Gary Owen Hasn’t Seen Kids In 3.5 Years Since Divorce & Welcomes Twins: "It’s a nightmare"
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Күн бұрынGary Owen Hasn’t Seen Kids In 3.5 Years Since Divorce & Welcomes Twins: "It’s a nightmare"
"Didn't think I wanted to be a father again. But not having a relationship with my kids, I was like, I hate that thing like, 'I'm gonna do it right this time' because I didn't do it wrong the first time."
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@ericheffner112 12 күн бұрын
My dad was abusive, abandoned me and my sisters, and started a whole new family. I was bitter as well until my pastor said "If you don't forgive your daddy, you gon' be your daddy."
@rasbo4317 11 күн бұрын
My husband never got to forgive his father he was going to see him but he passed away before got to see him. I still wonder if he regret it I never asked him he never met my children his grandchildren
@coryhernandez508 10 күн бұрын
That’s the realest thing I’ve heard. Appreciate you my guy. I’m dealing with that right now. Realizing I’m turning into that man I hated. But realizing it is the first part.
@dmitrielbert8413 10 күн бұрын
My father acknowledged me, but we don't have a relationship. I wrote him a letter of forgiveness, but I don't allow him in my space. He's sickly now and needs nursing care. My siblings and his sisters are doing that. My feeling is his women took precedence and that's where his money went. I don't feel guilty in my decision not to go around him. I feel for my siblings though. They're literally fighting our aunts over property...smh My mother shielded me from chaos and violence and I'm glad she did.
@ericheffner112 10 күн бұрын
@@coryhernandez508 💪🏾🙏🏽
@ericheffner112 10 күн бұрын
@@dmitrielbert8413 Sometimes you have to love someone from a distance.
@chrisrimer8502 14 күн бұрын
My parents divorced when I was young but it was obvious my mom hated my dad but she never said a bad thing about him. She let us have our own relationship with him. I think that is how it should be and I'm thankful she did that.
@mommamia9948 13 күн бұрын
Same. My mom never told us why they broke up and why she didn’t like him until after he passed away. She only told me, but he cheated on her. She never let us know she didn’t like him tho 😂 we loved my dad soo much. He was a great dad
@queenteireigns6212 11 күн бұрын
You're mom is a special lady. I wish I could say the same about mine. I still love them both. She didn't act like she hated him. But she definitely told us things that I shouldn't have known
@RioLo_TLE 8 күн бұрын
Why was it obvious that she hated him
@Tmgsteel1992 5 күн бұрын
What woman don’t grow to hate the man they swear they love it’s like a curse I know it’s terrible men out there but I know women that started to hate their husbands because they worked to much women find reasons to leave and men look for reasons to stay it’s proven just look at the statistics who file for divorce the most and who is the most effected by it
@RioLo_TLE 5 күн бұрын
@@Tmgsteel1992 This is one of the biggest fears a married man has. Your wife just leaving on a whim or because her idea of marriage is like something she saw on TV. A lot of guys are now choosing to have long term girlfriends instead of wives because it's so risky.
@exodiathegod1177 19 күн бұрын
I really hope Gary and his kids reconcile because the love from a father is a special one
@AmyJohnson-di5hw 18 күн бұрын
Look how he did their mom!!!
@alexred1038 18 күн бұрын
@@AmyJohnson-di5hwshe is a ratchet
@slystally9874 18 күн бұрын
Right. How he did the process serve is petty lol😂@@AmyJohnson-di5hw
@pareeshaslaughter6798 18 күн бұрын
yeah…..but the love from a mother is what keeps kids alive.
@toniasilvas5422 18 күн бұрын
Miss my dad everyday
@user-zj6jm4tt3j 10 күн бұрын
Gary said he tried to divorce her three times but stayed for the kids. She was not blindsided
@chicaliqc 6 күн бұрын
And he ignored the signs 😢 women are not the only ones with intuition but often times we dont realize it. I call it spidey sense😅
@ldyjai1616 14 күн бұрын
As parents we have to take accountability for our actions and understand that our actions affects our kids…
@almoen5412 13 күн бұрын
Yeah if you have little whiny girls... Y'all business is y'all business unless you beating my momma kids need to learn
@nadynemitchell361 13 күн бұрын
Both parents....both
@Onika0325 12 күн бұрын
As *good* parents…
@aprilallen2365 10 күн бұрын
Both parties are responsible, so why only hold one accountable?
@cg741graf5 8 күн бұрын
He said “somebody has to be the bad guy…Gary was a bad guy!”
@tundescope 18 күн бұрын
I liked this interview cos Shannon just let him talk. No interruptions, no tight timelines, no cutting to commercials. This format is really good.
@vernatait1049 16 күн бұрын
I like the format too! Gary definitely put his foot in his mouth!
@mikerhem1273 14 күн бұрын
@@vernatait1049 What he do wrong? I cant sit through a whole hour to find out
@vernatait1049 14 күн бұрын
@@mikerhem1273 😁😁
@thamisses4939 13 күн бұрын
Rite he just let them talk.. No interruption at all… I absolutely love Club Shay Shannon..Team ( Unk)❤❤❤
@Mattressmoney55 10 күн бұрын
I read somewhere..If you dont address your childhood traumas, they will show up in your adult relationships. This is going to take, therapy, forgivness and prayer.
@Logistics_Sandar 8 күн бұрын
That’s common sense… But easier said than done… A lot of childhood trauma requires a trusted soundboard with lots of wisdom or life experience… Many don’t have that luxury
@raggaduxjones 5 күн бұрын
@@Logistics_SandarA good therapist helps, tremendously.
@kangtheconqueror9545 10 сағат бұрын
They def will. It took a divorce to open my eyes to that.
@Price8903 8 күн бұрын
I cheat on my wife, have my own family/lady on the side, sneak and file for divorce…..but I don’t know why it’s not a amicable divorce…lol Anyone has the right to leave, but how can you not understand where the anger came from…? Vice versa you wouldn’t be happy if she did the same to you.
@wealth3491 2 күн бұрын
But he told her a few times prior that he wanted a divorce.
@doloreswillis-tk9dl 2 күн бұрын
Easier said than done , but there is always a But. . . Kids can't shouldn't suffer.
@wealth3491 2 күн бұрын
@@doloreswillis-tk9dl If a woman has children and her husband tells her a couple of times he wants a divorce, as well as both of them are already sexing other partners, she shouldn’t have been surprised when he filed. Basically, she was embarrassed because he filed before her and he also did it in a way that benefits him with his finances. Sometimes people get comfortable with their ghetto ways and think it’ll last as long as they want it to. He got tired and soaked he was done and she was shocked.
@Price8903 2 күн бұрын
@@wealth3491 🍪 🥛
@wealth3491 2 күн бұрын
@@Price8903 I’m an adult. I don’t understand the emoji language.
@thethreeladiespodcast 15 күн бұрын
He was honest and he admitted to his mistakes. And let’s not forget he is a comedian.
@mentormeroxy 12 күн бұрын
yup I said the same thing. Lets be honest cause we read all the post 3yrs ago.
@readinzession1308 11 күн бұрын
Actually from thier television show she was and still a mess, Gary had to do her part as a parent let's not forget she spent his/they money foolishly many times on projects that failed.
@mentormeroxy 11 күн бұрын
Wow you have schooled me today.. didn't know
@mp5249 8 күн бұрын
So? So he's just a jerk not a liar??
@Naenatify 8 күн бұрын
What does being a comedian have to do with anything?
@thepreachingbeauty6327 7 күн бұрын
My parents divorced when I was 7. Not because they didn’t love each other, they just couldn’t get along and were arguing more and more. They split so we wouldn’t have to go through that. I’m so glad they did. It taught us to not stay in unhealthy situations just because you love someone.
@noleenole8254 17 күн бұрын
At least he doesn’t pretend to be a good man
@Yt_Dmajor 12 күн бұрын
Thats real💯
@RayjinCajun0 12 күн бұрын
He's not pretending to be a perfect Man.
@brockg932 9 күн бұрын
He got married too early. But he's still a good man.
@justinusberger3933 5 күн бұрын
He's a white "N".
@TruthDefined4life 4 күн бұрын
He's a good man. He's just happier without her.
@EUCvibes 17 күн бұрын
Gary : “ I have no idea why she filed in California” 1 minute later Gary : “ she could have gotten half my money forever in California “
@mp5249 8 күн бұрын
He's married. That's the family's money, not HIS. Why do men not understand this?
@Maxrepfitgm 8 күн бұрын
@@mp5249Because it's bs and people have a hard time understanding bs unless they're the originators of it.
@BumboyWillynut 5 күн бұрын
Bollox it’s Gary’s money hard earned ! He put all his kids including her one through college and they have trust funds!
@reginaldrodges9358 19 күн бұрын
MONEY is always part of a divorce...BIG PART!!
@sevmeister21 19 күн бұрын
💥💥🔥🔥👀👀🤳🤳
@MarcYanruw 18 күн бұрын
Especially if there's only one person making money
@pbj0815 15 күн бұрын
That’s why you have to make your time worth it
@RealCoachRonn 15 күн бұрын
Just like it's a part of a marriage... BIG PART 🎯💪🏾
@whayes8084 14 күн бұрын
Yea, when you have it.
@timothy4664 19 күн бұрын
Gary is criminally underrated. That he doesn't have a Netflix special is ridiculous
@josebrown5961 19 күн бұрын
But he has many other specials…
@jefeseason4990 19 күн бұрын
I think he funnier when in movies and talking I don’t think he funny in standup…
@Draxxxthevamp 19 күн бұрын
I thought he had one back in 2019
@josebrown5961 19 күн бұрын
Oh and I really think that the word underrated is overused. Gary Owen is properly rated. He has many movies and a number of comedy specials. All the ones I have seen are in sold out theaters. What is he missing? So in no way is he “underrated!” He is properly rated thank you.
@vegasdice3639 19 күн бұрын
@@josebrown5961 Gary is playing the Schaumburg, IL Improv in June... it's a 300 seat venue. Stop talking nonsense. He is VERY underrated.
@jadanic9213 16 күн бұрын
Gary had one of the funniest stand up shows I ever seen. I wish him well in his life.
@MauricioSandoval-xc9ih 19 күн бұрын
Getting served at a Panera drive thru is crazy 😂😂
@mp5249 8 күн бұрын
Not if you run from the server. Can't escape reality.
@CrackberryMe 15 күн бұрын
If you want to end a marriage you end it like an adult, he didn’t handle it well, in fact, it was quite disrespectful to her.
@chrisrhodes2 9 күн бұрын
You know his lawyer instructed him to do what he did, same as hers had her go for his pockets in Cali. Lawyers are the real evil ones in divorce
@CrackberryMe 9 күн бұрын
@@chrisrhodes2 irregardless the Lawyers on either side weren’t married to each other.. I understand wanting a divorce but it’s how you go about, especially with kids involved, whether him or her.
@wealth3491 2 күн бұрын
@@CrackberryMehe told her a few times he wanted a divorce. Both parties were cheating on each other. He did right by listening to his attorney and moving the way she advise, which was the protection for his money. In the end, he still looked out for her financially, but still didn’t have to give her half. When. Other of y’all cheating on each other, no such thing as giving the other Rosetta half as if they’re innocent. The attorney advised him correctly. If you and your spouse cheated on each other, will you’d till next ok with giving them half of your money?
@naer-g437 19 күн бұрын
Been divorced for over 3 years and people think he aint suppose to move on?
@BigDic-qz8su 19 күн бұрын
It's called being a parent he hasn't seen his kids in 3 years. Kids don't care about the issues you have with they mom. They see you choose not to there as a parent
@kip2shy 19 күн бұрын
Facts, it’s a reason why they despise him too. It’s no excuse to not be there for your kids. Absolutely none!!!
@freedomprophet2891 19 күн бұрын
@@BigDic-qz8su His kids dont want to see him. Their mother filled their heads with bulls..t and they broke relations with him. His kids are grown a.s people, the f..k are you talking about.
@bignickdangerpimp 19 күн бұрын
@@BigDic-qz8su If they refuse to see him or spend time in the same room, what's he going to do? Run over their wishes and do what he wants? Force them so people think better of him?
@Kinikia95 19 күн бұрын
Maybe the problem is that he moved on before he filed for divorce.
@22221mm 18 күн бұрын
A lot of men don’t know how to be fathers. They think it’s giving gifts on birthdays, money etc. but not spending time
@LetsTalkSports816 17 күн бұрын
Nah goofy...making money requires trading time for the majority of us. You must've not had a father.
@rasun9169 17 күн бұрын
That's a asinine statement jackass
@rasun9169 17 күн бұрын
Fathers are better parents period point blank
@loganreese6626 17 күн бұрын
Exactly @@LetsTalkSports816
@qtace8711 16 күн бұрын
You clearly a beta
@dBarb1999 18 күн бұрын
Ironically Gary wants forgiveness from his children but won’t forgive his Dad.
@terreciakennedy3265 13 күн бұрын
Not the same situation at all.
@Wisdomsmother 13 күн бұрын
I just got to that part
@lindafreeplayqueen 11 күн бұрын
He never said he didn't forgive him. His step dad keeps putting a wedge between them. Some people are impossible to deal with.
@arnetrahughes2277 10 күн бұрын
What Gary did was between him and his wife. What his dad did was to HIM!
@basicfilmblog 10 күн бұрын
@arnetrahughes2277 literally the same thing you clown.
@IBNTOMEable 14 күн бұрын
The fact that he did not practice Fidelity in his almost 20 year marriage says a lot. I hope his current fiance will watch this.
@zeeechanged5352 12 күн бұрын
She got her 2 -investments- babies so she doesn't care that he's not a loyal partner.
@user-zj6jm4tt3j 10 күн бұрын
She had infidelity to
@IsmokeHiphopLive 2 күн бұрын
she was also cheating what p[art of that did you miss???
@MrMoore88 19 күн бұрын
My boy shannon sharpe givin' out free therapy sessions
@hermusicsoundsgood 18 күн бұрын
Agreed
@MrsellaDream 16 күн бұрын
I was looking for this lmaoo. Shannon giving free gems
@indialove2396 14 күн бұрын
Is this only for celebs? Asking for a friend
@larrisamitchell9780 12 күн бұрын
She filed in LA because of the money
@LucidaGirl 18 күн бұрын
Gary and Kenya were together 20+ years. No matter how done he was with the marriage, he owed her the respect of telling her that he planned to file for divorce. He comes across as if children should be able to separate the fact he was a good dad from the fact he lied to and deeply hurt their mom. The details of what led to the breakdown of their marriage are insignificant to how he is using notoriety to recruit people onside. He is doing more damage and it’s unfortunate that he can’t see that. As long as Kenya and their children are hurting, this isn’t a laughing matter.
@AbeM-jm8yo 15 күн бұрын
You didn't listen at all, like most people smh. His wife cheated also, and she wanted a divorce also. He spoke on it but stated not airing her out. She just thought like most women who file which is 70% of all divorces. That she would be the first to file.
@melyme1409 15 күн бұрын
💯
@phyllissowhat 15 күн бұрын
Thanks, sis
@william3253 14 күн бұрын
She just wanted the bag
@mykiea5156 14 күн бұрын
@@AbeM-jm8yohe did not say that AT ALL .
@wildkims2008 18 күн бұрын
Stringing your family along for 2 months is insane, and If he really didn't want to blindside her, he should have told her when he filed, not on the day she was getting served. That's traumatic.
@jaylow57 18 күн бұрын
So now white people don’t have privilege anymore???
@troya.8094 17 күн бұрын
Absolutely. He did admit he could’ve handled that situation better.
@jtaylor3717 17 күн бұрын
He said he had To be separated for a period before he could file beside look what happened after he told her
@aaronjefferson7467 16 күн бұрын
And she was doing the exact same thing in LA county, so she could steal money she didn't earn. Sounds fair to me.
@mcartxca1990 16 күн бұрын
They were playing the same game.
@chloeya.m.9423 16 күн бұрын
Gary Owens is telling the story like he’s talking about something funny that happened on his way to work. No wonder they don’t talk to him-he’s making a mockery out of what’s likely one of the toughest times in their lives. Thats gotta hurt.
@meneedmoney 13 күн бұрын
He’s a professional comedian for one and two he expressing and coping best he can he don’t need to burst out in tears for you
@chloeya.m.9423 13 күн бұрын
@@meneedmoney …or he he could just not discuss he kids on an international platform. Don’t worry bout me, I’m good. He’s the one getting blocked by his own kids. If views and giggles are more important than his relationship with them, then that’s wassup
@user-of1cc3zf2q 13 күн бұрын
@@chloeya.m.9423it’s his choice family and problems he’s a personality wym don’t talk about it people want to know it comes with the territory of his profession. What you want him to do quit completely not be able to fund his family with the career he built and start taking orders at Burger King? Women like you are the reason people feel the way they do about y’all opinions y’all see small picture and involve your feelings in everything 😂
@celestialnubian 13 күн бұрын
@chloeya.m.9423 Don't be a sour person. Find the humor and life will be better.
@nelsonwalters5699 13 күн бұрын
This is how he copes with the situation by making jokes but he's broken inside about his mistakes and how it has impacted his relationship with his kids.
@cherrylemccoy2979 18 күн бұрын
You tried to be sneaky to keep your money from a 25 yr relationship, but now the mother of those twins are going to get it.
@masonldn8647 15 күн бұрын
How will she ? He isn't married to her
@daisyminnie7485 15 күн бұрын
Child support x2
@ballsohard9937 15 күн бұрын
@@daisyminnie7485 child support better than alimony
@mwebster3265 15 күн бұрын
Stop it. You too old to be acting like this. 🙄🙄
@RealCoachRonn 15 күн бұрын
She's get way less than if she was married to him.
@ttaylor8631 18 күн бұрын
I actually hear the pain in his story. Imagine not talking to you mom, her not standing up for you when you were younger, having a bad and absend father and an even worse stepfather. Broken homes dont create better homes, if you dont heal and fix the foundation.
@debbiedoodiedandi 16 күн бұрын
Yeah.
@vccvcc9694 19 күн бұрын
CLEARLY HE DOES NOT GET THE HARM AND HURT IF HIS ACTIONS AGAINST HIS WIFE….
@deazy2k9 18 күн бұрын
Clearly you seem bias is Gary not allowed to be happy also and keep most of his money?
@JeremiahJai 17 күн бұрын
lol shut ur social media puppet self up plz. get ur mind right.
@jaynicew 17 күн бұрын
He also said that she has her issues too… your comment ignores her accountability as well.
@Letthemtalkhes 17 күн бұрын
Especially, since his children are at the age where they can see things for what they witness, not what any side says.
@NeeNee_B. 16 күн бұрын
@@deazy2k9no, not when she was there grinding with him while he was making it, you sound crazy
@dBarb1999 18 күн бұрын
I like how Gary sneaks to file for divorce and then he can’t understand why things went the way they did. It’s called DISLOYAL.
@chatgpt9293 17 күн бұрын
She was trying to do the EXACT same thing lmao you’re 100% an NPC irl 💀🤥
@ALWAYSTHINK4YOURSELF 17 күн бұрын
@@chatgpt9293 Wait. Did she cheat too?
@anyabrown6498 17 күн бұрын
Yep,
@KO-OG-Passport-Bro-1997 17 күн бұрын
@@ALWAYSTHINK4YOURSELF Yeah she cheated too!!
@factsoverfeelings9228 16 күн бұрын
You sound psychotic. 70% of divorces are initiated by the women: and they are almost all blind sides. Shorties be fully in love with another man by the time they file for divorce.
@LasheaEvans-zq5qm 18 күн бұрын
He's oblivious to the damage he caused and how dirty he did her overall. God willing his children find it in their hearts to forgive him. I hope she's healthy and healed.
@504Native 17 күн бұрын
Lmao ofc you’d say that
@shanteecoleman8003 16 күн бұрын
It's terrible when the kids more grown up 😒
@qtace8711 16 күн бұрын
What he do But give them private school and a great life 😂
@moniquecoles2944 16 күн бұрын
You were there? What happened 😂😂😂 u know them personally cause I be minding my business alot I had no idea 😂😂
@wraith31 16 күн бұрын
@@moniquecoles2944thank you for that
@DollysParadise 19 күн бұрын
That was smooth the way Shannon told him you are a cleaned up version of his dad that he don’t even talk to…. You are your father Gary!!!!
@jamesjenosyde3657 19 күн бұрын
No he isn't. Did you watch the whole thing? Gary ain't a bad dude yo.
@DollysParadise 19 күн бұрын
@@jamesjenosyde3657 I never said he is a bad dude, just misinformed. He is toned deaf, you break up your family and send your peoples to your home where your family stay and don’t understand why they don’t want to be bothered with you…. Come on, do better.
@jamesjenosyde3657 19 күн бұрын
Hearing Shannon say that, I get what he is saying but that don't make it true. Like he said he made everything he could. What if he was poor and they struggled? They marriage probably would've ended years ago. His career is the only reason those kids have what the have. That's wrong on so many levels.
@terickastidbits2342 18 күн бұрын
@@DollysParadisethe kids is grown and don’t stay at home so what are you saying? ALL of this because mom wanted to shake him down for money. Tf
@DollysParadise 18 күн бұрын
@@terickastidbits2342 what I am trying to convey is not about money, it’s about family. We are talking about two different prospectives and you don’t get mines and that’s ok. No matter what, his example of his father parallels his actions and what Gary didn’t want for his kids happened. Just being there for events is an issue as well. Generational curse.
@adrianne7045 17 күн бұрын
Well he doesn’t talk to his mother so there you have it.. he shouldn’t be confused if his kids don’t talk to him
@nadynemitchell361 13 күн бұрын
His stepfather is hateful Sometimes space is best
@LuvThySelf 12 күн бұрын
Stupid “logic”. Things are never that easy.
@taisworkout 19 күн бұрын
The stories he shared about how he dodged his own wife and kids during a traumatic time is telling of how he was as the man of his household. Just imagine all the traumatic stories he didn’t share.
@IncognitoSprax 19 күн бұрын
You mean the wife that refused to open up the door when she knew she was about to get severed? The person that could've made it a simple process right then and there?
@terickastidbits2342 18 күн бұрын
@@IncognitoSpraxfacts! People be delusional af thinking he was supposed to sign up to pay her 44k a month in alimony
@daboiMack 18 күн бұрын
@@IncognitoSprax BINGO!
@taisworkout 18 күн бұрын
Did you all miss the part that he was playing the same games of dodging the process of being served? I never said 44K was ok either. They were both wrong but he’s the one missing out on being a part of his kids lives. Shannon got it right. He became the man he hated in his father.
@IncognitoSprax 18 күн бұрын
@@taisworkout Did YOU miss the part where his actions was a response to her deciding to play games? Trying to shift the blame on him like you did in the original comment is your bias showing.
@zzizahacallar 19 күн бұрын
It's sad about his kids. I hope one day they will have a relationship. I'm happy they are successful
@AutumnAprodithe 15 күн бұрын
He caused that rift.
@sherylmccollum895 10 күн бұрын
@@AutumnAproditheno
@AutumnAprodithe 10 күн бұрын
@@sherylmccollum895 What do you mean no? Men need to take accountability.
@sharklava123 3 күн бұрын
@@AutumnAprodithehe did… did you not watch the video at all, sounds like you got something against the men in YOUR life😂
@AutumnAprodithe 3 күн бұрын
@@sharklava123 What accountability? It's me me me me I I I, it's never about the hurt that he caused. He wonders why his adult children won't talk to him assuming the mother is behind it. Lol they are adults. They despise him from what he did and he's still wondering what he did to them that makes them avoid him. That's not accountability.
@ericdwhitmorec 18 күн бұрын
Oh Gary...this wasn't it, especially with all that laughter and carrying on. Sometimes for the sake of the family unit, you have to say no comment, and learn to pivot.
@dominiquemiller4513 18 күн бұрын
He didn't say anything negative about his family unit. The one that completely ignores him. Especially the children that he was a good father to.
@jaynicew 17 күн бұрын
Well a lot of this is already out there because of the social media bomb from the wife… he’s just giving his context
@Texasbama2 15 күн бұрын
Right!
@LonnieLBrown 12 күн бұрын
You probably have issues and don't talk to people. Sometimes it's better to vent and talk to someone even if it's on a widely viewed show.
@The1Mathieu1 11 күн бұрын
Gary, like u said, don't listen to none of these comments. Do u. Especially this person
@siantelove 19 күн бұрын
Really sad how he treated his wife, not just lying to stall her, but avoiding the entire family during a pandemiic, probably leaving his wife & the kids worried about him 😢 --- he's been doing this so long he doesn't seem to understand how vile he comes across. Maybe this interview is part of his karma, because he just exposed himself.
@CharlesXavier-kh3fx 19 күн бұрын
That evil women got what she got. She’s just mad because he beat her to the divorce.
@blkpanther11 19 күн бұрын
@@CharlesXavier-kh3fx I Agree
@siantelove 19 күн бұрын
@@CharlesXavier-kh3fx I don't know what they got & I don't care tbh, I'm more focused on how Gary treated his family. I hope they all can make peace one day.
@deidrajames4258 18 күн бұрын
How you know how he treated her, just asking, you sound like you know them personally because if you don’t, you are just siding with her, it’s been over before the divorce, usually years at least 3, somebody just decided to act on it.
@genevieveaciro638 18 күн бұрын
Did hear what he said? He explain why?
@djmeekyoutube 18 күн бұрын
I hope one day, they can reconcile. Gary has to understand that breaking mom's heart, hurting mom, and breaking his promise to her is the same as doing it to the kids. He cheated on THE FAMILY. So they gon be mad for a while. But like I said, I really hope they can reconcile. ❤❤❤❤
@ninaoffthegrid 17 күн бұрын
🎯
@troya.8094 17 күн бұрын
I don’t want to be your husband ≠ I don’t want to be a father
@bromack3 17 күн бұрын
Not gonna happen.
@mcartxca1990 16 күн бұрын
Very different relationships and responsibilities. This is how women turn kids from their fathers by attaching a romantic relationship to parental obligations. Sick.
@justmy5984 16 күн бұрын
I don’t understand how people can say kids stay out of it and you’re literally changing their lives because of what you guys have going on. They didn’t ask to be here it was either your irresponsibility or your responsibility either way it was on you so they have every right to feel a way especially if you’re the reason it happened.
@joearmstrong3866 18 күн бұрын
My problem with Gary is he not really accepting to the things he did to his kiddos. He told him that fact at 41 mins and he dodged the ball.
@teresadavis2385 18 күн бұрын
🗣️🗣️
@jackreacher2095 16 күн бұрын
He's a deadbeat . Period .
@findyourselfagaincourt 16 күн бұрын
This he obviously knows his kids dont talk to him for things he done through out the years not just the divorce that was just the icing on the cake probably kids have their own minds says alot all Three dont talk to him
@mwebster3265 15 күн бұрын
@@findyourselfagaincourt Prove it.🤷🏾♂🤷🏾♂
@mwebster3265 15 күн бұрын
@@jackreacher2095 You too old for this. 🙄🙄
@WilliamsPinch 17 күн бұрын
Gary is really triflin. I had no idea he mistreated his family like this.
@bigstepguy 16 күн бұрын
You still don't have any idea, Judge William Pinch. Just how is he triflin, he hasn't pretended to be anybody he isn't. What you see is a snapshot of the American secular culture, that has been seduced by materialism, sensual imagery all the downstream spawn from the 60's revolution against everything truly Christ like. He hasn't mistreated his family and I ask that you state where that was said.
@Blaztoize 14 күн бұрын
He gave his family everything he owed them. The kids grown. He wasn’t willing to let go of his success too. I don’t blame him.
@ukan.536 14 күн бұрын
@@BlaztoizeCheaters are trifling. No way around it.
@Blaztoize 14 күн бұрын
@@ukan.536 still not worth everything he gave and everything he built
@Shannon627 13 күн бұрын
Not only did he cheat, but he didn’t tell his wife he wanted a divorce before he filed and lied as to why he wasn’t coming home for two months, likely because he was laid up with another women. He did her dirty, I’m not saying he didn’t have a good excuse to not be married but the bottom line is he did his wife dirty.
@jordanalexander5275 18 күн бұрын
3.5 years, as a father i wouldnt last 1 week. The way he described being a father leads me to believe he wasnt present and it doesnt bother him as much as he wants us to think it does. "I was a fun dad" pleeeease
@joshdarby360 18 күн бұрын
Naw unfortunately I've been there. If you don't know thank God.
@jaynicew 17 күн бұрын
Yeah plus you don’t know how people are when the cameras are off and they are alone… Laugh in Public and Cry in private
@richardellis8076 14 күн бұрын
He pretty much said it. He was on the road a lot, cheated multiple times and then didn't even tell them before he filed for divorce. The fact that the kids don't speak to him now speaks volumes. They are old enough where if he was such a great dad to them, no amount of badmouthing on the part of their mom could sway their opinions. And that story about the daughter hiding in the bathroom, so he left? Thats not a dad that is too broken up about not seeing his kids.
@phylisiadaley5995 13 күн бұрын
Apparently he is not with the mother of the twins either....when do you start to say maybe I should change something I'm doing?@@richardellis8076
@insomthegreat 12 күн бұрын
@@richardellis8076 Mom can turn kids anytime she wants. That's the power of a woman.
@user-mu2mp8ll6c 19 күн бұрын
There are no winners in a divorce unless abuse is involved
@rexbrothasoul832 14 күн бұрын
That's a lie...because usually women win 🏆
@specialkay4329 13 күн бұрын
Really? Who wins when abuse is involved?
@edwardfitzgerald3877 12 күн бұрын
@@specialkay4329 When abuse is involved, the abused one wins by finally getting the f*ck away from the abuser. Finally freed like a bird out of its cage.
@HoneyHoops-ig9ws 19 күн бұрын
His kids don’t talk to him because they saw him with another woman before they knew about the divorce. Gary’s dad sent them the photo.
@munab3666 19 күн бұрын
So this is what happened? So why is he asking what he did to make them hate him???
@kaimosley6296 19 күн бұрын
@@munab3666he's in denial and his privilege allows him to do it.
@hermusicsoundsgood 18 күн бұрын
Stop lying you don't know what tf happened ! You wasn't there
@mokadvyne 17 күн бұрын
@@hermusicsoundsgoodGary stated that in the Breakfast Club that his dad exposed him!
@Roandre13 17 күн бұрын
Tf him being with another woman have to do with his kids hating him? Those hateful seeds was planted by the mother.
@lindahernandez1045 12 күн бұрын
Shay shay gave Gary a free lesson with forgiveness with his emotions. That's as real as real gets.
@sampa2nyc 17 күн бұрын
When grown "children" don't mess with a parent more than likely there is a good reason. Perhaps in Gary's case the "kids" don't like that he cheated on their mom? Ya think? By the way, his oldest child is 30 and his youngest aside from his new twins is 19. They are adults and old enough to arrive at their own conclusions about their dad and his behavior.
@Jaz-rx7qp 15 күн бұрын
You didn’t just cheat on your wife, you cheated on your kids too. The kids had to deal with the aftermath of mending their mother’s heart after their father broke it…they didn’t sign up to be in a broken home. I too, STILL feel some type of way towards my dad when he cheated on my mother when I was 5; they put in the work and are still going strong 25 years later. But a child will never forget how their mother cries….just don’t cheat.
@jwil2414 13 күн бұрын
He cheated just on his wife
@aishariel9924 13 күн бұрын
He cheated on his wife, not the kids. Good parents separate their personal issues from their children. I never understood why mothers bash their children’s fathers. If the father is really a deadbeat the truth always comes out. My parents are divorced. My father would always bash my mother in front of me. My mother never once said anything bad about him to me. Guess what, I’m 31 years old and now I can see with my own eyes everything my mom went through.
@teshamiller6001 13 күн бұрын
@@aishariel9924nah he cheated on the children too. Cheated them right out of a two parent home. Children without fathers in the home are at greater risk for poverty and incarceration. They were most definitely cheated, no matter how much people say they weren’t. It’s proven that divorce is traumatic for the children involved.
@xeroxzero1 13 күн бұрын
People like you that don’t actually heal and project this way is why cycles continue. He cheated on his wife, with his kids he could have still had an healthy relationship. If anything it teaches adversity and hardships. He didn’t kill his wife he cheated.
@Truth8Hurts 13 күн бұрын
@@jwil2414 No, cheaters betray their entire families when they cheat. It's not only a wife or husband who are affected but the kids as well.
@kaimosley6296 19 күн бұрын
So he go get a lawyer to get divorce, disappear from your wife and children for two months to try to get her served, never tell her you filed for the divorce and you wonder why your children dont speak to you. If you could treat their mother that way then how do you really treat them?
@nn-xm8lz 18 күн бұрын
It sounds like there was dirt done on both sides but he is just telling what he did which is a rare thing to see
@pamelaingram7393 18 күн бұрын
What dirt she didn't stroke his ego enough after he got famous@nn-xm8lz
@julesgordon1109 18 күн бұрын
@nn-xm8lz it's a rare thing for men but it NEVER happen with women
@AddColor2Life 18 күн бұрын
Hurt people hurt people. Let’s look at the upside….. this man who was destined for poverty, alcoholism, etc found a way to live with his trauma and has the transparency, the willingness to be open about it. That takes courage. Besides, we all crazy.
@jaylow57 18 күн бұрын
He’s white. He still wants his privilege!
@TREm1990 19 күн бұрын
WOW...Listening to him laugh at the fact that he cheated and everything else...Them kids are NEVER going to talk to him...
@shenitathompson7493 18 күн бұрын
He said she cheated too. He is a comedian
@TREm1990 18 күн бұрын
@@shenitathompson7493 He said he got caught plenty of times...
@TheeMrsGrinch 18 күн бұрын
@@shenitathompson7493 She probably cheated because he was cheating all the time and left her alone.
@NeeNee_B. 16 күн бұрын
@@shenitathompson7493okay but we don't know if that's true or not. We KNOW it's true that he did it, it came out his own mouth
@ObiewanTheTruth 16 күн бұрын
Yea this footage is for life
@debrawright9451 16 күн бұрын
He honestly needs therapy otherwise he's going to bleed on every woman that he comes in contact with.
@jwil2414 13 күн бұрын
Like women who bleed on men. A lot of people need therapy in this nation.
@fiestyblktina1237 11 күн бұрын
EXACTLY he thinks everything is funny SMH
@gobirds4362 10 күн бұрын
Disagree
@gobirds4362 10 күн бұрын
Ofc a women said this
@Nicole-fj9fm 4 күн бұрын
A woman who stays with a man who tells her twice that he wants a divorce needs therapy . It reads low self esteem to stay where you are not wanted.
@Corsetedcomedian 16 күн бұрын
Forgive your fathers so your kids Forgive you. It is how universe works Mr. Owens❤
@taunyb5429 18 күн бұрын
Why have I lost all respect for this man within the first 10 minutes of this show? After 20 years...
@simonechapman1342 16 күн бұрын
Exactly,she got the names wrong🤨
@shawn1819 15 күн бұрын
Cant make everybody happy
@taunyb5429 15 күн бұрын
@@shawn1819 Okkkaayyy. As long as it makes you happy. I guess.
@nikollewis8769 15 күн бұрын
Same! He took there children for a whole weekend and didn't return her phone calls!? He Needs to believe in Jesus cause he lucky to be alive
@JGComments 15 күн бұрын
Yeah you can’t be walking on on your family because you “aren’t happy”. That’s your wife and the mother of your kids. Work on your issues.
@jessicaarreola4765 5 күн бұрын
Great interview. Made Gary look actually human. And not fake. Lol he is such a humble man .
@user-nq2sm4pp8r 18 күн бұрын
Honestly he isn't good at communicating , the way he handled the divorce totally uncalled for... Hope him and his children can mend things
@TheMainMan364 18 күн бұрын
Shut up, women do worse.
@MrRenardnixon 15 күн бұрын
Do you know this man? How did he handle his divorce?
@user-nq2sm4pp8r 15 күн бұрын
No I don't , but the way he said he handled his divorce on club shay shay is what I'm going by his words
@rlgreenleaf2112 15 күн бұрын
@@user-nq2sm4pp8rthe internet the judgement from the experts on the couch. Get outta his business.
@patriciaclark6699 13 күн бұрын
Well said
@rerejordan4544 17 күн бұрын
He got married in CA, their primary residence was in CA and he filed for divorce in Ohio🤔. That was snake-ish!
@HighAltitudeMMA 16 күн бұрын
What's snake-ish is women feeling entitled to men's money
@NobleRik 15 күн бұрын
Fair game they both was playing
@mrbinary71 15 күн бұрын
If you listened to the entire podcast they voted in Ohio and paid taxes in Ohio. They were Ohio residents
@rerejordan4544 15 күн бұрын
@@mrbinary71 it still was snake-Ish! Them kids hate him for reasons far beyond what we can see!! He given big 🐍 vibes!!
@AbeM-jm8yo 15 күн бұрын
@@rerejordan4544 What's snakeish about it? Gary was smart planned ahead and didn't get stuck with the half California taxed hahaha. By the way she cheated also, and was planning on divorcing him. He stated he just wasn't going to air her dirt out in public unlike what she did. An the kids dislike him now because of what she's told them. Eventually they'll mature and make up their own minds maybe not.
@pimpjuice11850 15 күн бұрын
This is the first Club Shay Shay interview that i watched fully from beginning to the end
@LOVELIVETRUTH 18 күн бұрын
Dang Gary put his wife through it
@HighAltitudeMMA 16 күн бұрын
She treated him like an ATM.
@NeeNee_B. 16 күн бұрын
He allowed it. Shouldve chose better 🤷🏿♀️ She wanted to get paid for her pain lol @HighAltitudeMMA
@theothesir 15 күн бұрын
Eh, she needed the character development. 😂
@fiestyblktina1237 11 күн бұрын
@@HighAltitudeMMAshe was with him before the fame she made more money than he did supported his career WTF are you talking about.
@HighAltitudeMMA 11 күн бұрын
@@fiestyblktina1237 it's HIS money. He earned it. Why do women feel entitled to money they don't earn??
@BENYJOSE1 18 күн бұрын
Gary's family, especially his wife, was the majority of his act...
@NM-xr9pi 12 күн бұрын
This is why she needed to make sure her attorney entered a cross motion to address this in the divorce... I hope that she did.
@texasresilient6632 19 күн бұрын
He doesn’t understood the children now believe in NO CONTACT and have clear reasons why. Watching a parent walk out on his family is enough .
@terickastidbits2342 18 күн бұрын
He didn’t walk out on his family. He divorced the mom. And ALL them kids is grown
@timbrown9796 18 күн бұрын
Shut up lol
@legendarytruth7907 18 күн бұрын
He doesn’t understood.. somebody school failed them 🤣🤣
@terikathomas2131 18 күн бұрын
@@terickastidbits2342‼️‼️‼️exactly. Kids be too involved and knowing about the problems in their parents marriage. That isn’t their business in depth. They’re grown and they’re wrong for not speaking to him.
@terickastidbits2342 17 күн бұрын
@@terikathomas2131 this the same thing Brian McKnight kids did. Now when he stop reaching out and focus solely on his new kids nobody better not say nothing! Because he’ll just be respecting the boundary his kids set
@_empresslioness 19 күн бұрын
Them kids got a reason.
@akeisesample2080 19 күн бұрын
With this ungrateful entitled generation??? Nah sometimes you can have good parents and still not appreciate them!
@giared74 19 күн бұрын
Sounds like it’s pleasing mom. Not right.
@Dub257 19 күн бұрын
@@giared74exactly
@funandgames4645 19 күн бұрын
That’s the thing I was thinking. I’m not judging because I’ve seen good parents who’s children act entitled and use it against their parents. I’ve seen kids who were manipulated by the other parent. And I’ve seen kids who cut ties with their manipulative parents. We aren’t there behind closed doors so we shouldn’t act like we know
@deesee2051 19 күн бұрын
Yeah siding with a bitter mother who’s mad over $
@WilliamsPinch 17 күн бұрын
In a lot of cultures if you leave your spouse, you are excommunicated from the family because it’s dishonorable to leave your family and to start another.
@alexpylemma 15 күн бұрын
It's 2024 not the 1800's get over it
@DarlinReal 13 күн бұрын
@@alexpylemma thank you. Preach it from the mountain top! Let the PRIMITIVES know.
@prophetnobody7778 4 күн бұрын
I laughed for the first half, and about cried for the second. Better than a movie.👏👏👏
@mikestrong904 19 күн бұрын
$44,000 a month is actually insane
@paulacopeland8360 18 күн бұрын
Why?
@misscaliluv1561 18 күн бұрын
@@paulacopeland8360 Because her children are adults and it's not HER money! She needs to get a JOB.
@FL_born.SC_raised 18 күн бұрын
Actually, it ain't enough.
@agent9973 18 күн бұрын
obviously HE HAS IT
@kfair6669 18 күн бұрын
Right he don't have that kind of money. They owed the irs money and needed to sell the house. How he got $44k/mo to give another person?
@J-Mac8 16 күн бұрын
And he says “I don’t understand why my kids don’t talk me!” If he’s that clueless! That’s crazy!
@williamcody8114 14 күн бұрын
Well that can happen.
@Blaztoize 14 күн бұрын
Ok coming from a guy tell me so we all can move on. I obviously don’t know. Us men be trying
@terreciakennedy3265 13 күн бұрын
@@BlaztoizeIf u can't figure it out and be accountable you don't deserve to be there. Stop playing like you're the victim. Especially if you were cheating or abusive in any way
@reesemonique 10 күн бұрын
Honor they mother AND father. I am sure the Mom is not innocent in this but she was the primary parent it seems because he was on the road making money for all of them . but this happens alot in divorce look at the braxtons its been 40 yrs since there parents divorced and they still had animosity towards him even tho he tried to still be a dad.
@elizabethantoine9652 9 күн бұрын
Gotta have money to play his game he paid thousands to a process server YOU can’t do that
@jasonbourn6081 7 күн бұрын
To actually go through what he goes through with his family and still laugh and do comedy is inspiring.🔥
@munab3666 19 күн бұрын
I'm really confused how he thinks he didn't do anything wrong here 😭
@hermusicsoundsgood 18 күн бұрын
He NEVER said he didn't do anything wrong. He LITERALLY said he was not perfect and he did wrong
@ericdwhitmorec 18 күн бұрын
@@hermusicsoundsgood and he also said "somehow I became the Bad Guy." "SOMEHOW?!?"
@siantelove 18 күн бұрын
You can tell he's been doing this so long he's not aware of how he comes across. Shannon Sharpe really brought up a good point because now he is the father that he hasn't forgiven.
@lapx1 17 күн бұрын
Men should all just become Hugh Hefner!
@jaynicew 17 күн бұрын
@@ericdwhitmorec He said that he did wrong and his wife did wrong… He’s wondering why his kids who’s he’s always been there for are treating him like that… regardless of what happens between husband and wife, he’s still their father.
@shukubabz 19 күн бұрын
How is this highlight an hour long 😂
@shelleyharris7912 9 күн бұрын
Not an honorable man This is a private matter and he's still putting all their business out in public.
@lobitopr 8 күн бұрын
Longer highlight on KZfaq to this day. 😂
@dmusovic1 18 күн бұрын
Problem after problem after problem after problem.
@nikollewis8769 17 күн бұрын
He really did his wife and mother of his kids, Dirty!😥
@LadyLawyerG 14 күн бұрын
They hurt each other
@patriciaclark6699 13 күн бұрын
Yep
@patriciaclark6699 13 күн бұрын
@@LadyLawyerGwell I wouldn't say that, if he cheated and she kept taking him back. I think she did good. Because she been could have left. He wanted the divorce first not her after a minute she just went with it. She was going for better or for worst. The person who always wanted the divorce will never feel bad. I been their so I'm speaking from experience. I divorced my husband after 20 years. So we don't feel bad because we just want happiness.
@jillsworld9819 19 күн бұрын
He cheated several times and was gone on the road.. then files for divorce in a state that puts her at a disadvantage financially and after her taking care of his kids that’s just wrong! Then he wonders why his kids don’t talk to him..?
@rjay1jx 19 күн бұрын
Lol what's the disadvantage not getting half
@funandgames4645 19 күн бұрын
So he should file for divorce in a place that’s gonna favor the woman? Yeah nah 😂
@BucNasty32 19 күн бұрын
The women who also cheated wanted half of his money for his work. Hahaha typical gold digger.
@jamesjenosyde3657 19 күн бұрын
Her taking care of HIS kids?
@leerob7738 19 күн бұрын
You don’t know! You do not know those people. You are childish!
@agent9973 19 күн бұрын
He thinks its funny and its not its disgusting how he did that
@troya.8094 17 күн бұрын
He’s a comedian you clown
@Letthemtalkhes 17 күн бұрын
The crazy thing about it is he is telling his own story and it still sounds bad. So, you can only image what really happen.
@agent9973 17 күн бұрын
@@Letthemtalkhes RIGHT!!!
@phyllissowhat 15 күн бұрын
I’m disgusted as well
@MarcoNoire 19 күн бұрын
She didn’t divide him and the kids If he was bonded properly with his kids nothing could break them because they would see him as a good dad despite the divorce They kids been iffy about him
@kristakitchen2559 18 күн бұрын
That's exactly what he said, he wish he had a bond that was strong no matter what with his kids..... he said that
@anonymoususer4866 18 күн бұрын
@@kristakitchen2559sounds like its his own fault.
@deazy2k9 18 күн бұрын
I don't know what you are talking about if you have a bitter baby mama she can consciously or unconsciously poison the kids against you.
@troya.8094 17 күн бұрын
Nah, very likely she did feed the divide. My mom did similar. They fell apart, she moved us away to another state then country, fed us 1 side of the story and bad mouthed him at every opportunity … as a kid you internalize these views not to mention if no communication was the standard set from childhood to young adulthood.
@shawn1819 15 күн бұрын
Yea. I wuz thinkin it wuz her. But thats tru af tho
@jordangascony9413 19 күн бұрын
Dem kids and that lady dealing with severe trauma. This fool playing with their feelings. What could go wrong is that the chasm between you and your kids are widened.
@agent9973 19 күн бұрын
For him to sit up and talk about it like its funny its disgusting to sit up and do this.....this is why his kids don't talk to him he's a punk. He handle it poorly immaturely and that new baby mama is in for it too.
@defzonesmoke4184 19 күн бұрын
He’s a comedian 🤦🏾♂️
@samuelclark1677 19 күн бұрын
MFer did you live with him and his family? I swear y'all turn into Dr Phil trying to analyze someone else's life. Meanwhile your life might be the same or worse
@tarastransformation2655 19 күн бұрын
@samuelclark1677 plus his kids are adults. Gary raised her son from a previous relationship. Provided a comfortable life where she never had to wrk. She always made huge purchases with out his permission. Cut the man a break. He's allowed to want happiness at some point in his life
@jordangascony9413 19 күн бұрын
@@samuelclark1677Im a lady not a Mfer. So that is Miss Dr Phil.
@AmyJohnson-di5hw 18 күн бұрын
He is so triffling!! And I don’t see nothing funny!!
@rivolverocelot3010 18 күн бұрын
Dayum😂😂😂
@deewah1698 18 күн бұрын
Trifling for protecting himself?
@troya.8094 17 күн бұрын
Let the hurt go
@phyllissowhat 15 күн бұрын
Thank you sis! God!!’
@genevareed2087 11 күн бұрын
Go head Shay Shay! Thank you for allowing him to tell his story. People don't understand the hurt both People go through when divorcing. One or both partners share their story. Sometimes openly and sometimes secretly. Believe me the kids know what they saw on both sides. In a marriage there are three people involved. God, the husband and the wife.
@jrenee8303 19 күн бұрын
I’m sorry that story about him taking his kids and leaving was awful. I couldn’t imagine you taking my kids and leaving for DAYS while you drive across the country and won’t even pick up the phone. That would traumatize me for life
@diaryofafreebitch 19 күн бұрын
He’s confused why he doesn’t have a relationship with them???? It’s absolutely unbelievable watching this whole exchange….the comments defending him are even worse.
@TheMainMan364 18 күн бұрын
They are his kids too
@TheMainMan364 18 күн бұрын
If she did this you wouldn’t bat an eye.
@jrenee8303 18 күн бұрын
@@TheMainMan364 nothing to do with gender, wrong is wrong. Taking the kids unexpectedly after a fight and cutting off communication is evil
@julesgordon1109 18 күн бұрын
@@jrenee8303welcome to the reality of what a lot of what some of us men go thru with the mother of our kids.....now yall see how evil and messes that is.
@oadougz 4 күн бұрын
This was a refreshing interview. Gary has always been open and always talked about his marriage whether in joke or real life. It sucks that he doesn't have a relationship with his children and that he raised when they were in diapers. I hope his kids understand that their parents did the best they could under the circumstances they had and Dad will always love them. Congrats on the twins birth and this new chapter in your life
@jessicaavery6278 6 күн бұрын
Everyone throwing him under the bus when we all know it takes two…as a mom this saddens my heart…I would give anything for my son to be able to be with his father who passed away when he was 8 years old…why would you as a mom pass your hate for their father onto your kids…clearly the relationship suffered for years 😢
@QuinnDBranch 18 күн бұрын
Gary needs to stop talking about this stat! i cannot look at him the same
@jenniferhaynes8625 17 күн бұрын
He was clearing things up.When the divorce was going on,I saw Kenya on a lot of interviews talking about the relationship.
@troya.8094 17 күн бұрын
Nobody knows you or cares. He’s allowed to tell his side after years of silence.
@QuinnDBranch 17 күн бұрын
@@troya.8094 and I'm allowed to state my opinion 😘
@Yahawadah70ad 15 күн бұрын
@@QuinnDBranch True, but as the person above stated, no one cares or gives af.
@elizabethantoine9652 9 күн бұрын
But if y’all don’t care about what a person is saying why comment !?? Must love that person to keep giving attention !! Love ya
@everyonedeservestogohome2949 19 күн бұрын
Please pay attention ladies. 🙏🏾 You give them your youth and your body and they cheat, lie and then drive to another state to divorce you at a disadvantage. They arenever worried about their kids when they are cheating on you😂 only when its time to pay for the separate household they have to pay for because OF THEIR ACTIONS.
@TheMainMan364 18 күн бұрын
Nobody cares lol
@isabelflowers2585 17 күн бұрын
U must be hurt
@pocketrocket313 10 күн бұрын
Proof that being unfaithful impacts more than just the spouse. It crushes the children. Don't cheat, don't lie. Gary has poisioned the hearts of his children. That said, it sounds like Gary and his children need another chance. I hope they can forgive him, and he can forgive himself.
@changeoffocus1074 9 күн бұрын
Facts… He cheated ..
@swaynieart2684 19 күн бұрын
Gary is funnnny... But maybe bringing closure to the "First family" before creating a "Second family" seemed like a good idea.. Oh well, not my businessssss
@lovelivelife3092 19 күн бұрын
That part lost a lil respect for dude
@sob_meen 18 күн бұрын
you can't bring closure when they will not speak to you it's only so much you can do he paid for everything and waited while their answer was always they aren't ready what else do you want him to do? He said he wasn't perfect he ain't make no excuses he did keep it from her that he was divorcing her but he told her and she didn't open the door ducking to be served then filed in California because she could get half of what he had let's be fr here
@AddColor2Life 18 күн бұрын
This was wild! I appreciated Gary’s honesty, but man that’s sone crazy s%*t! Dude put his first wife through it.
@KolourMeGold 18 күн бұрын
And he finds it funny.
@marissaj8431 17 күн бұрын
Comedians make jokes of their pain. You either choose to laugh or cry. Common phenomenon. That said, doesn't justify the trauma to the kids. That's what happens when you have 2 immature adults.
@shawn1819 15 күн бұрын
Yea idk if airing every detail is the best thing to do. Mabey he jus tryna beat her to the point
@devonstewart9376 18 күн бұрын
Ya seem to forget that he's being honest...plain and simple. He's being vulnerable and honest about what he did in the relationship and marriage. He NEVER abandoned his children at all. He and his wife knew that separation was coming but clearly she didn't think that it would ever happen or at least didn't take him seriously on really leaving her. You can't bluff when it comes to that stuff. And when he showed her that he was foreal, that's when she started to take things seriously. Things happen, she did things and he did things but he definitely did not abandon his children. I give Gary all the praise for being straight up about his situation. One day his children will become parents and realize and understand things more. They don't have to agree with everything but they'll respect the journey that he took to take care of them and give them a life.
@oneforall9046 5 күн бұрын
He went about it all wrong
@bmcdaniel2007 16 күн бұрын
I love this true confessional. Awesome questions Shannon. Gary must make every effort to seek peace privately with family. Go old school... write letters.
@TamikyoInez 19 күн бұрын
Spiritual warfare is real. Even when you do everything right, we will still go through hard times. As well as have things happen that are just unfair.
@jaynicew 17 күн бұрын
Amen
@courtneywardlaw8109 16 күн бұрын
Absolutely!!! It’s hard and hurtful.
@nightwishisthegreatestband6355 15 күн бұрын
He tore his own family apart. He made his own bed.
@sexyblackcharlery 15 күн бұрын
He made some terrible choices
@dbmrsir123 14 күн бұрын
Only what God allows
@thebarbieinvestor5428 18 күн бұрын
His kids are grown. It’s a reason they don’t mess with him.
@Qodeshim1983 17 күн бұрын
This was actually a great interview. One of the best I’ve seen here. It’s sad about Gary and his children. I’m going through something similar with my siblings.
@nowwhat1434 18 күн бұрын
So he already broke up with the mother of his twin babies? He too old for all this.
@veebaby5537 17 күн бұрын
😮
@StephMG 15 күн бұрын
It’s obviously him
@subscribefourn0reas0n41 14 күн бұрын
@@StephMGfuk no
@natv55 13 күн бұрын
Please tell me this is a joke!!
@carlosphillips3 13 күн бұрын
As long as he take care of those kids it's no one else's business
@t.k.3895 17 күн бұрын
I remember back to many of the interviews he did a year after the divorce was occurring, he kept saying he never cheated and etc. He was the bad guy. He knew he started the divorce process and did not say anything until the day she was getting served. What did he think was going to happen. I've seen it go both ways with any gender that gets blind sided. SO, that is probably whey your kids are mad at you. You served their mom on the same day you told her you wanted a divorce. OF COURSE she's going to try to save face because both of you are public figures. Non public figures don't have to do that. Also, typical of a man to have a new set of kids after a divorce and having OLDER kids. Wrap it up. you don't have to have kids with your new partner. I bet the new girl is young.
@lashuandrareid7367 19 күн бұрын
What if..just what if his kids feel like he feels about his dad
@jocelyngardner5711 19 күн бұрын
He filed in Ohio and not California to get over on her😢
@outsidethebox8406 19 күн бұрын
Yeah bc if he filed in Cali he would have to split everything half.
@Nacho_Mama_ 19 күн бұрын
This story was gross. He cheated on her, blindsided her with a divorce, surprised her at the Panera drive-thru and he wonders why his kids don't talk to him? Sad,
@Kinikia95 19 күн бұрын
On here talking about how he lied to stall her. Laughing and thinking he's cute.
@oaktree1626 19 күн бұрын
Lived in Ohio
@YachicaKochinsky0330 19 күн бұрын
He’s jus sad😢
@denetrasenigar9633 4 күн бұрын
Gary, you are not either of your dads. You are a human being with a human experience and it unfortunately resulted in divorce. No one is perfect. I pray your family heals from this and you heal from the childhood trauma that you have experienced. Give yourself some grace as well as your children. You all will reconcile in time. Congratulations on the twins!!
@toniasilvas5422 18 күн бұрын
Every time someone has a reality show, they end up divorced.
@msmee0079 13 күн бұрын
I'm a bit older and when reality TV came out in the late 90s early 2000s, Jessica Simpson & nick lashay had their show and I specifically recall someone saying DON DO A REALITY SHOW WITH YOUR MATE BC IT WILL END IN DIVORCE!! so true
@MrClutch2434 12 күн бұрын
I can appreciate the realness. I hate how people just get to judging instead of appreciating somebody speaking the truth.
@TexasWreckShop 19 күн бұрын
Get used to not talking to your kids for way longer after this airs. Bro on here laughing about how he finessed their mom and played games with her at what was probably one of those most tramautic periods of their lives
@selfmaderish4690 19 күн бұрын
He a comedian 😂 but I agree, he checked out during the marriage and I guess he has a hard time accepting when he cheated on their mom he cheated on them too 😂
@nursebarbie7301 19 күн бұрын
Oh absolutely!!!! Just spend so much money to NOT divorce in LA County. Disgusting. I hope his kids NEVER talk to him again.
@ichirosuzuki2252 19 күн бұрын
complete dickhead honestly. Should have been man enough to divorce her before cheating. Trying to play it cool when you betray the mother of your children, laughing about it. Well, the new woman is probably gonna suffer the same fate, so good luck to her
@awds525 19 күн бұрын
Right joking or not them kids don’t want to hear you talk about them or their mother 😩Some matters should just stay amongst family. Public opinion doesn’t matter when you trying to mend a relationship.
@jaliciabanuelos8819 19 күн бұрын
One it's between the them husband and wife they didn't work out the kids.are hurting they grown they gonna be ok
@Rayshel84 12 күн бұрын
I really enjoyed this interview. It’s soooo relatable. I pray his family heals in private. 🙏🏽💚
@jocelynt4605 15 күн бұрын
Gary u needed this. This is the 1st step of where to turn for healing. Sometimes even when we try our best to not become those that hurt us, we still have traits. Re-evaluate yourself often. And give yourself pros & cons & reasoning. Your journey began, but u have to travel it.
@renitabutler237 15 күн бұрын
Gary Owens is the best I am glad he did Club Shay Shay 😂❤
@Jp-hc4hj 19 күн бұрын
WAKE UP PEOPLE… this is REAL LIFE PROBLEMS that MEN deal with on the daily .. no matter who is at fault .. ALL MEN need to hear this and how bad it can get by the decisions we make
@unknownnumberNA 17 күн бұрын
I can see why his kids no longer talk to him.
@plee6223 17 күн бұрын
Gary should give his process server referrals. That person is clearly very good at their job.
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