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Someone may be anxious with one relationship, and avoidant with another. It depends on the circumstances.You're right, labels are not accurate.

hello there! first i wanna say thank you for posting these very helpful videos, keep doing that's plz. and just wanted to ask if u can decompose the video in sequences and give them titles . thanks again 🙏 🙏

I get this. But it seems like with this approach we're relieving their pressure and increasing ours. No one wants to be played or waste their time. If they're so confused, spending time with them gives no incentive to make a decision. I understand taking it slow and trying to reconnect, I think that's necessary. At the same time, to me this comes with boundaries that should be communicated. If not, it's too much of an emotional risk . You should still know each other's intentions. Just my opinion.

You should do a video on Unrequited Love Clay and how to deal with it.

You should do a video on how to deal with Mixed Signals Clay.

Jealousy is a very ugly thing in a relationship.

Don’t worry about the future focus on the present.

I won’t put up with Unrequited Love and Mixed Signals Clay.

What happens when your married and separated? How do you fix, build and handle the situation?

After our divorce ten years ago, we are dating and engaged to remarry. Now I am having second thoughts 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

Why am I doing all the initiating in the relationship and you’re doing nothing?

Could you please film a more detailed video about what to consider/ how to deal with an ex in the quarterlife/midlife crisis? I feel that my ex has no room for anything else in the world but work + uni. He has got the mindest of „first the hard part, then the fun / relaxing part“ which leads to onnnlllyyy work and mind focusing on work..

Would you also tell you ex "lets not worry about where this is going" when just inviting her for an activity with the kids present, which to me sounds like a safe enough situation? In other words, how do you know whether you need to take pressure off of something that in itself seems innocent enough?

Regarding Gina N comment, why is she having to do anything to relieve his pressure and help him with feeling less confusion? She's his ex and he's with someone new. If she does this he's having his cake and eating it too. This just makes him too complacent. And at the end of the day, she's losing so to speak. Not that it's a game but I'm saying she's selling herself short. She's giving him time and access to her etc with no relationship or commitment.

I really can’t tell if my ex is confused I think she is but really can’t twll

So me and my ex started talking again and we talked about the idea of getting back together but then out of nowhere she texted me admitting that she has been purposely avoiding me out of fear and doesn't know if she wants to get together, anymore what do I do then?

Everybody is in limbo land with the pandemic Clay.

Why can’t we just tell them to shove off Clay?