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Dr. K talks with twitch streamer LilyPichu about Albert, their breakup, infidelity, and long-standing depression. Lilypichu has a long history of depression or low self-worth stemming from her adolescence. On top of this, LilyPichu is an incredibly empathic person, thus people around her who may test high on the sociopathy scale may worsen her depression.
In this video, Dr. K talks with LilyPichu about twitch streaming, her twitch and youtube community, and her depression.
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@HealthyGamerGG
@HealthyGamerGG 3 жыл бұрын
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@akshatbansal5578
@akshatbansal5578 3 жыл бұрын
43 mins ago??
@bill9379
@bill9379 3 жыл бұрын
Ok
@Tom_Het
@Tom_Het Жыл бұрын
@@akshatbansal5578 2 years ago
@Mr.5ame
@Mr.5ame 7 ай бұрын
​​@@Tom_Het 3 years and 43 minutes ago :D
@GuyCN
@GuyCN 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone who can talk about their feelings, especially in a very public space, is peak chad.
@VonniXfiles
@VonniXfiles 4 жыл бұрын
This. Lily is now chad
@GuyCN
@GuyCN 4 жыл бұрын
Chad Lilly Chad Lilly Chad Lilly
@VonniXfiles
@VonniXfiles 4 жыл бұрын
@@ezaf5989 Her voice is nice. Not sure if you forgot this (/s)
@igorrotar5341
@igorrotar5341 4 жыл бұрын
@@VonniXfiles and opera is good music?
@altf8
@altf8 4 жыл бұрын
@@ezaf5989 judging people on things they can't change isn't very chad
@Philgob
@Philgob 4 жыл бұрын
"he cheated on me" "oh shit" lmao tht was funny how he was fully professional the whole time but then dropped this
@TofuAnimations
@TofuAnimations 4 жыл бұрын
Philgob ikr
@duke9874
@duke9874 4 жыл бұрын
Timestamp?
@duncanbeasley9280
@duncanbeasley9280 4 жыл бұрын
@@duke9874 first 5 minutes
@Listlesseye
@Listlesseye 4 жыл бұрын
It's not so much about being professional per say, it's about being relatable to the patient speech wise so they can lower their guard and what not, also he's a very casual chill guy if you've watched his stream or his other vids like this! XD
@lazyboi4937
@lazyboi4937 4 жыл бұрын
@@duke9874 4:10
@lovefirst6194
@lovefirst6194 3 жыл бұрын
these comments about micheal saving the day is undermining the work she went through to be able to be with someone again. she is so strong and i admire her so much.
@victoriatorres406
@victoriatorres406 3 жыл бұрын
love this love this love this love this love this
@cayfire129
@cayfire129 3 жыл бұрын
She was able to change herself so much that she was able to get into a happy relationship. Having Micheal there just made things better, it’s like the reward for all her hard work❤️
@amberisrad
@amberisrad 3 жыл бұрын
i didn't even know who Lily was but after watching this entire thing and scrolling down to the comments and following her twitch and realizing she was in a relationship, im so happy for her. it must've taken a lot to be able to trust and love again, not to mention love PUBLICLY again. i wish her so much love
@rockraise1014
@rockraise1014 3 жыл бұрын
This is truth, I also came from Michael Reeves's stuff. But credit where credit is due, everything she had been going through was hard and she did make it through in one piece.
@Nothing.nobody.
@Nothing.nobody. 3 жыл бұрын
She is so smart and amazing. I could never do what she did and stay this strong and vulnerable at the same time. So Emotionally smart.
@Apudurangdinya
@Apudurangdinya 4 жыл бұрын
meanwhile michael tazed his way into lily's heart
@moonsaer
@moonsaer 4 жыл бұрын
Best comment
@cmac8226
@cmac8226 4 жыл бұрын
might have actually tazed her heart as well
@akashverma4280
@akashverma4280 3 жыл бұрын
Aww, that's so cute.
@thebleachbartender1312
@thebleachbartender1312 3 жыл бұрын
What a wholesome relationship
@evolViral
@evolViral 3 жыл бұрын
*Through Lies and Deceit*
@itspaxx4938
@itspaxx4938 4 жыл бұрын
when she said “i thought i’d marry him” i broke
@solistaVT
@solistaVT 4 жыл бұрын
and that he wasn't happy :"((
@ijlala3799
@ijlala3799 4 жыл бұрын
i know, how evil can albert the cheater be to leave this perfect flower
@serpentphoenix
@serpentphoenix 4 жыл бұрын
when does she say that? I watched the entire thing and I feel like I missed it lol
@itspaxx4938
@itspaxx4938 4 жыл бұрын
serpentphoenix idk i think it’s around 15-30 minutes in
@jeremylim2421
@jeremylim2421 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of women seem to think that
@_silverword
@_silverword 4 жыл бұрын
Seeing Lily break down talking about the breakup is so heartbreaking. She's been so strong for the community these past couple months. What an amazing person
@ChiriConCarne
@ChiriConCarne 4 жыл бұрын
To think that she's been holding on to that emotion for months.
@matthewp4320
@matthewp4320 4 жыл бұрын
Time stamp?
@monsus7129
@monsus7129 4 жыл бұрын
@@matthewp4320 4:40
@Ian6279
@Ian6279 4 жыл бұрын
@@matthewp4320 when you skim vids and dont see the first 5 mins
@jetswept7427
@jetswept7427 4 жыл бұрын
Shes been so strong for HERSELF nerd
@hakseuu
@hakseuu 4 жыл бұрын
this turned to a therapy session for me and he isnt even talking to me
@HalfNathan
@HalfNathan 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@rockym.g.3827
@rockym.g.3827 4 жыл бұрын
AoE healing
@minamins22
@minamins22 4 жыл бұрын
trueeee
@thermdynamic4627
@thermdynamic4627 4 жыл бұрын
@@rockym.g.3827 I'm reading comments while listening and this comment bursted me out of laughter.
@abbywho4142
@abbywho4142 4 жыл бұрын
Im literally pausing every 10 minutes just bursting into tears.
@PhoenixLive_YT
@PhoenixLive_YT 3 жыл бұрын
the moment she mentions her ex boyfriend he immediately switch his attention to something, what a madlad Lol
@Psydo
@Psydo 3 жыл бұрын
@@WellBeSerious12 that shits bullshit way too broad
@WellBeSerious12
@WellBeSerious12 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psydo Of course people would start getting aversive, defensive, or threatening with something they'd not understand.
@furkan10ky
@furkan10ky 3 жыл бұрын
I just did the test and it says my personality is architect.
@meganutHUGE
@meganutHUGE 3 жыл бұрын
@@furkan10ky i got logician, INTP-T
@nerdloser9987
@nerdloser9987 3 жыл бұрын
@@WellBeSerious12 the whole personality type thing sounds like zodiac signs LOL
@newguidetoearth3030
@newguidetoearth3030 4 жыл бұрын
I love how Anok is just coming in and psychologically cleaning up the gaming community, streamer after streamer.
@afscrew123
@afscrew123 4 жыл бұрын
@Anzu Wyliei hence why he says in the beginning of every session with a streaming "I cant fix you over the internet" And why hes doing like serveral weeks of months with reckful now to actually make progress.
@newguidetoearth3030
@newguidetoearth3030 4 жыл бұрын
​@Anzu Wyliei Ok thanks for interpreting a jest as a thorough analysis
@newguidetoearth3030
@newguidetoearth3030 4 жыл бұрын
@Anzu Wyliei Yes. Thats what I said. I made a joke and you treated it like a serious statement. But it isnt a serious statement.
@newguidetoearth3030
@newguidetoearth3030 4 жыл бұрын
@Anzu Wyliei I think what you said can be clearly concluded by watching the video and as such a one sentence youtube comment not entirely mirroring the content of the video (in the sense you understood it) but still refering to the video as though having watched it most likely is a joke. Either way, if its just a misunderstanding theres no point in feuding over that, I apologise for being passive aggressive.
@theanonymoustalk
@theanonymoustalk 4 жыл бұрын
@@newguidetoearth3030 yeah I took u seriously too, until I saw ur comment
@smellyfish36
@smellyfish36 4 жыл бұрын
God bless Dr K, the boomer savior of twitch
@AXharoth
@AXharoth 4 жыл бұрын
a boomer is someone who were born right after ww2 . so in around 45-50 so no hes not a boomer
@poppi3362
@poppi3362 4 жыл бұрын
@@AXharoth wooosh
@fredwho
@fredwho 4 жыл бұрын
@@AXharoth That is where the term originated from. Boomer is a term that can be attributed to any person of any age depending on whether they apply to the characteristics of an actual baby boomer. Boomer is attributed to Dr. K, jokingly partly due to his technological incompetence. I think i can speak for most people and say there is no ill intent in using it.
@6uzhombre
@6uzhombre 4 жыл бұрын
@@AXharoth k now go back to league and never come back
@barildan
@barildan 4 жыл бұрын
Just Dr Boomer
@atomicsoupy69
@atomicsoupy69 4 жыл бұрын
I love this therapist. He makes sure that lily feels comfortable and doesn’t just jump in to like sensitive subjects. He sort of eases in to the topic and shows body language that he’s not judging her at all. I completely respect therapist and I commend them for the great job that they are doing.
@kesse3794
@kesse3794 4 жыл бұрын
And that’s on being a Harvard graduate
@Tyler-bp4md
@Tyler-bp4md 3 жыл бұрын
therapists are epic. just because how in depth and high level their job can be. learning how to make someone comfortable for instance can be one of the hardest things to do. its always very impressive to see how they do their job
@BlanBlan19901990
@BlanBlan19901990 3 жыл бұрын
@@Bauernade it pretty much is a cookie cutter therapy session tbh
@roman_scan
@roman_scan 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I had him as a therapist
@theotakusadventure5845
@theotakusadventure5845 2 жыл бұрын
We all need people like him in our life ^^ must be great being part of his familly.
@danjirocisnerosalvarez3724
@danjirocisnerosalvarez3724 4 жыл бұрын
Lily being sad: Michael: (Nightmare and goblin sounds intensifies)
@saftschinken2353
@saftschinken2353 4 жыл бұрын
REEEEEEEEE
@bobthejester3105
@bobthejester3105 4 жыл бұрын
Distant tazer sounds to protect his roomba. Reference when lily voice micheals roomba that curses.
@CarlsCozyCorner
@CarlsCozyCorner 3 жыл бұрын
"DON'T WORRY, I'LL TAZE YOU BACK INTO A HEALTHY MINDSET!" ~Michael, probably
@drex5160
@drex5160 3 жыл бұрын
@@saftschinken2353 CHUUUUU
@iwoodbustanut7380
@iwoodbustanut7380 2 жыл бұрын
@@CarlsCozyCorner that's...both horrifying and wholesome, I've never seen these two words mix till now
@tankfire20
@tankfire20 4 жыл бұрын
Why is it so hard to find any constructive therapy in America, why is a twitch vod posted on KZfaq out of all places the best therapy I can find.
@eminemilly
@eminemilly 4 жыл бұрын
True but at least I can talk to my therapist
@kingcurry5139
@kingcurry5139 4 жыл бұрын
Well you see, some of the best and most constructive therapy, isn’t streamed for patient confidentiality. It takes balls to LIVESTREAM or make videos on therapy. Looking to other people’s therapy isn’t a good way to resolve or use it as catharsis for your own therapy.
@Billy-rz1jg
@Billy-rz1jg 4 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately therapy takes going to a lot of different people until you meet one that works for you specifically. And in the US not all people are able to get therapy because of health insurance issues.
@mihirx27
@mihirx27 4 жыл бұрын
Remember, it's not therapy though. *wink wink*
@mychaeljones7526
@mychaeljones7526 4 жыл бұрын
STOP.
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 жыл бұрын
31:15 lily is saying that albert shouldn't get so much hate even thought she is hurting SOO MUCH, god you deserve the whole heaven
@cobi421
@cobi421 4 жыл бұрын
bro what is so hard to understand that albert shouldnt get so much hate after losing friends and fans
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 жыл бұрын
@@cobi421 he got hate AND losses friend because of what he did, not got hate and losses friend because of the hate
@madhavraghu
@madhavraghu 4 жыл бұрын
@@kuroryu1638 Yeah, and she's saying that he shouldn't have gotten that much hate for what he did
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 жыл бұрын
@@madhavraghu and for me its amazing that she did that because imagine your boyfriend cheated with your best friend, thats mental and even after that lily is still thinking about albert well being
@madhavraghu
@madhavraghu 4 жыл бұрын
@@kuroryu1638 yeah that's true
@thanh-tamtang8912
@thanh-tamtang8912 4 жыл бұрын
It scares me how many people hate Lily because of her voice, and how she shouldn’t be sad because she is “lucky”. Just because you’re “lucky”, or have money, doesn’t change the fact you can be sad when something horrible happens to you.
@christiandalecotes2320
@christiandalecotes2320 4 жыл бұрын
The only reason I found her channel was because of her voice and her personality earned my sub.
@CarlsCozyCorner
@CarlsCozyCorner 3 жыл бұрын
I think people who hate her for her voice are pretty insecure themselves.
@rafay564
@rafay564 3 жыл бұрын
hate her for her voice man who tf are those people ? i love her voice
@dmkmn4612
@dmkmn4612 3 жыл бұрын
Isnt she just speaking like some anime girl so weebs watch her and donate
@poggers4392
@poggers4392 3 жыл бұрын
@@dmkmn4612 weak bait
@iareanoob2277
@iareanoob2277 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad she's happy with Michael now. I hope they stay happy and comfy
@UaenOnce
@UaenOnce 4 жыл бұрын
And marry each other!!!! And live happily ever afteeer
@liamnoakes511
@liamnoakes511 4 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@tilenHD
@tilenHD 4 жыл бұрын
at least if they break up i just want too ses a nice break the one taht dosent Make me hate one of them
@Proger-sj8cj
@Proger-sj8cj 4 жыл бұрын
tilenHD *That shit scares me , thinking if one of them moves away for some odd reason* Life is full of mysteries
@XTen1000DaysX
@XTen1000DaysX 4 жыл бұрын
is she with michael?
@jinyboi
@jinyboi 4 жыл бұрын
"a lot of people watchign twitch feels disappointment in themselves" hit the nail on the head lol
@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940
@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940 4 жыл бұрын
4Head
@igorrotar5341
@igorrotar5341 4 жыл бұрын
agree
@DynomiteKid65
@DynomiteKid65 4 жыл бұрын
@@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940 Exhibit A.
@kintokisa
@kintokisa 4 жыл бұрын
Well, that applies to a lot of people... And "people watching twitch" are a lot of people. So obv
@followingtheroe1952
@followingtheroe1952 4 жыл бұрын
Technically that's true of anything
@Ghashlord
@Ghashlord 4 жыл бұрын
i would NOT do this publicly, ever. BIG props to Lily, she has titan balls. Edit: Removing previous edit due to respect for Lily regarding the recent events.
@yayayuki8542
@yayayuki8542 4 жыл бұрын
She's part of the boys after all
@Xavier-kg7bt
@Xavier-kg7bt 4 жыл бұрын
@@yayayuki8542 TRUUUE
@flare-4779
@flare-4779 4 жыл бұрын
Why not? Because of peoples opinions?
@Zero001
@Zero001 4 жыл бұрын
I mean back in the day we always said Lily was a 10ft tall buff black dude with a huge dong(almost everyone skipped the last part, almost). Of course she has huge balls! But seriously, she is very brave
@GreenGoblinCoryintheHouse
@GreenGoblinCoryintheHouse 4 жыл бұрын
Wait a minute
@beccamistic2218
@beccamistic2218 4 жыл бұрын
It just broke me seeing her cry at the beginning..I’m so happy that she’s with someone who truly loves her and wants to show the world how amazing she is right now. Big shout out to Michael Reeves to be always so considerate of Lily’s well being. If you watched her drunk stream, it takes a real man to think about the future and order food for her knowing she’ll be hungry. It takes a real man to accept all of Lily, her sad emotions, her low self esteem, and see her at her lowest point and still love her. He may be young and be quirky normally, but he takes his relationship seriously and puts in his best efforts to cherish Lily. I love them both so much (I’m crying like a proud father don’t judge 🤧🤧)
@sebjink.9037
@sebjink.9037 4 жыл бұрын
Either that, or the excessive crack use is making him see into the future
@beccamistic2218
@beccamistic2218 4 жыл бұрын
Sebjin K. Ahahaha trueeee
@rage9428
@rage9428 4 жыл бұрын
yeah he also told her subtly to "cut down on oversharing" when she was drunk and here she says that she wishes the break up wasn't so public, he literally takes the sad possibility of an end into consideration right now or it's just me reading too much into it
@saritrisnawati9346
@saritrisnawati9346 4 жыл бұрын
@@rage9428 well let's not read too much into it, just let them be happy for now. Me personally just take it as him being embarrassed if everyone knows every cute little things he do for his gf, not necessarily worried about what will happen if they broke up. Maybe I'm naive, but I just hope they're happy.
@wrenchguy2937
@wrenchguy2937 4 жыл бұрын
Beccamistic i feel u man. Lilys a good person. Ur not the only one fam haha
@zuzaosowiecka
@zuzaosowiecka 4 жыл бұрын
this is very off topic and all but i think it’d be very interesting to see Sykkuno on one of these.
@shaddjimenez4524
@shaddjimenez4524 3 жыл бұрын
It’s still on topic, no need to put a disclaimer. I also agree that Sykkuno would be interesting.
@srk3studios138
@srk3studios138 3 жыл бұрын
Sykkuno has mentioned going on it very recently, but he said there are things he isn't ready to talk about yet.
@zuzaosowiecka
@zuzaosowiecka 3 жыл бұрын
@@srk3studios138 ah yeah i wasn’t aware when i wrote the comment. thanks for letting me know :)
@87turtle6
@87turtle6 3 жыл бұрын
@@zuzaosowiecka i feel like he would dodge a lot of the questions
@BigFanOfCocks
@BigFanOfCocks 3 жыл бұрын
@Bot Robot I- that sounds really similar to what I do tbh... both Lily and Sykkuno try to understand the hater, knowing that the hater might be going through something and hating to somehow cope with that or is a result of it Both of them are so kind and patient, and I really admire that
@finalflash98
@finalflash98 4 жыл бұрын
I wish Etika had gone through something like this. It would have helped him come to terms with his different personas.
@milosniffer5293
@milosniffer5293 4 жыл бұрын
He had "different personas" ?
@caronimaca
@caronimaca 4 жыл бұрын
never really watched him, but yeah I agree. it’s pretty sad
@taku6541
@taku6541 4 жыл бұрын
Milo Sniffer I’m pretty sure everyone does u don’t act the same way with ur friends as u do with ur mom right?
@ianparmley1566
@ianparmley1566 4 жыл бұрын
@@taku6541 But it can get very confusing when you have to maintain different personas for different people, and it raises the deep question of: Who am I? Do I deserve to exist?
@milkcourier1224
@milkcourier1224 4 жыл бұрын
no one knows or could know if he had different personas other than him or someone who personally talked to him.
@tarapapi
@tarapapi 4 жыл бұрын
Good on Lily on finally embracing the 6 foot black man she truly is.
@ReyaadGafur
@ReyaadGafur 4 жыл бұрын
this is a what moment
@mlotshwa100
@mlotshwa100 4 жыл бұрын
@Ngu MU for real man only the ogs remember
@watyhu99
@watyhu99 4 жыл бұрын
omg I haven't seen this one in a comment section of hers for sooo long. Anyone else remember the LilyRaichu channel? too bad all the content was removed from the channel. I remember when this joke was used on like every Lily and Nyanners videos I saw.
@camillegarcia8582
@camillegarcia8582 4 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh its good to see an old fan. True fans know that's just a a korean actress that he hired✊😔
@iLLya_
@iLLya_ 4 жыл бұрын
@@camillegarcia8582 true we all know tyrone the bald buff 6ft blackman is the man behind the voice
@gamerbrain5633
@gamerbrain5633 4 жыл бұрын
Broooo, when Dr.K was on the phone and said "Hello?" and Lily responded with "Hi" not knowing he wasn't talking to her, that was so fucking cuteeeeeeeeeeee dudeeee
@MissyJ
@MissyJ 4 жыл бұрын
It hurts to hear someone as talented as Lily feel like she isn't good enough for the attention she's gotten.
@Ari-ne2yb
@Ari-ne2yb 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr she can play games well, she can play music, sing, animate, sketch, make digital art, is a wonderful and genuine person, can stream well, is hilarious. It's so sad she feels this way.
@Kwebicloz
@Kwebicloz 4 жыл бұрын
"Nothing inspires hate as much as seeing the person that you could be." Such a powerful statement. Love these one liners from Dr. K
@AgainstThisWorld
@AgainstThisWorld 4 жыл бұрын
people hate her because she has a easy life even though she doesn't do anything meaning to herself to the world or to society in short word is based on jealousy I don't hate her, but I won't watch her I find her friend worse than her that pokimane I think she has traits of a manipulative girl
@EkoSo
@EkoSo 4 жыл бұрын
@@AgainstThisWorld But that feeling that she doesn't "do anything" comes from somewhere. It's when people see the end result that I think inspires jealousy. Everyone who has a computer or the internet has it easy compared to 50% of the entire world's population. Yet people in 1st world countries suffer more from suicides and depression than in poor countries. There are a lot of depressed people streaming on twitch (as well as people who have committed suicides that live on social media). If you're not happy with your life, you won't be after you become a streamer either.
@EkoSo
@EkoSo 4 жыл бұрын
@Burak Ormanoglu Destiny is a rare example. He has been happy his whole life and he has never had any mental issues. Those people exist in all kinds of fields and they're not limited to only twitch. He appreciates what he has and I believe he would appreciate what he has regardless of streaming.
@smadworld8515
@smadworld8515 4 жыл бұрын
Equal true
@smadworld8515
@smadworld8515 4 жыл бұрын
Equal you right try’s jkap a twam
@bruhyote132
@bruhyote132 4 жыл бұрын
Lilly is one of those content creators I don't watch at all anymore, but I'll occasionally drop by her streams for a few minutes to see if she's changed at all since the last decade and I'm proud to see her always being her. I have to give mad respects to Lilly because I remember how, back when she hadn't even revealed her face yet, people were always going on about how "oh lilly's voice is so fake", "lilly's probably ugly irl", "lilly this lilly that". Yet... She's still managed to armor through a lot of shit through out all of these years. It's truly fascinating watching what people thought was this "feeble little girl" muscle through all of the psychological bullshit that's been thrown at her and keep pushing forward, I honestly can't think of many other content creators getting this much _undeserved_ hate and not quitting after a couple years. Key word "undeserved" because we all know everyone who's popular has haters, no shit, but I really don't think Lilly's done ANYTHING worthy of her getting all of the hate she's gathered through out all this time. It's sad, but it's good to see that she's strong enough to withstand all of this hatred. I'm definitely no simp, but I can respect Lilly as a fellow human being who knows how to take punches to the gut time and time again and keep getting up.
@VisualConnection
@VisualConnection 4 жыл бұрын
I wish that I could thumbs up your comment twice!
@swergelflerberson4453
@swergelflerberson4453 4 жыл бұрын
Gay
@MasterXiggy
@MasterXiggy 4 жыл бұрын
Bruh Yote well spoken
@jie3135
@jie3135 4 жыл бұрын
I hate to be the one to point this out, I really do, but just for future reference theres only one L in lily, also I 100000% agree with your statement and hope you have a good day :)
@Xadadadron
@Xadadadron 4 жыл бұрын
@@swergelflerberson4453 If you have nothing valuable to add to a conversation, remain silent please :)
@edwardseverinsen5598
@edwardseverinsen5598 4 жыл бұрын
I love how he makes it clear that this chat isn't for the fans. If there's an awkward silence, so be it. This is about _her_ and not about putting on a show for the audience.
@ReyaadGafur
@ReyaadGafur 4 жыл бұрын
1:10:52 "Every gamer is a little bit broken" Yes. Definitely. Broken from several places, like expectations, results, and escaping reality.
@memebot69
@memebot69 3 жыл бұрын
yes we play games to escape life problems and reality
@icyxel963
@icyxel963 3 жыл бұрын
That hits hard
@spicy_taco2267
@spicy_taco2267 3 жыл бұрын
:(
@joselleannetv
@joselleannetv 3 жыл бұрын
Agree
@guhbuhfuh
@guhbuhfuh 4 жыл бұрын
You can really see how she becomes more comfortable progressively through out the video He has an incredible gift
@iGrantWishes
@iGrantWishes 4 жыл бұрын
I agree that he's pretty incredible. But I think it's something he earned through years of work, study, and cultivating himself rather than a gift he just happens to have.
@ianparmley1566
@ianparmley1566 4 жыл бұрын
@@iGrantWishes He's proving that gifts can (and should) be earned
@ZishaMadeit
@ZishaMadeit 4 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@FirebladeXXL
@FirebladeXXL 4 жыл бұрын
he learned and improved. i think its so disrespectful to just say ppl are gifted or talented when they got where they are through hard work.
@rickirazerblade9983
@rickirazerblade9983 4 жыл бұрын
@@FirebladeXXL if only anyone could get anywhere given enough hard work
@FirebladeXXL
@FirebladeXXL 4 жыл бұрын
i think his style of therapy shows perfectly that you dont have to be empathic to be a good coach. he said it himself: his sociopathy scale is quite high, and yet he manages to do a very deep and cathartic session.
@bobbruh8538
@bobbruh8538 4 жыл бұрын
Too many big words got confused
@wibblemu9
@wibblemu9 4 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy the way he uses pointed questions
@matsab7930
@matsab7930 4 жыл бұрын
DatVocals! In a sense his sociopathy might help him - I get sad just hearing her talk about it and am not sure I could be objective with my questioning and approach as a result of that.
@johnnyperry1471
@johnnyperry1471 4 жыл бұрын
Sociopath's are incredibly observant of social cues, it is how they blend in with the emotional masses without truly feeling the same, imitation. They are incredible at picking things up subconsciously and using those things without any effort. An empath while being equally intuitive are unable to separate other peoples emotions from their own, they naturally take things more personally. His disconnect with his patient could be his advantage.
@FirebladeXXL
@FirebladeXXL 4 жыл бұрын
@@johnnyperry1471 this. while you cant say sociopaths in general are that observant, when they are they absolutely have an advantage in therapy and coaching.
@marknguyen1886
@marknguyen1886 3 жыл бұрын
2:09:50 Dr. K: Did you have trouble sleeping last night? Lily: I have trouble sleeping every night. BREAKS MY HEART :(
@JesusInStripeZ
@JesusInStripeZ 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if she's been sleeping better these days or if that's something that's just gonna stick with her forever
@chillux9404
@chillux9404 2 жыл бұрын
@@JesusInStripeZ o
@kaiyuuyuu
@kaiyuuyuu 4 жыл бұрын
At like 11:00 she tries to compliment his hair and I'm so sad, she's so sweet and I just wish her all the happiness in the world
@theedinghamfam1533
@theedinghamfam1533 Жыл бұрын
10:58 *
@auniquehandle
@auniquehandle 4 жыл бұрын
1:23:35 this guy just got ascended to the heaven for a second
@GodProTheMostProGamerEverNot
@GodProTheMostProGamerEverNot 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@christinechang780
@christinechang780 4 жыл бұрын
Lol yea what happened ???
@eviuze6259
@eviuze6259 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo yoooo what was that I'm fucking dead
@Reezy030
@Reezy030 4 жыл бұрын
Dayum Dr. K has some strong ass meds there
@jmanruules
@jmanruules 4 жыл бұрын
I hate you XD fuck
@UltimateWaifuXD
@UltimateWaifuXD 4 жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart to see Lily cry. She's too good for this world. Definitely deserved better.
@PataJuzmo
@PataJuzmo 4 жыл бұрын
Just like all the animals she eats.
@warlord23100
@warlord23100 4 жыл бұрын
jussi ?
@andrewmemelord3561
@andrewmemelord3561 4 жыл бұрын
jussi vegans go to hell :D
@pittaaaabread
@pittaaaabread 4 жыл бұрын
@@PataJuzmo ????? How the fuck is that at all relevant to the current issue?
@SonicRainbpw
@SonicRainbpw 4 жыл бұрын
Good thing her relationship with albert magically dissapeared
@matcha6029
@matcha6029 4 жыл бұрын
Props to Lily for talking about her real emotions in front of so many people for HOURS. My therapy session lasts for 45 minutes and some days I’ll feel SO exhausted and would never want to talk about my feelings for the rest of the day. She’s talking about something she avoided by drinking yet here she is, accepting her weakness. LILY U R SO STRONG WE LOVE U SM
@comrad3892
@comrad3892 Жыл бұрын
Eeee eeeeeee
@momijinohanako
@momijinohanako 4 жыл бұрын
It saddens me so much that Lily feels that she's not talented, doesn't deserve success, etc. Just the fact that she's the one earning probably hundreds of thousands of dollars, enough to help her mom buy a house (!), and she and her brother still talk about her as the "failed beta"? I wish she could see that talent doesn't always come in the form of good grades or achievements like that. Sometimes just your personality and your ability to NOT conform to these standards of success could be talent in and of itself. For example, the fun in her piano streams is because of her interest and how she's having fun with her instrument. Nobody cares that she doesn't have a music degree from some esteemed university. Hope this conversation helped her in understanding this.
@pivos111
@pivos111 4 жыл бұрын
And now Michael Reeves comes with the big boi emotional support so he upgraded to boyfriend material.
@liamnoakes511
@liamnoakes511 4 жыл бұрын
pivos111 yes.
@lancehitt0548
@lancehitt0548 4 жыл бұрын
And then upgraded again to best boyfriend
@Thewlieee
@Thewlieee 4 жыл бұрын
The best boi❤️
@cereall9457
@cereall9457 4 жыл бұрын
Michael has been working it up the ranks since the start, in a fedmyster vlog around 10 months ago he let lily win an arm wrestle, but later crushed Albert within seconds. He predicted the future and was protecting his queen gracefully, before she even knew she was in danger. To the simp king, I bow.
@akshhat
@akshhat 4 жыл бұрын
@@cereall9457 which vlog was it? I'm curious
@supermonkeyyyyyy
@supermonkeyyyyyy 4 жыл бұрын
Damn I saw it on stream and even though the doctor tries to stay neutral and didn't know her before you can tell he is touched by Lily's genuine kindness and really wants to help her.
@coop.r
@coop.r 4 жыл бұрын
supermonkeyyyyyy yeah you can tell he really wanted to help her because he was saying at the beginning of the stream “At the end of the hour” but then the whole thing ended up going on for like 2 hours and 30 mins.
@mm-dh2bs
@mm-dh2bs 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah you can cleary feel that when he trashtalks the haters and says he's being protective of her. I think that's genuinely really cute and great to see on Twitch.
@leonbishop7404
@leonbishop7404 4 жыл бұрын
i mean thats the best thing he can do to promote himself
@fliown5413
@fliown5413 4 жыл бұрын
@@leonbishop7404 are you hurt ?
@leonbishop7404
@leonbishop7404 4 жыл бұрын
@@fliown5413 what? This is true and there is nothing wrong with it
@begyourpardon3224
@begyourpardon3224 4 жыл бұрын
How could anyone hurt this beautiful human being? She’s such a strong woman..
@ryangil4435
@ryangil4435 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not even 5 minutes in and I'm already crying along with Lily. She goes through so much but still puts on a smile and entertains and literally works to make us smile. God bless this woman honestly.
@ryangil4435
@ryangil4435 3 жыл бұрын
Also HE CALLED OUT FED SO HARD AND DIDNT EVEN KNOW IT
@jammie7822
@jammie7822 4 жыл бұрын
"You're trying to take care of yourself as if you're a normal person, but you're not a normal person. You're just too full of love." 😢😢 Damn dude you didnt have to make me cry in front of my salad
@drosnelochmir6346
@drosnelochmir6346 4 жыл бұрын
Salad cries with you
@areziellacson5420
@areziellacson5420 3 жыл бұрын
hahahha
@watermalone5782
@watermalone5782 3 жыл бұрын
@@drosnelochmir6346 the sauces just drip down the plate
@mellodiyas
@mellodiyas 3 жыл бұрын
Time stamp?
@Borderlynx
@Borderlynx 3 жыл бұрын
@@mellodiyas 1:34:15 or so
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 жыл бұрын
Roses are red, Violets are blue, When lily's tears drop, Mine did too
@gameplaydesigner7329
@gameplaydesigner7329 4 жыл бұрын
kuro blacko does instead of did works better
@atilaluthfi411
@atilaluthfi411 4 жыл бұрын
its fucking sad bro
@ilonteri
@ilonteri 4 жыл бұрын
Simp
@fluffyelino6707
@fluffyelino6707 4 жыл бұрын
Simppppp
@kuroryu1638
@kuroryu1638 4 жыл бұрын
@@fluffyelino6707 real mature
@VIHXS_
@VIHXS_ 4 жыл бұрын
Dr.K is literally a blessing on Twitch. I’m glad he came and did this with reckful and now seeing him helping and hearing out other streamers is amazing to see. Props to him
@norwegiannignog2470
@norwegiannignog2470 4 жыл бұрын
Get tyler1 on here and ask why hes so alpha
@Yumi9426
@Yumi9426 4 жыл бұрын
When my boyfriend cheated on me I wanted the world to know and hate on him. Lily is just so kind to feel bad for someone that hurt her I admire her so much
@kylelilley4814
@kylelilley4814 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone copes differently in the face of emotional trauma
@XiaoOoGwei
@XiaoOoGwei 4 жыл бұрын
incredibly kind, almost too kind. How can she blame herself for someone else cheating on her? Apparently Albert said the reason he cheated was because he wasn't happy. Like a cheater will ever say, because I'm greedy. Failure of a relationship can be blamed on two people; but the decision to cheat is ALL on the cheater.
@scsi2707
@scsi2707 4 жыл бұрын
When I got cheated on, I felt the same but I got hated for absolutely no reason at all. Some people don’t deserve so much hate but some who cheat for the sake of it deserve hatred.
@gracealicemarie877
@gracealicemarie877 4 жыл бұрын
Ok I understand nobody really cares but I need to say it. My ex boyfriend and I went to a dance and in that weekend he broke up with me over text. I never really found out but I'm pretty sure he was cheating on me with one of my friends and then was trying to dumb that friend and try to go for my best friend. That day was not fun because I was already dealing with so much crap. I'm so glad my best friend was there for me when it happened, I love her so much.
@scsi2707
@scsi2707 4 жыл бұрын
Alice_Wolf _Gacha Only douches don’t care. I care, I understand your problems. I got cheated on for my good friend and they got cheated on for my other friend.
@jeffrey3826
@jeffrey3826 4 жыл бұрын
when he started talking about "how people come back to the shitty restaurant because of the food" everything added up and i saw how every single one of his arguments had a meaning to it. I know this is his job but it's really cool to see and super hard to describe. Mad respect for you and lily
@AquilaPainWhy
@AquilaPainWhy 4 жыл бұрын
can you elaborate on what this means please?
@Michael-op1lj
@Michael-op1lj 4 жыл бұрын
​@@AquilaPainWhy I'm not 100% sure but I think @Quadril is referring to the way Dr K's observations are trying to make Lily realise how great she is, she is the "food" in a restaurant, even when she thinks that on the outside she is ugly, not deserving of her fame or her fans who always tune in to watch her. Dr K is saying that she has value in herself and her actual personality and what she does. He wants her to see that no matter what her outward presentation is (like the service at a restaurant), that the real reason people are there is for her and that what she does and who she is - what she does has value and helps people. For the first hour or so they have been discussing the ways that her sense of worth has suffered, related to her childhood [and her breakup which gave her attention on the internet also lead to her having more fans which she feels undeserving of, because in some way those people "showed up" due to her breakup; but actually 99% of her fans like her for her] Dr K is trying to make her see that "Lily 2" who is the part of her that is afraid of being a disappointment/doesn't feel she deserves her fame, that she should accept and reassure that part of herself and believe in her value - as she would reassure a fellow streamer in her shoes.
@dblanque
@dblanque 3 жыл бұрын
I just rewatched the entire interview for 1:23:30 and Dr. K's ascension to a higher plane.
@ahobby
@ahobby 3 жыл бұрын
We all have moments like that :) Still, I laughed. Because it's relatable :D
@endokenji94
@endokenji94 2 жыл бұрын
I rewatched that bit ten times and still don't understand what happened
@JanJanNik
@JanJanNik 4 жыл бұрын
that moment when the doctor whipped out the thick indian accent :D
@joshua_hero19hero22
@joshua_hero19hero22 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@falafel420
@falafel420 3 жыл бұрын
timestamp pls
@ElsjeMay
@ElsjeMay 3 жыл бұрын
1:24:10 Sorry if this doesn't automatically change to a timestamp. I'm a long time lurker.
@jimhalpert9803
@jimhalpert9803 3 жыл бұрын
LMFAO
@CarlsCozyCorner
@CarlsCozyCorner 3 жыл бұрын
He is a native indian, no?
@void3793
@void3793 4 жыл бұрын
I hate the way she thinks but you can't blame her for it. You can't blame someone for their mindset. But its really frustrating to see someone think like that. She blames herself for HIM not telling her his feelings and HIM cheating, damn that makes me angry.
@jameswest2875
@jameswest2875 4 жыл бұрын
Simp
@GxmeyMusic
@GxmeyMusic 4 жыл бұрын
@@jameswest2875 beta
@isaiah8047
@isaiah8047 4 жыл бұрын
@@jameswest2875 Claps all around boys! He said THE word!
@wallr54
@wallr54 4 жыл бұрын
Theres a lot of people that think that way. The downside of critically thinking too much about yourself is you begin to think that everything is your fault and on your shoulders. Ive been lucky enough to never be cheated on but every relationship thats ended in my life i think what I could’ve done better. Always without out a doubt is has to be my fault because if its not then i cant do anything to improve. I know how unhealthy it is and i can see that in people like lily but its been a struggle to come to terms with how i feel. I really felt lilys words about not feeling good enough and feeling lucky in life.
@Cuhsidy
@Cuhsidy 4 жыл бұрын
simp
@Vther
@Vther 4 жыл бұрын
"some of your colleagues are different in terms of their degree of empath and sociopathy" 100% toast
@YoXeV
@YoXeV 4 жыл бұрын
Are you saying that Toast is a sociopath?
@benjaminchristensen1646
@benjaminchristensen1646 4 жыл бұрын
@@YoXeV That he probably rates high on the sociopathy scale
@ciello1195
@ciello1195 4 жыл бұрын
Like they said in one of the offline "offline" podcast, it's the effort that matters. It's obvious to them that Toast does not necessarily like constant social interactions, but he also will not shy away from asking whether the other person wants to have company, and consider staying despite he doesn't necessarily want to.
@na3rial
@na3rial 4 жыл бұрын
I think Toast likely has the highest degree of empathy and sociopathy than most of OTV. His persona is an aloof, big brain character that doesn't give a shit, but he's really good at reading a room and a conversation. He wouldn't be able to navigate that persona otherwise without constantly making off-hand comments that could be seen as rather distasteful, like Fed tends to do.
@Goophy7
@Goophy7 4 жыл бұрын
I would add Poki to his point.
@bananapie9211
@bananapie9211 3 жыл бұрын
this is like a really nice dad cheering up their daughter yk when he’s like Dr K: “ *talk for who??* “ lily: “ *flustered sputtering* “
@DaneDLyon
@DaneDLyon 4 жыл бұрын
if lilypichu cries, I cry. I dont make the rules im sorry
@halfancdhalf3376
@halfancdhalf3376 4 жыл бұрын
why tho? just why?
@mar8408
@mar8408 3 жыл бұрын
@@halfancdhalf3376 ive been folowing otv for like a month now, but i feel a very deep conection with lily, we had kinda the same issues with self steem and depression, so its like seeing a friend of mine cry.
@shayanriaz6588
@shayanriaz6588 3 жыл бұрын
Same I am watching 05/01/2021 Tuesday 7:17pm I am crying and also I cry watching Albert one as well
@kuyaklyne
@kuyaklyne 3 жыл бұрын
You know the rules, and so do I.
@wabbasMEpern
@wabbasMEpern 3 жыл бұрын
cringe simp
@YoshiKatherine
@YoshiKatherine 4 жыл бұрын
She's griefing for her relationship, the future she imagined of that relationship. She not only lost her boyfriend, but her best friend. The person she thought got her completely. The one she thought had her back. Being cheated on, when in a long term relationship after 2-3 years no cheating no problems is hard. Even worst if they are part of your friendship group. I went throught this quite young, when I was 18-20 years old. I was at university and seperated from my SO. So it was a lot easier to distract. But he was 100% part of her life. In her videos, future trips. Thats fucking horrible. I feel for Lily
@ushjaba1067
@ushjaba1067 4 жыл бұрын
YoshiKatherine and the facts she already in a new relationship. Apparently she’s dating Micheal reeves now
@moki9079
@moki9079 4 жыл бұрын
If you look at her with Michael Reeves, you can tell shes super happy!! I admire Lily for being mature and leaving that past behind her. She’s looking forward.
@sophiayamagughi
@sophiayamagughi 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Man, but for us fans, it really is sad to see. I saw lily and albert irl in may 2019 when they came to seattle and she looked so happy. Smh
@danielhewson4132
@danielhewson4132 4 жыл бұрын
margobyun Michael is super affectionate towards her and let’s her be around him as much as she wants. He embraces her hugs openly and she can pour her love onto him. Albert barely let her hug him and he would collaborate with girls while she was gone. All her friends knew Albert was no good.
@juanpunchman5484
@juanpunchman5484 4 жыл бұрын
@@ushjaba1067 To be fair If I was Lily I'd tap Micheal.
@unexpectedcolors5068
@unexpectedcolors5068 4 жыл бұрын
Holy crap. 3 minutes in, and the amount of intuition this man used to in the moment he asked Lilly to explain to the audience the topic was BRILLIANT to see. 1) Was looking to get a base line of how comfortable she. 2) Saw she was, not at ALL comfortable, and that pushing to hard here was a bad idea. 3) Took a step back to talk about a more positive topic; Sleep. (Which, if you've ever done any research on sleep would be really obvious that this was a really good topic in which you could segway into a PLETHORA of deeper topics) 4) Very, very good balance of asking for specific/tangible answers and making her dig a little deeper for them. And this was in the first 3 minutes... SUPER sensitive with the person he's conversing with.
@aurimasturkus289
@aurimasturkus289 4 жыл бұрын
well, he's from Harvard. No wonder he is smart
@aurimasturkus289
@aurimasturkus289 4 жыл бұрын
@illogicalrelish born and raised
@thomaskhan5021
@thomaskhan5021 4 жыл бұрын
@@aurimasturkus289 In Harvard born and raised In the lecture hall is where I spent most of my days
@psy__guy__9884
@psy__guy__9884 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a doctral clinical psychology student and I can tell you that this guy is the real deal. He has such an incredible way of building a therapeutic alliance with streamers. He makes it seem so effortless. I hope I can be half the clinician he is one day
@danielchun8420
@danielchun8420 4 жыл бұрын
@@psy__guy__9884 Hey man I hope that you can get there one day. The world needs more people like you and Dr.K to help us through our struggles. Thanks for your efforts! :)
@markinutt4016
@markinutt4016 4 жыл бұрын
"What happens when you try to sleep?" Lily: NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE NIGHTMARE
@mapotofu1841
@mapotofu1841 3 жыл бұрын
1:07:29 "You can't keep up an act that long" just reminds me of those delusional haters who've somehow convinced themselves that Lily's voice is an act that she's somehow managed to keep up for so long
@danielhe9131
@danielhe9131 4 жыл бұрын
“Nothing inspires hate as much as seeing the person that you could be.” - Dr. K 2020
@nabeelfarooq3573
@nabeelfarooq3573 3 жыл бұрын
1 year exactly and this is my first time watching the video and it really shows a more detailed lily
@aarond9563
@aarond9563 4 жыл бұрын
Do I recommend public therapy sessions? Probably not. Am I still watching this? Yes. Will I watch the whole thing at some point? Probably. Am I a hypocrite? Yes.
@kohr3661
@kohr3661 4 жыл бұрын
Aaron D its okay my friend, you do you
@greedisbad9890
@greedisbad9890 4 жыл бұрын
Public therapy session is good for others that doesn't have the courage to talk about what they been through
@wafflejam9015
@wafflejam9015 4 жыл бұрын
Arent we all
@zeekawesomecus917
@zeekawesomecus917 4 жыл бұрын
Remember, its just her and Dr.K talking... and thousands of people just happen to be watching.
@bredtimestories
@bredtimestories 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I definitely wouldn't recommend it, but I think if somebody has the courage to do it it can really help people out there who think they're alone in their feelings. I know I always had a hard time with all the therapists that I used to go to, but when I started going to recovery groups for my drinking I found that through hearing others share, it not only made me feel like my thoughts were more normal, it also helped me to feel safe enough to share where others had before :)
@kenhuang1871
@kenhuang1871 4 жыл бұрын
1:54:45 "Living a life of security and comfort is not how you live a fulfilling life" Wow, this hits deep.
@a_stinkyzoe2361
@a_stinkyzoe2361 4 жыл бұрын
honestly watching this back now and seeing how michael treats her it makes me happy that he puts so much effort in....ofc i'm on the outside looking in and i never knew albert well at all or any of these content creators but just seeing how much pain she was in here compared to now just makes me so happy to see her happy, she deserves the happiness she's getting and i know some pain might still be there, also despite what albert did i hope he's doing ok mentally to and can maybe appreciate things more in the future.
@vlazurah789
@vlazurah789 4 жыл бұрын
The talk about Lily 2 reminded me of Naruto and his struggle with the Waterfall of Truth. Loving the other side of you that is always in pain and accepting this pain, allows you to love yourself completely and become whole.
@OlPalJoe
@OlPalJoe 4 жыл бұрын
Looks like Dr. k is a Weeb lol
@neilghosh3821
@neilghosh3821 4 жыл бұрын
Carl jungs shadow analysis also fits in this no ?
@OlPalJoe
@OlPalJoe 4 жыл бұрын
@@neilghosh3821 *shadow clone
@AXharoth
@AXharoth 4 жыл бұрын
@@neilghosh3821 i dotn think shadow is hating yourself but idk could be
@bl4nk451
@bl4nk451 4 жыл бұрын
WEEBS DansGame
@nukebogdanov2577
@nukebogdanov2577 4 жыл бұрын
Every streamer getting in a public setting to discuss their problems with Dr. K is an absolute baller and has no idea how much they are helping us figure out and process our own problems. I can't imagine myself doing that, but for someone to have the balls to do it it's on a such a high level of courage that it deserves praise!!!! Gj Lily, LS, Reckful and all you other magnificent sons of bitches, thank you for doing your part.
@SparklessBubble
@SparklessBubble 4 жыл бұрын
@@nicholastho4339 Those guys kinda came to mind prima vista, but I've watched all of the talks and I was able to get something out of every interaction on this channel.
@3InchesofLove
@3InchesofLove 4 жыл бұрын
Very thankful for all of this. I’m a marriage and family therapist intern and watching him helps me so much to learn how to ask better questions and what kinds of things he notices
@pwnwin
@pwnwin 4 жыл бұрын
want to like this so bad but its at 666, ugh, Satan why?
@bobbymanny8043
@bobbymanny8043 4 жыл бұрын
I also think it’s important for us to see our favorite streamers/influencers in a more vulnerable (idk if that’s the tight word) light because I think it really helps us relate to them more as a person and it bring them down to our level in an emotional sense.
@zori5503
@zori5503 5 ай бұрын
i honestly want to say to lily that her talking about feelings is my favourite part of her content. thats genuienely one of the only things i watch and it gives me comfort
@honesty1381
@honesty1381 3 жыл бұрын
Lily apologizing for crying and being sad literally breaks my heart bc I love her so much and she doesn’t deserve this pain😭😭🤍
@appleswithpears2667
@appleswithpears2667 4 жыл бұрын
having these on Spotify as a "podcast" would be so great
@tannismitchell1806
@tannismitchell1806 4 жыл бұрын
or sound cloud
@Siphtrex
@Siphtrex 4 жыл бұрын
@@tannismitchell1806 or my space
@piliph05
@piliph05 4 жыл бұрын
Blackorwhite or pornhub... no? Just me? Okay...
@hsmacaraig
@hsmacaraig 4 жыл бұрын
piano tiles?
@brycetaylor9125
@brycetaylor9125 4 жыл бұрын
Apples with pears or Pandora.
@fayne3176
@fayne3176 4 жыл бұрын
Lily's streams are comforting and funny. She honestly has the only stream that can kick all my stress out the door and make me feel so warm inside. I honestly just wish for her to be happy.
@mattygoodtimes8347
@mattygoodtimes8347 4 жыл бұрын
Lily*
@hbuuyi26
@hbuuyi26 4 жыл бұрын
same =)
@jakekay1050
@jakekay1050 4 жыл бұрын
You could say her stream makes you *comfy*???? Hmmmm???? I'm gonna stop, sorry...
@KaisertigerX
@KaisertigerX 4 жыл бұрын
Stay comfy
@nickshadowNL
@nickshadowNL 3 жыл бұрын
1:25:45 "I feel like I'm breaking him, is he okay?" 💀💀💀
@MemesnShet
@MemesnShet 4 жыл бұрын
Hearing someone that’s so cute and adorable cry has like a *x16 sad bonus*
@cryfest
@cryfest 4 жыл бұрын
Lily is MASSIVE CHAD. I would never do this.
@jojofuckingsucks9785
@jojofuckingsucks9785 4 жыл бұрын
simp
@MarcusJohnson98
@MarcusJohnson98 3 жыл бұрын
She’s an amazing person ☺️
@bananapie9211
@bananapie9211 3 жыл бұрын
@Petal lanes chad: brave
@Huntracony
@Huntracony 3 жыл бұрын
@@avrilisraven Oh, come on! It's LilyPichad!
@fungling7982
@fungling7982 3 жыл бұрын
@matchafields chad is pretty much the personification of everything masculine lol
@smam7667
@smam7667 4 жыл бұрын
In 10 years there are going to be psychiatrists who were inspired by Healthygamer.
@MisterL2_yt
@MisterL2_yt 4 жыл бұрын
yeah, no doubt
@kichakra
@kichakra 4 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be psychologist but definetly inspired by Dr.K
@m1rac1e
@m1rac1e 4 жыл бұрын
I'm already inspired I'm going to become a psychiatrist
@smam7667
@smam7667 4 жыл бұрын
@@m1rac1e Thats great! Good luck man hope you achieve that ambition.
@Krish-bx8vb
@Krish-bx8vb 4 жыл бұрын
I just got into medicine this year and I wanna be a psychiatrist too!! I made up my mind a couple years ago but Dr K is definitely inspirational.
@insomnyeon
@insomnyeon 4 жыл бұрын
God, when she started crying I broke, I feel so sorry for her T-T I hope she’s doing a lot better nowadays 😭
@MNoir
@MNoir 4 жыл бұрын
I'm just 16 minutes in but I have to agree so so so much with dr. K when he says people follow Lily exactly because she's a complex human being with feelings. Sometimes watching youtubers that only share the positives of life makes me feel a disconnect & also makes me feel weird and aweful for not always having good days. The world needs more people like Lily who are so honest, so that maybe we can heal eachother a bit
@satan4518
@satan4518 4 жыл бұрын
Man I cried like a baby everytime Lily started crying
@WinkyDinKdink
@WinkyDinKdink 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Satan
@alansaulson
@alansaulson 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@falanfilan5798
@falanfilan5798 4 жыл бұрын
Satan Even Devil cried
@julieqiuli9360
@julieqiuli9360 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you Satan
@largocharles8729
@largocharles8729 4 жыл бұрын
Then youre not a demon after all
@violetplasma4061
@violetplasma4061 4 жыл бұрын
1:32:27 deadass sounded like micheal
@violetplasma4061
@violetplasma4061 4 жыл бұрын
i swear to gawd i think lily thought so too
@nat2057
@nat2057 3 жыл бұрын
I've legit been thinking the same thing, the whole stream through
@essitchi5978
@essitchi5978 3 жыл бұрын
YES EXACTLY UNDERRATED COMMENT
@mrlivingzombie1288
@mrlivingzombie1288 3 жыл бұрын
Yea lol
@andreymontag
@andreymontag 4 жыл бұрын
Inner demons and demons in general will bow before Michael Reeves
@flamius1063
@flamius1063 4 жыл бұрын
"You hellspawn cannot even compare to me. I COME FROM HAWAII, THE LAND OF THE MISSILE WARNINGS, AND MY SCREAMING ROOMBA SHALL CONDEMN YOU TO A THOUSAND YEARS IN THE JAPANESE VENDING MACHINE!"
@justarandomguy1668
@justarandomguy1668 3 жыл бұрын
Много ясно
@Rangar95
@Rangar95 2 жыл бұрын
I stumbled upon this video and I'm only an hour in, but I would like to voice that I am immensely proud of Lily for talking through all of this, just as I am immensely proud of anyone who does their best to communicate their feelings and those who seek help for anything. This also reinforces my opinion that everyone should go talk to a professional (coach/counselor/therapist/etc) even if you don't think anythings wrong, because another person helping you break down your thoughts and reactions can reveal how and why you think the way you do which is immensely helpful especially when such things end up hurting yourself.
@kolbypham7318
@kolbypham7318 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a neuroscience major looking into becoming a psychiatrist and Dr. K just keeps reminding me of the good I can put into the world some day.
@cameroncarley7958
@cameroncarley7958 4 жыл бұрын
I know this is a little late but good for you man
@rockym.g.3827
@rockym.g.3827 4 жыл бұрын
Keep it up bruh
@minamins22
@minamins22 4 жыл бұрын
this is rly late but i'm rooting for you!!
@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862
@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862 4 жыл бұрын
As a fellow vietnamese, I will also do good for the world by fixing teeth :)
@rockym.g.3827
@rockym.g.3827 4 жыл бұрын
@@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862 I am 1/8 vietnamese, that counts too right?
@bloodwolf2609
@bloodwolf2609 4 жыл бұрын
We thought Destiny was the raid boss but he was just fodder, lily is the real endgame. She’s got like 10 phases and 4 different forms, this is gonna be nuts.
@lolmanittakesguts
@lolmanittakesguts 4 жыл бұрын
Blood Wolf2609 dont even try to enter without Tier 2 BiS
@sinki19841984
@sinki19841984 4 жыл бұрын
@@lolmanittakesguts I'm waiting for the how-to video
@wabbasMEpern
@wabbasMEpern 3 жыл бұрын
Destiny abandoned his children to live the online edge lord "debate me bro" life. Complete pseudo-intellectual.
@landlord571
@landlord571 4 жыл бұрын
It’s amazing how you can activate so much emotion just by listening and asking right questions
@MemesnShet
@MemesnShet 4 жыл бұрын
Damn this guy is really good on catching stuff and details on the fly and dissecting,organizing and connecting them
@owenconnaughton7088
@owenconnaughton7088 4 жыл бұрын
Damn, what an amazing quote from Dr. K, “nothing inspires hate like seeing the person you could be”
@blarblablarblar
@blarblablarblar 4 жыл бұрын
a nigga TRUUUUUUUUUU
@ntw3394
@ntw3394 4 жыл бұрын
1:33:00
@gameplaydesigner7329
@gameplaydesigner7329 4 жыл бұрын
She wants to be a cheater
@reduXstereo
@reduXstereo 3 жыл бұрын
It's not an amazing quote. It's just a jumbled version of saying jealousy inspires hate and strife. You shouldn't hate seeing the person you could be. You should learn from it not become hateful from it.
@arraikcruor6407
@arraikcruor6407 3 жыл бұрын
@@reduXstereo he didn't say be hateful, he says that inspires hate. 2 completely different things.
@natenso5291
@natenso5291 4 жыл бұрын
God, I've watched Lily since early 2012, and I've never seen her like this. I'm really glad she felt comfortable enough to truly talk about her emotions and how she feels.
@siegpasta
@siegpasta 4 жыл бұрын
he's just a great psychologist with alot of confidence. that's why.
@orionl7406
@orionl7406 4 жыл бұрын
Natenso i never knew she was an OG streamer PogChamp
@YoXeV
@YoXeV 4 жыл бұрын
is he a real psychologist?
@siegpasta
@siegpasta 4 жыл бұрын
@@YoXeV YES. One from Harvard University.....
@witchsorrowful1918
@witchsorrowful1918 4 жыл бұрын
@@YoXeV He teaches and practices psychology at Harvard Med School.
@joliissa
@joliissa 4 жыл бұрын
Looking back at this, the worst part about their breakup, they didn’t confront anybody until they were caught. Once it started going viral and they finally considered Lily’s feelings, they then decided to do something about it. I’m not saying Albert deserves the hate that he STILL gets, but it just disgusts me that they could’ve continued this relationship if the Japan incident didn’t happen. And don’t even get me started on how Albert handled the situation, his sorry letter was literally a last minute essay. But props to lily for being strong, now she’s in a healthy relationship with my man micheal.😌✌🏾
@bundo1591
@bundo1591 4 жыл бұрын
Michael**
@joliissa
@joliissa 4 жыл бұрын
michael reyes 🤦🏾‍♀️
@bundo1591
@bundo1591 4 жыл бұрын
@@joliissa that's my name bruh LMAO
@mxri2019
@mxri2019 3 жыл бұрын
From someone who's said fucked up and done fucked up things to? my friends. (I am a VERY big sociopath and don't feel any real empathy, I could see someone shoot another person infront of me and not care, so I struggle a LOT with taking things to far and shit) and you don't realize you fucked up untill the "wtfs" come in. You don't realize you've fucked up until you get that hard slap across your face. It probably sounds super weird for people with a lot of empathy, but you don't notice the wounds you inflict until the people bleed out I guess?? That's the way to describe it ig.. idk
@Sagacypher
@Sagacypher 3 жыл бұрын
Lily did say that he talked to her about it when it happened. She said that she didn’t want him to get tons of hate for fucking up his relationship. He clearly felt awful with his mistake. And she also said there was a lot more stuff that went on behind the scenes regarding happiness and communication. So it’s understandable that she’d feel sorry for him even though it wasn’t her fault.
@scoobble3729
@scoobble3729 2 жыл бұрын
It takes so much strength to talk so publicly about your issues, thank you to everyone who goes out of their way to do this.
@Outlier117
@Outlier117 4 жыл бұрын
“Where did you get the presumption that you have to control being sad?” Damn I felt that......
@yuyufool117
@yuyufool117 4 жыл бұрын
Lily is such a sweetheart. Wish her the best.
@bixierin951
@bixierin951 4 жыл бұрын
Lily is literally the sweetest streamer, i]and I love watching her because she’s genuinely so entertaining! I defiantly do feel like she does at times, but it’s more so with friends. When I was depressed I’d stop hanging out with my friends because I never felt as if I deserved them.
@mavodeli
@mavodeli 4 жыл бұрын
The "why do intelligent people tend to get addicted to video games" part was very interesting. It makes sense, but I never really thought of it that way. (2:19:58)
@SoldJesus4Crack
@SoldJesus4Crack 4 жыл бұрын
Mavodeli it might have made sense. nowadays gaming is so common, that it does not reflect what it might once have done. considering that about 80% (pulling numbers out of my ass here, cba to look up the exact percent) of todays generation play some form of videogames, but the IQ, statistically speaking is definitely not increasing.
@him6008
@him6008 4 жыл бұрын
Well for some people it's just a way to cope with the stress of expectations.
@smeliscave
@smeliscave 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting a time stamp
@turquoise7817
@turquoise7817 4 жыл бұрын
wtf that hit hard
@qaiser648
@qaiser648 4 жыл бұрын
468er/ PeaShooter this feels kind of self masturbatory
@Cyboar
@Cyboar 4 жыл бұрын
Lily is like 10 years older than me and all I wanna do is look after her.
@sind32s
@sind32s 4 жыл бұрын
I like how you think, how about you look after yourself.
@notechb0ss2.05
@notechb0ss2.05 4 жыл бұрын
Pholion Agoning I’m not sure how you think cheese galore is anywhere near the level of Pontiff. Pontiff does have a shit ton of cheese moves but for the most part he has a set pattern that he follows almost exact. DSA does his move pattern 50 times then the 51st he suddenly decides he wants to throw in an extra 2 hits just for funzies. He’s a prime example of them just adding cheese to uphold the reputation of the game being hard.
@melancholicpineapple9761
@melancholicpineapple9761 4 жыл бұрын
notechb0ss2.0 wh
@RunOverHomeless
@RunOverHomeless 4 жыл бұрын
Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin doin your mom doin doin your mom You know we straight with doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin doin your mom doin doin your mom You know we straight with doin your mom I'm doin your mom. Yes yours! I first saw her in the Wal-Mart pickin out your drawers. Big Dolly Parton hair like an 80s prom queen But her ass was lookin good all up in those mom-jeans. I approached her in the checkout line, and said yo baby wassup? She had two gallons of milk, and I was starin at her jugs. Five minutes later she agreed to get with me So we went and rocked the minivan like Giggity. Giggity. Giggity. I was ridin your mom like she was Mario Kart. I gave her a lift back to her crib cause her car wouldn't start. She invited me in the house, and we started makin out again. How many times I tap that ass? OVER 9000! Yeah. She called me Pledge cause I knocked the dust off it. She later made me a sandwich and she cut the crust off it. Cause she knows how I like it, and that I'm a little young To be in the bed, butt-naked doin your mom. Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin doin your mom doin doin your mom You know we straight with doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin doin your mom doin doin your mom You know we straight with doin your mom I like your mamas big butt, and I cannot lie. You other brothers can't deny that she's fly. We make sexy time, yes and every night I tap that. She saw me butt-naked, now she thinks I'm half black. But your moms the best, the super M.I.L.F. Cause she loves to toss the salad even though she ain't a chef And I blame it on the al-al-al-cohol But If I were you, I wouldn't kiss your mom on the mouth at all. She likes the Donkey-Punch. She likes the Dirty Sanchez. Sometimes she even likes to fool around in your bed. She likes rough sex with handcuffs and I'll be honest She likes me to Chris Brown her when she acts like Rihanna. She's so therapeutic. When I need to cure my restlessness I br-br-br-br-br-br-br-br motorboat your moms breastestess. I didn't wanna tell you, but I had to write this song Cause I'm in your house every night doin your mo-om. Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin doin your mom doin doin your mom You know we straight with doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin doin your mom doin doin your mom You know we straight with doin your mom I'm havin sex with your mother That makes me better than you. I'm havin sex with your mother That makes me better than you. Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin doin your mom doin doin your mom You know we straight with doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin your mom doin doin your mom Doin doin your mom doin doin your mom You know we straight with doin your mom
@syntax5696
@syntax5696 4 жыл бұрын
@@RunOverHomeless same
@rggiii5089
@rggiii5089 2 жыл бұрын
I'm just so glad that it's been 2 years since this interview and I think that Lily is doing so much better now. ♥
@AyanamiRei5kyu
@AyanamiRei5kyu 4 жыл бұрын
i can see how lily has those self critical thoughts of herself because it's a similar pattern (for me too) but i think a person has to be amazingly strong to persist through all the harshness people have been throwing at her and still keep going.... and have great goodness in their hearts to wish someone the best and wish no harm upon them even if that someone slashed open your heart and left it to bleed.... like i don't know HOW she does it... i was angry on her behalf and wanted albert to pay but her mindset really made me accept that yes, he might be majorly flawed, but in the end he didn't deserve what he got... as long as he really regrets and understands what he did to her and other people who put their faith in him and learn from that and become a better person, i wish him well
@boop9812
@boop9812 4 жыл бұрын
The more i think about it michael reeves is just lily's emotional support dog
@Kaliospectre
@Kaliospectre 4 жыл бұрын
That on occasion, is also utilized to create content for her, which she repays by allowing Michael to taze her.
@hyon2441
@hyon2441 4 жыл бұрын
jokes aside, i hope there is someone who helps her cope. if it was michael, great. all shippings and pairs aside, i hope she gets through this with his help and her friends'.
@saiinnhtongkham306
@saiinnhtongkham306 4 жыл бұрын
Temmie better lookout then lmao
@anthonygonzalez9268
@anthonygonzalez9268 4 жыл бұрын
Ffr
@u_idiotkid425
@u_idiotkid425 4 жыл бұрын
LMAO KINDA TRUE
@mooncide_
@mooncide_ 4 жыл бұрын
im so glad lily talked to this guy. you can tell by the end of this how much he seemed to watch over her and be protective of her. im so damn glad she had someone to finally allow her the space to have these deeper discussions and let out all her sorrows. ive always been interested in lily's opinions on stuff. she really is someone i relate too especially when it comes to being an empath and stuff like that. i really want lily to be so happy she really is one of the more sincere and loving people ive ever seen like it blows my mind.
@edwardseverinsen5598
@edwardseverinsen5598 4 жыл бұрын
1:12:35 Wiping his eyes, I respect that. He cares and it genuinely upsets him that she doesn't see her own value. I think that's fucking awesome.
@NachoPerez03
@NachoPerez03 Ай бұрын
Gotta leave a comment. Dr K., your videos are like free therapy sessions; they give me so much insight on what could've caused my brain to treat me so negatively, and help me unlock memories I had completely covered up (past traumas i suppose) which, I feel, are bringing me closer to the true origin of my negative mentality. Thank you so much, take care. And lots of love to the community, we're getting better step by step!
@almatsailaukhan9181
@almatsailaukhan9181 4 жыл бұрын
if i have to become a full time streamer for an interview with this man... * buys gaming chair * then so be it
@kjellandrejuklerd6659
@kjellandrejuklerd6659 4 жыл бұрын
What Lily proves here is that she is a genuine nice person
@fartsmella44
@fartsmella44 4 жыл бұрын
@@igorrotar5341 what
@pyxylation
@pyxylation 4 жыл бұрын
@@fartsmella44 yeah, isn't everyone somewhere in between?
@DaNoVaz1805
@DaNoVaz1805 4 жыл бұрын
@@igorrotar5341 are you ok? lol
@-Shiino
@-Shiino 4 жыл бұрын
@@igorrotar5341 bro who hurt you?
@mattiloponen92
@mattiloponen92 4 жыл бұрын
@@igorrotar5341 You need help. Call doctor GG now.
@vincentmarmolejo8647
@vincentmarmolejo8647 4 жыл бұрын
Watching this video was so painful. Not that it’s bad! I love that Lily was willing to talk. I’m just a major empath so seeing her cry makes me cry just about as hard as she does.
@TaisharEnder
@TaisharEnder 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Just wow. I watched Michael's interview first, then came here. I'm a super introspective person, and I enjoy watching the content these people put out. I feel like I learned so much through the two conversations. The Michael conversation hit so many psychological resonance points for me and this conversation with Lily really nailed some emotional resonance points for me.
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