Dad Jumps Daughter's Bully's Dad To Teach Her A Lesson |

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Gary Owen

Ай бұрын

I mean I get it, but not in front of the kids
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@benstolen4478 29 күн бұрын

My son got bullied in middle school, he knew where the kid lived, but not the exact apartment. I must have knocked on 50 doors that evening.

@oarabileseoke4141 28 күн бұрын

Tell us more brody 🤣

@Lonewolfe80 27 күн бұрын

You didn't.

@gamerzay69 23 күн бұрын

Don’t get shot over a lil bullying now cuh, gotta outsmart a bully.

@jackmash9458 29 күн бұрын

“Now u know your actions have consequences” aye😂😂 “lemme be yo mentor since yo daddy don’t teach u shii” Kendrick Lamar.

@Dubriginal 29 күн бұрын

My kid was bullied and the school wouldnt do anything and the police didnt do anything. So i went to the school and asked to bring the parents of the bully so i can straighten it out.” They wouldn’t, so i said “if this bully is not moved out the class or suspended this week, i will go to the administration and get you fired. It was handled.

@bigpauleemarine3236 29 күн бұрын

He tried to get him to stop his kid to stop being a a bully now the dad had to take that ass whipping!

@ebonyevaughn 28 күн бұрын

It’s the “get some therapy, you’ll be aight.” 😂😂😂😂

@imperfectlyperfect3961 28 күн бұрын

😂😂😂not funny but funny 😂😂😂

@beautifulba_kmay5369 28 күн бұрын

Took me out

@haamidsharif4974 29 күн бұрын

The father whose child was bullied, was right in stepping to the bully’s father, and giving him a beat down. Make sure you have backup just in case everything might not turn out the way you think it should. Having backup help is called beat down insurance. Remember the saying, “ it’s better to have your backup help and not need it, than having no backup help and really need it.

@dannys2cute4yuh 28 күн бұрын

No, it wasn't backup they jumped him!! They jumped him for "full effect" to show the girl life isn't fair.

@VS9050909 27 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@YaBoyMike76 28 күн бұрын

My step daughter kept getting touched by some kid on the bus last year. So I taught her how to throw a straight right as hard as possible, like we repeated that one punch for a week straight since since my girlfriend decided to drive her to school after asking him to stop didn’t work or talking to the bus driver. Fast forward she gets back on the bus and he starts with the bs. She punched him straight in the nose, hasn’t had a problem since 🤷🏾‍♂️

@buffalosoldier19d42 26 күн бұрын

Everybody has a plan until you get punched in the face.🤕😂

@211enlightenment 28 күн бұрын

A boy pushed me when I was a kid. Mom heard my scream and she saw me on the ground (I tore a muscle). Mom just slapped the boy and then she stared at the boys father and growled at him. Picked me up and took me to the doctor. Highlight of my life: I felt protected. My mom was a terror when it came to her kids. Dad was the softy.

@gamerzay69 23 күн бұрын

Yo mama was Standing on business

@RandomRoger 29 күн бұрын

I wish Charlie Murphy was still with us. Because I would love to hear what he would say about something like this.

@oarabileseoke4141 28 күн бұрын

He'd share a crazy story related to that also 🤣🤣🤣

@zanobiaj1019 29 күн бұрын

I was the bully Gary at my elementary school in Cleveland Heights, Ohio. It was called Coventry elementary. Your absolutely right my parents would argue a heck of alot and I would go to school and "act out". I ran into a classmate years ago and I asked him what happened to "S" and he said oh she doing really good she's a police officer now. That made me so happy. I really would like to apologize to all the lil girls that I would bully and make cry from the depth of my heart. 🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🌹✝️🌹

@JP-hj1il 28 күн бұрын

She's bullying other people now as a cop. They attract the bullies and those that were bully with revenge attitude due to their trauma. Sorry but that's part of the data on cops.

@t-and-p 28 күн бұрын

As strange as it probably sounds, it might be worth popping onto social media, seeing if you can find any of the kids you bullied, and sending them a message apologising. I say this because a friend (that I met through work) was bullied badly at school and it really affected her into adulthood. One day, she came into work and she'd received a message from her former bully, via Facebook, apologising and saying she'd realised how cruel she had been, explaining why she'd done it, and finishing with "I understand if you can't forgive me, but I want you to know that I'm truly sorry for any pain I caused you". Meant the world to my friend. She was a little shaky the day she got the message, but then we all saw her sort of grow in confidence after that. It was healing for her. She's now friends with her former bully and both of them found the whole apologising and forgiving thing to be really therapeutic. Might be worth a go? Not only could you right a wrong, you might also find some peace for yourself along the way 💕 Wishing you all the best 💖 (And it takes guts to admit when you're wrong. Good on you for this post 😎)

@zanobiaj1019 28 күн бұрын

@t-and-p oh yes of course. I never had Facebook but I tried it this year and absolutely hated all the pop ups. A lil aggravating for me. But it was only 2 lil girls. But I totally understand your viewpoint. God has forgiven me all my sins. And if it's meant to be it's meant to be but thanks for your comment it means alot.

@gamerzay69 23 күн бұрын

@@t-and-pWhat a great comment, don’t come across that often.

@t-and-p 23 күн бұрын

@@gamerzay69 That's really kind of you to say - much appreciated 💕

@phillyguerrilla 27 күн бұрын

"Life is not fair. You get jumped by responsibilities everyday."

@chuckdre1399 28 күн бұрын

Ain't saying it's right, but I understand 😂 Gonna Learn Today!!!

@micahwest2793 28 күн бұрын

You definitely do it in front of the kids. They gon learn today 😂

@gamerzay69 23 күн бұрын

Lmao family beef for life

@lonewolf36s 29 күн бұрын

Perfect logic and morality in my opinion. How do you teach a child to care about other humans? You can't. They have to WANT to care. Give them a reason to care, and they might learn to. Surely the child cares about their own father. Otherwise, this becomes an entirely different topic (psychopathy / sociopathy)

@R.A.A. 28 күн бұрын

1. Your personal opinion is not a fact, correct ? 2. Did you as a child WANT to care about other humans ? 3. What did your learn about yourself from the previous two questions ? I decided to show you how instead of presuming to know better, why ? *ACTIONS* speak louder than *WORDS.*

@OceanSideO 28 күн бұрын

@@R.A.A. They did say in their opinion not as a fact.

@R.A.A. 28 күн бұрын

@@OceanSideOSay ?

@OceanSideO 28 күн бұрын

@@R.A.A. OP comment mentioned that it's just their opinion, not a fact that you brought up. I don't think they were saying it as a fact.

@lonewolf36s 28 күн бұрын

@@R.A.A. Strange hostility. 1. Depends. All opinions are rooted in perception. Facts are derived by evaluation (of which you do not, on any level). 2. I did personally. Also a big animal lover. 3. I learned about myself just now, that my IQ is far higher than that of certain people on youtube. I'm not sure how I personally am supposed to Act on anything on this topic. Are you sober and sane? As per #1 (expanding on it) - you didn't ask if I evaluated my position on this topic. But if you had, I would've given some real life examples proving my case. You have no clue what I've been through, how can you possibly articulate what my thoughts are comprised of and therefore assume what is or isn't fact? I stand by what I said. I believe this was a correct moral decision, which will positively impact the child in the short and long term. ACTIONS have CONSEQUENCES. :P Little girl learned that bigtime. I know better than to respond to weak trolls. But here you go, you asked for it! I'll let you have the last word, cya some other time.

@loahmadaidid1986 29 күн бұрын

😂😂😂 Get some Therapy Yu be Alright.

@plpa8250 29 күн бұрын

My son has been boxing and wrestling since 6 years old. But the bullying has evolved nowadays. Bullies don't even need to be big. They can bully through social media or gang up on one kid. But a lot of school now have inadvertently put in protections for the bully, not the ones being bullied.

@cameronestrada2857 29 күн бұрын

Very interesting. What do you mean?

@deidrequeen3288 28 күн бұрын

That's not bullying. That's called teasing. Tell your kid to sock the dog ish out of the ring leader. It'll stop. I'm pretty sure you know this

@alexanthony7235 28 күн бұрын

“It was Friday so i couldn’t get to him…. So he lives right next door to me…” 😂💀

@dontaerussell3397 29 күн бұрын

Dad would've been feeling a way had him and brother caught some hot shit..

@bladebrowntv7822 28 күн бұрын

And these bullies can catch some hot shit

@Mr.Ratchets 21 күн бұрын

Dead Ass

@danielinthelionsden654 29 күн бұрын

Just finished watching Gary Owen’s on Shay Shay and it hit my heart!!! I come from 6 straight generations of Pastors I ended up being a gang member and was in Corcoran Prison called gladiator school in the 90’s look that up! I had to come to grips with the 5th commandment honor your mother and father so your days will be long meaning BLESSED! Notice it doesn’t say to love them if they’re good but even if they are evil you must forgive them otherwise you will do the same and not be in their life! Gary you have to forgive your dad and the moment you do God will allow your kids to forgive you!!!

@zanobiaj1019 29 күн бұрын

Amen. 🙏🏽✝️💯

@La_ilaha_illallah__ 28 күн бұрын

The SHU and the green book CO's.

@drb996 29 күн бұрын

Reminds me of the scene in True Detective when man's knocked on the door and beat the bully's dad while forcing the son to watch.

@misterdaddy4240 29 күн бұрын

Psychopath tendency

@nightwolf235 28 күн бұрын

same thing I was thinking lol

@charlesleighton8015 28 күн бұрын

I've always told my son if your getting bullied he has to fight back he's never had fight before he's just not that person then 2 weeks ago I got dragged into the school because there was an issue it turns out 2 bullies decided to give my lad a kicking and my son fought back and broke both bullies noses lol you couldn't make it up. I'm one very proud dad lol.

@jogonzo7509 29 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 dont give her therapy, justice take its course

@mango1769 28 күн бұрын

Moral of the story is, always stay strapped.

@user-gu6bn2tx5p 29 күн бұрын

He ain’t have to jump him. That’s my only issue. Not Tht it matters lol

@MountainsBreath 28 күн бұрын

It does matter he’s a coward

@tolkienblack 28 күн бұрын

He explained that too😂 “we get jumped by responsibilities every day” he was teaching her the lessons her dad wasn’t

@user-gu6bn2tx5p 27 күн бұрын

@@MountainsBreath I meant my opinion don’t matter lol

@DJKevvyKevCoolBreeze 27 күн бұрын

"I don't know where I stand on this" is the most intelligent thing you can say. It's a HIDEOUSLY complicated situation, and if you don't get that there are multiple ways to handle this, with multiple degrees of effectiveness, in Multiple Directions, you shouldn't have kids. Period.

@doaver2.125 29 күн бұрын

I had to confront a kids whoever. kid was messing with my sons, who are all small. I don't know who that guy was, he could have been the father, the uncle or step dad. I told the guy what was going on and I asked him to rectify calm and I told him that if I had to come back over here again, there will be no conversation. The dude held his tongue and that kid no longer messed with my sons.

@user-kt5mr8ig9j 28 күн бұрын

Yes, props to the pops

@cdblackjr9414 28 күн бұрын

Gary answered the question like he might lose his platform. 😂😂😂

@user-lh5jv8ku4i 27 күн бұрын

I 😂😂😂😂😂 I know that car ride was quiet

@pidouble145 26 күн бұрын

I didn’t know he talked to the parents and the daughter too before jumping him. He gave a fair warning. He’s good with me

@ehlersjim12 5 күн бұрын

We had a couple boys start hanging out near our house. My two daughters were 12 & 13. So the boys were teasing the girls. From my living room, I saw one of them boys throw a water balloon from clear across the street and bean my kid right on top of her head. She runs in the house ballin. I did my best rooster walk across the street staring down the kid who look frozen. I got right up on top of him and leaned into his face and said "Hell of a shot, you could not make that shot again in a million years". Turned out to be a good kid who would come around even after High School.

@HeavyGee84 29 күн бұрын

That’s a sick t shirt. 10000 likes for Gary to sell them

@robertodoes 26 күн бұрын

Bro imagine you get yo ass kicked because of your daughter and your daughter just sits there like "damn dad you embarrassing me"

@therealrobbierob 29 күн бұрын

Dad of the year!!!!

@mambamentality9119 29 күн бұрын

Yeah I agree I don’t have enough information to know how to feel about this situation.

@chi7818 28 күн бұрын

I have all the information I need to agree with the dad. He went to the school, he sent letters home, he met with the bully and her dad and nothing happened. He went through the proper channels and they failed. Then he brought his brothers for insurance. Don’t see a problem here. The bully’s dad is just as responsible since he was made aware of the situation and did nothing about it so he got his ass beat.

@edwinarowan962 28 күн бұрын

I had a situation like this with one of my kids. The school would contently tell us we have no tolerates for bullying. But it continued. I went to the police station and explained the situation they said couldn't really anything. I suggested for a officer go to the bully's house and frighten the parents and child to stop or we'll come back and you'll deal with consequences. It worked!

@sharronjones1017 29 күн бұрын

Definitely approved! He went to authorities but they failed.

@misterdaddy4240 29 күн бұрын

Auth r the cops dumbace

@asiathompson4006 28 күн бұрын

This is the Billy's villan origin story

@NM-xr9pi 26 күн бұрын

Dad of the year. My mom eventually took a restraining order taken out against a girl that bullied me and then attacked my grandma when she couldn't get at me.... Yes, my grandma. My mom had enough and pulled up at her house and told her mama to come out so she can break her hip... My mom snapped because she felt like even the restraining order would not helpand decided to take matters into her own hands.

@Kennygrhm1 28 күн бұрын

Gary,off subject. I watch the “Think like a man” and “Think like a man too”…get with the guys and do a third part ten years laterrr. Gotta cap off this series. It’s much needed for us that love you guys. Keep on keeping on. The world needs you bub keep ya head up and best wishes for all the success you desire brother

@aviasilas2255 26 күн бұрын

Parents ABSOLUTELY need to get involved!!! If there weren’t so many absentee parents there’d be a lot less, if any, school shootings! Get involved, parents! ESPECIALLY since schoolboards/staff are either not cut out for kids anything or too chickenshit to stand up to student and/or parent! Get involved, parents!

@marving27 28 күн бұрын

My 5 year olds class had a bully. Bully was the largest kid in the class and would just make their rounds and bully almost all the kids throughout the first semester. We spoke to the teacher, the principal and nothing changed. Bully just moved on to the next kid. I see the parents at pick up, and there are problems at home. I heard the bully tell her dad "i got in trouble today for kicking a kid." The dad's response...."That's ok." I kind of side with the dad in this story. Some parents don't talk to their kids and just ignore any problems. Sometimes you have to bring the problem to them so they can't ignore it.

@Scottie1shot 28 күн бұрын

F&@k yeah 💯 approve that 😂😂😂

@demetreusd.robysr.8446 26 күн бұрын

Not mad at it. I don’t know why we act like our children aren’t more important to us that other people and their children. touch my daughter or son and your whole family has a debt to pay. even if it means I have to go to jail, and i believe family feuds are necessary.

@bigpauleemarine3236 29 күн бұрын

Right if the kids at school saw it now it can open a whole mother can of worms!

@Lifeislifin 10 күн бұрын

No, the father asked the school, the parents and nothing happened. Soooooooo, the daddy did what was necessary. That child don’t want to see her daddy get beat up every time she bullies the other fathers child so stop bullying. He ain’t wrong my momma would have done the same. Real talk 😂😂😂😂😂

@brokentillman4346 28 күн бұрын

My father was airforce during Korea, stepdad was navy WW2. Rule was if someone hit me and i didn't fight back, then i had 2 more ass whoopins coming. 1 when i got home and 1 when i saw my father. 7th grade been terrorized by same 4 boys two yrs. I was obese with glasses and braces. Snapped one day and sent one home for a couple o days. Over 60 people, students and faculty members defended my actions that day.

@xavierbuckner9974 29 күн бұрын

just got them KC tickets, see ya soon Gary

@MelanieFMPack 25 күн бұрын

My son who was 8 at the time was being bullied on the bus by a 12 year old. I tried the school, his cousins on the bus, the driver. Finally I went to his house and asked his stepdad to talk the boy, I'd tell my son not to bother the boy also. Needless to say the stepdad took care of it.😊 It's not my kids fault what happens at home and the girl probably won't bully anymore.

@Deshawn_Digital 28 күн бұрын

Keep going Gary

@KinkyXristian 28 күн бұрын

I was like 11 and my bully was a 13 year old boy.... My mom called him out at the bus stop. She grabbed him by his shirt and told me to punch him. I didn't want to so she tossed him in the bushes and told him to get his mother. His mother was a stoned drunk who didn't even react to the incident. My mom felt pity for the kid and we actually became sort of friends. Bullying stems from somewhere...

@adriangilbert5364 27 күн бұрын

Don't blame him. Once I find out my kid is being bullied it's not gonna just go on. Somebody's getting fixed.

@jonbrooks8343 29 күн бұрын

Did the Bullying stop?

@YungJavoCoopmusic 27 күн бұрын

The more you bully the more your daddy get beat up. It's up to her😂

@BruceLee-rc2dr 28 күн бұрын

Had a similar situation. The dad was right. You protect your family at all cost. It also helps to have a bunch of Albanians on your side that love you like a brother and would do anything for you.

@myleskennedy7733 28 күн бұрын

If the kids are in the same grade. My child would have to learn to handle it. If the bully is much older Then I would intervene

@hgwells6202 29 күн бұрын

Man I want GARY OWEN ON MY SOFTBALL TEAM!!!!

@theresadavis5440 28 күн бұрын

Once you recieve no help from school or parents what you gonna do? Kid got a huge dose of reality. Messed around and found out.

@ImYourHostVick3 29 күн бұрын

That father was well within his right into what he did. Parents have to be held responsible at some point. I know one thing that little girl will never bully anyone again.

@MrBblank05 28 күн бұрын

People with nothing to lose resort to violence

@renatathornburg1241 25 күн бұрын

Very right

@leratomusi4595 28 күн бұрын

I approve 👌🏼 that dad did great

@raykarena4595 16 күн бұрын

Can't fault the father over that

@crakajack9585 29 күн бұрын

Him and his brothers jumped the dad they mobbed um

@lfloyd2964 22 күн бұрын

Here's the thing: society today does not allow kids to handle their own. If your kid knocks a bully out, he/she is going to alternative school or worse, juvie for defending themselves in most cases

@rallerufs 28 күн бұрын

I've got so many more questions now wtf Gary lol

@erickmartinez9850 29 күн бұрын

Wait, what if his daughter was the instigator got her a** beat then claimed to be bullied. Growing up, I would see this a lot. Kid's crossing lines then get checked in front of the school. Campus security, takes them both to the principals office. Now, the kid makes up a story to not be in trouble with their school and parents. We're just getting 1 side of the story. So whoever records their crimes 1st is automatically believed because he did something stupid. Now, he's going to face assault charges, because there were kids present there's going to be child endangerment charges, CPS can the kids away the little girl is not going to have a daddy for a long time. Fighting a case costs a whole lot of cash, and then the program he has to register in costs a sh*t load of money, restitution he could lose everything if he gets sued, do id*ts out there really think he was right in any way. Of course not, he was wrong, and he put his family's well being at risk. There's always a way, we just have to be smarter and more persistent.

@stephaniedillard5916 28 күн бұрын

He said he addressed the parents.

@High_iAm 28 күн бұрын

Dad that got jumped gonna catch him 1 on 1 n kick his ass lol

@user-hf6sh1dg7w 28 күн бұрын

That dad was 100% in the right. Lesson's had to be taught.

@coldwarfare0078 28 күн бұрын

Schools say they have a zero tolerance policy but yet they don’t do anything about this type of stuff.

@kinglileverything 28 күн бұрын

Listen he gave them warnings to stop. You protect your kids at all levels. Shes knows her dad got her covered

@shataviaharris4341 28 күн бұрын

So I heard the dad say several “attempts” and anyone who cares about their child would be war ready but he tried to do the right thing. The method that worked unfortunately was having to result to violence. Bullying is bullying which can lead to mental and physical trauma regardless of the level. Dude basically prioritized his daughter over someone else.

@18Socrates18 27 күн бұрын

Fair play

@lornegreen6755 28 күн бұрын

I wish I had parents like that as a child. I’ll be a better parent to my daughter than I had

@zanobiaj1019 29 күн бұрын

I play chess Gary. 🙋🏽‍♀️. Since 5 yrs. old. But everybody beats me now.

@firefly611 24 күн бұрын

What if the daughter don’t give af about her dad tho? 😭

@RockwithAj 2 күн бұрын

Right or get even worse because her dad got beat up. She might bully the hell out of her the rest her life.

@Noone-jn3jp 29 күн бұрын

DONT POST CRIMES!!

@therealrobbierob 29 күн бұрын

You must be the bullies dad!!!! LOL

@Thrashsquatch 29 күн бұрын

Hahahaha

@brettjones8541 28 күн бұрын

DONT BE A KAREN!!

@toddstraley5346 28 күн бұрын

Snowflake

@kinglileverything 28 күн бұрын

Where's the crime

@bladebrowntv7822 28 күн бұрын

Welp , you gotta do what you gotta do

@user-uk6fj2qs3f 29 күн бұрын

Gary… I know you just briefly read the deets while we were listening but.. you missed the mark on this one… he said they tried to talk to the school and they sat down with the parents at the school and basically they tried to exhaust all avenues before taking it this far.. and that was the entire point was her watching… he wasn’t apologizing sincerely that he’s sorry she had to see that he wanted her to see.. it was like ok if you keep bullying my daughter Jo matter what and no one not even the school or your parents will stop you let me show you this hard life lesson early in bc I don’t play about mine …. That’s pretty much the gist of it 🤷🏻‍♀️

@josephbyrd553 29 күн бұрын

That's some true crime shit

@jameswilloughby1081 28 күн бұрын

Education system has turned a blind eye through fear of something like this happening to one of their Teacher's by an angry parent and the powers that be offer no protection if a Teacher uses his or her authority when situations like this happen Teachers know this so fail to act when a child is being bullied Which leads to a situation resulting in a farther beating up another farther because a Teacher's fear to do what was necessary thus failing the child

@GojosBackHand 27 күн бұрын

Well guess who just caught a felony and 15 year jail time.

@magacop5180 26 күн бұрын

Who?

@scottallen5269 28 күн бұрын

Jimmy supa fly snuka was the best!!!

@saracash7959 28 күн бұрын

I don’t think he wrong. My daughter got bullied. The principal and teachers wouldn’t do anything. So, I told the principal I need to meet the parents. After that it stopped.

@lilpaulettenthegang7869 29 күн бұрын

I did the same thing. lol

@murdex2267 26 күн бұрын

Paws..? Wtf. Is he an animal. Lol

@ithinkigottalent4047 29 күн бұрын

Good Lord! Scary!

@cnemekiabrown5580 29 күн бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@misseve6969 28 күн бұрын

Didn't he go to the school with the other parents nothing has been done, how many times do you have to complain to get it to stop. So yes he made his point

@BrothersChambersShow 28 күн бұрын

Jimmy "Super Fly" Snuka, I mean is it really a question?

@lorddreus4785 29 күн бұрын

He could've fought the dad one on one he didn't teach that other child nothing but to go get more people. I have seen stuff like this before and when the other side comes back and retaliates because they most likely will everyone please have that same energy. Nobody learned anything in this but stay off the Internet with the $#!πs

@obeliskjiren9129 28 күн бұрын

What if your daughter gets bullied worse

@YungJavoCoopmusic 27 күн бұрын

Then the dad will get beaten worse eventually the dad will have to force his daughter to make a change

@tlguyton 28 күн бұрын

Bottom line: don’t be a bully.

@BOICLUTCH 26 күн бұрын

Usually people don't risk going to jail unless something serious must've happen. if my brothers is willing to go to jail, prison for potentially unaliving the guy accidentally with me, that says alot. Idk if people remember Mckenzie Adams, 9 year old who took her own life because she was getting bullied. I rather hear a story about a father beating up a guy than a child giving up on life dawg.

@thegawdvegito4260 29 күн бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@killgronia5815 28 күн бұрын

Or you go over and a 💥 breaks out and no one wins. At least in my hood.

@beautifulba_kmay5369 28 күн бұрын

I don’t see the problem🤷🏾‍♀️

@mr5.56Gang 15 күн бұрын

It was necessary the bullly kid most likely gets bullied at home by the dad or older siblings and take that frustration on smaller kids my dad taught me to help the kids that get picked on i was a bully ass kicker

@russca67 28 күн бұрын

LMAO I'm not mad.... not saying that's the way to handle it but hey sometimes you have to give it to somebody to get your point across. A time for talking can run out