I used to judge people too..but now I try to understand more than judging ❤️

Everyone has a *DIFFERENT* perspective on things. Try to understand and empathize.

"Don't judge others until you've been in their shoes" -Jay Shetty

*we start judging hating someone on their one mistake, but we don't see thousand wrong things which we do.* *We should either stop judging others or staring hating ourselves too*

*Don't judge somebody else’s story, by one chapter that you have been in.*

*_You never know what someone else has been through, so don't be so quick to judge..._*

When someone judges you, it's not about you. It's about them and their own insecurities, limitations and needs.

Judge someone is very easy. But understand someone's situation is very difficult.

And then there is people who are not judging, loyal to the end, love endless and still get dumped for dumb reasons.

Everyone we meet is fighting his own battle.....One has to be more compassionate and less judjmental.

You are right we can't judge people's choices, Without understanding their reasons.

(respectfully) hey mr. (jay shetty) you matter a lot in my life😄 from india 🇮🇳

Exactly, this is what I try to explain when I notice people judging and gossiping about someone else. I try to understand where people are coming from and learn about their experience before I judge what kind of person they are.

A person is made up of their experiences. Thanks Jay for this 🙌 Love from a Nigerian KZfaqr 🇳🇬

*Humility goes long way - cultivating empathy and understanding that we all are the same in a deeper sense* Knowing hardships, makes you humble to others walks of life.

It was really an eye opening for me From today I will never say anything to anyone with respect to the choices they make or with respect to the life they live.

We can't judge people for the choices they make, when we don't know the options they had to choose from. 💙

1. Don’t judge a person until you have a full understanding of their situation. 2. It is completely impossible for one person to have a full understanding of another person’s situation.

It's hard when you feel like you were forced into the life you had . I'm a mentally disabled male with a seizure disorder due to oxygen deprivation at birth . I live in a group home went to speical schools and programs my whole life .Meanwhile people I knoq drive work pay bills etc and I feel left out and I feel they have it better so I actually needed this .Thank you Jay Shetty you opened my eyes to new perspective

I used to judge people a lot back in the days, but then I went through all kinds of shit, now I know I was ignorant.

Sometimes I also judge people but I restricts myself to judge people most of the time telling myself that I don't know the whole situation.

Am i the only one who's curious about what actually happened?

That is so true Jay. Another Masterpiece from Jay Shetty.

Each and every day I turn into someone better than I was yesterday ...Thanks to your videos ...Thank you Jay

That's exactly what I feel. I always try to understand people's situations so i put myself in their situation and try to feel what they are feeling. it's easy to comment on someone's life or any situation but you never know the struggle behind it

This is very nice to all people that talk about other that they don’t know .

*This is so true...we shouldn't judge anyone*

I used to judge my dad for not being around , but as I grow I realize that maybe he was doing the best he could with what he knew 🤷‍♂️, awesome video once again 🙌🙌

well,Thats a good Defenition of empathy.

True we shouldn't judge people but people should be held accountable for their actions at a certain point.

I think we should not judge EVEN AFTER WE'VE BEEN in their shoes. People go through stuff differently and no two situations are identical. Even if their are, capacity of every human to deal with it is different. We should practice being more accepting, more kind and more understanding as people to make the world a better place.

i know how it feels being judge easily without trying them to understand you. They gave so much pain in my heart. And i always telling to myself: I wont die physically because they've been killing me emotionally.

1:43 I needed that. Thank you

Always be compassionate for others ❤

There are many models of the Universe, and it's hard to say "which one is right," but some are more useful than others. Once you realize consciousness is precious and connected, and especially if you imagine that you are God, living each life in order to find out what it is like, then you realize judging others is not just pointless, but harmful. When you cast a condemning look on another, it means that at some point, when you are living their life, then you will feel the same judgement you cast in this lifetime. "Judge not lest ye be judged," then takes on a whole new vivid meaning.

Couldn't agree more.. You have to live someones life to be able to judge..

We all *judge* each other sometimes.. and that’s okay.. just know, treat others like you would want to be treated.

I've already liked before watching lol😆.. As always your videos never fails to touch me.. ❤️❤️.. Never be too quick to judge

Don't judge; ask. Instead of talking behind her back, they could have asked why she chose the path she took.

Respect for you jay👏👏from kurdistan in iraq

Well said jay 👍👍...absolutely right, never judge tooo quick, before understanding the other side of coin...

Amen to that... so true 👍🏼

I love his speech very much my favourite speaker Jay genius best professor l always admire

this makes you realise you should never judge a path someone has chosen to take..instead use that energy to focus on your own path ❤

This is one of the major lessons I've learnt lately

Yes we have to understand the person, situation and Just pray for them.

Judging blocks learning, i like that

Thank you universe thank u Jay.

I need it most right now. Thank you universe thank u Jay 🙏

Much needed this ...thanks Jay for bringing good changes in people's life by your motivational and inspirational speech and message ..

Never Judge anyone. You may never know how their life is and what they are going through.

Can't thank you enough sir😘😘..just wish you that God will shower you his abundant blessings

"Just because we don't agree, doesn't mean that we know how it feels" I don't agree with a lot of evil stuff people do, but indeed I have no clue how it feels. That's why I pray for my enemies. Free will all the way.

You are doing a great job Jay and your supporters are increasing everyday. You have a lovely positive vibe and thanks for helping me feel better everytime I see a video of yours! ☺

We shouldn't be so quick to judge others 🤝👍

Amazing video, powerful message, thank you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

I think today this topic is made for me. I feel very sorry for the people whom I judge without knowing them properly 😔

Yeah every thing needs understanding thank u Mr jey shetty

It is not your intelligence or your appearance that defines you. It's about your experiences.

Wow! So everyone should understand by this video how to treat others and stupidity should no longer exist.

The example given could go either way. Don't judge and don't be a fool.

Hi jay what you say is so treat never JUDGE i have been in that situstion and its hard but. My late mother and the BIBLE teaches us to forgive others. I forgive and i have done that in a relationship and Jay after a long time it was not going the way i was hoping for. In the end i just walked away and concentrate on myself and my health. To me that is the most important thing my health. I choose not to put my happyness in the hands on anyone. Who does not deserve a good loving woman that went beyound just trying to make that person to see that i was a good woman. It was a waste of time my power i now give to know one i pray to God morning and night i read my bible. And i ask God to help me make wise decisions and to help STRENGTHEN me through lifes ups and downs.i am Free to do whatever i want and need. Its ok i have to keep loving myself and my close family who are here with me.each day. And i am just forever humbled greatful to God and my both parents who have passed away and i know what they wanted me to be just happy. I am now because i have God my father and i have my love ones. Thats enough. What i have not got in my life right now i dont miss. I put all my trust in GOD. Thank you Jay you really open my eyes and your videos help me look deeper into.situations that are so true to life in the world we are now living in today. I wish to see world peace one day. Stay blessed Jay Shetty your a good man you stand in your truth i admire that a lot 🙏🙏❤

Another great video by Jay. I have no choice but hit the like button 👍

So right🙌

Hey jay god bless you . And thanks for give me new hope for live life

We should judge ourselves instead of other

I actually really appreciated this message. Thank you for sharing this!

So true 👌 Don't judge someone you don't know wht they might be going through

Well said. Jay has an amazing way of explaining a lot of things. He has made me a much better person after seeing Jay Shetty plane video. Thanks for that Jay.

Don't judge others just because you don't like their choices.. All are independent

To be honest ''CORRECT JUDGING IS ONE OF MOST DIFFICULT TASK IN THIS UNIVERSE "'

Don't judge a book by its cover❤

Thank you Jay.

Thanks Jay. I love you. 💙💙

The title is so true

Thank you Jay...for another beautiful message.

Thanks for posting this video. Im getting bad feeback from people because I took my boyfriend back after he cheated on me twice. They're saying a lot, but I stand with my decision based on what I saw and experienced in the past. Thanks Jay! Your videos have really helped me through hard time. Dont stop! Bless you!

Bhai tuh kamal karta hai love from India

yes, it's often hard to know the full story if you're not experiencing the same thing

Im so thankful i came across this video..thank u for the wonderful and inspiring message❤

Oh my goodness say that again Jay!! You know some of us really thank God for you guys who can help us look life from another perspective👑 I'm never Quick to judge but now I've learned even more!! To get myself in their position!!💎 God bless you Jay Shetty thank you so much! U are my therapist❤

I have learnt something coz the same thing happened to me,,,thx jay shetty

I imagine and feel that the freedom of living a judgement-free life is like the weight of the world off your shoulders. Because in doing so, as a result, you start judging and abusing yourself less and start being more forgiving (rather than either excusing or condemning) towards yourself and towards others as a result. We are who we project, based on our experiences, our thoughts and feelings processed and honoured from them, and what we learned from them to make us become a wiser and stronger version of ourselves. And remember, critical thinking is NOT the same as judgement/condemnment. The former, I find, is more based on experiences which tends to be more open, analytical, thorough and explorative to potential new ideas relevant to the given situation. On the other hand, however, I find that the latter tends to be more based on emotion and more rigidly brutal, rushed, too basic (ie. Too black and white), closed and final. And nothing is ever final, said and done. There's always a new beginning some place, somewhere. We have to look deeper to see it, and to practice doing it.

You're very right

Thank you

Thank u...

good video Jay, this is the kind of content that compelled me and countless others to subscribe to your channel. thank you for all the great videos! and i look foward to all your future videos as well!

I hate it when people fake depression without feeling how hurtful it actually is💔💔.

As always, profound and helpful. Thank you Jay.

Very touching👏👏

Best one so far, Jay. Beautiful.

Thank you brother for your. great message on the occasion of my Birthday..

humans are imperfect so it is very hard for them to not judge others without fully understanding their situation.

One of the most wonderful video that I have ever seen, I wish everybody see it

Preach!

Wawooooo, simply superb explanation as always 🌎

Amazing 👌very true

Beautiful

Wonderful

😊 A million dollar motivational video 💕 Always ur fan