i’m finally prioritizing self-care and it’s changing my life 🌼

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Darling Desi

Darling Desi

3 жыл бұрын

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Hello friends! I really hope you enjoy this self care day in my life type video. This summer has taught me that self-care, love and healing happens from within. I've made it a goal to do one thing every day that makes me feel most like myself. As someone who is currently dealing with anxiety and stress, I've been really focusing on ways I can improve my mental health. Romanticizing life and enjoying the little things makes such a big difference. I hope any of you who might be struggling, will remember that even if it's something as little as watching a comfort movie or making yourself a meal, that's self-care, and it's so so important.
Also, thank you for being so patient with me these past few weeks! I just shared on my Instagram stories why there has been a lack of videos recently. I've been dealing with some mental health stuff but I'm working my way back to my normal self. I couldn't force myself to make the videos when I was working through and processing so much as once.
I especially want to thank my Patrons in Honeywood Hollow for their amazing support! Without you friends, I wouldn't have made it through this past month. I love you my bosom friends, you do so much more for me than you could ever imagine! 💞
📖 Books mentioned:
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The Binding amzn.to/3wODP3b
🌸 Inoki Bathhouse (my inspiration for the amazing garden bath 💗🛁) inokibathhouse.com/
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Where I find my music (Epidemic Sound) - www.epidemicsound.com/referra...
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Tea set: amzn.to/3iHCFDc
📜Some of My Favorite Books:
Emma by Jane Austen (illustrated) - amzn.to/3cEhQVD
Edenbrooke by Julianne Donaldson - amzn.to/2U5yyGT
Anne of Green Gables ( Wordsworth Collector's Edition) - amzn.to/3gkudZ7
The Country Diary of an Edwardian Lady - amzn.to/35hx1Qm
My favorite edition of Rebecca by Daphne Du Maurier - amzn.to/3gqL5w2
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New Home - Austin Farwell • New Home - Austin Farwell
Coming of Age - Blondes • Blondes - Coming of Ag...
Yurucamp ED/ Fuyubiyori 太郎お肉 • 【TAB譜あり】Yurucamp ED/ F...
The Night We Met - Lord Huron Cover by The Running Mates • "The Night We Met" - L...
Bloom (The Paper Kites) Violin Covered by David Fertello
• The Paper Kites - Bloo...
Runaway (Aurora) Covered by Joel Sunny • Video
Ivy (Taylor Swift) Acoustic Cover by Izzie Naylor • ivy - taylor swift (ac...
Wild Mountain Thyme (acoustic cover) by Izzie Naylor • wild mountain thyme (a...
Riptide - Grace VanderWaal • Grace VanderWaal - Rip...
Give Me (Instrumental Version) by Humble Hey (Epidemic Sound)
I'm So Done (Instrumental Version) by Cody Francis (Epidemic Sound)
Do You Believe by Marc Torch (Epidemic Sound)
Lens Flare 1 by Peter Sandberg (Epidemic Sound)
Everyone I Know by North Sphere (Epidemic Sound)
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@VeronicaViccora
@VeronicaViccora 3 жыл бұрын
It’s so funny that we’re so concerned about what people will think of us when we dress up/dress for ourselves, but most of the time people are really positive and even inspired by seeing someone comfortable enough in their own skin to express themselves so uniquely.
@BrokenDharmaForge
@BrokenDharmaForge 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. From personal experience every time I go out and dress however I want and feel that day, unabashed by how odd it might be (imagine going to Walgreens with a wooden basket and yellow sundress) people have not only complimented me, but somehow seemed more...Im not good with words but, joyus to talk to me? Maybe it's just my own feels projecting but the world feels brighter and so do others when you live for you (with consideration to other of course).
@CrisOnTheInternet
@CrisOnTheInternet 3 жыл бұрын
A couple of days I run into the kitchen and when I see my sister with "odd" shoes I giggled and she automatically said "this is something you'd wear". It's just so aesthetically pleasing to see people wearing unique clothes.
@svetlanabarrow6026
@svetlanabarrow6026 3 жыл бұрын
Nobody cares about what other people think!
@BubbleBunnyy
@BubbleBunnyy 3 жыл бұрын
exactly and if someone is judging you you don't want them around you anyways.
@saranator408
@saranator408 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! We need more people that think this way:D I really love this channel and this community😊❤️🙏
@DaPoofDaPoofDaPoofDa
@DaPoofDaPoofDaPoofDa 3 жыл бұрын
“Self care is doing the things that make you feel more like yourself”
@eleanorjones8613
@eleanorjones8613 3 жыл бұрын
Desi I don't quite know why but I started crying just before the halfway point of this video. You are truly a beautiful person inside and out. You shine so bright and give that light that has touched so many people. Thank you for your work and growth to be honest about self care. Its mean so much to so many.
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
And now I’M crying 🥺 Thank YOU for such sweet words. My heart is full 🥺🤍
@smeenasiddiqui2374
@smeenasiddiqui2374 3 жыл бұрын
That's a nice comment today.
@april3021
@april3021 3 жыл бұрын
I almost teared up when she was in the car eating tiramisu and listening to that song. The caption was "my heart" ahhhhh I melted. I whole heatedly felt her joy ❤
@yyaaii
@yyaaii 2 жыл бұрын
Funny, my eyes teared at this moment too 😀
@Emily-nk9gz
@Emily-nk9gz 2 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi I want you to know that you’re so loved 💗 no matter how big anxiety gets,there is someone bigger than this. Someone who is always there ,who wants to heal you from all the burden you carry 💕. It is Jesus :). He invites you to follow him,and deny yourself (means to give up your will,surrender yourself and pick up your cross to follow him). He loves you so much,that he was willing to die for all of your mistakes on the cross. 💗 be blessed wonderful sister ,I love you so much ,you really remind me in somethings of myself. You are wonderfully and fearfully made. God has given you a great gift ,the only thing u need to do is to discover it. If you want to have eternal life ,the only thing you need to do is to to repent,and turn away from your sins (like lying,being very angry and aggressiv ,lusting, idolizing, etc),trust and believe in Jesus , like you trust a parachute to save you when you jump out of the plane. He really cares about your precious life ,he has given you so wonderful things 💗 thanks if you read my message,it would mean a lot to me🥺. Much love from Austria 🤗♥️ stay safe & healthy!
@kendrasmith4661
@kendrasmith4661 3 жыл бұрын
I have been making my own flower crowns and wearing them everywhere everyday and I love it! It was kind of awkward at first, but now I feel so amazing and confident in them. I got my dream reaction the other day when a little girl (probably 3) stared at me and half whispered "She's a flower girl!" 😍😍😍
@aurourasandsadprose9272
@aurourasandsadprose9272 2 жыл бұрын
Awwwww…. That’s so cute!
@yyaaii
@yyaaii 2 жыл бұрын
I love that! 💛
@adariusburns2204
@adariusburns2204 3 жыл бұрын
I love your sending off the message that everyone should not care what other people think and just do what makes you happy .That just makes my little heart glow with happiness.
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
It’s so much easier said than done (coming from someone who still sometimes struggles with filming in public places) but it’s truly one of the most freeing things! 🤍
@sangeetakumari1468
@sangeetakumari1468 3 жыл бұрын
mine too!That was such a powerful line she mentioned in the starting and followed through with it!
@kittyquinn004
@kittyquinn004 3 жыл бұрын
You apologized for the buzzing bees, but that just adds to the cottagecore princess aesthetic ☺️💖
@kathleenroberts7972
@kathleenroberts7972 3 жыл бұрын
You are an enchantress! Shine on sweet soul!
@SalindaNichols
@SalindaNichols 3 жыл бұрын
Self-care is absolutely first and foremost for being the most true versions of ourselves, and looks different to us all. Be kind to yourself and take it as easy as you need 💚
@aksheee
@aksheee 3 жыл бұрын
ur so beautiful as is desi
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
You couldn’t be more right! 🤍 Also this is a side note but just the other day I saved your “vintage hairstyles for summer” (i don’t remember the exact title) video to my Watch Later playlist because they all looked SO cute! I can’t wait to watch it ☺️
@SalindaNichols
@SalindaNichols 3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi aw thanks so much! 💚 Hope you enjoy, I'd love to see if you try any!
@theodycherylcredo2645
@theodycherylcredo2645 3 жыл бұрын
💛
@lunatonkens7933
@lunatonkens7933 3 жыл бұрын
Great to see you here too Salinda! Haha :)
@livysardothien5745
@livysardothien5745 3 жыл бұрын
I cried so hard. This life is the one I want. Everyone just seems to be against everything I do that makes me happy. Saying it's childish and being judgemental and giving me those looks that i hate so much. I can't do the things i love cause I'm always anxious and afraid of being harassed by doing what i love. And now I'm so broken and dead inside. I just wanna live like this. But i feel like my life is not mine. I can't control it. I can't live it. I don't belong to anything, not even to myself. They take me and throw me after using me. It sucks. I'm so tired and exhausted. I just wanna be free and happy. This video feels like home. Thank you so much for this Dessi💜
@BambiKiller99
@BambiKiller99 3 жыл бұрын
I resonate with this... Sending you a warm hug. You’re amazing ❤️
@tajat866
@tajat866 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you find the way to be yourself 💜
@livysardothien5745
@livysardothien5745 3 жыл бұрын
@@BambiKiller99 thank you, back to you too 💜
@livysardothien5745
@livysardothien5745 3 жыл бұрын
@@tajat866 I really hope so... thank you for replying 💜 have a good one :))
@khadiisam26
@khadiisam26 3 жыл бұрын
This comment made me cry 😭♥️
@SFlaidlaw101
@SFlaidlaw101 3 жыл бұрын
Desi, I just want to say from one creator to another I understand what it takes to create. A lot of people might get confused as to why breaks and mental health are necessary for creators, but the huge amount of energy and pressure it takes to deliver consistently is hard. Especially when you deal with health issues or family-related issues (I watched your Insta story) Not to mention that people can be hateful towards your creations and it takes a whole deal of bravery to post in the first place. This video was beautiful. Thank you for creating it and thank you for taking the time to heal to let it surface.
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Why am I crying 😭 It’s like you pulled the words right out of my soul. What you said is so true. I felt so guilty for not having videos up week after week, but it’s also so hard to put your entire self into something when you’re hurting and broken on the inside. Thank you for making me feel so seen 😭💗🤍
@GoodGD09
@GoodGD09 3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi sweet and beautiful lady, you have brightened up my days. I have generalized anxiety disorder and I’ve fell into catatonic depressions throughout my life after some traumatic events that ensued. Your videos bring me joy and they remind me to take care of my heart and my soul and that I am worthy and enough to do what makes me happy. I’ve broken the cycle in my family that chained me to believing I wasn’t good enough to do what I loved or could fulfill. You’re an inspiration, a light and truly one of a kind. I adore you and we are so grateful that you graced us with such amazing content, this is not an easy job and it takes a lot of time and effort. Please know as a viewer I appreciate you.
@ericaenchanted
@ericaenchanted 3 жыл бұрын
Awww! You don't just look like a fairy princess---you ARE a fairy princess!!!🦄😊💕🌸🌼💐🥀👑
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
😭💗💗💗
@evaalcala4238
@evaalcala4238 3 жыл бұрын
I would literally watch this video 1000+ times
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
💗💗💗
@jodi5127
@jodi5127 3 жыл бұрын
Same I would watch this whenever I wanted to feel warm and cozy:)
@maleficentmistressofevil4709
@maleficentmistressofevil4709 3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi what's the name of the song at 10:38 princess?
@Ariel_is_a_dreamer
@Ariel_is_a_dreamer 2 жыл бұрын
I hope more people have the guts to do this because everytime people dress the way they like, it makes them look sooo beautiful, regardless of style. It's like the person is finally in the style they were made to have, it's always a glow up.
@thelittlecountrygal
@thelittlecountrygal 3 жыл бұрын
Self-care is so important not just for body but for the mind and the heart. 😌Thank you for taking over 40 hours to make this work of art for us!❤
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
You’re 100% right! And thank YOU for watching! 💗🥺
@fairyoftheforest98
@fairyoftheforest98 3 жыл бұрын
You're legit the most adorable person ever. I died at the part when you got dizzy in the grass and when you put the flowers in your pocket with the water. Also SO GENIUS
@TheDarthSoul
@TheDarthSoul 3 жыл бұрын
Did I watch the entire video even though I helped film parts of it? Yes, yes I did. This was so well put together and just absolutely amazing! Nice work Desi 😍👍
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks babe 🥺 This video wouldn’t have been made without you!! 🤍
@sdeshazy
@sdeshazy 3 жыл бұрын
Y'all are a amazing team, its lovely to witness a little bit of it! Indeed a great video both in filming and editing 😊
@maleficentmistressofevil4709
@maleficentmistressofevil4709 3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi aaaawww what a sweet love of both of you!🤩🥰❤ Blessings!😃🤍
@KyanneSummer
@KyanneSummer 2 жыл бұрын
Duuuude🥰
@TheDarthSoul
@TheDarthSoul Жыл бұрын
@Cozy Girl With A Cup of Tea yes 😁👍
@junesgardenclub
@junesgardenclub 3 жыл бұрын
THIS IS SO CINEMATIC... "Darling Desi's Day Off"
@themaydiariesxo
@themaydiariesxo 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t even begin to describe how your videos help me out so much. Last night I started taking antidepressants which I feel super afraid due to the side effects. But I love how I watch this video which instantly calms me down. Thank you so much for your beautiful spirit and lovely, lovely videos! ✨
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Aww sending you all the good vibes!! Feeling stressed or nervous is the worst and definitely something I can relate to. Thank YOU for such a kind comment 🥺🙏🏻💗🤍 I hope you’re feeling better!
@mononoke8015
@mononoke8015 3 жыл бұрын
Best wishes to you. Be yourself every day, with joy or not. Sometimes it's hard, but every man has a power inside himself. I hope you see the beauty and uniqueness of your life!
@alinashirinian2485
@alinashirinian2485 3 жыл бұрын
I wish you best of luck on your journey 💖🍀 I recently finished taking my antidepressants and I can tell that they gave me the strength to start healing myself which imo is the most important thing. The side effects were not fun, but they were a small price to pay for that! And watching soothing, wholesome content like Desi's videos is a great addition to meds, that's for sure!
@themaydiariesxo
@themaydiariesxo 3 жыл бұрын
@@mononoke8015 Thank you so much for these incredibly kind words ❤️ This is what I plan to do: to cherish my life in the way that makes me happy. I hope you’re doing well too darling ❤️❤️
@themaydiariesxo
@themaydiariesxo 3 жыл бұрын
@@alinashirinian2485 Thank you so much for your words of wisdom ☺️ I’m not gonna lie I was so afraid and hesitant to start taking them but I also want to get back on healing myself. Best of luck of you too! It must feel so big to be coming off of them. ❤️
@HeatherLaurenCo
@HeatherLaurenCo 3 жыл бұрын
The the pearly braids and the voluminous bangs, you look like an elf or fairy!
@catherinecorn7182
@catherinecorn7182 3 жыл бұрын
There are a few things I wish i could tell my younger self... One is this. Just like you dont care how people dress and what they dream about and do, no one cares how you dress and what you dream about and do. They may ne curious why or how, but at the end of the day, you have to do what makes your heart, mind, body and soul sing. I type this as I sit at my antique vanity, fixing my hair into a neat Gibson tuck, and then admire my handiwork in my vintage hand mirror, while wearing a floor length 6 gore skirt I sewed myself. Preparing to go let my goats and chickens out for the day, while dreaming of all the eggs i will soon gather (my chickens are all pretty young right now) I will chatter to my roosters and chit chat with my hens. I will hugs all the goats and pet them and croon to them. I will then fluff up my puppy and tell her what a dreamcake she is, so smart and pretty, and silly, then i will check in on my daughters ducks and the baby chicks and then back into the house to can banana pepper pickles, dry seeds for next year, and get to making dried jalapeño powder for seasoning future dishes. Create the life you wish to live, no apologies, no excuses. Love yourself so deeply and so wildly that nothing and no one can alter your path to self thriving beyond your wildest dreams. Be authentic to yourself
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely just got emotional while reading your words 🥺 You couldn’t be more right! I especially love at the beginning how you said that really no one cares what you do and how you dress and what your dreams are. They’re too worried about themself, and if anything, they might be inspired to see someone just unabashedly being themselves. Thank you so much for your thoughts! I took a screenshot so I can refer to it again 🤍
@catherinecorn7182
@catherinecorn7182 3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi keep being you! Most mental health issues today are caused by beautiful unique beings attempting to fit their triangle selves into round and square holes.... We are created special, we dont need labels and boxes and hole a. We need time to develop our wings and learn to breathe deeply and space to blossom.
@k.a.t.h.r.y.n
@k.a.t.h.r.y.n 3 жыл бұрын
Everything about this video is beautiful but you make it the most beautiful. Your energy and aura is absolutely incredible and contagious.
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
You are so kind 😭 thank you!! 🥺🙏🏻😭💗
@GracewithBooks
@GracewithBooks 3 жыл бұрын
Love starting a day with desi serotonin. I’ve been in SUCH an anxious headspace this past week and with work I know I haven’t been prioritizing myself. This is such a wake up call to do just that 🌻🪴
@monicaliu6096
@monicaliu6096 2 жыл бұрын
Protect this girl at all cost! I aspire to live like this, fully embracing myself and enjoying life to the fullest :)
@sarahwoodward4094
@sarahwoodward4094 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so in love with this video, this year has been difficult for me, I started my year with in of the worst depressive episodes I’ve had since high school and I quit a toxic job. This has reminded me that I can do things for me and I don’t need to worry about what others think, time to break out the cool maxi skirt I bought and swoosh around !
@NerdWatchJinxy
@NerdWatchJinxy 3 жыл бұрын
That Fleetwood Mac song worked perfectly! SO CUTE.
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! For some reason whenever I hear it, I think of skating and just enjoying life and going with the flow 😌 🛼
@kristeneks
@kristeneks 3 жыл бұрын
You dressing up in your favorite dress, with a flower crown and a glittered face just made my morning! This makes me so happy for you! And everyone of us here :)
@summerskiiin7133
@summerskiiin7133 3 жыл бұрын
The best and most comforting thing to wake up and drink my coffee to!!💕 I would definitely be wishing I were as regal-looking and fabulous as you if you walked into my bookstore🥰😇
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Omg ahhh you’re so sweet 😭 A bookstore is such a great place to go dressed up because I feel like book people just get it ☺️
@elizychler9096
@elizychler9096 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. Honestly, I've really been struggling these past few months because my grandma passed away and there's also a lot of other things that happened, so I haven't really been taking care of myself much. This video helps brighten my thoughts and motivates me to care for myself more, so thank you! 💖🌼
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh i’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine how hard that much be. I know it can be difficult when you’re feeling so down, but please take care of yourself 🤍 Even if it’s just putting on one of your comfort movies, making yourself a nutritious meal or drinking extra water. Sending you a virtual hug! 🤗🤍
@elizychler9096
@elizychler9096 3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi thank you so much! I really appreciate it. 💖
@reginaswope5107
@reginaswope5107 3 жыл бұрын
Wow Desi. When I think you can't do any better you surprise me. This was pure magic. And just what I needed. And the soundtrack was just 👌👏👍🙌 no words.
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh thank you so much 😭😭💗
@kritikaaagaur
@kritikaaagaur 3 жыл бұрын
The length of the videos and the high quality (movie like) proves how much work desi puts into the video. And I loooovvveee it.!!!! Please keep making videos like these
@taylorgray3147
@taylorgray3147 3 жыл бұрын
Today--my self care was watching this beautiful video created by this beautiful team of Desi and Jared (!!
@mothman26
@mothman26 3 жыл бұрын
I'll never forget. I was showing my grandma your channel and she said "she seems sorta ditzy!" I was so upset at her. I told her that your not ditzy. Your happy! I still stand by that! 🌼🌱🌿🌹🌷⚘
@grizeldaxxx4568
@grizeldaxxx4568 3 жыл бұрын
Desi is such a JOY GERM and just what the World needs xx
@KC-kb4pz
@KC-kb4pz 3 жыл бұрын
Joy is so foreign to a lot of people🤔
@Valeriesbeautyinc
@Valeriesbeautyinc 3 жыл бұрын
Well it doesnt matter what grandma thinks only what Desi thinks..she is just inspiring others to be themselves
@MinaElle
@MinaElle 3 жыл бұрын
This was so magical to watch. To me, watching your videos is a part of self care because they make me so happy.
@marr8a
@marr8a 3 жыл бұрын
I started my self care morning and evening routine too a few days ago
@B_lusch
@B_lusch 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if it’s just me, but she the aesthetic that I want to emulate so bad. The gorgeous dresses, sitting in a field of flowers reading 🥺🥰
@Ms.SpookyNerd
@Ms.SpookyNerd 3 жыл бұрын
I do lots of self care especially for my GA (general anxiety)
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
That’s so good and so so important 👏🏻
@lailasolaris
@lailasolaris 2 жыл бұрын
You have made a permanent fan. You are the true modern day version of Anne of Green Gables. Beautiful filming and editing too. Thank you, kindred spirit!
@samanthaharris5404
@samanthaharris5404 2 жыл бұрын
If you walked into a bookstore and I was there, I would think you were soooo cool. It is inspiring to see you be so authentic.
@saviitude1234
@saviitude1234 3 жыл бұрын
Desi this video is EXACTLY what I needed this week!! I’m so excited to watch your journey, learn some new things and no doubt see a GORGEOUS video. Thank you for putting so much love and time into these videos! The reminder that it is not selfish to love yourself literally brought me to tears. I struggle so much with that concept. Thanks so much for the reminder that self love does not have to be expensive, or unattainable it can be simple, warm, cozy and easy. Sending love you you des, thank you.
@kallistoindrani5689
@kallistoindrani5689 3 жыл бұрын
There is something magic about reading when it rains! I don't mind this time of year when it's warm out and the sun is shining and I can sit outside all day and read but it's not the same as reading when it rains ( and when it's a bit gloomy outside too).
@janreichard3324
@janreichard3324 3 жыл бұрын
This was such a beautiful video and now one of my favorites, especially knowing you are going through some tough times in your life and still brought all your energy and magic! I am all about finding and doing things to nurture my soul! Thanks for the reminder.
@TheCHADsession
@TheCHADsession 3 жыл бұрын
DESI! I can't wait to watch, Self Care is something I need to implement more in my life! Thank you
@thechronicallyillcowgirl
@thechronicallyillcowgirl 3 жыл бұрын
Skating Advice from a roller derby girl: bend your knees, point your hips where you want to go, and DEFINITELY get pads. They also make shorts with padding for your butt too (they look dorky but trust me, they save you lots of pain)
@FaeryLaume
@FaeryLaume 3 жыл бұрын
Wearing pads is a far better plan than eventually wearing a cast or bandage wrap.
@gabriellegreene2329
@gabriellegreene2329 2 жыл бұрын
yes! wore pads and still broke my foot. good luck to you all 😭
@michellabella10
@michellabella10 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful creation 🤲🏻🥰 thanks for nurturing my soul with an inspiring spirit, joy and purposeful project that influences me to become my best self and love me the way God intended me to do. Glory to God!! I am subscribing now🙌🏻 thank you so much
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, thank YOU! 🥺🙏🏻💗 I’m so happy you enjoyed it 💗
@wheretangents3327
@wheretangents3327 2 жыл бұрын
"If it makes you happy, it doesn't have to make sense with anybody else" this quote literally made me cry :(( i needed that thank you 😭
@TK-vt2xv
@TK-vt2xv 3 жыл бұрын
This is the best news ever 🥺❤️ I'm so happy for you Desi! You have no idea how much you've inspired so many others to romanticise life with your videos, so it's really nice to know that you're also taking care of yourself❤️❤️
@scarlet5420
@scarlet5420 3 жыл бұрын
This channel is such a nice calm place, I love these videos so much
@simple4kill
@simple4kill 3 жыл бұрын
So, I have a personality of a solitary black cat with Morticia Addams aesthetics, and I found your channel through the dark academia video; that being said, I am absolutely living for this content, the flowers, the fairies, the giddiness, to the point, I almost made myself a flower crown today. This is the polar opposite of who I usually am, and I'm subscribing, thank you for the magic
@izzyscraftworld7920
@izzyscraftworld7920 Жыл бұрын
This isn’t any old KZfaq video, this is pure art ❤
@barbiloli9481
@barbiloli9481 3 жыл бұрын
Yay! Desi, do you even realize how happy you make me every time I see a notification that you posted? ✨❤
@elizabethtran8746
@elizabethtran8746 3 жыл бұрын
ikr !!!!!!
@courtneyburton2317
@courtneyburton2317 3 жыл бұрын
So happy to see you! ❤️ Self-care is the bold act of loving yourself and being your own nurse, and I'm glad we get to take that journey along side you!
@alexandraroselyn
@alexandraroselyn 3 жыл бұрын
Everything about this video was perfection. The message and the music and the aesthetics. What a queen!!
@ameaturangel
@ameaturangel 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I just wanted to share that your videos have provided me with some calm and comfort. I am experiencing a lot of change and scary health-related things and your videos have put my mind at ease. Thank you.
@mole5682
@mole5682 Жыл бұрын
Completely relate! Hope you have a great day.
@jenniferdaniel6952
@jenniferdaniel6952 3 жыл бұрын
This couldn’t have come at a better time! The end brought me to tears ❤️
@claraclarke8642
@claraclarke8642 3 жыл бұрын
The beauty of the final moments of this video nearly brought me to tears. Thank you so much for this!!! 💖
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy you enjoyed it! I was editing that part at 3am and my brain was on its final brain cell 😂 I wanted to word it more elequantely but i’m happy with how simple it turned out ☺️🤍
@cianagrosse-rhode9983
@cianagrosse-rhode9983 2 жыл бұрын
Lately I have been getting into the cottagecore aesthetic, which is how I stumbled across you and your videos. Subscribed, because you are a beautiful quirky inspiring soul. I came here to say, thank you. After years of truama, I've found it difficult to remember my magick, and how to love myself. The end of this video moved me to tears. You my darling helped break the thick ice that covered the portal to my self love and reawakening journey. I am still crying. But I'm crying because I realize I love myself, my magick isnt gone, and as you said, I am enough. Thank you so much. ❣️
@frayansertzrave
@frayansertzrave 3 жыл бұрын
I was actually having a rough week and this video makes me have a sign to make me look out for myself more. Thank you so much for this wonderful video. I appreciate this one. Anyway, you're like a real disney princess! I love your looks Desi! ❤
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Aw you’re so so kind! Thank you 🥺🙏🏻
@hannahjordan6935
@hannahjordan6935 3 жыл бұрын
Somehow this video felt like the best time before a goodbye and my heart is so wildly renched for it and the knowing that in every goodbye there is something new ❤
@hellothere9127
@hellothere9127 3 жыл бұрын
I am expierencing a lot of change in my life this year and you’re videos have made my days so special and all my worry’s have gone away. This video definitely speaks to me. Thank you fairy princess!
@neash5080
@neash5080 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the sign of self-care. You have built a lovely community here. I hope the world gives you twice as much hope and inspiration as you give us.
@sofialopes9517
@sofialopes9517 2 жыл бұрын
I find myself smiling to the screen like a silly kid when I watch your videos. I used to love life so much and see the world like a fairytail... But then, 13 years ago, depression came... And all i've ever tried just failed miserably in my life. I've turned myself into nothing but a sad failure... I'm so sorry for this outflow. At least i'm happy to see that there are people like you that didn't fail their path. You're a real inspiration. And i'm even glad to see that you're keep trying to get out of your confort zone and being who you really are despite what others might think. You are the bravest 💖 Ps.: The daisy chains... O M G 😍
@shannonrobertson7212
@shannonrobertson7212 2 жыл бұрын
Omg this sounds like a perfect day! I love listening to my audio books baking but I've been too anxious and stressed finishing this degree while working full time and going on military duty. I spend all day go go go go to anxious to go to sleep. I study to cottage core playlists and dark academia!! Your videos are exactly what I need more of in my life! After this last class I am dressing up like a cottage core princess going to the bookstore, grabbing a hot tea and finding a spot outside! I'd love to find that version of grimm tales!
@spinstercatlady
@spinstercatlady 3 жыл бұрын
This was all so achingly beautiful, Desi...picture perfect 🐦💜
@lcomposemusic
@lcomposemusic 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe she doesn’t have more subscribers. Her content is beautifully shot and so positive. Love this Darling Desi~
@WithLoveKristina
@WithLoveKristina 3 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh I love this so much Desi! You're so beautiful, inside and out. And the bees buzzing near the microphone in the beginning made me giggle. You're such a JOY to watch, and you inspire me to pursue romaticising my own life, even when our lives are very different. I love love love love LOVE this, it's enchanting.
@MultiSuperstar14
@MultiSuperstar14 3 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most inspirational videos I’ve watched in a long time, thank you! 🌞🌼
@aja6724
@aja6724 3 жыл бұрын
Yayyyy I’ve been waiting for you to post! Im so ready to watch!
@lanas4016
@lanas4016 3 жыл бұрын
nothing makes me feel more at peace then your videos. i will forever be grateful for them💗
@ForgottenWayFarms
@ForgottenWayFarms 3 жыл бұрын
You bring so much joy into everything you do, keep shining and being you! 🥰 it took me years to learn to take care of myself, but it produces so much good in my life… I know it’s worth the effort ❤️
@alyssacarter7267
@alyssacarter7267 3 жыл бұрын
Ahhh!! This video is exactly what i've been needing 🧡
@elizabethtran8746
@elizabethtran8746 3 жыл бұрын
The 2 dislikes are the toxic thoughts we've all pushed away :)
@elliebrooks329
@elliebrooks329 3 жыл бұрын
I like to think they're just some moms who disapprove of roller skating without knee and elbow pads
@elizabethtran8746
@elizabethtran8746 3 жыл бұрын
@@elliebrooks329 lolllll
@crimsonwolfe_
@crimsonwolfe_ 3 жыл бұрын
This entire video was truly inspirational and a blessing. I've been struggling with so much in my life right now. Seeing your ending message of "it's okay to take a break and have bad days" really tugged on my heart and the rest brought me to tears. Not of sadness but of reassurance with myself. Thank you, Desi 💖
@StudioLindsay
@StudioLindsay 3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t thought about using my own love languages to give myself care until you mentioned it here. Definitely going to start doing that! 😊
@Halyy851
@Halyy851 3 жыл бұрын
Darling desi, I am so happy that I've founded you in youtube. You're one of the people who really warms me up, and inspire me. I used to feel very sad all the all the time, until I found u. Thankyou so much you re a wonderful person inside and out. Have a nice day love you😊
@phantomlover37
@phantomlover37 3 жыл бұрын
Love you Desi, and self care is so important. What a gorgeous video! I hope you are able to take the utmost care of yourself this season.❤️
@minihappyart
@minihappyart 2 жыл бұрын
the trick with putting flowers in a bag with water into your pocket is the cutest thing I've seen in a while! :D
@jadelauren2269
@jadelauren2269 3 жыл бұрын
i'm going through a really tough time at the moment and really needed to watch this right now, thank you 💖
@kritikaaagaur
@kritikaaagaur 3 жыл бұрын
OOOOOOMMMMGGGG DESIIII I HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT BUYING ROLLER SKATES RECENTLY AND YOU DID IT I- OHMYGOD IS THIS A SIGN FROM THE UNIVERSE THAT I SHOULD START SKATING??
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
IT’S A SIGN 🛼✨
@faithrotich9441
@faithrotich9441 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this video so calming and it encouraged me to also get out and try new things
@SabrinaJohns
@SabrinaJohns 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I just watched a beautiful and cinematic movie. THIS WAS BEAUTIFUL DESI AND SO ARE YOU! Inside and out. 🤗
@CharizzeT
@CharizzeT 3 жыл бұрын
Desi, thank you for this video! It reminded me once again to take care of myself. Your videos give me joy 😌
@videosbyrose5986
@videosbyrose5986 3 жыл бұрын
I saw your Instagram story, I’m so sorry you’re going through so much right now, I hope you’re okay :)
@juniper544
@juniper544 3 жыл бұрын
we know you're going through a hard time Desi, but I'm going to continually keep you in my thoughts and send you and Jared so much love. Things will be okay and you are okay ❤️ stay strong through this hard period of time girl :)
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Your message is so short and sweet but it brought tears to my eyes 🥺 Thank you so much 🥺
@happeningheidi
@happeningheidi 3 жыл бұрын
I just saw the intro and am super excited to watch the rest of this video! It’s going to be one that I’ll even need to re-watch, I can tell. Love you Desiree!
@michellelouisa4697
@michellelouisa4697 3 жыл бұрын
she's literally living my dream life in this video!!!
@lunatonkens7933
@lunatonkens7933 3 жыл бұрын
Also, your videos are so perfect. You really take your time to create something, I will always cherish this beautiful quality over quantity! I clicked on it, not expecting much, I just like your vibe. This video was so much more enjoyable than I could have ever thought! So many fun things in one video. Thank you for doing this 💜
@morgankate98
@morgankate98 3 жыл бұрын
You uploaded on my birthday! It’s been kind of a sad day and this really helped brighten it. Thank you Desi ❤️
@beyourselfstudios
@beyourselfstudios 3 жыл бұрын
This video is so beautiful! Your bathroom now looks like a fairy forest✨Also, great job at mastering the roller skates 🛼! The flowers added such a cute element to them!
@love_anneliese
@love_anneliese 3 жыл бұрын
OMG! Your videos are getting better and better!!! THANK YOU for constantly improving and creating better content for us! I really appreciate it 💖💖💖
@devinpeacock7940
@devinpeacock7940 3 жыл бұрын
Me, 22 seconds into the video: IT'S SO LOVELY I WANT TO CRY 🥺
@lisakimmence4443
@lisakimmence4443 3 жыл бұрын
I needed that ending message today. Thank you so much for posting. You truly make the loveliest videos that never cease to inspire me.
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@maikk02
@maikk02 3 жыл бұрын
The binding is some ne of my all time favorites! I binged it within 3 hours and then started again 😅🥰
@celestial_peace
@celestial_peace 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been going through a lot lately emotionally and having a hard time finding that spark again. Spending time alone has become dull and lifeless. I feel meaningless and lack interest. Everything you surround yourself with is so pretty. I loved the flowers and the idea of reading outside in nature. That bathroom transformation was so romantic. I also want to paint even though I have no idea how to. I enjoyed every moment of this video.
@ellewinnifred2449
@ellewinnifred2449 3 жыл бұрын
I love you, you're endearing and sweet, you're like a living Pinterest board, and your content is beautiful and relaxing. 💚💚💚
@angelaw7619
@angelaw7619 3 жыл бұрын
This video made me smile so much! Thanks, Desi! ❤️
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Your comment made my heart smile!! ☺️💗
@LifeOfRiza
@LifeOfRiza 3 жыл бұрын
You always make me want to live my best life, and be the person I want to be instead of being like everyone else to 'fit in'. Needed this vlog today 💛 x
@mahnoorfatimah7162
@mahnoorfatimah7162 3 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite videos of yours. It's so wholesome and hopeful. I really needed something like this in my life right now. Thank you for giving this to me. 🌸🌼
@aja6724
@aja6724 3 жыл бұрын
Hello! If your okay with it, can you link your Spotify/ Pinterest in the description?? I’d love to gather inspiration from it!
@hopelessromantic8682
@hopelessromantic8682 3 жыл бұрын
As a homeschool mom of three the idea of self care is often a distant fever dream 😂
@Wiz1800
@Wiz1800 2 жыл бұрын
Literally not evening a minute in and I already know that this video is going to be my aesthetic goal for 2022 ✨ Thank you so much for inspiring me Desi!! I hope anyone reading this has a great day :)
@kornelial2045
@kornelial2045 3 жыл бұрын
You look so beautiful!! You are right we should not give a freak what others think of us! Have a nice day!
@DarlingDesi
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
It’s so much easier said than done but SO worth it! 🙌🏻
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