Lessons on Self Confidence from a Teenager | Reece Doppenberg | TEDxYouth@Langley

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Reece uses his personal experience from his life in early high school to describe his rapid change from being self-conscious and having low self-esteem to becoming a self-confident teenager. He outlines the steps in which he used to make that change and encourages others to learn from his journey. Reece describes his change in demeanour by utilizing five, specific steps: "Find yourself", "Stop caring what others think of you", "Surround yourself with encouragement", "Self-assess your attitude" and "Be humble".
Reece Doppenberg is a engaging, outgoing, ambitious and determined grade 12 student in Langley, British Columbia. He enjoys public speaking, poetry, music and science. Reece is very active within his school, is a multi-instrumentalist and takes part in many leadership roles within the community. After high school, Reece plans to study sciences with hopes of becoming a doctor and eventually joining and contributing to initiatives like Doctors Without Borders.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@brendavazquez4105
@brendavazquez4105 5 жыл бұрын
More people need to hear what this young man is saying!
@lesexypiglet___8599
@lesexypiglet___8599 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@schqrr
@schqrr Жыл бұрын
Facts
@vaderbuild
@vaderbuild 2 жыл бұрын
find yourself stop caring about what others think of you surround yourself with positivity self assess your attitude be humble
@crispy9542
@crispy9542 Жыл бұрын
thank you
@epicface1346
@epicface1346 5 жыл бұрын
He is a fantastic speaker, very authentic and genuine.
@Karamb0t08
@Karamb0t08 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is better than any therapist he knows, i see him as my idol
@hayley1524
@hayley1524 3 жыл бұрын
yesssssssssss, you helped me so much. thank you, thank you, thank you!
@bestiesisters1980
@bestiesisters1980 3 жыл бұрын
He is such an amazing speaker..
@mariie5289
@mariie5289 Жыл бұрын
“Who ever you surround yourself with is who you’ll become”. So much truth in one sentence. This ted talk is fantastic
@destinydecember9773
@destinydecember9773 2 жыл бұрын
i am changing day by day and building new confidence becoz of this guy!
@anonymousperson3433
@anonymousperson3433 2 жыл бұрын
Nice!
@shanarniatrice2560
@shanarniatrice2560 6 ай бұрын
They need to make more videos this and everybody should hear what this young man is saying
@tinaodili8353
@tinaodili8353 4 жыл бұрын
I couldn't help but say wow wow wow... great talk. keep up your confidence. you are going places
@cathvk7862
@cathvk7862 5 жыл бұрын
Brilliantly said Reece, thank you so much for your insight. My 13 year old son and I watched this together and absolutely love the message. It really helps to hear it from a young man who he now looks up to. All the very best for your future :o)
@julier1276
@julier1276 5 жыл бұрын
Very articulate young man! I'm going to have my teen son watch this. Thank you and God bless you Reece😊
@gaminghazard8057
@gaminghazard8057 5 жыл бұрын
lol my mum made me whatch this, not that bad
@schqrr
@schqrr Жыл бұрын
@@gaminghazard8057 same lol!
@elliewinnen6089
@elliewinnen6089 3 жыл бұрын
thank you this really helped me become and stay positive with my surroundings, to myself and to others.
@marcelferreira3028
@marcelferreira3028 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing! He´s so young with so much intelligence...Congratulations!!
@nikiali7051
@nikiali7051 Жыл бұрын
Amazing. Shared with my 14 year told daughter. Thank you.
@arlinegeorge6967
@arlinegeorge6967 3 жыл бұрын
Great great talk . Be true to thyself. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
@tenten1357
@tenten1357 3 жыл бұрын
What a positive man! Love this Ted Talk
@helena-pp4rd
@helena-pp4rd 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this ! Amazing powerful speaker x
@shinihahaha4142
@shinihahaha4142 Жыл бұрын
He's so cool already... 😭💕💕✨ The way he speaks with a smile , that's amazing despite of his all hardships in the past .... He's one of the most stable teen I have ever seen ✨💕 ... I'll turn 17 soon, and it's really inspiring for me ... I wanna be like him , the confidence he has
@lunarcode
@lunarcode 2 жыл бұрын
We got this as english homework :) Anyways this video was awesome.
@pixelgaming983
@pixelgaming983 4 жыл бұрын
Thia has changed my mind to say I am a good person
@warishaali5045
@warishaali5045 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SM! I LEGIT NEEDED THAT SM!
@YourFather1555
@YourFather1555 3 жыл бұрын
5 Steps to Self-Confidence Step 1:"Find Yourself" (2:38) Step 2: "Don't care what people think of you" (4:42) Step 3: "Surround yourself with encouragement" (7:55) Step 4: "Self-Assess your attitude" (8:54) Step 5: "Be humble" (10:36)
@marypuglisi5931
@marypuglisi5931 3 жыл бұрын
thank u
@deborah486
@deborah486 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks wise man
@isaacpepin4173
@isaacpepin4173 3 жыл бұрын
ayo thankss
@qulidz766
@qulidz766 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@btd3545
@btd3545 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you my guy
@sridharansripriya1499
@sridharansripriya1499 3 жыл бұрын
I try to be like you brother. This is a big lesson for my life. Thank you so much. And God bless you all..
@CurtisW
@CurtisW 3 жыл бұрын
Very encouraging, Great Talk!
@stanhashtag8800
@stanhashtag8800 6 жыл бұрын
what he said may seem simple but i can feel his self confidence ,not bad
@menahilkhalid3286
@menahilkhalid3286 5 жыл бұрын
They are amazing points...
@kendallmarie1162
@kendallmarie1162 2 жыл бұрын
teacher made me watch this
@venugopal-oz1dw
@venugopal-oz1dw 4 жыл бұрын
He just expressed himself and the beauty of discipline and simplicity to create an self confidence....all he said about self love he missed..!! But hes genius when he said respect to urself and reasses of ur attitudd..tats the coreection and perfection
@ignatiusjacob8419
@ignatiusjacob8419 2 жыл бұрын
Hearty congratulations Reece .A powerful speech delivered with confidence .Parents and caregivers should give our time, space and a good listening ear to our children so that we hear them not only with our ears but with our hearts and souls .Be at their level, be their friends and mentors,. Make them known that they mean a lot to us .The time we spend with our children , in their play and activities is the best investment that we can give. All children are born with some hidden talents It is up to us to dig it out, polish it with love ,care and encouragement and make it shine. Children learn what they live with.
@ruthieradtke2067
@ruthieradtke2067 5 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR THISSS
@nazariasmith8436
@nazariasmith8436 3 жыл бұрын
my teacher is making me watch this
@shhhimtrynafigurelifeout5326
@shhhimtrynafigurelifeout5326 2 жыл бұрын
Sammmeeee
@isonwest6624
@isonwest6624 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@omni3274
@omni3274 2 жыл бұрын
SAME LMFAOOO SHE WANTS ME TO WRITE NOTES ABOUT IT
@mayinngyinkhaing6660
@mayinngyinkhaing6660 3 жыл бұрын
WOW. It's pretty useful for me! Thanks! :)
@elkesundermann769
@elkesundermann769 5 жыл бұрын
I love this video and greatly appreciate your story! I write curriculum for students across the country, and I wonder if I could use this video for a specific lesson that I'm writing about self-confidence for teens? Please let me know, I think this would spur some really great discussion and a change in mindset towards a positive attitude in life and goals. Thank you in advance, and I look forward to hearing from you!
@elkesundermann769
@elkesundermann769 5 жыл бұрын
@@mrawesomesause1 Awesome, thank you!
@8togreatprogram
@8togreatprogram 11 ай бұрын
Reece, I also write curriculum for 6-12th grades. May I use your video as well?
@Lucky-bk6pw
@Lucky-bk6pw Жыл бұрын
I love this, sending it to teenagers.
@nataliazapata9302
@nataliazapata9302 2 жыл бұрын
I'm just gonna keep listenting to this till I get it in my head
@DrShannanCrawford
@DrShannanCrawford 2 жыл бұрын
Great practical applications! Great job 👏🏻
@susanmatthews426
@susanmatthews426 4 жыл бұрын
Very good speaker. I will play this for my class!
@arsal7959
@arsal7959 2 жыл бұрын
my therapist told me to watch this :)
@sushigaymer6896
@sushigaymer6896 2 жыл бұрын
samee
@MariaFernanda-ds3wg
@MariaFernanda-ds3wg 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing steps Reece! Keep it up! Sometimes we don´t realize that the obstacle is us and the fear of our insecurities!
@kachiiwuafor3100
@kachiiwuafor3100 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you..🤗🤗🤗
@gargithakur762
@gargithakur762 5 жыл бұрын
Great talk...
@lucerolaura89
@lucerolaura89 2 жыл бұрын
I love you Hector my sweet loving son. Sending this to you. Mommy loves you, you are powerful, you are my strength.
@fireflies4214
@fireflies4214 4 жыл бұрын
No one's going to say about how cute it was when he said hi Mom ☺️☺️
@rachelstephens2186
@rachelstephens2186 6 жыл бұрын
I loved this speech!
@jonah3406
@jonah3406 5 жыл бұрын
Metoo!
@ptoo6348
@ptoo6348 4 жыл бұрын
Reece, brilliant talk.
@danielalmanza6493
@danielalmanza6493 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone else here from y’all’s therapist?
@ehtishamh6116
@ehtishamh6116 7 жыл бұрын
good point and well said..
@SilYubi
@SilYubi 7 жыл бұрын
This is great. Thank you.
@jonah3406
@jonah3406 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@getrightbihh-_-467
@getrightbihh-_-467 3 жыл бұрын
NO IT IS NOT
@Ren-wo6wn
@Ren-wo6wn 4 жыл бұрын
My therapist had me watch this vid but I watched it last minute cuz I completely forgot about it
@kelseywhelihan9659
@kelseywhelihan9659 2 жыл бұрын
Những ca sĩ khác cho mình cảm giác thư giãn khi nghe! Còn ĐP luôn cho mình bị cuốn theo tinh thần bài hát.
@ivyroy2568
@ivyroy2568 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful. Want my son to watch this . Past is past we can build our own future . God bless you
@sunitagarg1039
@sunitagarg1039 4 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍so true.....
@ilhamalhalis134
@ilhamalhalis134 3 жыл бұрын
cool!
@AmeliaUnleashed
@AmeliaUnleashed 7 жыл бұрын
Love it!
@jinkxx_
@jinkxx_ 3 жыл бұрын
DANGIT. This 12 minute video had me to write one page on this on documents. I’m not gonna do all of that. Life is pain right now, and my teacher just made it worse
@polar_idkk
@polar_idkk 3 жыл бұрын
lmao same
@thebean3570
@thebean3570 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh me too. I hate TED talks because when I watch it, that means essay.
@jinkxx_
@jinkxx_ 3 жыл бұрын
Sara Bashir you had to do five bullet points. Wow
@Kingk-mz4jj
@Kingk-mz4jj 2 жыл бұрын
Same bro
@stacygoodwin3717
@stacygoodwin3717 5 жыл бұрын
Lovely young man
@itsprecious7683
@itsprecious7683 3 жыл бұрын
sorry guys my teacher bought me here
@walidamaankhan7498
@walidamaankhan7498 3 жыл бұрын
This kid is amazing only he has not spend more time practicing public speaking ❤
@omallium9658
@omallium9658 4 жыл бұрын
I was very inspird
@yvette8415
@yvette8415 4 жыл бұрын
beautiful beautiful
@LM-oz5cw
@LM-oz5cw 3 жыл бұрын
This video is my son's bed night story.
@johnyrollerr2479
@johnyrollerr2479 7 жыл бұрын
Sit down, be humble) wtf why so many dislikes
@jonah3406
@jonah3406 5 жыл бұрын
I know right
@gfilip1
@gfilip1 5 жыл бұрын
I think there's a lot of people out there who don't want to acknowledge the truth that this young and wise man is offering and they feel that his wisdom is not worth anything because he is so young and lacks life experience. It's unfortunate if this is the case as this young man's wisdom and advice is rich in useful information; it resonates with me and I"m a 46-year-old woman. :D
@theelectronomer2319
@theelectronomer2319 3 жыл бұрын
@@gfilip1 that is such a meaningful reply there! It makes me think a lot about myself too. I mean, I'm 15 and all I really love to do is teach people about science, specifically astronomy and electricity the most, which is why I was so passionate as to create a KZfaq channel that does just that. The only thing is, I feel like people wouldn't want to listen to a 15 year old teach this kind of stuff, or they'd say "gosh, what does this kid think he's doing? Teaching? He's too young". :(
@gargiaryacoach
@gargiaryacoach 2 жыл бұрын
you are awesome
@shellieshimmel9148
@shellieshimmel9148 4 жыл бұрын
How did a 17-year-old from a dysfunctional family become so wise? Just WOW.
@chimezirimisrael7192
@chimezirimisrael7192 3 жыл бұрын
What Jesus can do
@imJJ132
@imJJ132 3 жыл бұрын
a little back handed dont you think
@starmoon7442
@starmoon7442 2 жыл бұрын
that person "is the idea of self confidence" me: ah yes the thing i havent had for the past 4 years and i probaly wont ever have again
@lensam7916
@lensam7916 7 жыл бұрын
God! boy you r very smart to know all these by 17, you are already a man.
@jonah3406
@jonah3406 5 жыл бұрын
wow seriously
@jessmacdd
@jessmacdd 5 жыл бұрын
he's the best
@theelectronomer2319
@theelectronomer2319 3 жыл бұрын
or... woman... but in this case I guess it would be a grown up or one who knows their way in life for their age. Ugh I don't even know what I mean by that.
@gerocasali1992
@gerocasali1992 2 жыл бұрын
Nice
@SoundMediaProductions
@SoundMediaProductions 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am doing a class for teens on finding your purpose. May I have your permission to show the video?
@reecedoppenberg7447
@reecedoppenberg7447 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Absolutely
@milicas7600
@milicas7600 4 жыл бұрын
💖👌
@gitalibose176
@gitalibose176 2 ай бұрын
👏👏👍👍
@Lost_Lola
@Lost_Lola 5 ай бұрын
How to tell your therapist you don't hate yourself your just normal and hate you about yourself???
@w1lli4n72
@w1lli4n72 3 жыл бұрын
🇧🇷
@NJ-xp4eb
@NJ-xp4eb 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing points for adults, kids and teenagers. Very inspiring and so true, thank you.
@msisajewel
@msisajewel 7 жыл бұрын
Hey, this is Biblical!
@jonah3406
@jonah3406 5 жыл бұрын
haha true!!
@imJJ132
@imJJ132 3 жыл бұрын
yikes
@eileenmacdougall8945
@eileenmacdougall8945 5 жыл бұрын
Out of the mouth of babes.
@FN_BRICKS
@FN_BRICKS 3 жыл бұрын
PE teacher made me do this ;-;
@melimd
@melimd 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@taiyanichols9032
@taiyanichols9032 Жыл бұрын
What questions does he pose
@Muzletek
@Muzletek 2 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching this from Ms Melfi
@starmoon7442
@starmoon7442 2 жыл бұрын
8:18 when you perants are the oppiste of that as in making you feel bad about yourself and your friends and your god dam imaginary friends/non bully mind are the ones who make you keep on living (the family before friends is bullcrap we didnt choose to have our perants and siblings in our lives but we did chose our friends tell me wich one makes you more happy cause for me its friends)
@reecedoppenberg7447
@reecedoppenberg7447 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes friends can be more like family to us when our family doesn't know how to meet our needs. It's really tough and I've experienced the same thing. Even if you have limited control of who you're surrounded by, doing your best to surround yourself with positivity can help. You can absolutely attain self-confidence because anyone can! Just one step at a time :)
@tonic196
@tonic196 Жыл бұрын
life works worksheet
@CuteGirl-ju6lh
@CuteGirl-ju6lh 4 жыл бұрын
Hi
@kieshaby6765
@kieshaby6765 2 жыл бұрын
Idk if i like this or not but i think its a good video
@Saakshi_111
@Saakshi_111 Ай бұрын
I'm only who finds this guy handsome 😅
@Spaghetti_WARLORD
@Spaghetti_WARLORD 4 жыл бұрын
Ted talks? What about John talks!
@Spaghetti_WARLORD
@Spaghetti_WARLORD 4 жыл бұрын
Bad joke sorry
@firedoge7584
@firedoge7584 3 жыл бұрын
f
@Pooglez-gw4ki
@Pooglez-gw4ki 2 жыл бұрын
🕳
@misterg7121
@misterg7121 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone else had to list the 5 things, anyone got answers so i don't have to watch. :)
@Ian-bb7vv
@Ian-bb7vv 2 жыл бұрын
Generally a good speech. But frankly speakers have to pretend they are 100% sure what they are sure what they are talking
@laralanconi2739
@laralanconi2739 3 жыл бұрын
foda-se ?
@reodiangelo
@reodiangelo Жыл бұрын
Screw you? Reece is AWESOME
@somerandomfatguy.3384
@somerandomfatguy.3384 5 жыл бұрын
I want to become finest men alive...
@118penguin
@118penguin 7 жыл бұрын
How to have the biggest ego and think you are always right 101
@movielover1503
@movielover1503 7 жыл бұрын
Someones not self confident
@jessmacdd
@jessmacdd 5 жыл бұрын
dude shut up💀 being happy with who you are isn't egotistical
@marieomfarrell8410
@marieomfarrell8410 4 жыл бұрын
Jealousy
@Spaghetti_WARLORD
@Spaghetti_WARLORD 4 жыл бұрын
jess m who cares?
@Spaghetti_WARLORD
@Spaghetti_WARLORD 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t judge him! He might be going through something
@valkluvsu3217
@valkluvsu3217 2 жыл бұрын
i do not care
@AishaMCoupons
@AishaMCoupons Жыл бұрын
and no one cares about you
Please be kind🙏
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