I felt all of her pain when the judge had to break down how it doesn’t matter how much you do for a person they could still not want you. That shit HURTS.

Never let a person tell you more than once, they don't want you.... RUN YOUNG LADY...

She worrying about him with women. She needs to worry about the men

He was using her for her stability. And she assumes that her providing is equivalent to love that would make a man commit and it's not.

THE MAN WANTS ANOTHER MAN SWEETHEART!!!!!

That boy sweeter than sugar

"people have the right to want who they want even if who they want is not you and no matter how much you do for a person if he's not invested in a relationship with you the amount of things you do for him has no meaning" I needed to hear that so badly right now i'm glad she put it in words for me .

Trust me, a person... A MAN takes care of what he loves. If a man isn't taking care of you or elevating himself to do so, he doesn't love you enough to. Supporting a man, buying a man, loving a man is not going to make him love you.

This man is so ready to not be with her or any other woman. Please don't embarrass yourself any longer.

She was trying hard to keep him. Girl love yourself first!

Judge Toler handled this as delicately as possible without outing him, which he clearly isn't ready to do publicly. Kudos to her! ❤️

When he said he lost interest her heart broke!

Legend has it that he's still standing at the podium waiting for the judge to come back out!! 😂😂

The energy some women put into these men for nothing in return blows me. In my opinion, NEVER love a man more than you love yourself. NEVER! 💯

He lost INTEREST IN FAKING BEING HETEROSEXUAL.. HE'S CLEARLY.. GAY...

Nah he’s a sad excuse. If you dont want someone, you dont slip a note to a judge. You speak up and leave.

Judge Lynn Toler’s advices were priceless. I’ve always admired her.

women are so blind. the instant my man is just saying hi and bye to me, I know the relationship has dried up. he cant tell me no different because his actions speak louder than his words. yes it hurts to leave but that's what's going to happen. I rather save myself some money and and go thru a breakup than to continue to waste my money, time, and effort and still go thru a breakup

Juicy Smollette.

The guy is a player you are in a relationships for 10 years why he don't want to marry you .I think he seeing someone else leave him never allow a man to walk out on you

This loser knew that he could never forgive his girlfriend when she got pregnant by another man, while they were on a break. However, he continue to live off of his girlfriend while he pursued a career as a broke struggle rapper. Girlfriend is beautiful and she won't have any problems finding real man to partner with and have relationship with.

Dang, thats crazy and I think he's gay. What a user smh

One thing for Certain, Money 💸can't buy Love 💘!!!

The moment he acted he didn't know her at the restaurant I would of be gone. She's not listening. He said he don't want you, move along mate. Its obvious he's using her while he's getting his life together.

He's sweeter than ghetto Kool-Aid 💅

She feels like that's the thank she gets . She will be alright on her own.

I'm the primary bread winner in my family and I love it, my mum taught me not to rely on any man, even if he's a millionaire, ladies get yourself off to university, get your degree and look after yourselves ♥️ much love ladies from England 💕.

FIRST OFF SHE’S GORGEOUS😍

Lookie here, I'm old and have lived a pretty sheltered life....even I can see this dude is sweet, REALLY REALLY SWEET

That dude is a slow poison and a slow criminal. Cool but dangerous. Lady run for your dear life.

This Man is on the down low🤔.She worried about the wrong thing.He's also using her for money .Move around People 🖐️

Is so cowardly of him to come this far to say he has no interest or he doesn’t want her anymore

She wanted to really cry , felt her pain 😢😢

I'm not gonna say much but my gaydar is going off! Not sure what's going on.

Judge Lynn broke it down to her as clear as day and she still doesn't get it. She doesn't want to accept that he doesn't want her. Ray Charles can see that this dude is gay gay...He doesn't want a woman.

10:58-11:05 You could hear a pin drop from how quiet it got. I felt that in my soul right along with you girl.... It’s time to go & that’s okay! Yes, you might feel like how dare he fix his mouth to say some s*** after all the things you’ve done but just move on and take this as a lesson learned. I wouldn’t waste another minute. *And Thank God he only gave you a Latex Reaction and not HIV!* Let go girl... 🙌🏾

It's someone out there that can love you the way you deserve...

I love the necklaces that judge Lynn wears hahaha everytime I watch an episode the first thing I pay attention to is her necklace lol

This guy is more feminine than her. He lost interest because he jumped ship. Nothing wrong with that, but he should of just been open and not use her for five years.

That’s a pretty and down sista. She won’t have no trouble finding another man. P.S. If she leaves him and then he makes it in the music industry (I know,,,,,he won’t), I hope she don’t end up like Taragi P. in “Acrimony”. You know, shooting people and chopping up legs on his yacht.

96% of the time it's a guy from "our" "community" that does NOT pay bills, work or take care of the children whatsoever. Girl RUN!

If he doesn’t appreciate your presence give him your absence

I could be wrong but I think they BOTH LOOKING FOR A HUSBAND 🤣🤣😂

If you lost interest why you stay so long living off of this lady 🙄 Ughhh I hate broke men

She is really pretty

I hope she can find someone to love her the right way. She seems like a good woman.....and she is a cutie

When he said he lost interest you can hear a pin drop😱

He was hurt the baby wasn't his and found himself a man.

I went to school with them this hilarious 😂

I know that feeling this young lady is feeling sad however hopefully she realizes that she is way better off without that lying using coward!! He is a super clown for embarrassing her on national TV like he did though🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

When he said he lost interest I knew my instincts were spot on. You CAN'T make him happy.... you don't have the right equipment, boo. Cut your losses and move on!

He's been buying time to become successful and then leave her. They should have been married!

I can't even bring myself to date a man who seems a little suspect...

He's doing what most black men do when they need a place to live. They go along to get along to secure the roof, food, bed, hot water. No love, Little respect, No support

Idk if he gay or not but that sweater is **Them shoulders too**

Once the judge read his statement she should have just said "Okay, we're done. I'm letting the relationship go."

He wasted 5 years of her time supporting him. What a user.

he should have told her that at home not national television 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

She is gorgeous to me and has a sweet spirit🥰🥰 It's crazy but I can listen to her voice all day. Now, listen here Girl, he Ain't interested. So go and be great to yourself.

She's not listen .....you can't make anyone stay or love you...

Girl, go let that man live his best PRIDEFUL life!

Dude gay. Lady you have been here too long and beautiful. MOVE ON.

He seems gay my gaydar is going off he wants to be with men

At the beginning of this show when she's talking about money and him with his music, I thought it was more that he could get job to help pay the bills. I'm an artist but the art industry is extremely tough to get into. But I hold down full time job so I can pay my bills. I do think he was using her by her paying all the bills. He's a royal jerk. If you are not into her than leave. You owe her the honesty. Really walk out the door. Leave note on the counter is better than continue for years and staying. Sadly sometimes we miss signs of when things are ending and hr should have been more direct like actually leaving which is why she didn't hear him those 99 times by his actions that he wasn't into her anymore. I really don't have any respect for this guy. At the end of the show he stood there. I wonder if he just figured out that he NOW needs to move out and pay his own bills!! I wish he was made to pay something to her cause she deserved it.

Damn, I took more notes watching this episode than any of the other ones I’ve watched.. I hope that young lady is doing well without him

Ma'am he is gay.. That's why he is uninterested in her. It's written on over him.

I think some women fail to learn from other women with age and experience. I can't even blame him for taking advantage of her. THIS MAN IS A CHILD!!

Tbh if I was him I woulda broke it off. I wouldn’t have stayed in a relationship that I wasn’t happy in anymore after I found out my gf had a baby w/ another man. The relationship died right then and the fact that you could tell he cared about hurting her feelings made me feel bad.

🤣🤣🤣😩The Struggle to name the bills you pay 🤦🏾‍♀️ Ummm Uhhh! It’s the uhhh cell phone bill.... and uhhh I’m getting to it 💀

What is it in America with most black people wanting to be a rapper!?!? I'm so tired of seeing this omg! Nobody is aspiring to have a normal career?

Judge was being nice by saying that the issue is that he’s just not into her..what she really wanted was for someone else to say that he’s gay 🤷🏾‍♀️

don't EVER stay with someone who feels like they have to give you and ultimatum. and if you feel like YOU need to give them an ultimatum, don't. leave, and tell them why.

That's why you don't use yourself as a step ladder to get a man to where he needs to be. Because when he does he won't want you on top with him. ..... well at least most of them. I feel sorry, a shame, and said for this lady! 😭😭

She probably never heard him before, saying that he lost interest in their relationship, because she never let him saying it and/or didn’t want to hear it.

"Never let a man tell you more than once" .. advice starts at 17:09

The girl is a star. She has her stuff together, takes care of her daughter well, has business smarts and is beautiful. Sadly she is now learning the painful lesson many of us have had to learn of realizing when a loving relationship is O-V-E-R and can't be fixed. She is also being hit by the point that Marvin Gaye sang about in "I Want You." The line "A one-way love is just a fantasy" comes to mind. It hurts, but she will do so much better and deserves so much better than this user. This guy is dead weight.

Has anyone watched the woman over the defendant's shoulder clocking his tea? Her scowl, knitted brow and eye rolls are epic!!!! 5:11 through 5:18.

There are a lot of people who pursued the entertainment career who are up in age and made it but that's very few the older you get the harder it is to make it you got to know somebody that knows somebody that knows somebody that you really got to be on your grind because a new artist is being born everyday on every corner in every city so what makes you hotter than the next artist out there people are out there that have raw talent and yet have not made it and nobody even knows of them I'm not saying give up on your dreams but be realistic and have a back-up plan in case it doesn't work out if you have a family you can't pursue this for life not unless you are an established artist making money and I mean big time money

What happen to waiting and marriage? We teach folks how to treat us. At times love is not enough. We'll put the cart before the horse and expect things to still shine.

Dude is Sweeter than a Little Debbie lol

This man is sweeter than a two dollar bill

This whole episode made me hurt cause it’s so many questions I want to ask both of them

Pack ya bags lady and wish him a happy day.

I like that "Ouiiiiii" from judge Lynn 😅😅😅😅😅

He is a peace of work but I feel that she went above and beyond because she knew she stepped out on him having a child by another man. I believe he tried to leave her but it’s nothing she wanted him to do. He’s dead ass wrong for letting her do these things knowing that he lost interest. I think he lost interest years ago.

Pinky and the brain comes to mind when I saw him 🤭🤭🤭

I needed to hear those final words...

he's Flamin lol 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Very good advise judge.

There is this one beautiful song that saids customs is stronger than love. At times we get caught up to the wrong things and I miss judge Lynn Toler she broke it down perfect. Yes I know is easier said than done but at the end is the best. I felt her pain. Wow 💔

Fantastic video

14:14 ✨ Judge Lynn Toler ALWAYS dropping gems!

This is soooo hilarious.. the girl was talking so much, keeping on answering for the guy.. he just didn't want to hurt her and was having a hard time saying it out loud.. even when he was asked what he didn't like about the relationship, she just couldn't stop talking, saying "its his image, its his images" blaming everything on him.. not seeing anything wrong with herself.. how could she think a man would simply forget and move on when she had a child with another man while they were together..??? she is so self righteous and thinks so highly of herself that, even after he said it and after the judge too read it out loud and clear, she still couldn't even understand that he didn't like her anymore..people often reject us when we think we r too good.

Who ever he partners with and when they see this clip they will run a million miles. He is a user and will never change. Fathers be there for your daughters! Be the first to take her to the restaurant, so she will know how a man should treat her.

Invest in Yourself, eventually he'll get to where he's trying to go, if he wanna get there, but Never gamble on someone else's well being!! 🙋

He didn’t have a hard time talking he didn’t want to hurt her feelings

She shouldn't be made to take care of him or wait until he's done punishing her before he becomes a man & take care of himself, he's making her pay for his hurt,she shouldn't be beat over the head about a wrong she's made in the past no one deserves that,if he chose to get back with her than he chose to accept her wrong & move forward with her,if not he should've been the man that he's not & moved on.. Tbh he seemed a little sweet & I'm not talking about the way her treats her either.🤷‍♀️ I hope she's successful in her "real" career & doing well..

He said he thinks he's just lost interest, but he's been enjoying her taking care of everything though, but he's done with her!!

Her brain can't Accept what he wants Even when the Judge said it to her.

I haven't even begun to watch this case. With that Audrey Hepburn, Princess Grace float up to the podium I was ready to fall to the floor. lolololol 😂 This brother is so light in the loafers he may float up to the ceiling of the court room during the proceedings. lolololol 😜 She sure doesn't need to worry about the women; it's the men she needs to be concerned with. I have to agree with Violin Piano, wow this must be the owner of a music store.....interesting name.