Anger Management for Relationships

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Dr. Christian Conte

Dr. Christian Conte

Күн бұрын

5 Keys to Anger Management in Relationships!
Dr. Christian Conte with Kristen Conte
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#MuchPeace

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@eddiedeeboyette5284
@eddiedeeboyette5284 4 жыл бұрын
Ive shared this video with almost every young couple I know. Wish I had see something like this 30 yrs ago.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! We're definitely sending you all our best and tons of peace!
@danielconstruction8415
@danielconstruction8415 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video bro but one more question what do I do when my wife keep curseing at me for the littleest thing and keep bring my pass up and accuse me ?
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 4 жыл бұрын
@@danielconstruction8415 This is a great question! I have a radio show on Monday nights (tonight from 8pm-10pm EST), and I will address this on there for sure! Much peace!
@Xoxotnylatina
@Xoxotnylatina 4 жыл бұрын
Daniel Construction oh my god she sounds like me 😩😩 and I hate doing that! That’s why I’m on his videos
@charliedavies3236
@charliedavies3236 4 жыл бұрын
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@blondiex3308
@blondiex3308 2 жыл бұрын
Shout out to all the people that are coming here to learn, grow and be better 💙
@podsopop
@podsopop Жыл бұрын
Hi, Blondie X. Returning the shout out and hoping you're progressing the way you want and need.
@iAmDovahz
@iAmDovahz 8 ай бұрын
Shout out to whoever you are!
@Mushroom321-
@Mushroom321- 8 ай бұрын
Yes!!!😮😮
@Devilishbby444
@Devilishbby444 3 ай бұрын
Thx you love
@lauraconde-puello2604
@lauraconde-puello2604 4 жыл бұрын
The way he looks and listens to his wife. He never interrupts her. This is what I need to master with my boyfriend!
@oviya.n1317
@oviya.n1317 3 жыл бұрын
U r true.even I need this
@jhayl1642
@jhayl1642 3 жыл бұрын
I need this also,Im loosing my partner because of my anger😞
@Martialarts1on1
@Martialarts1on1 3 жыл бұрын
Lol maybe you should listen to your man 😂😂 or find someone you can have a dialog with and not a monolog
@edrock26
@edrock26 3 жыл бұрын
My observation, exactly! Body language tells you everything.
@williamblake5289
@williamblake5289 2 жыл бұрын
impossible for you..You are a woman, self-centered by definition.
@ishtarbabylon4869
@ishtarbabylon4869 5 жыл бұрын
I am going to lose him if I don't overcome my anger issues..I don't want to ..
@ceceblooms8666
@ceceblooms8666 5 жыл бұрын
I am in the same place. What did you do ? Please help💔
@queenme1078
@queenme1078 5 жыл бұрын
Natalee Oz. that's what I say. its hard dealing with anger issues like bad I'm glad I'm not the only one
@puterinurhanis6242
@puterinurhanis6242 5 жыл бұрын
Same here 😔
@lv5310
@lv5310 4 жыл бұрын
My friends and his girlfriend are always arguing. Any solutions that worked for you ?
@dorottyaudvardy
@dorottyaudvardy 4 жыл бұрын
Natalee Oz what helped us is to go out find a place where we can break stuff, and started to break glasses and plates and kinda screamed out each bad memory and situation. With time you both get more brave at screaming haha. And now we are organizing drum classes to take out that anger energy . Please be aware being angry and mad is a natural state, you must accept it in you, otherwise it can lead to serious health problems. Love yourself and gooo scream it out, break what you wish and let goooo
@nml9374
@nml9374 6 жыл бұрын
Being wary of your tone of voice is spot on...
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
It's SO important. Sending you much peace brother!
@loki6253
@loki6253 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you I tell my husband all the time his tone tells me how he is really feeling
@timothyperry3850
@timothyperry3850 6 жыл бұрын
Anger and depression has stolen a lot from me and It’s sad that I had no idea how undesirable I was to be around . I’ve being reflecting a lot lately as me and my wife separated a few weeks back , we still love each other very much but I can’t stop feeling hurt and guilty for all the things I ever said out of anger . This video was painful but spot on I will do anything do get my wife back after listening to my tocxic mouth for 10 years .
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
I have a radio show on Monday nights on kdkaradio.com from 8pm-10pm EST. I'll definitely address this question, because this is something that I think you would find that you're not alone in feeling. The reality is that the past is gone, however, so all you can do is work from this moment forward to do your best from here on out. Continue to learn about yourself. Continue to work on yourself, and please be easy on yourself. You're human, and the only thing you can do is keep plugging away. Sending you all my best and much peace!
@leerag
@leerag 5 жыл бұрын
Basically how I feel with my ex
@gg24565
@gg24565 5 жыл бұрын
I've been going through the same thing, and just started therapy to work things out. I released a lot of the pain i've been carrying by talking it through and shedding tears. You will change if you have a big enough reason to do so, which it sure sounds like you have! All the best!
@diamondstarr7388
@diamondstarr7388 5 жыл бұрын
Hope you are better and are in a much better place!
@kiranmahilange9
@kiranmahilange9 4 жыл бұрын
This comment was 1 year ago. Dealing with same problem. Same guilt. Hope you found a way. If yes please be generous and share. Good luck.
@jocelynediaz6891
@jocelynediaz6891 5 жыл бұрын
Im learning to deal with my anger, im getting married soon and I want my marriage to last, I love him and the love I have over him is bigger than my anger and ego
@forgotmylogininfo
@forgotmylogininfo 5 жыл бұрын
"Memory isn't perfect" absolutely!! Too many times my wife & I have been arguing, one will say " you did this" or I told you that" then the other says "No you didn't" or "that's not true". Now I realize that we are both right & both wrong often times. Now to remember this when emotions run high.
@jackgoodings
@jackgoodings 4 жыл бұрын
It's very different in light of an abusive controlling partner.
@travisj2695
@travisj2695 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe these things apply if you are dealing with a rational person.
@CASTRO45ACP
@CASTRO45ACP 5 жыл бұрын
Well that's a whole other show, how to pick the right mate.
@jey1716
@jey1716 5 жыл бұрын
Travis Jourdain ..well said , if you don't have a compatible spouse you become a wreck. They can drive you crazy. I'm facing this every day n don't know what to do really
@Lennon766
@Lennon766 5 жыл бұрын
So true. I ended up having an affair with one of my wife's personalities that her other three didn't know about
@jackgoodings
@jackgoodings 4 жыл бұрын
You have to get out
@jackgoodings
@jackgoodings 4 жыл бұрын
In the case of abusive partners, predators, it's not about picking the right partner . They'll mirror you and deceive you into you believing that you've found the right person.
@XxWaNt5oM3xX
@XxWaNt5oM3xX 5 жыл бұрын
I just found your videos, my wife and I have been married for almost 3 years, I’m having trouble keeping my cool in even the littlest arguments. I want to be able to keep my cool, control my emotions, not get so angry, and hopefully my wife and I can be as happy as you two seem to be. Thanks for sharing you’re positive insight into what has become my biggest challenge in life. Peace ✌️ love and respect to both of you!
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you my man. I can tell you that my wife and I are happier now, after having been together for 21 years (married 19), than we ever have been in the past - and just recently we were talking about what kind of advice we would have liked to have given ourselves in the first 5 and first 10 years of our marriage, so I expect us to make a video on that pretty soon. Definitely sending you and your wife all our best. We certainly appreciate you sharing this channel if possible. Wishing you two tons of peace!
@ashleybaldwin6785
@ashleybaldwin6785 2 жыл бұрын
Ashley Baldwin
@ashleybaldwin6785
@ashleybaldwin6785 2 жыл бұрын
Ashley Baldwin
@ashleybaldwin6785
@ashleybaldwin6785 2 жыл бұрын
Ashley Baldwin 👍🏽
@ashleybaldwin6785
@ashleybaldwin6785 2 жыл бұрын
Ashley Baldwin
@sirrigwendoline9236
@sirrigwendoline9236 Жыл бұрын
Memory Not taking things personal Letting things go Not always being right it doesn't matter Ask for what you want or need in a lovely way be an advocate of yourself Memory isn't perfect Don't take things personally Be mindful of what's going on inside if you're hungry tell me thank you for this points i will definitely try my possible best to implement them in my relationship
@unathidyantyi5701
@unathidyantyi5701 11 күн бұрын
But my woman is always right even if I need to say no I can't...and that is not good
@xKrispyx
@xKrispyx 7 күн бұрын
One of the best pieces of communication advice I ever received was “words, music, dance”. The words you say matter less than the tone you communicate them in, which matters less than the body language you are using while communicating.
@rinnyj9547
@rinnyj9547 4 жыл бұрын
I only recently realized that I have an anger problem. I have a lot of anger and resentment towards my mother and I can't even unpack why. Life is too short and while she's still around and healthy I want to make peace with her. I can't afford to lose her on bad terms and have things left unsaid or undone.
@stephanievalentin1088
@stephanievalentin1088 4 жыл бұрын
I watched this video when I was in a relationship with a manipulative person who would gaslight me and although the video was helpful for me personally, I found myself asking “Well what if he does this... and this and this...” Now I’m in a healthy relationship and this video makes 1000x more sense and I’m able to apply every part of it to my current relationship. I just want to mention that if you are with a manipulative person, that is a separate issue and if that person doesn’t genuinely want to change then the problem lies within you staying with them. Not saying it’s your fault! But just saying that manipulative people aren’t always looking for a solution like you might be, and to really evaluate that before saying this video isn’t helpful for you.
@stephanievalentin1088
@stephanievalentin1088 4 жыл бұрын
That being said, I do believe that the fact that this video might be confusing for others by all means won’t always be because their partner is manipulative so I just want to note that I’m not saying that’ll always be the reason. It’s just a possibly that I wanted to share because that was my experience :)
@Mushroom321-
@Mushroom321- 8 ай бұрын
I've experienced the manipulation 🙄i know the feeling! Congratulations 🎉to your freedom!
@SocialJusticeGameMaster
@SocialJusticeGameMaster 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that Kratos is chill now.
@drstrangeloop7820
@drstrangeloop7820 5 жыл бұрын
Ego is the roadblock to all these ideas and the reason most will not be able to install these into their lives
@ashtherebel2346
@ashtherebel2346 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!! I’m 100% agree!!
@vanessaclark2302
@vanessaclark2302 3 жыл бұрын
Free will more so as ego enhances a solid, healthy, strong sense of self built on core values that are based in love. It's when ego is without love and also forced onto others that the "o" gets skipped for another "g" 🥚🐣🍳Hence, free will more so than ego.
@galgamekthegreatlord4823
@galgamekthegreatlord4823 2 жыл бұрын
My dad passed away 6 months ago and since then I've lashed out at nearly everyone I love,been depressed and angry at the world,I don't mean to it's just everything feels like someone is doing something against me ,I over think and take things personally. I used to be joyful and happy now I'm just grumpy,upset and easily triggered. I get in to huge arguments over nothing ,I'm incredibly stubborn and full of pride and I always feel terribly guilty afterwards,I'm worried how this will affect my relationships with others. I really hope I get out of this slump. Thank you for this channel.
@PaperBagMedia83
@PaperBagMedia83 4 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you for saying “you can go to bed angry!” Thank God! Late night fights after a long work day and 3 kids is HELL
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! I really want you to know that, because working that late, taking care of three beautiful children, and handling a relationship - you need rest to take on all of that, so the last thing you need is late night fights! Definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!
@roninsamurai8128
@roninsamurai8128 3 жыл бұрын
Me and my wife fought for 3 weeks because I had ginger beer. (We both come from a different culture)So she thought I was having beer. Now the fight actually started not because she thought I was having beer but I tried to explain that ginger beer is non -alcoholic. She wasn't ready to look at any facts / evidence I was providing. And she never even checked the facts because she didn't want to be wrong and kept believing that ginger beer was alcohol for another 5 years. It changed only when she saw her friend consuming the same and her fired explained that it wasn't alcoholic.
@muthrfuqrjonz3530
@muthrfuqrjonz3530 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU Dr. Truly thank you I’m 52 & I’m finally learning coping mechanisms which I have never acquired. I was raised in a very verbally abusive physically abusive and sexually abusive violent home. I’ve spent my entire life trying to be the exact opposite of everything which raised me. I’ve learned that this is my journey and it’s for a lifetime. God bless all of us. I will master myself I will never give up on improving and learning each and every day. I’m glad that I’ve found you🙏🏼
@ashr8801
@ashr8801 Жыл бұрын
@jelenabaric3004
@jelenabaric3004 5 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best contents I found online about anger management, that truly goes deep to human nature and relationships. So excited to hear more from you :)
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I have a bunch of videos now, and I'd be grateful to you for subscribing and sharing. Sending you all our best and tons of peace!
@damianaherrera3861
@damianaherrera3861 4 жыл бұрын
Truly this is therapy
@youngkingcon2818
@youngkingcon2818 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 20 years old struggling with controlling my anger I lost my girlfriend of almost 2 years to it. I just want to feel normal and ur videos helped me see a lot that I should of done differently so thank you for guiding me towards the right direction bc I’m so lost:(
@ashr8801
@ashr8801 Жыл бұрын
It’s amazing that you’re catching it at such a young age. Please, stick with trying to improve. I had 2 friends a long time ago that both had severe anger issues, one got help, the other did not… and their lives couldn’t be more different 20 years later. I wish you the best, and never stop trying.
@PraveenSrJ01
@PraveenSrJ01 Жыл бұрын
Are you doing better now? Any updates
@youngkingcon2818
@youngkingcon2818 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the responses I didn’t expect anyone to even slightly care, I’m doing better I still have things to work on, I have explored different coping mechanisms. I slowly am feeling like myself again. I’m 21 now it’s crazy to think this was all 10 months ago a lot can happen in 10 months..
@matthewo.6734
@matthewo.6734 6 жыл бұрын
Hello, my wife and I are going through some very difficult times. We are both to blame because we have fallen away from the basics of love. I’d like to say that we just simply grew too comfortable and with that we became complacent and took our love for advantage. This is now the second video I have watched of yours but I’m already starting to get the picture that you can help me. Just wanted to say thank you and God Bless. Have a great day.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. I'm sorry to hear that you and your wife are going through some tough times. I do think it's natural to take things for granted, but with effort, you can definitely turn that around - and you obviously care, because you're taking time to watch videos and improve - which is awesome. Sending you both all our best and much peace!
@andi.lexzara
@andi.lexzara 6 жыл бұрын
I'm not married but I have been in this relationship of mine for a year and a half. I completely get what you mean by complacent. My boyfriend is extremely patient with me but recently I pushed his buttons too much and that sent me on a mission to change my temper and my need for control. You're not alone! Thanks for your honesty and I'm praying your marriage gets better!!
@damianaherrera3861
@damianaherrera3861 4 жыл бұрын
Sweet
@rotsengarcia8235
@rotsengarcia8235 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent video!!!!! We don’t always have to be right..... really good point.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Rotsen Garcia Thank you so much! Much peace!
@1khardimon
@1khardimon 4 жыл бұрын
I have this problem. Didnt realize it wasn't helping. You think the other person will convert to your idea. But it almost makes things worst!
@ayoutubegirl5933
@ayoutubegirl5933 3 жыл бұрын
But what if your partner is doing something disrespectful and you ask them to stop because it's wrong. They down play the act, disregard your feelings, and makes half ass change. Which then leaves you frustrated, then angry and then feel the need to explain why you're right. 😒
@astrogirl7167
@astrogirl7167 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! One of my goals for the new year is to deal with my anger and surround myself with peace. I've always had trouble dealing with my emotions and when my significant other and I argue its usually about something little and most of the time I work myself and him up to a point where the only way I can show how I'm feeling is through crying. I'm actually watching this video right after we had another argument. This year I'm true to my resolutions and I will be using these steps for the next disagreement. Bless you and your family and Happy new year!
@tashball
@tashball 2 жыл бұрын
I am SO happy I finally found your videos again!!! I found them years ago and forgot to save them, and have been looking for them for the past couple years… and today I finally found them again!!!
@powercatsp
@powercatsp 5 жыл бұрын
It's nice to see that the same means of communication with children came up in this video. I came across these topics when I started my parenting journey and it's helped so much and I've been working at this with my spouse. Especially-- Don't take things personally! That was a game changer. Also recognizing your bodies needs-- we get stupid hangry in our house so we are much more aware of that now. I did like the "my memory of that was..." I'll be sure to use that from now on. Thanks so much for this!
@crystaldegregorio7981
@crystaldegregorio7981 3 жыл бұрын
MY GOD!!!! Your wife is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!!!!
@willparsons32
@willparsons32 6 жыл бұрын
Strait up and strait forward! Easily understood and will keep all that has been explained - in mind! Great tools to work with :)
@DaltonNeto
@DaltonNeto 5 жыл бұрын
Great advices, I've been married for 2 years and a half only and If I had heard these advices and tried to apply them to my daily relationship with my wife it would of helped a lot. But I praise the Lord for your lives and for having found you guys here on youtube because I can start now and it can help a lot from now on, Thank you very much.
@akogwapa8697
@akogwapa8697 Жыл бұрын
Short tempered ppl never change. Been in a relationship with a hot tempered guy for eight long yrs, he easily got mad over petty stuffs and made it a bigger issue which was so damn hard to deal with . I stuck around this long in hopes that he would change but to no avail. Its like I've had wasted most of my life trying to make an adult grow up which never happened. These ppl are chronic apologetic of their actions but never ever change. I'm glad I finally got off this kind of relationship.
@bradytercha2024
@bradytercha2024 6 жыл бұрын
Great video as always. Except I’ve been married 11years and one thing I know is she’s always right.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Lol. Thanks brother! I'm grateful my wife agreed to do this video with me! She's awesome. Sending you and your family much peace my man!
@damianaherrera3861
@damianaherrera3861 4 жыл бұрын
Sweeeet 🤘🤗🤘🤗🤘🤗🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🖖🖖🖖🖖🖖🖖
@algobo
@algobo 4 жыл бұрын
You're such a lovely couple. Amazing tips. Thank you so much!
@chriskennedy5071
@chriskennedy5071 6 жыл бұрын
I've finally got the love of my life back after over 20yrs. And my anger issues are scaring her n me. I'm gonna listen to your posts. I thank you . I got ALOT of fixing to do.
@liyahh3788
@liyahh3788 4 жыл бұрын
Did this work? What did you do ?
@stephanievalentin1088
@stephanievalentin1088 4 жыл бұрын
Liyahh I know I’m not the person who made this comment that you replied to, but I just want to say that I started listening to Dr Conte’s podcast almost every week after watching a few of these videos. I also bought his book walking through anger. Once I started listening to the podcast and trying my best to apply the lessons to myself, my whole life changed. It doesn’t happen overnight it’s an everyday practice that becomes effective over time. I started doing this about 8 months ago. Now I look back and realize how far I’ve come. I still have a long way to go but I’m so much more at peace with the darker parts of myself than I ever have been because I know that I’m constantly changing and becoming better, even when I mess up. Ive realized that I now only listen to the podcast once or twice a month because I feel confident enough to ease up on it. Almost like therapy! :) Good luck to you and your journey
@stephanievalentin1088
@stephanievalentin1088 4 жыл бұрын
Liyahh also want to add that doing this for myself ended up attracting the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had.
@PraveenSrJ01
@PraveenSrJ01 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for bringing your wife to the video Tim. Congratulations on 25 years now of marriage in 2023! That is so awesome 👏
@starboyandrew
@starboyandrew 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that there are people in this world that shares this valuable experience with others. We are the lucky generation because we learn things like that when we are 18 or around that because of the internet.
@JohnThurmanABQ
@JohnThurmanABQ 2 жыл бұрын
Just found you and as a therapist-love, this practical, straight-up approach!
@podsopop
@podsopop Жыл бұрын
Absolutely the information I need...Thank you!
@lesleycalayag9974
@lesleycalayag9974 6 жыл бұрын
For those who are not married, like myself. These are great pointers to have in mind.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Lesley Calayag Thank you so much! Sending you all the best and much peace!
@tessyjoe1117
@tessyjoe1117 6 жыл бұрын
Lesley Calayag
@jayahbaker6381
@jayahbaker6381 3 жыл бұрын
This is the best relationship advice video I have seen. Thank you so much for sharing !
@andyfuatai102
@andyfuatai102 4 жыл бұрын
I really love this woman, can't loose her, really needed this. ❤️ #Learning
@kyleaudette3776
@kyleaudette3776 6 жыл бұрын
As you talk about the keys its like i can visualize all the real reasons for any of my past arguments. I am grateful as always for both of your outstanding abilitys to make these topics relatable.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Kyle Audette Thanks brother!
@brightmorning2760
@brightmorning2760 6 жыл бұрын
Many thanks for this one, it speaks volumes. It's a great reminder to be mindful of oneself and our significant other.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Stormy Knight Thank you so much. Sending you lots of peace!
@angrykio
@angrykio 2 жыл бұрын
I had grabbed phone while the KZfaq app was still open and it went to this in the search bar after some unintelligible words were formed but I'm glad. I love my wife with all of me but this anger just eats me up and consumes me. I don't want it to be the end of us so this honestly helped me really much thank you guys
@jessicaevans2564
@jessicaevans2564 6 жыл бұрын
Right on time.
@69LOLIN
@69LOLIN 5 жыл бұрын
This also works with anykind of relationship! Good tips. Thxs! 👍
@SnezanaIvkovich
@SnezanaIvkovich 2 жыл бұрын
You are simply amazing! Bravo!!
@treeseer1573
@treeseer1573 5 жыл бұрын
1. Memory isn’t perfect- your recollection of something could be wrong - take you ego out of it ! Breathe say my memory of this was 2. Don’t take things personally - 3.letting go of the need to be right - don’t waste time trying to be right 4. Being mindful of what is going on inside of you / are you hungry ? Are you tired ? Etc 5. Ask for what you want in a assertive way not aggressive way
@tanvichaulkar5084
@tanvichaulkar5084 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I was looking for it
@tanvichaulkar5084
@tanvichaulkar5084 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I was looking for it
@tuanseattle
@tuanseattle 3 жыл бұрын
It's hard to do number 2 when the other person basically shit on you and your dignity
@esh_livinglife1542
@esh_livinglife1542 Жыл бұрын
Thank you guys ❤
@ianosborne4283
@ianosborne4283 5 жыл бұрын
bless you both for your time and effort helping us that need help.......my anger has ruined what should be the best moments with my wife and i have a lot of shame ..........blowing up what most people would brush off..........i cant turn back time But i really am trying to change and make life for my wife and family better.........i started to think its just something i cant undo for having soo long.......but this is now my priority..........i dream of self peace and peace for my family
@stevetoma3376
@stevetoma3376 5 жыл бұрын
A beautiful couple both in and out!
@sapphiremariah1
@sapphiremariah1 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice!! Love it!! Sent this out to family who is sooo in need of help and willing to accept it!! :) Thank you :)
@shivdevmlf1958
@shivdevmlf1958 6 жыл бұрын
Sir I want to be like you. If everybody was like you, the world would be a better and angry-free place to live in. Sir I am an Indian please let me know if something is wrong with my English. Regards
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. Sending you all the best and much peace!
@morgancaptain5842
@morgancaptain5842 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys great tips!
@lillianhanagan
@lillianhanagan 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you so much💗
@Mushroom321-
@Mushroom321- 5 жыл бұрын
Oh, I LOVE the positivity ya"ll are standing for & such help in peoples lives.. These rules ARE wonderful however it'd take to both people be mature in the relationship..
@Mushroom321-
@Mushroom321- 8 ай бұрын
Exactly!!, 2 emotional mature people!! 😼🤔
@praveenkethireddy4040
@praveenkethireddy4040 5 жыл бұрын
This video is so helpful, at least in learning the techniques.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Praveen! I'm definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!
@andrewcastaneda301
@andrewcastaneda301 Жыл бұрын
thank you for this wisdom and thank you for that adorable doggy
@edrock26
@edrock26 3 жыл бұрын
You have a new subscriber! This is is excellent information! I admire how both of you respect each and “bounce” off of each other’s responses. Bravo!
@tomziemann7412
@tomziemann7412 6 жыл бұрын
Classic wisdom! Love ya my Brother.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother! Much love and peace!
@maryodriscoll5378
@maryodriscoll5378 5 жыл бұрын
This video was just great , the identification I got was spot on ,I’m 6o yrs n can expect my hubby to know what I want done around the house, but I’m not going to b hard on my self ,as we learn every day n this is my lesson for today,thank you Christian n ur stunning wife .xx
@UMBUBA
@UMBUBA 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr.Conte. I’ve been struggling with all those issues but thanks to your videos I’ve got a new perspective on those issues and trying to be a better husband and a human being.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
100%. Sending you all the best and much peace!
@morgancaptain5842
@morgancaptain5842 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Doc Conte, Love your material!
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much! Much peace!
@JoeMcVideo
@JoeMcVideo 6 жыл бұрын
This has really helped. Thank you guys. Stay beautiful. And much peace!
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother! Much peace to you for sure!
@donnsecrett4072
@donnsecrett4072 2 жыл бұрын
Christian and Kristen. Nice.
@jameskemp1977
@jameskemp1977 10 ай бұрын
dr Christian conte I love your videos i watched a few of them and they are some much help please continue your awesome videos
@CaptainBCCruse
@CaptainBCCruse 5 жыл бұрын
You helped me especially with realizing my anger stemmed from wanting things to go my way with me having a very unpredictable partner and life
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful to hear that this helped. I'm definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!
@samhuffman3688
@samhuffman3688 2 жыл бұрын
This was great.!!!
@tjo230
@tjo230 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. We seem to know how to make a relationship last until we listen to experienced perspectives. Thank you again
@failfwrd
@failfwrd Жыл бұрын
Thank you man
@pdrofletch2
@pdrofletch2 4 жыл бұрын
Very helpful. Thanks
@FinznFowl82
@FinznFowl82 8 ай бұрын
I've found that its harder to date in your 40s than it was in your 20s. We're set in our ways and have been through a lot. I'll never give up on this one.
@ryanmcclure9056
@ryanmcclure9056 4 жыл бұрын
Great video, thank you so much, these keys will really help me with my anger management
@alyssanichols4323
@alyssanichols4323 2 жыл бұрын
great video. Loved seeing your dogs.
@PreitiBhamra
@PreitiBhamra 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Thank you!
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Much peace!
@robertsharrock188s
@robertsharrock188s 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Doc. I really needed some tools to work with. Thank you.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
100% and thank you brother, for taking time to share positivity with me. Much peace!
@stovetopyumyum6591
@stovetopyumyum6591 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Great tips !
@nimoali7309
@nimoali7309 6 жыл бұрын
Love it thanks
@makola1970
@makola1970 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video - thanks
@topazjas
@topazjas 4 жыл бұрын
I love the way you two give advice while facing each other and engaging in conversation with each other as well as the audience. I can see you two are a steady couple who work hard every day to maintain a healthy marriage. Thank you both for the advice! You two are awesome 😁
@donniemartinez7589
@donniemartinez7589 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Very helpful
@kelseymonier8526
@kelseymonier8526 6 жыл бұрын
Such a good/inspirational video of you and your lovely wife!! My husband and I aspire to be better (verbally). He gets angry towards me bc of financial issues and takes it out on me and i take it very personally so i lash back to him, which causes a huge, pointless argument. Thank you for sharing I love how she says "be mindful"
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Yes, being mindful really is the key (at least we think it is). Definitely sending you all our best and tons of peace!
@marcylima4165
@marcylima4165 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing, loved the video guys!
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Sending you much peace!
@ShayeReese
@ShayeReese 6 жыл бұрын
Great Vid!
@rosemary4802
@rosemary4802 2 жыл бұрын
Good advice thank you 😊 🙏
@YoutubeSera
@YoutubeSera 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful life. Beautiful couple. Thank you :)
@my_baess8179
@my_baess8179 2 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this
@georgeramos1462
@georgeramos1462 4 жыл бұрын
My German Shepherd just passed away 3 weeks ago. I'm happy to watch your video, but (he looks like my buddy!) I was happiest to see him looking out at the snow! :)
@rhysp7552
@rhysp7552 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for making this video. Just having a real interaction of a husband and wife talking to each other about this topic is helpful to me personally... when i bring it up with my wife i might post another comment 😊
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I really appreciate hearing that. That means a lot. I always love when my wife joins me in doing a video, and even though she's not a big fan of being on camera, I think kind, thoughtful comments like yours will make it easier for me to ask her to do more. Sending you and your wife much peace brother!
@zachkennow6561
@zachkennow6561 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this man. Very helpful.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Zach! Much peace my brother!
@sharirobb1117
@sharirobb1117 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! you both helped me lots i really appreciate it
@stevetoma3376
@stevetoma3376 5 жыл бұрын
Wonderful couple. I really like the point your wife made during point 3 (Let go of the need to be right) Doesn't matter who's right, all that matters is you have spent all that time and wasted all that precious life arguing over what? WOW that is one of the wisest statements I have ever heard. #PowerCouple
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 5 жыл бұрын
My man! Thank you brother! I really want you to know that I notice your kindness, your comments on other videos, and the positivity and compassion you spread into the universe every single day. Thank you brother for the light you give! Definitely sending you much peace my man!
@kaitlynnsexton8915
@kaitlynnsexton8915 6 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you. I see things way different now. I agree with everything you guys say. Or instead of fighting just talk and understand each other.
@DrChristianConte
@DrChristianConte 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! We are definitely sending you all our best and tons of peace!
@candyhearts3581
@candyhearts3581 4 жыл бұрын
I've been together with this guy for two and a half years and I feel like his anger is destroying our relationship I'm always forgiving him trying to move forward emotionally destroying me I'm new cheer Channel thumbs up congratulations on being together for almost 10 years
@marihaprincesscute5006
@marihaprincesscute5006 4 жыл бұрын
Man is very understanding 👍
@dashunwilliams584
@dashunwilliams584 9 ай бұрын
U are speaking true facts bro I’m working on myself I definitely been watching yo videos it’s give me help I’m trying grow
@atl404-moneybagg7
@atl404-moneybagg7 3 жыл бұрын
I'm here because I've been having relationship issues with the woman of my life.... I don't wanna lose her..
@froylangarza9707
@froylangarza9707 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@shravansrinivasan4982
@shravansrinivasan4982 5 жыл бұрын
Key 2 is my current problems weaknesses that is so hard to solve key 5 is Really ask what you want that is my greatness
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