Imagine having someone like her around. Life would be so much better

She’s the friend that everyone wants.

"You're only as pretty as you treat people" this truly made my day

Hope this helps First kiss- 1:07 Body image- 2:25 Dating advice- 3:20 Bodies changing- 5:00 BooBs changing- 6:05 Mean girls dont exist- 6:50 Hooking up- 8:13 How to talk to ur mom about ⭐️lady things⭐️- 8:35 How to be emotional- 9:24 Body hair/shaving- 11:18 End- 12:25

I wish I had a best friend like her she seems like such a positive influence to have in your life and just a little ball of sunshine to brighten your day

The sparkle in Spencer's eyes are so gorgeously precious!!

“you never look good making someone else look bad” OOOHH SPENCER THAT WAS GOOD

you need a podcast!! i could listen to u talk for hours & hours, u are one of the most motivational, uplifting, confident, and inspiring people i’ve seen on youtube in the many years i’ve been on this platform!

My first kiss was literally the best thing that ever happened to me, gave me my boyfriend now and next month we will make it to two years, don’t loose hope entirely❤️

Spencer you are such an inspiration and make everyone’s day better. We all love and appreciate you so much, you have helped so many of us through tough times ❤️

can we agree that spencer litteraly is a vibe. she’s all i would want in a friend- and she’s so inspirational and makes everyone feel better about themselves.

u have no idea how much i love you 😭😭 i just love the energy u radiate and how positive you are

“There’s not mean girls there’s insecure girls” QUEEN ily spencer!!💗

ain't no one gonna mention the fact that her makeup is GORGEOUS! her eye makeup really brings attention to her eyes. Girl, I love your videos! I'm 15 and am really struggling with body image :p but watching your videos and how confident you are in your body really encourages me to not tell myself I hate me every morning XD

"A boob is a boob" -Spencer Barbosa, 2021 I LOVE THIS QUEENN

Fun fact- you can’t breathe whilst smiling • • • • • It isn’t true, I just wanted you to smile ❤️

spencer. girl. i hope you read this. this video just boosted my confidence. i have struggles with body-image, thinking i'm never going to get a bf, and i have countless insecurities. i'm not skinny, but i'm not fat. kinda in-between, you know? i always wish i was that perfect skinny girl. there is no perfect skinny girl. she doesn't exist. it feels so good to know that i'm not the only one with so many insecurities. i need self-love! someday i will be the best thing that's ever happened to someone but first i need to be the best that's ever happened to me. girl you're so right on that ✨ i'm literally going to watch this video everyday to keep me going. ilysm!

this is the first video i have watched without skipping anything. omd i will be that confident one day ilyyy

the mean girls one really hit home with me. this girl who’s supposed to be my friend has blatantly been mean and talked down to me. during 2022 i really want to be more confident and spencer- i honestly don’t know how i survived without you. thank you so much for helping me realize that i am worth it and i’m amazing. thank u soooooo much. please take time for yourself and take care of yourself as much as you’ve taken care of me.

I love how spencer is always smiling 🥰🥰 she is such an amazing person and motivates me to appreciate who i am and not change for anyone

Girllllll everyone needs to have such an bubbly personality and you’re like the nicest person ever!!! Keep being yourself and do what you love ❤️

SPENCER, I know you will probably never read this but I am so glad I discovered you! You help SO many people love and respect themselves (me among them) You are literally my go to when I’m feeling down. THANK YOU!!!!

the internet needed someone like YOU!! thank you so much for everything, with your every video I watch, my self love gets higher and higher. I feel like thanks to people like You I become a better person

hey spencer, ur literally an inspiration to me and so many other girls, guys and everyone in between around the world, thanks for making these vids!! love you 😘

your energy is literally everything!!

"mean girls are just insecure" preach! that just changed my whole mindset, if I'm being honest. girl, the light that radiates you makes our day soooo much better! ily girl!

You are incredible Spencer. You're literally like my older sister. I feel like ive known you for so long. You've answered every question SO WELL and CONFIDENTLY. Thank you❤️❤️

thank you for spreading your platform to uplift positive body image. as a young victim of SA your platform is a very comfortable space for me and it makes me feel so happy. thank you for doing what you do!

Your energy is EVERYTHING💕 you have helped me so much in gaining confidence in my body ily💕💕

ur energy did not suck, it was radiating and you brought a smile to my face!! your humor and relatableness cannot be more on point love uuuu thank u for ur content and sharing your personality to the world 💞

The world is blessed to have someone like you helping other people through rough times :’) love and appreciate you so much ❤️ thank you, may 2022 bless you with lots of joy, great health and nothing but the best ❤️😌

I'm literally going to take you up on that pep talk one day. God Spencer you make me feel so amazing about who I am. 2021 was the year I needed to just be ok with who I am. I appreciate you so much!!!

Thanks you for being so positive! Sometimes I just need to watch your videos to make me appreciate my body. I’m trying so hard to like myself but sometimes it’s hard and you help me with that! Love you so much Spencer❤️🥰

i seriously cannot get enough of you! you have completely transformed my views on all aspects of life, & i can't thank you enough for that! you are wise beyond your years spencer girl. keep doing what you're doing. much love.

Thanks for this girl talk! A lot of girls that post girl talk videos are fake but you seem real and actually gave good advice!

You’ve helped me so much with my confidence, thank you and have a good New Years!

Spencer is like the big sister I never had I recently started watching her and I have been feeling so much better abt things like my appearance and my mental health and she has really helped with that. Spencer if u see this thank you

having her as a friend would make me feel so much comfortable and less insecure 🫶🏻

girl, you helped me so much, as someone who doesn't have a sister or a mum this helped tremendously thank you so much!!!

Gurl Tysm for this vid, a couple years ago my nose started growing and I’ve been rlly insecure about it but seeing your videos and all of your tips and positivity about everything makes me so much more comfy with myself

I remember you replied to my comment on a tiktok when you had like 22k followers and now you have millions🥺 I cannot explain how proud I am of you, I feel like we’re growing up together. Happy for you spencer, you deserve all of your happiness and successful :))

I literally look up to u like a bit sister! I only really started watching u a few months ago and since then I have tried my best to love myself and sometimes it works then I go and look in the mirror and I go back to putting myself down. I always compare myself to other ppl and I Ik shouldnt but I just can't help it. If u have any other advice I would love to see more vids like this. I love the positivity u put out in the world and the amount of ppl you help is amazing! ❤

Your positivity is so infectious!! Thank you for the girl talk❤️

ur literally like a big sister to me, ive learned to love myself, to love my insecurities and I just wanna thank you for helping me with self love and confidence:))

I really needed to hear this. Thank you Spencer!❤ your advice is amazing. I'm 17 and have been struggling with a lot of these things. Especially feeling insecure, wanting a boyfriend, wanting my first kiss, etc. You helped me feel more confident tho so tysm!💕

Spencer is the literal queen she slays!❤

Your energy in this video is giving big sister and honestly I'm living for itttt

Spencer gives some of the best advice I've ever heard i love how she always talks about self love and she helped me realize how important it is, I love her so much ❤

this is why i love spencer. i am currently struggling with body image, and i’m not eating as much, etc. but spencer makes me feel so much more confident in myself and i love her for that. so many young women are also struggling with body image like spencer said, but she just helps the majority of them feel like they can take on the world. idk how to explain it, but she just makes me feel like all my insecurities go away. xo

Love you so much spencer, you give such good advice! You always make my day!

You are such an inspiration to me! You have given such good advice that has helped me move forward from my insecurities and I struggle with "mean girls" a lot these days and that advice really helped!!

Girl you're such a breath of fresh air. Like there are so many youtubers (they're amazing too) but like since I've discovered you I can't stop watching your videos. Your energy is so great , I feel like I have a cool af older sister. Soooo much love and power to you. You're doing amazing XX

Love you Spencer! Hope this new year treats you well!

Spencer’s the only thing keeping me going in my teenage years, thankyou so so much Spencer from the bottom of my heart. Your a big sister to me and I love you more than words can describe. Xx

i love this video because she looks so casual and real, it made me feel so comfortable and actually feel more like a girl talk

you made my confidence skyrocket!! love you so much!!

spencer u are the big sister everyone needs and loves

This woman is a literal queen we all need a friend like her ❤

you're like the big sister I never had, ig what I'm saying is thank you. It's quite hard having only brothers and no one having to talk about these things so I just wanted to tell you that you're an amazing role model for me. You've helped me out in numerous ways and I've learned to accept me and my body especially as a teenager with body image issues. I've grown a lot and wanted to tell you that you're the root cause of my inspiration to better and love myself. Much love!! Have an amazing day

I love that you're so real about everything. I felt so connected and I just felt so in tune with you. You discussed things that I didn't even think I needed to hear, and after hearing it, I came to so many realisations. Thank you so much.

“I’m a mammal mam” really cheered me up! I haven’t had the best day but you e really inspired me!

Spencer ur making my day so much better. For me it’s already 9:00pm but I’ve been having a mental breakdown for 2 hours. People always say I’m not fat but I think I am. I’ve been struggling with my body image so much and u and my dog are only ones making my day better and keeping me from Kms. Thank you Spencer❤

I literally love how you’re so so so confident in your body ilysm🤍

Gurl wth ilysm ur so inspiring and confident w pointing out ur "flaws" luv uuuu :))

I know I'm like a year late but Spencer, thank you so much for this. You don't know how many girls you've helped and just make people's day better. You're also so funny! Spencer I just freaking love you.

I LOVE YOU AND YOUR VIDEOS!💗 thanks to you I have so much confidence and I start to love my self, I feel so much better now that I listen your advice and you make me feel so comfortable. Thank you 🙂💗

✨Spencer, your energy is everything ✨

spencer you always find a way to make me feel better and ur advice is always the very best and so supportive. i genuinely mean it when i say u make me feel so good about myself and i love how happy u are and your new relationship w your boyfriend because u seem to really like him 💕💜

Hey Spenser love your videos 💕 your such a lovely and gorgeous person living her life. THANK YOU SO SO MUCH FOR ALWAYS MAKING MY DAY!!! You always leave such a great and positive vibe and share the best advice. THIS VIDEO MADE ME REALISE HOW HORRIBLE I WAS BEING TO MYSELF AND MY BODY. Love your content 🥰

I love how you use your influence to address things like body image and girls' problems like safety. And your videos are really a safe space for me when I have anxiety or panic attacks. Although I'm queer so your boy advice doesn't help me much but still, I love you ❤️😂

Omg the part about dating?! It just hit the right spot, like whaat? Its exactly what I needed to hear, thank you❣😘 love you

I love her and her confidence, it makes me feel confident in myself :)

okay wow... just imagine you have someone like Spencer around you... I mean life would be perfect❤️ thank you so much Spencer, you are such an inspiration and you makes everyone feel better! We love you...

Spencer. IT’S OKAY TO SHARE YOUR FEELINGS WITH US !! we appreciate the positivity u spread so much, and we don’t only watch u to feel good about our bodies or tips on certain things, but bc of ur huge heart and great personality! :) it’s okay to share how you’re feeling with us. Just like how we share how we’re feeling with you. It’s okay to trail off, if u have something to say, SAY IT !! ❤️

Thank you so much for this! I've been struggling with my body image and self love lately, and you and your channel are just a breath of fresh air. I watch your videos almost every day and they have been helping me so much. Thank you! ❤

I wish I had someone like you near me. Literally I would be high as a kite with all your positive energy. I wish more people could be like you! You inspire me and I love you so much! Thank you for reminding me that I am better than my worst day!

Ok but no I died when she came close to the camera and was pretending to be a mom “so your period and crushes*blink*” ahaha thank you Spencer you always brighten my day and make me laugh💕

u should make an audio book about all of this. your just so amazing to listen to, u brighten my day.

I'm feel so sick rn and your positive energy made me laugh for the 1st time today. Thank you I rlly needed that

"I'm a mammal ma'am!" Love that!💕 Love you Spencer you have helped a lot with loving myself even though I still have a long way to go😘

Can u pleeeaaasseee do a part 2 I love these types of vids❤️

You radiate such a positive, happy vibe! You're like the big sister I never had. Thanks for being you 🙌🥰

I hope to have confidence like you one day and to be able to help other people like you. Thanks so much for helping me and so many others❤️

u are exactly what our generation needs. someone to bring confidence and positivity to girls!!! thank u sm

i am always very insecure and your videos help me a lot. you’re the best!!!! you are the most beautiful person on the planet. physically and mentally!!! i love you! you are a role model to me and all girls.

OMG I'm new to this channel, but sometimes I forget that I'm watching a video and I feel like you are talking directly to me. You give such good advice and help me prepare for what I will experience in the future. Thank you!❤️

You are awesome. You make me laugh and feel so much better I love you. I just broke my arm in gymnastics and got out of the ER at 4am. I love you so much

You know what? I just love her * - * besides every shitty thing we see in Social media its a blessing to get known to some people like her:)

This made me feel so much better u have a way of making ppl feel loved and happy about themselves so thank u

OML UR SO INCREDIBLY GORG AND U ARE DEF MY FAV KZfaqR!!!!

I literally cried after watching this cuz I felt you're soooooooooo right...... You have no idea how much u inspire us...🤗😘 Love you soo much ❤️❤️

I actually had my first kiss a couple of months ago and I completely agree with you. It was raining like crazy, we were soaking wet and when we both pulled away there was this wet popping sound that made us burst out laughing!

Hi spencer! Honestly you’ve made me view myself so much differently and I love watching your videos so much 💜

Spencer you are such a beautiful, kind, helpful, amazing person. Not to mention very inspirational. ily!♥️

My first kiss was with a girl, and we are still dating. And our first kiss was amazing we were friends for years, so it was really new, but fantastic. I think it's totally different for girl+girl kiss, but i also think that that can be akward. Ily

If spencer got a boyfriend, that guy is: A: lucky and B: an angel

I love you so much. In 2020 I struggled a lot with body image and you helped so much with my recovery. Thank you💜💜💜

You are such an amazing person spencer you help everyone be more confident if their selves and be more positive

this queen is literally the most relatable bitch you will ever come across like- she deserves every bit of what she accomplished 😩👏👏

PLS READ THIS I NEED SOMEONES HELP 😭 how do u turn down a guy that rlly likes u, coz I rlly like this guy and he rlly likes me but I kinda feel iffy about him like I’m starting to feel less and less iffy about him, should I go out with him coz he’s cute, he’s sweet, he’s nice to me and he’s super open to talk and understanding but sooo many ppl say he’s a jerk and he says that only the ppl who don’t know him say that but idk what to do pls help me anyoneee 😭 and sometimes I’m like omg he’s so amazing I want to be with him but other times I’m kinda like I could definitely see this ending but also I’m rlly young and I don’t want to rush things and this would be my first relationship so ofc it’s gonna end. But then also the way his friend talks about us and he says things like I’ve never seen him like a girl this much and stuff but I honestly don’t know what to do coz I said I’ll go out with him in a few months when I’m ready but idk if I should go at all, what should I doooo PLS HELP ME ANYONE