Why She Acts Flakey

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Coach Corey Wayne discuses why women become cold, distant, flakey & cancel dates when everything seemed to being going great initially.
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@ASkepticalHumanOnYouTube 5 жыл бұрын

"Trying to heat up leftovers," LOL! I've been SO guilty of that in the past.

@ericaz6249 4 жыл бұрын

Just tried that the other day. No bueno

@stellainverso6790 4 жыл бұрын

A canceled date is a deal breaker , no contact after that.

@fargeeks 4 жыл бұрын

I had one tell me she had to cancel because she lost her phone which had her license and debit cards in it, so she chose to apparently get that replaced rather than coming to see me, she never even rescheduled and she was the one who bought up eating out

@johnmora5830 4 жыл бұрын

Why women seem so bi polar just was wondering seems they live the chess game and like a sea saw.

@fargeeks 4 жыл бұрын

@@johnmora5830 yup they are all happy to seevand talk to you but once they change then its like they hate you so much

@harrysmith747 6 жыл бұрын

You dump them asap. Very rarely do I hang around after one cancelled date.

@fargeeks 4 жыл бұрын

@sailingvesselnautilus1379 5 жыл бұрын

"Can't live with them, can't live with out them "

@drsanjaymistry 9 жыл бұрын

This totally sums up my situation at the minute and its so dam hard to do nothing but sit and wait and wait and wait ...... and do nothing. But Corey is right... Its the fear of loss that can break us to make us fail.

@neyabreu 8 жыл бұрын

Corey, you are the master, man. Hahaha. Self respect is the key.

@taurus2473 6 жыл бұрын

Love it! "Heat up leftovers ".

@markkuan 12 жыл бұрын

"heat up left overs" lol love it!

@Rodgerinho 8 жыл бұрын

I have to say, I love hurting the feelings of a girl who acts like a bitch, and wants me to remain meek, quiet, complicit and co-operative in her actions. I'm being very honest with that statement, I'm not proud of it, but it is true, it's very, very satisfying to give her a reality check, see her feelings hurt, and walk away with some pride, because the non-committal, disrespectful manner in which some girls choose to treat guys, really does emasculate and destroy confidence and self-esteem. To put it bluntly, some girls take a souvenir of his manhood from a guy if she plays that sick, insidious, insincere game, if he in turn allows it to happen. I feel like those women need brought down to earth, at the very least for the next guy, they need taught how to treat another human being.

@santamaria7733 7 жыл бұрын

You are sadistic AF... I love it

@christopherarmstrong2710 2 жыл бұрын

5:15 Cancels date for obscure reasons - the reason she cancels is because she didn’t want to see you.Women help you when they like you. If they really want to see you and they place a high value on spending time with you, they’re not going to do anything to get in the way of the date that they have set with you.

@onward-fp2fz 3 жыл бұрын

Respect yourself and move on. Do us all a favor, don't enable this kind of behavior. Maybe you can save the next poor soul from having to deal w/ this bs

@w.e.572 4 жыл бұрын

I like the "Pigeon Method" of pick-up. Basically, you dance around her and keep asking her out until she says yes.

@christiannavas684 4 жыл бұрын

Once again thank you coach!

@sr_formica 5 жыл бұрын

despite we had a very good interaction, is her state that changes, and we cant do anything. That's why we have to go as far as possible in the first approaching.

@valefrit 12 жыл бұрын

It's just enjoyable to be able to tell their friends or their boyfriend "Hey i am atractive! I have options" it's kind of annoying at times loool but it's the truth. But they want to prove their status to the people around them.

@weezyf4668 3 жыл бұрын

I don't have these problems cuz I don't get any dates.

@nicoleshaughnessy2372 5 жыл бұрын

I need some relationship advice with more specific issues how do we get in contact with relationship ship experts or dating experts ?

@valefrit 12 жыл бұрын

I guess what women want and what causes her to feel atracted can sometimes be two diferent things. It's like, you want to achieve an objective but once you reach it, it loses it's value after a while.

@sven_the_giant 4 жыл бұрын

I have a gal I met on IG that lives near me. We started out by liking each other’s photos and I popped a message to initiate the conversation. After about 4 messages back and forth I asked her when she was free to meet up. She came out and said the weekend. So I picked Sunday (which happened to be Mother’s Day). Ended up rescheduling it because of the holiday. Long story short - I asked her what her availability was for the following week. She never responded to it. Is it worth reaching out or should I ignore it?

@valefrit 12 жыл бұрын

@corey8269 No, i agree that they do what you say. The thing i don't agree is that they do it to "not create an awkward situation". The real reason they do it is because they want to keep a guy chasing her. If she said "oh i have boyfriend" or "I am not interested in going out with you, sorry" that would completely turn the guy off but they want him to keep thinking that she doesn't go out with him because she is busy. That way he will keep chasing her lol.

@rickyticky3350 Жыл бұрын

i think theirs a group of guys that women get attracted to and its the guys who dont give a dam about them. Who treat them like shit.

@taraswertelecki7874 4 жыл бұрын

The first time they flake on a first date, is the last chance they get with me. Ever. When they do that, they tell me all I need to know about them, and I cut off all further contact with they do that. I will not respond to them after that.

@ericwimer4067 4 жыл бұрын

Taras Wertelecki agreed. I’m open to rescheduling if she brings it up. But if she cancels and doesn’t bring anything up, ans she contacts me in the future...she’ll bring up getting together and she’ll be coming to my place. I won’t go past my front door for her. I would even do the Seven Principles for Getting an Ex back...she has to have sex 3 times she comes over before ill take her back out.

@joshuamontgomery2298 6 жыл бұрын

I don't come from the standpoint that I am wrong in my approach. Sure from trial and error I've corrected some obvious mistakes but women generally are flakey and I've been resolved in that attitude. Just don't take it seriously and build yourself up in the meanwhile. The more you think about that girl you were drawn to and dropped you like a bad habit the more your life will suck.

@harrysmith747 6 жыл бұрын

Usually it's the woman complaining that she doesn't know where the "good men" are that's the flakiest

@mrados81 9 жыл бұрын

Guys I'd love some advice. I'm in quite the shitter. So long story short, one of my bestfriend's has a sister and after being around each other quite a bit, we realized we liked each other. So after I told him and everything was out in the open, it's still kind of awkward for us to be dating and seeing each other on our own yet because we aren't exclusive yet. More along the lines of flirting and getting to know each other. I realize that a HUGE fuck up is that we text 24/7 and that's what I want to address. She is 16 and I'm 18 and I'm trying to not text her all the time, but then we don't talk because we can't really see each other yet. I'm planning on taking her out for Valentine's Day but I have several worries. I can't tell if she is really good at playing hard to get or just isn't good at the texting thing because she always seems distant and not interested (she wont reply for a long time or she replies with like 2 word texts) when we are texting even though she has told me several times that she is really into me. My biggest fear is that we won't talk when I do take her out because we text so much, it's already been an issue when we hang out that sometimes it's awkward silence, no matter how much I try to stimulate discussion. Can anyone offer me some advice in this situation pleaseeeeeeee lol!!! -I have considered that she is just playing games, and likes the attention from a college guy but when I pull away she then texts me first and she even got mad one time when I didn't text her back ( I saw on her twitter she posted "Hun dont worry I'm not afraid of being alone") So basically I'm just so fucking confused, NEED HELP.

@bahaatamer1245 4 жыл бұрын

LMFAO I seriously hope the "patience" doesn't mess my entire semester up! - it's so damn hard to find hot girls here.

@bonfacemacharia8712 3 жыл бұрын

If she flakes just let her go

@valefrit 12 жыл бұрын

Hey Corey i am sorry but i really have to disagree about the fact that women don't say "I don't like you" because they don't want to hurt a guys feelings. For SOME women that might be the reason sometimes, i knew a girl that did that. But MOST will do it 'cause they like a guy chasing her, not that it causes ATRACTION, but she enjoys having lots of guys chasing her. They have boyfriend and continue to interact with guys who like them to enjoy the pleasure of them chasing and not getting any lool

@taraswertelecki7874 4 жыл бұрын

That is why they are called bitches.

@fargeeks 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah i had that happen to me I had a lady who has a boyfriend who wanted me to chase her. But so far im understanding that by doing that youll turn into a creep which a lady will not like.

@fargeeks 4 жыл бұрын

And yes she interacted with me a lot in chatting with me

@romankhan9120 3 жыл бұрын

@Andre thats true bro

@DaneWashingtonddtke 6 жыл бұрын

Corey this woman flaked out on me about 3 weeks ago suddenly she text me back and says she has an explanation and ask me to go out to lunch should I agree to go out with her

@Farfan-lc2kd 6 жыл бұрын

Dane Washington so what happen with the girl did u hang out with this lady?

@Nehesi 5 жыл бұрын

People do have lives and things do come up, but she simply could have told you in the text. Why does she have to meet you, HAVE YOU PAY FOR LUNCH, and THEN tell you why she flaked on you?

@Cricius 5 жыл бұрын

No lunches

@seancollins3792 3 жыл бұрын

Corey Wayne says No Lunches. Lunches are for friends.

@johnmora5830 4 жыл бұрын

Thats where im at if got bunch options youll be able play it cool. And if she dont show her worth then oh well. Done with chess games wanna play some fun checkers :). Too much bs too much simps with these chicks im no simp no beta so i will not be apart of this chicks crowd lol. Keep smiling keep doin u. A women will show her worth too u and if she does show her worth u know u got a keeper. Like winning the lottery finding girl like that anymore lol.

@TheShadeManGuitar 5 жыл бұрын

If she flakes and offers a new date, set the date and say I'll talk to you then.

@fargeeks 4 жыл бұрын

I had this lady flake the date and never rescheduled

@johnfalcon4449 5 жыл бұрын

she cancelled our date due to a funeral, legit or bs reason? she said her cousin died, she has agreed to reschedule and said thank you. Earlier in the day, she waived at me and blew me a kiss

@garydurso8475 5 жыл бұрын

seems legit..

@PokePresto 4 жыл бұрын

That would be one heck of lie to tell just to get out of a date... If she was flakey she would not come up with that good a reason.

@Sledgehammers_Nail 29 күн бұрын

@@garydurso8475 Idk, seems like she was a little too cheerful to be blowing kisses at dudes on a family members funeral