Can't tell your spouse never to speak to the opposite sex.

JLo had to parade him like a show pony. All that PDA for the media was over the top

History of alcohol addiction + history of narcissism = TOXIC

That’s a bunch of word salad from Jennifer in my opinion. Narcissist always try to isolate the partner from other friends and family so that they have total control over them. Good for you then run for your life in my opinion.

She is all about being seen and heard and he is all about his privacy. Same problem 20 years ago. Why would they jump into a marriage knowing they are different types of people. She needs to quit going from man to man and learn to be happy on her own.

Narcissist are afraid to be alone.

RUN Ben! RUUUUNNNNNNNN!!!

Put your kids first, quit acting like spoiled teenagers!! It’s not about you anymore!!

Feel for Ben get out as fast as you can things wont get better. Shes needs therapy

I believe she is a nasty control freak . I know people who worked with her and they confirmed it. Taking away bens Casino tip and replacing it with ten bucks tells me what I need to know about her.

Controlling is abusive.

Her daughter Emmie, appears to want to be the extreme opposite of mommy dearest😮😮

I love the relationship between Ben and Matt.

Insecure, jealous, controlling, rude, unkind, narcissist, possessive, and toxic .......all point to JLO.

There's no therapy that would work when one of the partners is a narcissist, which clearly indicates JHo as the one. Narcissists can't love anyone but themselves.

She thought that she was gonna control him. Boy she got fooled. Lol 😅😅

Narcissist see everyone as things.😮

My husband was very controlling and I grew to hate him!

JLo is from Diddys relationship graduate school 😂 🚩

Jennifer has been married four times and she always jumps into another relationship without healing inside. I don't think she will ever change except run to the arms of another man. It's sad her kids were exposed this drama. Best for Ben to run from this toxic relationship. She is not a humble woman.

What do you mean "reports speculate they're selling their home and getting divorced"? It's on the market and they haven't lived together for almost 2 months.

If she doesn't trust him she shouldn't be with him...she produced and paid for the movie Atlas because no one wanted to spend money on a bomb...She knew how Ben was when she married him but yet she tried to changed him...love is unconditional and if you don't like it get out...he needs to get out...

'"She Needs Counselling!"

I asked my husband if I’m controlling him by expecting he won’t talk to females in a romantic way. His answer is: You’ve never asked. It’s a given.

They are DONE!

No one can control you without your permission. I blame Ben totally.

J-Lo is Miss Insecure.

She knew that he is making a fool of himself. I don't think he is the smartest & she knew.

I think they're both going thru mid-life crisis 😂

BEN IS BLIND, I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY IS HE MARRIED TO JLO, HE LOOKS NORMAL 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Ben is a dysfunctional person at a base level. Nothing any woman can bring to the table will ever make him a great partner. JLo has turned into a flaming narcissist, and although she clearly wants a man in her life, she doesn't want to truly make room for him in all the ways that really matter. No wonder they hooked up twice.

What about her cheating and sleeping wifh other men 😂❤

Someone please tell Ben the man don't speak bad about woman silence is gold

That is so sad this man will marry some controlling women just for all the clut there is no way I would let some women dictate my peace of mind on top of that she's a diva nobody can look her in the eyes ? She needs to be alone for the rest of her life she is so needy

I know someone who worked with her who said she had a rule that anyone who was around her was forbidden to look her in the eyes and had to keep their eyes down. This narcissist thinks she’s above others.

Garner is so controling to Ben she stalker ex who can't leave Ben alone even after he divorced her and married to someone else.

JLO HAS TOO MANY ISSUES. FROM HER DIDDY DAYS. SHE NEEDS SERIOUS HELP. GOOD FOR MARC ANTHONY TO TAKE KIDS AWAY!!! JLO IS VERY UNSTABLE

Dunking in the Diddy pool

Just another two teenagers with wrinkles who didn't know any better and got eloped That's all

IT TAKE 2 2 MAKE A THING GO RIGHT😊

A lot of Hispanic and black women don’t put up with a lot some people call Hispanic and black women crazy and it’s not that we’re crazy it’s just we’re not stupid

Obuisly Jenefer Lopez Has a Big Problem!

Ben Afleck need to go to rehab

He should just divorce her.Shes to much of a narsasist, and it's all about me me me...She loves the lime light,pictures being taken of her...He's more laid back and doesn't like the lime light.

J/Lo should just divorce and never marry again. It has been too much , take care of your mental health and your two beautiful children. She is too independent and controlling. She's large and too independent. Ben's a very weak character and a very bad mismatch to have been married to her. Moving on J/ Lo .

Rehab for this lady.

Dealing with kids not adults😂

Please don't make me laugh. This man uses the most ridiculous excuses of his partners according to him they are the problem and he is perfect

She goes from one man to another so easily in my opinion she needs major therapy!!!

That’s one of the red flags of narcissistic behavior to isolate and restrict other ability to communicate and have any kid of relationships with others

Naw, she jyst a control freak.

He looks markedly more stressed when hes with her. Stressed and worn out

She doesn’t listen.. she wanna be front and center and he wants their love to be there’s.

So over these two and the Royal family drama .

Ben needs to address the reasons why he abused alcohol. Sobriety entails more than just discontinuing to drink alcohol. This is probably why he always looks miserable especially at events. Jlo may not be an easy person to be with but this would have happened regardless of who he married. He needs to address his personal issues before jumping into anything serious.

Oh my! Controlling.

"JENEFER LOPEZ IS TRYING SO HARD TO KEEPING EARNING BEN AFLEX NOT MATTER WHAT" "SHE THINKS BEN AFLEX IS HER PROPERTY FOREVEVER" ! " THAT COUKD BE DANGEROUS"

Ben se ve super preocupado y atento con Jenny, se pone hasta como su amigo.

Ben cheated with nanny when married to Garner and also Marc Anthony cheated with stewardess 👩🏻‍✈️ so I can’t blame her 🫨😒 and Jada too it’s a lot 🤷🏼‍♀️

Whem people marry you have to allow the other person to breathe & have their own identity.

She is controlling and mentally abusive. She can’t be alone. Is my opinion.

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I doubt it 😂😂😂he relapsed

I did not hear Ben actually say that Jennifer imposed strict boundaries. This is hearsay.

Rude JLO Encounter Story time: Denver CO, 2019, mid summer-ish. JLO and her entourage showed up to the restaurant I was working at, which was one of the premier upscale sushi dens in the Cherry Creek area. I’ve posted this on every JLO video I can find so people know the truth about her. I wasn’t working that night and I was so bummed because I was actually suppose to, but I heard the full story from everyone else. The restaurant apparently had VIPs from time to time, and they would usually call ahead to let us know so we could shut off a portion of the restaurant if they desired. JLO’s group showed up 15 mins to close, no prior notice, and asked that we shut down the entire restaurant for her. I don’t think we’d ever done that for anyone before, but since we were closing anyway and since this was a super VIP, my manager agreed. None of the staff were allowed to leave. I’m not sure if that was JLO’s wishes or just my manager wanting all hands on deck, but apparently the entire front part of the restaurant had to be empty and completely quiet for JLO, so the whole staff was crammed into the back kitchen just sitting around. JLO for some reason was bothered by the sound of trickling water from the beautiful Asian bamboo fountain we had, and made her handler ask that it be shut down. My manager was really torn about this, as that fountain had been running non stop since the day it was imported all the way from Japan, a few years earlier - it was considered good luck. IIRC he communicated this to her handler hoping it would change her mind. Handler didn’t even ask her, likely because he knew she wouldn’t take it well, and just insisted that she needed it off or they'd have to leave, which I wish he would have just let them, but my manager shut it down and was REALLY stressed out about that’. JLO was apparently pouting most of the time and just seemed she couldn’t be bothered with anything. Something had apparently happened to put her in a bad mood which serving staff overheard in bits and pieces but we didn’t get the backstory. She had ordered (through her handler of course) a bunch of rolls not on the menu, basically created her own stuff even though our rolls were literally award winning, and it was a huge pain for the kitchen. I’m not sure if it’s common restaurant etiquette, but I guess with VIPs, our managers would always comp the entire meal as a kind of pseudo “courtesy” with the mutual understanding that the guest would leave an enormous tip to cover the full bill and then some. That’s how it always worked out with prior VIPs, they had always left a significantly generous amount, but usually the VIPs came in as a couple or small group, not a dozen people like JLO had. The bill was somewhere around $1300 and the manager actually called the owner to ask if we should comp it. Owner said “just do it”, I guess he wanted the good publicity, hoping she’d rave about the restaurant in a magazine or interview in return. The manager let most of the staff go after an hour but kept some people on for another, as JLO’s party stayed there for almost 2 hours… so the restaurant had to also lose money to pay a bunch of people who were not working. I’m not sure if the party received an actual itemized and comped bill, or if the manager just communicated that it was all on the house, but either way - JLO should have had a general idea of how much to pay… She left TWO TWENTIES! On a totally comped and free tab!! That’s all. And mind you, there were 2 waiters serving that table. We were all trying to figure out if she just made a mistake like one person was suppose to pay the bill and the other person suppose to tip, or maybe there was a miscommunication. I’m not sure, but since JLO was in charge, it’s all on her. And after hearing all these stories, I really think it was deliberate. That was the first “bad luck” act to occur after the fountain was unplugged and subsequently the restaurant had a few incidents of bad luck for the next few months until my manager brought in some Asian medicine man to have the restaurant recalibrated, so to speak. He considered JLO to be inhabited by a "Yaoguai" which if I am correct, is the equivalent of a demon possession. I thought it was all just superstition but the more I thought about it, the more I realized that this woman TRULY has a bad energy about her, and after doing some digging and reading after my restaurant experienced this, not only did I find hundreds of similar stories of her being awful to service people, she is a practitioner of Santeria (according to legal divorce documents that someone dug up) but even without that fact, the woman DOES have bad vibes. I have been waiting years for all this karma to catch up with her. I was like, how has all this awful, selfish behavior not caught up with her? And FINALLY, it has!!! 👏

This just sucks. I wish that celebrities were given the same distance & dignity that “normal” people are given. I hope they can navigate this tough time & come out on the other side stronger than ever!

Of course she’s insecure…anyone who spends that much on social media, photographing her body publicly, shows her weaknesses! Run Ben, run!!!

She is looking for her next lover now that this relationship is ending

He has always loved J.G...I love her, she's got a good head and has been there for Ben in his struggles with alcohol..

I really like Jlo, she is SO PASSIONATE about everything she does ! She gives a 100%

There Has 2Be Trust I Dee Jlo point she Cant help it he did cheat with A NANNY I Say let him talk if he cheats he going cheat they leave but u have to let him have space 2 talk 2 other people

I Dont Believe that He Has To Speak to people interact with people such as Friends n fans she does it interact with people As Long As You have NO INTENTIONS OF FLIRTING OR CHEATING ON YOUR MIND❤❤❤😊

Ben is attracted to drama - just like Jlo. If there is nothing wrong they would create another problem. Neither one needs to ever be in any relationships until they get their brains unscrambled AND they deal with all the drama they inflict on their children and ex-partners. However, if they got straight - they would mess that up. People who can't be alone are not marriage or relationship people.

Jennifer López y Ben affleck forever

Jennifer and Ben need to respect each other boundaries. His past history with Jennifer Garner is proof of that. Jennifer need to allow space in their marriage. They both are in the public. I don’t blame Ben for not liking to go to shows. They cause anxiety. Jennifer is a beautiful woman. She will never have a problem with finding a man, but Ben will with his habits.

He looked disinterested because he could not speak. How awful.

Yes she can it's all about loyalty and honesty if Jennifer Lopez ask me not to speak to other women especially if I'm drunk I would honor her

Well Ben has to make sure Jlo is happy, too!..he's married now...he nan't be just focussing on himself and his family. When it's family time that includes Jlo, too! When it's family time they pick what they want to do, where they will go...there are important people to meet but it's family time...the other people will just have to wait and the Afflecks will be in touch in a few days.

Yes, in Gone with the Wind I liked Melanie's approach-believe your husband, don't listen to gossip, and let him talk to whoever. And only believe your partner has cheated if he confesses. Hard to do, but I believe it is the best approach. Let your partner build relationships in his life.

Some guys needs a leash like my ex 😾why want to talk to other women’s when married better stay single !

Tengo curiosidad por saber en los brazos de cuál hombre caerá, no estará sola

Means to much insecure and control !!!! That’s Bad

I've been on his side since day 1 as he seems to be unhappy in this relationship. However, JLo might have a reason not to trust Ben when it comes to the other women.

Ben needs to run away from JLO She is insecure in every way Hope Ben goes back to his ex and kids

Ben Affleck is an addict.Hes a recovering alcoholic 😰 That is the reason for failed relationships.For this to work....Je should go to NA meetings and learn how to "love an addict" ❤️

ben is very unstable he needs help

And the key too a relationship with Jennifer lopez women are always right because a happy wife is a happy husband

I hate people who want to control people, only my parents can tell me anymore if I can or can't do something and they are gone, so everyone takes care of themselves.

I could see that that you’re so insecure and jealous, and very jealous of his ex-wife

I don't have to believe anything he says. But indeed Leo people are very jealous. So they're both Leo's.

My story I let mi ex talk to others women’s trough our marriage 35 not respect for me .He still cheating with many end up give him desease that’s wen our marriage start falling now we divorcing About that for guys out control !!

Surprise surprise it didn't work out.

"That's my wife, Jennifer. What's that? Time for me to go? Time for me to go." 😂😂 Prince Harry could learn a thing or two from Ben. You go, Ben!

Perhaps she knows the nature of conversation he holds with other women. Would any of you like if your husbands are talking a certain way with other women???

He cant speak to other women but she's out in "thirsty dudes are us" Italy making her own swimsuit edition.

He had it all but it wasn’t enough he tried it with Jennifer before and it didn’t work he should have seen that bear trap closing on him ! I feel sorry for his disengagement from his children .

Jenifer Garner hugging him,,inside his car. I was waiting for a long time that JLO end that disrespectful marriage of three.

Dont be unsecure in your relationship 😂😂😂

Omg 😳 she’s so fake… the public knows how cruel and evil this women is she stole her career built on others talents and used men for her own gratification. It’s too exhausting trying to control one’s own emotions let alone poor Ben trying to build her self esteem up ⬆️ I could just imagine how exhausting and then her controlling ways over him and his friends and ex wife. I pray 🙏 Ben and Gardner can work things out and still be great co parents and work on mending the damage.

She shou.d b the one not looking at men😊