Coach Craig Kenneth I wish I can afford a Skype with you but I have a rebound recovery cause I listen you my ex dumped me and it lasted 3 months exactly went the way you said it would go would love to tell you the story but I have my girl back please reach out

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This goes for both Dumper/Dumpee?

@@jaycreativenyc1582 I Believe yes. When you end a relationship, no matter which party you are (dumper or dumpee) , you will still have healing to do.. no matter how over it you feel.. subconsciously I believe you need some time to yourself. Time to reflect on the lessons you've learned, the things you possibly gave up or put to the side for your partner, and some time to start loving yourself again. Jumping into another relationship takes all those valuable things that you could be doing internally and externally and puts it back on the side, and you just focus on the other person again. Odds are you will have to deal with the same issues from the previous relationship in the new one anyway.. focus on you- best 3 words anyone can receive after a breakup.

Jay Hanna dumpee most likely

@@jaycreativenyc1582 the dumpee don't listen to the guy above

That’s true! However, with that being said, you’ll feel really sad when you go out and see all of the couples out and holding hands.

And oh my gosh Craig just said average rebound relationship is 4 months! LMAO

Yup four months and the rebound got another woman that was younger with less issues. But ex told rebound it was nothing serious but was upset.

My ex broke up our 5 year relationship with our 2 kids and got in a rebound a month later they made it official, my real question I'd do rebounds make it official as I want my family back

has he contacted you after breaking up with the rebound ?

You obviously do not understand anything and only talk from your own experiences and feelings.

I agree. I do not want to be a backup plan.

Or vice versa

I told my ex I wasn’t an option or a backup plan. After she tried coming back but didn’t want to work it out. So I told her I was tired of her bullshit and uncertainty. She said she loved me. Then a week later she said she’s seeing someone else lol. So I said goodbye.

@@DTHUNDERDK what do you mean by that? Should you forgive that person? just curious

naimabdulla nain it happened to me 8 years ago I was crushed he married his on and off girlfriend a month after dumping me he is still married to her she is his true love once I stepped back and figured out it was not about me and it made me stronger

naimabdulla nain I'm sorry that happened you

@@christinalewis3635 thank you. It means a lot. U know what the problem is tho? I can't make my stupid hart understand that she is gone! My stupid hart still only desire her. Pray for me and I will also pray for u. ✌️✌️✌️

Your welcome just give yourself time learn and grow from it nothing about you is stupid sometimes people have a different agenda in their mind and we just dont know what is thsnk you as well I need all the prayers I can get

Same thing happened to me the other day...

Very true, the dumper will miss too overtime.

For real? If this is true this may give me new light

@@frostbyte9770 how do you feel now

@@daspam6526 feel like crap, even start to take anti depressant..

@@guitarpeot123 don't laugh

Yep 100%

How many cases have you seen this with?

@@LG-ly7pw almost all of them

Update

Good for you man, any update so far?

Any updates man? Proud of you

Love to hear it man hope all is well

Update?

Mine didn't come back neither. It's also been two years and 5 months. I recently hacked her IG account by guessing her password. I found out she was with a guy since she dumped me. We're talking about my 7 years ex wife. She reduced the relationship from 7 years down to 2. We were boyfriends for 4 years. She only counts when we started living toguether. 3 years. Why she say 2 ? Go figure...🤣

Another metafor that should explan that a relationship will never be the same (meaning worse). But that is not true in every case. All are different. You may come out stronger. It is only your feelings, what you have experienced and believe system that decide

@@DTHUNDERDK a few might, most won´t.

@@weisthor0815 Exactly...most won't. The crumpled up piece of paper gives a good mental picture. Irreversible damage.

Im in the exact same boat. I was motivated and made great improvements but been really down about it lately. More so than before. I guess its because the hope is slowly fading away

@@brandonlango1818 Stay strong! 🙏

I’ve been in no contact for 4 months. It hurts but I haven’t had the urge to reach out like I did 4 months ago.

@@bryanunion5110 Nice to know, it gives me comfort, time is everything!

Any update?

No the real reason is people downgrade when they rebound. When they later realise it they break up with the rebound.

youtube sucks it’s been more than a year since I broke up with my ex. Now my ex wife. Whether they down grade or not doesn’t really matter. But my statement about them not changing remains true. My ex got pregnant by another young man soon after we broke up. I requested a divorced and had her take the car loan out of my name. Every interaction I had with her I hoped that she would see the changes I had made and my growth. And I had hoped she had done the same. But even to the very end she was the same. The truth is I had out grown her. Thanks to therapy, Craig, Margret, the work books, and the help of family and friends. If she’s happy with the new guy that’s fine. And if she’s not that’s fine too. Not my problem or responsibility anymore. Whether she realizes it or not it doesn’t matter to me. From what I saw she was no better off with me than with her new baby daddy. Rebounds don’t last because your ex is just using someone to hid/ignore their own issues. To run away from them. And that’s why they don’t grow. And that’s why they continue run into the same issues in new relationships. That is the truth that I learned after the break up. What mattered at the end of the day is that I am now better version of myself. The video helped me get 1 step closer to realizing that. And if any one reads this I hope it helps them get a little closer to being happy with their own personal journey of being a better versions of themselves and their own personal growth story.

Update?

I continue watching videos, and doing the workbooks each and every day. I practice everything that I have learned. I have built an amazing team of people that force me to level up and take mental notes from my renewed mindset. Growth every day.

Do you have any updates on this?

Do you have an update. Same exact thing happened to me word for word. Then, she was back with her ex the next day.

Update pls?

And now 96 in 6 minutes. The pressure 😩😂

Coach Craig Kenneth the content speaks for itself! All the videos are super insightful on relationships in general and can really help you grow as an individual. You and Margaret are awesome! 🥳

Thank you Natalie ❤️

Any update?

Update?

I don't like to deal with nobody that's just recently broken up with their ex,but I hate the fact that sometimes you don't know about the ex or the break up til you already deep in or already started to fall for that person 😢😥

how long were you together?

You win

Chances are the short term relationship was the rebound.

​@@A2Kaid This. Personal experience. Wish I had the knowledge I have now back then. She used me to lessen her pain, now shes back with her ex.

@@jeffersonribeiro1669 Sucks, good thing she persued me and spent money on me. Sucks when she went cold out of no where. Do not chase them though, you want them to think they didn't mean shit to you because you didn't to them.

@@jeffersonribeiro1669 how long were you 2 together

Mine to. After 23 years. 2 children. One was very sick so we lived together attound 8 mounths after the breakup and she started seeing someone. Dated for 4 mounths. Looks serious. But we talk and write. The funny thing is everyone I try to go smart contact and tell her she can have him. She pulls me right back. She has been sating things like: I do love you, miss you, you are the one I would like to grow old with, terapi and more. She is very confused and need time. She is stressed and is pressured from all around..... hhmmmm maybe I have a chance. Funny thing is Ireally know all I have been doing wrong because I have looked inward and work on myself. We were nat a team, bad communication and to little trust. I actually understand why she left at last.... now I am trying to show her I have changed. But it is difficult because I see her to much. She wants me close and U have told her I can't live like this. I want romance and she friendship. In my case I do belive that there is no friend zone between us. She has feelings but likes us both... i can choose to go and wait it out. But it actually looks seriously from the outside or I can show her I have changed and go for emotional connection. Building on that.Be close. But I do not know if it is to early.

Are they still together?

That is absolutely gut wrenching. I'm so sorry that happened to you. It hurts to have a breakup phonecall or even a text but to be left with nothing is just spineless. You deserve better.

Update?

@@LG-ly7pw He still with this person. But i’m glad to say i’m beyond over it and moved on! Couldn’t be any happier than i am now.

@@iislandhunny69 I’m so pleased for you. Good on you 😊🍻

Same man.. any update?

Samantha Mills They’re just going through that honeymoon phase, it’ll wear off sooner than later. He’s just trying to avoid thinking about the breakup. Anyways most relationships fail when you think about it, so just focus on yourself and finding someone better cause you deserve better :)

She will dump him

Why would he insult you? Probably to deal with his guilt for lining up another woman before breaking up with you. There's no way he met her 3 days later and started a relationship. She will likely experience his acting out and distance herself if not dump him.

The end of the relationship can't be all your fault, there's a reason why you felt insecure and that had to do with him not meeting your needs in some way. He didn't change overnight just because he's with someone else. If you can avoid seeing them as much as possible in person or on social media please try to do that.

Samantha Mills any update on your situation? I’m in an almost identical scenario :( my ex is posting pics with a new girl on social media looking very happy. I’m devastated, it’s been 2 months.

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@@whatid3782 she came back after 2 months but becareful what you wish for is all i will say.

@@whatid3782 I was very prepared but she had other plans still she wanted her cake and eat it too...i dont want to go into too much detail because it would discourage someone but my situation was a unique and isolated situation. The point is she did come back but it didn't work out and that doesnt mean it wont work out in your or anyone elses situation.

@@whatid3782 Hang in there my friend, she will be back. I thought mine had a 0 percent chance of coming back but she did.

@@gilstrap730 i hope my situation could be good as u. I really feel hopeless atm. Any tips?

What do you mean ?? Were you a long distance relationship or your ex is in a rebound that is a long distance relationship?? If it is the second one i agree

@@ruidiogo893 My Ex is in Long distance Rebound Relationship and it's been around 17 months since they're in Relationship together.

Are you with either now?

@@INeedLoad no i’m currently in a new relationship i’ve been with her for almost two years

@@bryanunion5110 Great to hear! Thanks for the reply!

🤣😂 So, my ex 1. Affair’d w/ a common law, got busted in her car in the parking lot by her hubby on their first date/ cheat, took her to a motel, she made him call me to let me know he was now hers, called me from the motel phone so I could hear motel ambiance, and he came back wanting satisfying love making from me🤣😂 2. Ghosted each other for 2 weeks and then went to another motel to drink and sex it up, lol. He came back again for better sex, lol. 3. He disappeared on a monday to live at grandmas house🤣 so they could FaceTime chat in peace🤣 then he quit drinking so he could be in recovery with her since she is not well and is an addict. 3. He surprised me and our son when he ran out of money and came back to our house, took my purse and work bags by force snapping my arms. I called 911, they acted like they were going to pick him up when another unit found him in downtown Houston, lol they didn’t pick him up or even try, they wrote a report, didn’t include my purse and work bags, and he got away. They hoteled up this time sober and we’re photographed in a pub, a saki bar and an Italian restaurant, lol🤣 4. HPD Ivestigator’s launched a felony robbery/ bodily injury arrest and arrested him a month and a half later. I filed a protective order for myself and child/ witness to the crime. He has a speeding ticket, a felony charge, is responsible for my 3 Louis Vuitton personal bags that I purchased for my job a million years before meeting him and still have proof of receipts, pictures of, and even text messages of him admitting that he took them🤣🤣 his abusive father is blind to everything and doesn’t know everything about the case so when he was harassing me via phone while his arrogant son was jail bait, I let it patiently go to VM🤣😂 maybe his pathetic son will tell him everything but he will most likely lie to his dad bc he is a disrespectful thug. I have the best criminal defense attorney in Houston as my prosecutor and I don’t really think I even need one, just wanted to make sure the pawns get pawned. It’s not his first arrest, the first one was a misdemeanor/ domestic violence, yes the system is slow in Houston, however, it gives them more time to get comfortable before part 2 drops.😘 Ps don’t tell the new hoes to run, they need to experience the lies of each other’s cheating, and they earned and deserved their place there, it’s better to let them simmer on high heat so they can experience the full effects of the rolling boil💫 Love from Houston!

@@CelebriToes hearing your story and what u go thru with all the drama and mental health u deal with from him tells people like us other have it worth I thank you for sharing, that’s asshole deserve it and as a kind heart men I wouldn’t do that to a women and make her own her mistake god will do that work

1 love from Dallas Texas you stay strong queen

She’s the best

@@CoachCraigKenneth the best, Craig, the best!!! 😁

OMG that’s the worst ever, it’s like you literally feel like a waste of time I’m going through this

I asked that same question

Darby O'Hara They were never over the ex to begin with if that's the case

You should setup a coaching call.

Im in same exact position 17 yrs gone

@@luisgonzalez1467 I'm so sorry you are going through it too my friend! 😔 Stay strong 💪

Your soulmate is someone that chooses you everyday even when times get tough. Mourn the loss of the time you spent with her but don’t mourn the loss of her. She showed her true colors and you’ll be much better off without her. Love yourself and life will become great again.

@@luisgonzalez1467 same.

I feel for you max. I'm 3 months in and kept sending one email a month being civil. She ignored me. Today she made her profile pic her and her coworker are dating. She left me for someone and that set me back further. 5 years gone. I can't take away your pain. But you aren't alone. I hope I'm stronger if she ever speaks to me again.

How long were you a rebound?

Same 🤣

Update?

T R I believe overlap is the same as a rebound. they overlap because they don’t want to be alone so they find someone to fill the void before they give up their current relationship. I consider overlapping cheating. my ex did overlapping, tried to blame me for his cheating and still had left me for her. he blamed me for the entire breakup, and belittled me so he wouldn’t feel the guilt, and I believed it was all my fault. really crappy to say the least. yes my ex is still with her.

​@@ainticute56how are you. How's it going.

Exactly same situation.

Any update? I’m going through this exact situation, she emotionally cheated for at least a few weeks, relationship ended and now 3 weeks later she posted a picture of them on a date. Feel like what they have might be the real deal, happy she’s happy but it hurts

@@jacoblindsay5281 you shouldnt feel happy for her, she disrespected you. This should motivate you to move forward and grind. Its tough but thats reality unfortunately.

Thank you for sharing. How did things go?

Any update?

How are you doing? 😢

Forhad Porag sometimes rebounds can become real relationships if it was a good relationship between you two odds are it turned into something but hearing as how they were in touch with their ex I don’t think you have a good chance honestly you deserve better for someone to use you for to get over their own emotions is dirty in my opinion but if you two had something go nc and heal from it work on yourself

Any updates on what happened after NO Contact ? @Forhad Porag

Will Holt Yes!!! Because it’s a bandaid. Avoiding processing the breakup. Textbook rebound.

@@yzwoody it has a different name. I think its monkey branching or something. There is a video about it from Rory's The Love Chat

@@youtubeKathy I have tried every way I know to get him to talk to me. Calls went unanswered, and no reply to many texts. I've finally stopped reaching out. But I really think hes done for good. We had a very strong attraction and chemistry for 6 years until he told me that its over. He himself used to say how attached we were to each other but yet he left and now plain refuses to talk to me. It hurts like hell I dont think I will ever get over this.

JAAPJXBIT yes I saw that video from Rory. and so the monkey branching could be a real relationship! I would like to have Craig’s and Margaret’s feedbacks on this subject

Will holt yes same situation I was in my ex started a relationship before dumping me only to find out years later she is pregnant and having his kid they not together anymore so do the work they always come back damage good I didn’t take my ex back reason is I can’t bare to see her like in the state she is right now smh

I am the rebound victim and I really want to know what can I do now

@@PassionateHooman Same bro

same

It happened on me as well my rebound became the guy I love most .. because it’s coming from unexpected I was thinking just having fun for few months .. now he is my ex and in a rebound, his WhatsApp profile picture is always changing basically about he had fun outdoor and recently published his new relationship on WhatsApp one week one different picture

Would love to hear an update on this, did you end up breaking up?

Eliana DiMase put him in the friend until he is completely over his ex and continue to date freely