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Embracing the mess -- how compassion saved my life | Garrard Conley | TEDxBG

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@afl9166
@afl9166 7 жыл бұрын
I read Garrard's book because I wanted to be more educated on this topic, since narratives like his barely get media coverage. After having read it, I can confidently say that this is a story that NEEDS to be told and NEEDS to reach a wide audience. Hopefully this movie will give it the attention that it deserves
@happy-pk6nk
@happy-pk6nk 2 жыл бұрын
This book- and the movie based on it. Helped me come out to my parents. It was so difficult because my dad hated homosexuals. After I did he said to me. "Your my son and I will always love you, no matter what" he didn't try to change me. I'm one of the lucky ones.
@meriembrini1373
@meriembrini1373 7 жыл бұрын
Joel Edgerton is making a movie about his memoir "Boy Erased" starring Nicole Kidman and Russel Crowe , and the lead is going to be ,apprently, the boy from Manchester by the Sea , Lucas Hedges. I'm expecting the views for this video will go up by the time movie is out.
@bronsonmcdonald5473
@bronsonmcdonald5473 2 жыл бұрын
I watched the movie. I feel it was very well done, and I am so glad that they made it.
@mrmichel7733
@mrmichel7733 6 жыл бұрын
I’m here because of the movie that is coming. Really excited!
@ntels3172
@ntels3172 3 жыл бұрын
His speaking is so calming and makes you want to hear it…
@sleep2dream_
@sleep2dream_ 4 жыл бұрын
He's so cute. Boy Erased killed me and I'm sorry people also had to live through situations like that, but I'm so happy that he survived it to get the story out there. Truly inspirational ❤️❤️
@abhy301
@abhy301 3 жыл бұрын
Watched the movie Boy Erased. I've seen this video before but it never felt more uncomfortable. I'm really sorry Garrard for what they have done to you. But look at you, hope never dies. Truth always triumphs.
@wotan10950
@wotan10950 5 жыл бұрын
Is it really inappropriate for me to say that he’s handsome and personable?
@9000ck
@9000ck 4 жыл бұрын
No, because he is. He gorgeous inside and out.
@courtneynorris5852
@courtneynorris5852 11 ай бұрын
Not at all. His self-effacing humility makes him even more beautiful ❤
@janeimatsuda4979
@janeimatsuda4979 5 жыл бұрын
it makes me mad that people who love god does this to others....we are supposed to love thy neighbor. This is a strong man and he deserves the world. god bless
@niccolea2086
@niccolea2086 5 жыл бұрын
Janei Matsuda they’re fundamentalist.
@josephduplaga7595
@josephduplaga7595 4 жыл бұрын
Yes love the neighbor hate to sin.
@rebeccazegstroo6786
@rebeccazegstroo6786 2 жыл бұрын
Love your mom! She gets right to the point. Conversation in my family was like tiptoeing through a minefield - so many forbidden topics.
@gaiopescatore
@gaiopescatore 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you. An excellent talk, exposing succinctly the foundation of harmful nonsense on which the “ex-gay” movement is built.
@robertjazz3613
@robertjazz3613 5 жыл бұрын
His smile brings me life
@jonathandicarlo
@jonathandicarlo 6 жыл бұрын
He's such a dork. lol So cute and handsome!
@terezasantos3112
@terezasantos3112 5 жыл бұрын
No documento mínimo
@jennyhughes4474
@jennyhughes4474 5 жыл бұрын
What a shocking and terrible way to be treated, I'm so sad that this man and others are abused and humiliated in this way. This guy has done so well to survive and has huge courage to stand up and talk about it. I didn't laugh, not once, it made me very very sad that people would use religion to harm others, still, now. I'm glad the leader later saw the light and begged forgiveness but it was way too late for many I'm sure. Garrard Conley: hats off to you for all of this, for not becoming bitter and for educating others so that hopefully nobody else will have to suffer what you did.
@nadinex1127
@nadinex1127 5 жыл бұрын
i‘ve read boy erased and i‘d recommend it to anyone. i admire garrard so much and wish him all the best. he deserves everything!
@sfilkins2009
@sfilkins2009 5 жыл бұрын
The movie is wonderful. I bought it in January 2019 and just watched it in February. It was heart-wrenching. Awesome. I'm so glad the movie was made.
@heinkoko1497
@heinkoko1497 5 жыл бұрын
What is the name of the movie?
@sfilkins2009
@sfilkins2009 5 жыл бұрын
Boy Erased
@letsgofishingene
@letsgofishingene Жыл бұрын
What a kind person. I'm sorry you were treated that way. Stay well.
@AB-lw3gl
@AB-lw3gl 5 жыл бұрын
He’s so cute and funny. I Stan him
@ABookNerd
@ABookNerd 4 жыл бұрын
Having the people laugh actually highlights the gravitas of the situation. I get him wanting the audience and himself to be comfortable using laughter as a coping mechanism but also makes you realise just how badly Garrad was treated at these conversion therapy "camps" and that's what hurts the most.
@ode4126
@ode4126 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, like I absolutely understand the need for humor to cope with such darkness, and it really shows how absurd the whole thing is, but it still hurt my soul a little bit when the audience laughed at the fact he might have committed suicide cause that actually happens a lot at these places
@fsa6963
@fsa6963 5 жыл бұрын
Bravo for his truth and his God-given strength to tell it!
@paulmiller3509
@paulmiller3509 4 жыл бұрын
Garrard, thank you for sharing that part of your journey. You may never know how much your story may help someone else .
@deannang455
@deannang455 2 жыл бұрын
IDK Therapy in general seems like retraining camps. 2022 has some bad examples that repeat past uses of "camps." Save your healthcare funds. Research before signing up for any kind of therapy for any issue. Group therapy are super spreaders anyway. Fight Club is a good movie - example of therapy groups, though contain triggers.
@zzulm
@zzulm 2 жыл бұрын
The mom acted in a very loving way putting her beliefs aside for the well-being of her son religion usually makes things confusing and she had clarity.
@truogg36
@truogg36 5 жыл бұрын
He's so cute!
@davidk3009
@davidk3009 5 жыл бұрын
This was funny at first, he’s a great speaker, but it got scary as it went on. Can’t believe he went through this weird regiment.
@mollymcdonald4326
@mollymcdonald4326 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. Trauma.
@TheNandosperiperi
@TheNandosperiperi 8 жыл бұрын
He's handsome :)
@Flawbois
@Flawbois 5 жыл бұрын
He’s HANDSOME AND CUTE❤️❤️❤️
@Skyler_Momoko
@Skyler_Momoko 6 жыл бұрын
Can't wait for the movie!!! Heard about it coz Troye Sivan was starring in it and now I can't wait.
@joywilliams4014
@joywilliams4014 2 жыл бұрын
That camp thing was f’d up
@tantranthanh2938
@tantranthanh2938 4 жыл бұрын
He’s so cute, oh god
@amiensarabellis8391
@amiensarabellis8391 2 жыл бұрын
Down through the centuries people have been trying to force other people into their molds. It takes courage and persistence, love and self love to fight that instinct to rule over another human being And, to make them how you want them to be instead of allowing them to be their true selves. We all need support from others against those forces.. It's far from a perfect world and at times it seems we are going backwards instead of forward. I guess it's a matter of persistence, courage and support.
@user-xr5kp6qz8g
@user-xr5kp6qz8g 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that D&D was one of the sins in the list is so funny to me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ryanscarola
@ryanscarola 6 жыл бұрын
Reading his book right now. Good stuff.
@amanshaikh3645
@amanshaikh3645 6 жыл бұрын
The smile ❤
@michaelasuorsa
@michaelasuorsa 5 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait to see his movie
@l.ellison3542
@l.ellison3542 5 жыл бұрын
Michaela Suorsa Where is it?! I have been looking everywhere for it.
@teresahopemiller1008
@teresahopemiller1008 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you I needed that.
@Wildchile
@Wildchile 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing thank you for this - I can't wait to see the movie
@funkymonkey8777
@funkymonkey8777 4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@ravensucks2020
@ravensucks2020 5 жыл бұрын
I’m reading the book right now
@vansserafim
@vansserafim 4 жыл бұрын
They were right about the father. About the connection to Father
@user-sn6jv5dv9s
@user-sn6jv5dv9s 5 жыл бұрын
I’m so sad that there are so many countries around the world that did not show this movie in theaters, mine being one of them. Do any of you know how I could watch it online or something?
@abigailgarner5938
@abigailgarner5938 5 жыл бұрын
you can stream it online. p opcornflix and 123movies has it. unfortunately its not showing in any of my local theaters either :/
@abdulrafay816
@abdulrafay816 5 жыл бұрын
I'd also highly recommend reading the book. Since I'm also from a country which is too conservative for this, I can tell you finding the online version is not at all easy, but really worth it.
@lookingupwithwonder
@lookingupwithwonder 3 жыл бұрын
Such a good speech. Thank you
@BrokebackBob
@BrokebackBob 5 жыл бұрын
The movie is here! Go see it and tell everyone you know to see it!
@charleshorowitz543
@charleshorowitz543 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@sreelakshmi8586
@sreelakshmi8586 4 жыл бұрын
He somewhere slightly looks like young Joey Tribbiani🤩
@basmalasaad3039
@basmalasaad3039 3 жыл бұрын
Wait what? How??
@dannylara7301
@dannylara7301 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@kingcole6767
@kingcole6767 5 жыл бұрын
Good movie.
@shonnacarter300
@shonnacarter300 5 жыл бұрын
God didn't make human error and indiscretion did
@Rage_Harder_Then_Relax
@Rage_Harder_Then_Relax 5 жыл бұрын
What?
@RepublicofMAC
@RepublicofMAC 5 жыл бұрын
God didn't "make this mess". We are the ones who make the mess. Personal responsibility.
@eyeseefeet
@eyeseefeet 5 жыл бұрын
There is no god, only old beliefs that cause fear guilt and shame. Slavery existed in the days of the bible, it was accepted and condoned, now, even the most religious person would not condone slavery. Some religious ideas are good, some are destructive, lets be open enough to see the difference and create an open way of living that allows people to respect themselves and respect others openly.
@RepublicofMAC
@RepublicofMAC 5 жыл бұрын
@@eyeseefeet If that is what you think (that there is no God), then my point would be all the more true, wouldn't you say?
@yannak.3894
@yannak.3894 5 жыл бұрын
But God made us, so...
@javiergarza5544
@javiergarza5544 4 жыл бұрын
He did try with that free will experiment tho.
@sudhirchandra9790
@sudhirchandra9790 5 жыл бұрын
Adam got iPhone
@lordofchaosinc.261
@lordofchaosinc.261 5 жыл бұрын
This video is kinda funny in a way and also kinda not.
@marshallapplewhite47
@marshallapplewhite47 2 жыл бұрын
Why not embrace Lucifer? I can't understand why someone would try to rewrite the Word of God, instead of just abandoning Christ and embracing the true Lord of light and love.
@beegood1215
@beegood1215 4 жыл бұрын
G-D didn't make this mess, mankind did. G-D allowed it to happen and did not stop us.
@vansserafim
@vansserafim 4 жыл бұрын
As somebody who studies a lot of psychoanalysis the camp was right about your lack male to male contact.
@basmalasaad3039
@basmalasaad3039 3 жыл бұрын
Wdym?
@amandatan9092
@amandatan9092 3 жыл бұрын
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@Vecio.Nandes
@Vecio.Nandes 3 жыл бұрын
19:15 God DIDN'T make this mess. "A person’s own folly leads to their ruin, yet their heart rages against the Lord." Proverbs 19.3
@mysticoversoul
@mysticoversoul 3 жыл бұрын
That is a LIE you have to get out of, Garrard: Saying that God made all the mess we find in life. You are placing fault wrongly on God, not the God religion has taught you but the real One.
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