Me too!!

yeah same here!

Yup. Same here.

When I came across Anna's stuff for the first time, I felt the same way! It was like a being in a dimly lit room and then all of the sudden the light switch got reined in and I saw how messed up the room was and I wanted out. I started (and still continue) with her "Daily Practice" and that one thing has truly gotten me on the path towards shedding the old dead destructive crap I had in my life💜You're in the right place🌈

@@sandyboffa Love your description of the light being turned on and seeing all the mess and chaos in the room 😃😃😃. This will be how I will be describing the light bulb 💡 moment when explaining this to people from now on. 👍🏾

And men . . .

Yes, definitely getting bob ross/mr rogers vibes via her soothing voice and gentle language.

​@@savioartwork ,huh? What do you mean "and men" ?

@@missgolightly5488another comment said that Anna was saving women on a whole other level & he added men too because she’s helping both genders equally😎 Hope that helps clarify & as I type I realized that mostly women write In & I’m not sure if I’ve ever heard Anna read a man’s letter, but clearly men are watching, listening & learning. I’m sure the fairy 🧚‍♀️ reaches countless people who don’t comment. God bless you 🙏

Praying for us All to Angels . We can all pray to Angels & access protection when we raise our vibration to unlimiting positive possibilities 🎶💕🙏🏼😇🌟🌠💫

Yes exactly. Feel to old and no desire for relationships, The one day is better than the merry go round of mental health treatment. Thank you for insight. It made me crazier with traditional mental health help.

Great analogy! Thanks for sharing :) -Calista@TeamFairy

@@CrappyChildhoodFairy Calista, you're my favorite co-fairy. You are so sweet.

Talking of childhood trauma.. Those wagon wheel ruts.. Can you imagine the childhood trauma that took place in those days - the slaughter, the torture and killing of prisoners by the various Indian tribes - it must have been hell on earth for so many of those early settlers (who were usually forced to relocate).

@@robinhood6954 in reality, very few were killed by belligerent Indian tribes. Something like 2%. The rest died of sickness and accidents. But trauma, nonetheless. Historical inaccuracies: they didn't circle the wagons from protection against Indian attacks. They did it to keep animals from wandering off. Trying to create a different life isn't without cost or hardship, whether it be finding virgin lands or breaking free from the "ruts" of childhood PTSD.

@@joeljoy4144 It's not so much the individual numbers but more the fact that such ordeals had to be endured by anyone - especially children - during those times. When I was staying in the Ozarks I read a book entitled 'Frontier Women', and all I can say is, they sure showed more courage and endurance than any woman has to today. We should all be grateful for having arrived in this world AFTER the worst was over (apart from all those still being duped into going out and fighting various 'orchestrated' wars of course).

69 and learning. Loved " The fairy is real."! Keep going. XXOO

57 and I so agree!!

51 and right dere witcha!

64! Working it, takes time. Grateful for This Woman

You are not alone. It has taken me years of "drive bys" to tinker with all her valuable information ❤ be well. 49 and going on🎉

Thanks for sharing, I'm so happy to hear that :) -Calista@TeamFairy

I don't know why, but I experienced it years ago too, that therapists that are really good, are rare. They should understand you, help you with reflecting and selfreflecting and encourage you like a good coach, to go for your goals in life. (Of course when they are not harmfull to others 🙂). But somehow you go there and it doesn't help much. Strange. It's the Same as everywhere...they want you to stay longer...a woman told me, she would be in constant therapy since 17 years. Uhg...usually you don't get payed that long by the insurance in Germany. Even in our ,social, system, you can get usually at maximum 50 sessions and then you have to wait two years, to get new sessions payed. Maby in worst cases it's different, I don't know. But of course 50 is much, if they would get used efficiently! What they aren't usually. And the other thing is, until you get just a place by a therapist, you wait from three months to a year. Mostly half a year. And when you really need help irgendly (dringend), than you have to wait never the less. And it's not said at all, that the chemistry then, between the thetapist and you is fitting or that it is helpfull. And Here is a lot about insurance reasons missleaded unecessary therapies too. Another woman told me, that she is only physical i'll because of parasites and worms that were found in her liver etc. Doctors Long time didn't find out, why she got so many foodallergies, fatigue, pain in her body etc. It ended up by this, that she couldn't Work anymore. Now she found a private to pray doctor, that can and is going to help her. But that the insurance pays her time, when she can not work, she had to go to the psychotherapist. Allthough she and the therapist said, she doesn't need nor want this sessions! But she has to go, because they think, she just would have a psychological problem. Hm. Imagine, they pay for her sallary/income and waste a lot of money to her sessions where she don't want to go. And others with huge psychic problems have to wait a year, to get her therapy place. I tell you, German (or elsewhere) logics are strange and uneconomically.

TY for this Wisdom. Often I have been my worst enemy.. Now I see Why..I must get free from rutted rotten beliefs and pay the price of transformation. I am worth it

Sometimes I have the feeling, it's to much wadhed over. I mean by that, that sometimes children do mistakes too and even tough ones. So it's ok and understandable, when parents, teachers and all that, get angry and say stop. But the thing is, how they do it. And another thing is, when parents are psychological ill and dysfunctional and traumatized themselves and then are behaving like shit, ignorant and cruel to their kids, because they don't feel well! And not because the Kids did something bad. So the crappy thing is, when kids get harmed out of nothing. Or allthough something is Not their fault. In healing from trauma, WE should see and reflect clearly, what Others did and what WE did. As an example: I was raised in a toxic and dysfunctional family. They were most of the time. My parents were often nasty narcistic and so on, I don't go into detail now. That was very bad for me! I remember, I was a few times also not nice. I did tell my mother, she didn't cook well, when she didn't or I found the food too boring. Yes, I wased before, while and after that criticised by her a lot. So I was used to this form of criticising each other. But because I was born as an empath and with big spiritual heart, I only rarely criticised her like with the food. Most of the time I helped her, took care of my siblings, made the household and tried to solve their marriage problems. So I parented them. Because they didn't parent me and us so well. The point is to ask oneself: Where did I really do mistakes too? Where was I mean to another one? Were do I wanna be better in contact with others, Like clearer, but friendly and empathetic, even if they behave strange? When we are more self healed, we can help others better to get out of their missbehaviour by staying clear, friendly and calm. So if a mother says here: uh....my children are so this and that. Hm. You are older then them. You were there before they were there. How did you treat them? What were you as a role model to them? And only because you had trauma, they are kids and they don't have to parent you, even if you had to parent your parents. (Just in case). Because it's the false direction of WHO is for whom responsible. Traumatized mothers or parents forget that or don't know this and mix it through. But if you are the mother, you are responsible and not your child. OK, of course can narcistic character roule there too, If a child got used from a narcistic parent to hurt the other parent. But hey: it's good to think of, what is a healthy direction of responsebility and how looks a healthy role acting of a mother, of a father and what should a child may experience and live like? Victims often go into this,me me me, thing too, as narcistic people do. And don't ask the kids how it was to have you as a parent and what they missed. So yes, heal yourself frst and be allow yourself to cry over it. Or to be angry, but under the anger isactually sadness and disapointment. Then, after you only have focused on what others did to you, look what you did to others and where you failed ir. And if very healed and strong, one can connect with one by one child and ask: how are you ? How was your childhood for you with me as mother or father? And don't defend yourself. Just listen and after that you can Tell your (adult) child, what you have been through and what your problems were. And that you are sorry for haven't or couldn't have done it better at that time. Do say sorry!

So glad to hear this! I'm curious -- how have your views changed?

I too have been listening/watching a lot. I’m hopeful this will shed some light through this wall I have been building to protect myself.

Meaning what I thought was normal, I can see now was not healthy and why we are the way we are. But even though it wasn't my fault, it is my responsibility to heal!

How are you doing? Your comment is so touching.

Good of you to own it. 😁 I realized I've been an expert in this Crap-Fit area, too.

Boom! Great work just saying it! -Cara@TeamFairy

Same here. And I've just realized that. 👍

Feeling this

I think the Daily Practice will be beneficial for you. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. We're all rooting for you! Nika@TeamFairy

@@CrappyChildhoodFairy thank you

Same in Germany. There is behavioural therapy, deep psychology after C.G.Jung etc. And nearly no traumatherapy/therapists that are financed by insurances. The few traumatherapists that are here, work private. So it seemed to me like the government (or who it orchestrates), is only focused on the different symptoms and results (illnesses), than on to heal the roots of it, the trauma experiences. So I am glad to have found this channel.

her voice is so comforting! i agree! ❤

Wow, that's amazing! Thank you for taking the time to comment, I'm sure Anna will want to read this. -Calista@TeamFairy

That's amazing! I'm so glad the channel has been helpful :) -Calista@TeamFairy

Agreed

Hugs. You're with us now.

Thank you so much for sharing a few of the details about what the DP is like. This is so helpful to people who are thinking about it, but having trouble believing anything so simple could make difference. I'm so glad you're here!

❤

I'm so happy to hear that! Thanks for commenting, I'm sure Anna will want to read this :) -Calista@TeamFairy

The mistress thing is something actually only men can do. Cause a mother won't have two different households in two cities and children with each. 😮 But women can have kids with several men and do as if they were from the man they are with. As I heared, this happened too, of course a lot during wars...and from time to time still will happen everywhere. But No matter which way, this is painful for the kids as they find out and at the end hurts all. Or makes ill. Sick relationships cause a lot of chronical illnesses.

Working out those fears and resentments is the way to go! We have more support in our membership, lots of people who are caring for parents which requires a lot of support! bit.ly/CCF-Membership -Cara@TeamFairy

Oh, I wish you all strength to help your granddaughter! What a gift to her that you work on your own healing!

My granddaughter is a gift to me! I Love her so much I would do anything to make her or me better! Thanks for y'alls kind words of encouragement.❤

Moving along I agree ❤

Ohhhh Amen girl! You're wayyyyy ahead of the game as I'm almost 65 and just found Anna a week ago! I watch her all day every day and am working the daily practices now. Already going out and about and to the gym, so encouraged about getting back Into the business of life!!! Thank you Anna!!!

@@danniolsen1960 I'm late 40's and feel like I've wasted my whole life away. So glad you are doing well, you've inspired me.

Me too! And I do the daily practice and continue to watch all the videos and do see a therapist every week for 10 years now! Honestly, what’s it going to take?! 😢

Same , and it's difficult ! ❤

At the age of 57, I am still struggling with letting go of a very long time chaotic and broken relationship 😟

I'm so glad!

Samsies

Yes iam so isoleded and lonly .

Thank you for your kind words! I'm so glad you're here :) -Calista@TeamFairy

@@CrappyChildhoodFairy Well kind words is all that someone should have for someone like yourself that has done so much for me and everyone else for years I can't imagine the hours and hours of work and research for me and everyone like us .Hope to actually meet you someday thank you so much for being so pro feel so lucky to have found you .God Bless ..Bryan P / The Lone Stranger 🌞

Thank you Ana. I'll be doing live workshops this spring in U.S. and Europe. Maybe you live close to one of the cities? bit.ly/40GTJwD

Where about in Europe? Hope in Northern Europe 🤗

Scars deep doesn't it ❤

And that weight , feels as heavy as lead , you can transform this though I promise you the first step is seeing it. You're om the road x❤

Wow, I'm so glad you found the channel! We're all rooting for you :) -Calista@TeamFairy

@@CrappyChildhoodFairy Thank you.

I'm so glad it was helpful :) -Calista@TeamFairy

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You can heal , start by looking into your own eyes in the mirror, it gets better ❤

You are so welcome!

I feel the same ❤

Thank you for this sweet comment, Patricia! TeamFairy

You are most welcome! -Calista@TeamFairy

Welcome to the Channel! -The Fairy Team