Don't try to care, don't try to want. If you feel that you should care, or want-then it is revealed-that you neither care nor want.

I didn't try... now I'm stuck in bed all day and night

Yea , instead they teach us some poems about the beauty of birds and say that we should remember it word by word. What is the point?

Yeah but this isn't at all the real message of don't try. He completely misinterpreted it. He first saw it and found it upsetting, so he overcompensated by applying the first logical explanation he could. It's much more about flow state and religious themes like "lean not on your own understanding".

Or it may well be just an excuse you make and now you're fully justifying it because the great Charles Bukowski said so.

oh shit i dont wanna die of Aids

​@@your_fathers You love Aids?

it did

@@valdemar4659 no i love 4chan ♿♿♿♿♿♿♿♿♿

- Michael Scott

Exactly

Yoda too

@@huckhughes3704 if going to try, you are. Go ALL the way, you must.

Luke cage

Omf hahahah

"The man who shits on the floor can't fall off the toilet". Anal Pain.

"The man who sleeps on the floor must realize he is sleeping on someone's ceiling." - Martin Payne's downstairs neighbor

Ghebrehiwet mark Manson?

All philosophy is imaginary ghost

Uma Siv Please explain

@@umasiv7618 quite the contrary

Well hot damn

Well put

go crazy, go stupid, aHHaaAHaaH, go crazy

That’s one of my all time favorite quotes👍

@@evanabbott2737 can anyone please explain?

Aboha Molla Aboha Molla it means to embrace yourself. Your true self. Don’t conform into what the world wants you to be. Don’t worry about the judgement of others. Let your individuality shine even it you seem crazy to others. Because depriving yourself of what you truly want will always lead to a miserable life.

so you're telling me this dudes name was kick buttowski?

​@@nadiyaafsheen667 kick buttowski is animation series.

Do people know the secrets of your rockets and what you do.

Michael Quinn called u snakes out

Well he shouldn’t have

@@JohnBrown722so I do

You mean. He didn’t ‘try’ to be a writer...he allowed himself to write. He never wanted to be a writer, nor did he see himself as one. It was a transferal of mentality to paper. You're overthinking it. Allowing himself to become a writer was never part of the plan. "Don't try" - It hurts.

This one got my attention too:)

@Intelligently Stoopid does it terrify you that you haven't done that?

@Intelligently Stoopid In the darkest of times, listen to Anal beads by Pinkguy, it will help you

That's almost a Marcus Arelius quote

This. Hear, hear!! ✌🙏💯

The damage is already done

@Nag Dasty what? who? You, or Bukowski? :D

Clap your hands! If your loosing your soul and you know it, clap your hands

Idiotic comment

oh this made cry.

Excep poor Nierzsche never got any results in life at all.

@@30035XD He got Syphilis, thats something!

@@30035XD The fact that we're talking about Nietzsche proves you wrong. Otherwise you would be asking, "Who's Nietzsche?".

@@Baalaaxa I said IN LIFE, you dum dum.

​​@@BaalaaxaI think what he meant was Neitzhe got recognition only after his death

how was your exam bro?

what happened

How is ur preparation

Good luck dude

@@bodhisuryana2447 he must of bombed it.

Haa something my mom always told me

@@Emgreen19 yo Momma drax

The “if” in here is incredibly important.

@@shahsadsaadu5817 draxx them sklounst?

Hmmm but mutual aid isn't bad though

That resonates with me.

Me too

yes

It's the opposite for me. Sometimes i enjoy being around people but deep inside i hate most people

@@imaginarychip4916 Hear you. Do you feel like you switch gears or something? I generally prefer being alone, but sometimes when I find myself around a decent/interesting enough group of people, I flip some internal switch and suddenly become an extrovert "life of the party" type.

Nike

Just Be Yourself. Just DO without Attachment to the results. If you are self obligated, driven, & obsessed with this birthing & creative process, then it is what you should Be & DO. /// UNLIKE THE ALL OR NOTHING OF OLYMPIC GOLD, YOUR EFFORTS ARE FOR YOURSELF. ANYTHING ELSE IS FATE.

Thanks. This is the best explanation I could find.

Thank you.

To add to your point, the expectation to choose what to dedicate our lives to without any real life experience. Then to submit our identity to that thing. It’s a trap! Some peak at 15, others peak at 50. I love to see older folks who have kept their child like ambitions and curiosities alive.

@@ramenaddict1676 Media, particularly in North America, love to hyperfocus on the "outliers", whether precocious kids, oddball actors, athletes who seemingly have superpowers, the highschool geek who becomes one of the richest men in the world, or Oprah. Why? The obvious answer is that most media is commercial, and therefore it must attract as wide an audience as it can to serve up to advertisers, and any emotionally-charged variation on the freakshow theme will generally serve to do this. But I also think it goes beyond the commercial to the cultural. People seem to want visual media to alternately attract and repel them; the audience wants to both identify with and reject who and what they are seeing, to have their prejudices challenged and confirmed at the same time. It's hard for me to not see this as a type of psychological straight-jacket, as it would appear to make real growth or insight on the part of the audience next to impossible. I think The Sopranos is an excellent example of utterly brilliant social commentary that is missed by most of the audience because they are transfixed on individual characters, often to the point of taking on the speech patterns of one of the characters in their own life (I've actually seen adults do this), even if they've never even been to New Jersey, and even if they would never engage in criminal behaviour themselves.

I think whether he had any success the writing got it out of his brain. I like his pessimistic persistence..he just kept doing it..

@@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry I've actually have taken speech patterns or accents from fictional characters to movies or TV shows, or literally change my personality to a fictional character I enjoy, I'm not sure if their is a name for this, anyways I've seen other people also experiencing this at a young age, but when i got older and older My personality started to grow still, it doesn't change regardless of how I love a character;cause usually it would feel natural but then it just became forced if u know what u mean

The education system in are world right now is designed to make workers not free thinkers

Shaquille Biffee that’s a pretty fucked up oo la la

@@sophiisherman7463 and *Shaquille Biffee* lol, I like to watch rick and morty too!

We kinda do, ....we teach that meaningless pain is good for business, lol!

But isn't it much more amazing that this is available to ANYBODY everywhere in the world for free?? But you right, this particular topic is exactly what should be tought at school.

This the quote that summarize my actions and my life as a whole

Sounds like something Winnie the Pooh would say lol

Amazing

Where would dunder mifflin be without Mike

yes

😂 😂 Haha

Yowza.

"lol true" - Aristotle

"ikr" - Shakespeare

@@sujitraikwar2149 IKR - Alexander

I think it's originally by Confucius, though.

I call it a lot of time without distraction to work hard & harder.

Someone once said “I call it freedom in the morning and loneliness at night” . And I think that describes it perfectly!

@@yahyaabulhaj6840 I think its great to have so much dedication but a lot of people work harder & harder to realize that they maybe now have earned money but are still alone

@@gggallin8279 Who needs anything but the essentials really? Dependency is simply the return of childhood instincts as one ages on.

Both

Yeah I never liked that idea. That's why I rebelled against it. And now I'm my own boss.

Darryl Shack Unfortunately, the perfect mode is inverse. And it doesn’t exist. If it were closer to perfect: we would all be born rich, and everyone would have less money as we age. Who needs a million when their 90. Just give me a cat

@@hero.ambition how, share with us your experience

@@AN-xs4mw who the hell would want to live to 90? In today's society that's 25 years of deaths waiting room, aka a nursing home, retirement village, whatever your colloquial name for it is those places are so depressing, the patients are mostly catatonic.

@@hero.ambition Yeah but that's not enough. Everyone can not be their own boss, at least not all the time. So it either becomes a struggle for the scraps or a fight to climb the one or a few ladders or we can start treating each other the way we would like to be treated ourselves. So when you hire your first worker, try to find someone that likes doing the job and whom you can speak to openly and who can speak with you openly, preferably someone local so they don't have to drive through traffic too long :)

Hurt souls don't hurt souls.

Same here.

Everybody is taking everything way too serious... like if there is some goal at the end waiting for you with a big fat prize or whatever... but there is just death and that's wonderful. Imagine a world where everybody has to live his life forever and ever... that would be a real nightmare. At some point I will die, what could be better?

@@madmaximum875 i guess, i mean living forever would be quite interesting, although boring or stressful at times.

@Intelligently Stoopid im sure the majority of people think of the future, whether they show it or not. Perception can be deceiving. But who knows, maybe you're right.

@Intelligently Stoopid You have a point. Maybe some people are in denial that what they do today will affect tomorrow. They just hope and assume that everything will be alright in the end.

@@nixpaFPS And pretty fucked up considering the inevitable collapse of human civilization, especially if it's not a result of our own undoing and is brought about by something such as the eventual death of our sun. Find myself thinking about that quite a bit, how detached people are from the fact of our unavoidable demise; though we may not be the ones to witness it, at some point, there will be humans faced with that situation. One of the strongest arguments in support of anti-natalism, perhaps.

Or none at all...

Sounds like general advice about anal.

Could somebody please explain me, isn't it contradictory to the idea of "don't try", of letting it flow naturally?

@@amaanpatel9889 This is what I want to understand too...I'm 18 and understanding this would be really helpful to figure out what I wanna do...

minou I've thought bout this quite a bit. I have come to the conclusion that if you decide to take on a task, finish it. Even if it becomes unpleasant afterwards.

@@amaanpatel9889 more general advice about anal...

I'm about to graduate high school, your comment is exactly what I've been thinking these whole days, it's so strange. I share your point of view and opinion, they should implement philosophy all three years in high school, I only got it for 6 months, fucking loved it, I hate school, but philosophy made me love going to school Tuesdays and Fridays. Changed me a lot, and i got mad at my classmates when they would trash philosophy saying it's boring and makes them go to sleep, they even made fun of the nice and pacient teacher with cute sweaters that would teach us philosophy. Bunch of assholes.

Toasted Metal Dude I wish I had a philosophy class, rather I was taught about different clouds and ancient Chinese wars. P.s. I graduated this year to cheers 🥂 to you bro

High school is the epitomy of indoctrination.. THE PURPOSE OF HIGH SCHOOL IS TO TRAIN THE SUBJECT TO OBEY AUTHORITIES..THE OPPOSITE OF CRITICAL THINKING.. Like that fucking author says, YOU JUST ENJOY WANTING SOMETHING..YOU DON'T REALLY WANT IT!

@@bjc215 das it mane... u eva find owt y then let us know

Alot of people live unfulfilling lives including people in my family some people in my family are happy some arent Im sitting here looking over the edge of insanity waiting to fall in and have fun

I've read this in subtle art of not giving a fuck

Sententiae antiquiae, apocryphal

What does this even mean?

@@lorddosuniversos without emotional judgments, form your opinions. consider and evaluate arguments, both for and against, in every discussion.

@@mikehunt6946 Better than just blindly agreeing with whatever thought leader “x” says. That’s what a lot of people do.

Wu-wei

I think he would have embraced being left behind because then you get to be you and to explore/accept even the seemingly negative slow and inert parts. If you do this with compassion to self and others, it can be a rare art.

@@chrisjefferis1930 youre trying too hard

Daniel Wolf always. That’s why it resonates.

@@danielwolf3171 No, you are

it might sound like a cope but "making it" in the music industry relies a lot on luck and being at the right place at the right time which I've always firmly believed in. it shouldn't of course put people off trying to begin with but for many musicians out there, regardless of their talent, they will never make it big.

I have so many things I love... Too many things... Don't know which to do, so I do none... And then I watch something like this and know that I AM on the correct path...

What does that mean exactly?

Nnyboy64 Heroin

@@subatomicparticle I always took it to mean "find something that you're passionate about and put all of yourself into it".

@@sonarbuge7958 that's dark...my thoughts also went to addiction, but was caused it was lack of love.

keep your dream alive!

Good luck

Time traveler?

Never give up, keep doing what you love.

@Intelligently Stoopid We're all on our way to something, friend.

Kat This is probably the most said thing in history of optimism. Millions of people said it, everyone just a little different. It is supposed to posses some sort of intrinsik value or logic. Yet to some of us, it is rather meaningless. I am sorry.

or our successes are dumb luck simply with a large enough data set. How many have tried and failed only to die a failure? Most will not make it without intelligence and hard work, but that doesnt mean intelligent hard working people will all make it.

Im a success in process 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wow people just want to be angry and can't let otter people who fucking struggle everiday with lack of motivation and depression like me try to be positive. Thanks for that quote I really appreciated

@@vlackrock XD thanks, and no problem

rex mundi he’s too short to play him but obviously camera tricks exist

Willem needs a decent role...

Whoe, YEAH.

@@salty2667 He just got the lighthouse and in 2017 (I believe) The Florida Project. Looking forward to what he does next

Mickey Rourke did a pretty good job in "barfly" if you haven't seen it

🙌 👏 🙏 🤝 👍 You´re welcome mate !!

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isolation

@@SuperGreatSphinx thank you for this gift

You think? Maybe, makes you strong as hell, that’s for sure.

Says no isolated person ever

Say that again now

musicisbrilliant Then why is your thumbnail a picture of Jim Morrison?

@@ToddtheExploder Yeah Jim was pretty similar I guess in ways. I love them both. Though both had demons.

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

exactly! I always thought the same, but on my teens i avoided talking about him since he was abusive to his multiple SO and my inner circle was composed by radical feminists that didn't quite enjoy debating lol. But like, hes like the biggest son of a bitch, a douche without a doubt but then he was soo passionate about everything in life. He literally fascinates me, one of the things that i really enjoyed diving into was his love life. Man...sometimes, just as himself, i really question if he ever truly loved someone.

If it fascinates you, you don’t get it.

This quote just made me make a decision

I don't like this quote.. really depends

I'm gonna take advice off a fake quote from Genghis fucking Khan?

Bad advice. My social anxiety would be a demon rn if i didnt work against it despite my fears.

belu irina it means if you’re going to do something do it properly or don’t do it at all, do it with confidence, without fear

amazing quote...

What is George washing?

@@katjakaski6804 Probably

🤣🤣

@@mackenziemarden451 sink ig

If it doesn't come easily, maybe ask yourself why first.

@@gardenlover9663 oooh thats going to help me complete the prerequisite to learning something faster

It's not actually great advice tho

That might be the best advice I’ve ever read.

@@sozeytozey that depends on how you interpret it

"Consider the lilies of the field ... "

nozecone :)

Thanks

If everything is pointless... why does magnitude exist? You experience your life, you are doing random stuff. That is the magnitude of your life. Why does it exist? Because nothing matters?

"Don't try" is an ancient wisdom going back to days of the Lion King, when Hakuna Matata was the problem-free philosophy.

Magick is the manifestations of your wants and desires while pretending you dont care and forgetting you want them

Yeah that's exactly what I think he meant by saying this, when you try too hard it usually gets out of control but when you let it go and do it naturally without any expectations you will create beautiful things

“don’t think, feel”

okay if your looking for psychological emptiness. Its called being relaxed. Hardly profound. Better try and fill that void with value, not numbness.

@Andai fair enough mate.

To me is Myself

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

😂

Smart lady lol

Person who want to be a web designer: 👁️👄👁️

@Enlightened ☀️ If you're lucky enough

Boyka! Boyka! Boyka!

:/

They have not lost the ability, they have been forced by modern society into mindsets that only care about money. Because that's how an oligarchy makes willing slaves.

One can decide to live for more important things, I did. And I'm broke but content. I worked for money as my primary motivation for nearly 20 years in a miserable profession. I've done many jobs since I left that life, don't regret my decision for a minute.

Good luck 💜

well done you. ....teach truth... fast becoming the trickiest job in the world. heart and mind. you go, warrior! ,

Congratz buddy, keep on going, never give up

Jez... You can get a teaching degree in one year here.

17 plus years the (tefl) teacher, still at it. I know where you are coming from.

Chasing the car gives you drive. It gives you a reason to wake up, to continue. It motivates you. But, if you catch the car. Then, what happens?

Romancing bs isn't that deep.

@@thisgame2 you seem sad

Wow I’ve said the fun is in the chase but I was referring to relationships. Never thought about this where I start something and lose interest so I stop 🤷🏽‍♀️

@@masonthewalker Then you go chase a plane. It's the ride that matters, not the destination. And we're perpetually along for the ride - until we cease to exist.

Ive been doing this for the past 7 months, not sure what im sitting and waiting for...

@@shall2387 That's what the Buddha did - just sat and waited. And the rest is legend. Maybe your story won't be legend. Maybe mine won't be legend either. All we can do is wait and see.

That's literally the worst advice. All homeless people do is sit there. You might as well just be a begger on the street corner sit and wait for someone to give you their spare change

@@adamclark9004 The word is spelled "beggar," not "begger." Do you think you are superior to beggars? :) Maybe God decided you are not capable of surviving a life as a beggar.

Bukowski was only referring to writing, not staying in bed for life struggling to put your undies on.

An irony isnt it?

Mike just keep on going. When you become a physician and get a wife, kids and a house you will appreciate and enjoy them way more than you think, because of all the efforts you made to succeed in Medschool. As the years go passing by you will remember this hard moment in your lifestyle with love and gratitude. Just keep on fighting, because you are going to make it happen. Blessings.

Be brave you got this brohhhh

Be brave you got this brohhhh

My dear don't give up.. find somone to appreciate your precious soul so that you can continue and bring healing to others.. you need support. For what it's worth, I support you from afar. Best wishes..

Best of luck dude. Knew a guy who applied 5 times and got in on the sixth. :)

I can absolutely understand where you are coming from, I used to in the mirror and want to smash it to pieces, people are so judgemental and cruel and never look inside a person ♥️I hope you are now happy and content with yourself, finally in my 60's I finally love ME♥️💯💯🍻

When I finally gave up hope fighting my acne I just stopped all skincare just went full caveman mode, within a week my acne was almost gone after struggling for years. Years later it made a resurgence but once I cleaned my diet and began intermittent fasting it never came back again. Less is more.

@@ItsAllGoodGames agree, sorting out the diet goes a long way. No potions or creams will help.

​@@ItsAllGoodGamesyep

He must be one of the strange. Don't try and tame it.

@@AownAli-xi8jq Oh that's okay, atleast you gave us a try. That's all that really matters. Thanks for playin.

@@dickslayer111 I get it. I am one of the strange

@@AownAli-xi8jqHi some people say I'm a creative genious these humanoids like to get together and group think about , how to make me feel powerless, implying that someone owns me , this is one way of doing this, but it's funny every slave and dog and cat knows there owners, I don't know mine, ....weird. Anyway to answer your question, maybe he's like Dr Gonzo in fear and loathing in Las Vegas? Maybe he's a talking about a high-powered mutant of some kind, never considered for Mass production, and is too weird to live, and to rare to die. At least that's what came to my mind, when I read Brian's comment.

okay bro...

just be

@@2FadeMusic insane?

@@samanthaabellana4049 if you are

Yeah, no, you've lost it

Same

Me too I wasted my three years in nursing school. Now I have developed anxiety and depression. I didn't learn anything I was just doing it bcz I was supposed to do something after school. Bcz of anxiety I can't go out and risk others life I know I will mess up everything. Staying at home being depressed that I wasted so much time and money yet I won't be getting any results. 😶

@@sm.663 you're still so young and you may not realise it now but you haven't wasted your entire life for this. There si still a huge amount of time to descover what you like. It will be tougher at the beggining when you have to struggle for a while with more aspects but you cannot just give up and do nothing just because of that. Life goes on no matter what. Its up to you to decide and do something even if its not the right thing to do at first. You will find your way for sure. Ive been in a similar situation as you so im trying to give a hopeful comment.

What DO you want to do?

Then you're just in the process of realising that you're a free young person. Just don't sob in it. Won't help a bit. Keep it simple. Do something that you enjoy instead and fuck the prestige of doing something that corrupt ideals of Western society tells you to do. Keep in mind that society often time equals the people that surround you. Fact is most people are heavily unenlightened when it comes to finding their true purpose but that wont stop them from having opinions.

You haven't really wasted those 3 years , in fact you have invested those 3 years to find out what you don't want to do - so it's not a complete loss

🙊..........🤔

ikr that the common thing i found with a lot of people i admire, they all picked one things and made the decision to go 1000% on it till the end... if your willing to go through the pain to do that one thing then it's worth it, but commitment and dedication is key when becoming a master of your art

Or don't even start

Thats not the only point. Theres a difference between trying and forcing yourself to just try. Dont force yourself to do something if you dont enjoy it. But whatever you take from this vid is up to you bud

Thot Slayer what’s your point

No thanks, someone will come behind me after I made the bed, and it won't be to THEIR standards, so they will just mess it up and make me redo it. No thanks. They can keep their standards, I have my own.

Well i stopped trying to get back my ex, i tried alot...idk The fact that i tried to get her back gives me peace of mind, even thou she didn't come back welll it is whst it is, gotta move on

@@juileb197473051 try as in, go as far as u can go, maybe while also being for the sake of your satisfaction

I see a lot of philosphers making general statements without thinking about what could go wrong, which I can't blame them for because their is a billion things to consider it would hurt so much; so just be free I guess

@@hec28827 bukowski lived what went wrong.

Like sleeping

beermilkshake wrong.you need to try to focus

kns682 woah buddy, you need to relax

Yes. Surrender. I came to te same conclusion.

kns682 I think it’s about finding that sweet spot between effort and complete surrender. I’m sure Bukowski had to ‘try’ too, he’s just choosing to highlight the fact that the best things in life are about letting go as opposed to TRYing to control. Put it this way: in meditation you can’t get away with NOT letting go :-) it’s the main ingredient.

All the way go, if trying you are going to" -Master Yoda.

Same

i agree

Similar to Bruce Lee’s water and flow message

Tao te Ching Doing not doing

I'm not sure about the wisdom behind it. The guy lived 50 years of failure and pain before success, that might be where his talent comes from. I think he wouldn't have done it without this experience.

Tony Sinyaev a beautiful poet that is very much unknown ~ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gpxxeaZmupnVhYk.html

You mean nothing???

Try then don't try.

What if you don't have a passion. What if you live your whole life without finding one?

@@nav3622 you will find it. If you don’t currently have something, try several different activities. Search the world for various things to do. Something will eventually speak to you. It may not be today, tomorrow, next year, or even in the next 5 years, but you will find your calling

I Live that way. Never worked

This too shall pass

I find explosive gas in the early morning hours helps ease the pain...heat rising stench of redemption ...Mark Kram Karm VI

@@MarkKramKarmVI lol

If your going through hell... keep going!

❤

Just read "The last Night of the earth". So true...

We all do.

Thanks for the laugh

I guess I don't want to work then, just eat and smoke weed. This is destroying my fucking life, because no matter how much I push, in the end of the day my head will always tell me I should've killed myself long ago or that I just fundamentally hate life itself. I just wish I wanted to grow and produce instead of withering away. Not even sure if professional health would be able to get me on the feet I feel I never had.

@@StarmenRock feeling incompetent is as healthy as an artist should feel like. But this doesn't imply forever death of passion and movement. You can try and give your best and still feel satisfied with the failure that life presents

@@nikhilghatnekar i dont understand what the hell you were trying to say with that.

@@StarmenRock You're right. This was definitely out of context and may give everyone the wrong idea. We need to take from Bukowski's writings what seems useful and meaningful to our personal lives and leave the rest of it because even though he's a great writer, he may have sometimes wrote something that isn't inspiring or cool, maybe he meant something else entirely, etc. All of the philosophers are humans after all. It's our job to take what's relatable and practical for our own lives from their writings.

@@StarmenRock idk what you do in life so I might have considered a few things. As an artist I wanted to convey that feeling lost or not achieving what we expected to be is perfectly fine as long as we are commiting to it with all of our heart. I meant you can fail everyday and still feel satisfied at the end of your day if you follow this philosophy.

I think he mostly missed the point, which is clear from what Bukowski said in the rest of the letter and elsewhere. "...someone once asked him, "What do you do? How do you write, create?" To which, he replied: "You don’t try. That’s very important: ‘not’ to try, either for Cadillacs, creation or immortality. You wait, and if nothing happens, you wait some more. It’s like a bug high on the wall. You wait for it to come to you. When it gets close enough you reach out, slap out and kill it. Or if you like its looks you make a pet out of it.” "We work too hard. We try too hard. Don't try. Don't work. It's there. It's been looking right at us, aching to kick out of the closed womb. There's been too much direction. It's all free, we needn't be told. Classes? Classes are for asses. Writing a poem is as easy as beating your meat or drinking a bottle of beer." He practiced this advice when he wrote. He'd just sit down, full of wine, and write without pausing in the middle of the poem. It wasn't work, he just let it flow. Then he'd wake up the next day and see what he had.