like me who don't have father, the videos like these helps lot to avoiding falling into traps and manage financial life well...

You have made a very important point, sir, when you said that this bad habit is exhibited by us Indians. Obviously there will be exceptions, but as a whole that's very true: we Indians collectively suffer from this bad habit of prying into others' life and forcing/pressuring them to disclose their personal info and then judging them! Instead of blindly trumpeting the superiority of one's own culture and values, I think it would be best if we take the good things from all cultures and leave the bad ones from all cultures.

Yes, all this really happens in society. As far as I am concerned I never ask anybody's income and age.

Yep never share your salary, it is better to hide but so-called relatives can not mute without asking. I have shared my real salary with some people now I am worried I going to get my money and maybe used it for spending all the time. I am a saving cautious person in general. Does not like to spend that much, but as big sis does give allowance to younger bro, I did tell my mom not to tell anybody about our overall household income. As a child of a supportive single mother, we were far more successful than all of our relatives. Nobody should tell their income other than someone who is going to your nominatee

What a channel . I wish I could have earlier . It would change my life . Throughout life I was emotionally doing everything

Sir aajkal ladki wale ek ek rupaiye ka hisaab check krte..Parents have become so money minded that sometimes it feels as if they are striking a deal..Expecting hell lot of things from groom' s side and apni side se kuch nahi karna..Tough to hide from girl and her family

Very very apt advice. It's not even ethical to ask anyone's income. And what sir has explained is really one must consider as well.

What I think : Never take so much stress in life ki kisike kuch bol dene pe tm soch mein padh jao and all. Just be normal, you have to worry only when you have to hide things. Just relax. People ask your salary, say it. They judge you on that, dont care. Someone asks money, say no. People will judge you regardless. Someone will say itna kamata h fir v bekar gadi mein ghum rha h. Someone will say itnaaa kamata h fir v koi ghamand nhi h, normal logo k jaisa rehta h. So CHILL. And also don't let the corporate have their way.

Parents must be told of their childs earnings so they can monitor the unnecessary spending & guide the child into saving & investing, it's a fact there are prejudice & hate among friends and relatives..

Sir your Initiative to educate youth about these things by this easy way is really very appreciable. ❤

Your content is original, pertinent and very useful. I wish your guidance was available 25 years back, in my younger days. I am sharing your content with my children now

Wow. Simply super. You have validated my point. You have put words to my thoughts !

My tau ji used to taunt my father about my job ke ladki ki shadi mat karna usko kamane bhej rakha hai. When I got married in different city and just then covid hit and I was jobless for 2 years he said kya fayda itna padha likha ke ghar me roti hi to bana rahi hai. Then I started working again and he called me early in the morning just to ask my salary😂

I'm 40 years old,My Parent did this thing, and relatives looted them,😢 mere man ki baat kah di aapne.....

Very true. This is very important psychological maturity to develop otherwise people to destroy your peace of mind.

Found this gem today. Feeling blessed!!❤

This is highly applicable in low trust societies. In the West, 90% of the families can only have a good life when both husband and wife are working, so you will very likely have to disclose your income to your spouse.

I am able to relate each and each words with my life. You are a genius and extremely wise person

Sandeep Maheshwari Sir Video On Topic Middle Class Already Covered by Guruji Jai Ho Gurudev 🙏🏼 ❤️ First Time I Feel Sandeep Sir Talking in a Way of Guruji.

Sir ......I was addressing this fact to my husband last 17 years

Sir आपकी बात मेरे दिल दिमाग में छप जाति है और इंप्लीमेंट करने से बहुत बडा बदलाव आ रहा है।thanks sir

Yes correct sir always tell income itni hi ki gujara ho raha hai bhagwaan ki daya se. If we tell the truth than they want money for their purpose. All this you told sirji is 100 percent correct. Ristedaar aur neighborhood b aise hi hote hai. Shadi ho rahi tho batana compulsory hai. But little bit lie bolna padega ya nhi batana hi acha hai. Your all vdos is practical and eye opener 👌👌👌👌🙏

I am a working women from a finacially sound background my father being a retired class 1 officer who saves more than necessary ..my husband is from a humble background with no saving habbits..my FIL keeps asking in his trip about my salary so I feel so offended that my parents have never ever asked me this question..like if I tried to avoid the question he will say you work so hard your sal will at least be xxx figure n all

Thanks for this video sir. You are really a grandpa everyone need for unsolicited advise needed for life.

You are the uncle in family everyone needs

Lol I liked how he started with basic topic and ended up touching on almost entire financial market! 🤓👍 Sahi baath hai uncle, lekin if a young person who is trying to decide on career as senior accountant same as you asks genuine question regarding what you earn uncle.. I am also interested in same career, tho usko kya bathayenge?

This channel deserves millions of subscribers ❤

Your each and every word is learning lessons for young people... 😊😊😊

Absolutely amazing sir. Ghar chal raha hain and kaafi hain. Thats incredible. 👍☺️

Very true please do not disclose income to friends, family or spouse

I have been working for 2 years and have never disclosed my salary 😎😎😎

Best video I have seen, have experienced same after telling my package to surrounding people.

I love you uncle ji ❤ekdum papa jaise advice dete ho i'm 22 year old thank god jaldi mil gye aap ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Very good perspective!!! Thanks a lot 🙏

For that returns calculation, I use XIRR formula in the spreadsheet and that gives the exact return.

Well said sir and i am agree with all words you said but in my opinion sharing info with wife is ok when your partner is understandable and she always comes ahead to save your income

Exactly... This was very insightful. I agree with you. That's why I never reveal my income.

One of the best advice Sir.. I have seen and experienced the consequences of revealing my income.

Praiseworthy analysis. It is very practical what you say.

Agree, i really don't like to discuss and disclose income to anyone

Hahaha! The way he is telling is really rear ! No one , even your friends, parents will give you this knowledge ❤. Thank you Sir !

Great Words. We are still in mentally evolution. Too apt message

I always fall in this situation... Do not want to tell anyone but relatives specially in laws side relatives keeps on asking the same question.

सर,आपकी बात से लगभग सभी सहमत होंगे और बात भी सच हैं जबकि कभी न कभी हर किसी ने यह किया ही होता हैं एक बार या कई बार। परंतु सर 1 जगह यह सार्थक भी होता हैं जब किसी को वाकई ज़रूरत होती हैं की किसी क्षैत्र -विशेष में कोई जॉब कर रहा होता हैं तो, कैरियर या ग्रोथ के पर्सपेक्टिव से geniune सलाह की अपेक्षा रखता हैं।

Excellent thoughts..Spot On..👌👏

Main to 10k bolta hu😂😂 fir aage koi puchta hi nahi

Now a days most of the coaches and trainers disclosed their income that they are earning in "CRORES " why?? To attract audience... So depends who has to disclose and who are not? What your thoughts on this Sir?

Sir Ji.. totally agree with your point. One good thing with me is my wife also understands your points and both of us are on the same page. Duniya ka sabse bada hai Rog.. apne bare me kya kahege log..... Both of us like to live under the radar. Both of us are good at answering toxic folks ....

I earn in 6 digits/month but whenever my relatives, friends etc. Asks me how much i make i always tell them that i make 3-4 digits/month

Thank you making this video.. a very bad habit ,which we indians have..sad that a person is judged on that basis.. This lesson i learnt were late in life. Hope todays youth gets this.

Great topic

Great work sir I saw 2 of your videos both were very helpful. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and experience.

this is such a nice video , i feel like hugging you sir. thank you for saying things so clearly