Dr K talks to a PROUD Trump Supporter with David Pakman

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@HealthyGamerGG
@HealthyGamerGG 2 жыл бұрын
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@tomshariat4167
@tomshariat4167 2 жыл бұрын
Hehe
@were2baby134
@were2baby134 2 жыл бұрын
You can't fight fire with water when they are using napalm. Most of us Gen Xers had to raise ourselves so we set our own rules. I could help you understand our Generation, you still don't really get it. We did NOT have an EASY LIFE in the 80s at all.. BTW fellow Texan here!
@TheMindaeva
@TheMindaeva 2 жыл бұрын
If you wanted to have an unbiased discussion to understand the other side, why did you pull a pair of dumbass children from the street obsessed with tribal politics? If anything this misrepresents people's views
@BCzepa
@BCzepa 2 жыл бұрын
ADVICE FOR DR K: just at the start of the interview and its a little disorienting to hear notification sounds for discord as i only have them on for PM's. please turn of all notification sounds when doing a stream. thanks.
@taytayshaniqua.8686
@taytayshaniqua.8686 2 жыл бұрын
What is Jimmy’s KZfaq channel called?
@Acoto
@Acoto 2 жыл бұрын
Dr K impresses the heck out of me here. He's actually listening and questioning and prodding both both parties, while managing to do it all respectfully and firmly. It's a lost art on youtube and in media.
@reaganeidemiller7132
@reaganeidemiller7132 2 жыл бұрын
He's pretty disconnected from it tbh; Jimmy focuses a lot on trans and gay people, which is easy for him to shrug off as he is neither (at least publicly, which still makes it easier even then). For my part though, I would not sit idly by and be made a joke by a balding old man with lungs like an old paper bag. It isn't the job of minorities to put up with that, so it's good these two are the ones dealing with it instead.
@Acoto
@Acoto 2 жыл бұрын
​@@reaganeidemiller7132 You're thinking about it too combatively. In my opinion there is no "job of minorities", we just made that idea up, as there is also no "job of the majority", because everybody is a minority or majority based on the set of characteristics you define. For example, a "balding old man with lungs like an old paper bag" from Philly as you wrote makes him a minority compared to the entire US if your criteria are those characteristics. The solution then is to approach people as individuals, challenge their ideas with other ones respectfully, and both give and take suggestions for everyone to consider.
@reaganeidemiller7132
@reaganeidemiller7132 2 жыл бұрын
@@Acoto it isn't our job to deal with somebody that thinks of us as a joke; we don't owe him that kind of respect.
@Acoto
@Acoto 2 жыл бұрын
@@reaganeidemiller7132 I agree that respect is earned. However, do you believe he owes you any kind of respect? I'd argue that no one owes another respect, it can only be given freely. If you don't have to respect him and he doesn't have to respect you, the only option is conflict unless someone opens dialogue with the intention of sharing and debating ideas. So what outcome do you want, to try to understand and be understood, or to fight?
@reaganeidemiller7132
@reaganeidemiller7132 2 жыл бұрын
@@Acoto He doesn't respect my existence, I don't respect his actions. I have every right to demand he respect my existence. There are different levels of respect; I don't respect choices of his, he doesn't respect who I innately am.
@thepinkestmoon
@thepinkestmoon 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like David was seeing him as a project but Dr K. was seeing him as a person
@yuppy5956
@yuppy5956 2 жыл бұрын
David Egotripman
@shaggyd00kale58
@shaggyd00kale58 2 жыл бұрын
The big problem with ppl on politics they always see the other side as "something to be fixed"
@trybunt
@trybunt 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think that David has that problem a lot. He has an interesting way of thinking about things, but seemingly struggles with empathising with people he disagrees with. Even people with harmful or hateful beliefs deserve the simple respect of being treated like a human being. They don't choose their beliefs any more than anyone else.
@knightofjustice5475
@knightofjustice5475 2 жыл бұрын
That's a lot of these leftie commentator types. A lot of them are far worse than the people they shit on.
@ethanstump
@ethanstump 2 жыл бұрын
@@knightofjustice5475 citation needed. in all serousness though, i have met ton's of nice and kind people who happen to be conservative, and absolutely despicable people who happen to be conservative. like wise for liberals, and likewise for progressives. trying to moralize politics, doesn't really work, aside from making you look like a hack and a shill.
@xcelestialdemon8245
@xcelestialdemon8245 9 ай бұрын
All things aside, this guy could 100% be a voice actor.
@Holden2Epic
@Holden2Epic 8 ай бұрын
for real
@Alianger
@Alianger 8 ай бұрын
In roger rabbit 2
@HereTakeAFlower
@HereTakeAFlower 8 ай бұрын
Maga version of Gilbert Gottfried
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 8 ай бұрын
Find me some work
@xcelestialdemon8245
@xcelestialdemon8245 8 ай бұрын
​@@JimmyfromPhilly1you can work these balls into your mouth
@funnyperson4016
@funnyperson4016 5 ай бұрын
The secret therapy here is in getting David Parkman to empathize with someone he disagrees with.
@alibabaschultz352
@alibabaschultz352 2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@davidpoole409
@davidpoole409 2 ай бұрын
Hahahahaha that is right, David is one of the most frustrating SOB I have ever seen
@AQS521
@AQS521 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, the guy's a weenie.
@LeanFuture
@LeanFuture 2 ай бұрын
I was thinking that too. It was probably very informative for Pakman, who probably hasn’t met a lot of guys like this in his life. Or it seems that way at least.
@ChaoticNeutralMatt
@ChaoticNeutralMatt Ай бұрын
​@@LeanFutureI get that on a personal level. Definitely haven't genuinely gone deep with very many people.
@PlatinumWoW
@PlatinumWoW 2 жыл бұрын
This is easily going in the top 5 HealthyGamer interviews
@DraknalTV
@DraknalTV 2 жыл бұрын
Love that you appeared in this comment section lmao
@bagfootbandit8745
@bagfootbandit8745 2 жыл бұрын
The first ten minutes alone are gold
@eriksalholm
@eriksalholm 2 жыл бұрын
This blew my mind.
@sneakers_guy5488
@sneakers_guy5488 2 жыл бұрын
100%
@josephcoon5809
@josephcoon5809 2 жыл бұрын
Two elitists psychoanalyzing a guy who likes to laugh at everything. Grade A stuff 😂
@CanadianPrepper
@CanadianPrepper 2 жыл бұрын
The irony is that Dave is there to make fun of this guy, but you were able to actually put political bias aside and do some real active listening to give people perspective on this guys survival strategies (as questionable as they may be) everyone is just trying to survive in the best way they know how, that doesn't mean its the best way.
@AndersLiljeblad
@AndersLiljeblad 2 жыл бұрын
Facts. This is a horrible look for "progressive" David.
@SaurianSavior
@SaurianSavior 2 жыл бұрын
The point is to be less judgemental, and David took the opportunity. I think all of us should be less so. The only person you should try to be better than is yourself.
@franklinnartz1381
@franklinnartz1381 2 жыл бұрын
@@lilithdvs13 "all liberals ever do is judge tho. I don’t see how any liberal can stop being judgmental as long as they stick to those fucked up, prejudiced beliefs." I do hope you see the irony in this.
@fuckusingfullname
@fuckusingfullname 2 жыл бұрын
>canadian
@sallybrookner4158
@sallybrookner4158 2 жыл бұрын
@@franklinnartz1381 what’s an example of one of those “prejudiced beliefs”?
@MDW001
@MDW001 8 ай бұрын
I love the cohesion at 55:22 with Jimmy blowing smoke into the top right and Dr. K starting to cough
@anth2344
@anth2344 4 ай бұрын
Lmao
@kevinjacob2652
@kevinjacob2652 4 ай бұрын
empathy coughing is funny af
@alzgrex5304
@alzgrex5304 3 ай бұрын
Haha that was even better than I expected 😂
@1PoodleKing1
@1PoodleKing1 2 ай бұрын
This was a master class on talking to people we disagree with. David's introduction completely closed me off to Jimmy and by the end of Dr. K's discussion with him I almost wanted him to be my neighbour. If 10% of us approached each other this way, half our societal problems would evaporate.
@understanding.everything
@understanding.everything 26 күн бұрын
Check Vivek ramaswamy
@beenfweago8966
@beenfweago8966 2 жыл бұрын
No one thought this was staged, David.
@OmegaF77
@OmegaF77 2 жыл бұрын
He wished it was so he projected. Because Jimmy turned out to be a wise but whimsical person, and David Pakman just made himself look like an ass.
@aestos8673
@aestos8673 2 жыл бұрын
@@OmegaF77 David's introduction was a shit show and I am willing to bet he regrets it. By the end of the show it seemed as though they were two people from vastly different walks of life able to just have a talk. But Jimmy comes across as wise and whimsical because he was able to have a conversation with someone that he did not see as an adversary and that person brought the best out of him through extremely careful and paced dialogue. It also seems like he does not necessarily offer the best of himself to those he sees as adversaries with making fun of gay and trans and calling people the n-word as he openly admitted. Feels like both have room to grow and that over time both have grown from their now years old relationship. With that said, the fact that you could watch this in it's entirety and pick one person to be a good guy and one to be a bad guy speaks more about you and how you view everything. David only arranged this conversation because it seemed like it could be positive for everyone involved and maybe shed some light for both sides on why people feel the need to chose a side and stick with it even when it is imperfect. But hey, I'm just a dude on the internet that hopes everyone will put away the swords one day and realize that no matter how you feel politically we are all just people trying to get by.
@centran
@centran 2 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of people think this is staged. I'm not a therapist so maybe I don't realize it happens a lot but how often do mental health and personality traits boil down to one specific root cause. Things aren't like the movie or TV shows where you can point to one specific thing for cause and effect. These types of things can be very nuanced and build on top of each other. I could be wrong about Jimmy but it seems like a lot of how he acts can be attributed to a very direct, precise, past life event. I don't believe, for most people, it's that simple. So when things line up almost perfectly it seems suspicious.
@Yojimbo711
@Yojimbo711 2 жыл бұрын
Dude, the viewership of David's show must probably consist more of type of people that would think this is staged, u gotta understand that Dr K's show attracts a certain audience and David's a different one, so reserve judgement for him for saying this if you will. He surely had a strong reason to do so.
@Keqing420
@Keqing420 2 жыл бұрын
Never watched David's show, but people probably thought it was fake to get views or some shit on his show
@guppybass
@guppybass 2 жыл бұрын
I thought it was weird when david opened Jimmys intro with his entire crime history. love how dr.k lowkey calls him out on it to start the interview.
@Borrelaas
@Borrelaas 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, David fakes compassion for this guy
@borpie
@borpie 2 жыл бұрын
This is David 'Dpak' Pakman slander...
@jleif7736
@jleif7736 2 жыл бұрын
David is a political grifter, there are many like him. On both sides.
@jleif7736
@jleif7736 2 жыл бұрын
@Zurg How is he a grifter?
@jascu4251
@jascu4251 2 жыл бұрын
@jmalcolmg123 I was definitely more than disappointed in Pakman on his stance over Bolivia, but I'm wary about throwing the baby out with the bathwater here. I certainly haven't seen too much wrong with his stance on domestic issues While he has gone down in my estimation due to Bolivia, one issue in and of itself isnt enough for me to write him off just yet
@YungStinkyWinky
@YungStinkyWinky 10 ай бұрын
I think the most hilarious thing about this (very enlightening and fascinating interview!) is how Dr. K was very cordial, very professional, very open, and I think really helped Jimmy and planted some seeds of growth, but once the interview ends, Dr. K just goes "what was THAAAAT😂😂😂" and is just bemused by the whole thing. The therapist, and then the human
@sammarks9146
@sammarks9146 8 ай бұрын
I think that's a real sign of maturity for anyone - to be able to hear things that make you go "???????", but to hold composure and have curiosity to know more.
@silvervixen007
@silvervixen007 8 ай бұрын
Yeah, this is why we need professionals, not just some random person moderator.
@Alianger
@Alianger 8 ай бұрын
Yeah thats extremely unprofessional behavior (acting like that afterwards, since everyone can see it anyway)
@deeb6270
@deeb6270 7 ай бұрын
@@Aliangeragreed. Very unprofessional.
@ExecutionMods
@ExecutionMods 7 ай бұрын
​@@Alianger How do you expect him to act afterward? The guy is simultaneously arrogant and ignorant. On top of that, you can't be radiating hatred and expect people to not be reactive at all. Therapists are human too.
@jackdaniels9133
@jackdaniels9133 2 ай бұрын
This guy is a text book case of growing up with a severe case of adhd in an environment that didn't know how to deal with it.
@venassis7749
@venassis7749 2 жыл бұрын
This is a masterclass in communication.
@DeePaignall
@DeePaignall 2 жыл бұрын
Jimmy is fascinating, which helps.
@zachemorgan
@zachemorgan 2 жыл бұрын
Jimmy makes some really great points. I also hate david packman sitting there almost laughing the entire time.
@venassis7749
@venassis7749 2 жыл бұрын
@@zachemorgan I don't know anything about David Packman. His relationship with Jimmy is strange.
@zachemorgan
@zachemorgan 2 жыл бұрын
@@venassis7749 I think so to he's a very left wing political commentator on KZfaq I watched one show of his to try and see what he was about but it was so far left that it felt more like propaganda than news. I'm a Tim Pool guy myself.
@zachemorgan
@zachemorgan 2 жыл бұрын
@@Darkdevil1584 cause hes left wing how does no one understand this.
@aarontours
@aarontours Жыл бұрын
This is couple's therapy between Jimmy and Dave.
@wesley3300
@wesley3300 10 ай бұрын
Underrated comment lol
@patientboi
@patientboi 9 ай бұрын
@@wesley3300 truxu
@elmejorjugadordefornaik
@elmejorjugadordefornaik 9 ай бұрын
THAT DAVID GUY GOT SO HUMILLIATED HE COULDNT EVEN SPEAK FOR LIKE HALF AN HOUR LMAOOO HAHAHHAHA
@user-wg2vw3mz1v
@user-wg2vw3mz1v 7 ай бұрын
Yo! 😂
@smartsmartie7142
@smartsmartie7142 5 ай бұрын
Dave isn't on the same level as Jimmy, I think a relationship wouldn't work, even though Dave probably doesn't have a hairy a**
@frostbite3820
@frostbite3820 10 ай бұрын
Someone cast Jimmy in the next mafia boss roll. He has the perfect voice for it, plus the smoking and the language he uses, it all fits perfectly
@Majelvey
@Majelvey 9 ай бұрын
This shit was intense. Never seen someone chain smoke and do whippets during a therapy session, haha. I do feel for Jimmy though. I hope he is doing better now and I wish him all the best.
@timothyrades9831
@timothyrades9831 7 ай бұрын
I was wondering what that sounds was, lol
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 5 ай бұрын
Thanks,I'm sober from everything now for 8 months
@aunderiskerensky2304
@aunderiskerensky2304 3 ай бұрын
i was wondering what the black screen/noise was but as soon as I read your comment I was like "oh... yea sure, that checks out"
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 3 ай бұрын
@@aunderiskerensky2304 they had to take it out as per the terms of service for KZfaq.I have it unedited and there's another channel that has it too..Q something.It's pretty funny
@samirkhosrowshahi7928
@samirkhosrowshahi7928 2 ай бұрын
​@@JimmyfromPhilly1that's incredible man! How does it feel to be on that path currently?
@cardinalfunky8655
@cardinalfunky8655 Жыл бұрын
Dr K is such a damn good psychologist.
@brooksbrooks6805
@brooksbrooks6805 11 ай бұрын
I found his approach to jimmy very sympathetic for the most part but too many times in this interview did he give Jimmy reassurance in his behavior... agreeing with everything he says anx moving on almost seems insulting to Jimmy has a person, he deserves the respect of a man to tell him to his face that he should not be doing the things he is doing and its offensive and dangerous. Lets stop treating Jimmies like children and treat them like the adults they are.
@xzonia1
@xzonia1 11 ай бұрын
@@brooksbrooks6805 Like Dr K said at the beginning, he's not there to treat Jimmy but just have a conversation with him. You don't call people out on their BS when you're just chatting with them. Dr K let it go because he's not here to change Jimmy, just learn about his perspective.
@rickfox804
@rickfox804 11 ай бұрын
@@brooksbrooks6805 Ah yes, the random comment with likely no training knows more about approach than a trained psychiatrist
@ThindiGee
@ThindiGee 10 ай бұрын
@@brooksbrooks6805 If you do that, then the other person shuts down immediately and no constructive conversation is possible anymore. Gotta make them feel comfortable to open up and ask them questions that lead them to come to conclusions by themselves and only then are they able to maybe be open to trying to change things. It's a long process though.
@georgesheffield1580
@georgesheffield1580 10 ай бұрын
Psychiatrist not a Phychologist , simular but not the same .
@Mkoivuka
@Mkoivuka 2 жыл бұрын
"When was the last time you had a relationship?" 20 years ago. He's 58. 58 - 20 = 38. 38 is the age he said he went through rehab and cried at his mother's grave. He also said his ex "betrayed him". That's quite a lot of stuff for 1 year.
@Exile_Sky
@Exile_Sky 2 жыл бұрын
Man doesn't fuck around apparently.
@lolaloliepop
@lolaloliepop 2 жыл бұрын
yeah I don't blame him, something like that would make most people not care for another relationship again
@mr.o523
@mr.o523 2 жыл бұрын
He is a paid actor
@enderlul5367
@enderlul5367 2 жыл бұрын
@@mr.o523 if he is, he is one good actor!
@Alwayslearnimg
@Alwayslearnimg 2 жыл бұрын
@@mr.o523 Seriously doubt it.
@eleanorbarsic8065
@eleanorbarsic8065 10 ай бұрын
Nobody who watches this channel would think this is staged. This is a trusted community.
@shantitakemoto1058
@shantitakemoto1058 10 ай бұрын
He’s actually way more thoughtful and flexible that I thought he would be-I know lots of ppl who have yet to forgive their parents for things in their childhood, and he clearly has moved on in the best way he can, he’s very positive and tries to be resilient. I really hope he lessens his alcohol and smoking and whip it’s 😂
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 8 ай бұрын
I'm 5 months sober at the moment,thanks
@ferretlord3990
@ferretlord3990 Ай бұрын
@@JimmyfromPhilly1 it’s getting close to a year, hope things are still doing well jimmy!
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 Ай бұрын
@@ferretlord3990 Thanks it'll be a year on the 20th.Pretty sure that I'm gonna do a follow up interview with Dr.K over the summer
@arneshsengupta4636
@arneshsengupta4636 2 жыл бұрын
Dr K is a genius for being so empathetic and logical at the same time - I could only do one at a time lol
@eaglesallday8o8
@eaglesallday8o8 2 жыл бұрын
that was a great statement, being able to have empathy and logic. You put what Dr. K does into words very well, maybe youre smarter than you think ;)
@eaglesallday8o8
@eaglesallday8o8 2 жыл бұрын
@6Seraph6 thanks for sharing this!
@Journeyagain0
@Journeyagain0 2 жыл бұрын
That's the type the person that I strive to be, being so empathetic and logical.
@unknownentity8256
@unknownentity8256 2 жыл бұрын
Thing is people that Dr. K said himself that he would rate low on the emphatic scale if it was tested, because being a psychiatrist requires that. He objectively understands emotions, that being logic if thats what you mean by him being emphatic.
@unknownentity8256
@unknownentity8256 2 жыл бұрын
@@Journeyagain0 Emphathetic ? 😂
@user-zf6dq4ic3p
@user-zf6dq4ic3p 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine randomly seeing your dad on your recommended after you haven't talked to him for 10 years
@firewiss
@firewiss 2 жыл бұрын
BRUH XD
@KoalawithaBeanie
@KoalawithaBeanie 2 жыл бұрын
Strength to you, champ
@davivieira8766
@davivieira8766 2 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO
@YashpalKrishna
@YashpalKrishna 2 жыл бұрын
Wait, is he your dad?
@taina88111
@taina88111 2 жыл бұрын
Do you mean hypothetically or is he actually your dad??? I need to know
@julesgray810
@julesgray810 5 ай бұрын
Jimmy if you're reading this, your painting/illustration is REALLY good! Thanks for sharing that, especially since earlier you said, "I wish they'd just put a guitar in my hand." And thank you for showing so much of your life and getting so personal, that takes balls. Like I don't think I'd be brave enough to be in a equivalent situation (like a right wing show host and a Christian pastor counselor or whatever the equivalent would be)
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 5 ай бұрын
Actually I didn't paint it,lol,I commissioned an artist that hangs out on a channel that I listen to and he was worried that David would sue him so he refused to sign it so I had him put my name on it,lol
@ironknight413
@ironknight413 10 ай бұрын
This was an amazing lesson in listening and understanding. Jimmy reminds me a lot of my dad, I think if my dad hadn’t found my mom and cooled off a little his life would have gone in much the same way, and this conversation just really improved my understanding of how someone with a tough childhood carries that trauma forward. Thanks Dr K!
@j.adamwegs2882
@j.adamwegs2882 9 ай бұрын
Whats amazing to me is how there's only a minor dichotomy between far left and far right people. I think alot of the issue with the political climate is the victim mentality caused by childhood and early adulthood trauma. The difference is the left tends to internalize that mentality, while the right externalizes it.
@velvetbees
@velvetbees 8 ай бұрын
I do think a good woman can help a man be happier. I'm glad for your parents. Jimmy is tough, but I think he longs for that innocent kid before he became tough. When Jimmy explained how he was happy and skipped around, then he got bullied for it, he accepted it was inevitable. .He understands the world he grew up in. Also, the doctor asked him what it would mean to him if he ever really was a victim. Jimmy said, "I don't know because I don't behave like a victim. If somebody wrongs me I get back at them... And I generally make it funny and spectacular. It's just what I do." Wow! That is an understanding of himself. I think people might have missed how much confidence Jimmy has in himself. He did say forgiveness has to come with an atonement, you can't just say it was okay they hurt you. He isn't a wimp. BUT, he misses that noncynical, happy innocent kid that he was. And I think that kid is important to him. I also think Jimmy is super smart. I just wish he could see the world isn't wimps and strongmen. It's people who have their own kid inside they also live with.
@nothanks9503
@nothanks9503 8 ай бұрын
@@velvetbeesyeah I think me and him are much the same but realizing adults are just grown up kids at an early age was very formative for me I clearly remember that realization I also have a built in deep humility and empathy due to my body destroying itself starting at an early age I had a 14 time no loss tournament win streak in MMA because what’s pain that thing I feel every day and I could ride a bike for 24 hours easy but pretty soon I’m not going to be able to walk and I’ll probably die if a heart attack no fault of mine quite the opposite I did everything possible to perfect my physical condition but that’s just the cards 🃏
@barbourgirl78
@barbourgirl78 8 ай бұрын
I felt the same way, not just about Jimmy's relationship with his mother, but also about what my dad has told me about his relationship with his own mother.
@gamernerd7139
@gamernerd7139 6 ай бұрын
​@@velvetbeesThat is very thoughtful. Life is more intriguing than we can all comprehend. So easy to box people into labelled categories than try to understand where they come from.
@ryantubbs9173
@ryantubbs9173 2 жыл бұрын
it's so impressive to watch Dr. K work. I never would have expected such a deep conversation out of Jimmy after the first 5 minutes, but Doc revealed what a complicated and thoughtful person he is, flawed as he may be.
@MorganMindfulness
@MorganMindfulness 2 жыл бұрын
These videos are the ones that remind me how much more work I have to do to truly be able to listen to others.
@azmaIS
@azmaIS 2 жыл бұрын
Could you point out his flaws? Other than the obvious chain-smoking of course
@speedfastman
@speedfastman 2 жыл бұрын
@@azmaIS I don't think making fun of people for being gay or trans is a good thing lol.
@janold0808
@janold0808 2 жыл бұрын
@@azmaIS I can answer in Ryan's stead. I'd say that most of the "flaws" probably boil down to a lack of compassion for others that may also be somewhat unintentional. And, as Dr K said, the rigidness of his beliefs makes it harder to show him how he may be hurting people with what he says/believes. Other than that though, besides his drug use, I'd say he seems like a genuinely friendly dude. But that's just my perspective on the situation.
@azmaIS
@azmaIS 2 жыл бұрын
@@janold0808 from my perspective I think Jimmy(and myself included) cares more about facts than peoples feelings. If someone is being delusional I don’t think taking part in their delusion is a compassionate act, it’s the opposite in my opinion if you look at the bigger picture
@nothingiseverperfect
@nothingiseverperfect 2 жыл бұрын
You knew this was gonna be good when he called him, “Doc”
@spookecat
@spookecat 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m not the only one who had this thought lol
@loopsaround7664
@loopsaround7664 2 жыл бұрын
As soon as he said Doc I thought "Oh here we go". I love this guy by the way.
@goldenmemes51
@goldenmemes51 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 wtf right !
@crowmaster9652
@crowmaster9652 2 жыл бұрын
The way he speaks you can tell he knows reality the people that immediately refer to transphobia, homophobia, xenophobia are the true looneys in this world favored by some inconsistent force as a means of displaying chaos
@ice1
@ice1 2 жыл бұрын
@@crowmaster9652 ok boomer
@underthesun65
@underthesun65 8 ай бұрын
I learned a lot from this interview. What I have learned is that sometimes hurt people hurt people sometimes intentional or unintentional. I do have greater sympathy and empathy for Jimmy. ❤❤❤
@susanmorgan4151
@susanmorgan4151 4 ай бұрын
Yes. Evidently David has been hurt.
@andrewkoontz8206
@andrewkoontz8206 9 ай бұрын
David's aggressive and attacking behavior here really highlights Dr. K's exemplary ability to focus on understanding and compassion, even in the face of someone so polarizing like Jimmy. What a great role model.
@susanmorgan4151
@susanmorgan4151 4 ай бұрын
Truth.
@juicebox8566
@juicebox8566 2 жыл бұрын
"I'm trying to vape more" This is a wild interview lol.
@ghostsinthesnow_makes_music
@ghostsinthesnow_makes_music 2 жыл бұрын
put this on my tombstone
@Eric-jh5mp
@Eric-jh5mp 2 жыл бұрын
"My doctor recommended I vape more" is basicly what he said later too lol. What a doctor Edit: To everyone pointing out that doctors recommend vaping as a substitute for cigars, you can rest assured I know that. I'm just pointing out his interpretation of what the doctor said gives a hell of a mental image of a bad doctor. Note that he said "Doctor recommends I vape more" rather then "Doctor recommends I smoke less, so I've been vaping more."
@juicebox8566
@juicebox8566 2 жыл бұрын
@@Eric-jh5mp Yeah, that had be absolutely in stitches lol
@connorchristensen1291
@connorchristensen1291 2 жыл бұрын
@@Eric-jh5mp it sounds like the doctor was trying but he misunderstood. Imagine a doctor has told you a hundred times that you stop drinking soda but you won't and finally he asks you to try this low sugar version. You hear that and start drinking twice as much of the stuff because now you dont feel bad about it. Better for you doesnt mean good for you but he took it to mean that.
@MorganMindfulness
@MorganMindfulness 2 жыл бұрын
@@connorchristensen1291 well you probably could smoke more with the vapes if he wasn't still also smoking the cigs and it wouldn't be as bad. Rat poison and shit doesn't tend to be in vape juice 😂
@sburkie9
@sburkie9 2 жыл бұрын
Dr K: 🧐 Jimmy: 😂 Packman: 😐
@rogerrinkavage
@rogerrinkavage 10 ай бұрын
This was great, Dr. K! I'm always happy to find longform content that lets people settle in and fully talk through what they see as important. I thought you guided the conversation with grace
@tbeshers
@tbeshers 9 ай бұрын
Dr. K is amazing!!! Thank you Jimmie for being open to this conversation.
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 9 ай бұрын
You're welcome
@talesoftableiii1584
@talesoftableiii1584 Жыл бұрын
You made me feel compassion for someone that I fundamentally disagree with, and I think that is something that we could use more of in this world. Thank you.
@UsmanKhan-coolmf
@UsmanKhan-coolmf Жыл бұрын
Will it take this level of "knowing someone" for you to have compassion for someone you disagree with in the future? ... I have learned in the last couple years that you should never be mad at or hate or whatever people whose opinions come from the heart no matter how much they came from lies etc... At that point i just "pray" for them, or the human species as a whole anyway. It's unfortunate that some people are so lost.
@ceekay4649
@ceekay4649 Жыл бұрын
You may have compassion for them. But, do they have compassion for you?
@UsmanKhan-coolmf
@UsmanKhan-coolmf Жыл бұрын
@@ceekay4649 why does it matter? Do immigrants for whom we have compassion for, have compassion or contempt for us? My father came from Pakistan back in '78 as a refugee seeing asylum and he was not a big fan of Americans and America in general.
@ceekay4649
@ceekay4649 Жыл бұрын
@@UsmanKhan-coolmf it does matter. I will not feel compassion for someone who hates me and wishes nothing but harm to me. They are my enemy as they have declared war on me. I feel compassion for people who are truly merit it, those who are being discriminated against and experience injustice, and expect nothing in return.
@UsmanKhan-coolmf
@UsmanKhan-coolmf Жыл бұрын
@@ceekay4649 it's difficult to be compassionate if your heart is filled with vengeance and hate. You can't walk over someone dying and begging for help because they didn't help you when you did the same and be a compassionate person. Or can you? (I could be wrong here but maybe you understand the point I'm poorly trying to make haha.)
@Hvb101
@Hvb101 2 жыл бұрын
Jimmy should be a voice actor. He definitely has an iconic voice
@HakumeiTenshi
@HakumeiTenshi 2 жыл бұрын
He's literally a real life Mort Goldman from Family Guy. He looks AND sounds like him. You can't make this up
@ismt9390
@ismt9390 2 жыл бұрын
He sounds like Louie's dad from "The life of Louie", at least in the Romanian version of it. Maybe the title's wrong, idk what it is in English, but the cartoon was about the cildhood of a guy who was a comedian.
@jahrocky1860
@jahrocky1860 2 жыл бұрын
@@HakumeiTenshi Bro that's exactly what I was thinking 😭😭
@kuromdy
@kuromdy 2 жыл бұрын
no, he just has an unhealthy smoker voice
@Hvb101
@Hvb101 2 жыл бұрын
@@kuromdy nobody asked you anything
@sierra121cyan
@sierra121cyan 4 ай бұрын
As a right winger, I'm actually really glad he was willing to step across the aisle and actually listen to someone he disagrees with, instead of modern political discourse, which is just a bunch of reactionary nonsense (and yes, I mean that on both sides. Most people do it nowadays- I try not to) I don't like to prejudge people on the internet (or irl) based on what I find in their political beliefs- although my brain automatically sees their online bio and goes 'yep, definitely left wing' or 'yep, definitely right wing'- I always try to be willing to reach out and make friends. Sadly, I don't see a lot of that from the other side (i leave political indicators out of my bios usually), and I also don't see it incredibly often from my own side, so it always brightens my day to see someone genuinely engage in conversation with someone from another political belief. This is what America was built on- respectful debating and chatting about politics- not the identity politics, and not the reactionary politics and disrespect I see all the time nowadays. That said, have a great day, and thanks for reading my ramble!
@breakmanradio2530
@breakmanradio2530 Ай бұрын
Yeah, I wish this was more common. I'm not a fan of David; I don't see him debating people who are extremely articulate like Destiny does. David also seemed very disrespectful and snake like in this video in my eyes but I could be wrong. When it comes to the left, I like people like Jimmy Dore and Glenn Greenwald the most because they don't buy into the corporate media's bullshit. Jimmy Dore is an outspoken socialist and hates most of Trump's policies outside of foreign policy but he knew RussiaGate was bullshit pretty quickly because he's still capable of being logical. I've never seen a rational argument from someone who's antiwar that didn't acknowledge Trump's foreign policy was better than his predecessors.
@justinbowes5390
@justinbowes5390 2 ай бұрын
This interview was wild. It was a roller coaster where when it began, i was like ohhhh boy... but then we dove into it, and i was like, "He makes some points," and then we get into his pas, and then he shows that he's tried and still is trying to self improve... and it completely gives new light to everything. Then he makes the comparison of him being just like dr.k and i was like "dang he's not wrong, they literally have the exact same situation, just that one had it worse (im not saying this objectivly, i obviously don't know focter k's backround that well but if it's anything like mine then i think i understand)... legendary interview with so much that can be learned.
@koovshiki
@koovshiki 2 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie I couldn't help but smile when he pulled out that painting. He looked so genuinely proud.
@charleslau5814
@charleslau5814 2 жыл бұрын
It was surprisingly good
@inspiringmedia3716
@inspiringmedia3716 2 жыл бұрын
It was very good
@JLydecka
@JLydecka 2 жыл бұрын
It was a painting of him spanking David Pakman, the guy from the beginning XD
@ismt9390
@ismt9390 2 жыл бұрын
Well, it was actually really good
@JamesDecker7
@JamesDecker7 2 жыл бұрын
*narrators voice* “And it was at that point, that Koov, like many others, truly felt the fellow humanity of an angry, old republiQ”
@zeeenno
@zeeenno 2 жыл бұрын
“Everything is funny” is a damn clear coping mechanism
@Greeezy
@Greeezy 2 жыл бұрын
To be fair. Everything is funny tho.
@zeeenno
@zeeenno 2 жыл бұрын
@@Greeezy Everything? Every single thing is funny?
@Veruca8828
@Veruca8828 2 жыл бұрын
@@Greeezy Dave Chapelle said it best "everything's funny until it happens to you" I definitely didn't see a grin on his face when he was talking about feeling abandoned by his mother...
@michaelmiller6050
@michaelmiller6050 2 жыл бұрын
@@zeeenno humor is our species way of dealing with dark issues. So yes, I’m a sense, everything is funny. Maybe not initially but at some we can find dark things funny.
@pygmybrain5868
@pygmybrain5868 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelmiller6050 Wise af. Couldn’t agree more.
@SavoryShredZ
@SavoryShredZ 4 ай бұрын
I've never watched David's show, but I was extremely disappointed with the way he introduced Jimmy. Dr. K, you highlighted the nature of that initial characterizarion perfectly. I would've tried, but your patience is definitely greater than mine. I wouldn't say I have right wing politics, but that intro, that basically said "Here comes the wild criminal" is what pushed me away from the left. It's as if many left-leaning folks are scared to empathize with people like Jimmy to begin with, because it's bad for your brand to be associated with anything remotely "right wing." That is fear, and it gets us nowhere. Thank you for having the courage to relate to what Jimmy was saying, Dr. K. A lot of it resonated with me, specifically, our caregivers just doing the best they could, often unable to navigate negative emotions, especially in men. I experienced a lot of that growing up and built some pretty thick walls of my own. This gave me a ton of insight into my relationship with my mother and was a good reminder to continue to move closer to her, despite the resentment I've been slowly chipping away at. Thank you, Jimmy. Much Love.
@SpunkyEnchanter
@SpunkyEnchanter 3 ай бұрын
I know right?
@Eddy-dk6ug
@Eddy-dk6ug 3 ай бұрын
What's interesting is, I agree with what you said, but with the context of David's show I think it's very easy no matter your political opinion to make the assumptions David did. This episode really did teach me a little about the importance of patience and compassion when navigating difficult conversations.
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 3 ай бұрын
You're welcome
@seanbarnard8598
@seanbarnard8598 10 ай бұрын
This dude is so chill he actually makes David seem like a judgmental person.
@talwarsrightnut
@talwarsrightnut 10 ай бұрын
I mean you don't have to make David seem judgmental, he does that himself
@PBMS123
@PBMS123 9 ай бұрын
until you hear what Jimmy actually says rather than this convo
@catfishrob1
@catfishrob1 9 ай бұрын
He is ...
@MelaninDrip00
@MelaninDrip00 9 ай бұрын
He’s definitely chill I would love to chill with him if he didn’t hate me for my skin color
@talwarsrightnut
@talwarsrightnut 9 ай бұрын
@@MelaninDrip00 good news, I can guarantee he doesn't, the right tends to be very welcoming towards anyone as long as they're a good person
@Rusapix
@Rusapix 2 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else find it funny that David was talking about Jimmy like he was Jimmy's mom talking to a specialist Edit: guys it's been over 2 years, I get it, you magas think it's not funny (it is) and you neolibs think it's okay to be disrespectful to another person if they're uneducated. Nobody's adding anything new to the conversation. Most of you guys in the replies don't seem to watch any of Dr. K's other videos, because you clearly haven't learned to think like a therapist, and it shows, and it's cringey. I know you're gamers, but seriously, go outside or something once in a while.
@cvbattum
@cvbattum 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Around 42:00 he doesn't even talk to Jimmy directly, but in the third person as if he's talking to Dr. K without Jimmy there also being in the room and it's a little cringey, to be honest.
@Akhen.
@Akhen. 2 жыл бұрын
More like 0 respect. That david guy acts like a passive aggressive teenager
@fionafiona1146
@fionafiona1146 2 жыл бұрын
I am sure they have talked with each other about that before but don't even know what episode to point you to, given the 3 years of publicised "Jimmy from Philly" calls. I would guess David didn't want to be in this conversation beyond making the connection, given his general other attitudes and comments
@uniworkhorse
@uniworkhorse 2 жыл бұрын
LOL actually tho
@Raumplestomp
@Raumplestomp Жыл бұрын
David is just trying to cut through Jimmy's deflections.
@toxinnitemare
@toxinnitemare 2 жыл бұрын
I love that he calls Dr K "Doc"
@The_chrome7483
@The_chrome7483 10 ай бұрын
Ive never seen a man so quickly start to enjoy the conversation that he IS a part of.
@chtrxarya
@chtrxarya 10 ай бұрын
This convo made me cry at multiple points as a 27 yr old women with how relatable it was to see the way Jimmy arrives at conclusions. It made me happy and relieved that although the life he has had and is having have vast difference to mine, the human thinking can parallel each other this strongly
@merlin_24
@merlin_24 8 ай бұрын
This is the thinking you relate to?
@Yrusama
@Yrusama 8 ай бұрын
​@abhishekgodse6 i think she means that it's relatable to see the ways his experiences shaped his thinking and how it could have been similar for anyone. What I'm finding incredible is that underneath the abrasive language and attitude, he's said some really profound and wise things. He's proven to me that he is a thinking, intelligent person who has developed coping strategies that unfortunately may hurt others. What blew my mind is that he said he's an atheist, and that he's examined a variety of religions and cultures. His expression is crass, sure, but he's much more relatable than Pakman or any of us could see when the video started.
@Indy__isnt_it
@Indy__isnt_it 6 ай бұрын
Same, it got tough before the one hour mark. I was distracted at the part of Trump supporters which I thought they titled the video wrong for a bit! Amazing almost 2 hours. I AM curiously tempted to visit his yt channel!
@Indy__isnt_it
@Indy__isnt_it 6 ай бұрын
​@@merlin_24why are you here? To troll comments, or do you relate also?
@radscorpion8
@radscorpion8 4 ай бұрын
@@Indy__isnt_it so you relate to that thinking as well? LOL
@stagtite
@stagtite 2 жыл бұрын
This is probably the best interview that Dr K. has ever done. A very good reminder that Dr K. isn't just an AoE healer, he's max level BIS healer. Top tier. Absolutely incredible.
@danethenice
@danethenice 2 жыл бұрын
BIS?
@multykiller007
@multykiller007 2 жыл бұрын
@@danethenice best in slot
@xQTx
@xQTx 2 жыл бұрын
Dr K is min maxing hard
@l0kk016
@l0kk016 2 жыл бұрын
He is like that healer that has "heals for 50% of the original value to allies nearby the target" but has so much raw heal that this is more then enough.
@florkiler6242
@florkiler6242 2 жыл бұрын
he would probably ask you to be careful with idolizing other people on internet, or in general
@coryboatz4434
@coryboatz4434 2 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD but this kept my focus for the entire hour and a half. Absolute content gold
@Hizsoo
@Hizsoo 2 жыл бұрын
Makes sense. I think he also have ADHD and 2x cluster B.
@slep5039
@slep5039 2 жыл бұрын
same
@kaisawhatever4443
@kaisawhatever4443 2 жыл бұрын
Jimmy is authentic. Dr. K is logical and professional.
@Yoyo-si3hq
@Yoyo-si3hq 2 жыл бұрын
Big feel
@grinreaperoftrolls7528
@grinreaperoftrolls7528 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@damnmamaa
@damnmamaa 10 ай бұрын
I learnt so much from this conversation. Eye opening. Thank you.
@alicewood1665
@alicewood1665 10 ай бұрын
This is fascinating, I had no idea that part of the brain may shut down in survivors. This interview was eye opening to understand some of my friends and family.
@VeritasGames
@VeritasGames 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus christ.... this conversation got better and better with every passing topic change...
@Alecsand3r
@Alecsand3r 2 жыл бұрын
Oh hi veritas
@henrik1743
@henrik1743 2 жыл бұрын
When are you coming on to talk about anger management issues when twitch chat asks you a stupid question?
@Tech-nq8cn
@Tech-nq8cn 2 жыл бұрын
^
@decad3428
@decad3428 2 жыл бұрын
lol this dude's life legit feels like a movie , i was hooked within 5 minutes
@VeritasGames
@VeritasGames 2 жыл бұрын
@@henrik1743 As soon as @HealthyGamerGG decides to have me on :)
@lovecastle7154
@lovecastle7154 2 жыл бұрын
This whole stream just shows how skilled dr k is, I’ve known a few therapists but dr k is on another level
@mentalcincen
@mentalcincen 2 жыл бұрын
I think its just modern affordable health care that's lead you to believe that
@diego032912
@diego032912 2 жыл бұрын
@@mentalcincen Lmao what the hell are you implying?
@ambercaplinger5273
@ambercaplinger5273 10 ай бұрын
We need more of this! It was lovely to hear him open up and understand his own motives better.
@matthewsanchez7953
@matthewsanchez7953 7 ай бұрын
Amazing how fast a patient starts to vent the moment a doctor gives them space to do so.
@indiestripper5374
@indiestripper5374 2 жыл бұрын
David: he chased down 4 black teenagers in a car while drunk Jimmy: No he is getting that wrong, they were all over the age of 20 and in court they couldn't prove I was drunk, even though I was well this is gonna be a fun one
@MegaManDied
@MegaManDied 2 жыл бұрын
Ahahahahaha
@hydraslair4723
@hydraslair4723 2 жыл бұрын
"I wasn't drunk" Seconds later "I wasn't THAT drunk" Oh boy this is a fucking treat
@olaseniajibade
@olaseniajibade 2 жыл бұрын
That part
@inspiringmedia3716
@inspiringmedia3716 2 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO
@CitAllHearItAll
@CitAllHearItAll 2 жыл бұрын
Hunter S. Thompson doesn't like getting the facts wrong.
@16ShiningUmbreon
@16ShiningUmbreon 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't expect to cry watching this. When he described the punishments he would receive facing the wall I teared up. The abandonment of his parents. He was teased for existing in happiness and now spends the rest of his life reenacting the pain on everyone else. It's sad.
@kramliker
@kramliker 2 жыл бұрын
You have to be trolling, I hope so anyway lol Jimmy is great
@16ShiningUmbreon
@16ShiningUmbreon 2 жыл бұрын
@@kramliker I'm not trolling it's called empathy maybe you should try it some time.
@nuclearsimian3281
@nuclearsimian3281 Жыл бұрын
No, its a problem, and he needs to go to fucking counseling. He's miserable, but that doesn't make his life sad.
@RIP_ZYZZ1738
@RIP_ZYZZ1738 Жыл бұрын
People really lack empathy nowadays
@Scar-jg4bn
@Scar-jg4bn Жыл бұрын
I had very similar life experiences (minus being a delinquent) and worse and I haven't turned into a callous, ignorant buffoon. His life wasn't that hard, and like many straight dudes, he decided to turn into a bitter bigoted bully.
@Akudgi
@Akudgi 9 ай бұрын
While he’s got some issues, Jimmy cracks me up at times for sure. This was a solid interaction. Knowing the history with Pakman, this was much needed.
@GoldenCobraDJ
@GoldenCobraDJ 9 ай бұрын
This is fucking amazing!!! Thank you for having this type of discussion/therapy session .
@weatheredseeker
@weatheredseeker 2 жыл бұрын
"I'll say this for you... LSD has helped me tremendously"... "I HIT THE SUCCY FUCCY" THIS LITERALLY KEEPS GETTING BETTER
@sharknadofartquake2449
@sharknadofartquake2449 2 жыл бұрын
LMFAO I know this guy is great I can't stop laughing!!! P
@emy8555
@emy8555 2 жыл бұрын
WHAT THE FUCK EVEN IS A SUCCY FUCCY I WAS TOO BUSY LAUGHING MY ASS OFF TO COMPREHEND
@hoidtakesopioids3223
@hoidtakesopioids3223 2 жыл бұрын
@Jimmy from Philly Wiped why can't i find this word in the urban dictionary
@lukejanis2016
@lukejanis2016 2 жыл бұрын
@Jimmy from Philly Wiped how many times did you do LSD? Is one time enough to do the trick?
@greentoken3783
@greentoken3783 2 жыл бұрын
@@weatheredseeker David doesn't seem like a leftist to me, he seems pretty liberal.
@chasemarcum3946
@chasemarcum3946 10 ай бұрын
i love that david said maybe 15 words and spent the rest of the time looking extremely worried
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat
@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat 5 ай бұрын
It's kind of shocking that he manages to come off worse than the Trump guy. He comes off like a slick, cruel, dishonest, propagandist. Like he's just sitting there huffing his own farts about how superior he is for not having any opinions outside a political dogma.
@Jacob-yb3hz
@Jacob-yb3hz 5 ай бұрын
Every time I see him have a conversation with someone he doesn't agree with he is condescending and belittling the entire time. It's hard to watch.
@nully304
@nully304 4 ай бұрын
He looks like a smug asshole, chewing that pen and smiling like that while is name is flashing in the background
@1990alone
@1990alone 4 ай бұрын
​ @twelvecatsinatrenchcoat this. It's a fantastic example of how political ideologies are only as bad as people make them be. I've meet conservatives, liberals, communists, and free-market libertarians alike, and I've met amazing people and a**holes on all sides. The best ideology is always to keep an open mind to understand others and find common ground with people.
@polapaul
@polapaul 4 ай бұрын
I think he maybe realized how he came off in the beginning and when he said that the interview wasn’t stages. Either that or he is actually learning about Jimmy’s past and is feeling for him.
@notandyvee
@notandyvee 8 ай бұрын
This was an incredible watch. Thank you.
@ZSchrink
@ZSchrink 7 ай бұрын
This was an amazing interview. You never cease to amaze me with your skill!
@pokebronyborn
@pokebronyborn Жыл бұрын
I love being able to see all the little details Dr.K teaches about in his videos. The more Dr.K got him to look at things differently, the more he used his vape, his brain was desperately reaching for tangents, he kept looking anywhere but the screen when he wasn't the one talking, all the little deflections from questions, and most of all the chuckle after every uncomfortable sentence. Of course, I could be completely off base with any or all of this, but that's how I've made sense of what I saw and heard. Also, he mentioned "as the conversation went on, the height she claimed I dropped the baby from got lower and lower" but as this conversation went on, every time he mentioned how happy he was with his life, he seemed to become less and less sure. "I'm just a happy guy" "I'm generally a pretty happy guy" "I used to be just a happy go lucky kid" "my life turned out pretty ok" "I'm relatively happy" Again, could just be me.
@ladnavar
@ladnavar 2 жыл бұрын
I'm officially a fan now... it's incredible how you got the man to speak about the possible origins of his homophobia, and instead of calling him out or simply acting like his psychologist and saying "do you think that might be why you make fun of gays? Because you were made fun of for showing such qualities?" Instead of that you search for his internal logic with nothing but support and understanding! now THIS is what I call unbiased and proper interviewing. I'm honestly impressed.
@UsmanKhan-coolmf
@UsmanKhan-coolmf Жыл бұрын
Why do parents have to tell their children not to say things about overweight or men who are dressed as women or people in wheelchairs. Why? .. i think because children are intently like that. Why do kids enjoy making fun of "fat" or whatever? ... There can be deeper issues in some cases but for most of us, we are just human. My opinion is ignorant and i have education in this area so it's probably wrong.
@victorvanvolt8425
@victorvanvolt8425 Жыл бұрын
@@UsmanKhan-coolmf Why do parents have to tell children how to handle small things when their below 3 years old?
@UsmanKhan-coolmf
@UsmanKhan-coolmf Жыл бұрын
@@victorvanvolt8425 because they sometimes need to be taught what is right and what is wrong
@alienvomitsex
@alienvomitsex Жыл бұрын
​@@UsmanKhan-coolmf Not all kids are the same. Assuming they are is your problem. I never had to be told not to make fun of people different than me. Maybe that's why I never liked the right.
@theshunzun
@theshunzun Жыл бұрын
Bear in mind, Dr. K can do this because he’s a trained therapist/psychiatrist. So he’s not interviewing like the average media personality would.
@maxermrh1979
@maxermrh1979 9 ай бұрын
Fantastic interview. At first I was afraid that the whole conversation would be Dr K asking a question, and Jimmy rapid firing political talking points instead of giving a personal answer. Really good job on completely bypassing that. I would have struggled to do it.
@individual5021
@individual5021 2 ай бұрын
I had been a long time avoiding this interview because him being a trump supporter is so not interesting to me, but god I feel so much for this man. It is great that someone as understanding as dr k exists for people who tend to just be dismissed as bigots.
@dazzdazzle8758
@dazzdazzle8758 Жыл бұрын
I'm only turning 20 soon, and I can't bring myself to forgive my mother for like, way less shit than this guy forgave his own for. It really puts into perspective how much longer I have to live and develop as a person.
@dazzdazzle8758
@dazzdazzle8758 Жыл бұрын
@youjustlostthegame5042 I was unplanned, and she was messed up on drugs and alcohol at the time so Ive been living with my father in a house with 6 other people, where theres often conflict and yelling, it not perfect but its way better than the alternative.. Im mad at my mother because once she got clean and i tried reconnecting with her a few years back, i soon came to realize that she felt entitled to my love despite there being essentially no relationship between us. she would get mad at me not saying happy mothers day, or not saying I love you back. im not the kind of person who feels comfortable bullshitting an "I love you." So I've stopped talking to her for the time being (its been over two years since i last spent time with her), but she keeps trying to get back in contact with me. i simply do not want her in my life right now and she can't seem to respect that.
@Amy-fr7cw
@Amy-fr7cw Жыл бұрын
@@dazzdazzle8758 I feel you on that. Weirdly similar situation myself with my mom. I’m the opposite and I forgive a little too easily. Sometimes forgiveness is great for letting go of anger. But at some extremes I end up letting bad people back into my life. So. When you’re going through that growth. Remember to keep a balance
@akajaeee
@akajaeee Жыл бұрын
​@@dazzdazzle8758 While forgiveness is a valuable tool for healing, it's important to realize that nobody deserves forgiveness. Forgiveness is earned and it is a choice made by the victim of harmful actions. Regardless of how forgiving Jimmy is for his mother, yours is a separate journey.
@jzburda
@jzburda Жыл бұрын
@@dazzdazzle8758 Let's look at it this way. I forgave my mother for being on drugs. She continued to do it behind our backs. She ended up dying to the fentanyl lacing along with her fiancee a year ago.
@jonathanalonso6492
@jonathanalonso6492 Жыл бұрын
@@jzburda random stranger here, you ok?
@chriss.2978
@chriss.2978 2 жыл бұрын
There's two ways we can approach people that think differently than us. The way David does, and the way Dr. K does. I think we all know which way is the path to progression.
@praveenweerasundara619
@praveenweerasundara619 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@IWANTHOTDOG
@IWANTHOTDOG 2 жыл бұрын
It is VERY hard for us untrained folk to take the dr. k route. That takes years of work to get towards.
@nekosalad8308
@nekosalad8308 Жыл бұрын
@@IWANTHOTDOG no it doesn't. all it takes is to treat them like a human. just dont be radical and think people who dont agree with you are monsters and you are like dr k.
@kylemcdonnell86
@kylemcdonnell86 Жыл бұрын
David Pakman is a holier-than-thou, insufferable asshole.
@geeteshm4858
@geeteshm4858 Жыл бұрын
Yeah a progressive mindset is not coming from a proclaimed progressive.
@TheJaysin67
@TheJaysin67 8 ай бұрын
wow I watched the whole thing, thanks Dr. K, loved your analysis at the end.
@Facehugger-LV-426
@Facehugger-LV-426 7 ай бұрын
I loved this! We need more open conversations so we can start to understand each other. Unfortunately, it seems pretty difficult to have conversations like that these days.
@TheSkyCries1
@TheSkyCries1 Жыл бұрын
I really hate so much that if I met someone like Jimmy on the street, I might've shared a lot of the same feeling David had towards him and assumed similar things. I am in awe at how wonderful a friend DR.K can be to someone and help someone unpack all the things that he did for Jimmy. I have a lot to learn.
@illusionofquality979
@illusionofquality979 Жыл бұрын
I mean, hard not to share similar thought given how David introduced him. Even at the very end he was asking him about using so even with all being said, he probably sees him mostly as an addict and he uses it to explain Jimmy's behavior.
@thedog7494
@thedog7494 Жыл бұрын
yeah you clearly do have a lot to learn
@caralho5237
@caralho5237 Жыл бұрын
Beware of people like David. He's very manipulative
@Amy-fr7cw
@Amy-fr7cw Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the openness and humility you have to be able to acknowledge that. I know a lot of people feel the same but have a hard time coming to terms with it. Shows incredible maturity (:
@ShadowGaming-xw8zj
@ShadowGaming-xw8zj Жыл бұрын
There’s humanity in every human and we all deserve a level a respect you acknowledging this though is huge we have a right to disagree or not like other people but they are still human beings
@ashtonoates4798
@ashtonoates4798 Жыл бұрын
I started laughing so hard when he said "the only thing I'm a victim of is the 70s" lmao
@NotJimmyfromPhilly
@NotJimmyfromPhilly Жыл бұрын
Lol
@MiracleFound
@MiracleFound 11 ай бұрын
Actually, I wonder how much of MAGA is the result of boomer drug use in the 60's and 70's. I'm a boomer myself and it seems like the people from my high school class that were the hard core druggies are now hard core MAGA's.
@turu3498
@turu3498 11 ай бұрын
43:12 Timestamp
@iancaldwell6349
@iancaldwell6349 11 ай бұрын
That was good shit, I too cracked ok that part.
@marijabu
@marijabu 11 ай бұрын
And the tobacco industry.
@richardbeare11
@richardbeare11 13 күн бұрын
I loved hearing from Jimmy. Jimmy is a guy I'd hang with any day. I give Greg big credit for his openess to choosing to engage with one of his critics on air, especially considering the scale of his platform and friction with Jimmy. It would not be easy to go live on air with an outspoken critic like Jimmy. I's be stoked to hang with you, Greg, and hear your story. Dr K, man, you've got skills. An intuitive and curiousity-driven interpersonal approach. You've got a new fan. God willing, we'lleet up someday too. I'm proud of all of you guys.
@WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle
@WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle 7 ай бұрын
Nice job truly listening to your guest and trying to understand vs. just trying to stay stomp the guest. When this is done, we find that we actually have much more in common than we think.
@wcatcher5622
@wcatcher5622 2 жыл бұрын
This guys life is so sad, and he clearly is just damaged and coping in the only way he was ever taught. I started out ready to condemn this guy, but hearing him be vulnerable about his experiences (even if he doesn’t understand that is what he is doing) made it clear that he is just broken like everyone else. I sincerely wish him the best in growing and developing as a person, nobody is too old to change.
@Digger-Nick
@Digger-Nick 2 жыл бұрын
To change to what? Become an npc?
@genocidist2602
@genocidist2602 2 жыл бұрын
Did you not hear what he said, he is happy, people like him should be accepted while they still exist
@itzspiffy6305
@itzspiffy6305 2 жыл бұрын
The most hateful and narrowminded people are often the most broken, because they are that way as a result of their experiences. Hurt people hurt people.
@philspaghet
@philspaghet 2 жыл бұрын
Sad? Nah man, he grew up and he's content
@xx_luigi_xx7223
@xx_luigi_xx7223 2 жыл бұрын
@@genocidist2602 People don't always know how they feel. They can tell themselves that they are happy, but it is just a way to ignore issues most of the time.
@Tia-gy1ij
@Tia-gy1ij Жыл бұрын
I really cannot imagine having HALF the patience that Dr. K has.
@dragonslayer101
@dragonslayer101 Жыл бұрын
I know right? Like hearing that drug addicts voice rots my brain.....ughhh
@AsAWhiteManMarriedToALatina
@AsAWhiteManMarriedToALatina Жыл бұрын
​@@dragonslayer101Jimmy is GONE
@kryptoid2568
@kryptoid2568 11 ай бұрын
​@@dragonslayer101r/beatmetoit
@jesselong1622
@jesselong1622 11 ай бұрын
Anyone that thinks Jimmy can't have a 2nd chapter and do better has either a poor reason to live or nome whatsoever. You may think he can't do better but if he's a person so are you and if you can do better so can he
@Dude408f
@Dude408f 11 ай бұрын
Why do you find so hard to non judge others and allow them to explain themselves ?
@rachf9695
@rachf9695 9 ай бұрын
This was a super great listen if anyone is wondering I found it very good!
@laura835
@laura835 10 ай бұрын
I really appreciate hearing this.
@deang8017
@deang8017 2 жыл бұрын
Watch this again, but pay careful attention to Pakman. He came into this having already dehumanized Jimmy. Jimmy isn't a person to David, hes a caricature of the enemy. Now watch his face as the interview goes on. Dr. K talking to Jimmy like a person, re-humanized Jimmy. This is what we all need to remember. Other Americans are not the enemy. We all have much more in common than we like to admit.
@StarboyXL9
@StarboyXL9 2 жыл бұрын
Someone who opens the gates of the city to let the enemy in so they can burn and pillage is not your friend, your countryman, or your ally. You have nothing in common with such a person. They are a traitor.
@deang8017
@deang8017 2 жыл бұрын
@@StarboyXL9 You really think you have more in common with some CCP goon, or a tribes woman from the serengetti than you do with some asshole from Philly?
@StarboyXL9
@StarboyXL9 2 жыл бұрын
@@deang8017 Read my comment. The traitor who opens the gate to let the enemy inside the city is NOT your friend, ally, or brother. Period.
@deang8017
@deang8017 2 жыл бұрын
@@StarboyXL9 Can you elaborate? I'm not following your logic
@StarboyXL9
@StarboyXL9 2 жыл бұрын
@@deang8017 You wouldn't be able to golem
@jasondegroote4864
@jasondegroote4864 8 ай бұрын
The “sucky fucky” had me laughing when there was no context in the beginning lol
@AmericanGadfly
@AmericanGadfly 3 ай бұрын
I almost fell out. Especially because i knew what he meant immediately and Doc was confused 😂
@Eirileat
@Eirileat 8 ай бұрын
This was a beautiful interview in some ways. I learnt so much as a human being and a health professional. It's made me reflect on my own preformed judgements, those open questions that are not really open? I think I have my own kneejerk, over the top defences because I can't deal with feelings of victimhood, judgement, pain or vulnerability. Our experience shapes us. May I learn to temper the fire, enjoy the soothing balm of water. Grateful for the lessons and skills illustrated in this interview 🙏.
@darkpheonix77
@darkpheonix77 2 ай бұрын
it was clear that Jimmy's definition of victim is someone that doesn't respond after something happens to them.
@blakew.5736
@blakew.5736 2 жыл бұрын
25 minutes in I started feeling bad for this guy, realizing he’s hiding the bad parts in his life behind humor.
@tomsmarkovs1946
@tomsmarkovs1946 2 жыл бұрын
It's not hiding.. The past is real and that's what Made him. If you ignore the past you Will never get over it.
@joegee1699
@joegee1699 2 жыл бұрын
@Toms Markovs well, perhaps he's not hiding but all of that stuff has CLEARLY manifested as a lot of hate and intolerance. I hope he finds a way to pass through the world without so much friction. It seems like he's finding so many reasons to be mad when all he has to do is look away.
@tepidlemming
@tepidlemming 2 жыл бұрын
Haha he’s hilarious
@SirArthurTheGreat
@SirArthurTheGreat 2 жыл бұрын
@@stivenhunt395 “this right-winger is ACTUALLY like when left-wing”
@crimson4066
@crimson4066 2 жыл бұрын
A year ago I said "I wouldn't even talk to a Trump supporter" because I thought they were just 'gone' But we have SO much in common! It's really just minor discrepancies between us, and I'm a leftist
@Boogalyhu
@Boogalyhu 2 жыл бұрын
Starting to think the smog from wild fires is actually just Jimmy leaving his window open.
@ChickVicious237
@ChickVicious237 9 ай бұрын
I'm watching this for the second time. My family behave very much like David Pakman toward people who support Trump. I used to be in that same camp and am now trying to help them come out of the media bubble and recognize that we all have way more ideas in common than not. Thank you for modeling how that kind of conversation should go, Doctor K
@oliverbender3764
@oliverbender3764 8 ай бұрын
The problem with such people is their own representation, how they exhibit themselves in public. There is too little time and too little interest to try to approach a person who shows utmost hostility to, say, Democrats. Doctor K is trained to speak with such people and those who approach him have the intent to speak with him, so there is a mutual interest in getting in touch. You wouldn't have the same energy with random people on the street.
@MoonsideResident
@MoonsideResident 8 ай бұрын
"trying to help them come out of the media bubble and recognize that we all have way more ideas in common than not." Seems like you need to spend some of that energy on making your own see things that way. I see just as much, if not more, intransigence on the left.
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 8 ай бұрын
Funny how David finds it perfectly ok to mock me and Trump supporters but God forbid I mock trans and homos
@oliverbender3764
@oliverbender3764 7 ай бұрын
@@JimmyfromPhilly1 Well, when was the last time a Trump rallye couldn't take place because some gun-toting guys threatened the venue and the attendants? Are Trump voters and sympathisers regularly being addressed with hostile policies targeting them exclusively? If you feel the urge to mock someone, at least make it funny. Most of the time, 'jokes' about homosexuals and transsexuals are just plain insulting and vile. So, the tendency about them is naturally negative.
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 7 ай бұрын
@@oliverbender3764 I like how you completely sidestepped my point ya commie
@Skyscraper21
@Skyscraper21 10 ай бұрын
I would love to see more sessions like this
@AbaNPreach
@AbaNPreach 2 жыл бұрын
10/10
@nwgverified
@nwgverified 2 жыл бұрын
I see you, from based destiny to based dr k and pakman. very nice.
@loltool5513
@loltool5513 2 жыл бұрын
indeed a 10/10
@chuleta441
@chuleta441 2 жыл бұрын
@@nwgverified next to Chad Vaush
@khaileigh
@khaileigh 2 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you here 💙
@fab7423
@fab7423 2 жыл бұрын
@@chuleta441 Nah, Vaush is too intelectually outpacing.
@brianschwarm8267
@brianschwarm8267 Жыл бұрын
I feel like if this guy spent about 5 minutes on self reflection, a lot could change. The fact that he said he didn’t like being made fun of, but then also said he was glad it happened so he could come back with witty comebacks was astounding. Like, they molded you in to what they wanted you to be by making fun of you, they destroyed something unique about you. And instead of realizing how bad that made him feel and deciding not to do it to other people, he just continued the cycle. Hurt people hurt people.
@illusionofquality979
@illusionofquality979 Жыл бұрын
He would need more than 5 minutes. From his story is sounds like he was all alone so he coped by adapting. He couldn't skip? So he stopped skipping. He was send away by his mother? He guilt tripped her for a bit but says that later in life he finds her decision justifiable. He was throw away to some boys house to get fixed? He tried to have fun and make friends since day one. And I wouldn't be surprised if those friends were users aka bad influence too. In a way he is still doing it in his adult life. He mocks minorities, who react to him negatively while the other side of the extreme supports him and finds him hilarious. How can anyone change if all their live the same pattern happens? And if he tried to change now and show "weakness", he probably feels like he would be eaten alive since the loudest people are the least forgiving. And I mean it on both sides. The one extreme would call him a snowflake while the other would say he is lying and should pay for his actions while never accepting him. Change is hard, especially in the era of the internet. Everyone can look up what you said and even if you delete it, someone probably screenshot it. It's very hard for anyone to even think of turning a new leaf because the past will always come to haunt you. Especially when people are not charitable and misrepresent your actions while removing most of the context. The way the other guy introduced Jimmy was pretty cold-hearted. This is probably why when Dr K was asking his question Jimmy was defensive for the first 30 minutes or so.
@machinegurlll
@machinegurlll Жыл бұрын
​@@illusionofquality979to be fair, it's hard to give a warm-hearted introduction to someone who has decided to make their personality "the bad guy" - even if it is a giant front.
@machinegurlll
@machinegurlll Жыл бұрын
He is the way he is because Narcsisism makes you incapable of self reflection. He believes he's doing everything just fine.
@alisamurdock7667
@alisamurdock7667 Жыл бұрын
But EVERYONE does this! Just watch people, and if you look hard, you'll see the same type of things in yourself because it is hard to re train your learned behaviors, it's subconscious and it just doesn't occur to you easily.
@NotJimmyfromPhilly
@NotJimmyfromPhilly Жыл бұрын
You can only be hurt if you're fragile
@TopFurret
@TopFurret 8 ай бұрын
Incredible interview. Jimmy is abrasive but deep down he's a good guy. His sucky fcky comment and Dr K's reaction had me laughing out loud. Don't blame him for going after the people repeatedly stealing his property either. I don't know if Jimmy would be reading these comments, but if he does, I really hope your daughter watches this and gives you another chance to get to know you and form her own opinions without your ex's influence.
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 8 ай бұрын
Thanks
@calebperz-stewart4334
@calebperz-stewart4334 7 ай бұрын
2 years later and Jimmy is still looking at these comments. Amazing how much this interview may have affected him! Hope things are going good Jimmy!
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 7 ай бұрын
@@calebperz-stewart4334 sober 6 months in a recovery house,thanks
@egontokessy1610
@egontokessy1610 7 ай бұрын
@@JimmyfromPhilly1how are you doing? Are you ok?
@JimmyfromPhilly1
@JimmyfromPhilly1 7 ай бұрын
@@egontokessy1610 Yes 6 months sober, thanks for asking
@KKL385
@KKL385 Ай бұрын
Great experience watching the way the three of you communicated and how over time the dynamic shifted. Dr. K. Is phenomenal as he works with someone. Exactly the type of approach I would thrive with in treatment. Excellent episode and really appreciate all that you do Doc.
@TRASHMONGR
@TRASHMONGR 2 жыл бұрын
I've never seen someone so aggresively yet casually chainsmoke in their own home
@theeturnone
@theeturnone 2 жыл бұрын
and is that his edgy son's bedroom. . .lmao
@conjointoates
@conjointoates 2 жыл бұрын
Smoke and vape at the same time too
@GloryBlazer
@GloryBlazer 2 жыл бұрын
@@conjointoates "I'm trying to vape more" 😂
@GloryBlazer
@GloryBlazer 2 жыл бұрын
Can't smoke if you are too busy vaping... or are you? O.O
@amphibeingmcshpongletron5026
@amphibeingmcshpongletron5026 2 жыл бұрын
@@GloryBlazer Dual wielding ftw
@goobgo
@goobgo 2 жыл бұрын
"Jimmy chased a car full of black teenagers while intoxicated" Dr K: *Bewildered expression* Takes notes
@Versace_sheets
@Versace_sheets 2 жыл бұрын
No no dude he got it all wrong, they were 20. It really changes things.
@goobgo
@goobgo 2 жыл бұрын
@@Versace_sheets Ah yeah my bad
@Versace_sheets
@Versace_sheets 2 жыл бұрын
I cant believe he said that like it was a meaningful correction lmao what a moron
@fefe2222
@fefe2222 2 жыл бұрын
@@Versace_sheets Also thieves and racists
@knatgeozirconium2030
@knatgeozirconium2030 2 жыл бұрын
He only called them the N word in the police cruiser 😂 jfc
@davidcarroll4058
@davidcarroll4058 4 ай бұрын
Packman sees EVERYTHING from the perspective of being a victim.
@stoneleachman9647
@stoneleachman9647 2 ай бұрын
Dr. K is phenomenal! I’m a medical student not interested in psychiatry, but my gosh he is phenomenal. It’s amazing to see him work.
@vb2050
@vb2050 2 жыл бұрын
Just an interesting observation: Therapists are trying their best to prevent the conversation from going on a tangent because the person who is going through the therapy desperately wants to avoid the topics or thoughts that would help them overcome their issues. So I have a lot of respect for therapists who stuck it out in a bid to help their patients.
@philipje1
@philipje1 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, most doctors have to somewhat guide the patient in the right direction. Help them realize and understand. A psychiatrist is of course way more equipped than a surgeon, but all need the skill.
@tidalgfx
@tidalgfx 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. If it isn't reigned in it becomes a conversation, not therapy.
@grimfpv292
@grimfpv292 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah well, he wasn't there for therapy in the first place. That's why.
@PlanetJeroen
@PlanetJeroen 2 жыл бұрын
I have an even more interesting observation for you: you missed K's preface of the conversation as being 'just a conversation'. Even better is that he is trying to find a reason for painting the behaviour of the man in a bad daylight. The dude has some rough edges, but seems to be up front, honest and not too complicated..
@Mary-ix9sg
@Mary-ix9sg 2 жыл бұрын
That's a good point. They do the same thing in police interrogations, actually. If you've watched any JCS you'll probably be familiar with this. Guilty/nervous people tend to go on long, unrelated tangents to avoid talking about the crime, and police have to find a way to gently guide them back to the topic without making them more nervous.
@DanEllis
@DanEllis 2 жыл бұрын
Always good to start an "unbiased" interview with a character assassination.
@catsrule8844
@catsrule8844 2 жыл бұрын
You'll have to excuse me... I thought you were on some BS when I read this at first, but 15 minutes into the interview, holy crap, David is monstrously cruel...
@usefulbobcat
@usefulbobcat 2 жыл бұрын
For a second I thought you meant because he looks like a npc from a game like hitman or something
@dair4245
@dair4245 2 жыл бұрын
@@catsrule8844 You think maybe you're missing the context of the relationship between David Pakman and this guy from Philly? The guy from Philly was a known caller to the show and repeatedly lambasted David as some preacher of falsehoods and was known to use transphobic, homophobic slurs etc. So David might be more comfortable being tough on this person because of their history. Not only that, but this man adamantly states that he doesn't really give a shit about what anyone thinks. So, who cares if David points out his personal problems? The guy from Philly very obviously doesn't care what David says.
@vexxshades2004
@vexxshades2004 2 жыл бұрын
BTW is he smoking meth whenever he turns the camera off? He seems very much like i am when I take too much adderall. Constantly smoking and fidgeting.
@Gerwulf97
@Gerwulf97 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah holy shit
@sethpython8968
@sethpython8968 9 ай бұрын
David laughing throughout Jimmy’s interview, particularly when Dr. K was concerned about Jimmys health with regards to smoking, was so disheartening to see
@disequalone
@disequalone 10 ай бұрын
I'm absolutely enthralled by this interaction. I used to be angry, retaliatory, frustrated, addicted, and i blamed everything on everyone else. I hit a wall where I either died or changed, I changed. I had to confront everything about myself and I see that need for sefl actualization in Jimmy. The hate needs to stop, gay people didn't make you feel this way, trans people didnt hurt you. Insecurities that cause us to attack or "one up" other people that we can just walk away from is a crutch, a crutch that kills you. Im obviously just another idiot online lol, I was never as intense as Jimmy, even tho my parents killed themselves in front of me and left me as a broke and alone orphan from early high school. Anger is a drug, hope you get yourself help and embrace it. Respect for all involved for their part in this.
@salmondon7592
@salmondon7592 2 жыл бұрын
Somehow the way David responds to Jimmy leaves a distasteful feeling, like he looks down on him or tries to antagonise him, even Dr K notices it
@slappy5204
@slappy5204 2 жыл бұрын
yeah because pakman is a lefty and he its not about truth its about winning, thats why pakman goes for the jugular within 5 seconds of starting, he is scared that he is wrong
@knightofjustice5475
@knightofjustice5475 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know much about Doctor K, but both of them act like conceited dicks from Planet Serious.
@rve420
@rve420 2 жыл бұрын
The guy's been a listener calling into David's show leaving hateful messages for over two years now. If that's the extent of your interactions with no knowledge of the strangers past, I don't blame him.
@slappy5204
@slappy5204 2 жыл бұрын
@@rve420 is that how delicate pakmans little mind is, some stranger from the back ass off nowhere and pakman needs a doctor to help deal with him lmfao, you people are pathetic
@BladeValant546
@BladeValant546 2 жыл бұрын
@@slappy5204 You are projecting very hard here.
@jennwelch1
@jennwelch1 8 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed that discussion. From the psychological perspective and my own AA/Recovery and personal experiences. I won't express my own feelings or opinions on this man because it's not my place, and frankly, no one asked lol. I just really want to applaud your way of speaking to him in an honest, constructive, and positive way. This is the first time I've seen your channel, or heard you talk. I'm definitely going to subscribe. Thanks.
@Vlokens
@Vlokens 6 ай бұрын
dayum!!!!! Man.... I'm speechless..... I mean, I've being watching (most listening to) a lot of these videos lately, lots of amazing ones (Sasha, Charlie...) but this one, man...... I'm so amazed how Dr. K can have such a great conversation with someone in such an advanced age and with such a harded mind. Dr. K, you're a great person/doctor, you inspire me to want to become a better person
@567dirt8910
@567dirt8910 2 жыл бұрын
Jimmy's ceiling tiles were white when the stream started.
@theeturnone
@theeturnone 2 жыл бұрын
hahahahaa, omg. . . you got me cracking up with that comment
@GloryBlazer
@GloryBlazer 2 жыл бұрын
I had to check🤣
@poifish7442
@poifish7442 2 жыл бұрын
?
@GloryBlazer
@GloryBlazer 2 жыл бұрын
@@poifish7442 He's just joking about Jimmy smoking so much the color of his ceiling tiles got gray
@joethompson1898
@joethompson1898 2 жыл бұрын
Damn I was hoping they would just slowly de-smokify as I scrolled backwards hahaha.
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