Hi Maria, I hate to sound negative but she was told it was a scam. I feel like you Maria. Take care x

It’s hard to have sympathy for this women when she missed all the red flags

@@claireemily1983 I agree moon child xxx 💝

@@claireemily1983 I hate victim blaming, but they brought this upon themselves. They can’t be reasoned with.

Now at that point...it's absolutely her fault.

lmfao

Women with their mind in a better place will not fall for scammer tactics.

I've learned to call my own self Queen it's Soo much cheaper ❤

We give people too much information 😢

Messaging “my queen” has really improved my online hook up game.

Mark Twain was so wise.

Mark Twain FTW. This is the best quote to describe every romance scam featured here.

Than*

They’re delusional

probably a front. They don't want to appear all upset and embarrassed

Fake ??

Obviously these people are missing many many braincells.

@V A They're real. There are thousands of them and many others were on Dr. Phil.

Yes what a fool

And that's the truth Ruth lol

It always mystifies me that the scam victims were able to amass the amounts of money they send to the scammers, whether it’s $2,000 or $15,000.

@@jennifergill357 I always think that too! Lot of money to throw down the drain.

You can't fix being heartless. She volunteered to talk about this to help other young people not to make the same mistake and negative comments does not help her cause. It only makes you all look like you are a b........!

For real...make it make sense!

No. He's working. What he doing in regards to scamming her IS HIS WORK. In fact it's probably several different people this woman was talking to because they work in shifts.

What !!!!!lady you have brains what the hack!

She’s not working she had money from her ex husband who she called an “ass” like 3 times

Driving Uber doesn't pay the bills they like to rack up so..

Medically speaking of course

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Agree so fast to send money too be careful

Very true

Yesss--tell that to my now EX

Amen to that very well said

Folks today call that being " thirsty"

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I wonder too

I'll never understand it.

Lack of brain power plus greed.

@@snooganslestat2030 Greed about what ? She is the one giving him money ; not the other way around .

Desperation for love, to win other person over maybe. Sadly scammers are heartless.

I wish that was the only red flag. Unfortunately in these scenarios there are so many things that do not add up, but these women choose to totally ignore over and over and over again.

@@JaimeMesChiens And laziness and delusion to do a little background research or use common sense

Of course, there are tons of red flags.

@@brindacockburn4033 She still isn’t learning anything, because Linnie was on drugs at 14:15 - she asserted the document was claiming the email address belonged to British Airways (seriously, what’s up with Linnie being that bad at her job??). How come this scammed lady didn’t catch that and say “no Linnie, the document is simply saying that the customer (“Paul”) made the transaction with his private gmail email address, which is perfectly normal and expected.”

I decided in my early thirties not to mess with any man and I was in the prime of my life. What on Gods green Earth do you think you even stand a chance at your age?

And as so many others pointed out… she drove 40 miles to another bank. That is quite a lot of time and effort. To me, that crossed to line from victim to willing accompli.

@@PungiFungi exactly!!!

Totally true!! I think accountability is absolutely necessary.

Right just block the call they are in another country 🙄

Agree to a degree. Scammers prey on naivete and loneliness and in those states of mind, some people will fall into the trap and they will do anything to be with these ideals of people. I think there needs to be more education, especially for the age groups that are targetted.

Maybe that is why they are alone and ready for scammer.

Soooo annoying!!

I thought about that myself. It struck me . She went through cancer so she wanted to look at her best I guess .

Oh, now I get it!

It is sad but I think she scammed the scammer too but I don't think she was totally cognizant of what she did. She was in the middle of a divorce and had been just told she had cancer. I don't think she was being realistic.

@@MaxItUpwithMarta The scammer didn't care what she looked like- just what her bank account looked like.

@@JaimeMesChiens wow, your comments put things in perspective.

I basically had the same problem at work many years ago. An older lady was sending money to someone, I forgot where, I finally asked her about it. She was secretive about it. I finally called someone higher up at WU. Next time she came in I called & let her talk to the lady at WU. She had no luck talking to her either. We finally had to just refuse WU services to her after that. I always wondered about her.

Hell yeah!

Good for you…my aunt was scammed. She was older and confused and gave thousands to a stranger. When we spoke with the bank they said- it’s her money so she has ever right to do what she wants with it.

All the conversations are the same they barely go beyond how are you, have you eaten & love you my queen 🤮 Ask anything beyond & they vanish them come back & start the nonsense again! I don't know how anyone is satisfied with that let alone falling in love.

Me too,these women go for rich men,she wouldn't look at him twice if he haven't said that he has high paying job and if he didn't look pretty 🙄I only felt sorry for maybe two women who were really in a bad place emotionaly.

Plus, I am guessing this service is also not for free.

I know right? I feel bad for her daughter though.

She said she sold her house and had the money from that. She didn’t say she had never worked, but that she had been a stay at home mom while married. So what if she used credit cards and then paid off the debt? You’re the one who comes off as a complainer with anger issues.

Unbelievable stupide .... something wrong with these woman

My policy when I used online dating sites. Never once had a man ask me for money. I also met the man I'm in a relationship with now online

I just can't comprehend it.

Still not as bad as the lady who got her money back and sent it again. Remember that one? 🤦🏾‍♀️

Being thirsty makes you do dumb things 🤷🏼‍♀️

@Ginger S and the one that even went to federal prison after being warned she was money laundering

Yep, she drove 40 miles away.

Yeah normal ppl wud, what scares me is these ppl can sit on jury's + can vote!! Just think about that for a minute lol

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which is the reason she only got one date from the other men

I know, I didn't even think they were the same person!!

@@JaimeMesChiens I completely agree with you. She's not ready for online dating at all.

Ayesha Summers, I know. I was bummed because I thought - just this once - a women realized BEFORE she sent thousands of dollars, that she was being scammed. You can fall for someone without giving them money. Grown, mature women should understand that, and if he needs this kind of money and cannot get it on his own, sounds like a weak man. Why fall for a weak man. Find yourself a man who has his own money or knows how to get it without a sugar momma.

“Online “ dating is NOT DATING ! Dating is when you go out with someone in Real Life ! Lol ! ( preferably someone you Know !)

I wish I could like this 💯 more times

@@JaimeMesChiens Agree 100%.

I've always thought that, wud never get over losing all that money!!

It's bc they never actually realize what happened and what the long term consequences will be.

She was brainwashed at this point . She was not thinking normally . I worry if she is Still not somewhat at Risk because of the words she uses when describing this “ relationship “ as though it is current , or even Still ongoing ?? She needs counseling . God Bless .

@@patsygroves3812 she was never thinking normally. Starting with the picture from decades ago she put on her dating profile.

@@bella3775 Well , you know she was having marital problems and that can take it’s toll . God Bless .

@@patsygroves3812 She wasnt at the beginning. Plenty of opportunities to stop. The scammer sent an obviously fake passport to her lol

@@snooganslestat2030 Yes . I guess she wanted to believe all of the lies he was telling . She must have had very low self esteem . God Bless .

Why 90% reader are blaming victim but not wipe off scammers? You all think control victims are much easy then kill scammers?

Well the bank lady tried to tell her 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣 and she STILL didn’t think she was being scammed until after at least $10k lmao. I wonder what’s the magical amount that makes them go wow maybe that’s a scam?

yes but common sense can go out o the window when youve had bad luck it happend to me

Why send money anyway

You're not old fashioned, just someone with common sense. I'm honestly quite a sympathetic person, but I've watched these romance scam videos and can't find any pity for the women.

Yeah, who cares if the person is “real”? Don’t send them money!

@@moonlitdesert Exactly.

Call me old fashion but I am really old school a Man isn’t a man who asks for Money even if I know them. A real Man knows how to make his own money

That's my opinion too. So weird.

Well, the husband‘s probably don’t look like much

She was determined. If she drove forty five Minutes away, she went to another city

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Definitely!

LOL

I was thinking the same thing...... that photo looks nothing like her

Don’t you think she’s been through enough? The photo is irrelevant. She was scammed. Scammers don’t care about appearance, just the money.

I read your comment before her video showed up, and I was like: "so mean... i sure she's pretty, she probably didn't have makeup on the video". I STAND CORRECTED.

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Almost beggars belief doesn't it, I bet you he's the first scammer that broke the rules 😂😂

Don't forget, this stupid woman is living in a fantasy world; "well I'M nice. I'M not cut throat & would certainly never scam anybody. So that means the universe is made of cotton candy & ponies and everybody just loves everybody". (Barf)

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The scammers are not idiots ; those sending money are .

I've noticed MANY middle to upper class Caucasian American women cannot or will not be alone! Idk if they need a man fawning over them or what! I'm multi racial. My now ex husband divorced me after 27 years of marriage. I also have MS and the stress made me unable to work for a couple of years. I got lonely. Desperately lonely. Not enough to give away free money to ANYONE though!

Lol That’s how online dating is. Only show the best angles, then show up to a date looking like a completely different person and wonder why it’s awkward.

and a life

@@AndyinMTL and a better role model for her daughter.

Was thinking the same thing wondering who the lady in the pic was in the beginning of the episode. This channel is so much unintentional comedy

@@samusvikerness661 most people don’t put up pictures from decades ago though. She’s a young woman in her picture. Now she’s 50 pounds heavier with a ton of white hair and a lot of wrinkles. That’s not taking pictures from good angles or even airbrushing

Are you his attorney?? LOL! Because she was dumb and looking love... her husband (who the daughter refuses to see) is NOT an ass?? What does one thing have to do with another??? Or are you just being mean? For no reason??

@@skontheroad are you her daughter? Quite frankly the answer is yes 😅

Thats not what being an ass is 💀

I don’t send money to friends or family.

Sometimes I wish these women who fall for the scammers would spend their money on improving their own lives....like self care, social activities, fitness activities. and healthy foods. Then they would be healthier, happier, look better, and meet real people.

@@susanpritchard7521 Good one!

Red Planet- maybe you need grammar lessons. “There are attractive” is decidedly unattractive grammar to me. Worry about yourself and praise this lady for being honest to help try to save others.

@@deirdrekokora8680 I can't see a grammatical error in saying "there are attractive", where do you see it?

@@deirdrekokora8680 grammar has nothing to do with the idiot on this video doing what she did. She deserves everything she got taken for. She lacks complete common sense.

lol...,,my ex husband is an ass....and me im really stupid...fat and ugly...lol"

But she is the one sending a COMPLETE STRANGER 13,000 bucks that she doesn't have. AMAZING! I wish her ex-husband a long happy life, WITHOUT HER!

I bet he is, too!

That’s a gross misrepresentation of what that saying means. It doesn’t mean you only give compassion and charity to people in your family, community, country, etc. It means parents should be teaching their children - IN THE HOME - how to be charitable, kind, and compassionate. A starving child in America is no more deserving of food and help than a starving child in Africa. That kind of thinking is xenophobic and gross.

I was thinking the same thing

@@JaimeMesChiens Actually, it's not Tina who is at fault for that headline. Time and time again, I've noticed these people mess with what the text is, one "victim" confirmed it. She never gave them any text, they made it up. Their webpage is blocked in my country (England) because of problems with The Data Protection Act, which made me curious about them. I was looking at feedback about them online....not too good. Happy New Year and a healthy one to you.

@@JaimeMesChiens One woman who was on actually admitted in text that they made up all the texted messages the scammers sent her, she never showed them the texts. Time and time again, there's something fishy here. They're blocked in my country (England) because of their non compliance with WDPR laws, which isn't good. If people want to hear how beautiful they are from an unknown entity thousands of miles away, good for them. You won't stop them. You can get free tools. the reverse image tools, and download Grabify which will tell you where they're phoning from. Watch Romance Scammers and online scams. A lovely funny English lady does it, really messes with their minds, without being at all rude or anything. She has a whole gang of alter egos, including an 80 year old. Bye now and take care.

3 of my 4 close friends have had breast cancer. It is a life long battle. If some surgeon tells you that he got it all he’s lying. There is no way that you can get rid of every single cancer cell in your body. I’m a retired oncology nurse.

She wants $$$

@@withgoddess She HAD money.

Same!

Fun fact, when women hit 60 their standards drop in fear of growing old lonely so the majority of scammers target the older generation because they know they don’t have many of any romantic options and more likely to do anything to hold onto one

I think they are people with very little real life experience, particularly in cyberspace, at least bordering on senility and who resent the life they've lived

Loneliness is horrific and the scammers know it. :(

Me too! I can’t figure out why I keep bingeing!

@@JaimeMesChiens Her ex no longer supports her...she hasn't worked in years.

Or a gym membership

You mean her ex? Who wasn't paying child support? That's VERY common! And very expensive to chase after too! Hope you never have to deal with it yourself!

Christian mingle is great for men, they can scam easier. Seen it.

To be honest. She should have simply said 'Sorry, I am completely maxxed out on my credit cards and loans because I have been having to pay for medical fees. I was kind of hoping that being a man who is in love with me that you might be able to loan me some money'

Yep!!:

I know like ma’am do you need a girlfriend?? 💍🤣 I need $13k in one month too

Right?seems like there are so many stupid people in this world. I earn $30 an hour at work, I could just spin the most unbelievable story and retire early lol

My thoughts exactly.

LmBo

I’m like why didn’t they use the one where she has on that mask in the chat bubbles ?? 🤣🤣 where did that high school graduation pic come from?!

Seriously 😂

I noticed that as well. Did several double takes.

​@@AjasAura not high school graduation picture 🤣🤣🤣