"In sickness and in Health"-- More than words you just say to get to the Kiss and the Cake.!! Blessings

You are a true Man not many men would take the time to care for a sick spouse. You and men like you are truly the definition of a man. I hope many young men will learn from videos of how real men should be. There are not a lot of men like you and my hubby out there.

God's got his hand on you John, well done good and faithful servant.

I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes as I watch this video. I am 66 years old and I too have a sick wife and I have had some medical issues myself that limit what I can do. Recently I have had a perpetual pitty party as I look at our situation and wonder if we even have future. You have given me the ability to look beyond the problems and start from where we are to build a future. There aren't enough words to thank you for this video. May God richly bless you.

I just wanted to tell you that my wife and I watch all your videos, and every time you start your video and you raise both your arms in the air we raise ours at the same time. I was wondering if there is a couple thousand other people doing the same thing at that precise moment. How cool is that? Keep doing what you do brother, you are loved. Red and Patsy

Great video. Now I feel like a cup of coffee...

America desperately needs more men like you

My daughter and I have gotten by on $600 a month for several years now and we pay rent. Our neighbors don't know how we do it. I agree with you. Folks often confuse WANTS with NEEDS. Our one big luxury is internet. However it is our only source of entertainment, and it comes with our only phone so for the cost I feel it is worth it. Hat off to you for standing by your wife. TY for posting.

I spent some time with Conway. I love that, live for a living.

God bless you, sir. Much respect.

I know that nobody is perfect...but YOU are a good MAN! May God continue to Bless you and your family.

You touched my heart so much with the story of your wife. I had a massive stroke 6 years ago at the age of 49 and it was the kind you either die from or left a vegetable but the Good Lord decided something different for me and I lived with very few noticeable side affects. I live in a hollar in the Appalachian mountains of KY and when I moved here my goal was to live as you do. My husband is a truck driver and he's gone a lot but he to was my guard dog through my worst days and stayed by my side through it all. Now that I'm better I have been able to plant a garden ( started small ) and last year planted 2 gardens and maintained them myself plus canned. I raise a small group of chickens and this year I plan to expand that also. I'm so glad I found your your KZfaq site and looking forward to seeing the rest of your videos.

If the soil is 6 feet or deeper geothermal venting keeps a building aird at the mean annual temp to warm in winter & cool in summer. Planting shrubs around the house also acts as insulators. Connect a greenhouse to the main house helps to heat and cool.

RESPECT! "Im just a dude." Well, you are one awesome ass dude in my book! Keep on keeping on man

John, your greeting in your videos is perfect! It gives a "welcome to my porch, sit a stay a while" feeling to your videos! One of the better moments in my day is when I see you uploaded a video. I grab a cup of coffee and sit a spell with you. You are one of the supermen of our society because of the devotion you have toward your wife and children, the love you put into making your home safe and comfortable for them. That old saying, For me and my house, we serve the Lord fits. God bless and until next time....

You're awesome man! would like to shake your hand, you sound like a good dude.

wow.if what you say is true.you are a real man.you take care of your disabled wife.and raise your kids.and you take care of your homestead which is a big job in itself.plus maintain your own self . after hearing that I had to subscribe.you are a breath of fresh air in a horrible world.wow.much respect to you and yours :-)

You are my inspiration John. I've followed your channel but don't always listen to the coffee chats...wow I'm glad I did on this one. I knew I liked you from video one on bunnies...and your fishing videos because I loved my brother so much who loved fishin & chattin. But the fact that you got started as a homesteader to nurse your wife & raise your family...wow. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself & the how-tos on your videos are great. I wanna come and buy some bunnies from you :) I saw that interview with the old timer who lived deep in the hills and told what he did for a living..."I live". lol - you sell what you can, you use your muscles when you can, you plant, you hunt, you forage, you pray and...you live.

Much respect! Keep moving forward sir!!

I know this comment is 7 years late, but thank you for posting videos and being so open in this one. This video sums up basically everything my dad taught me on our farm growing up. My dad has to take care of my mom too though my mom is not entirely handicapped she has her health issues. I have great respect for men - real men, selfless like how God intended them to be - who are willing to take care of the families God gave them. I'm away at college now, but I have a dream of starting a homestead or just adding on to my grandparents farm. Your videos fuel that dream! I'm so glad there are more people out there like my dad. Thanks again! I'll be praying for you and yours!

Now everyone knows why you are the brother of my heart!! Right from the first Video I ever saw..Love you John!!! Second week of July..Howie booked it today!

you my friend are an amazing man. i wish there were more out there like you. God bless you and your family!

I'm in awe of you. I totally respect the husband you are. I was a nurse for 27 years, I'm now disabled and just am astounded and totally blown away at you're dedication and love. What a terrific human being you are. God Bless you sir.

Jnullo, you are sooooo right about "There are no problems". In fact there is an old saying that goes like this...The problem , is not the problem, the problem is, how to solve the problem.

Glad I found your channel several weeks ago. I came across it as I was contemplating starting raising meat rabbits. I enjoy the connection on a common sense level. Here's to many more years of being successful!

I just found you and this is the first video of yours I watched, but it will not be the last. I turned 35 yesterday, and this year has been full of important changes in my life. For a couple years now I've been thinking about homesteading, but now my wife and I are starting to make plans for it. I like your way of thinking. Funny, when you mentioned "what do you do for a living," I answered outloud: "I (want to) live for a living" before you said it. Thanks for this video!!! Greetings from Croatia.

Just Wow! The power of true love right there folks!

Great message. Thanks much.

YOU SIR ARE A ROCK STAR.

What a man! This is a feel good video, I loved watching it, thank you for taking the time to make it and explain your lifestyle. I'm certain you have a better life than I do. I have a longing for a more simple lifestyle and love watching and learning from you. Keep up the great ministry. Blessings.

You are such a gift to this world and to the woman Father gave you, and your children-bless you!

I'm so interested to hear the way you started into homesteading. But never feel like you have to explain to folks how you make your living. I'm old enough to be your mother, and I would be so proud of a son with your ethics.

I have to say John that the life you chose most would not have traveled. I worked in a nursing home back in my 20's and seen families put their loved ones in there and would visit them often at first....then the visits got to where they where only once a month, then holidays till no visits at all. Really heartbreaking to watch! I said then I would never put my family in a nursing home, can't do it! I have taken care of my dad for 14 years and 9 years by myself since my husband passed. It has not been easy by no means, but you do what you have to do to make it. It's a mindset I guess is what I am trying to say John....guess some of us are wired different than others. I have been called a fixer before, guess I want to fix everything, lol! Thanks for sharing John and God Bless you and your family, xxxx

I think you should write a book! I'm serious. You should document your life every step of the way. You are an inspiration to so many people and having it all in print would not only be a wonderful resource for others, but what an amazing walk through history for your children and generations to come! That would be a wonderful legacy to leave! And, by the way, I would buy a copy! God Bless from a fellow Buckeye!

"Here lies John; a good man, father, and devoted husband."

You're a great guy! Your family members are lucky to have each other. I'm an urban homesteaders in Florida, and I began living a self-sufficient lifestyle for some of the same reasons as you. I love your channel.

Dude, you're awesome. Seriously. God Bless you and your family.

Very well said, I had to become a vegetarian, that is what I called it, when I didn't have enough money to buy food. I could afford a jar of peanut butter and a loaf of bread but that was it. I remember those days, I now can, grown my own veggies, grind my own wheat and I have one heck of a stuffed cold room, no cable tv, no cell phone and I take any job I can from babysitting to working at a gas station to help pay for the needs.I keep a list of the wants and have quite a chuckle over some of them but I have found that if you keep an open mind you may just find those wants at the local dump (yes, we can dump pick) or friends may be trying to get rid of an item that you wanted. Keep up the great videos.

Much respect, sir.

You have giving me so much inspiration to focus on living life, and enjoying life its self...Me and my wife have both worked "successful" jobs but its never fulfilling no matter how much you make. I now stay at home with my 2yr old son and my wife works..just the way things worked out..but we are on the path to living life, getting dept free, leaving the big city, buying land, and living on the land, and most important of it all focusing on the family. I just wanted to say thanks for your videos...hopefully one day i'll be doing my own starting from the beginning of our family's new life. Just keep it up, and god bless you, brother....This was always a dream for me, but you showed me it can be a reality.

When I developed MS, my hubby decided that working for a large engineering firm that sent him all over the country might not be the best way for him to take care of me. I didn't ask, I didn't even suggest such a thing, he just came home one day and said that he wanted to buy property in Colorado and get me out of the south with its shitty doctors and shittier weather. We started selling our properties in southern states and are in the process of getting a farm started, a farm for organic, heirloom apples. I am pretty sure that it will not be off grid, well not completely but since he is brilliant at what we call redneck engineering besides the real engineering I am sure he can make anything work. We are lucky in that we have plenty to start with, not so lucky that the life I knew was gone in an instant but I am very grateful that I have a husband who is not a jerk and would run off the minute I got sick. Too many times we hear those stories in the newspapers of wealthy, famous men bugging out on their sick wives.

your care for your wife, to stay by her side during the toughest part of a persons life, to teach your children its important to stay by your spouse for better or worse is not only honorable but something most people just don't understand. things get tough they just get divorce instead of honoring each other by taking care of them..... You my friend are a honorable true man among many who are just a man by the chromosomes. My grandfather after a heart attack spent 60 days in icu said during that time he saw the light and a voice saying "i sense a hesitation", grandpa told the voice "yes, my wife has been sick and I need to take care of her". he later came out of icu and spent the next 3 yrs taking care of her. She died but 4 weeks to the day he died. The lord allowed him to honor his commitment to his wife. So your story brought wonderful memories of my grandparents. thank you for sharing. . you are THE MAN.

You are a great man and Husband for sticking with your wife through illness and continuing to love cherish and take care of her! Also homesteading and going to be debt free you are great example to others.

my hats off to you brother. it sounds like you have had some tough times but made the best of it. you have an attitude that more people need to have. God bless.

You sir, are an amazing man & a true example of what a man should be like. Thank you for your example to others & for your videos to teach & share with others. I'm praying for God's storehouse of blessings to be opened for you & showered upon you & your family. May God bless you & favor you & cause others to favor you.

Glad to find you're videos. We have been homesteading for over 20 yrs and we're still learning! It's refreshing to come across someone so humble, it seems so many today are into trying to out do one another, or the ole' one upsmanship . We too believe as you, it takes time but it's so worth it to be free. We're cutting back on our electrical use, by as you said switching to LED, heating with wood, insulating, replacing windows in our 1910 farm house. The beginning of our journey was our daughter's neurologic disease and brain tumors. You nailed it, looking forward to more coffee moments and videos :)

I'm kind of in the same situation,but caring for my handicapped little sister now for 10yrs.I took care of my elderly Mom last 7yrs of her life.My daughter has helped me in the past,but she had to go back to work,so now I look after 5yr old granddaughter.I haven't had a break in 3yrs and have spent a total of 5 dollars in clothes for myself in 7yrs.I pray everyday for God to give me wisdom of how to care for my family.You are an inspiration John.I've subscribed.

What an inspiration you are. 'A penny saved, is a penny earned'. So true. Thank you for teaching us all how to live on less as well as teach us the meaning of, "where there is a will, there is a way". Your children are learning so much from your life. Not just about farming and living off the land, but how to come together as a family and work and take care of each other.

Was a 24/7/365 caregiver for my husband for 14 years until he died, after being hit by a drunk driver, and left fully disabled, so I admire ANY one who cares for a family member.

My brother died in 2011 of the exact same thing only 46 years old. Your a wonderful devoted husband. Bless you!

I really enjoyed this coffee chat. I understand what you are going through. Isn't it amazing, that through necessity, we find what we enjoy in life?

True self reliance!! Your story is inspiring! You hit a main point, it is a lot of work, this is what stops most people. Thanks for sharing, God be with you and your family!!! Lee

Amen, all I can say is Amen. I am not there yet but working towards it.

Thank you for sharing all you have in this video. You have helped and inspired us to keep moving forward. We have learned a lot from you approach and truly appreciate what you do. Thank you brother and may the good Lord continue to bless you.

Thanks brother. I needed to hear this. Whatever life throws at you there's always a solution. Thank you so much. I'm a big fan of your channel and would always check in to see new videos. God Bless you and your family.

Had to stop to say hello! I just stumbled upon your videos and I am so happy I did. Fellow homesteader here learning things as I go along and LOVE your videos! Subscribed and continuing to watch more! City girl with a big family who chose to move to the country and start homesteading! Keep doing what your doing! Have a great day!

This is a beautiful story of love and resilience. God bless you!

Watching you play around on the videos is hilarious!! But putting all that aside, you are without a doubt the hard workingest dad and hubby ive seen ina long time! May god bless you john!

Great video. Stumbled on your channel this morning and I've been immersed in it ever since. This is LIVING.

God bless you. As a business owner that basically semi retired by 38 years of age, I finally realized that a "simple" life may be more rewarding than the "rat race" many live today. I missed my children growing up as I worked everyday to give them financial freedom. Your choice in one way still gives the financial freedom, however give a true and happy life for you and your family

You're genuinely a good dude, John. You have taught me a lot, and for that I thank you. Keep on keepin on.

I believe your life lessons is a blessing to others. You have a big heart, and I appreciate you sharing with us!

Keep doing what yall are doing John. I really enjoy all of the videos you share with us. Thank you.

God bless you and your family . I just subscribed . Love your videos . We are just starting to homestead , it is slow going and worth every single blister we get . The world does need more men like you and my husband . Keep up the great work !

You are a beautiful human! I love the way you think. We need more people like you in this world. Thank you for being an example to so many others!!

God Bless you and your family..what a refreshing perspective!..thanks for sharing.

You are truly an inspiration dude. I've been wanting to start a homesteading lifestyle for a while now, but it's hard coming up with the money to start. I don't own land, so I know that's the first obstacle I have to overcome, But I feel once that is dealt with the rest will fall into place in it's own time. But hearing you talk about the same ideas I've had for a long time is inspiring. Thank you for making this video. And I'm definitely subscribing.

That was speaking from the heart! Good person, God blesses you.

What an inspiration! May God continue to bless you and your family in your journey!!!!!

You're truly an inspiration. This chat really helps me understand your story and makes me respect yinz and yours 1000x more. You're a good man and a good dad.

My husband and I are homesteaders and new to you tube. We are just getting ours up and running. We have enjoyed and learned many useful task which we use frequently. Thank you and keep the video's coming. Regina at Cowan Station Honey Farm in Kentucky.

Thank you for inspiring me and so many others. Bless you.

Wow. I just found your channel tonight and binge watched for much longer than I should've. I've really enjoyed all the videos I've watched but this one... This one hit my heart. You're inspiring and you are a prime example of the kind of men we need more of in today's society. You are a genuine and noble man, John. God bless you.

You are an inspiration! God bless you and your family!

Excellent,dedicated,loyal and determined. Im so happy to see people like ya'll...Thank you

Thanks for pumping me up. Hard day and your talk really helped. Enjoy your coffee.

God Bless you Sr!!! Your wife and family are very blessed to have a caring and special man like you!!

Amen brother! God bless you and your family. I also have started taking step to help my family and it's in part due to you and your channel. Thanks and keep up the good work.

Juno I commend you for your bravery and honesty and willingness to take on what you've done.my heart goes out to you.keep your videos coming I enjoy watching them.

Thanks for Sharing!! I understand some of your struggles and you are to be commended for how you choose to live!! Life is challenging in all ways, but the mind set you have is what makes your lifestyle so good!!

Really admire you and your family. Your'e a good solid person with good morals, kind heart, all put together with a bit of humor.

You are a wonderful person to shoulder all your responsibilities and still have such a great attitude. Bless you!

What a wonderful attitude. God Bless you sir!

Hey man! I just started watching you today and I have gained so much respect for you and what you do, your life choices and they way you see life! Keep it up brother!!

that hands up in the air bit is the friendliest thing on You Tube. I always look forward to it. makes me smile every time

Just came across your channel and listened to you in this video. You are a very inspirational man. Thank you for sharing your story. So much of what you say about life is true. It's not really about how much we have, it's about how much more we feel we need. Sending you warm wishes and blessings to you and your family from across the waves in Ireland. Stay safe.

Hey John, I respect you man. Take it a day at a time and enjoy the love! They can't buy the peace you have. Be strong and know we appreciate you a lot for sharing info. You are a survivor. God Bless!

Thank you for your strsight firward and honest approach. Thank you fir sharing such encouraging videos. You sir, appear to be a good man. Our world needs fellows like you.

Good man. I'm glad I found your channel on my journey to homesteading.

Thanks for sharing John, I think your great and one of my favorites to follow.

You are a very strong and blessed person. I admire you for what you do and have done for your family and your viewers. You make us better just by listening to your testimony of your life and faith. God will keep blessing you and your family because you are a "good man".

You are such an inspiring, and compassionate man. I am so glad that I found your channel. You are a blessing to your family and I know they are a blessing to you as well. God bless.

You're a great man John. I appreciate you.

You're awesome brother! I have much respect for you and your family. Keep on living the American dream man and doing what you want in life.

Much love & respect for you and yours from me & mine here in Western ky. I show my son your videos as an example of what a real man is. Thank you for being you.

Amazing story. Thank you for sharing. I wish you and family continued success.

Okay I've been all over the place - youtube, kindle, books, internet - and you're the first "homesteader" that I've seen that I simply adore. I'd give just about anything to pick your brain for information and tips and your experiences and what worked/didn't work what you eat and how you eat it. So happy your wife has someone who loves her as much as you do and I'm sure it goes both ways. Plus - in more ways than that - you're setting fabulous examples for those kids. Way to go my friend.

Thanks for the chat. You are a guy with integrity. Your priorities are right on target. Thanks & God bless you & the family.

You are such a special man and I am so happy to be one of your followers.

What a powerful honest video that was. I found your honesty inspiring. I love the part where you spoke about problems and solutions. Your commitment to doing what is right is beautiful. I hope all is well with you. Crys