Drug Addicted Appalachian Couple-Lurch and Amber

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Soft White Underbelly

Soft White Underbelly

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Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Lurch and Amber, a couple fighting drug addiction in Huntington, West Virginia.
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@michellemesser6693
@michellemesser6693 2 жыл бұрын
Amber passed away February 2022! Overdose
@sonyalytle8972
@sonyalytle8972 2 жыл бұрын
So sad
@wandarask8444
@wandarask8444 2 жыл бұрын
What a shame . Bless you Amber, and all those that loved her X love Australia x
@TheSkyHive
@TheSkyHive 2 жыл бұрын
GODAMNIT! She could have been saved. Hey Joe Manchin, quit trying to coax people to live our state and start trying to help people like this!
@CarrieRay
@CarrieRay 2 жыл бұрын
Bless her soul - poor meek woman
@jennawinkelman8260
@jennawinkelman8260 2 жыл бұрын
That's truly just awfully sad. RIP
@gracevictorious3922
@gracevictorious3922 2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, being single and alone is better than dealing with this nonsense.
@mollyrose295
@mollyrose295 2 жыл бұрын
There are worse things than being alone. Best advice I was ever given.
@debbiecraddock7204
@debbiecraddock7204 2 жыл бұрын
I do know Wv is really bad just about all the kids are hooked. People are dying there everyday. None of the Leaders are doing anything about. The older people are dying from Black Lung and Lung Cancer the rest is the young people OD on drugs.
@joolzg1936
@joolzg1936 2 жыл бұрын
Amen Sister. This guy is scary and WEIRD!!
@sloppytaco9629
@sloppytaco9629 2 жыл бұрын
@@joolzg1936 he probably hung like a elephant trunk though
@lynetterice8413
@lynetterice8413 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@swfcocs1
@swfcocs1 2 жыл бұрын
Speaking as someone who had a 20 year heroin and crack addiction, his claim of staying awake for 49 days is dubious at best, its physically nearly impossible and even if possible you would lose all concept of time way before 49 days, sounds like junkie bravado to me
@malamutelife9206
@malamutelife9206 2 жыл бұрын
He said 49 days .... but still unreal... 20 % of his stories are real
@swfcocs1
@swfcocs1 2 жыл бұрын
@@malamutelife9206 I just realised I wrote years, thanks for the heads up,, maybe 20 years of drugs addled my brain lol, I changed it so it makes some kind of sense... As for the stories you hear it all the time in that world, people try to outdo each other in tales of drugs taken, crimes committed and hospital/prison visits. I knew so many people who ended up in prison due to boasting about their crimes, it's all part I think of the self hate of addiction
@malamutelife9206
@malamutelife9206 2 жыл бұрын
@@swfcocs1 yeah I know I grew up in a meth addicted family . I can't even weed out what are real childhood stories or fake ones.. sometimes makes me seem like a lier... but I honestly just don't know what happened and went off their stories... glad I'm grown and out that life now
@miapdx503
@miapdx503 2 жыл бұрын
After two or three days the drug induced psychosis sets in...
@swfcocs1
@swfcocs1 2 жыл бұрын
@@malamutelife9206 yeah, weirdly enough meth never took off here in the UK, in 20 years I only had it a handful of times, the UK is still heroin big time, or more specifically heroin and crack injected together. Glad you got away from that life
@jani775
@jani775 2 жыл бұрын
Amber deserves a interview to herself. Please find her and interview her alone.
@irairod5160
@irairod5160 2 жыл бұрын
Amber died a couple of weeks ago, sadly. She overdosed.
@jani775
@jani775 2 жыл бұрын
@@irairod5160 No way, really??? That's so sad
@irairod5160
@irairod5160 2 жыл бұрын
@@jani775 Yes, horrible.
@twalk263
@twalk263 2 жыл бұрын
@@irairod5160 😢😩😢
@michellem.m.1477
@michellem.m.1477 Жыл бұрын
@@irairod5160 do you have proof of this ?
@classicangel887
@classicangel887 2 жыл бұрын
That man sounds quite proud of himself , and he loves the sound of his own voice ,
@eveb.6568
@eveb.6568 2 жыл бұрын
yes, HUGE addicted ego.
@naclcreep2505
@naclcreep2505 2 жыл бұрын
It’s like he knows he should be ashamed. After every story about how high he is he says “but I’m l clean right now… don’t even need the stuff”
@stevewalker4638
@stevewalker4638 Ай бұрын
Dang he is Superman 😂😂😂Lol
@BobbyDigital6411
@BobbyDigital6411 2 жыл бұрын
To walk from West Virginia to Los Angeles, that's 2,420 miles. That means he would have to walk 57.6 miles per day at 2.4 miles per hour non-stop to make it there in 42 days. Now I'm no talent scout, but I think this pro athlete might be overlooked.
@jesush.christ5978
@jesush.christ5978 2 жыл бұрын
Only in his rabid mind did he walk that far.
@nickryan4619
@nickryan4619 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure how much I believe of his stories. That's a bit far fetched if you ask me. And shooting 2 8-balls of H and 2 of meth in only a couple days? Yeah I know some heavy users but that sounds exaggerated.
@thekaerichtexas
@thekaerichtexas 2 жыл бұрын
It's the arithmetic for me 😆
@dreaallen8654
@dreaallen8654 2 жыл бұрын
Lol man broke out the y=mx+b formula 🤣
@tmckenny2994
@tmckenny2994 2 жыл бұрын
49 days without any sleep isn’t quite true either. He’s an addict, he’s gonna lie.
@billsage6039
@billsage6039 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing he says is believable which is why he controls the conversation.
@tieiatalks
@tieiatalks 2 жыл бұрын
The drugs have made him extremely paranoid.
@jayarcook292
@jayarcook292 2 жыл бұрын
His wife is constantly shaking her head no and laughing at him while he's telling his stories.
@brianz2802
@brianz2802 2 жыл бұрын
He did say he was schizophrenic
@MuayThaiTherapy
@MuayThaiTherapy 2 жыл бұрын
Good catch
@GetTheeBehindMe23
@GetTheeBehindMe23 2 жыл бұрын
I think he says certain things for shock value… “then my d!?k got hard, and I died”… me too, sir! I died laughing 😂.
@JeepGurlAZ
@JeepGurlAZ 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen someone so proud to be a drug addicted life criminal. He’s horrible. 🤬🤬🤬
@TEM14411
@TEM14411 2 жыл бұрын
False bravado perhaps.
@edrive3132
@edrive3132 2 жыл бұрын
Yea.... think he just talks big. Sad how he seems proud.
@Jenny-uv4dl
@Jenny-uv4dl Жыл бұрын
He RUNS HIS MOUTH BIG TIME
@Uchoobdood
@Uchoobdood Жыл бұрын
He’s super cool. #coolguyclub
@joanneransing388
@joanneransing388 2 жыл бұрын
This guy is just a nut job. All he does is lie and he thinks he is making himself look good with all his fabulous chaos. He's a hero in his own mind.
@river8760
@river8760 2 жыл бұрын
He’s the king of exaggeration too.
@jeskah8zy0u
@jeskah8zy0u 2 жыл бұрын
Mark, I wish you could get an interview just with Amber , alone.
@jonathanlawson4667
@jonathanlawson4667 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that bald headed piece of shit is controlling her life and even thoughts
@jillianscott4831
@jillianscott4831 2 жыл бұрын
She seems afraid of him. I don’t think she will ever get away long enough for an interview.
@jeskah8zy0u
@jeskah8zy0u 2 жыл бұрын
@@jillianscott4831 🥺 yeah you’re probably right . So so sad
@sierrachoco5271
@sierrachoco5271 2 жыл бұрын
Lurch won't allow it!
@sierrachoco5271
@sierrachoco5271 2 жыл бұрын
@@opinionsarentfacts3515 You misunderstood my post. It was said that Mark should interview her by herself. My reply was "he (Lurch) wouldn't allow it"!!
@amyh1509
@amyh1509 2 жыл бұрын
I am in recovery myself. I know people like to tell "war stories" about their drug use but it is PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE to stay awake for 49 days straight. The human body does not work that way my man.
@kpeezyforsheezy
@kpeezyforsheezy 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sure he slept. He likely meant he didn’t actually stay in any place. Probably slept for a few hours and kept moving. That’s how I interpreted it anyway. :]
@rctecopyright
@rctecopyright 2 жыл бұрын
He was likely microsleeping along the way. But yeah, it's highly likely that there's some extra "spice" added to the stories he tells
@koffinkat666
@koffinkat666 2 жыл бұрын
I have stayed awake on the Old school crank for 13 days no joke, but 49 days no I don't believe it.
@John-su6ct
@John-su6ct 2 жыл бұрын
Highly doubt he’s been in jail in every state also.
@gregoryreeves8586
@gregoryreeves8586 2 жыл бұрын
My longest stint was 10 days with no sleep and that was on the old school meth from 15 years ago. Dope back then had "Legs" on it. I seriously doubt he was up 49 days without being totally out of his mind. Especially since he shoots it..
@sarha9120
@sarha9120 2 жыл бұрын
i am lucky to know william. he is a fine gentlemen who had it rough. he is currently in recovery. amber died from a heroin overdose. amber has a hearing defect. she was never afraid of will. god bless these two.
@HdHe-gd7gh
@HdHe-gd7gh 10 ай бұрын
I met this man on a greyhound today omw to New York he is a good dude with a rough past people in these comments talking shit is ridiculous
@ChrisFrey-jl4iz
@ChrisFrey-jl4iz 3 ай бұрын
I was in recovery with William. He was a really nice guy with a rough past. He would give you the shirt off his back, do anything for you. He relapsed and he died in Charleston wv.. rip William
@sarha9120
@sarha9120 3 ай бұрын
@@ChrisFrey-jl4iz I'm sad to hear of his passing. Thank you for sharing. He was a fantastic man
@samannthaswtnss9397
@samannthaswtnss9397 2 жыл бұрын
As an addictions counsellor and former addict myself I can promise you that staying awake for 49 days straight is not possible. That mine would go insane. I am a crystal meth user myself who has been clean 8-years and the longest I stayed awake was a week. At that point I was hearing things that weren't there, seeing bugs in my apartment and on my floor, and having conversations with entities that nobody else could see. That was after one week. It's absolutely impossible to stay awake for 49 days straight.
@thebeardofgaming81
@thebeardofgaming81 2 жыл бұрын
I have had people tell me they have been awake for 9 days and i thought that was a stretch. 49 days, your body would shut down on its own before then.
@rugrat1965
@rugrat1965 2 жыл бұрын
For sure. He’s full of it.
@rickyrubio7934
@rickyrubio7934 2 жыл бұрын
He's on that boy. 😂😂
@solanoghostgirl9024
@solanoghostgirl9024 2 жыл бұрын
That reminds me of a day when I was really high and decided to kick all of the "ghosts" out of my house, lol...I could swear I saw them leaving through the backyard fence.
@chell7218
@chell7218 Жыл бұрын
For sureeee he musta forgot about Michael Jackson lol 😅
@courtneywilliams3616
@courtneywilliams3616 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t really get the feeling that she’s looking to him for “permission” to speak, it seems like she might be hard of hearing
@Becca_MS-fighter
@Becca_MS-fighter 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Mark said she is deaf in one ear..he is simply helping his partner. People look to much into ish🤦‍♀️
@usmc_sunscreenqueen
@usmc_sunscreenqueen 2 жыл бұрын
I thought so as well
@S2daUZ
@S2daUZ 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah seems to be
@heavenhell393
@heavenhell393 2 жыл бұрын
I agree ,she has the signs of being hard of hearing and poor thing has no teeth and still so young. He was just helping her as she couldn't hear. I have a cousin who is deaf and when he was losing his hearing he was same way as her. Plus she seemed kinda shy ...bashful. He actually gave her praise for saving him and sticking with him.
@olivialewis5925
@olivialewis5925 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I think she is hard of hearing. I am and look to my husband to translate to me. The mask really throw me off.
@darrellleonidas2590
@darrellleonidas2590 2 жыл бұрын
Something about her mannerism make it seem like he's highly abusive to her. She seems very nervous around him
@momdiddy623
@momdiddy623 2 жыл бұрын
Nail on the head 🤕
@taraboo762
@taraboo762 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@triplefiresign
@triplefiresign 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. She doesn’t speak unless he’s speaking to her.
@pim5490
@pim5490 2 жыл бұрын
Agree.... almost makes it seem she is on the spectrum. Prayers for them both.
@daashazireael6613
@daashazireael6613 2 жыл бұрын
Well with relationships like this with the drugs and homelessness and all that abuse he mentioned.
@liberty5069
@liberty5069 2 жыл бұрын
After listening to this for 22:12, I feel like I just received my master's degree in bullshitting.
@mandyjuelz
@mandyjuelz 2 жыл бұрын
I have chronic anxiety and my heart goes out to Amber, I see her shaking with nervousness and anxiety. I’ve been like that before and it’s like living in an absolute hell…anxiety that is severe will stop you from performing basic daily functions like going to work, going to the grocery, etc. i couple imagine dealing with it and being homeless with Lurch on top of it. Im so thankful that I found an amazing psychiatrist and am practicing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy along with my Xanax prescription to take as needed. My heart goes out to her because I can literally feel her anxiety through the screen. 💔💔
@matthewlewis6205
@matthewlewis6205 2 жыл бұрын
Zanex? Say hello to ur nightmare.
@aarondodson1261
@aarondodson1261 Жыл бұрын
Ssri are quite helpful also
@brettlott570
@brettlott570 Жыл бұрын
@@matthewlewis6205 I second that about Xanax. That stuff will have you doing things you won’t even remember/realize. Hopefully she doesn’t abuse it
@mombear2749
@mombear2749 2 жыл бұрын
A quiet, lost and little lady beside a very large lost and loud man. A combination that is heart wrenching to watch and terrifying to be a part of. God bless them both ❤️🙏🏼
@davidrhelmick72
@davidrhelmick72 2 жыл бұрын
And he gets horny when he's high
@corysargent7057
@corysargent7057 2 жыл бұрын
God is good and He can do miracles.
@Mmargo1017
@Mmargo1017 2 жыл бұрын
The main reason she was being so quiet is because she has a hearing issue. That’s why he had to repeat her questions to her while she was looking at his face. Just letting you know.
@mombear2749
@mombear2749 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mmargo1017 I was referring to her demeanour but it’s good to get some extra context I suppose !
@sammyblueeyes7386
@sammyblueeyes7386 2 жыл бұрын
She seems almost scared to speak, excited to be apart of something but unsure if she should even engage. I hope she finds her voice and they can turn their lives around.
@ayyyitsfaithh2910
@ayyyitsfaithh2910 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think he controlled her speaking , I think she just can’t hear .
@automaticsweetheart2009
@automaticsweetheart2009 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Once he yelled the question in her ear and she processed what he asked, she answered freely.
@catebartley9865
@catebartley9865 2 жыл бұрын
Like Mark explained, amber is deaf in one ear so she's extremely hard of hearing ur correct.
@sherirex7177
@sherirex7177 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I don't see any kind of power control over her. It seems like she can't hear very well is all so he repeats the question for her.
@brandiva96
@brandiva96 2 жыл бұрын
I think you are right....when she looks at him she can see his mouth better and he speaks louder
@davechristian7543
@davechristian7543 2 жыл бұрын
@@automaticsweetheart2009 or maybe it was more like him giving her permission to speak !
@erinfischer5355
@erinfischer5355 2 жыл бұрын
Amber has so much to say and no room to say it. Completely domineered by Lurch. You can see her discomfort listening to his horrendous trauma, and it's clear their relationship works for him. I can't help but wonder if it works for her? This poor woman needs opportunity to have a voice.
@sunsetoverflowing
@sunsetoverflowing 2 жыл бұрын
It would be really nice if we could have heard more from Amber. Lurch just plowed right over her to speak. Give her her voice back, bro!
@brittaolson6550
@brittaolson6550 2 жыл бұрын
He repeated Mark’s questions to her and tried to get her talking.
@JonatanRonnlycke
@JonatanRonnlycke 2 жыл бұрын
Have never seen someone who looks more like their name than Lurch does.
@ottelisezipporah-isadora8070
@ottelisezipporah-isadora8070 2 жыл бұрын
😆😊
@davidsheriff9274
@davidsheriff9274 2 жыл бұрын
Lurch meets Slingblade.
@TheWanderingDukes
@TheWanderingDukes 2 жыл бұрын
The real life deliverance. I mean who lies about having something like HIV ?
@gunnerfields1647
@gunnerfields1647 2 жыл бұрын
Best comment ever
@Seekyourtruth777
@Seekyourtruth777 2 жыл бұрын
Was looking for this comment
@RedeyedEm
@RedeyedEm 2 жыл бұрын
I really mean this with no hate but man, I do not miss people like this while I was active in my addiction. He is someone who is very hard to be around, I’m exhausted just listening to him for 22:13.
@cindyfitzgerald4500
@cindyfitzgerald4500 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way I hated being around them. I usually only put up with them bc they had what I needed or had connections
@monicabroussard840
@monicabroussard840 2 жыл бұрын
@@cindyfitzgerald4500 same
@christiane3334
@christiane3334 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously. I don't think I could hold a conversation with him. I would walk away ffs he's tiring
@dianestewart7917
@dianestewart7917 2 жыл бұрын
During my addiction I never met someone as full of himself as this guy.
@leighhunterjumperz3038
@leighhunterjumperz3038 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@SassyKYgirl51
@SassyKYgirl51 2 жыл бұрын
I have worked at both harmony house and the city mission in Huntington WV. The only way to be refused food is if you get banned for violence, threatening etc. Usually the mission will give a bag lunch if that happens. These services are amazing and helps the homeless IF they do what they are supposed to.
@lmcwill0502
@lmcwill0502 2 жыл бұрын
Speechless 😢 Thank you Mark for sharing such raw material that many of us are not accustomed to. I am glad Lurch found someone that he trusts and gives him some reason to live, but living without drugs is a must to truly live life to fullest.
@dannygentry6988
@dannygentry6988 2 жыл бұрын
Her shaking her head during his stories is sending me 😂😂😂😂😂
@simplyme9016
@simplyme9016 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! 😆😆
@InsomniOwl_
@InsomniOwl_ 2 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too 🤣
@Phuck_Yew
@Phuck_Yew 2 жыл бұрын
@@InsomniOwl_ #MeToo
@YahyaAkbarFarhad
@YahyaAkbarFarhad 2 жыл бұрын
She knows he is full of shit LOL!
@aloraparker2837
@aloraparker2837 2 жыл бұрын
😂 True. I feel bad for her the way she's looking down I bet he's hard to deal with
@snowfeetm385
@snowfeetm385 2 жыл бұрын
Her body language tells the truth…I see you lil girl, get away..far away
@thematriarchy2075
@thematriarchy2075 2 жыл бұрын
She's not a little girl anymore. She's 34.
@miapdx503
@miapdx503 2 жыл бұрын
The age difference...he literally said "she's my daughter but she's my wife" 🤢
@jomr4249
@jomr4249 2 жыл бұрын
@@miapdx503 No, he said people “think” she’s his daughter, after mark said he thought she was 14...
@justme4696
@justme4696 2 жыл бұрын
PEACE AND BLESSINGS TO ALL THAT ARE INVOLVED WITH THIS STORY....THANK GOD THAT TROUBLE DOESN'T LAST ALWAYS!
@petebutler5139
@petebutler5139 2 жыл бұрын
This dude is on a roll! He’s got all his lies down packed and can spit them at the drop of a hat! I know a guy just like him. Won’t stop talking, lies about everything so much so that he doesn’t know the truth any longer.
@gwyn9846
@gwyn9846 2 жыл бұрын
Also...my husband is a retired professional fire fighter from the Huntington Fire Department. He was working his shift on that day in 2016 when there were several overdoses. He was the Captain at #4. Citywide there were 26 overdoses, 6 of the overdoses occured in my husband's district alone. And him saying 80% of Huntington is HIV positive is utterly ridiculous!!
@sierrachoco5271
@sierrachoco5271 2 жыл бұрын
Yup! This guy is a big time wind bag!
@wandarask8444
@wandarask8444 2 жыл бұрын
You comment is touching bless your husband and you . Thankyou for all your husband has done . The guy iwith Amber is a control freak .. Amber passed away recently. Love from Australiax
@tieneeddoawestruck2036
@tieneeddoawestruck2036 2 жыл бұрын
I was born and raised in Ashland, KY. It's sad to see how far those two cities have fallen.
@681-sg
@681-sg 2 жыл бұрын
He’s clearly lost in space
@chuckwagner76
@chuckwagner76 2 жыл бұрын
Wow I've never seen someone tell so many bs stories in 22 minutes 😂
@Xeyedjohn
@Xeyedjohn 2 жыл бұрын
The buried up to the neck in quicksand part was true though.
@wandarask8444
@wandarask8444 2 жыл бұрын
Haha so funny Thanks x
@diane9247
@diane9247 2 жыл бұрын
Amber seems like a very vulnerable person. I hope she's safe, and if she isn't I hope she at least knows how to reach out to someone trustworthy.
@TheModernMan92
@TheModernMan92 2 жыл бұрын
sadly she passed away this month !!! Its pinned in the comment's :(
@diane9247
@diane9247 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheModernMan92 Oh no, bless her. So sorry to hear that. 💐
@shannoncaskey5294
@shannoncaskey5294 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a nurse here in Huntington and about threw my phone when he said 80% of Huntington has HIV. 🤦🏻‍♀️
@Harlan1973
@Harlan1973 2 жыл бұрын
He's an abusive liar. I don't feel sorry for him.
@User-hv5wm
@User-hv5wm 2 жыл бұрын
not one bit
@miapdx503
@miapdx503 2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@joolzg1936
@joolzg1936 2 жыл бұрын
@Moony Agree! He's horrible.
@cryptocred5754
@cryptocred5754 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone who’s been in the drug world knows a “Lurch”. Never ever known one to get sober, for long. Unfortunately they have to learn to stay sober and to do that, delete their character and restart from scratch. Because for them, it’s not just a few character defects to fix, their whole character is defective.
@wolfumz
@wolfumz 2 жыл бұрын
it's sort of humorous to me how he's totally contemptuous towards the providers who toil to try and help him and Amber. He talks shit on local providers Harmony House, The Mission, etc, for not helping him enough, or not helping him the right way. I work as a drug counselor for homeless and probationers, I'm always wondering if there's a better way of doing things re: outreach and assistance to the homeless. It's just so difficult when people are not ready to change.
@christiane3334
@christiane3334 2 жыл бұрын
@@wolfumz yeah he was like "you people who are supposed to help me" ummmm really
@tamaraskinner4877
@tamaraskinner4877 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree it is truth that you have too revert to scratch to start again and learn to become whole ,you have to understand that for not only the people that love you and wish you well but for yourself and soul you must make a change and be committed to it no matter what
@carlykamps411
@carlykamps411 2 жыл бұрын
Kind of sounds like they need to… idk.. be “born again”.
@carlykamps411
@carlykamps411 2 жыл бұрын
Kind of sounds like they need to… idk.. be “born again”.
@dwightsanders1335
@dwightsanders1335 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for this couple!!
@ruinsane100
@ruinsane100 2 жыл бұрын
My intuition screams that this woman is being abused by him.
@1ohmwrecker
@1ohmwrecker 2 жыл бұрын
I hope he gets out of this victim state of mind. He's upset cuz ppl just don't give him what he wants. I had to work for what I got. I was addicted to heroin in 2013. My mom died from OD. My dad is a alcoholic. And I've got a wife, 5 kids, 3 cars, a house, beautiful home, and amazing job. Life is what u make it. Gotta do something about it.
@BethRazz
@BethRazz 2 жыл бұрын
I've been sober for 7 years from same thing but it feels like all I did was remove the drugs and the people I knew. It's not that simple imo. I always think of it in the extremes like if life is what you make it well I wish I could make it so I had extreme wealth, perfect body, and perfect love all stuff that's near impossible so I disagree with life is what you make it. Kudos on getting where you want to be tho.
@gailthomson3873
@gailthomson3873 2 жыл бұрын
Well done you have done amazing wish you all the best as you are a true picture of what people can do when they put there mind to it
@tieiatalks
@tieiatalks 2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 We all have to rise above our raising! Congratulations to you on making a beautiful life for you and your wife and kids! ♥️
@myleemallery7383
@myleemallery7383 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 61 years old and I just want to tell you ...I'm proud of you 🙂
@1ohmwrecker
@1ohmwrecker 2 жыл бұрын
@@BethRazz I understand what you're getting at.in 2013 I went to prison. My kids went to foster care. My mom was doing heroin, and my dad is a alcoholic so noone could take them. I did 1.5 yrs in prison, and got out with less than 6 months to get custody of my kids back before the 2 yrs are up and they'd be adoptable. In 6 month with NO support what so ever, I had a job, house and car and got them back. My daughter is now 19 and at Akron University in Ohio on full scholarship. My son is 16 and in high school. I had 3 more since then. But grinded and grinded. I had no choice. I had to prevail. Now I've been at my job for over 6 yrs and make $80+k a year. Drive a Mercedes-Benz. And did it all myself. All the excuses didn't matter. Couldn't matter. I had to succeed and I'm still only getting further and further every day. With no support either. My 3 youngest don't even know what a grandma and grandpa are. They just think all older ppl are grandma and grandpas.😔 so needless to say, I don't do well with the excuses. If anyone should have fallen, it should have been me.
@ashleyyy1
@ashleyyy1 2 жыл бұрын
She’s just sitting there probably so used to his lies just constantly. Pathological liar. I’ll pray for her. She deserves so much better.
@bb8470
@bb8470 2 жыл бұрын
You spoke my mind.
@tuifilipo9958
@tuifilipo9958 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree.. She's better off without him.
@Kellysbiggestfan311
@Kellysbiggestfan311 2 жыл бұрын
What will praying do?
@matildabishops9196
@matildabishops9196 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kellysbiggestfan311 …Pray for a better life for her!
@ArizonaAkinTv
@ArizonaAkinTv 2 жыл бұрын
What automatically makes her so much better than him? You just didn’t get to hear her delusions as much. They’re both in the same situation.
@sherrellelawrence408
@sherrellelawrence408 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing.
@michaelpuntillo3500
@michaelpuntillo3500 2 жыл бұрын
Guys, she's not looking to him for permission. She legit can't hear too good. She definitely has a hearing problem.
@jennajune2101
@jennajune2101 2 жыл бұрын
This is the exact dynamic my mom & her boyfriend have. EXACT. Unfortunately this relationship isn’t uncommon, anywhere. ***and constantly lying about everything or extremely embellishing stories is wayyyyy too common for addicts, especially those on meth***
@laffytiffy4730
@laffytiffy4730 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! My dad is an addict of meth and alcohol. He alternates between the two and he is the biggest liar/embellisher that I’ve ever met. The lies just flow smoothly from his mouth. 🤦🏽‍♀️ It’s so so sad.
@sparkyskooter911
@sparkyskooter911 2 жыл бұрын
I would say there's definitely a 'type' per say, of person who acts like this, or people who over exaggerate stories. People who have an ego complex or like people who wanna look 'harder'. Or just to sound cooler, ya know. But someone who's generally egotistical af+hard on meth(and especially because he shoots it, that's gonna get you wired from the second you take it and typically you're taking larger amounts at once)= this guy exactly. Lol I've seen men exactly like him it's almost funny to me. (It's obviously not actually funny but yeah lol) just had to say definitely not all people who use act like that 😂🤣 I never did, shit drove me NUTS
@mz.abbott8365
@mz.abbott8365 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Everything you said…yes. 😔
@goldierule1350
@goldierule1350 2 жыл бұрын
Also, I don't think he's 48 unless he time travelled back about 15 years. I hope he doesn't read this, that may be his next story. 😕✌
@lynnhexler-haan3357
@lynnhexler-haan3357 2 жыл бұрын
That " relationship" is on a wing & a prayer ! Lurch has a rare talent, he embroidered himself a dramatic back story, he relegated his " woman" to a couple of back stitches !
@rebeccapotter1115
@rebeccapotter1115 2 жыл бұрын
I think this is best way to describe it with such color you can reach out and touch it
@angelegabe7770
@angelegabe7770 2 жыл бұрын
@Lynn “Absolutely!!” ✔️ 💯
@sarahdixon6011
@sarahdixon6011 2 жыл бұрын
Very poetically.put 🙂
@twalk263
@twalk263 2 жыл бұрын
This guy is too much!!! He is so self absorbed and loves the sound of his own voice. He thinks he knows everything and has an answer for everything and deflects any responsibility for his situation. When she speaks, she comes across authentic and genuine.
@gwyn9846
@gwyn9846 2 жыл бұрын
I actually saw Amber (sans Lurch) a few days ago at one of Huntington's grocery stores.
@justinlemon4130
@justinlemon4130 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone notice she won’t answer mark directly unless lurch gives her the nod
@h-lorolltide92
@h-lorolltide92 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jleesdollies agree 100%. I don't think she's looking for his approval to answer. I'm hard of hearing and I often look to the person nearest me to clarify what someone else is saying when I can't make it out.
@zakyrahallman9425
@zakyrahallman9425 2 жыл бұрын
@@h-lorolltide92 that’s what I thought too. I don’t think she can hear Mark not really anything to do with Lurch but probably another dependency for sure
@vonderloo3184
@vonderloo3184 2 жыл бұрын
If she were hard of hearing, she would be trying to read lips. She is staring at her feet. She is controlled and or on the spectrum and easily controlled.
@jessicalund5190
@jessicalund5190 2 жыл бұрын
@@vonderloo3184 I always see you commenting on Mal's channel too...have a blessed day 🙏
@kaitepfotenhauer7521
@kaitepfotenhauer7521 2 жыл бұрын
she laughs at jokes n she nods when he says oh you were? so it's definitely not that she can't hear.
@hjreadsbooks7877
@hjreadsbooks7877 2 жыл бұрын
I just have to comment on this. I am from West Virginia, born and raised there. I have lived in Huntington, WV and I could not get out of that place fast enough. That city is ROUGH. Everything he says about West Virginia is true. Appalachian people are very tough, but it is such a difficult culture. Families generally do not support each other and the poverty is horrible. What he said about drugs being the only thing there for you is a sad but true fact about West Virginia. So many people I went to school with have died of overdoses. I pray these two can get off the drugs. It's so hard.
@Vendicia
@Vendicia 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you managed to get away from that place and seek a better life.
@hjreadsbooks7877
@hjreadsbooks7877 2 жыл бұрын
@@Vendicia Me too!
@heatherbukowski2102
@heatherbukowski2102 2 жыл бұрын
This description reminds me a lot of the novel/movie "Winter's Bone".
@psamples3520
@psamples3520 2 жыл бұрын
Not everything lol, some of these things he’s saying are a stretch
@gaylamixon9334
@gaylamixon9334 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Joe Manchin!
@krystynasmyth1891
@krystynasmyth1891 2 жыл бұрын
That was an interesting interview 👍
@poppy8810
@poppy8810 2 жыл бұрын
She looks so tiny compared to him, she looks petrified of that man, just saw that she has passed away , may she Rest In Peace xxx
@K.Swift1968
@K.Swift1968 2 жыл бұрын
OMG I can't even watch this, he is so full of lies...
@Rcaneneophyte8906
@Rcaneneophyte8906 2 жыл бұрын
Says the swift Karen 🤣 but I'm confused about that part of Lurch not sleeping for 49 days.
@User-hv5wm
@User-hv5wm 2 жыл бұрын
@@Rcaneneophyte8906 hes lying about everything single thing he says just about. maybe 5% of truth, the rest is exaggeration ...
@Rcaneneophyte8906
@Rcaneneophyte8906 2 жыл бұрын
@@User-hv5wm Comprendo. Thanks
@relicman
@relicman 2 жыл бұрын
Like when he said 80% of Huntington, WV has HIV. My God that's most the city.
@ashleyallen7138
@ashleyallen7138 2 жыл бұрын
Amber...run as fast as you can from this abusive man. Get your son back❤️
@gaylegreene
@gaylegreene 2 жыл бұрын
Yes Amber. Amber needs a mother figure no matter what her age. Bless you Amber
@JY-es1et
@JY-es1et 2 жыл бұрын
He don't want her to talk AT ALL. When she did talk, her voice trembled as though she was going to bust out crying. He was the worst thing that she ever came across. I wish you could have talked to her alone. She was terrified of that POS. May you Rest In Peace Amber.
@alexiswhite5397
@alexiswhite5397 2 жыл бұрын
When he said he felt like he was 22/23 and she started laughing 😭😭
@chewbacca1238
@chewbacca1238 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like Amber might have a hearing impairment. Lurch is almost speaking directly into her ear. He also repeats a lot of Mark's questions to her. However, I also see all the red flags mentioned by the other commenters. Something about the way both act doesn't sit right with me.
@Anna-wb6mv
@Anna-wb6mv 2 жыл бұрын
I too wonder if there’s an underlying hearing impairment
@christiane3334
@christiane3334 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah and he kind of yells at her like she is deaf
@kathyvarela2215
@kathyvarela2215 2 жыл бұрын
Me to.Sounds like he has to translate for her.I take care of seniors and I see this type of action all the time.
@rebeccalavoy6655
@rebeccalavoy6655 2 жыл бұрын
Drug abuse can affect hearing, that includes excessive smoking. I am not sure why this is, inflammation of the canal??
@catebartley9865
@catebartley9865 2 жыл бұрын
Hunny she is deaf in I ear,mostly deaf in both.
@patrioticyank4940
@patrioticyank4940 2 жыл бұрын
Love these interviews Mark one of the best channels on KZfaq
@marydavis2695
@marydavis2695 2 жыл бұрын
This poor woman is broken and for Lerch, I see and hear the hopelessness has emersed him and he's marinating in it. Breaks my heart. I pray for them. RIP AMANDA
@michaelpuntillo3500
@michaelpuntillo3500 2 жыл бұрын
I pray to God that they both get clean and sober and live the rest of their lives happy healthy comfortable loved joyful safe and free.
@JD-ps6lb
@JD-ps6lb 2 жыл бұрын
I went to college at Marshall University in Huntington, and I had to leave after my junior year because of all the crime and drugs in the city. My car got broken into 6 times, windows smashed, house broken into.. It’s really unfortunate because it’s such a beautiful city. They need to have more resources in Huntington, it’s very sad.
@bobbydarker1959
@bobbydarker1959 2 жыл бұрын
I went to school (albeit briefly) in Waverly west Virginia back in 1999. Beautiful area, beautiful people. I understand now tho, that the area is overcome with drugs, it makes me sad for sure.
@ebeneezerscrooge2942
@ebeneezerscrooge2942 2 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy.
@dianacornwell2258
@dianacornwell2258 2 жыл бұрын
Grandmother graduated from Marshall..she is probably rolling in her grave.
@hunterdavis3003
@hunterdavis3003 2 жыл бұрын
I’m from Huntington, my family moved when I was 12. It was beautiful city and I could ride my bikeEVERYWHERE safely. Now it’s a war zone . Terribly sad
@corysargent7057
@corysargent7057 2 жыл бұрын
They have all kinds of resources. Sometimes that isn't enough. Love and compassion. Are needed and opportunity.
@suehenderson2598
@suehenderson2598 2 жыл бұрын
Lurch needs to quieten down and be good to hear from Amber more. Its all about him, love to talk about himself and big note himself.
@markoembarko9045
@markoembarko9045 2 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too 🙄
@markoembarko9045
@markoembarko9045 2 жыл бұрын
He didn't even give her a chance to really speak.
@fellowviewer1095
@fellowviewer1095 2 жыл бұрын
He had to give her permission to speak. When she chuckled she looked at him and stopped. Something isn't right.
@tieiatalks
@tieiatalks 2 жыл бұрын
She also seems hard of hearing.
@helenraymond6613
@helenraymond6613 2 жыл бұрын
I believe Amber has a hearing deficit making it difficult to hear , therefore answer questions.
@chloeew4627
@chloeew4627 2 жыл бұрын
This is the slow death of the real Appalachian lifestyle .
@daniw5186
@daniw5186 2 жыл бұрын
I’m from Huntington, originally And when I go back to visit family, I see this all the time. It’s so sad and so awful.
@mikeylikesit64
@mikeylikesit64 2 жыл бұрын
He has more lives than a cat, and Mark should interview her alone.
@lynetterice8413
@lynetterice8413 2 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣😅
@kingofcrows8829
@kingofcrows8829 2 жыл бұрын
@@opinionsarentfacts3515 and his voice is the only one she can hear?
@jackiepelote8166
@jackiepelote8166 2 жыл бұрын
Oh boy 😂😂😂🤣🤣⬅️ now that’s funny I needed that laugh!!
@User-hv5wm
@User-hv5wm 2 жыл бұрын
"I've done a 70 gram shot" at some point he thinks people believes everything he says for some reason. kind of annoying
@jwilson6844
@jwilson6844 2 жыл бұрын
That's really not out of the ordinary i think he means 70 units
@Blackthorn
@Blackthorn 2 жыл бұрын
And two weeks without eat or drink. And more than a month and half without sleep... sure bro.
@User-hv5wm
@User-hv5wm 2 жыл бұрын
@@jwilson6844 lol ok
@fifilamoore1718
@fifilamoore1718 2 жыл бұрын
I had no reason as to not believe him personally!
@r7kelley553
@r7kelley553 2 жыл бұрын
He said units
@bacaworld7095
@bacaworld7095 2 жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking 💔
@jazzstarish4186
@jazzstarish4186 2 жыл бұрын
Lurch- "You also know how many doors I've rung?
@YolandaKomoll
@YolandaKomoll 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, his stories are far fetched. I believe she’s hearing impaired.
@RECHARON
@RECHARON 2 жыл бұрын
Seems that way. Like she doesn’t really pay attention unless Lurch speaks directly in her face.
@raechey3980
@raechey3980 2 жыл бұрын
Either that or isn’t used to talking to someone else other than Lurch. Or he may be abusing her in someway. Like told her in the past don’t speak unless I say, etc
@automaticsweetheart2009
@automaticsweetheart2009 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I also think she is hearing impaired.
@Becca_MS-fighter
@Becca_MS-fighter 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, Mark said she is deaf in one hear..he is simply helping his partner. People look to much into ish🤦‍♀️
@YolandaKomoll
@YolandaKomoll 2 жыл бұрын
@@Becca_MS-fighter definitely… it was sad to see people saying he’s an abuser. I think he’s the opposite. He truly loves her. She may possibly be shy and timid. I thought he showed nothing but care for her.
@ceciliacosta8148
@ceciliacosta8148 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think she scared to talk I believe she looks at Lurch when a question is asked so he can say it louder and closer to her bc she is deaf.
@mattowens3451
@mattowens3451 Жыл бұрын
I roofed with a guy from Huntington West Virginia. Good dude. Wild as hell. Looked like a younger version of this guy. Crazy really the similarities. Last I heard he was doing the homeless thing in the bigger cities. Hope my friend is OK. He was a badass roofer
@koffinkat666
@koffinkat666 2 жыл бұрын
Tall Tales have a whole new meaning.......I would say 25% of each story is true lmao.
@User-hv5wm
@User-hv5wm 2 жыл бұрын
5%
@elizabethcolatos7727
@elizabethcolatos7727 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if the woman has a hearing problem. Everytime she's asked a question she doesn't respond until the boyfriend repeats it to her.
@mgcnashville6615
@mgcnashville6615 2 жыл бұрын
The vast majority of what he said is bs. do you know what happens if you take 5 Valium in one day? One of the side effects is double vision. Intense double vision.
@blaker85
@blaker85 2 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethcolatos7727 it seems like he has her "trained" not to talk to other men. Pretty sick relationship if you ask me.
@CelesticaDemonix
@CelesticaDemonix 2 жыл бұрын
I truly hope that the incestuous rape stories from his childhood aren't true, because nothing could be more horrifying, what on earth are those villainous relatives going after a child... Pray to god for none of that to ever happen to an innocent child
@missannthrope2484
@missannthrope2484 2 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised that the majority of people can not recognise that Amber is hearing impaired. It's seems obvious to me. Yes, there may be an element of control however I believe the majority of the mannerisms relate to her impairment I.e. he repeats the question to signify/clarify.
@emilypruitt1180
@emilypruitt1180 2 жыл бұрын
She is not hearing impaired.
@kristinague2448
@kristinague2448 2 жыл бұрын
Ive known amber for over 20 years she is def not hearing impaired shes scared looking at him for permission to talk
@ShellsBelles
@ShellsBelles Жыл бұрын
@@kristinague2448 you can tell this by her not looking at anything but the floor and hun. Her eyes never go anywhere else. You can tell he’s an abusive asshat.
@Nick19328
@Nick19328 2 жыл бұрын
Heart goes out to them Her shaking her head is enough to know he’s not truthful.When a man starts any conversation like this and his partner shakes her head when he’s talking she knows he’s not doing any of it.Again my heart goes out to them
@2passportsandpostcards
@2passportsandpostcards 2 жыл бұрын
The expression on both of their faces at 15:18 though. Broke my heart a little. I wish them well.
@ozaman1064
@ozaman1064 2 жыл бұрын
"I'll relapse and do meth today" 3:30..."15:45 "Tonight when I go snort it" 17:38 "I don't do no dope whatsoever...I'm totally clean" I don't believe a word this guys says. I'm sure some of it is true, but most just wild stories to embellish his life and make it seem amazingly interesting. My father in law was just like this guy...he died at 61 from never taking care of himself. SO SAD
@brittaolson6550
@brittaolson6550 2 жыл бұрын
When polydrug users say “dope,” they usually mean heroin/opiates. He was talking about how they got off opiates. Not other drugs. Not saying the man never lies but, if he does, I’m sure he lies better than that.
@royalredus
@royalredus 2 жыл бұрын
Mark should have a "fiction" playlist and add this to it :)
@SoftWhiteUnderbelly
@SoftWhiteUnderbelly 2 жыл бұрын
That’s great. If you’re coming here looking for truthful dissertations you’re gonna be very confused. If you come for character studies you’ve hit a goldmine.
@royalredus
@royalredus 2 жыл бұрын
@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly Amen to that! Thanks for all your work on this channel. It doesn't go unappreciated!
@andrealawent1988
@andrealawent1988 2 жыл бұрын
@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly the best is you have this little chuckle when he says some things that most people who aren’t addicts would be mortified. Being in recovery we all crack up at the same outrageous things. You now being around it so much have the same laugh and reaction without the benefit of being an addict. Where did you find these 2 they are amazing
@louissmart8947
@louissmart8947 2 жыл бұрын
@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly yes Mark!
@tbird3187
@tbird3187 2 жыл бұрын
@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly Thank you Mark,.. You work hard at this… You always show these people respect!! Much respect for you❣️❣️👍🏼✌🏼
@Buddy69Love
@Buddy69Love 2 жыл бұрын
🙏RIP Amber, my prayers🙏 go out to Amber's son🙏 I pray🙏 that Lurch gets help before joining Amber🙏
@carolina_girl3484
@carolina_girl3484 2 жыл бұрын
awwww I'm so sorry to hear about Amber. She's so young and seems so nice.... very sad...
@imbees2
@imbees2 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t judge. Listen and try to help. These are the people homeless. Drug addicts. Asking for help. They are people. Human beings that deserve to be cared for.
@sueannwashere
@sueannwashere 2 жыл бұрын
All of the comments says she looks to him for approval before she speaks but it actually appears that she's hard of hearing and needs him to repeat what mark says so she can answer.
@RileighClemens-lo3jq
@RileighClemens-lo3jq Жыл бұрын
I didn't know that you ever came down to that area. I have followed your videos for several years pretty much since you started I think. I live in Ironton Ohio, and I am a recovering addict also I'm getting married in October we are both in recovery together. We both have a hell of a story and I would love to meet you. I watch your videos everyday I checked for new ones on my way to work and on my way home! You are doing great things by sharing everybody's story and I'm here to listen!
@316lvmnoneofyourbusiness7
@316lvmnoneofyourbusiness7 2 жыл бұрын
I've read through the comments and understand that a lot of people don't care for Lurch - that he's an abuser, a liar, etc. I don't see that and I'd like to believe that I have a good sense of people having been a mental health social worker both in the child/adolescent and adults areas. Lurch seems to me to be one of those good 'ole boys who embellishes his stories with truth and some bullshit. There is nothing about his body language that suggests he abuses Amber. As for Amber, I believe she is hard of hearing 'cause she acts just like hearing impaired people. She is passive and demure which I think relates to her being hard of hearing and being picked on as a child for it. Demure because she was raised in a Christian home which probably believed that wives supported their husbands, stayed home raising kids and housekeeping, and spoke when spoke to. As for her shaking her head when Lurch goes on his tangents, I do the same thing when my husband tells one of his stories to people. I shake my head and I'm thinking "Oh hell no. He is not telling this story again" and I'm chuckling to myself. If you want to see a woman who is afraid of someone and acts like an abused woman watch this: Pimp and Prostitute interview - Master J and Lil' Mama kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9iqda-D1Z_GY2g.html
@nikki6784
@nikki6784 2 жыл бұрын
Agree!
@ChavonJWright
@ChavonJWright 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. They don't give me any bad vibes at all. He seems really smart and plugged into his community. She seems really comfortable.
@Theirtherethere.
@Theirtherethere. 2 жыл бұрын
I'm hard of hearing I do the same thing .. look to my bf for him to say it louder lol
@karenbanks2733
@karenbanks2733 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think he's abusive to her,he seems to genuinely love her as much as an addict can,
@SKYZTHELIMIT514
@SKYZTHELIMIT514 2 жыл бұрын
Lurch, a master at numbers, a rebel in his own mind, lies like a rug, but he’s a good ol boy and she’s a good ol girl….
@markgoodwin5306
@markgoodwin5306 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha omg
@joolzg1936
@joolzg1936 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. He's a legend is his own mind!
@markgoodwin5306
@markgoodwin5306 2 жыл бұрын
@@joolzg1936 He seems like that guy who has to out do everyone’s story with something outrageous.
@ajack1312
@ajack1312 2 жыл бұрын
@@markgoodwin5306 Lol I knew a dude like that back in the day named "Gerald", he was so notorious for it people called his BS stories "Gerald Tales". Like everyone knew he was full of shit to the point that we had a name for it lmao "Man did you hear that Gerald Tale the other night? He really said he ______ and expected us to believe it!"
@user-du3vo5ld2j
@user-du3vo5ld2j 2 жыл бұрын
I've known a lot of people like them. Most of them are dead now. My cousin lives in SE Kentucky and he said about half the people there are on drugs.
@RECHARON
@RECHARON 2 жыл бұрын
Every time he tells a lie she exhaled and shakes her head. Her face screams this is BS! 😄
@robinetteruth7089
@robinetteruth7089 2 жыл бұрын
I know lurch from Huntington West Virginia and I know he was a good father the best it could be it's a shame how Society has treated him and his own family he was a good person it's sad that he's got AIDS now and its sad that his kid got took I'm sure he didn't turn to drugs until after his child got took I know how that feels to get your kid took from you when you done nothing wrong to deserve that I I also got my youngest son took and then I turned to drugs but by the grace of God I'm clean now I've been clean for the last couple years and I'll continue on that journey of being clean prayers go out to Lurch and his woman I pray that things will turn around for them and get better
@tomthomas6066
@tomthomas6066 2 жыл бұрын
She’s afraid to answer any questions without his approval.
@gwyn9846
@gwyn9846 2 жыл бұрын
Speaking as a resident of HUNTINGTON, it's just this type kind of element that makes me soooo glad and grateful to be *leaving* soon! This man is F.O.S.!!
@ajack1312
@ajack1312 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha what you mean you don't believe he walked all the way to LA after catching 46 felonies in 3 days? Funny as hell, people like that guy have absolutely no self awareness.
@MirelaVogue
@MirelaVogue 2 жыл бұрын
notice how shes reacting to every word he's saying? She feels obligated to validate every single of his words.
@jordangryder375
@jordangryder375 2 жыл бұрын
I felt this
@uthedan1
@uthedan1 2 жыл бұрын
It's OK you guys life is hard . Wish both of you well.
@theariesexperiment4642
@theariesexperiment4642 2 жыл бұрын
No way he was up 49 days with no sleep. No way. I know. Trust me. I KNOW.
@deevasquez1171
@deevasquez1171 2 жыл бұрын
there wasn't a single thing he said that sounded true, except for him being depressed.
@alizastaygolden
@alizastaygolden 2 жыл бұрын
Amber, Lurch has a million 🚩 red flags 🚩 he seems like it’s “don’t talk unless I speak to you” and not every relationship is like that. He’s terrifying. I’m sure you know know that because abuse brainwashes you but please, if you ever see this, find help to leave.
@GrabinGears
@GrabinGears 2 жыл бұрын
Crazy isn't it
@ShellyMischelle
@ShellyMischelle 2 жыл бұрын
Well ladies, it's such an obvious situation like she has to speak through him to speak at all he has to repeat a question to her and you have to speak through him to speak with her this is yes as you put it so many red flags and it gives me the creeps just to look at him I can see this and feel her pain and fear as if it were my own thank you for your comments we have to protect every time we see a victim no matter how many we see you we must try to show them that there are people who care☆MUCH~ MORE~FAITH~*Is Needed,In The Power Of Our Empathy-in-Action💯💗L☆VE T☆ THOSE Who've Forgotten How To ST☆ND UP F♡R Themselves😓😤💯💗
@alizastaygolden
@alizastaygolden 2 жыл бұрын
@@ShellyMischelle exactly! Women must protect other women at all costs.
@alizastaygolden
@alizastaygolden 2 жыл бұрын
@@GrabinGears it’s really sad. I came from an abusive relationship before I married a good man, it was hard to leave but I did. I wish that all women could find a way to see the possibility of leaving. It can happen. Abuse (especially in a case like this, where it’s pretty obvious that he’s most likely violent) may not end well.. I wish there was more we could all do.
@tieiatalks
@tieiatalks 2 жыл бұрын
She also seems very hard of hearing.
@mefford67
@mefford67 2 жыл бұрын
*This was horrifying to watch.* *She cannot even answer a question directly. It all goes through this profoundly broken, broken man.* 🤦🏻‍♀️
@corysargent7057
@corysargent7057 2 жыл бұрын
Love them and praying 🙏
@seansdrugstories4005
@seansdrugstories4005 2 жыл бұрын
My heart actually stopped moving 5 years ago I still keep walking
@FVNL
@FVNL 2 жыл бұрын
Feels that this gent is not not speaking the true all the time......
@User-hv5wm
@User-hv5wm 2 жыл бұрын
lol I'm glad someone gets it. these ppl are so gullible
@tieiatalks
@tieiatalks 2 жыл бұрын
He’s absolutely full of it. 💩
@wandarask8444
@wandarask8444 2 жыл бұрын
I hope she got to see her son . Amber, and Amber's son. Blessings to you . Love Australia x
@emilypruitt1180
@emilypruitt1180 2 жыл бұрын
Amber is one of my best friends. Lurch is a controlling jerk. She was petrified of him. Watching this video makes me sick to my stomach watching how scared she is of him.
@strictlydiesel8305
@strictlydiesel8305 2 жыл бұрын
Don't like how she looks at him for permission to speak
@maureenmartini5094
@maureenmartini5094 2 жыл бұрын
I think she's hard of hearing.
@deannalawley53
@deannalawley53 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think she's looking at him for permission I believe she is Def or hard of hearing, he repeats the question to her louder so I do believe it is a hearing issue and not a control issue
@firecat2770
@firecat2770 2 жыл бұрын
Worrying agree
@strictlydiesel8305
@strictlydiesel8305 2 жыл бұрын
@@deannalawley53 hope you're right
@pamic1211
@pamic1211 2 жыл бұрын
yeah i get the sense she has a hearing issue
@christiane3334
@christiane3334 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Nobody would EVER be put on that much Xanax by ANY doctor lol
@landofthelivingskies3318
@landofthelivingskies3318 2 жыл бұрын
I hope the best for both of them.
@heatherholyland157
@heatherholyland157 2 жыл бұрын
His life is so empty he’s filling it with bravado , more to be pitied that laughed at . ..as for Amber she’s just a gentle soul 🥺 , I really hope they find sobriety .
@positivelastaction3957
@positivelastaction3957 2 жыл бұрын
Great stories from Lurch, I am assuming they may have bits of truth to them, but they seem very much embellished and fabricated.
@User-hv5wm
@User-hv5wm 2 жыл бұрын
maybe just a little 🤭
@AndreaLKL72
@AndreaLKL72 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah he seemed to embellish in my opinion they were a little out there.
@margieinnes4638
@margieinnes4638 2 жыл бұрын
@@User-hv5wm Yes, perhaps slightly embroidered, LOL. And the way he repeats _Mark's questions, so damn irritating!!
@carlmorgan8452
@carlmorgan8452 2 жыл бұрын
Rr=really. 🤪🤢👽🤡🤣🙂
@teresarn1965
@teresarn1965 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. Astounding how he remembers how many months, and days since she revived him. He remembers, supposedly, EVERY minute detail.
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