What should Kathleen do? Catch a wake up. She needs to put the phone down and join local social clubs with real people. Not saying she will def avoid cons and cheaters, but .... she needs to grasp reality. Very sad.

Of course he's "worried about her being online" cause he knows she's been scammed before & he doesn't want her giving her money to somebody else! And who "monitars" their wink-wink girlfriend online, OJ Simpson? Get off your butt, lady, go outside & meet real, breathing people. Or just go throw $20 to some local drunk so he can talk pretty to ya & tell you what you want to hear. At least he's somebody you can see and kiss. You are just paying a prostitute to talk sweet to ya, nothing more. Maybe this sounds harsh but daggone, somebody needs to be real with this poor delusional woman and knock some sense into her instead of boo hooing & crying with her

@@moimeself1088 social clubs? Wtf is that? Like the local Moose Lodge? Where do regular folks go to meet real people? Starbucks? Bars? Where Bruh? Enlighten us with your knowledge of proper social groups.

@@hoosierbaddy3052 Moose club is exactly right. Or a senior center. She is a senior citizen, and needs to find another one. The guy in the pictures is a mid-40's model and could get a hot 30 year old. Or a hot 40 year old that as assets.

@@kevind2760 dqZ1

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😂

Lol omg yes.

Get off the internet and put your phone in the toilet 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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exactly.

She's on a fixed income so I guess I'll just send him a little bit more...

really? ask Edward Snowden!🤣

I'm one; send some money, and make it fast. I'm a millionaire but my accounts are all frozen. Send $50,000 or I'll be very angry with you.

Naw, the NSA doesn't care if you tell people. I worked there for 3 years while in the Army. No one will believe you if you tell them anyway.

@@ericrivera8410 Exactly. 🙄

Truth!!

Perfectly said 👏

Nothing wrong with judging

And your supposed to learn from past experience 😮😮😮😮

Literally!! How do you not know even simple questions about your "serious, long term" boyfriend???? She didnt know what his father's name is???? Like, i know my boyfriends grandparents first and last names....and theyre all passed and i never met them..... like how do you fall in love with someone and not know even the most basic stuff about them?!

Pretty crazy. I’m also from Scotland so I assume she will want to send me money too?

This 💯

Sounds like every romance movie ever

They all are.

Those late night card reading shows were much better for people like her, they should have stayed on their damn tv‘s

She is a catfish too. Imagine talking to her and then going to meet her in person, she’s like 30 years older than her picture.

​@@italiagrl70 I don't understand people that do that when they intend meeting the person. I knew a woman with loads of pics on her dating profile & i swear they all looked like different people & none of them looked like her! Im definitely not a looker but i never filter or photoshop pics & would never do that to pics on my profile. I cant imagine the embarrassment & humiliation id feel seeing disappointment or confusion in my dates eyes.

Agree!

🤣🤣🤣👍

yes

IMMEDIATELY

And get her a mirror

@@brindacockburn4033 yes I know for real, She cant possibly think a young attractive guy is going to be in love with her, shes over 60

They need to be tougher on these people. Hey, Catfish team...look up Dr. Laura Schlesinger. She was hard on people who called her but that is why she was so respected. No BS, no coddling. No victims---people need the hammer.

most of these older people live with there kids. i would never let that happen. parents would still think the control the house

@@kathrynj.hernandez8425no, these people are victims because they are either suffering from trauma, have mental health issues and/or are so honest that they can‘t imagine another human being would lie to them

It’s called, “professionalism.”

Ugh, not Laura Schelisnger. Many in her field consider her a self-important sell-out just using people for profit, and the purpose of therapy is not to make the therapist look superior or have a good zinger of a line, it’s to help the person change….and no evidence she does that. And she certainly is not a “Dr.” ( not a physician) and in many countries, using that title would be illegal in itself.

Add the word "anymore" 😅

If you have 35,000 to just throw around like that, you're wealthy. Somebody like me would not be able to do that.

Yeah how does that happen unless she had some money saved .

💯 exactly

I know right she sends him most of her weekly or fortnightly social security. And she lives on what she has left which by the sounds of it is next to notbing

Don't judge people by their age you won't be young forever PLEASE BELIEVE THAT AND THEN LET'S SEE WHAT YOUR SMARTASS HAS TO SAY THEN

Yea, Debbie, a young and attractive guy would not be interested in you (or me). By seeing into reality clearly, you save yourself from foolish pursuits. You don't have much time left.. live wisely and pay attention.

@@debbiehordge3589 You are taking it very personally! Are you older and been scammed? Here is a fact! They are not targeting attractive fit women under 40!!! They have a key demographic. Older people both genders who are not good looking or fit. We see it thousands of times yet deny this reality. Attractive people do not have to send money lol. We get money lol. Sorry, but real men don't ask women for money. Real men provide, protect, and nurture relationships. Even a poor guy would be ashamed to ask a woman for money. He would find a way, even give blood rather than leech of a woman! He would uber, get a gig job, or ask his family for the money not a woman that he has never met!!! Sorry, but these women are delusional and extremely ignorant. These men clearly have Africa accents! Lol clearly SMH

I guess Debbie will be a guest on this channel soon

I was thinking that myself but didn't want to say it lol but she has to know she is being scammed like come on no one can be that silly and he is supposed to work for the NSA but needs money and someone needs to make her realise it's all fake...

I'd be horrified if a man has his child do that

​@@susanlett9632same. This is absurd with ludicrous.🙄I would feel uncomfortable like something isn't right about this......

Scammers do crazy shit

🤣🤣 Your comment is to funny. Sorry it is a sad story,but I can't help it

Exactly!

These people lack common sense and the ability to think critically. Amazing.

No, he will risk it ALL for the love of this saggy old grandma, his soulmate!

But she was so alluring that he couldn't help but break protocol, you see...

You can say that again! It's the ones that run it who make it so.

@@moonlitdesert agree. They act all concerned but all they are doing is profiting from the stupidity.

@@rabbit3212010 Never a truer word! They seem to have a knack of putting up the most pathetic looking women who they know people are going to ridicule.

@@moonlitdesert We would ridicule any man or woman who continues to be scammed. They don't have to be pathetic looking. Profiting or not, hopefully they knock some sense into at least some of these people. It didn't work with Kathleen and surely there are others that are common sense-proof.

My thoghts exactly!!!

@Bea Strong because it’s dishonest. That’s why.

I saw that photo too hahahaha she looked about 20 lol

@@tinylove1979approx time stamp? Can’t find it

She looks a little like Bill Belichek.

​@@scrimbo53190:23

I love how she said he asked for Steam cards to buy food. Does she not know those are for video/computer games?!

He is extremely wealthy but somehow he can’t even manage $200 fir food. Also, he can not contact his family/friends when he has an emergency. It’s only the person he is chatting online can help him on the entire planet.

And if male, he's stuck on an oil rig in the ocean. Oh, and his wife died 2 years ago.

​@Stacy Adams I didn't know lol, because I don't play any type of games not even on my phone. But I would still not send a gift card to someone because that is weird!

"Did you eat?" Can someone help me understand why that is a sign? I'm sorry, I'm new to this.

Yes they could pay taxes make it legal then the money could stay local if they're going to give it awae

Great idea!

This is a thing in Japan, I assure you, they have all these fake bf/gf services lol

Yes, it would be cheaper for these women to hire a male escort.

I believe in Japan they have this kind of services. They are further ahead of the rest of the world. In the meanwhile, the marketing gap in the Western world is being closed by the clever boys from Nigeria 🤣🤣🤣

🎯😑😑😑

Look at her.😮

Sorry. A 9-10 doesn’t go into a 2-4.

Exactly how I feel .. I have no sympathy ..

THEY ARE VERY ENTERTAINING TO ME. I KNOW NOBODY THAT DELUSIONAL IN REAL LIFE.

Yep she is begging to be scammed,she ain't believing what catfish told her & she will keep talking and sending money,silly old fool

​@@eldavera3081 you've always been no nonsense

Yep it's called male prostitution--only all the guy has to say is "babe--love--dear" queen--sweetheart etc....they charge by the word and don't have to perform on a silly old fool----

You shouldn't judge people that just want to trust someone in this fucked up life

@@debbiehordge3589 please never trust that shit again. If they are ‘stuck’ in another country and ask you for money they will NEVER BE REAL. No good man will ask a lady for money, nevermind so much. Please love yourself and try to meet somebody in real life

....Honestly I have to wonder if it is the same scammers as before, but just trying from a new angle.

@@Gabi-jy8ih As soon as the mopes request money you just KNOW it's a scam

Exactly. Probably she is sending him money now.

Can you imagine getting back on a dating app after being scammed out of $35,000?

Nutcase

It’s a compulsion but not an addiction. You won’t go into physical withdrawal if you do t chat on the net..

​@@KahlessTheUnforgettable oh yes they do! Cut them off their internet addiction and they go wild.

Worse than gambling or drugs..😮

Stupidity also plays a big part

Let’s give the fellow some credit for his honesty. If he is living and working as a scammer in Nigeria, he is being honest in saying that his job is keeping him in Nigeria.

@@irenemax3574 🤣🤣

Hey I try to be the best Catholic that I can...honest and good but I'm not going to lie...after seeing these stories I have thought how easy it would be to scam the right lonely lady out of 50K. Of course I would never be so cruel and horrible but dude what a great hustle....if I'm keeping it real. "Hey gorgeous all day long out on this oil rig....is so rough....if I didn't have you to think about...I wouldn't make it. In two years when I retire....we can go looking for a house a few blocks away from the Ocean. Goodnight my love 💓

@@irenemax3574 🥴😂😂

😂😂😂😂😂

Omg so desperate

She sure is,Iv been single for 11,yes and I love it,I don't want to be with anyone I'm happy how things are,

@@annettelacey7913 me too ... I've been single for round 7 years now and I love it 😀 just being me and doing what I want to .. I am a single mother of two beautiful girls , we are a team and I feel that's all I need for now

@eckankar The magical aroma of desperation reaches Nigeria 🤩

@@svetlanaisayeva2624 hahaha very true

They thinking is limited but it does mean they deserve to be robbed and cheated

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Come on older ppl will do the same thing. Lying and asking to take care of them. That is his responsibility not her to take care of him and his child. This guy sounds like he’s a man who wants a woman ( mommy ) to take care of him and his child. By giving him $$$.

@@dapadul17 Pretty much guarantee there is no child. I play Scrabble Go which has chat. Within two weeks I had 151 men wanting to play me. I got curious about how scammers work so led some on. They ALL were either Americans working out of the country or vice versa; usually in remote places. Oil rigs were very popular as was the military. They were widowed. They had a child. They would ask to communicate away from the game site (what’s app, etc). I did image searches. At one point I had three guys using Chef Paul Hollywood’s picture. Another was using the profile of a four star general. I’m 75. I have a hard time drumming up sympathy for these woman who delude themselves into imagining relationships and blindly sending off money and gift cards.

Definitely! I really don’t understand how people can be so duped or willing to continue with a scam just for attention? It’s sad

@@MrsEJV That’s very smart of you. In today’s age of technology, there’s no way people can’t do a little digging and research. I think some people just don’t want to know the truth, they want to believe they are living in a fairy tale. But both people in a fairy tale live happily ever after; I’ve never heard a fairy tale that went, “And the prince rescued the princess, but only after she sent him $10,000 in Amazon gift cards because the Belgian government had taken his passport after his oil rig equipment broke down and he was accused of being a spy.” 🤣🙄🤷‍♀️

Every time a woman asks me for money I block her. What kind of pathetic woman asks a man for money? I thought women were strong and independent? 🤔

Exactly @Phi huse. That's where he/she lives permanently

😂😂

I’m so sorry but you better wake up

Nicely explained.... "headquarters of romance scammers" :-D

@@karengomez9046 he is awake

Yes, pictures 40 years ago.

@@pixi2209with heavy filters 😂

same people who take up the whole isle at the store. not a care in the world

Guess they don't need the money if they give it away so easily

I was thinking the same thing. She is getting something out of it. This is proof that we can fool ourselves and live in a world of delusion,

@@lauraleehenry5657 p

Very delusional. That’s all I can say.

True

I'm guessing living a lie is a step above having nothing.

For the love of...😂

They always manage to find the worst angles on themselves!

Stop judging people you don't know what other people have gone through except yourself not everyone has the perfect life it's not easy for older people to trust or to find real love before God call's us home...

@@debbiehordge3589 Her opinion is her opinion.

@@withgoddess That's good and I also have my opinion about people who can't keep they're noses or opinions to they're self..I didn't ask for anyone's opinion I have enough of my own..Thank you

You don't know the Bible very well do you???You should read the part about calling someone a fool..Stop judging people if you don't want judged

@@debbiehordge3589 You have severe problems. Get counselling.

You get scammed and hurt just because you try to trust people let's see what you say then

@@JaimeMesChiens I've been scammed because of dating site's it's all the same a damn scammer is a scammer

@@JaimeMesChiens sad but true. A bit baffling for me too!!

This women is so delusional and desperate omg 😱

@@JaimeMesChiens Get a real life and leave your nasty opinion to yourself you think your better than anyone else well your not...I don't need anyone's opinion I have plenty of my own when it comes to people like you...

She could at least wear a little lip gloss.

I wish she would have spent the money on herself new haircut makeup spa attractive clothes

I'm probably being scammed myself. It's a gut wrenching situation.

@@kathleenevans7533 What ended up happening? Was he a scammer?

@@kathleenevans7533 Jesus really? Don’t ever send anyone money wtf! God

⁠@@kathleenevans7533 please protect yourself by never sending any money or giving passwords. Real people who love you are not going to take advantage of you like that.. be slow to trust. You actually increase your odds of finding love by not wasting your precious time on someone you cannot verify.

@Dawn Gardetto I am just catching up with older videos. Good point, Dawn.

It makes no sense at all. And what decent guy would have his young son talking with and emailing an old lady he's never met?

I was thinking the same thing. She must know she was being scammed again.

Low intelligence. 😮

This! Even if these guys were real, who wants to be involved with someone who CONSTANTLY has all this drama going on? Drama that, coincidentally, can only be resolved by giving them all your money!

She’s a prime mark for them... Basically she’s paying through the nose for romantic attention from these scammers. It’s sad but at the same time… geez gimme a break.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣yall killing me I'm peeing I swear I come here for comments like this

The stories are so far fetched! Living on a fixed-income? Social security I'm assuming? Where the heck does she get $35,000 to send someone? It was the same scammer all along I'm sure. If don't even think these people know what certain accents are.

I'm in my 60's and never came across one...🙄

She sees it. That’s why she wanted to stop the investigation to “protect” him. She didn’t want the truth to come out then she’d have to face it

Yes, she knows the truth. Doesn't want it voiced out loud. The fantasies in her head are worth the money she pays.

Shoot, if Helen Keller were alive today, she too would be able to see it's a scam! (1/9/2022)

I`ve never seen one been more obvious than this one!! Omg how did she not see that???

The people who operate this channel are so nice and seem so compassionate. Not me. I would be llike "What? What is wrong with you!"

And which child would call his dad's girlfriend mumy? No children on earth would like to share his/her parent especially if she/he has been alone for a while with his/her dad (or mum depending the scenario)

@Eagle Winnings I'm just catching up with older videos. But, excellent point! In addition to your point, she stated her concern about his reaction. Yet, later claims--he totally understood.

Imagine if he did "come and meet" her, she'd probably break a hip doing what she wants to do with a muscular younger man like that!

@@Balletified That's too logical & simple. There is always an excuse why it can't work right now, which they are more than willing to accept as long as they called them "queen".

@@Balletified Other women have done that!! And then waited in a hotel room for a week while the scammer made up all sorts of excuses to not meet them.

I agree that these folks want to meet their "friends"

Same when men do it too...🤢🤮

Men have no problem with the same delusion. Can't tell you how many men her age hit on me when i was almost half his age :(

@@shirleyanne6573 Delusional men get scammed all the time and nobody bats an eyelid. It's called 'marriage'. Five years later they start complaining about "women", when they should be complaining about their taste in women.

She’s 31 years old

She looks like she is in her 50's.

YES!

She doesn't need any reality! She pays scammers for a service.

There was a country song in the 1960s went something like "little bit of love is better than no love, even a sad love is better than no love ....even a bad love is better than no love at all." something like that. It never made sense to me, but I guess for some the illusion of love is better than feeling nothing.

I think you just come here to gloat.

She needs to believe in something. She’ll probably continue sending money just to keep the dream alive.

@@sylwiawalks2932 who? What you trippin on?

Kathleen and James just moved into a nice house with James' son. Now, the happy couple is having breakfast on the balcony while watching the sunrise every day. And between the sheets everything is hunky dory. Sigh...

there are more suckers.

@@louiscyfer6944 More suckers than a candy store.

I got a friend request from someone on Facebook. All the person said was " your cute'. Good grief I'm 72 and far from cute lol. I know all their tricks. Thank heavens for these scambaiters educating people on what to look for. I do have empathy for these people that are so lonely and end up getting scammed. But they all need to step back and look at the whole picture.

@@susiesnarey8442 exactly

@@susiesnarey8442 - I agree. I'm almost 66 and did the online dating thing 20 yrs ago when I was in my late 40's. I met hundreds of men online, and some of them I believe now were probably scammers (the ones who said they loved me quickly, and I blocked them immediately), and lots of genuine (real) men in person. I met in person with guys locally about 4-5 times a week, and sometimes two in a day. They were all nice, but none were my type (although most of them thought I was who they were looking for). I wasn't doing it for fun, but to find a suitable husband. In the end I was contacted by someone, we hit it off and in a few months we got married. He was a good man and my dream come true.

Or a babysitter! 😂😂😃

And then he asks for money lol. She is GULLIBLE!

@@msjujuz266 she didn't know any better

@@MrBrandonStar sure she did she just wouldn't admit it!!

Exactly they sure not going to let ya know your part of an investigation

@@MrBrandonStar She completely knows better. She got scammed less than two years previous and gave that one $35,000. She is in a mini cult where no matter how much you tell her she is wrong, she will side with the thief and wants to protect him from losing his fake job that she believes he has. Belief is a strong poison.

Video chat. What? No video chat. Block. Done.

And asking for money for THIER kid. Or their kid wanting a new mommy and calling me mommy after a few days. 🤢

Totally agree.

Hear hear!!!!

Agreed. I don't even give homeless men money!

And the scammer getting mean when you refuse to send them money. What kind of decent man, especially one who wants to marry you, would berate you for not continuously giving him money!

You don't say...........

They aren't. I was someone's reference for an internship there, and the moment they were hired, they never used the word "NSA" ever again. Only ever said "I work for the government" and left it at that.

Technically speaking you can tell people that you work for them but you cannot disclose literally anything else, specifically not your assignment. But why would you tell anyone? Kind of hard to be secure when people know.

Because she is his queen.

Nah! They’re the same stories again and again . The stories are written down and passed around and so is the script .

Nigerian films are actually pretty fucking sweet! Low budget, zany plots, WILD acting and comically weird special effects.

They're actually dumb and could never come up with this stuff on their own. They are following scripts and can't deviate from them,.

@@adhc8560 That's not how it works at all. Lmao!😂 🤡

😂😂😂

And the skin tag or wart or whatever it is on her nose.

Just reacting to the ageism. I was pursued for months by a guy 38 when I was 51. In person I mean, lol.

Yeah Aaron Rodgers was calling me relentlessly before he outed himself as an ahole.

@@georgiak6017 are you an attractive woman? I don’t mean to be cruel but how likely is it that any man under 50 would be romantically interested in a woman that looks like and is as old Kathleen.

@@georgiak6017 I don’t think you look like her or are nearly as old as her.

Ego narcissistic selfish (money could go to her daughter) lazy (could go out and meet real people)

It's certainly kept me away from internet dating. Starting a potential relationship with a blatant deception completely kills the dream for me.

@@CEB731 Honed out? What is that?

LMAO

Horney

Pay for sexting just a gigolo

Someone needs to step in as a power of attorney. She's on a fixed income. Her daughter needs to put her foot down.

@@lilessab85 I agree.

I think it's because it happened once and now she expects to have a relationship with a young good looking guy, and regular working guys her own age would be a letdown now. And the more she falls for it the more it will be ingrained.

Because she won't get the message. And people who fall for these scams get angry or shut-down with the 'brutal truths'. I know from experience. People like this choose this lifestyle, it is 100% an addiction. As strong as opiates.

I suppose it’s like telling someone they are an alcoholic. They don’t believe you and they get very angry.

No, no! He is real NSA agent! He just likes gift cards for his son, from "mummi".

Honesty is not their drug of choice. They rather go for sweet lies.

😂🤣

She needs a pet and to take up knitting or something

Yes she's to gullible to be online! 🤦‍♀️🚩

Yes, get offline. Also seek out a therapist. If you've already fallen for a scammer before and you're still falling for them now, there are deep underlying issues that need to be addressed.

Kathleen’s daughter - step in and stop your mom from falling for all these scammers.

I think sometimes they need to scream at these people.

I couldn't have said it better!

Agree!... the main red flag is the NSA job.. I would not fall for that. NSA people are too busy to monitor an ordinary woman. too many red flag not to see it..

She won't get until She is Down To Zero!!🤦 I wish the could've continued the Investigation

@@sakurakitana3087 Me too. It seemed to me that she didn’t want the truth.

A fool and her money will soon part. She’ll learn when she gives away all her money

Or there is voice changing software.

@@blondesense1708 exactly and its used by many scammers

But it's probably a child because as the experts said, they start young in Nigeria with the scamming.

They use actual children and the catfishers can be as young as 10 or 12. This is a child labor enterprise, In a poverty stricken country. They use scripts and do this to get money for thier family.

Obviously

Omg I just noticed this LMFAOOOOOO you are so right hHahahahahahahah wtf

That must be her daughter.

​@@matukonyc Or the photo was taken 20 years ago ? 😂

It's amazing.

Crazy right 😅.. So can you go to your nearest store and purchase 5 different 1000$ gift cards?

@Lynn Luna I'm just catching up with older videos. I gather we can add Kathleen to the 3 victims in the video who just refuse to believe their "romances" are scams. You know--the video with the guy who claimed it's an addiction. Sad. ✌️