These are not the 7 mistakes when dating Vietnamese women, but the 7 problems. Culture is not an excuse to continue adopting bad dating habits. Especially when it's all about money: paying for everything, taking care of her, taking of her family, etc...

Be careful. She paid for the first date now I am paying for the rest of my life. 😂

I won't take full responsibility for her family's problems.

I am 70 years old and my Vietnamese wife is 66 years old -- and I can say that what you talk about is 100 % true !! Great video for those wanting to date a beautiful Vietnamese lady.

so basically what i got from this is don't date a Vietnamese women

Sooo... It´s all about money, anytime and anywhere. Having money (as a western guy) is the best way to find the heart of a vietnamese woman

Expectations are never a good thing, they lead to disappointment. Vietnamese feelings of insecurity also don't help, which, in itself, leads to expectations, not to mention jealousy. You cannot go with the flow if you have expectations.

What a wonderful video by such lovely ladies! Thank you for helping me avoid these mistakes! Personally, I would have made the mistake of letting the parents pay if they insisted multiple times because I wouldn't want them to feel like I am rejecting their generosity and maybe even making them feel like I think they need my charity. Here in Switzerland, this could be seen as rude. Also, I heard that Vietnamese women like to always check where their boyfriend is and what he is doing and I don't mind that but I didn't know this extended to passwords of all kinds and I thank you for the warning too. I would have nothing to hide from my girlfriend but it would certainly be a bit surprising for me at first, even though I don't mind it and think it's cute. Great job to all of you, your English is marvelous and your enthusiasm is contagious! Liked and subscribed :)

Forget it! This Vietkieu is NOT marrying a Vietnamese girl if I have to be responsible for her entire family😅😂😂 Take care of your own family problems. Sheesh

Excellent video. Thank you for helping men understand the cultural differences. This should help mutual respect and communication.

Thank you ladies, you presented professionally and the content was educational

Helpful video if Vietnam ever opens back up for regular tourists. Hopefully before I get old...

My vietnamese wife (25) says these are generally true but NOT for all like her, so it is best to inquire than to assume. The video sort of touched on this around if they are educated etc. but I think it is more complex than that as not all have access to the education they want and need.

Thank you Trang and the team at Duong Global Business Consulting Group. I think it's nice that this channel makes videos on a variety of topics. I feel that the topic of this video is very informative and helpful when it comes to intercultural communication and understanding different cultural dating norms.

Vietnamese culture is very deep and profoundly different from Western culture. Great job of educating Westerners. Being aware and sensitive to those differences is an absolute. Love is love, and if it was meant to be, everyone will be happy.

I am not Vietnamese but I am an Asian. I feel guilty if I am not paying for food for my gf. I always pay whenever i go out with my vietnamese gf but my gf she sometimes paid in advance before me... This is not just with gf. Even If I go out with my friends, if I am the one asking them for an outing, normally I will pay or sometimes my friend will insist to pay. The most important thing is mutual respect and understanding.I treasure this culture as long as ones not advantages on each other.

Good editing! Cute! The ladies did fine.

You all did a great job in my opinion. Keep up the great content.

The girls interviewed on this video did a great job. I am considering moving to Vietnam and this is extremely valuable information to have. Thank you

I know this would be a hot topic!!! This is good to know. I wonder how learning Vietnamese will help you.

I'm actually dating a Vietnamese girl here in America for 4 months now. It's the best decision I made . She is amazing and I hope to marry her.

I think they both presented well, and have adorable voices.

I only have a problem with taking care of the family, and giving the girl my social media and email password😂🤦🏿‍♂️

Good video Trang. Good to know the cultural differences. 👍🏼

I can see why Vietnam is Developing faster. Very honest and smart people. Thank you for sharing your knowledge 🙏

I met my Vietnamese girlfriend 2 years ago and all is really nice. I hope to go back there very soon, because it's a long time we are separated, because covid. We are really in love and we are hurry to see both again. I hope to go back in Vietnam very soon.

i never expected this channel to have content like this. interesting video 🙌

NO MONEY, NO HONEY PERIOD ! : )

Very helpful! Thank you!

I enjoyed your video and explanations very much. I see this is a 2 year old video so will check for more recent ones. Thank you again and look forward to learning about Vietnamese women and the culture. I also hope to be able to use your tips and suggestions.

Haha.. what the hell? All I hear is pay this pay that, pay pay pay as its for gaining face. oh ok... But what kill me and is a major deal breaker. Your jealous GF need to have access to your smart phone.. and must know your password to your phone, FB, Gmail etc... haha. My financial life and net worth, access to all my stocks and banking is on "MY" phone, so Forget that.. all she get a a boot from me and me on to the next candidate

Im liking Vietnam more and more everyday. I have the bad habit of always paying for every date and I love to be a gentleman and take the lead. Much better than avg American woman and I live here. Honestly very educational and loved it !

Thank you so much Trang. Your friends did a good job, I hope they will make more appearances in the future. The video was great but I suspect there are a lot more than 7 mistakes foreigners make when dating a vietnamese girl. 😂

This helped me out a lot. Some unresolved closure from a very painful experience

Great video! Thanks! :)😊

The west was like that back in the 60s men would always pay now they go on dates and split the bill . They don’t get too far in Vietnam doing that ,they would be considered worse then a cheap Charlie. Girls any man that doesn’t pick up the bill run as fast as you can he isn’t worth your time

This video is straight facts. 💯 💯 💯 Real! I am going out with a Vietnamese girl and this is all true. Heed their advice and listen well for they grant the adequate knowledge required for this journey. Happy relationships yall :)

Thank you so much for the help!!

If you're a gentleman you'll do just fine 🕴

Trang and friends , I have learned so much information from you in the past few months about Vietnamese lifestyle and culture , thanks for great job and informative Videos .

Thank you , I learned a lot from your video . 🌺. ❤️.

Location 6:48 That's a test a lot of parents use to test their daughter's boyfriend when they first meet him so never ever fall for that trap. I don't understand this. Isn't the Vietnamese girlfriend supposed to train her foreigner boyfriend upfront in regards to how to act when her parents or elders are around, or whether to pay the entire dinner bill or not and how not to fall in the trap? If I am going to introduce my Vietnamese girlfriend to my parents, I will properly train her beforehand as to how to greet them, how to sit, how to talk and what not to say.

Thanks for sharing, I invite I pay.

Seems like a headache dating a Vietnamese girl.

Thank you for you advice !

Thank you for the information

Cute video. It was informative 👍

First off, how it is related to global business consulting? Then paying for a girl?? Well, your audience is not all sexpat!! I really feel offended when I see that! And why not a video "dating a vietnamese man?". Oh yeah I forgot... sexpats, right? And yeah, it looks like everything is related to money when it's about dating a girl in your opinion!

CAN'T BUY ME LOVE - BEATLES

ur best video yet. fun and entertaining

There are mistakes vietnamese women doing when dating western guy: - expecting man will pay all from day 1, aprt of that we want to test her she is humble and not only money oriented [this is TEST do not get trapped] - man will ask you what you want to do or what is your plan to see you are indepedent and have hobbies - we love showing affection on public - that means we really serious with you and want to show to public you are the ONLY one. - we will respect your privacy and expecting the same because we are raised in the way that "trust" is foundation of relationship - do not get into situation you in hidden check his wallet, phone or even corespodence etc.. You can ask him but respect refusal - Western man usually well educated and mannered ready to pay for lunch for you and familly - we straighforward - do not test us, if you want to pay and insist of paying we respect you and simple let you pay.

as long time here and married for vietnamese i can say : different culture different understandings about life and living you marry viet girl make sure you got a deep pockets will support mother father sisters and brothers every month someone will need money if u cant give money food from the fridge will disappear its not what western belive she will stay home take care house kkkkk BIG NO. all he time she will show off she is married foreigner and she is rich that what it means firegner = unlimited money and this is the best the best scenario worse is she takes money from you and give it to young lover cheating in VN is very common you need buy new SH moto and gold diamands so she get the insurance incase you break up she can resell and keep living good until next carp :))

Xin chao! Thank you a lot to made this video ,you know I'm a Pilipino so I have vetnamis friend that's why I learned a little vetnamis language

I’ve already made several mistakes that are unrecoverable 😫

As a vietnamese american raise up in the U.S. and dating my best friend in veitnam and about to get married. Alot of the thing in the video are so true and shocking even to me. Haha

One fact that became clear from the interviews conducted was that the double standard was still very much in operation. I agree if guys make more, they should pay more. But it simply sounds like expectations are set take care of her AND her family members.

I’d like to meet my girlfriend’s family 😂😅. I wasn’t expecting Duong global to give dating advice

It sounds like you are buying a Vietnamese woman, seems like she is marrying a bank?

Thank you for this informative video

Thanks for all tgat info4mqtion . Some a learn for my next viet nam trip.

They did a great job! 👍🏽

Where in Vietnam can one find single Vietnamese women? What about dating sites? Which ones are reliable? Very good video!

Goodday Trang, Congratulations on your new video & wish you & all the girls all the best going forward. Yes I was in a relationship with a Vietnamese girl for 2 years here in Australia. Very challenging, but also once you understand the Vietnamese culture it was a fantastic relationship with loyalty and honety. Unfortunately her visa ran out & returned to Vietnam & since married & has had 3 children. We are still friends secretly. One big deal about marrying a Westerner is having mixed baby which is highly regarded in Vietnam. Is this still true. Your number 1 Fan in Australia Louis Kats from Melbourne Australia ☺ 👍 ❤

Thank you! I'm Latino and we are very affectionate, and I've noticed the girl that I'm dating she's Vietnamese and she doesn't like public affection she had to explain that to me because I thought that she didn't like me because of that lol

Interesting, thanks.

good job thanks

Thank you very informative

This is quite accurate. It definitely doesn't apply to all Vietnamese girls, but it's good to apply as a general rule.

Thanks for the video. :)

At the moment, the Vietnamese government has not given permission. The husbands of Vietnamese girls have been abroad for two years, and their wives are with them.

Nice video!

Same in Brazil, the man pay all costs on a date days ... at home when u merried still the same ... sometimes both combine to share monthly expenses

im in love with a Vietnamese girl she’s pure wifey material very respectful very mature

They are using you if they never pay. I got out after a coffee date I paid to with do romantic vibes. She got offended when I suggested we split the check on the 2nd date. She’s 51 and said she expected me to pay for everything. That cheap attitude does not work in the U.S. I have no interest in marriage, her family, or dating her at all now. Thank you for this warning.

I dated a Vietnamese woman. She was constantly accusing me of cheating. After 5 years with her, I found out that guys on FB were asking her to respond to their texts. They told her she was beautiful and they wanted to get to know her. She never told them she had a boyfriend. It was years before we broke up on an extra FB account she created. So, I'm certain she was the cheater projecting her infidelity on to me. But I'm not jaded. I'm being introduced to a couple of Vietnamese women this weekend.

huge respect to your nation people...god bless Vietnam .

Practically all topics are ok for me. Except for #6 is a BIG contentious topic between my VN girlfriend and I. I tend to be extremely affectionate in public due to my culture & personal upbringing while my GF is reserved when she is outside. Flirting In front of Parents/siblings i can understand that would make her uncomfortable. However I feel no shame with a bit of flirting in public / around acquaintances. So basically I feel sometimes rejected even after all these years.

Hello, I have a question, I hope you can provide me an answer! I'm chatting with a vietnamese girl at the moment (I'm in VN and plan on staying long term), but I am the only one initiating communication, her answers are more than just pleasantries, she asks questions back, shares pictures etc. but I have to open the conversation every time. Is it customary or am I wasting my time ? (In the West, I would be seen as clingy and needy, but here I just want to show her that I'm interesting in her well-being.) Please help me, I really don't like the uncertainty of chatting online so it's a bit challenging to be centered. Have a good one!

Is there any vietnamese girl here in Kuala Lumpur Malaysia? i would like to meet.

I'm an American living in the US. There are a lot of Vietnamese girls who have immigrated here and have lived in the US for a number of years. (1) Do you think the expectations outlined in your video are true for expat Vietnamese girls living in the US? Or put another way, do you think they have become "Americanized"? I get the feeling, prior to going out on a 1st date with a lady in whom I'm interested that she still holds on to her native Vietnam values (she's from Saigon) and its customs and she isn't really feeling "Americanized". I want things to go smoothly. Do you have any additional thoughts on the subject matter? (2) I'm a generation older than she is. She's in her 50's and I'm in my 70's. I'm not feeling that the numerical age difference is any big deal with her. Do you have any thoughts about age disparity? (3) We're planning on having a nice dinner at a restaurant that specializes in Thai, Loatian and Vietnamese cuisine (as opposed to a 'fast food' fried rice and sushi place). I'm thinking she'll enjoy that. Any thoughts? (4) After a 1st date, would a kiss goodbye be appropriate? Or is that considered too 'forward'? Thanks.

Great Duong Team . Great video and insight

Wow, so true! My Viet girlfriend wanted to check 2 hours my phone after the 3rd date!

I think you guys get the marrying the family thing mixed up with marrying into the family. You don't marry the family you marry the woman.

I know a man with cerebral palsy who married a Vietnamese-American woman and has a 12 year old son together.

WHEN DOES THE SCAMMING STOP?

But which one from the North or the South? In most cases different mentality

So are you saying there's no such thing as casual dating among men and women in Vietnam? All the women are geared towards serious relationships and eventually marriage? What about after marriage? Do Vietnamese people still hang out with friends? Can wives go out "just girl's night out?" What about guys hanging out? Not everything has to be sexual in nature in Western mentality.

I think that i’m going to stay single. It’s all the same everywhere.

theres no mention between the different north and south women. If you want wife material marry a northern. If you want to have fun date a southern.

What happens if i dont help them out? i dont even help out my own family except my sister/mother

Thank you for this detailed video: it makes me understand the dating dynamics with Vietnamese women and being a fiercely independent man, this is totally incompatible with me. Hard pass!

I WILL NEVER LET HER LOOK AT MY PRIVAT CONTACTS SHE WILL LEARN AND TEACH HER TO GET HER OWN EMAIL ETC

in the west, this is how it started. now most women work and demanded that things become 50/50. it is now happening in the east as more women enter the workforce.

😔 so many regrets

Funny video especially for a channel such as this. But Foreigners don’t really need a “dating guide” from what I see. Even the low end ones (I.e KZfaqr Fat And Broke) who without any real jobs or anything special intellectually can score a Vietnamese girl.

If she's rude to you, run away. A rude woman will be a horrible wife. And there are plenty of them in Vietnam.

good because I'm looking for a wife! Very helpful video. Thanks

Well, to be honest, number 3 is completely no-go zone, are we westeners cows to be milked or what ? If I marry girl, I marry only her, why should I care for neigboors, or relatives ? Ok, for parents I care, yes, but not for whole family, that is way too much. Or this number 3 is more problem with families wihout education, or living on the village ? I am so confused, please help me out.

Hello everyone. Good video and thanks for the instructions. I am 52 years old and divorced after 29 years of marriage. I would like to meet one such Vietnamese woman with whom I will spend the rest of my life.🙂. Which site can you recommend but that it is not just a scam.

This video should be called: "how to follow generic gender roles" .......... This pretty much applies to most developing countries in the world, and it encourages the idea that any american or european foreigner have money. And the women that fall for that, (due to the power of the dollar, euro, or brittish pound) end up living on a trailer with their unemployed husband that took them to America.