As a US citizen living abroad, there are many things I can criticize about America, but for me you two really represent amongst the best of what it has to offer. Traditional and modern, old fashioned wisdom mixed with a pursuit of modern self-education, I admire how you both fight to remain connected to humility and try to understand the other. Defying simplistic definitions, both of your intelligence's shine through.

Words of Affirmation. Acts of Service. Receiving Gifts. Quality Time. Physical Touch. If you were uncomfortable, couldn’t even tell. Great job 👏 Keep the content coming 🙏

A note to men on times when a woman wants to vent without you fixing anything: my experience has been that what she really wants is agreement, and to feel like you're on her side regarding whatever the issue is. If one of her coworkers is treating her unfairly and stirring up trouble, chime in from time to time with something like "wow, I can't believe she would do that" or "she is such a jerk" or "that must have been really hard for you, I'm proud of you for handling it in such a mature way" and that kind of thing. That details may not matter much to you personally, but it may mean a lot to her to feel like you really understand where she's coming from and to feel like you've got her back, even if she doesn't need you to take action.

One thing that you should probably know seeing as you’re feelin’ strange being in front of the camera, is that most people really enjoy the awkwardness and the real human moments, that’s what makes this content so good! It’s not all about being super put together in front of the camera, it’s about sharing our true human side that comes along with our flaws. This was a great video thank you very much!

I can count on zero hands how many married women have given relationship advice to me, maybe that would be a really good thing to encourage. A married woman tells a man fixing to be married a few secret pointers, and married men tell a soon to be married woman a couple things.

Our marriage almost came to an end in the 2nd year. My Mother-in-law had a very hard time letting go of her Daughter. She has a controlling side to her(big heart and kind woman, but has her downsides like all of us) that was causing her to stick her nose where it did not belong. She was asking questions about things that was just none of her business. My wife also had a problem tearing herself away from being a Mommas girl, and it was causing major problems. I was working 70+ hours a week at the time and had very little home time. I managed to still do the yard work, tend to the vehicles and make repairs, but as far as the finer details like laundry and dishes....I mean, yeah I could've done that too, but had no time for anything else but sleep. The issue came from me working around 14 hours a day, 5 days a week, while she wasn't working at all. The house started turning into a mess and for two weeks, I made up excuses for her lack of helping around the house and cleaned myself, but eventually I got mad. I had been trying to talk to her about what the issue was for those two weeks, since she would stay over at her parents house all day, and came to realize that her Mom was using her as a maid more or less for herself. She was staying over there doing whatever Momma wanted and not tending to our own home at all, and was seeming to start getting real comfortable with me doing everything. I finally had enough and put my foot down. Told her I wouldn't be cleaning house anymore when she wasn't working and me working as much as I was. Told her if the roles were reversed and I was the one home, she wouldn't be having to do a thing after working all day. So, I let things go and they started building up bad. Now y'all might be thinking her Momma must've been down with her health or something. Nope, she was getting around just fine. She just had art projects she wanted to do and was using my wife to handle the responsibilities ahe should've been tending to herself. Our own home started turning into a disaster aread. Dishes were piling up and I was getting more pissed by the day. Eventually after a week of that it came to a head and I lost my temper, threw some things and left for a couple of days and wouldn't talk to her. It was real bad. Good news ia we worked through it and have been married almost 12 years now. Moral of the story though, is try not to let your temper control you and learn to talk, but at the same time, do not let problems build over time like we did. Nip it in the bud ASAP once you see issues and even when tou get mad at each other, take the time to cool off before pulling that big ugly D-word trigger. If anyone took the time to read all of this, thank you for your time and God bless.

Really appreciate you sharing your wisdom 🤗 Us young married people need this kind of wisdom, from those who’ve lived it already

This is all very true. My late husband used to leave a note on the fridge every morning. This made me feel loved all day. He liked good food so I cooked Italian custards and meals. He also liked me dressed like a lady and I liked him dressed nicely for outtings. I loved small signs of affection that build the emotion slowly and also when he did something heroic. You two are really lovely to listen to. Bl🎉ss

Thank you Deanna for these videos. As a man, it's always great to learn a woman's wisdom on dating, marriage, and family life.

"I want to be a part of your world, but feel inadequate and like I'm invading your space" This resonated so hard. You summed up this feeling so perfectly, so succinctly!

As a man who has made too many mistakes, this was such a good video to prepare me for the next endeavor. I just want to do it right and not repeat those mistakes. This is Gold.

This channel is seriously such a Godsend! I'm a 23 year old Christian girl. My parents marriage/parenting was a disaster in just about every way you can imagine. There was emotional, physical and psychological abuse all through my childhood. I've been taking a hard look at my family these past few years, really trying to understand what went wrong with each individual and how I can take steps to make sure the family I potentially make for myself in the future don't have to go through the pain of a dysfunctional household/family. The conclusion I came to was that my mom and dad could have done much better if they'd each spent some time maturing and getting to know themselves/working through their insecurities before they ever got married and/or had kids. So I've been really trying to use this time in my life as a young single woman to mature as much as possible, and gain a little knowledge about myself and life before I start to think about dating or marriage. I guess people usually go to their parents to try to get a perspective on adult life/ask questions, but for obvious reasons I really want to avoid my parents perspective since I've come to realize that in spite of the fact that I love them, they are both really unhealthy and immature people. The internet is a fantastic resource for getting life advice (if you look in the right places). I have this thing where I'll find a male role model to help fill my 'Daddy-gap' and read/watch/listen to anything I can find (you can probably guess who my current male role-model is...) These guys are usually actors, celebrities, writers, KZfaq's, ect. The thing I've been noticing is that it is so much easier (but still hard) to find manly role models giving father-to-daughter type life-wisdom than it is to find traditional women who can talk about their side of it. I think that's probably because the women you can find interviews with are usually famous writers, musicians, actresses, ect. -- They LEFT the home and their kids to go chase their career, so there's no one to talk about what the at-home job is like (especially now with feminism being so main-stream) which is what I'd really like to hear about. I've actually been praying recently about the fact that there are so few traditional female role models available. Anyway, all that to say that I was thrilled when I saw you'd started your own KZfaq channel -- I watched the 'Old Fashioned Marriage' video and was thinking of leaving a comment (which I never do) suggesting you make your own videos. Would love it if you guys would talk about parenting too -- There's just so little practical wisdom from experienced people out there. Okay -- This is ridiculous -- I just wrote a book! I divided it into paragraphs in case some poor person actually tries to read all this. Really didn't mean to write this much. Anyway, take care and thank you so much for this content. I'm sure there are a lot of young people from broken homes like myself who are trying to sponge up your wisdom and do a little better with our lives. Take care! ; )

Women and girls need to hear from Titus 2 women. Thank you for this!

I love these videos! I’m 35 and a mother of three, going on four, and I don’t have a mother. Videos like this from respectable women who are willing to share their words of wisdom are such a big help to me! Thank you.

Dry Creek Momma, sent this to my wife. Looking forward to you hitting 100k. Let it flow!

One thing I think all husbands should understand about their wives is beauty is important to us! Men tend to be very functional and practical, and as long as something works fine, they don’t care what it looks like! However, I feel like, as a woman, I get so much joy and fulfillment in making myself and my surroundings feel beautiful. I love the harmony that is brought into my home whenever I decorate, light a nice candle, try a fancy recipe, or put fresh flowers in a vase. It is also really important for me to feel beautiful. Sometimes it can be annoying for men to wait on their wives when they take longer to get ready, but sometimes the way you feel about yourself can really make or break your day! The confidence you get when you wear a new, beautiful dress or take the time to style your hair can influence great productivity and inspiration! I think that is what makes us so unique as women, we value spreading more enjoyment and beauty into this life. We want every little detail to spark joy in the people around us so we can share that happiness together. My husband and I are young newlyweds, so we are just starting this journey together. Your insight is so valuable to women like me. Watching your videos made me so relieved to realize all marriages go through a lot of the same struggles and if we keep trying everything will be just fine! Thank you!

This is the Yin to the Yang. As a male, I appreciate the flip-side of the coin, as well as your honesty. Please keep going. This is wonderful!

1:00 _"I don't always need you to fix it. Sometimes I just need you to listen. Let me rant, let me be emotional... sometimes, somebody will make me mad or do something, maybe they do me wrong... or I've had a long bad day, and I just want to talk about it. I don't need you to fix it, I don't need you to go and round up the kids and whoop 'em all for being bad to mama, or whatever. I just don't always need you to fix me."_ I think this is the hardest thing for guys to understand. It is difficult when you feel like you are not taken seriously, even when they think they have figured out the solution to the problem. 2:51 _"I need constant personal encouragement. Not just bragging to others about me... I needed that constant reassurance 'Hey, you did a great job today,' or 'Hey, I'm really proud of the way you handled that with the kids.'"_ Reminds me of the 5 Love Languages. This was probably the only personality test that genuinely helped me understand where their brain was at emotionally. To those who aren't familiar, it's filled with questions like 'It’s more meaningful to me when….' and provides a great jumping off point for communicating what you like. Thinking about our styles this way definitely made some situations smoother for us. [I typed that whole paragraph before getting to the next minute and realizing you already explained everything haha.] 4:15 _"I want to be a part of your world, but feel inadequate and feel like I'm invading your space... I wanted to feed that love language of his, but I didn't really know how, and I felt like I would be in the way. So I think if he had known that I wanted that, that he could have encouraged me to be a part of his world."_ Wow. And you talked about the Love Languages too! 7:11 _"Never stop pursuing me. I want you to treat me like we're still dating, and you're trying to win me over."_ And Dewayne at 7:51, _"What you do to get 'em is what you gotta do to keep 'em."_ Well said!

Love that you've started your own channel, Mama! I think that my five are the same as yours. My story includes two marriages though. I was 18 and hopelessly naive when I married the first time, and just 29 when he died. Being a single Mom of 3 boys (8, 9 and 10 at the time) 2 of whom were adopted (with special needs) took everything I had to give. Seven years later God brought an amazing man into my life and it's a totally different relationship - easier in some ways and harder in others. I try to leave the baggage behind me but we both carry our fair share. He was a bachelor at nearly 40, and I had grown fiercely independent in those 7 single years. Much to our shock, God decided to bless us with another baby - 20 years after my first pregnancy! Now, we're raising boy #4 and learning and growing together. So, I might add this one: I have baggage. You do too. Don't resent it or continue to remind me of it. Let's sit down together, unpack it, examine it, then discard it and leave it behind us where it belongs.

Just want to say thank you. It means so much to me to find women role models I actually want to look up to.

It’s so refreshing to hear people talk about men and women without trying to pretend like we’re the same creature. Maybe I hang around too many city people but so many of them would have been offended by the common sense in this video.

It's great that you do your own channel. You guys are beautiful people. And I think the world needs authentic and positive voices more than ever.

I'm so glad you decided to make your own channel and give the female perspective and advice for us ladies. God knows the timing is perfect.

Yo she was doing the things she wished you did for her OMFGGG MAKES SO MUCH SENSE

Thinking a lot about what you have said about men needing “Respect” sad thing is when their actions/behaviors/attitudes/character is very disrespectful… It’s unbelievably hard to give them the respect they need. If his actions were respectfully responsible -- no problem!!!

I loved this video. Its pretty pathetic that I’m writing down these items and making a list of the things that attracted my wife and I to each other in the ninth grade hallway and then of all the things we did over the years in order to have a wonderful relationship for 33 years because cancer stole her from me 4 months ago and I’m just reflecting on our life, myself, the things we loved about eachother and the struggles we had with each other. And just wondering if I’ll ever find love again. She insisted that I remarry during her last final months of her decline. At the time I didnt want to hear it but she knew me better than I knew myself and she just felt terrible for me…..what an angel.

You sound like a wonderful, understandin% wife! Keep it going. My wife passed 1 1/2 yr ago. At some time in the future you MAY hit a point where you or your husband, or both, physical attraction might diminish. Please remember that you both love and cherish each other. You both will still need contact, but you may not be able. Just hug each other and find a way to say it. I miss my wife of 50 yrs, and I cherish the memory.

btw: pursuing doesn't have to mean you call her all the time or "run after her". Like Deanna said: what made you attractive for her/him in the beginning will always make you attractive. This can e.g. mean your confidence, your charme, if you have a life purpose, your humor, your strong masculine/female energy and polarity etc.. Also how you dress/smell/look in general can be important. To sum it up: I believe, if you really feel good in your skin and feel attractive, that IS attractive for your partner. She can tell you to do this and that because she doesn't know all the time why you are attractive to her. But if YOU feel it you got it. And if you don't, you don't (doesn't mean it has to stay that way!). That's my experience.

Very well done ! 20 years of being married to this little Mexican woman. I really needed to hear this.

I have been married for 30 years and this is something that's been a problem for my husband and myself--our love languages are SO different. I'm a talker and appreciate words of affirmation and acts of service, while my husband could care less about either and finds other types of love language important. Thanks for the reminder to try to attend to the language that our partner appreciates.

I'm not sure why this popped up on my feed but I enjoyed it. Married for 30 years and a lot of what you said made sense. She is my best friend and I enjoy spending time with her every day.

And I love Dwayne chiming in with what you do to get them is what you Gotta do to keep them No other words ring, so true I got a remember that one

Me and my wife will be married 7 years next year, and marriage is not easy. It takes a lot of work, a lot of compromise, but I will say it’s been the best decision I’ve ever made marrying my wife, she’s made me a more patient man. Patience is key, we’re also expecting our first little girl march 9th. 😊

Another person commented about how women often need to create beauty in their environments (make up on face, or decorating the home, etc) yet men tend to focus on pragmatic matters and practical tasks. I have found this to be very true. If you are a guy reading this, keep in mind that women are usually quite a bit more detail oriented than men, just in the general sense. They are always taking in an array of finer details in any given situation or environment. That’s part of why women like to make things looks nice, even when it seems to a man there may be no practical reason behind it.

100%, when the husband supports us verbally physically it gives us power and helps us raise the little ones. The family circle. Dad supports mom mom supports baby baby is happy healthy.

Thanks for sharing, and your on camera confidence will come with time. You did great, keep it up 👍 Many men want to fix everything. It’s one of our ways of taking care of women 🤷‍♂️ Young men, “you gotta preheat the oven” 😏 My wife tells me ALL the time she loves me. For me it’s annoying. I know that sounds horrible, but I feel the love when she does so little things for me without being asked. Ex: this morning she brought me a sausage biscuit when she came back from the store. I didn’t ask for it, but it’s just a reminder that she was thinking about me. 12 hours later, and I’m still thinking about it!

its very nice being able to see both sides of each story. so many people are focused on one or the other. comprises are necessary for a healthy love life. thank you

Duane is a top-notch man. But holds nothing to Momma. Thanks for the video. It helped me more than you will ever know.

The love languages is a MUST for all. I learned about it after my divorce sadly, and it was an eye opener. So much truth. My love languages are words of affirmation and acts of service. My ex was gifts and touch. It all made perfect sense.

i really envy y’all’s marriage, i pray that when it come time that i can also find someone who can hold a connection like you and dwane.

Great video. Mom of 10 here and as you ticked off your 5 thoughts I was thinking mmhmm, mmhmm! Looking forward to watching your channel grow!

I love your channel, please do keep uploading even if it’s uncomfortable. It’s so nice hearing a women’s perspective. God bless you and your husband for sharing your advice and experiences.

Fantastic. Thank you so much. My wife and i have been married since high school. we are both 52 years old now with two teenagers. Your content of advice is gold

How beautiful and spot on. The very first 2 where things, as a husband, I had to learn about my wife. These are things I wish I had listened to when my mom told me when I got married. Young folks need to hear this and take note. Men - listen to what is said here in this video. We'eve been married over 30 years and keep growing together.

Being married 35 years this week, this just confirms what I still need to do. Sometimes it's easy to forget with children. Grandchildren, needing your time, I still do those things but probably not as well as I should be doing. Nice to know it's still wanted. Thanks. Merry Christmas to you and your family.

Lovely and helpful advice. I’m a single 28 year old in the U.K. I found you through your husband’s channel (which I think I enjoyed because my Dad is estranged and he has a calming, guiding, masculine energy with wisdom too). But I love your content too. I’m aiming to simplify my life, to focus on what truly matters. Not money, popularity, or what other people think. Simple, genuine happiness. You both have a wonderful energy. Thank you for sharing it.

You’re as good a speaker as your husband is, nice to listen to your perspective.

It's incredibly refreshing to hear someone being so straight-up honest. You've said everything beautifully and gained much respect. Oh, and I love "never stop pursuing me"! Don't we all want that - seriously?

Lovely seeing you both speaking wise words.

I stumbled upon your husband's channel and this is a beautiful balance that you have started one too. We as women can certainly learn and or personally relate to what you share. This one makes me understand that there were other women that had simular feeling like I experienced as a new wife and mommy, (many moons ago). I am looking forward to what you are creating here on this beautiful 🕊channel!!~*

I enjoy the honest of this channel more than anything else.

You two make a beautiful couple. So happy that you started this channel. Looking forward to your next videos. Also enjoyed hearing Dewayne adding in, supporting you, as he did on this video.

Thanks Deanna for opening up your heart to us. As you were going through your list I was reviewing in my mind how I was to my wife as our marriage progressed through the years...... And doing a self-examination. And I can recognize all the 'woman's needs' things that you were talking about in my wife (she's gone to heaven now thirty years ago). I think that's the hardest thing for us guys to get used to: not always trying to solve a problem. We're not into the emotional thing the way women are. And unfortunately we are not always into the listening thing either. But you know, making an effort to acquire those things is an act of love right there. There are so many differences between an "inner man" and an "inner woman", as you have so clearly pointed out...... But I think those differences are kind of the spice of life!

Thank you for giving this young man hope in women.

About Momma Deanna 1:01 1. Sometimes I just need you to listen, I don’t need you to fix it. 1:47 2. I am a crockpot and my husband is a microwave. 2:44 3. I need constant personal encouragement/reassurance 4:04 4. I want to be a part of your world, but I feel inadequate and invading your space. 5:25 Love Language 1. Quality Time 2. Receiving Gifts 3. Physical Touch 4. ??? 5. ??? (Look it up) 7:07 Never Stop Pursuing Me ⛪️ Once you win something, it’s yours. 8:11 It’s not so much dating, it’s pursuing

Great video great knowledge momma

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences, Deanna! I'm a young man who is still learning how to be a good partner, and it's so valuable to hear you reflect on your past experiences and share your perspective on healthy relationship dynamics. Thanks for putting yourself out there and offering up your wisdom!

I'm so happy you have a channel now so I can here both you and your husband's perspectives! You both have such great wisdom to impart and I love how real it is.

Could have saved me a bit of grief had I know wish you both well. Your a sweet lady, truly an inspiration

59M speaking. Well done there. And thanks for the reminder that I don't have to just fix something.. but listen, too. But now I must admit that as a contractor, I seem to do more listening to folks than I care to listen to, if that makes any sense. I'll bet your husband knows what I'm talking about! ("Just get to the point, would ya?!") Again, great job and best of luck.

Even though marriage and partnership are history for me, it is very important for me to understand how women think and feel. The contributions of both of you on these topics are very instructive and valuable. I thank you very much for them. Kind regards from Germany Attila

You two are so much needed in a world, where everything seems to go in a superficial bubble and young people are building their lives on sand, because of a lack of knowledge and understanding. Thanks!

Thank you Deanna for your heartfelt comments on men. At some level I knew the female position as to what is important but it helped hearing it in words. I think my relationship with my spouse changed the most during menopause. It has been a difficult time, mostly due to lack of intimacy and closeness. I really look forward to more insight into women. Thank you for trusting us strangers with your thoughts and feelings.

As a single man, most of us REALLY REALLY don't get the pursual thing because it's like you finally make the last payment on your mortgage but then the payments KEEP COMING. I'm fairly sure in the past some women have tried to get me to pursue them and I was just confused by it and gave up because I didn't know what they wanted. My point us you should've put this in the other video too.

As a married woman of only 4 years, this really speaks to me. Thank you for sharing!

So happy that you came out of your comfort zone! I experienced the same thing last summer (singing in Deadwood). You rock!! Keep doing it!

I almost closed this video early because closings usually don’t say much, but I absolutely love: “Have grit and give grace.”

This is the kind of stuff we need on the internet right now. So refreshing to see real people giving straight talk. My kind of people. God bless you both 🙏 stay calm, enjoy the process ☺️

I am a single man for my lifetime. It is very important to be a good listener and stay humble. I'm 65 am been single. Life is a journey. Never forget this.

Being happily married is only as hard as we choose to make it. The hard part is dying to our own selfishness. When we are willing to die to our own agendas, our own desires, and instead give to our spouse, marriage ceases to be hard. When we die to ourselves, and prioritize our spouse over ourselves, marriage, especially a marriage where God is in the center, gets surprisingly easy and joyful.

Yay! Thank you for getting on the camera!

Great to get both perspectives on relationships, thank you ☘️

Thank you Momma!!!!! You're a beautiful woman! That man is lucky!

You did well! 🙌 Being the baby of three siblings, I saw how my mother and father navigated life because I paid attention. I knew my mom and dad were pure strength. I pursued to have a love of my life just that as my dad had. It took a gracious and difficult 36 years and I have finally found her. ❤

1. Listening. We don't always need to fix things. 2. Foreplay. Men are microwaves (from mars) and women are crockpots (from venus) 3. The 5 Love Languages. (know what makes eachother feel loved and appreciated) Quality Time Physical Touch Acts of Service Words of Affirmation Gift Giving/ Receiving 4. Be involved with eachothers daily life. And your hobbies etc. Stay interested. 5. Keep Pursuing. The same effort and desire as when dating. Bonus: Effective Communication. Always be ready and willing to go to your spouse, and have a discussion about your needs. No one can read minds. We have to communicate our needs, and we have to listen and try to understand what your spouse is needing (#1 Listen)

"what you do to get em is what you gotta do to keep em" that is so good

"Have grit & give grace." LOVE that!

Yay! Glad to get to know you also. Wonderful words.

hello from the Republic of Ireland....Thanks for a GREAT video and I wish you both a long and happy life together.

Thank you very much for your wonderful content. My beautiful wife and I have been married for 6 years, I have been married twice before both were bad , because of man's way, but I'm on my wonderful 3rd marriage, I wanted to share that before I got married to my current awesome wife, that I told her that we needed to do this marriage God's way Ephesians 5:25 Husband's, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word. My wife and I live our marriage on this! God is the head of the marriage, I'm so blessed God brought my wonderful gorgeous princess wife into my life to love her and take great care of her like he commands me to. God bless all who read this.

Thank you for sharing, ma’am! You and your husband have been incredible! My parents gave me up as a kid and my grandparents raised me, which was great bc they taught me a lot of useful things but also there was a lot that they did not because they were tired after raising 10 kids of their own, so they left a lot for me to learn on my own through trial & error. It’s always feels like God is listening and he shares a message with y’all on what to discuss in your videos, bc they always synchronize with things I am feeling or thinking around the time they are released. Thank y’all both! Hope to one day get away from this desk, white collar, 7 day a week, 12 hours a day jobs behind a computer screen and get over y’all’s way to attend Dry Creek Wrangling School. Blessings, look forward to meeting you both one day! Take care, Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year!

Great advice, thanks for sharing. You two are an inspiration

You guys are interesting . I do appreciate your grounded effort in trying to help people understand what it takes to have a good relationship.

You're doing great, I have followed your man for a little while now, I have a strong interest in a woman in my life that seems to be very interested in me, we're taking it easy but kinda know we have something special, because we share these same values and integrity, but we're trying to take it easy because I've never met a woman like her in my life before. She's only 2 weeks younger than me (we're 34) and I think it might be going in a very positive direction, it's nice to see people out there with more traditional values giving advice, it gives me hope, thank you.

Great job Deanna/Mama on your first video. Both women and men are going to benefit from your insights. Thank you for doing this.

Spot on!!! Just sent this video to my boyfriend ❤️

Its great you guys are not trying to portray everything was and is perfect. Love from India

I loved Dwayne's (sp?) perspective on the podcast, but as a man this is the side that I need to be reminded about constantly. Absolutely love this video!

This is so amazing watching you both , love you both to plum pieces, y’all two I tell ya make my days …. Thank you

Hi, I’m actually a man but found this video really insightful and interesting. Really makes ya think. thanks

I need the Dry Creek guidance. This is helping me as a young man.

HalleluYAH sister. I truly appreciate this as a man. YAH Most High bless you and your family always.

It’s so great for you to have your own channel and give us your voice on some many things! I’m looking forward to hearing more of your thoughts about any number of things. As a mom of two, my hat is off to you for how well you raised a whole houseful and kept your marriage intact. You have earned your stripes for sure and I look forward to hearing more of that earned wisdom.

Thank you Deanna! Couldn't tell you were nervous. You're natural! Keep continuing with your videos. God bless!

I would really love to see the both of you discussing these things together! Thoroughly enjoyed both individual perspectives, but would absolutely love a combined perspective.

Another down to earth, straight forward conversation. Keeping the spark of love and attraction is a labor of love. We have to remember that we as a couple are a team. Working together to obtain our goals. As a couple and as an individual. Always good to hear the female thoughts. Creates a balance. Thank you for your insights.

One of the first videos I saw from Dry Creek Wrangler School was Dewayne talking about controlling temper (I think that was where this quote comes from...hopefully I got it right. It may have been becoming a proper kind of man). In any event, I remember him unapologetically stating that the one time when he reserves the right to show no temper restraint is if someone disrespects "Momma." Of course as a man and as a father, I understood that on the level of protecting those in your family, those you love, those who are the most important to you. But after having watched a bunch. more videos and now having been better introduced to "Momma," I think I understand it even more deeply. What the two of you have, like anything worth having, I'm sure was not always easy to achieve. It took damn hard work...forged from a few fires without a doubt. But even in this video and Dewayne's companion "view-from-the-other-side" video, the mutual love, deep respect, and true affection for each other comes through as warm as that fire you were both sitting in front of. As a fellow human being I'm so happy that you found that with each other - what you have BUILT (because that is what it takes) is so special and sadly so rare these days. But I am even happier that you decided...both of you now...to share what you learned along the way with the rest of us. The knowledge and advice shared in these videos...all of them thus far, is pure gold. Thank you both for being true to yourselves, honest and so open with us. Please know that it is so warmly received, and so deeply appreciated.

I’m so happy and thankful to see this! My partner found your husband’s videos and while watching his “5 things I wish I had known” video I lamented how there doesn’t seem to be anything like that for women (the passing on of wisdom and experience). So thank you so much for sharing yours!

Words of affirmation tend to turn me off or frustrate me. My love language is acts of service.

I used the analogy of a Diesel engine and glow plugs needed to warm up before starting the engine… it helped! I think it should be mandatory every soon to be married couple should have to read together the 5 languages of love.