"People have the right to want who they want, even if who they want isn't you." -Judge Lynn❤💯💯💯

"Never beg anyone to love you."

When someone sees you as an OPTION and not a PRIORITY? Keep it pushin!

"never beg anybody to love you" true !

Lord knows that's the truth...never beg anyone to love you, it just doesn't work.

don't let ppl define your self worth. Rejection is God'S protection!

I spent three full years of what should've been the best years of my life, 19 to 22, with a man who didn't want me anymore but at the same time didn't want to break my heart. I spent so many precious moments of my life trying to reignite a fire that he didn't want lit. Until the day he had to break my heart. I say this because I know many women are out there in that same situation. Ladies, I am still here. I have healed. In fact that pain, even though it seemed absolutely unbearable at the time, made me a much stronger person overall. And if you're saying "Oh I'll never find someone who loved me the way he did" let me tell you two things. Firstly he may have loved you once before but that time is gone and you can't make it come back. Secondly I said the same thing until I found the most amazing person I have ever met in my life and we have a stronger love than my ex and I ever had. If that happened to me it can happen to you too.

"never let someone tell you they don't want you more than once", and "never beg anyone to love you"

Ain't nothing sexier than a woman who has wisdom and experience and is sassy.

1) Never go where you're not wanted. 2) Never plead for anyone's company. 3) Never force your company upon anyone. Muhammad Ali(RIP). BTW, that goes for both men and women!!

“Never make a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once”- very true advice from her mother

Her betrayal destroyed the relationship they could have had, and the child a constant reminder of that betrayal.

What is she NOT hearing from the letter?

don't be with a man that doesn't want you, and in the same vein, don't be with a woman that cheated on you and had another man's baby...

The man told her a million times that he doesn't want her. Then she want an explanation, girl it should only take one time for somebody to tell you that they don't want you.

She expected him to stay after she had someone else's baby 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I can't stand when a woman doesn't want to accept that a man doesn't want or love them. Girl, move on.

so many women hear but don't listen. the letter clearly said "I don't want you" but she still said "I don't understand". what is there to understand about "I don't want you". start listening women

My dad says, staying in a bad relationship is like keeping spoiled milk in the fridge, hoping it will turn fresh again. Spoiled milk can't turn fresh unless God turns it!

Hilarious how she cheated and had another man's baby on him and still think she's supposed to be in his life and still be in the same place she was before cheating.

BRUH IS EVERYONE IGNORING SHE CHEATED ON HIM AND HAD ANOTHER MANS CHILD?

He thought the child was his. Now he's knows it's not he tried but he cannot get past that

Yes preach!! I had to learn the hardway! it never feels good to be in love with someone and they dont fully love you back. So you start to accept whatever little love they give you just to hold on to that person! Smh itll take some time but once you finally let go and respect yourself learn your own worth someone better will come along and love you the way you deserve to be loved.

Damn. You shattered his heart. Allow him to move it woman, life goes on. Allow him to deal with the pain. Just let him go!

At least she learned the truth before wasting 20 yrs.Sadly it took that long for me.Move on with your life.

I’d be damned if I’m the one pouring into any relationship and he’s not equally doing the same.

Don't Be With A Man That Doesn't Want You!!! Never Beg A Man To Love You!!! There is a man praying for the same things you are praying for, be patient and wait.❤🙏🏽

Judge Lynn is right, I dated a guy that I felt nothing for. I told him it just wasn’t going to work an he still refused to let go. He was making me miserable. An I just had to tell him “you can’t help who you love an who you don’t “. An then he cheated on me to pay me back for bruising his ego an I didn’t even care cause that was finally my way out.✌🏼

The minute he found out the baby wasn't his was his time to bounce. Trying to work it out never works . It just takes longer to realize it.

It's diabolical to lie to a man that it's his baby if I isn't.

When a man says he don't want u...let that be a full warning that there is nothing u can say or do to make him want u. Smh sad..don't be desperate for love!!

I watched this video so many times after my ex left me .. I saved it every time I missed him and wanted to talk to him I would listen to this to remind myself he really wants nothing to do with me. Most time I would manage to hold back sometimes I will call with no answer or text but he never texted back. At the time I was in so much pain and felt stupid because deep down I always knew he didn't love me enough but I always convinced my self my love for him was enough for both of us. But thank god time has passed I have healed. He moved on with a girl they seem like they are expecting and I'm ok with it I know and trust that I will find real love someday too.

Sometimes the breakup is the blessing. Him not wanting u will put u in the arms of the man who does

Don’t beg anyone to love you. Love yourself and move on. The right one will love you!

I love this judge so much

A child not being mine is enough for me to lose interest.

2:24-2:28 I felt that in my soul ❤️😢. The moment you feel like you have to beg for somebody’s love/attention/etc. is the moment you need to walk away

Warning!! Never love a man that don't love hisself or you!! That's real talk ok!!!!!

My ex-husband never wanted me,he wanted to control me,,I was good for his image,so I divorced him he actually couldn't believe I was going to leave him,14 years later he still has a problem with it

*"Don't be with a man who doesn't want you!!"* AMEN 💖

Okay @ all these all comments.. did you hear that she cheated on him and had a baby by another guy or was that just me???

She's in denial... She fallen too deep. You can he he don't want her anymore its so sad

If somebody tells you they don't want you, believe them.

Preach Judge Lynn! A good message to lots of women out there. Know what your self worth is!

WOW, this is CRAZY! She lied to this man about him being her child's father and she didn't think the relationship might change or END? DELUSIONS ABOUND!

sometimes.... we get so involved in giving..that we failed to realise we are the ones begging pp to love us. l don't know if any1 gets me...

This girl should've stopped talking soon as the Judge finished reading that letter. She should've said ok and not say another word .

I am a man and this spoke volumes to me. You cant make anyone want you and you should NEVER beg anyone to love you. When they walk away you are the ONLY one you will never lose!

Damn girl.....its over let it go.

So true. You can't make him love you. When he already made up his mind. You spend money on him. He'll accept the gifts but he truly doesn't care about you. Move on and learn.

AWESOME ADVICE... don't let any person tell you twice they don't want you

When he shuts you out; walk away, walk out with your head held high and confidence in your step. He’s already yesterdays news.

BEING WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU MEANS HE/SHE DON'T HAVE ANY KIND OF FEELING FOR YOU AT ALL AND IT IS A VERY BIG WASTE OF TIME.

From my experience, you can do a lot for a person that still doesn't mean anything. It's best to move on.

I was in the same situation. I was in love with a boy who didn't love me the same way. I was helping him with his homework and buying him things and I really never got nothing from him. As much as it hurted to let him go, it was a big burden lifted off of me because I learned not everyone is for you. I moved on and getting ready to go to college. It's not worth it girl.

I totally agree!! Never beg anyone ever to love you 😎

So needed to be said ! 😔😢 !

I have never thought of that! if I stay gone for 2 nights, don't call, don't have conversations with her means I don't want you!!.

So very true never beg a man to Love you he will never Love you the way you want be Love believe me I know.

The guilt of her cheating producing a child is driving her crazy n that drove him away

And on top of everything that has already been said. ....he doesnt look like he wants ANY woman. Sis ..move on. He probably already got him a boyfriend.

You can’t force a square peg in a round hole, you can’t force someone to love you.

Who does this heffa think she is? She has the nerve to be upset because he doesn't want you after lying about a child being his. That's ridiculous! That poor man needs to move on and find someone that's honest.

It's a bitter pill to swallow. 😢💔 true story.

I learned Don't let someone treat you the way that they want to. Your sanity, happiness, and joy should come before theirs. You're more important, no matter how much you love & care for them. If they can't treat you the right way that you deserve to be treated, then they need to be dropped

She was in denial

When u truly love yourself someone else’s love is just a plus. If someone don’t love you no matter what you do it won’t change.

Its hard to face reality especially when there is so much history. Its hard just letting go.

I hate they omitted his speech because he is actually the good guy in this and he was extremely respectful. She cheated on him and had a baby outside the relationship. If he doesn’t want to be with that, I don’t blame him.

Yep, if he doesnt love you, you're just a placeholder until somebody he wants comes along.

That is so true. Never beg anyone to love you.

I have always said in past relationships "If you don't want me just tell me straight up, "I don't want you".....You cannot make someone love you....

Not growing up with a father can mess with your head when it comes to romantic relationships. It takes really talking to yourself and talking yourself up. Over and over and over again. It’s possible but you got to train your mind.

I really feels very bad and sad for the peoples such as HER. THE JUDGE is giving HER SUCH VERY GOOD/GREAT ADVICES.

One thing that has stuck with me, "Never beg anyone to love you"! That resonates so loudly to me!

I got so nauseous watching her gravel over her refusal to believe this truth. He DOES NOT WANT HER!

Most people on these type of shows say blunt/hurtful things for entertainment, to make us laugh, she is different, she speaks the truth, I wish I had had a mother like her. Firm but kind and true in her intentions.

He has not forgiven her for cheating. She needs to deal with that by moving on.

He just said he doesn’t want you...it’s not that hard sis...open up those eyes and ears

"Never beg someone to love you" FACTZZZZ 💜!

Am I the only one that heard the judge say the kid is not his....but she's the victim, women are clearly insane.

my problem with him is it seems like he strung her along and pulled away slowly while he was with her until he was ok and he didn't feel anything for her and the said ok I'm good so I want to leave, he should have left a long time ago rather he still had some type of feeling for her not if he knew he couldn't deal with the baby situation

True word, you can't beg anyone to love you...

can the church say amen teach judge toler

She can do anything for this guy.. But u didnt do the one thing he really wanted… have his baby.. U had another dudes baby thou

wait, didn't that woman cheat on him, and thats why she had to tell him that the child might not be his?

He is hurt from what you did, unfortunately he probably can't get past it. You have to move on.

My heart goes out to the peoples like him/her because they invested their times to the peoples who don't want to be with them. The real sad reality is that when you are attractive to the person you don't get that back in return that is really so hard and tough to swallow but you must/have to moves on.

Judge fails to mention she had a baby by another guy, that's swept under the rug, I guess the woman is not supposed to sale herself short but the man is. got it smh

It's so good loving somebody when somebody loves you back, and that's a fact in my Teddy voice!

This judge is so amazing to me! She’s so authentic and so real. Would love her as a mom/mentor💕

Don’t let people define your self worth. Rejection is God’s protection!

It pays to be single..

Go with GOD lady,let the Lord choose for you.

Sis use ur head! He doesnt want u anymore.....move on!!!!!

Here's a saying from my father: "When a woman demonstrates right in front of your face that she doesn't give a damn about you, *believe your lying eyes."* I think having other dudes babies is such a demonstration.

I'm sure these words are hard for her to hear, i pray she can move on and hold her head up. For her daughter's sake.

Judge Lynn had a good mom. I wish I had that kind of mom

I am so glad Judge Lynn shared with the young lady her worth/ value. One day she would look back at this clip and say: "What was I thinking?" "I am worthy."

Actions speak louder than words honey. You just refuse to listen.