Do You Miss Who I Was Before Transitioning?

Do You Miss Who I Was Before Transitioning? | {THE AND} MaryV & Chella

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MaryV & Chella, dating for a year and a half, open up about how they’ve grown and changed in the context of their relationship. MaryV explores the differences in being with Chella before and during his transition, while Chella reminds MaryV of the selfless things she does to accommodate his deafness and make sure he always feels included and respected. | Official English captions available!
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Do You Miss Who I Was Before Transitioning? | {THE AND} MaryV & Chella
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@Smile-nh6ig 5 жыл бұрын

If their relationship were made into a movie, no actor/actress would replicate the way they look into each other’s eyes.

@renballem6803 5 жыл бұрын

Smile umm Scarlett Johansson? Think again sweetie

@pluvio__ 5 жыл бұрын

TRUE SJSJDJDJDJJ

@jessicay8207 5 жыл бұрын

Leo dicaprio mate he’d make ur head SPIN

@Angel-pn2ck 5 жыл бұрын

Rain Writes SCREAMING

@marlen6267 5 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same

@saran6651 6 жыл бұрын

They make me sad because I feel like this kind of love is one in a billion

@Rikuphi 5 жыл бұрын

So be the next one! :) Never give up.

@YN-OFA17 5 жыл бұрын

@stonecat676 5 жыл бұрын

I don't know if I'll ever be this emotionally available for someone.

@FlavitaCarvalho 5 жыл бұрын

Sure it is

@thomaschristopherwhite9043 5 жыл бұрын

You're idealizing this. If you knew these people in reality you'd say they're like everyone else.

@luvingcleo 5 жыл бұрын

If she learned sign language for him that’s beyond beautiful and it burns my heart 😩😍

@Karin-fj3eu 5 жыл бұрын

When I read this I immediately agreed but then I thought actually it should be an obvious thing to do for someone you love, learn their language to understand them better you know?

@AkatsukiCookies 5 жыл бұрын

She does know some sign language but is not fluent yet.

@sarahvincent3431 5 жыл бұрын

True love is helping each other’s life’s

@AA-bk1oe 5 жыл бұрын

Wdym, she can. Only when she is tired and it's night time, she said it's an issue.

@andrreasm.6150 4 жыл бұрын

But why does he use sign language? He can hear

@lozanofamily3495 5 жыл бұрын

Uff that ending 😭 "Are we finished" "Yeah we're finished what do you want to do now?" "I love you" "I love you....... always" "Me too🥰"

@elisemartina9832 5 жыл бұрын

Martha Lozano I took a sign language class this spring, and I’m so happy I actually understood what they said 😭

@space.404 5 жыл бұрын

@@elisemartina9832 wow I thought that sign language change from country to country?

@elisemartina9832 5 жыл бұрын

sᴇᴀʀᴄʜɪɴɢ ғᴏʀ ᴀɴ ɪᴅᴇɴᴛɪᴛʏ it does!! this was ASL - American Sign Language. In England it even changes, even though it’s English both places 🙈

@Rommism 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for translating this. 😊

@kiona91 4 жыл бұрын

Lozano Family imma cry holy shit

@fleurs8552 5 жыл бұрын

Bisexual culture is having a crush on both of them after watching this

@ahana2912 5 жыл бұрын

Pansexual*? He's a trans man

@senc6806 5 жыл бұрын

Ahana Chatterjee that implies that being trans is it’s own gender which is transphobic, so. you can be bisexual and fall in love or want to be with someone that happens to be trans. i don’t know why you felt the need to try and correct that.

@fleurs8552 5 жыл бұрын

@@senc6806 exactly! A trans man is still just a man, and nothing less.

@thegirlnextdoor6770 5 жыл бұрын

So true they’re both so damn attractive

@Hallaylla 5 жыл бұрын

Ooo yes

@mevrouwroos 5 жыл бұрын

Him wearing white and her wearing black is so pleasing to look at for some reason. They look so beautiful together. Their love is beautiful!

@rosemoon605 5 жыл бұрын

I'm the 666 like 😐

@georgey1179 5 жыл бұрын

@@rosemoon605 😂congrants I guess

@Americansikkunt 5 жыл бұрын

Judging their relationship solely on their appearance so superficial! The sheer amount of comments that only focus on their appearance is apparent, and that is not a good reflection of the audience. I get these are trans-folk, but still...

@imnoorv 4 жыл бұрын

Yin-yang ☯

@hoalam1559 4 жыл бұрын

update: they hit 3 years!!

@jane7639 4 жыл бұрын

Wow... It feels like they've been together forever

@marlinap 4 жыл бұрын

4 years!!!

@cherylmia 3 жыл бұрын

Make it 4 now..

@kingayy9267 3 жыл бұрын

Of course they are! They seem like old souls who've been together for decades They're so easily and completely in love, everyone in the comments can see it and it's gorgeous

@mimiusof5275 2 жыл бұрын

update: 5 years now!!

@zhanehenderson24 5 жыл бұрын

I honestly feel like relationships like this are once in a blue moon. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a couple in my life look at each other the way they do and so.... caring for each other. You can see they really love each other. Love like this you only see in the movies and i don’t it can replicated.

@ClayMastah344 3 жыл бұрын

Honestly. When I thought of relationships as a child with purer intentions I thought it’d be like this. Only to grow up and see so many who are clearly nowhere near this amount of connection but feel like they’re in a true relationship. It’s mind boggling.

@brealgritty2027 3 жыл бұрын

Totally!!!! Well said!

@Candyfreak657 5 жыл бұрын

Update : they hit 2 years !!!!

@foolforyou69 5 жыл бұрын

Lu R ”hit” jesus

@fruitoson4227 5 жыл бұрын

and a month!!!!

@foolforyou69 5 жыл бұрын

am i the only one bothered by this phrasing? like it's a fing marathon or how long can you kiss while holding your breath wtfff

@Candi.X 5 жыл бұрын

now 3

@elistrawberri5934 5 жыл бұрын

and married now

@belindahallstrom7083 5 жыл бұрын

if I can't find love like this...I don't want it.

@JaredL-nf4lf 5 жыл бұрын

I mean shiiitttt I'm pretty lonely so I might have to settle for basic love...LMFAO 💀

@stevengc2.0t9 5 жыл бұрын

chicha cun HAHAHA NO PENIS SO FUNNY. stfu, they're in love and that doesn't mean anything about their genitals. If that's all you care about well you can worry about that with YOUR partner. Stop worrying about other people and what they like fucking weirdo.

@inessa5923 5 жыл бұрын

That's really... Miserable. Damn. I hope you get over this way of thought, or else you're gonna be single forever

@midnight51 5 жыл бұрын

Sigh...right?

@erraticangel8429 5 жыл бұрын

Omg yes

@solbirsuka9185 5 жыл бұрын

"i have not fallen in love with a body, but merely a soul, and that has made all the difference."

@sleepinthegarden6606 4 жыл бұрын

solbirsuka god this is so pure

@yaddleperreadora9348 4 жыл бұрын

Sorry i dont get it the boy is a trans boy?

@Medina21346 4 жыл бұрын

Yaddle Perreadora yee

@monielove8662 3 жыл бұрын

🥺

@ShadoWolf43 5 жыл бұрын

I love that Maryv is wearing all black and Chella is wearing all white and their whole aesthetic. Its like they complete each other. So pure

@zimzimzalabim 5 жыл бұрын

well it's all calculated. And of course, they have style advisers for this. I don't see anything pure about that. It's just okay.

@aryore2411 5 жыл бұрын

@@zimzimzalabim I don't think intent and expertise negate the effect. Beauty does not have to be spontaneous to be pure.

@orignalityisdead3717 4 жыл бұрын

Yin-yang type shit

@tyheciacampbell5060 4 жыл бұрын

ShadoWolf43 ying and yang baby

@Littlehopess 3 жыл бұрын

Yin yang

@representationmetaphorique 6 жыл бұрын

They're so in love and so gentle with each other. They understand each other at their core.

@myjams7180 6 жыл бұрын

erin h IKR

@TheKatarinaGiselle 6 жыл бұрын

Yes! Perfect description!

@tootlem 6 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking. They’re so sweet, I love seeing people who genuinely care about each other interact

@sueebai9436 6 жыл бұрын

I love how at the end they did sign language I really wanna learn ASL so bad I soon hope to take classes like that while I have the chance in highschool :) I wanna have a conversation like this with my girl one day ...

@mandeysandey108 6 жыл бұрын

10 tousand likes?

@4everBreezy 5 жыл бұрын

They’re so naturally attractive. Like calmly attractive. I’m not sure what adjective I’m trying to use but it’s like not too overwhelming but it’s definitely evident. They’re just so purely attractive

@Hannah-id5hk 5 жыл бұрын

AfrocentricGeek I feel you

@Sarah-uu9hf 5 жыл бұрын

They both have a softness to them especially Mary

@tiedye99 5 жыл бұрын

Totally know what you mean

@glenncoco8840 5 жыл бұрын

They like someone you see in those Indie aesthetic teenage movies.

@HazelGrey. 5 жыл бұрын

They have ethereal beauty

@landryr8087 5 жыл бұрын

this was so intimate. the way they would look at each other was so pure & full of love. i honestly felt like i was intruding on their time. i’m in awe of them. they’re such beautiful people.

@kingayy9267 10 ай бұрын

They look at each other as though no one else in the world exists. As you said, it almost felt intrusive to watch this conversation.

@shadowscribbler6100 4 жыл бұрын

Damn, she is stunning. She looks like a classical painting.

@mariasancioni8413 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly, she's sooo beautiful

@peachypeachy9658 4 жыл бұрын

Yes 😍

@bm6752 6 жыл бұрын

9:56 MaryV:"Why do you love me?" Chella: "Why?...Everything. Everything." Me: cries in single

@andy118111 6 жыл бұрын

B M LMAO

@JNKprops 6 жыл бұрын

Hahahahhaha

@anelemahamba8114 4 жыл бұрын

💀🤣

@amibabyy 6 жыл бұрын

their voices are so calming

@ArtundertheSun1 6 жыл бұрын

ami babyy I just want them to narrate a book for me now, so peaceful voices

@RikXtreme4 6 жыл бұрын

i was just thinking that. very soft spoken voices

@mixivaldez2967 6 жыл бұрын

ami babyy my own personal ASMR

@constanzamunoz7299 5 жыл бұрын

Helina Pope they could narrate Eleanor and Park

@plutodevil1618 5 жыл бұрын

IKR? This video is almost like ASMR, I would love to hear them reading a story or something

@sag2007ama 5 жыл бұрын

"You've never disappointed me to that point where it fills the entirety of the word"... I liked that :)

@nurulnatasya4087 5 жыл бұрын

what's the meaning

@user-jk4jj4nm1q 5 жыл бұрын

@@nurulnatasya4087 that she hasn't REALLY disappointed him, maybe small things, because he said "disappointed" is a heavy word

@Ash-sy4qj 5 жыл бұрын

Roses are red meaning she’s never disappointed him to the point where he can actually say I’m disappointed in you. He’s only been upset but she’s never fulfilled the meaning of that word. If that makes sense?

@fieldofdandelions795 5 жыл бұрын

the enD WHERE THEY SIGNED IMFSFNSKJA "i'll love you always" "i'll love you always" "forever" "me too"

@Ash-sy4qj 5 жыл бұрын

Andy Kurtis that’s not what they signed. though😂

@harinibharathkumar1058 4 жыл бұрын

@@Ash-sy4qj What is it then?

@kimberlystevens2162 6 жыл бұрын

This couple is like out of a movie

@kingayy9267 10 ай бұрын

What I wouldn't give for a love like this. They accept each other so completely and without hesitation. It's really beautiful.

@hannahinnit1512 6 жыл бұрын

when he whispers, "yeah, but you just kill it" i swooned so hard omfg

@Jusu331 6 жыл бұрын

Harambe Dawg I'm gonna cry. They are so perfect

@hannahinnit1512 6 жыл бұрын

Right? I aspire to have a relationship like theirs!

@fluffnpaw2156 6 жыл бұрын

So pure

@charliecastillo2011 5 жыл бұрын

Being Deaf myself (and Asian-American), the sign language at the end was really heartwarming to see! Thanks so much for sharing this story.

@zakiyyaalmond9160 5 жыл бұрын

Charlie Castillo if you don't mind, can you tell me what did they say? Trying to look up all the comments but seems like no one notice that special last bits...

@honeyjiawen5592 5 жыл бұрын

I want to know what the sign language meaning too..

@charliecastillo2011 5 жыл бұрын

Zakiyya and Honey: here’s what I was able to make out because the camera is far away: MaryV: Thank you Chella: Thank you MaryV: Feel finished? Chella: I feel finished, yes Both: shorthand for I Love You (🤟 symbol)

@siratlas8198 5 жыл бұрын

Charlie Castillo After the “i love you” Chella also signed “always” and i think MaryV signed “me too” after that :) (hope this helps!)

@bean5357 5 жыл бұрын

sorry if I sound dumb but how is he able to understand her when he is deaf? I'm really confused

@kirtij2441 5 жыл бұрын

Can you believe these two are 20? They have so much maturity and understanding at such a young age. I've been watching their videos since a few months now, and all I see is pure love and innocence. Wishing them a bright future!❤️

@Lwmyoun 4 жыл бұрын

WHAT?!

@kirtij2441 4 жыл бұрын

@@Lwmyoun yeah! Chella is 20 and MaryV is 21. When this video was posted, they were both just 19. Beautiful young souls❤️

@Lwmyoun 4 жыл бұрын

@@kirtij2441 Wow. I mean... I'm the same age as Chella but.. wow I'm amazed of what they think about love. A mature love.

@Lwmyoun 4 жыл бұрын

@@kirtij2441 Oh, by the way, do you know how Chella deals with his deafness? I'm so confused because they just talked to each other normally. How could he listen to MaryV and respond her immediately?

@kirtij2441 4 жыл бұрын

@@Lwmyoun He uses Cochlear implants throughout the day. And when he's not, they communicate with sign language

@TheMoonKid- 6 жыл бұрын

I wanna be in love like this wtf?!?

@sayujams 6 жыл бұрын

SAME

@jillkanto3610 6 жыл бұрын

I am in love like this, and it is incredible. It took a long time to grow myself to get to a point where I could have this level of relationship. I am so grateful.

@TheMoonKid- 6 жыл бұрын

Jill Kanto ok thanks for sharing Jill 👌🏾

@ll-xo1of 6 жыл бұрын

lol don't we all

@iknemr 6 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@zanimorgan3387 6 жыл бұрын

They’re so intelligent and mature. Communication is key and that’s exactly what they have.

@Ace-gz5ol 5 жыл бұрын

Inasy Morgan and they’re so young it’s amazing

@Stefunny-np6ij 5 жыл бұрын

Same here

@wengya2170 5 жыл бұрын

And it's actually much harder for them since Chella's hearing, yet they have the best sets of communication

@liindaclpz 5 жыл бұрын

This people is LOVE based in COM-MU-NI-CA-TI-ON 🤞🏻

@meglbrn5368 5 жыл бұрын

This girl is frighteningly beautiful, i wish i could draw her beauty, but that is impossible cause her beauty passes through her personality.

@shanicecranfield-morris8206 4 жыл бұрын

SO beautiful, I was going to comment this but u put it so well the face and the personality 🥺

@kingayy9267 Жыл бұрын

Both of them are ridiculously good-looking. They're a gorgeous couple, in looks and the way they treat and interact with each other.

@ruinned 6 жыл бұрын

The best communication I've ever seen in a couple. The careful choice of words, rephrasing to achieve perfect understanding, and the absolute love and support for each other. I'm so glad to know this type of love exists and to actually see it. It redeems so much for me.

@TheUchihaRin 6 жыл бұрын

Roo It makes me feel like it's scripted because it's so good.

@ruinned 6 жыл бұрын

Spicycat, I would think so too if I hadn't been following Chella's vlog for awhile. They're always like this. It's refreshing and really great. :]

@joyj6793 6 жыл бұрын

Roo now Ik what love is and what it looks like ☺️

@artichokez3270 6 жыл бұрын

yeah women talking to another woman good luck getting a man to sit and talk that way more than once or twice a year in a relationship

@mivical 6 жыл бұрын

L P is a guy n a girl tho

@alexaf.3158 5 жыл бұрын

*Faith in love: restored*

@rosieposy6190 5 жыл бұрын

*Hotel:Trivago* Sorry I had too. (I agree with the restored faith in love)

@smaug9134 5 жыл бұрын

Made my day! 🙏🏼 So true! 🥰

@kaylamaelee 5 жыл бұрын

They are both so attractive, I don't know what it is about them...maybe the way they carry themselves and communicate but something about them both individually is so subtly intriguing

@eccentricxswan 5 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing

@souljourney2484 4 жыл бұрын

i agree, makes so much sense why they both model though. but it definitely goes beyond their looks

@boblet99 5 жыл бұрын

The complexes in Chella's mind intrigue me, you can see they think about everything they say and because of that everything Chella says carrys so much power and meaning

@Palomadovee 6 жыл бұрын

Are these people even real?! They're so pure and well spoken.

@mooksplays 6 жыл бұрын

The fact that Chella and MaryV are so understanding and well-spoken really makes me feel a certain way, i can't even really put it into words. I'm just in awe.

@myjams7180 6 жыл бұрын

Karma same

@chocoCo0kie 6 жыл бұрын

Karma same

@kristinloehrmann5262 5 жыл бұрын

What did I just watch? Like, I have to reevaluate my life now... What a pure expression of real love...

@BiteaCookies 5 жыл бұрын

"why do you love me?" "why???? everything" ugh what a pure sincerity.

@teamusta1992 6 жыл бұрын

bless these two for making me believe in love

@josep9016 6 жыл бұрын

same

@kay-gu1im 6 жыл бұрын

*believe

@daddyorke8981 6 жыл бұрын

i'm a goner omg relatable

@Diamantenvogel 6 жыл бұрын

Why is that a problem? Love can end and still have been love...

@fluffnpaw2156 6 жыл бұрын

The intense eye contact is enough!

@TheBakingSlave 5 жыл бұрын

She reminds me of a movie star. I would totally watch her on screen. She is so captivating and calming at the same time.

@yozdagoon 5 жыл бұрын

N. Calhoun love the bird

@keva4672 5 жыл бұрын

Emmy rossum

@surillastimol8181 5 жыл бұрын

She has that timeless hollywood beauty ....

@harana- 4 жыл бұрын

Idk why but she reminds be of Julia Roberts in a way

@lifeisgood5328 4 жыл бұрын

Susan Sarandon

@advitime2043 5 жыл бұрын

SIS needs to DROP THAT SKIN CARE ROUTINE!! Her skin looks velvet soft!

@kimu3952 4 жыл бұрын

Advi Time She wears foundation. If you check the latest video you see her without it. She’s beautiful either way but her skin isn’t naturally clear

@afterdark69 5 жыл бұрын

What struck me was at 80% of the questions they were both saying, we've talked about this. Communication + chemistry = a beautiful caring relationship. Hope they keep communicating and stay happy

@xbellaxo 5 жыл бұрын

Why do you love me? Him: everything, everything. Ok I’m in tears.

@crysto.x 5 жыл бұрын

xbellaxo her*

@ATrippyLENZ 5 жыл бұрын

Him 😂

@mariakara2419 5 жыл бұрын

xbellaxo i cried when he explained everything

@crysto.x 5 жыл бұрын

maria kara you misspelled “her” smh

@danyelle8032 5 жыл бұрын

Durex no she did not, Chella is a man not a woman, stop being transphobic.

@lovejbrj11 6 жыл бұрын

If they ever break up Love is a lie.

@mz1357 6 жыл бұрын

Babyihatecoffee honestly though

@lamwolf1160 6 жыл бұрын

So true

@arianasworld7725 6 жыл бұрын

All love is a web of lies

@aigerimsam3523 5 жыл бұрын

But breaking up isn't end of love...

@imagine2C 5 жыл бұрын

Babyihatecoffee dude for real for real

@jonathanchang1574 4 жыл бұрын

If anyone ever looks at me the way they look at each other, I'd consider my life a success.

@niyonshutijacky418 3 жыл бұрын

Hello ilike you fcbk niyonshuti Jaqueline what'sp ±250784163571 thank you

@lovestdi246 5 жыл бұрын

I actually started tearing up. Their relationship is so genuine and beautiful. I am so awestruck by how much they truly care about each other. such a rare find. i love it

@jessicatikrsg 6 жыл бұрын

As a bisexual person this is really hard, because I’m equally attracted to both of them and I can’t stop staring...

@kiararose8896 5 жыл бұрын

jessicaklle right the way she speaks and the way he looks at her 😍

@amparo9455 5 жыл бұрын

that makes 2 of us...

@ryoudontknowme7516 5 жыл бұрын

feel u

@leechan5736 5 жыл бұрын

Make it 3

@ryoudontknowme7516 5 жыл бұрын

make it 4

@lauraw1221 6 жыл бұрын

Looks like they already knew all the answers. I think they have a really good communication in their relationship. I can see the respect on both sides and love their patience and the way they look at each other. I feel like their connection is so deep. And she is just such a natural beauty

@shannontorrence9476 6 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing--they're so kind and loving ad respectful towards each other and she is SO beautiful.

@BloodyRose2442 4 жыл бұрын

Damn, looking at people that are so genuinely in love with eachother is the kind of soul cleansing I didn't know I needed

@kay29xx 5 жыл бұрын

“Why do you love me” “Everything... everything” Oh my God, my heart.

@softmagicw 6 жыл бұрын

No joke I've never really believed in "soulmates" but I genuinely believe that they are SOULMATES

@neitha4 6 жыл бұрын

Aurora R. I was through their IG page thinking " they were meant to be... Like? Please 😫"

@ShayMarieDiary 6 жыл бұрын

They're SO mature at a young age. They're both also intellectual, and very considerate of other people's feelings and well-being. Can you imagine if we had more people like them in this world, we would get along so much better!

@jan-nn9ix 5 жыл бұрын

how old are they

@timh115 5 жыл бұрын

he's 19 she's 20

@breonroberts 5 жыл бұрын

The way Chella said "Everything" at the 9:58 was the most beautiful way to express to someone how much you love them..That came from his soul.

@ihatesociety361 5 жыл бұрын

Her*

@maiaotaku 5 жыл бұрын

Right ? I teared up there

@caitlingowler7353 4 жыл бұрын

I hate Society no. his*

@kingayy9267 Жыл бұрын

@I hate Society The original commenter was referring to something Chella said, not Mary. Giving you the benefit of doubt, rather than assuming you're intentionally being transphobic and/or inflammatory.

@seizuresister8272 5 жыл бұрын

WRITE A BOOKS FOR EVERYONE'S SAKE

@Unherd_Of 5 жыл бұрын

Maybe we could get them to read books on tape to each other

@dianaanghel6660 4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@thegossipswan009 6 жыл бұрын

Beautiful humans.

@jayjaychuchu 6 жыл бұрын

literally thought the same thing. "wow. they're so beautiful. how are they so beautiful?"

@giannaarissa 6 жыл бұрын

Ruthology Fitness the man is ftm

@mellowdays4444 6 жыл бұрын

thegossipswan009 AYYYY I PUT YOU AT 2K but i agree fully

@sleepybb8781 6 жыл бұрын

Jay Chuchu because they're pure

@josep9016 6 жыл бұрын

@ceciliamihelich4873 6 жыл бұрын

Does anyone else cry when they watch humans being humans.. sounds simple but I swear I just cried watching this vid not cuz it was sad or even happy but just cuz it felt so real.

@97musicaddict 5 жыл бұрын

i was just thinking exactly this as i read this wow.

@allybrady9803 5 жыл бұрын

Water sign?

@shaelynngoing8945 5 жыл бұрын

I was giddy withe excitment because this video is so real and lovley

@icraveserotonin 5 жыл бұрын

same bruh

@TheMikeFlem 5 жыл бұрын

Yes lmao I’ve been crying at everything lately

@sofiluu7334 4 жыл бұрын

How can they talk like that to each other and not cry when I'm sitting here bawling my eyes out😭

@faithatijegbe8730 4 жыл бұрын

I don't how they aren't crying 😢

@sandraevans 3 жыл бұрын

this is probably how they always are, open and vulnerable 🖤

@kingayy9267 3 жыл бұрын

@Sandra Evans What a lovely way to live

@yessir5205 4 жыл бұрын

I wish one day I can ask someone “why do you love me” and they respond with something so heartfelt like that.

@kingayy9267 3 жыл бұрын

He didn't even have to think about it!

@alexisprimeaux2524 6 жыл бұрын

When he responded to what she felt was the biggest conflict in their relationship, I was truly struck by how beautiful their love is. It touched my heart to an extent that I didn't expect, because what she viewed as her biggest fault in their relationship is something that he feels is one of her strengths. It was a moment that reminded me that the people we love and who love us see things in us that aren't always apparent to us, and that together we can build one another up in a very special and unique way.

@MissJeriB 6 жыл бұрын

Yo, when he corrected her on the generalizations she was making and she accepted it, what maturity between them ❤️

@paulabam5895 5 жыл бұрын

Those two are like hands down the best and cutest and most mature and most wonderful couple ever! I don't think I will ever see a "better" couple than them. I low-key just want a relationship like this but I know that that's not possible (mostly because of myself not the partner haha)

@Ale-hf3lp 4 жыл бұрын

this is the kind of relationship I used to dream of as a child

@slimkt 6 жыл бұрын

Okay, don't lie, Chella got everybody swooning.

@ThinWhiteAxe 5 жыл бұрын

Don't lie, they both got everybody swooning.

@nemesiskiller8x8x41 5 жыл бұрын

I sweeear he's sooo sttractive

@julietran6866 5 жыл бұрын

@laurac8107 5 жыл бұрын

666 comms

@Lee-xx5sf 5 жыл бұрын

I have to say they are the most beautiful people I’ve ever seen

@kailove8767 5 жыл бұрын

For those who domt understand sign, they were basically chella said "thank you" and we all know for what haha. And in the end, they told each that "I love you"..."Always"

@ZoomZoomBoom24 5 жыл бұрын

You could see the immense love they have for each other before they finished their conversation. It was in the way they supported each other throughout the whole conversation. If this is what our kids are learning to be - supportive, sensitive, strong, communicative etc - then our future is going to be okay. If only everyone took the time out to be as accommodating and understanding as Chella and MaryV then how much brighter and better would our world be? Ps. Thank you, for helping those of us who don't sign what they were saying to each other at the end.

@Unherd_Of 5 жыл бұрын

Even to thise who had no idea u could feel what they were saying to each other

@user-mq7lp7qk9u 5 жыл бұрын

full conversation: maryv: thank you chella: thank you maryv: we're finished chella: we're finished, yes. (i can't see the next part - he said "do _____"?) maryv: i love you chella: i love you, always

@Crow3ater 5 жыл бұрын

God that's so pure.. I am immensely jealous of what they have. I wanna love someone like that one day... Gah, I'm actually crying!

@sux2bu3 5 жыл бұрын

Than she says same

@brandyhunt5809 4 жыл бұрын

She’s breathtaking!! And he’s such a quiet storm. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@kingayy9267 3 жыл бұрын

A quiet storm That's such a neat way to describe him!

@maepotato2715 5 жыл бұрын

I’ve watched this interview so many times. Their chemistry is so pure and obvious, and they don’t have a conventional perfect relationship but it’s so adorable. They obviously care about each other’s opinions and thoughts, but they also don’t make it a point to make themselves be the same as the other. Idk it’s just so pure and amazing.

@flop9265 6 жыл бұрын

They're both so attractive i just opened the vid to look at their faces wtf.

@jamie7342 6 жыл бұрын

relationships like this are so rare & special and people as genuine as them as so rare & special

@vintagelover2009 4 жыл бұрын

This is probably the purest love I’ve ever seen on screen.

@alpheusrose2997 4 жыл бұрын

she’s so aesthetically beautiful it’s like a sunset incarnated as a soft girl it’s so mesmerizing and awe inspiring, as delicate as a flower but sturdy as an oak

@MewWolf5 6 жыл бұрын

It's nice to see a positive and interracial couple when it comes to both trans identity and hearing impairment.

@smurfette1509 6 жыл бұрын

MewWolf5 So well put! I don't know if I'll ever find love. I'm trans and I'm hard of hearing. I do what I can with hearing aids but they don't work so well. It's hard to socialize because of it.

@blazergaming7596 6 жыл бұрын

Lit

@annabla1732 6 жыл бұрын

MewWolf5 my English is not so good. I thought the boy is the only one who is trans?

@virg0_lem0nade 6 жыл бұрын

Anna Bla - youre correct, but a couple in which only one person is trans still shows positive representation of trans identity (: especially because a lot of people try to undermine trans people’s romantic&sexual relationships with cis people by saying they aren’t “real”. it’s awesome to see a cis woman like MaryV who supports and loves her trans boyfriend (:

@Kendah1978 6 жыл бұрын

MewWolf5 so is he a transgender? This means the soft spoken young lady is a Lesbian😕 and he is too as she transitioned from a girl to a boy??

@MickeyInWonderland 6 жыл бұрын

she sounded so in love at the beginning that when she said “i could listen to you forever” I STARTED SOBBING

@laura-tu9yz 4 жыл бұрын

She’s just sooo frickin’ beautiful. She’s just perfect.

@nadiajere 4 жыл бұрын

he’s so attractive i’m-

@teamdarcy9 6 жыл бұрын

"Don't generalize." This boy just stood up for cis boys?? He just stole my heart!

@alara6500 6 жыл бұрын

I'm still here. and after that she agreed with him and didnt insist about her opinion? god i loved these gorgeous people

@aline7930 6 жыл бұрын

they seem like characters from a book, beautifull, interesting, intelligent, ... I want to keep reading ...

@ashiyr4476 6 жыл бұрын

Aline Lenaerts they have a channel of their own !

@marialuizagraner4724 6 жыл бұрын

What’s their channel?

@yenangphi7118 6 жыл бұрын

Well said

6 жыл бұрын

Chella Man

@modernmonsress7506 6 жыл бұрын

Perfect way to describe what I was trying to describe. This is so good!!!

@irooosh-1452 4 жыл бұрын

I see no negative comments, this pleases me😊

@ziggy2961 5 жыл бұрын

The moment he said that the reason he love her is because of “everyting” i instantly became very very emotional and teary eyed, i mean, isnt that what we all want? 😭❤️ God bless those two

@entriesfrommytwenties8146 6 жыл бұрын

this whole video is a poetry, so beautiful

@Ash-sy4qj 5 жыл бұрын

I hate Society what the fuck is your problem. He’s a male. If you have a problem with that then.... what the fuck are you going to do about it. Absolutely nothing. So shut the fuck up. Thank you.

@reciestrange4856 6 жыл бұрын

He loves her Soo much.. eyes don't lie ... This is beautiful.(:💟

@angieodell3441 6 жыл бұрын

Recie Thompson I agree. I want a boyfriend like that. I really do. I used to have, but it's been a long time.

@reciestrange4856 6 жыл бұрын

Angie ODell Don't worry, you'll find him in the most unexpected place ,even if you stop looking(: he'll just flow into your life like a cloud moving past the sun..💟

@beautifulthanyoubissssess6734 6 жыл бұрын

Recie Thompson I hope so

@Boo-tq6bt 6 жыл бұрын

I like it how she accepts him and she doesn't judge him , she didn't care that he's trans or deaf , she is so pure.

@mohamadfahim5083 6 жыл бұрын

Recie Thompson she

@ImmortalChaos 5 жыл бұрын

He's so intense and contemplative. I like these two, they have a comfortable dynamic.

@zay7665 5 жыл бұрын

This is one of the most beautiful interactions i've ever seen

@sheslovable 6 жыл бұрын

I'm gonna check out every park around to find the one like wth

@eternitysafro1083 6 жыл бұрын

I love how he said “Don’t generalize” and she got that.

@leonorcarvalhomua6295 5 жыл бұрын

The girl in black has the most soothing voice ever. and you can see they're in love!

@brianitamargarita 4 жыл бұрын

the way they talk to each other it’s so soft and loving bruhhhh they’re so sweet

@fakingdeep6418 6 жыл бұрын

I love how understanding and sensitive they are to one another.

@tailah6928 6 жыл бұрын

get yourself someone who looks at you the way Chella looks at MaryV

@aud338 5 жыл бұрын

I LOVE MARYV AND CHELLA SO MUCH OMG LITERALLY THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND GENUINE COUPLE I’M SO GLAD THEY GOT FEATURED IN THIS

@bon_nie.c2701 5 жыл бұрын

They're both so attractive in an elegant way

@adoringjess 6 жыл бұрын

they’re so beautiful oh my gosh my heart

@ayutp106 5 жыл бұрын

*Him:* am I the best sex you’ve ever had? *Her:* [chuckles] *Her:* Yes. [Both chuckle] That’s... so cute but hot but pure, god.

@adkadatka244 5 жыл бұрын

Her*

@rebeccak9597 5 жыл бұрын

They are to good for any of us! 😍

@rebeccak9597 5 жыл бұрын

@@adkadatka244 no Chella Man is a man

@christiem1232 5 жыл бұрын

Rebecca K from what I’ve seen chella man identifies as non binary but prefers typical male pronouns

@christiem1232 5 жыл бұрын

adka datka no him is correct

@senpai16 5 жыл бұрын

Beautiful souls coming together. I hope their relationship stays strong and if they ever have to split (knock on wood) that it is done in the most loving, civil, understand way and still keep a lasting friendship. More people need this type of connection

@liiiithiiiiim 4 жыл бұрын

it’s so refreshing to see a couple that understands and cares for each other so deeply

@aryesavalos8287 6 жыл бұрын

Well, I just started crying. These two are such beautiful individuals and such a beautiful, amazing, loving couple. You can really see that they love and care for each other so much.

@myjams7180 6 жыл бұрын

Aryes Avalos ikr

@ashpomare8107 6 жыл бұрын

i mean call me dramatic but I really felt some way when Chella said he couldn’t hear that lady talking but he could hear MaryV move and speak (not exactly how I said but) made me think that he’s so in tuned with her that he can isolate her out of the noises around...

@kiararose8896 5 жыл бұрын

Be the Jjang Jjang To My Boong Boong I mean if you hear someone’s voice everyday versus a strangers it might be easier. Also she was probably talking louder because she was mad..

@CoCMember 5 жыл бұрын

Be the Jjang Jjang To My Boong Boong his eyes are looking down while she speaks. His girlfriend is signing.

@schoolprojectssk228 5 жыл бұрын

Kayla Echols but she didnt? He didnt look doen most of the time

@schoolprojectssk228 5 жыл бұрын

Be the Jjang Jjang To My Boong Boong which woman?

@Crow3ater 5 жыл бұрын

@@schoolprojectssk228 the only woman in the conversation.

@realdex 5 жыл бұрын

Reading the title and start watching the video, I couldn't guess who is transitioning. Both of them are so beautiful.

@upmysIeeves 5 жыл бұрын

Vinsensius Paulus I still don’t really understand tbh but it’s alright

@rozempire2843 5 жыл бұрын

It’s Chella, the man

@lorelei1350 5 жыл бұрын

@@upmysIeeves Chella is a transitioned transman. They met before he transitioned.

@willsimpsblart 4 жыл бұрын

Super kind comment but just keep in mind the way you phrased it is like a really backhanded compliment by insinuating that trans people aren’t beautiful lol

@notyourplateofbiscuit 3 жыл бұрын

Children, this is what a healthy relationship looks like.

@EllieJayden 6 жыл бұрын

Wow. What an inspiring and mature conversation. If this were my boyfriend and I, I’m unsure if it’d go so well!! This is a rare relationship. This is true communication and understanding.

@cuben7196 6 жыл бұрын

EllieJayden the boy was a girl just wanna say

@parrotdoesasploot2381 5 жыл бұрын

@@cuben7196 the boy is a boy and nobody cares if he is trans