Yesssss there's no way I'm saying yes at another person's wedding. You can propose somewhere else and then I'll say yes. But seriously that's just wrong at another's wedding

Yeah like taking the attention away from the bride and groom! 😤

Omg ikr like that’s their moment no one elses

@Rebekah Barker yep

YES.

FRR

Cuz your fat

Yes

FRR

LIKE BEFORE I LOOK AT MY FOOD ITS ALREADY GONE 😅😅😅

"Babe, take surprise in the bathroom soon..." 🙂 Honestly it could be really DANGEROUS

You know it will come out the other end 🙂😉

Before my fiancés speech, he got down on 1 knee and I said YES 😂❤ He said “You wanna at least look at the ring?” Me: “sure but YES” 😂

awwwww

Yeah all these things shouldn’t matter if you really love each other 🥰

@@AS-rr9km 😂

awwww

Lol

😂😂

All the cats she'll own later won't care how cheesy she is as long as that litterbox is clean.

@@AlexanderTheGoodEnough wow so funny 😐

@@bloopbleepblop176 ma'am, I was only seeing into a bleak future. If you find that funny, then I can only say it's unhealthy to thrive on schadenfreude.

Yea I would say no I love my food!

Yessssss guess you are dying or you are living forever engaged

Lol exactly! It’s that or I’m picking at my food to get the ring. And that just ain’t it

Plot twist he doesn’t see this, the engagement is off

@Copy and Paste taking “until death do us part” to a whole no level 💀

she said silver RINGs

R I N G S

the key-word is rings.

She said RINGS And just because she likes silver doesn't mean she can't also like gold.

hey giys stop hating on this comment!!! it was suppoesed to be funny i dont think the person who wrote this meant any hate

Lmao 💀

I TEAD THAT AS BALLS INSTEAD OF NAILS

Oh id hate that

So. Here's the thing. For the most part, people usually talk about being willing to get married to so you kinda know they'll be willing to say yes and that's typically when you'll get these disclaimers. That's when you pick a time to do it and talk to one of her friends or family members or whatever and get them to casually suggest a girls day to do the nails before hand. As someone who has had to plan the girls day, it's zero effort on your part and is super fun for everyone involved. It is a little bit that we as a society have become obsessed with putting everything on social media immediately, but it's still a nice step for the person proposing to take to make the moment just that much more social for the person being proposed to

You're * 😶😶😶😶

Wasn't that funny

@@frankyboy1810 different sense of humour? Ever heard of it lmao

I mean she is not wrong if she doesn't know there is a ring in it she is just gonna eat it

That's great for YOU but it may not be what SHE wants.

​@@audreym3908 Exactly

I don't understand the whole nails part, why does it matter honestly Most of the times it's for pictures which is fkn stupid but you can get the nails done after proposing and make the pictures then?

exactly

@@audreym3908 If she loved him, she wouldn't care.

No

@@july3817 yes

@@july3817 it can

@@000op sure, but it doesn't have to

So true. If I genuinely love someone with all my heart, I wouldn't care if he proposed without a ring at a 7 11. I'd still accept. I don't get the fuss about wedding rings tbh.

🤣🤣

😂

That’s commitment for staying up long I would of just left and was like I tried

Lol

😂😂😂

Same

Because she probably will use u for your money

What is the ideal place to propose to you? What is your ring size?

@@edwardslizewski717 I'm interested in that as well 😅😅😂

Probably the only rule on here I'm lime ehhhhhhhhh

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Max i thought you Got into a coma Pls come back i cryed thought you died 🙁

K, this is so unrelated but I love this persons whole profile

Fr tho😭. But I would want a silver ring too tho, even tho I’m obsessed with gold jewelry lol

Did you asked his parents? This dumb expectations women have on guys while don't doing shit it's toxic af.

@@manuelsilva6244 never said this was an expectation. He did it on his own. I wasn’t expecting anything. I just thought it was cute how he did it. But okay, go off.

@@manuelsilva6244 and how was I supposed to ask his parents if I didn’t know he was even thinking of proposing? 😂

Ah yes. It's the Stephanie with humble braggings, makes us feel sad about our boring lives. (Just a joke. So chill and sit still Judy or Jude)

@@iamnotadoctor6168 😂

If things out you can also blame your mother. 😆

We do not need this negativity energy here sir… and her wants aren’t even that different to follow 💀

the turns have tabled.

That's actually a problem sometimes, though, especially if the ring is properly hidden in the food

Like this (ノ｀Д´)ノ彡┻━┻

She didn’t mean it that way 🥲😂

@@jennabotha6176 oh how Did she mean it then

@@trackerh6542 she meant that she actually love silver rings more than gold

me pls

If they’re her to be fiancé they’d prob know she likes silver more than gold.

I know women who got proposed to and did nothing but complain about the ring. It’s so ugly, it’s too small, it’s not my style, wah wah wah. I even knew a man, kind and gentle as could be, looked just like John Cena; proposed to his girl and she said no because the diamond was smaller than 2 carats. Some women out there just don’t deserve a good partner, or any partner at all because they simply don’t get it.

@@kristenastrup5629 yeah never understood the ring stuff I guess it’s nice to have a nice ring but getting married isn’t about a ring it’s about the couple and their future

@@kristenastrup5629 bro I remember thinking “omfg imagine having an alexandrite ring it would be so pretty!! (Alexandrite is my birthstone, and it changes from red to green depending on the lighting) than I did research and found out it’s like 10k-20k so uh Yeah nvm I’m not getting any alexandrite jewelry

@@kristenastrup5629 exactly tbh the ring doesn’t matter to me, if I’m marrying the person I love then material things shouldn’t matter. My dad got my mom a ring that wasn’t even a diamond and honestly it is really pretty and I like it more.

@@kristenastrup5629 The ring stuff is bs, I am a girl and the fact you go waste your money for something 2 years I wont wear is magical to me lol. The ring is just an simbol nothing more, my mom sold her ring, and didnt complain about what was is it( i dont think it was that cheap but still)

THANK YOU

She wants to blame the parents if it fails.

"silver Ring kinda gal"

Silver rings though not all jewellery must be silver

Maybe it was a gift :)

And also she said silver ring not silver jewelry in general

I was scrolling through the comments to find this one ❤😂

SILVER RING not necklace

That’s why no one proposed to her.

Maybe an obsession for everything to be like how she wants and everything else it's wrong or having everything under control , before giving me hate i said MAYBE witch means this is an option but maybe are other reasons why

@@yaseinookami5516 yea she is a high maintenance girl

@@jackm20020 how is she high maintenance?? she literally just has standards

@@stacyk6984 I think having standards for every aspect of life imaginable could constitute her as being high maintenance

@@priyankajoshi8347 I'm not saying it's rude to look good on her engagement, and I'm sure whoever she decides to marry will be self aware enough to know when it's a good time to propose..but all these things can be done after the ring is on. She doesn't have to tell people right away. I still think the gold ring over the silver ring is a bit bogus but hopefully her partner knows that for in the future I guess.

@@Mercinater I'm not a person who likes to take pictures of myself but I'm sure spence would like to have picture of the moment her future husband proposes her. She would like to look good for that. I think the silver is just preference. Thank you for being kind. Have a great day

@@priyankajoshi8347 I never said she wouldn't want to take pictures, it's just she doesn't have to right at that moment. But have a great day too.

If I am gonna get married I would want the wedding and engagement to be in theme/color I like. I only really wear silver, and gold (or another metal like bronze. Steel, Iron or Silver is the preference) would not match or work with anything I wear. I wouldn’t say no, but I would be bothered by the mixing of metals, and I would end up obsessing over buying jewelry that matches. I don’t agree with the nails thing, But I get it. I mean I would also want to look nice and feel pretty on such an important day, and getting her nails done is probably just what makes her feel nice

@@-0m3rcy0-8 Oh alright I understand, I hope she lets her lover know beforehand though..so it doesn't get awkward. But for the nails thing I think she could get them done after before she shows anyone her ring..they don't have to be done at that moment.

True but this girl thinks she’s too good for anyone.

@@Nadiaaxoxo nah she literally just said what she prefers, and those aren’t even standards you can’t meet bro..

@@Nadiaaxoxo literally yes i like some of her reels but she doesn't need to make everything about herself i want to ask her if she'd ever ask his parents

@@someundeadtalent2016 so I'm guessing if the guy comes with an expensive ring but because it's not silver she'll just say no? Idk that's really weird

@@facepalmfoxindustries8835 it’s more weird to call someone’s standards weird when everyone should have standards even if they don’t align with others thoughts

Lmaoo

Lolll

Same bro

Seriously. She’s going to see this video ten years from now and throw her back out from the absolutely full-body cringe she’s going to experience.

Yeah the food one is relatively reasonable but the rest? Ahaha, no

Yeah don't get married is the advice I got from my almost homeless uncle and a lot of co workers and other men.

@@samlee1546 it’s good advice

literally same also feel like it is more responsible to check with parents first

But a marriage isn’t for them it’s for you so even if validation is a must it shouldn’t decide whether or not you get married

@@didred2174 True, however, they need the urge to tell them regardless because I just don't want my parents to be shocked at something and I will not be comfortable with it. They're not going to decide whom or when I'm marrying, this is just to prove that your future spouse has the confidence and ability to do anything for you.

@@didred2174 Marriage is the unity of two families. If I can’t get on with my future in laws (but my SO does so it’s not like my SO also can’t get along with his own family), or my SO can’t get on with his future in laws, then I don’t want it. I don’t want to deal with the stress of having disgruntled parents on both or one side during gatherings or something.

@@Usernames_are_hard_to_think_of fair enough my point of view of marriage is it’s between two people and if they make you happy not you and your family because at the end of the day whether the parents like a spouse or not as long as their child is happy they should be happy and as long as everyone is cordial at the least but they are parents and they can express their feelings but not to change the course of your life. But I completely understand what you’re saying and I do think it’s ideal that everyone gets along it’s much easier and more peaceful

Honestly kinda of same 💀

Fax m8

Of course ugh

Bro spittin them fax

@@hivekahuna1011 And this is our opinion plus it pretty toxic what she’s saying

What about this is breaking the rules of being yourself? She’s allowed to have standards and these aren’t even high standards.

@@Jiafei.YeHuanXiangyou miss the point

Men aren't allowed to speak their opinions, according to her channel.

Completely agreed

Just curious, but how does having expectations about how a memorable moment happens, make you force someone to love you. The only reason that list would be important is IF the person Did love her and wanted to spend their life with her…

Bro I feel pity for you. If someone has actually loved you they'd be willing to do all this. It's not like she asked for elephants flying

Fr same

​@@afailedabortion i think the bigger issue is more the relative superficiality of it. If the love is most definitely there yet circumstances just happen to be such that not every single one of these boxes are checked, it'd be silly as hell to say no to the proposal just because her nails weren't perfect that day. Getting her a silver ring because he knows she loves silver rings ok sure yeah, that's a layup. But if her and her nails look great to him, yet she wants to make the engagement awkward just because she feels like she doesn't look her best that day...I'd argue that that's her putting the perfection of the moment ahead of the love itself

Fr 😂

She said ring

She was dating at that time but they recently broke up

Shows you how little these superficial things really matter

I just love how wome expect so much shit but when men expect things from them"omg how sexist of you"

That was just the most heartwarming proposal ever❤

slayed honestly

Haha very unique

Yeah, having petty requirements like that for an engagement proposal is ridiculously self centered. If the woman I was dating gave me all those, I would never propose to her.

when you’re mature enough to marry you understand how to value the things that truly matter, and let the rest go

Frl tbh she kinda has too high standards, you can’t expect a perfect person for u.

@@Ysaella._ you can, if you want. Whats your problem if she has expectations? Why do u hav to judge?

@@linostoe This wasn’t hate It was my opinion. Jeez can u pls chill.

@@linostoe but having rules for a proposal? Seriously? No man will keep up with that shit.

@@xoangel3456 it was clearly a joke - She was only half serious plus shes young and everyone has dreams. No harm with that. I sometimes dream of a handsome rich CEO (Blame kdramas), but its only an expectation!! I have smth real, and better waiting for me

She literally just has standards and likes silver better. I'm sure some point in a relationship she would mention it plus+ if their long enough to be engaged he should know?

She said silver rings like if she wears finger jewelry it needs to be silver and also hey Twins! 😎😊

u dead wrong for this 😭😭😭😭😭

Lol ikr

Agreed

Do you ask his parents? You cannot expect to be treated differently than your partener

@@manuelsilva6244 its a gentleman type of shit

@@mark-qg6wd someone hurt him. He’s asking that on almost every comment about asking the parents.

@@manuelsilva6244 no it’s really just a man type of thing. First the boyfriend has to ask the dad if he can date his daughter. Then the boyfriend ask the mom and father for their blessings for marriage. It’s just a respectful thing to do.

@@manuelsilva6244 she's not asking him to marry her though. If a guy proposes to her, it's up to him to have the foresight to make sure his parents (and hers) approve

She's kind of a hypocrite tbh. But I guess some girls want the man to do it

Right I thought she wasn’t traditional? She is tho 😆 it’s fine just own it. I do! Old-fashioned, traditional girl here. Stuff sticks around for a reason 😉

She said silver ring not silver necklace lmao

Well don’t complain when no one wants to propose or marry you because you’re too controlling

@@cuddlebug4208 How is this too controlling. Why do you shame someone for having standards. I'm sure you have standards too for example you wouldn't go out with someone who cheated on you or something like that

@@ari_violet how does cheating and literally having rules for how your bf is supposed to ask you if you wanna marry him, the same? You scream feminist 🤮

@@cuddlebug4208 If I were to propose to someone and they had these standards I would not care. I’ll get them the silver ring. I’ll ask their parents. I’ll do it. If you want to make the proposal special for them, you make it special for them because this will show you really thought it out.

Well her partner would know she prefers single rings other wise what is he doing??

LOL, same tho 😭😔✋

I think she excepts it on a silver plate and not to work and be provided with everything.

Yeah no when you get married you pick out the dress so how is he telling you what Pacific dress to wear the only thing that’s specific is maybe the white and you don’t even have to do it and if you really care more about the ring then the person you’re marrying then that’s sad and Shallow

@@cuddlebug4208 I’ll get behind that. All I’m saying is that if I can have rules about my wedding so can s/he. If neither of them whatever. I want both to be on equal ground when it comes to being picky on what they want. If you’re talking specifically about the dress, I agree it’s you’re dress to buy, choose what you want. I apply the same to him. He buys the ring, he pays, he gets to choose what to give you.