If you are in a custody battle with someone with a narcissistic personality disorder, this is some great information and advice from Alex Falconi who won his own custody battle with a narcissist. commandthecourtroom.com
When the other parent in your custody case has NPD, it can result in a toxic battle. You need to be educated on how to beat them and protect your child. Alex the Proper Person went through a custody battle with his ex-wife who has a narcissistic personality disorder.
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Underneath the hood, people with NPD are just junkies and addicts and they're addicted to the conflict. You’re dealing with almost like an animal that can't help themselves. You end up having to annihilate them because if you don't, they'll annihilate you and your child. It's just the way that they work. Once they start to get attached to the narcissistic supply they usually can't let it go.
Winning a Custody Battle with a Narcissist
1. Learn the grey rock method. (a practice where an individual becomes emotionally non-responsive and virtually acts like a rock. Emotional detachment serves to undermine a narcissist's attempts to manipulate, causing them to grow uninterested and bored)
2. Become a master of communication. Hone your communication skills.
3. Anticipate their response
4. Don't be like them. You have to be crystal clear because these guys are masters of obfuscation and confusion. What they like to do is try and get you to do the same thing which just causes mass confusion.
5. Take all the emotion out of analyzing the NPD. This is NOT Good vs Evil.
6. Become a machine. Communicate with them in a way that gets the information you need to win your next motion in your custody case.
7. Curtail their parental rights
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Somebody with NPD will either attach themselves to a conflict or they'll avoid conflict. Most of the time narcissists avoid conflicts. Most of the time it's preferable to a narcissist to just cut someone off instead of engaging in an argument and conflict. But once they choose that they're going to fight it ends up becoming what is called a “narcissistic space” for them. Then they start to garner narcissistic supply for it and from it and then it becomes an addiction.
If you're going to protect your child against a Narcissistic Personality Disorder and they're attached to the conflict of their custody case you’re going to have to curtail their parental rights as much as you possibly can. It’s sad but it's what you have to do.
Narcissistic Traits:
-Narcissists are either winning and they're the hero or they’re losing and they’re the victim
-Narcissists only understand and respond to are force, power, and authority
-Narcissists don't understand kindness, benevolence, sincerity, or authenticity
-Narcissists are gifted at spinning what is happening so that they look like the victim
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