Not gonna lie the little bunny made out of dust had me laughing!

It’s the fact that she ALWAYS welcome the lurkers for me. 😭

I keep saying Mother’s & Father’s have to stop raising their sons the way they SHOULD BE raising their daughters. Everything is backwards, I’m not surprised men want to be the prize.

I’m now attracting healthy generous successful men, so my therapy has definitely worked! I use to attract this type over and over for years. After my divorce i began the work. This video describes my ex husband to the tea. I tried to fix him but i couldn’t. I’m praying for him as God positions me forward.

Just about every man wants to have a relationship that he saw his parents had, but often they never stop to ask, was the woman even happy in the relationship?

I remember telling him just because you saw your mother do it doesn’t mean I’m going to do it. For that reason I’m out. It’s too much work and draining mentally on women that love the men that won’t change. I changed me and you will encounter who you are. Have to put in work ladies and therapy does help, news flash God not going to come down here and do nothing you not trying do for yourself.

Don't get me wrong. I love my father but I can't fully respect him. He had a job, but it paid very little and he did not try to level up therefore my mother had to toil and mule to make ends meet. Now she looks very haggard and way older than she should. So my siblings and I suffered because my father got too comfortable. Growing up I was angry and resentful, and I didn't like how he disrespected my mother. I remember him getting angry when he learned about my mother's ex whom she met before him. He also would teach me that once a girl is not a virgin anymore, she is "damaged goods". I cannot find to respect a man like that.

Watch out for the men that have numerous selfies

*Not only do we not respect weak men, we can't hear them, the vibrations are too low. I think that if you know you are not mentally all there, therapy is what you need to be introduced to , not a relationship.*

The dust bunny at the end says it all. I had to stop being the Man in my relationships. I had a wonderful but masculine Mother who subscribed to the Strong Black Woman narrative. She died at home as she wished but with no life long partner to grieve her, just her 3 Children. I’m trying to break that generational curse at 57. Never too old to learn and change I hope. I love your inspirational and educational content. I follow you on IG also.

The men in my family are horribly wounded. It’s really weird how they try to control me and ‘put me in my place’ which in their minds is broke and depressed. They had no problems with me in dark times but now that I proven to be the capable, smart, high earner that I am my the males in my family have lost their collective minds. I’ve cut them all off. I refuse to be depressed so they can feel good about their failures. I don’t put them down. I just bounced and don’t give access to me. Because of this experience with men once close to me, I question every man (and woman).

I let go of myself and got to looking old but I'm only 22 . This video is my sign not to give up on myself.

Our family is full of wounded masculine and feminine. Fortunately there's a chance to course correct for the generations ahead. Thank you for these lessons and stressing the importance of planning and strategizing in order to heal and create the lives we want. As the old folks say, it's a tough row to hoe. 🙏🏿🌸🌺

In our community we raise girls to be prepared for their family by cooking,babysitting,cleaning the restrooms and dishes very early. Men were groomed to do 1 thing which was take the trash out or cut the lawn here and there. Alot of mothers say they are hard on us just in case we are in a situation where we are the head of the house(which happens too often). Instead of fixing the dynamic they trained us how to survive it bc deep down they expect their sons to be absent or weak as well. Lots of men get married or get in situation ,then bounce bc there is now an obligation and responsibility, which was never established young causing cowardish and weak men.

My ex’s dad is a narcissistic provider. His mother never worked a day in her life but fled when my ex was in high school to get away from his abuse and all his random kids he conceived during their marriage all over town. His mom leaving damaged him so much that he is a full on dusty who lives off of women even though his dad was a provider. He hates women but always has to have many at a time. He has said numerous times how he felt abandoned when his mother left, completely blaming her instead of holding his horrifically abusive father just as accountable for the reason she left. He is just like his father without the provider part. He’s a broke, abusive bum who spends all his lil paychecks on luxury items trying so hard to convince ppl he has money not even making 50k a year.

Reminded me of my brother and my father. I love my father. I would never marry someone like him. I am okay being on my own if that is what comes my way.

We are breaking generational curses and Chloe is ushering us through!! I’ve always felt that it was wrong but because no one taught me any different I thought it was normal….We grow up with these men and most are either our fathers, uncles, brothers and so on, but these men lack leadership and power to build and protect! And here I was thinking I needed to help my man build in order to feel worthy to be good wife material 😿

You’re really out here saving lives, Chloe. 🙌🏾 ❤️

I have dated a few wounded masculine men in the past. I am so happy and content that I am now married to a man that respects, revere and truly love me; and (provide financially for me) and thus complements my feminine energy. I did the work on myself to attract this type of man.

The wisdom from this video should be made into a book. I can't stress how many of us were taught to waste our energy and youth on a damaged man. If the roles was reversed the man would grow wings and fly away. He does not want to be bothered with our wounds.

The fact that someone immediately comes to mind as you go through these points makes me itch😤... I need to get out of this place. Feeling"stuck" is absolutely horrible🤦🏾

Men dont do fix ah woman. but Women. boy oh boy. leave broken men alone.

Yes I had deep wounded masculine men in my family. All my uncles were wounded and never married anyone and had kids. My grandfather never worked, my grandmother was the breadwinner and worked to her grave (she died of cancer) this created a generation of wounded females who were groomed to be independent and pick me’s for men and so the disfunction continued. Ever since I’ve started listening to this channel, I have learnt what hypergamy is, i take care of my looks and my body, im journaling and also going for therapy. I let go of another toxic relationship that was shaping me to become a 50/50 woman to help a man pay bills….and he would constantly say that he wanted a woman that would resemble his hard working mom! (The mom was single and raising three boys on her own. She’s still working to this day in her late 60’s) I just know in my heart of hearts that my purpose is to break generational curses and pave a new way of being for the next generation. Chloe you’ve been an invaluable inspiration, you’ll never know how many woman have been saved through your voice Thank you ❤️

Thanks for mentioning that men who don’t take care of their kids will have bad luck and things will not end well for them. #naturalconsequences

I'm so glad I found this page. Everything that is being said here is what a lot of weak masculine men don't understand. A lot of men think that all they have to do is treat a woman nicely, and it should be enough to sustain the relationship meanwhile preaching about what "type of man" they are but cannot confirm that with actions. The first time you see that a man cannot cover the rest of his rent after seeming to have it all together before you met him, run. He's not financially stable. Especially a man that isn't responsible for anyone but himself. If he has children, that's even worse. If he cannot hold his own weight, he will not be able to hold a family, if that's what you desire. Another HUGE red flag, is a man that will stand there and let you reach in your wallet, after agreeing to go on an outing with you KNOWING that he was broke, but somehow expecting that you've got it covered because you're more financially stable than him. That is a WEAK man who rest assured, will become comfortable the more you go out of your way. Run and screw how they feel.

Wow! Chloe you get 5 stars for this topic. I have dated weak men that I didn't respect and I tried to model strength, good work ethics, and being a responsible person. I can tell you first hand that this behavior will never inspire a man to be masculine. The only thing that you will get out of this is frustration, disappointment, and an empty pocket. So, I learned it is not my job to take care of weak and unstable men. I don't give any man wife-like privileges without him qualifying to be a husband. He must be able to protect, provide, and proven to be faithful.

I have these men in my family blood line. They help me stay away from the men you describe in this video. I have encountered some of these but I luckily don't let myself get too involved and have a good habit of getting out before I lose too much of myself. Good summation of the types Chloe!

Ladies!! enough with the Build-A-Boo workshop it is not cute and unbecoming of you Build-A-Bear is cute and works for teddy bears not men

I spoke to my dad who I haven’t heard from in a decade; he exhibits everything you’ve mention.

Thank you so much for this video Chloe. How can we not break generational cycles with videos like these? Knowledge is power

Thank god you made this video ! This describes all my exes ! Weak men !

It's sad these type of channels exist. Other races don't post or talk about these things. That's how rare is to find a black masculine men!

Lmao at the dusty bunny at 12:37 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Thank you I could never put a name on it. BUT I knew it was not right.

I was raised by and around these men. I later grew up and attracted these men. I grew up again emotionally and spiritually and healed that little girl. I now attract men in their divine masculine. Healing and more continued healing is the KEY. You will then know what they are about before they even open their mouths.

I think my most recent ex-boyfriend was a wounded masculine. Hed explicitly express how I never invested financially into the relationship. Ive never paid for a date or gifted him on his birthdays because I felt he always fell short. He complained about how I don't deserve good stuff from him and how I had to "prove" myself to be worth it. He literally once told him straight up that he could give me the world but he didnt think I deserved it. I think his talk stemed from being raised by a divorced single mother who provided for herself and him for most of his life. Most of these men do not know how to be masculine because it was never modelled to them.

Love seeing my notification for Chloe's videos always so much wisdom

My husband will be the first masculine man in my entire family 😊

This was amazing Chloe. The wounded masculine is something I recognized but I did not realize was so multi-faceted. It’s amazing how our intuition recognizes these red flags but we can’t articulate why or what. This is a great resource for both men and women to take accountability in their personal development and healing. ✨

This was so informative and I would love to see a similar video for wounded femininity. Great video!

Chloe_ you’ve done it again! Thank you for your patience, guidance and professionalism 💕 Ladies, please put yourselves first🥰

seeing this video reminds me so much of my EX and most of the men I used to train with when I was a professional wrestler. everything she mentioned makes sense to why they were the way they were.

God Bless you Chloe. I am curving toxic men left & right. Your videos help me look for red flags.

Great post. The dust bunny image was hilarious. 😂

I just want to know who edits those thumbnails. Cause they’re always fire

As I was listening to the very informative video. I said how can I fix it ? Then I realized that’s the problem. I can’t , I can only fix me .😏

I'm looking for a therapist now

A man not in therapy is not for me. Men are not perfect but to remain damaged is not the move.

Hey Chloe. BC has feminine spoiled men due to lack of fathers and mammies who spoil them which is why we have to affirm or work on our health and mindset to be better women since that community doesnt want people to be the best they can be mindset wisely. So much stuff wrong which is why i moved my mindset on better plans silently. Even if it meant another community and dating outside my race With samuels the guys weren't taking his advice atleast newcomers since its 1.1 views higher for women then his views for men so they won't take his advice. Men cant help every men out there im sure he tried but they want us to build with them but they arent built and not building themselves please if you see red flag of dustiness leave!

You hit it on the nail with EVERYTHING!

I love how unbiased and merited your content is. Keep up the great work. All facts here.

WOW!, THAT SPIT IS THE REALEST!!! THANK YOU AGAIN AND AGAIN!

This came right on time Chloe 🌹

Great video !

ThIS! Every single one, spot on!

Merci beaucoup Chloe! ❤✨😘

This video is giving me anxiety 😓 Grateful for it!! ✨🙌🌟

One of your best videos Chloe👏👏👏👏

YOU ARE ON POINT WITH THIS ONE!!!!!!!

Thank you for this video. The message is right on time, based on the social media arguments that continue. You are so right about these things plaguing the black community. I had to do a lot of self-work to stop seeking to fix and rescue guys. It's something that stems from childhood trauma. Therapy is a gift that keeps on giving, if we're willing to do the work honestly.

Love ur video looking forward to it

Omg I was JUST talking about this!!!!

i so wanna send this to my ex husband (to share with his mom-wife) lol.

Chloe in anointed and appointed to teach. Idc what nay Sayers say, argue with your liver 🤣

🌺🌺🌺 this is beautifully put.

Chloe, thank you.

Chloe, this video is right on time.

Love this!!!

Awesome !!!👏👏👏👏👏👏

I can bet money that each one of us has encountered 10 out of the 16 men mentioned in this video. I'm seeing more and more women choosing to remain single or flirting with lesbianism just to avoid marrying these damaged types.

This vid came on time today.

Good Morning!☀️

Thank you for doing God's work 🙏

I start my therapy very soon... I feel that im going through this.

Awesome Video! ❤💋💯

I always love your contents 🥰😍

This video was replete with reliable information. Make notes, and do not depart from wisdom.

Yes, yes and yes.

Number 5. Narcissistic is the Description. Of my Ex. OMG. He was awful.

Belly aching all over social media 😭😭😭😭😭😭 i can’t

Yes yes 👋 🥰

My bf is 27 and still lives at home and is babied by his mommy. Jesus Christ y’all I’m screwed

❤️❤️❤️

Unfortunately option A

You described my ex lol

Smash dat like

Wow this all I attracted….now I have a son that I talk down to sometimes 😢

This video has a lot of truth to it. I have a step father that has been there since I was 2 yrs old. A brother and sister (half) came after and my biological father had 7 kids (half brothers/sisters) with his first woman. I see them all as brothers and sisters. But growing up with my step father, he was never a father figure or family man. Always cares about a himself first and never care of giving guidance since he doesn’t have it. He’s would take us to his family and a lot of times leaving my mother out. He’s a cheater as well and never invited the family to come to our home but we would only go and visit on holidays and some weekends but just felt like just dropping off in a school playground and that’s about it. That made my life hard to try to be a masculine man but I always tried. Was married on a relationship that lasted 10 yrs and currently I have an 8 yr child with my X. I’m 33 now and 4 yrs single since that last relationship with my x wife. Mid 2017 my x left me. I did had issues with alcohol and in 2 months I told my X to come back and she did. I didn’t want our child to live the same life growing up how I did. 6 months later in Jan 2018 my x left again. I said fuark it. I told my mother that I came to realize if I kept insisting for my x to come back, I would be teaching my child a fake unhappy relationship of how it should supposedly be. I don’t feel bad and with no guidance from my step dad i managed to get a mortgage with my x, get her a 2 yr old car and did repairs at home and I always tried to pls my x and I changed a lot from how my x met me at 18. I was a punk rocker that played in a band and drank. She knew I was like that and she knew me before I knew her because I was going out with one of her friends when I was 16 and my x had a crush on me I didn’t know. Anyways my x added me on MySpace then it went to myface lol but I feel glad with what I accomplished. I left my band, my punk friends, my dog, my bronco, became a manager in Tito’s tacos in Culver City in my early 20s, became a lead security and a maintenance supervisor while I was with my x. Sold the house a few months after she left the 2nd time without her giving me a dime while the mortgage was still do and she had a nice even split of the money. She would say when we had 5 yrs together that she made me a better person. I’m like yeah right…… I always like to improve as well. My family is dysfunctional but I love them and still help them out when I can. We don’t eat together really and we all just kind of do our things. When I had a place with my x I would invite my family, my x’s family and I would grill, set up ppv fights and tried to have those reunions I saw when we visited family. To summon it, it makes it hard to be in a relationship since most girls I met are very family oriented and it takes me a while to open up. That’s why I’m looking for a friend first to build a foundation and not just hook up. In the meantime, I’m trying to regain what I lost. Good luck all.

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First today. Hi Chloe 💜

Another excellent video by Chloe, very much the truth; there are Masculine men but they are very rare. I think we do reverse roles in rearing boys and girls.

I just drop my dust bunny for 7 years now its time to do me

That was,,,, informative,,,,as a , blk woman,,,, I'm DOOMED. 😔😔

OMG speachless 😳😳😳

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A damaged uhm... There's a lot of them..

I shared it … I know I will get unfollowed and labeled as negative 🤷🏽‍♀️

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