Dave, I've Been Dumb! (I Co-Signed On My Ex-Wife's House)

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@sasukesuite1
@sasukesuite1 Жыл бұрын
Moral of the story: don’t co-sign anything for anybody unless you are willing to pay for the entire thing by yourself.
@RoyalMasterpiece
@RoyalMasterpiece Жыл бұрын
Big Facts.
@terrancewatson7915
@terrancewatson7915 Жыл бұрын
@@RoyalMasterpiece amen
@bee12355
@bee12355 Жыл бұрын
Sounds about right
@chocolateangel8743
@chocolateangel8743 Жыл бұрын
He did what he thought would be best for his kids -- and I think he would probably do it, again -- unless he sat down with his ex and they came up with a better solution.
@jonsmith9728
@jonsmith9728 Жыл бұрын
almost always yes..... but when its your own kids, that's gonna be each individuals decision and what it is
@SpoonHurler
@SpoonHurler Жыл бұрын
Sometimes the kindest thing we can do is to let someone struggle at the deep end and let them figure it out.
@bee12355
@bee12355 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@MikeWalksWithJesus
@MikeWalksWithJesus Жыл бұрын
Especially when they do it to themselves.
@mercedeswilkins9085
@mercedeswilkins9085 26 күн бұрын
Yes this is why is said it’s the help That I didn’t get and do that help me the most.
@Astro95Media
@Astro95Media Жыл бұрын
This is when I would've said "If you can't afford a home, the kids need to live with me."
@lizamarie3472
@lizamarie3472 Жыл бұрын
Maybe he’d rather co-sign than have the kids live with him?
@achavez78
@achavez78 Жыл бұрын
But the family court said otherwise
@shachede6828
@shachede6828 Жыл бұрын
Depends on who has custody.
@terriesmith2616
@terriesmith2616 Жыл бұрын
The courts award custody of the kids to the mother 98% of the time, so I doubt the kids can stay with him. The courts would tell him no.
@cryptkeeper5027
@cryptkeeper5027 Жыл бұрын
Seems to me she got to get rid of him but kept his money in the form of alimony.
@tonyahenry4167
@tonyahenry4167 Жыл бұрын
I owed the IRS $89 I forgot and 30 days I later got a letter for $150 they are savages
@trainsandlocomotives
@trainsandlocomotives Жыл бұрын
Yup
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
The IRS has nearly unlimited power to go after you.
@thegenxgamerr
@thegenxgamerr Жыл бұрын
Great call, all young men out there. Listen to it a couple of times. The system will expect you to do stuff like this. You heard Rachel said “just trying to be a good dad“ cosigning a mortgage with your ex-wife that can’t pay it is not being a good dad it’s being a dumb man. Don’t do it.
@adamseidel9780
@adamseidel9780 Жыл бұрын
She wasn’t saying it was smart; she was just saying at least his idiotic decision came from a place of love.
@trainsandlocomotives
@trainsandlocomotives Жыл бұрын
A mess
@chrisgast
@chrisgast Жыл бұрын
She said "trying". She didn't imply that it was successful.
@bee12355
@bee12355 Жыл бұрын
Morale of the story - do not co-sign anything for anyone.
@hornetguy9063
@hornetguy9063 Жыл бұрын
The instant this woman asked for him to co-sign a mortgage, he should’ve countered with an offer to head down to the courthouse and ask the judge to transfer primary custody of the kids to him.
@carlosmiro4932
@carlosmiro4932 Жыл бұрын
And them NOT co-sign.
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 Жыл бұрын
Then?
@kayn2756
@kayn2756 Жыл бұрын
He probably didn't want primary custody. He had a new hot girlfriend 😍 😳 😏
@hornetguy9063
@hornetguy9063 Жыл бұрын
@@kayn2756 could be true
@gent2205
@gent2205 Жыл бұрын
@kay N kind of a weird assumption.
@pawelwisniewski6849
@pawelwisniewski6849 Жыл бұрын
He will sign on the second house as well …. Violin is still playing 😂
@EdwinRodriguez-ql7fg
@EdwinRodriguez-ql7fg Жыл бұрын
definition of beta male LOOOOL
@Fourstar97
@Fourstar97 Жыл бұрын
I’m noticing a lot of female friends of mine are worried about their lives once child support runs out. I feel like we’re coming to another pandemic, women who didn’t prepare for this to happen.
@noahzero9380
@noahzero9380 Жыл бұрын
So they’re abusing the child support smh
@markvb5592
@markvb5592 Жыл бұрын
I love when Dave and Rachel are on😁
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
Dynamic Duo!
@genxx2724
@genxx2724 Жыл бұрын
Ugh, what’s the point of getting divorced if you’re going to have your finances entangled? If she was so concerned about having a nice house to raise the kids in, she should’ve stayed married. Great advice from Dave. Good call.
@RobTzu
@RobTzu Жыл бұрын
Probably still love her and want to support the kids is the lie he tells himself.
@Weakeyedominant
@Weakeyedominant Жыл бұрын
Sounds like she milked him in marriage and in divorce, this guy just bent over and took it. I bet she sleeps like a baby knowing she owes the IRS 100k when her ex husband has a net worth of 1.6m and needs to bail her out.
@macneoh7418
@macneoh7418 Жыл бұрын
Men really need to wake up.
@Ovulations
@Ovulations Жыл бұрын
He probably left her tbh
@HoodedStalker
@HoodedStalker Жыл бұрын
@@Ovulations women file for 80% of divorces, so probability says otherwise
@jackhutchinson7659
@jackhutchinson7659 Жыл бұрын
Anybody else go through spells of binging Ramsey videos ?
@chivosadventures8171
@chivosadventures8171 Жыл бұрын
Yes sir that would be me.
@deanmccormick8070
@deanmccormick8070 Жыл бұрын
Indeed I have. Until I got a good handle on how the baby steps worked together.
@ruthirwin8222
@ruthirwin8222 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@KillstormSH
@KillstormSH Жыл бұрын
No. You are the only person on the planet that does that. Nobody else does it.
@masonspencer4576
@masonspencer4576 Жыл бұрын
Hi
@benjaminhough8804
@benjaminhough8804 Жыл бұрын
You don't want to be married, but you wanna buy a house together? I completely don't understand.
@TheHoriginal
@TheHoriginal Жыл бұрын
For the sake of the kids so they have a nice place to live
@kayn2756
@kayn2756 Жыл бұрын
He probably felt guilty for leaving her for his secretary. Guilt makes you do dumb favors
@mercedeswilkins9085
@mercedeswilkins9085 26 күн бұрын
@@TheHoriginalppl need to stop doing stuff especially dumb stuff for kids
@tristanrodenhauser5267
@tristanrodenhauser5267 Жыл бұрын
This is Kanas City, sell the house and get something more reasonable for her situation The kids will be okay with a move.
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
He has to get her to agree to sell though.
@fauxbro1983
@fauxbro1983 Жыл бұрын
That kitty must be too good to step away from
@msuspartan2016
@msuspartan2016 Жыл бұрын
😂
@cherrypieforbreakfast1499
@cherrypieforbreakfast1499 Жыл бұрын
Probably was at one point.
@reesercliff
@reesercliff Жыл бұрын
Then kids ruined it.
@jimroscovius
@jimroscovius Жыл бұрын
That was one of the stupidest things EVER!! You NEVER cosign for anyone!!
@matthartley2471
@matthartley2471 Жыл бұрын
Dude called from Kansas city where he could sell the house to buy a good house for 300k, give 150k to the irs, and still have 50k for the ex wife. How on earth does she live in an 850k house?
@impoortan
@impoortan Жыл бұрын
You caller "Mark" so lucky that Sir Dave got to answer your question not his minions✌️. That's hella of answer. Well done Sir Dave💯👏
@dougholdem2898
@dougholdem2898 Жыл бұрын
Great advice! Just don't write the check until she agrees and house is sold.
@cherrypieforbreakfast1499
@cherrypieforbreakfast1499 Жыл бұрын
That's some great advice Dave gave. 10k to 20k is a cheap stupid tax given the situation.
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
Hopefully the ex agrees to it.
@amandadean3948
@amandadean3948 Жыл бұрын
I refuse to bash this guy. He was thinking of his kids and trying to do the right thing. Hopefully his ex will listen and sale the house like Dave advised!
@macneoh7418
@macneoh7418 Жыл бұрын
He is a fool and if the mother can't afford the kids, then she shouldn't have custody. He's teaching his children how to be a simp.
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
He was thinking of the kids, but he forgot one of the cardinal rules of debt - never co-sign anything for anybody.
@cjhoward409
@cjhoward409 Жыл бұрын
He should’ve filed for full custody then. Simple as that
@iamkesha.
@iamkesha. Жыл бұрын
This caller is a good man and dad who thought he was doing a good thing for his kids. Bless his heart. Good luck. She better not have another man in that house.
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
100% she does have another man
@terriesmith2616
@terriesmith2616 Жыл бұрын
$10 says she has another man in the house.
@cryptkeeper5027
@cryptkeeper5027 Жыл бұрын
I'll bet she does.
@kathleenphillips7145
@kathleenphillips7145 Жыл бұрын
I never received any child support but bought my own house while fully supporting my two children to adulthood. As a single mom, I don’t understand anyone who does not pay their own way. Responsibility for one’s own actions is a requirement. That way we have no one to blame but ourselves.
@formula112967
@formula112967 Жыл бұрын
They always have another man in the house....I am not saying that OJ should have done it, but.........
@brandonluckman1816
@brandonluckman1816 Жыл бұрын
I feel better about my divorce now. Thanks Mark!
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@itchyisvegeta
@itchyisvegeta Жыл бұрын
You know when the title of the video makes you laugh out loud, that it's going to be good
@jeremyhicks2449
@jeremyhicks2449 Жыл бұрын
Good luck trying to get her to sell something she doesn't have any responsibility for.
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
It gets the IRS off Her back. But I think you’re right
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
She owes the IRS, plus she owes the mortgage, right?
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
@@linuxsurfer2002 the mortgage has Tons of equity
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
@@PInk77W1 Yes, but that only helps if she sells the house. I'm saying her debts are good reason to sell the house.
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
@@linuxsurfer2002 you are using reason. I don’t think girls use reason
@terriesmith2616
@terriesmith2616 Жыл бұрын
Simpin` ain't cheap. This guy has to pay stupid Simp tax. Lessons learned.
@italoddd
@italoddd Жыл бұрын
Go save your ex, hero!..Save the day! She will survive... you may not
@terrybumpass4799
@terrybumpass4799 Жыл бұрын
This man is still in love with his past. I wish him the best.
@9liveslisa
@9liveslisa Жыл бұрын
Make sure she lives up to her part of the bargain. I wouldn't trust her.
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
She's not trustworthy, for sure. Everything needs to be part of a court order and/or contract from this point on.
@felipeoliveira2219
@felipeoliveira2219 Жыл бұрын
Its crazy how she laughs about it in a meaningful way
@annea6288
@annea6288 4 ай бұрын
My dad warned me about co- signing since I was 6 years old. Best advice ever!!! Co- signing becomes a debt trap
@jonquindiagan682
@jonquindiagan682 Жыл бұрын
Great entertainment Dave!
@rossmcgreg6r642
@rossmcgreg6r642 Жыл бұрын
I like Rachel being on the program with Dave. The other presenters just parrot what Dave says but Rachel is not afraid to gently call him out when he says stupid ( inappropriate ) things.
@jessem4659
@jessem4659 Жыл бұрын
Dr John is great as well. He's the best at balancing dave with a completely different perspective. He's the only personality where Dave learns something from them.
@disco4535
@disco4535 Жыл бұрын
The fact that the children are living with that out of control lunatic just goes to show how comically stupid our courts are
@katiejon17
@katiejon17 Жыл бұрын
This. I’m a wife and mother - children should be with the better parent, if being with both doesn’t work out.
@John3.36
@John3.36 Жыл бұрын
You only know one side of the story.
@genxx2724
@genxx2724 Жыл бұрын
He’s probably busy at work all the time and couldn’t take care of the kids day-to-day.
@stephanienguyen6992
@stephanienguyen6992 Жыл бұрын
Don't ever Co-Sign as you don't want to get into HOLE (court) or deep dump (mess up your life).
@mandod3409
@mandod3409 Жыл бұрын
If you are on child support then there is no room for any type of sympathy from my part, even if you are the mother of my children. The fact that you had to put me on child support rather than us working it out tells me everything I need to know.
@anushrajapaksha5098
@anushrajapaksha5098 Жыл бұрын
My question is why are the kids living with the mom when the dad is more financially stable and suited as the best provider for the children .
@carryonjeeves
@carryonjeeves Жыл бұрын
My thoughts,too.And that may explain his choices, motivated from guilt. There may have been infidelity on his part.
@Chromewarrior
@Chromewarrior Жыл бұрын
Family courts are not finance people; mom gets the kids 90% of the time… they make sure dad covers any shortfall.
@clarity2974
@clarity2974 19 күн бұрын
A lot of men don't want that full time responsibility.
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
@Elizabeth-yg2mg Жыл бұрын
The guy who used to do my house repairs had a history of cosigning loans for friends. Every so often someone would quit making their payments and he'd have to start paying off the loan of someone he often didn't even know anymore.
@cocacolalada
@cocacolalada Жыл бұрын
Time to talk to a lawyer
@itsmikac8777
@itsmikac8777 Жыл бұрын
Never mess with the IRS ever!!
@queen.kristal8395
@queen.kristal8395 Жыл бұрын
He did a dumb mistake I would have just paid more child support instead of co-signing also this lady doesn’t sound responsible enough to handle finances nor take care of kids.I would give custody to the father
@untouchable360x
@untouchable360x Жыл бұрын
Once a simp. Always a simp.
@lizh4933
@lizh4933 7 күн бұрын
simping, whimping.................
@szvetlana1000
@szvetlana1000 Жыл бұрын
Talk to a mortgage advisor. There are new rules and it’s easier to get yourself off a loan as a co-signer now.
@DoctorSmartyPants
@DoctorSmartyPants Жыл бұрын
Like how?
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 Жыл бұрын
What About in ny? Does it cost anything?
@HighCountryRambler
@HighCountryRambler Жыл бұрын
He must have a good attorney to be sitting on $1.2 M, and his EX-wife can't afford to qualify for a mortgage, or good pre-nup. Or she throws money away faster than she gets it.
@RJRussoVids
@RJRussoVids Жыл бұрын
There’s no tax more painful for men than simp tax. 💁‍♂️
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
If it gets rid of Karen, so worth it
@formula112967
@formula112967 Жыл бұрын
@@PInk77W1 If you never married Karen, you wouldn't have to be a simp......does that make sense?
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
@@formula112967 if your mom and dad hadn’t married, u wouldn’t exist. Does that make sense ?
@rnman99
@rnman99 Жыл бұрын
The only thing I'd sign for my ex is an arrest warrant
@devonhill7394
@devonhill7394 Жыл бұрын
It’s cheaper to keep her… Or She trapped him with a baby.
@cherylbroadenax1006
@cherylbroadenax1006 Жыл бұрын
In three yrs the irs interest will eat up her equity. Sell now and rent.
@djpuplex
@djpuplex Жыл бұрын
She got this guy coming and going. Don't marry, don't cohabitate. No accountability.
@trachito
@trachito Жыл бұрын
Yup! I learned this the hard way. Got divorced 19 years ago, recovered my losses, and haven't cohabitated nor remarried since.
@dustinwalker9932
@dustinwalker9932 Жыл бұрын
Not huge on marriage myself I don't ever envision myself getting married, too much risk on my part, but cohabitate? If my girlfriend lives with me I don't see too much of a problem or risk IDK maybe I'm wrong.
@Jim_Curtis
@Jim_Curtis Жыл бұрын
Only Dave simp Ramsey advises men to pay stupid taxes to women in a case like this. No, he should play hardball and go for full custody in court and get the family court to remove her off the home with a court order. The lender can remove her off title with a court order.
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 Жыл бұрын
Don't cohabitate. It's unfair. And someone has to marry and have kids or there won't be any.
@robertbell525
@robertbell525 Жыл бұрын
@@Jim_Curtis good idea, should be easy to demonstrate irresponsibility on her part and she's in danger of being on the street with the kids. But what will probably happen is they will order him to pay her debt and then they will charge fees.
@laladesy7352
@laladesy7352 9 ай бұрын
Never ever co sign ever
@harrypits7824
@harrypits7824 Жыл бұрын
850 for the house. That must have been some violin playing
@unusyousuf9506
@unusyousuf9506 Жыл бұрын
Can't think of more of a simp move than signing a mortgage with an ex
@djpuplex
@djpuplex Жыл бұрын
Giga simp move
@thelogicaldanger
@thelogicaldanger Жыл бұрын
For anyone else who find themselves in the callers situation and wants to help because of the children.....what he should have done is buy the house outright, then charge his wife rent. I'd assume he could deduct the rent from his child support payments, but if not, then even if she neglected to pay rent, at least he is only out the rent, and not out the entire house.
@d.j.daugherty4945
@d.j.daugherty4945 Жыл бұрын
Awesome video
@chrisgast
@chrisgast Жыл бұрын
No. Just no. If I had an ex with this problem, I would take the kids full time until she gets her business in order. Never would I cosign a mortgage with her, especially if she's an ex. She's an ex for a reason. If she gets foreclosed on, then she gets foreclosed on. At least I'll give the kids a place to stay for the moment until she fixes her own problems or the kids age out, whichever comes first. This is assuming I got divorced in the first place.
@Winnie-Kay
@Winnie-Kay Жыл бұрын
Hahaha 😂 KGB I mean the IRS 💀
@kimberlygriffin6136
@kimberlygriffin6136 Жыл бұрын
This is Tough! 😢
@kelliconlan8133
@kelliconlan8133 Жыл бұрын
What Dave said at the end my parents have done with my siblings and nephew!! And no matter what I say to explain this to them they just don't get it. This stuff is REAL!!
@gent2205
@gent2205 Жыл бұрын
Why are the kids with the parent that can't support them?
@404TRUCKERTV
@404TRUCKERTV Жыл бұрын
I just readed the title............🤣😂😆👏👏👏
@skibum6422
@skibum6422 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't co-sign on a bird house for my ex wife.
@catherinep2034
@catherinep2034 Жыл бұрын
Dave left something out in his advice, get the offer in writing by a lawyer, otherwise it's just a verbal agreement.
@lav7161
@lav7161 Жыл бұрын
Rachel's reaction after the question at 2:53 👀
@Joshmarmolejo_
@Joshmarmolejo_ Жыл бұрын
I love the slight pause at 1:03
@Strugglin.on.YouTube
@Strugglin.on.YouTube Жыл бұрын
😂 “Oh boy… I’ve heard this before…”
@WordDefinition
@WordDefinition Жыл бұрын
If you see poop on the floor, and you see a sign says don’t step on it 😂 and u read the sign you still stepped on it 😂 u must be a simp
@brandonlee93
@brandonlee93 Жыл бұрын
So basically bribe the ex wife. AWESOME!
@socku5850
@socku5850 Жыл бұрын
Getting married is a bad ROI 50 percent of the time. Men lose most of the time in divorce. In the first seven years of marriage . 50 percent of marriage end in divorce. Why are parents not telling the kids about this.
@dc76384
@dc76384 Жыл бұрын
Awful lot of house...850!!
@Ja50nkAt
@Ja50nkAt Жыл бұрын
Men complicate their lives then try to justify why they did, sad story of man.
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
Sure, but life is just more complicated when you add in women and children.
@bettysmith4527
@bettysmith4527 Жыл бұрын
This caller is so cute and funny!
@alkelenson648
@alkelenson648 Жыл бұрын
My first car my dad cosigned and I made all payments. Glad it wasn't bought for me- but this guy's in a different situation.
@derrickadams6973
@derrickadams6973 Жыл бұрын
It’s crazy get out of debt and if you don’t listen you are trapped in this mess and cannot get out of this mess and she doesn’t pay her bills is crazy
@MarkTrueblood
@MarkTrueblood Жыл бұрын
Ramsey correctly labels this as a dumb decision but then goes apoplectic hysterical when married couples say they want to keep separate finances.
@mightyminifarm
@mightyminifarm Жыл бұрын
Which is very good advice.
@tylerjames482
@tylerjames482 Жыл бұрын
0:29 Her face says it all 😂
@jasonleatherwood2172
@jasonleatherwood2172 Жыл бұрын
Must have been some tight stuff to sign ur life away
@fathead3381
@fathead3381 5 ай бұрын
Dave was surprisingly very nice to him
@NaNa-lt1po
@NaNa-lt1po Жыл бұрын
No way anyone but dave would have been able to give this suggestion.. (in the current team) That's experience..
@genxx2724
@genxx2724 Жыл бұрын
💯
@cg3868
@cg3868 Жыл бұрын
hahaha. we've found the top simp.
@brianpitsilides5337
@brianpitsilides5337 Жыл бұрын
This whole situation is a product of no-fault divorce. If you’re spouse is good enough to co-parent with, they are good enough to stay married to.
@alrbredwall
@alrbredwall Жыл бұрын
That's right!
@Dark_Souls_3
@Dark_Souls_3 Жыл бұрын
Well that’s kinda making a molehill out of a mountain, isn’t it?
@James-Lifts
@James-Lifts Жыл бұрын
Lol
@janelleg597
@janelleg597 Жыл бұрын
Your
@roshunepp
@roshunepp Жыл бұрын
It's easier to get along with someone that you can just turn off.
@MartianAmbassador69
@MartianAmbassador69 Жыл бұрын
that must be Dave's favorite shirt, because it's the only one i ever see him in
@jyates1396
@jyates1396 Жыл бұрын
Paid off 16000 car by selling it. Bought a 2000 dollar lemon Put 2000 Into it Now payment free.
@unfairsanic5089
@unfairsanic5089 Жыл бұрын
Smart
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
Smart.
@kevinrehberg8758
@kevinrehberg8758 Жыл бұрын
He will make an offer and she will try to "up" the buy off amount....
@millennialsleadtheway5453
@millennialsleadtheway5453 Жыл бұрын
The world only has so many men like mark left in the world… when they disappear, things will get a bit spicy for some people.
@MarkTrueblood
@MarkTrueblood Жыл бұрын
Maybe things need to get spicier. Maybe more people need to see the wolf at the door. It is what it is.
@cjhoward409
@cjhoward409 Жыл бұрын
When my son got divorced, the judge said they needed to sell their home that they bought together and then each buy or rent separately what they can each afford separate from each other.
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
Why? She's your ex.
@michaelgerhardt7130
@michaelgerhardt7130 Жыл бұрын
Just make sure you don’t pay her until the house is closed.
@robertthompson5908
@robertthompson5908 Жыл бұрын
As with many of these Dave Ramsey calls , there must be more to the story that we don’t know. What could possibly explain such an illogical action as co-signing a mortgage with your ex-wife?
@laurendearnley9595
@laurendearnley9595 Жыл бұрын
Most men are decent and will sacrifice their own happiness to make their families, especially their children, happy. Some men are also stupid and naive and gullible. He's in the overlap.
@trachito
@trachito Жыл бұрын
@@laurendearnley9595 I admit, I was that guy. I wised up.
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 Жыл бұрын
Maybe he felt guilty
@robertthompson5908
@robertthompson5908 Жыл бұрын
That’s my guess.
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
@Elizabeth-yg2mg Жыл бұрын
He's a softie and wanted the kids to live in a nice house. Would have been better if he'd bought the house, she made payments to him and he could later transfer house to her if she'd kept up. I hope he doesn't help her again. They're divorced after all.
@ronaldnichols9945
@ronaldnichols9945 Жыл бұрын
This guy is soo naive.
@susanedghill609
@susanedghill609 Жыл бұрын
in some things maybe.....but not in his finances....he said he has 1.6m
@DisabilityExams
@DisabilityExams Жыл бұрын
It's a hard life for a simp.
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like something I would do
@elizabethdazell4426
@elizabethdazell4426 5 ай бұрын
Make sure you have a home with room for your kids.
@ruthirwin8222
@ruthirwin8222 Жыл бұрын
When dave says woooow ..you know its bad
@jaysmith6013
@jaysmith6013 Жыл бұрын
I swear I’ll never co-sign anything for anyone
@genglandoh
@genglandoh Жыл бұрын
I would add do not give gifts that have ongoing expenses or responsibilities. A simple example is buying your parents a dog. The ongoing expense and responsibility may be more then you parents can handle.
@Jim_Curtis
@Jim_Curtis Жыл бұрын
The guy should file for immediate custody of the kids because she can't pay her taxes. She's not taxed on the money she gets from him.
@eos_2366
@eos_2366 Жыл бұрын
Why would he? He’s a good father, he obviously wants his kids to see their mother as well.
@Jim_Curtis
@Jim_Curtis Жыл бұрын
@@eos_2366 Him getting full custody does not mean she is denied visitation rights to see the kids. But she obviously cannot manage money well enough to provide the kids a stable home. She's wasting money on other things because he's providing enough.
@kiethlowry2862
@kiethlowry2862 Жыл бұрын
Wow that was dumb. Thankfully I have not done that one.
@MikeyB_1972
@MikeyB_1972 Жыл бұрын
Let it go to foreclosure and buy it for cash cheap
@grega2362
@grega2362 Жыл бұрын
Isnt it amazing that when the support that is supposed to be for the kids affects the divorced moms so much when it goes away? Wouldnt one thing that the mom should be supporting themselves? If not then it seems that child support is always way out of line...
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
So Dave want's him to pay the lien, and her to sell the house? Dave still does not want to blame the women.
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
She has no money. Waste of time to blame her
@reese85
@reese85 Жыл бұрын
Either pay her to sell or go down with it! It’s actually pretty simple yo and she’s technically not the blame, cuz he didn’t have to co-sign for her
@terriesmith2616
@terriesmith2616 Жыл бұрын
@Jimmy McGill According to Jim Roscovious, your comment would be considered "trolling" since you dare to disagree with Dave.
@DoctorSmartyPants
@DoctorSmartyPants Жыл бұрын
No he did not say that. The lien is 100k. Dave says sell the house and use proceeds to pay the lien. Not sure what the 10 or 20k would be for, honestly.
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
@@PInk77W1 SO. It is her fault for not paying it. Now he can go to the court, and the kids can now live with him.
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