I can totally agree with eye contact, when I was at church there was a cute guy that I didn’t know, but I gave him a good eye contact without looking away, not a creepy way but a confident way. I was really friendly with the people around me as well He approached me some minutes after that. He talked to me for a good time, and I think that if I didn’t did that, probably he wouldn’t talked to me :)

Ladies just give us a sign and we'll do the rest if we're feeling it. We need eye contact, give us a glance, stand near us, ask for directions or something etc. Men are less discouraged in approaching nowadays because unfortunately we've normalized that men approaching is now considered creepy, which is a big fear among men in the public. Too many women nowadays walk around with RBF, glued to their phone, or won't break away from their friend group to give the guy a chance to approach. Most men are normal guys who get nervous just like you do, we'd like to feel like you're inviting us to talk to you.

i love the closing statement, "that's just life."😂 but i also want to add that, in such cases, you are just not his "cup of tea" and that's normal; not everyone is your cup of tea either.

If he doesn’t approach you, he isn’t interested!

I had a funny interaction at a French café. There was a group of three men, one of whom caught my attention. And I was certain I caught his. I don’t know if it was the weather that day, but I was feeling confident enough to smile his way, which I could have sworn made him tense up. Anyway, one of the other men approached me (first time that's ever happened to me) and asked me how I was. I replied, "Good, how are you?" I didn't know how to tell him I liked his friend, or even what to say next. So the moment sort of fizzled out. Oh well, maybe next time. 🤷‍♀️

For me it is too difficult to turn my friendliness down. I think my friendliness, niceness and empathy makes them walk away.

The biggest thing for me as a guy is to SEE a clear signal of a invitation such as eye contact, a big smile, and finally a wave with the other two.

in my 14s I rejected a perfect boy because I didnt like this love topics being lovers etc I think it was because of the country where i lived and my family cause there this things between girls and boys considered as a not a good thing and they generally think that if you want to show your love to someone you should get married when you grow up. We were classmates for many years and after I went to another school in my 15s he declaired his love first time. He was afraid of saying it for many years and when he risked i just acted so rude and blocked him. I am not telling that i lost an opportunity. I just wanna say after many years i can understand him, how painful this situation was and I feel bad for him. I caused him a trauma. And he was one of the most respectful and kind person that i ever knew. I am so sad because of it. Back then as I mentioned because of our society I was so biased about this topics such as love. And now I understand it is normal to love someone. I feel sad about it and i just wanted to write it here.

Thanks! That's really helpful, hope to see more videos from you

Your videos are really helpful!!❤❤

Discovered your channel very recently. I love how mature and knowledgeable you are in these matters. You are teaching a lot and in a balanced, common sense way, concrete way. Thank you so much for that!

k... so basically the bend and snap, right ?

this video encapsulates taylor swift's mastermind! I enjoyed every bit of it! Thank u for the wisdom

I'm really glad I found this video. I keep reeling in men with strong feminine energy, and then I get exhausted because I cannot be in my own feminine energy when around them.

Lesson Learned "That's Just Life"

i would love some videos on friendship advice

I'm autistic. I need to fidget or stim!! Eye contact is hard. An autistic man can't read these signs, so you need to be straightforward and just tell him.

I remember I sat at a table next to this gorgeous man in a cafe and we were facing each other (his back was to the window and I was facing the window). My male coworker (who is in his 40s) was across from me, thus sitting next to the man. The WHOLE time we were making eye contact and smiling at each other. Whenever my coworker and I would laugh, he'd glance over and smile. AND WE BOTH COULDN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT BC OF MY COWORKER CO*KBLOCKING US (sweetest man though lol). Coworker and I ended up leaving and that's how I abandoned a potential boyfriend in a cafe. I still think about him at times :(

Now I understand, I'm súper friendly and opened with everyone, that's why I attract good, Bad, and evil men 🤣🤣🤣

❤ Thank You ❤

This is the second video I’m watching and all I can say is where have you been 😅

Thank you

How to make him chase if we work together but remotly

I wish I had knew this. Every man who approached me. I get annoyed 🤣 and my smiles fades away. I repeated this cycle for years :(

Why people forget that

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You have to have a deadline. Abundance mindset means that you’ll always get a better guy and many girls do. That means that the window of opportunity can’t always be open. Once the ship has sailed, it has sailed. He can’t get a chance after that. No action? No moves? No date. Any man who wastes time, isn’t high value and if he’s “meh” about it, doesn’t approach you, doesn’t ask you out and doesn’t do it in a timely fashion, then do you really want him? Do you want a man who takes months and years to make a decision? Of course not. Imagine how many decisions he’ll be unsure about in the future. Imagine how many opportunities you’ll lose out on, as a couple and family, just because he can’t make a move. 4 weeks from the time he knows about you, is more than enough for ANY man. Men will get unload leave and take a flight, just to see a girl. If he doesn’t approach you, show interest or ask you out within 4 weeks, forget about it. No grown man needs advice on how to approach women. They’ve all done it a million times. They’ve succeeded and failed. They know what to do. And even if they don’t, they’ll do it anyway, just to ensure that they don’t have regrets. If he can’t do any of that within 4 weeks, trust me, you’re better off without him. He’s not worth it.

dating is hard when you have a rbf 🧍‍♀️