Engagement rules

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spencer barbosa

spencer barbosa

2 жыл бұрын

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@davidpike2819
@davidpike2819 2 жыл бұрын
And it must not happen at another persons wedding 🙅🏼‍♀️
@heartsforlanax
@heartsforlanax 2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss there's no way I'm saying yes at another person's wedding. You can propose somewhere else and then I'll say yes. But seriously that's just wrong at another's wedding
@Lulu_929
@Lulu_929 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah like taking the attention away from the bride and groom! 😤
@alexis6835
@alexis6835 2 жыл бұрын
Omg ikr like that’s their moment no one elses
@heartsforlanax
@heartsforlanax 2 жыл бұрын
@Rebekah Barker yep
@katsukibakugo9536
@katsukibakugo9536 2 жыл бұрын
YES.
@karabear_45
@karabear_45 Жыл бұрын
“I’m just gonna eat the ring” like same girl 😭😂
@Red_1023
@Red_1023 Жыл бұрын
FRR
@tawhidaloum4894
@tawhidaloum4894 Жыл бұрын
Cuz your fat
@Olivia24433
@Olivia24433 10 ай бұрын
Yes
@Lxndxn1
@Lxndxn1 4 ай бұрын
FRR
@Jaelinsr7911
@Jaelinsr7911 4 ай бұрын
LIKE BEFORE I LOOK AT MY FOOD ITS ALREADY GONE 😅😅😅
@karaleenolte6144
@karaleenolte6144 Жыл бұрын
“Babe…Babe! You ate the ring!”🤣🤣
@kotilex
@kotilex Жыл бұрын
"Babe, take surprise in the bathroom soon..." 🙂 Honestly it could be really DANGEROUS
@scotthearts9634
@scotthearts9634 2 ай бұрын
You know it will come out the other end 🙂😉
@MrsSullie22
@MrsSullie22 Жыл бұрын
This was me. And my (now husband) knew this. And the poor man had a whole speech lined up and when it came down to it he got so nervous and blurted out “I love you so much will you marry me?” And every expectation I had flew right out of the window because I was shaking so much and so excited that none of it mattered!! After our wedding day it was the best day of my life. ❤
@AS-rr9km
@AS-rr9km Жыл бұрын
Before my fiancés speech, he got down on 1 knee and I said YES 😂❤ He said “You wanna at least look at the ring?” Me: “sure but YES” 😂
@jessiegustine1486
@jessiegustine1486 Жыл бұрын
awwwww
@sabi_ne
@sabi_ne Жыл бұрын
Yeah all these things shouldn’t matter if you really love each other 🥰
@okan2461
@okan2461 Жыл бұрын
@@AS-rr9km 😂
@Shalom-ij9qs
@Shalom-ij9qs 7 ай бұрын
awwww
@me-wn3yk
@me-wn3yk 2 жыл бұрын
" I am just gonna eat the ring " had me rolling 😭💀
@frankyboy1810
@frankyboy1810 2 жыл бұрын
Wasn't that funny
@me-wn3yk
@me-wn3yk 2 жыл бұрын
@@frankyboy1810 different sense of humour? Ever heard of it lmao
@CH-gw7su
@CH-gw7su 2 жыл бұрын
I mean she is not wrong if she doesn't know there is a ring in it she is just gonna eat it
@smiles8075
@smiles8075 Жыл бұрын
“Will you marry me?” “No your speech wasn’t cheesy enough”
@saifdodin2586
@saifdodin2586 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@jaime-leighhoyle2461
@jaime-leighhoyle2461 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@AlexanderTheGoodEnough
@AlexanderTheGoodEnough Жыл бұрын
All the cats she'll own later won't care how cheesy she is as long as that litterbox is clean.
@bloopbleepblop176
@bloopbleepblop176 Жыл бұрын
@@AlexanderTheGoodEnough wow so funny 😐
@AlexanderTheGoodEnough
@AlexanderTheGoodEnough Жыл бұрын
@@bloopbleepblop176 ma'am, I was only seeing into a bleak future. If you find that funny, then I can only say it's unhealthy to thrive on schadenfreude.
@vanessacorona7090
@vanessacorona7090 Жыл бұрын
You won’t care how the engagement happens or if your nails are done when you love the person with everything in you. My nails weren’t done and my husband didn’t do a huge speech but it was perfect because It was the man I love asking me to be with him and only him forever❤
@audreym3908
@audreym3908 Жыл бұрын
That's great for YOU but it may not be what SHE wants.
@Edd829
@Edd829 Жыл бұрын
​@@audreym3908 Exactly
@razor6794
@razor6794 10 ай бұрын
I don't understand the whole nails part, why does it matter honestly Most of the times it's for pictures which is fkn stupid but you can get the nails done after proposing and make the pictures then?
@oliviaphon9344
@oliviaphon9344 10 ай бұрын
exactly
@HenrySimmons1225
@HenrySimmons1225 2 ай бұрын
@@audreym3908 If she loved him, she wouldn't care.
@chelseastephens9251
@chelseastephens9251 Жыл бұрын
My husband literally followed all of these and I totally needed the validation that my parents thought it was a good idea too. He didn’t so much ask them as he did inform them of his intentions, but it was perfect
@slay.8480
@slay.8480 2 жыл бұрын
“Your the love of my life. Will you marry me” “Uhm no. Does it look like I have my nails done?”
@l3xi_th3.r4t
@l3xi_th3.r4t 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao 💀
@jordie4999
@jordie4999 2 жыл бұрын
I TEAD THAT AS BALLS INSTEAD OF NAILS
@tylari3210
@tylari3210 2 жыл бұрын
Oh id hate that
@zettagotbored9341
@zettagotbored9341 2 жыл бұрын
So. Here's the thing. For the most part, people usually talk about being willing to get married to so you kinda know they'll be willing to say yes and that's typically when you'll get these disclaimers. That's when you pick a time to do it and talk to one of her friends or family members or whatever and get them to casually suggest a girls day to do the nails before hand. As someone who has had to plan the girls day, it's zero effort on your part and is super fun for everyone involved. It is a little bit that we as a society have become obsessed with putting everything on social media immediately, but it's still a nice step for the person proposing to take to make the moment just that much more social for the person being proposed to
@threeguysandagirlinabeachhouse
@threeguysandagirlinabeachhouse 2 жыл бұрын
You're * 😶😶😶😶
@25PookieBear25
@25PookieBear25 2 жыл бұрын
Tbh I agree to all of these rules Especially the one about food if a ring was in my food I’m just gonna choke I guess
@mattiejohnson8059
@mattiejohnson8059 2 жыл бұрын
Yea I would say no I love my food!
@mandmducky2530
@mandmducky2530 2 жыл бұрын
Yessssss guess you are dying or you are living forever engaged
@samhl7853
@samhl7853 2 жыл бұрын
Lol exactly! It’s that or I’m picking at my food to get the ring. And that just ain’t it
@Illiterate243
@Illiterate243 2 жыл бұрын
Plot twist he doesn’t see this, the engagement is off
@Illiterate243
@Illiterate243 2 жыл бұрын
@Copy and Paste taking “until death do us part” to a whole no level 💀
@maazimran1282
@maazimran1282 Жыл бұрын
The Guy Who Was About To Propose To Her: 👁 👁 👄
@noelle2087
@noelle2087 Жыл бұрын
her: “imma silver ring kinda gal” me: stares at layers upon layers of chunky gold chains 👁️👄👁️
@vibes4465
@vibes4465 Жыл бұрын
she said silver RINGs
@Willow_2668
@Willow_2668 Жыл бұрын
R I N G S
@ItsMeMiana
@ItsMeMiana Жыл бұрын
the key-word is rings.
@Edd829
@Edd829 Жыл бұрын
She said RINGS And just because she likes silver doesn't mean she can't also like gold.
@Mimi_Grace02
@Mimi_Grace02 11 ай бұрын
hey giys stop hating on this comment!!! it was suppoesed to be funny i dont think the person who wrote this meant any hate
@personyeet3267
@personyeet3267 2 жыл бұрын
“Will you marry me??” “Oh uhm one second” “ ~leaves~” “~goes to nail Solon💅~” “~comes back 3 hours later~” “OMG YESS❤️❤️❤️❤️” “Him: 👁👄👁” Edit: oh dear lord why did so many people like this comment 💀 thank lol👍
@poonamagarwal1
@poonamagarwal1 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@ritvikchorghe9535
@ritvikchorghe9535 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@chaosthemultiversesamurai4544
@chaosthemultiversesamurai4544 2 жыл бұрын
That’s commitment for staying up long I would of just left and was like I tried
@airtiger4577
@airtiger4577 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@austinstewart2777
@austinstewart2777 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@OllyhayOffittmay
@OllyhayOffittmay 2 жыл бұрын
My husband, without any insinuating I might add, asked my parents, told me to go have a girls day and get my nails done, I didn’t care what kind of ring (because any ring from his is the best ring ever) and somehow still got my favorite, had my parents there, and did the speech. Only thing was it was on Aprils fools day and no one believed me when I said I was engaged 😂🤣 it was amazing.
@manuelsilva6244
@manuelsilva6244 2 жыл бұрын
Did you asked his parents? This dumb expectations women have on guys while don't doing shit it's toxic af.
@OllyhayOffittmay
@OllyhayOffittmay 2 жыл бұрын
@@manuelsilva6244 never said this was an expectation. He did it on his own. I wasn’t expecting anything. I just thought it was cute how he did it. But okay, go off.
@OllyhayOffittmay
@OllyhayOffittmay 2 жыл бұрын
@@manuelsilva6244 and how was I supposed to ask his parents if I didn’t know he was even thinking of proposing? 😂
@iamnotadoctor6168
@iamnotadoctor6168 2 жыл бұрын
Ah yes. It's the Stephanie with humble braggings, makes us feel sad about our boring lives. (Just a joke. So chill and sit still Judy or Jude)
@OllyhayOffittmay
@OllyhayOffittmay 2 жыл бұрын
@@iamnotadoctor6168 😂
@Queenslay5
@Queenslay5 3 ай бұрын
Yes Spencer! These expectations are not crazy! They are how every proposal should go!!😂😂
@XPrismatic
@XPrismatic Жыл бұрын
Imagine rejecting someone to marry you cause you didn’t have yours nails done 💀
@im_bored_half_of_the_time
@im_bored_half_of_the_time Жыл бұрын
“Yeah I actually am crazy” I felt that
@ABPAK1
@ABPAK1 Жыл бұрын
Max i thought you Got into a coma Pls come back i cryed thought you died 🙁
@Naomi-14
@Naomi-14 Жыл бұрын
K, this is so unrelated but I love this persons whole profile
@jdc31947
@jdc31947 Жыл бұрын
WHEN YOU TRULY FALL IN LOVE , ALL OF THOSE RULES GO OUT THE WINDOW.
@july3817
@july3817 Жыл бұрын
No
@brianhardy612
@brianhardy612 Жыл бұрын
@@july3817 yes
@000op
@000op Жыл бұрын
@@july3817 it can
@july3817
@july3817 Жыл бұрын
@@000op sure, but it doesn't have to
@gianna526
@gianna526 Жыл бұрын
So true. If I genuinely love someone with all my heart, I wouldn't care if he proposed without a ring at a 7 11. I'd still accept. I don't get the fuss about wedding rings tbh.
@lukejohnson2767
@lukejohnson2767 Жыл бұрын
bro if she says no because of one of these things then u don’t want to be with her 💀
@aestheticgirlies3000
@aestheticgirlies3000 Жыл бұрын
Same
@aestheticgirlies3000
@aestheticgirlies3000 Жыл бұрын
Because she probably will use u for your money
@Amyandmaci
@Amyandmaci Жыл бұрын
I’m Portuguese also and the neckless all of them are bringing me back to my 20s I love this so cute
@jackies6994
@jackies6994 2 жыл бұрын
Asking for parent’s blessing > asking for parent’s permission. The choice is mine alone at the end of the day but it’d be nice to know my mom is on board since sometimes it’s harder to see red flags when you’re inside the relationship.
@bobfg3130
@bobfg3130 Жыл бұрын
If things out you can also blame your mother. 😆
@heyitsrach2058
@heyitsrach2058 2 жыл бұрын
Some one proposes Her: does it look like I have my nails done
@edwardslizewski717
@edwardslizewski717 2 жыл бұрын
What is the ideal place to propose to you? What is your ring size?
@whocares2465
@whocares2465 2 жыл бұрын
@@edwardslizewski717 I'm interested in that as well 😅😅😂
@64imma
@64imma 2 жыл бұрын
Probably the only rule on here I'm lime ehhhhhhhhh
@nourelhouda5251
@nourelhouda5251 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@zoeyesenski5097
@zoeyesenski5097 Жыл бұрын
My uncle asked my aunt by getting permission from her dad there was a picture him at her dad grave ❤😢
@bluenoodle29
@bluenoodle29 Жыл бұрын
only in america bruh
@millieee9x
@millieee9x 2 жыл бұрын
"I'm just gonna eat the ring" *Dang, how the tables turned*
@liluciis
@liluciis 2 жыл бұрын
the turns have tabled.
@zettagotbored9341
@zettagotbored9341 2 жыл бұрын
That's actually a problem sometimes, though, especially if the ring is properly hidden in the food
@manishasonvane6534
@manishasonvane6534 2 жыл бұрын
Like this (ノ`Д´)ノ彡┻━┻
@katiecafarelli195
@katiecafarelli195 2 жыл бұрын
When you see that ring you won't care what is going on or how it happened. My fiance woke me up from a nap and said, "hey look what came in the mail today". I was sleepy and cozy and it was magical.
@kristenastrup5629
@kristenastrup5629 2 жыл бұрын
I know women who got proposed to and did nothing but complain about the ring. It’s so ugly, it’s too small, it’s not my style, wah wah wah. I even knew a man, kind and gentle as could be, looked just like John Cena; proposed to his girl and she said no because the diamond was smaller than 2 carats. Some women out there just don’t deserve a good partner, or any partner at all because they simply don’t get it.
@rello7864
@rello7864 2 жыл бұрын
@@kristenastrup5629 yeah never understood the ring stuff I guess it’s nice to have a nice ring but getting married isn’t about a ring it’s about the couple and their future
@lyrebird2491
@lyrebird2491 2 жыл бұрын
@@kristenastrup5629 bro I remember thinking “omfg imagine having an alexandrite ring it would be so pretty!! (Alexandrite is my birthstone, and it changes from red to green depending on the lighting) than I did research and found out it’s like 10k-20k so uh Yeah nvm I’m not getting any alexandrite jewelry
@tayarabinovich607
@tayarabinovich607 2 жыл бұрын
@@kristenastrup5629 exactly tbh the ring doesn’t matter to me, if I’m marrying the person I love then material things shouldn’t matter. My dad got my mom a ring that wasn’t even a diamond and honestly it is really pretty and I like it more.
@deliacozo8542
@deliacozo8542 9 ай бұрын
@@kristenastrup5629 The ring stuff is bs, I am a girl and the fact you go waste your money for something 2 years I wont wear is magical to me lol. The ring is just an simbol nothing more, my mom sold her ring, and didnt complain about what was is it( i dont think it was that cheap but still)
@Wbc1811
@Wbc1811 Жыл бұрын
Her rules are to read her mind and do everything she feels like
@lylagrace8178
@lylagrace8178 4 ай бұрын
Literally these are not rules these are must haves 😂❤
@Imagine_111
@Imagine_111 Жыл бұрын
Him “Will you marry me?” Her “Sorry I only like silver rings,try again next year.”
@AthenaisbetterthanPeyton
@AthenaisbetterthanPeyton 2 жыл бұрын
"I need the validation that I'm making the right choice" 🤣🤣🤣
@bobfg3130
@bobfg3130 Жыл бұрын
She wants to blame the parents if it fails.
@thatfriendgroup101
@thatfriendgroup101 Жыл бұрын
“I’m a silver girl” *spencer casually wearing all gold jewellery*
@jaydaclark6092
@jaydaclark6092 3 ай бұрын
Fr tho😭. But I would want a silver ring too tho, even tho I’m obsessed with gold jewelry lol
@NicEeEe843
@NicEeEe843 Жыл бұрын
“I’m not really into that traditional kinda stuff”, Previously explained how she wants only a silver ring no ifs or buts 😂😂
@lillystudios1893
@lillystudios1893 2 жыл бұрын
No hate and I’m a silver girl 2 but “I’m a silver kinda girl” her: wearing gold
@flylikeanowl8667
@flylikeanowl8667 2 жыл бұрын
"silver Ring kinda gal"
@nailedart_x
@nailedart_x 2 жыл бұрын
Silver rings though not all jewellery must be silver
@skittle9855
@skittle9855 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe it was a gift :)
@skittle9855
@skittle9855 2 жыл бұрын
And also she said silver ring not silver jewelry in general
@mileslyriics
@mileslyriics Жыл бұрын
"OMG ew did you get a 24k gold ring? absolutely not."
@jennabotha6176
@jennabotha6176 Жыл бұрын
She didn’t mean it that way 🥲😂
@trackerh6542
@trackerh6542 Жыл бұрын
@@jennabotha6176 oh how Did she mean it then
@fatimaahmed1309
@fatimaahmed1309 Жыл бұрын
@@trackerh6542 she meant that she actually love silver rings more than gold
@TheLymphNodeLimo
@TheLymphNodeLimo Жыл бұрын
me pls
@biscuits694
@biscuits694 Жыл бұрын
If they’re her to be fiancé they’d prob know she likes silver more than gold.
@hannah_hamilton1
@hannah_hamilton1 11 ай бұрын
“I’m just gonna eat the ring” same spencer, same
@Dukeuabaufan
@Dukeuabaufan Жыл бұрын
And she’s wondering why she ain’t married or proposed to yet
@youwantfood9586
@youwantfood9586 8 ай бұрын
We do not need this negativity energy here sir… and her wants aren’t even that different to follow 💀
@beatrizlegaspi2308
@beatrizlegaspi2308 2 жыл бұрын
OMG, my parents are strict, so the validation is a must, and the nailss.
@kimberlynp2800
@kimberlynp2800 2 жыл бұрын
literally same also feel like it is more responsible to check with parents first
@didred2174
@didred2174 2 жыл бұрын
But a marriage isn’t for them it’s for you so even if validation is a must it shouldn’t decide whether or not you get married
@beatrizlegaspi2308
@beatrizlegaspi2308 2 жыл бұрын
@@didred2174 True, however, they need the urge to tell them regardless because I just don't want my parents to be shocked at something and I will not be comfortable with it. They're not going to decide whom or when I'm marrying, this is just to prove that your future spouse has the confidence and ability to do anything for you.
@Usernames_are_hard_to_think_of
@Usernames_are_hard_to_think_of 2 жыл бұрын
@@didred2174 Marriage is the unity of two families. If I can’t get on with my future in laws (but my SO does so it’s not like my SO also can’t get along with his own family), or my SO can’t get on with his future in laws, then I don’t want it. I don’t want to deal with the stress of having disgruntled parents on both or one side during gatherings or something.
@didred2174
@didred2174 2 жыл бұрын
@@Usernames_are_hard_to_think_of fair enough my point of view of marriage is it’s between two people and if they make you happy not you and your family because at the end of the day whether the parents like a spouse or not as long as their child is happy they should be happy and as long as everyone is cordial at the least but they are parents and they can express their feelings but not to change the course of your life. But I completely understand what you’re saying and I do think it’s ideal that everyone gets along it’s much easier and more peaceful
@myrraaaaaaaa
@myrraaaaaaaa Жыл бұрын
Spencer: be yourself Also Spencer:
@Jiafei.YeHuanXiang
@Jiafei.YeHuanXiang Жыл бұрын
What about this is breaking the rules of being yourself? She’s allowed to have standards and these aren’t even high standards.
@Gettothegone
@Gettothegone 10 ай бұрын
@@Jiafei.YeHuanXiangyou miss the point
@mxm2009
@mxm2009 Жыл бұрын
Morgan taking notes done: 📝
@kate-fn7jn
@kate-fn7jn 10 ай бұрын
"it must be silver" as she is wearing a gold necklace😂
@Yourfavv_brunettee
@Yourfavv_brunettee 4 ай бұрын
I was scrolling through the comments to find this one ❤😂
@noooooooooooofr
@noooooooooooofr 4 ай бұрын
SILVER RING not necklace
@annalisenaylor1326
@annalisenaylor1326 Жыл бұрын
Girl, your hair always looks so good. HOW!?
@yagirlmaliasmith8596
@yagirlmaliasmith8596 2 жыл бұрын
I’m just confused why she needs rules for everything🤷🏽‍♀️
@bingorfm724
@bingorfm724 2 жыл бұрын
That’s why no one proposed to her.
@yaseinookami5516
@yaseinookami5516 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe an obsession for everything to be like how she wants and everything else it's wrong or having everything under control , before giving me hate i said MAYBE witch means this is an option but maybe are other reasons why
@jackm20020
@jackm20020 2 жыл бұрын
@@yaseinookami5516 yea she is a high maintenance girl
@stacyk6984
@stacyk6984 2 жыл бұрын
@@jackm20020 how is she high maintenance?? she literally just has standards
@not_cam2546
@not_cam2546 2 жыл бұрын
@@stacyk6984 I think having standards for every aspect of life imaginable could constitute her as being high maintenance
@Vixensubss
@Vixensubss Жыл бұрын
This girl has rules for EVERYTHING.
@natamj2
@natamj2 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@Terrythetroll.
@Terrythetroll. Жыл бұрын
I’m starting to see why her boyfriend dipped out lol
@samlee1546
@samlee1546 10 ай бұрын
Yeah don't get married is the advice I got from my almost homeless uncle and a lot of co workers and other men.
@Terrythetroll.
@Terrythetroll. 10 ай бұрын
@@samlee1546 it’s good advice
@Mercinater
@Mercinater 2 жыл бұрын
I think some of these are unnecessary..your nails must be done for me to marry you? Are you serious...why can’t you just get them done after? Not like you’re showing anyone right away. Silver ring? Why does it matter about the color..are you just going to reject them if the ring is gold? It’s as if you only like the aesthetic of being married, if someone loves you that much to ask you to marry you then why not just say yes? I understand everything else but these things aren’t standards they are just unnecessary and kind of rude
@Mercinater
@Mercinater 2 жыл бұрын
@@priyankajoshi8347 I'm not saying it's rude to look good on her engagement, and I'm sure whoever she decides to marry will be self aware enough to know when it's a good time to propose..but all these things can be done after the ring is on. She doesn't have to tell people right away. I still think the gold ring over the silver ring is a bit bogus but hopefully her partner knows that for in the future I guess.
@priyankajoshi8347
@priyankajoshi8347 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mercinater I'm not a person who likes to take pictures of myself but I'm sure spence would like to have picture of the moment her future husband proposes her. She would like to look good for that. I think the silver is just preference. Thank you for being kind. Have a great day
@Mercinater
@Mercinater 2 жыл бұрын
@@priyankajoshi8347 I never said she wouldn't want to take pictures, it's just she doesn't have to right at that moment. But have a great day too.
@-0m3rcy0-8
@-0m3rcy0-8 2 жыл бұрын
If I am gonna get married I would want the wedding and engagement to be in theme/color I like. I only really wear silver, and gold (or another metal like bronze. Steel, Iron or Silver is the preference) would not match or work with anything I wear. I wouldn’t say no, but I would be bothered by the mixing of metals, and I would end up obsessing over buying jewelry that matches. I don’t agree with the nails thing, But I get it. I mean I would also want to look nice and feel pretty on such an important day, and getting her nails done is probably just what makes her feel nice
@Mercinater
@Mercinater 2 жыл бұрын
@@-0m3rcy0-8 Oh alright I understand, I hope she lets her lover know beforehand though..so it doesn't get awkward. But for the nails thing I think she could get them done after before she shows anyone her ring..they don't have to be done at that moment.
@natchosm4320
@natchosm4320 2 жыл бұрын
The only thing I need is that we're in love. A guy with common sense that knows you well enough will not do these, you don't need rules.
@Nadiaaxoxo
@Nadiaaxoxo 2 жыл бұрын
True but this girl thinks she’s too good for anyone.
@someundeadtalent2016
@someundeadtalent2016 2 жыл бұрын
@@Nadiaaxoxo nah she literally just said what she prefers, and those aren’t even standards you can’t meet bro..
@dakshta5097
@dakshta5097 2 жыл бұрын
@@Nadiaaxoxo literally yes i like some of her reels but she doesn't need to make everything about herself i want to ask her if she'd ever ask his parents
@facepalmfoxindustries8835
@facepalmfoxindustries8835 2 жыл бұрын
@@someundeadtalent2016 so I'm guessing if the guy comes with an expensive ring but because it's not silver she'll just say no? Idk that's really weird
@kaitlincrawford4809
@kaitlincrawford4809 2 жыл бұрын
@@facepalmfoxindustries8835 it’s more weird to call someone’s standards weird when everyone should have standards even if they don’t align with others thoughts
@hannahchoi7649
@hannahchoi7649 Жыл бұрын
girlllllll, if u have those standards and rules, no one gonna propose!!!!
@A4M_09
@A4M_09 Жыл бұрын
“My nails must not be crusty or the engagement can’t happen” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@imahotitalian2082
@imahotitalian2082 2 жыл бұрын
“will you marry me” “mmmm well… the rings gold so noo, i don’t think so”
@samuelvillegas214
@samuelvillegas214 2 жыл бұрын
“Will you marry me and make me the happiest man alive Her:do you have a poem? Him:not exactly Her:than no!!
@cutchopweld5717
@cutchopweld5717 Жыл бұрын
This girl needs to save everyone some time and marry her one true love...HERSELF!
@CarlosHuiskens
@CarlosHuiskens 2 жыл бұрын
Having engagement rules is an automatic red flag if you ask me. Can you imagine asking your girlfriend to marry you but she says no because the ring isn't silver enough, my nails aren't pretty enough, your speech isn't good enough or my parents don't think you good enough. Instead of letting someone jump through all these unnessecary hoops you can just genuinly be happy that someone is willing to spend the rest of their lives with you.
@Lodek
@Lodek 2 жыл бұрын
Men aren't allowed to speak their opinions, according to her channel.
@justbutterbeer
@justbutterbeer 2 жыл бұрын
Completely agreed
@toddconn4978
@toddconn4978 2 жыл бұрын
My dad proposed to my mom by throwing the ring at her and saying, “will ya?” They were on my grandparents couch watching a notre dame football game when he did that, and they both hate notre dame. They have been married for nearly 27 years
@DashNothing
@DashNothing 2 жыл бұрын
Shows you how little these superficial things really matter
@manuelsilva6244
@manuelsilva6244 2 жыл бұрын
I just love how wome expect so much shit but when men expect things from them"omg how sexist of you"
@asaha5600
@asaha5600 2 жыл бұрын
That was just the most heartwarming proposal ever❤
@luvsminnie
@luvsminnie 2 жыл бұрын
slayed honestly
@taliw7736
@taliw7736 2 жыл бұрын
Haha very unique
@torihallin
@torihallin Жыл бұрын
Im not shaming all of those I’d probably have them do!😂
@jamescarson2248
@jamescarson2248 Жыл бұрын
I agree with these (minus the ring I like gold)
@hellllllllloo2701
@hellllllllloo2701 2 жыл бұрын
“rules for an engagement…..ur crazy” Spencer: ya I actually am crazy 😝
@theredone404
@theredone404 2 жыл бұрын
For myself,any of those „This has to happen-Rules“ just faded away when I fell in love with the right person. If you feel that those are the important things, I feel your not quite ready for marriage.
@jazzyjake99
@jazzyjake99 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, having petty requirements like that for an engagement proposal is ridiculously self centered. If the woman I was dating gave me all those, I would never propose to her.
@syahirah3245
@syahirah3245 2 жыл бұрын
when you’re mature enough to marry you understand how to value the things that truly matter, and let the rest go
@itsvicdraws
@itsvicdraws 3 ай бұрын
Not her wearing gold jelwery and saying she loves silver
@troller6451
@troller6451 Жыл бұрын
Doesn’t want to get married until 24, oh my sweet pea. Wait until you figure out what life is really about 😂
@Just_Maya_Nicole
@Just_Maya_Nicole 2 жыл бұрын
“Im a silver kinda gal” as she’s wearing a gold necklace 😂
@mollieariciaga-flores9149
@mollieariciaga-flores9149 2 жыл бұрын
Fr 😂
@Jiafei.YeHuanXiang
@Jiafei.YeHuanXiang Жыл бұрын
She said ring
@ludivinek.7437
@ludivinek.7437 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I love you!!! Sis, you are exactly the same thing for me. I hate how people put the ring inside food.
@Saaikha
@Saaikha Жыл бұрын
Wait ur skin looks so good what- it’s like glowing 🤩🤩
@bellabish6263
@bellabish6263 Жыл бұрын
Honestly I can see why she’s staying this. Especially the food part. The ring part, ehhhhh but everything else is good
@1Aldc_fan
@1Aldc_fan Жыл бұрын
She literally just has standards and likes silver better. I'm sure some point in a relationship she would mention it plus+ if their long enough to be engaged he should know?
@russian_fsb_blyat
@russian_fsb_blyat 2 жыл бұрын
This randomly came up on my feed and god damn, I’m almost finished ticking off my ‘red flag run away now’ list 😂😂
@justbutterbeer
@justbutterbeer 2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo
@WiND_Sleep
@WiND_Sleep 2 жыл бұрын
Lolll
@specialfunnelstudios5523
@specialfunnelstudios5523 2 жыл бұрын
Same bro
@future.cadaver
@future.cadaver 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously. She’s going to see this video ten years from now and throw her back out from the absolutely full-body cringe she’s going to experience.
@Nyx_404
@Nyx_404 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah the food one is relatively reasonable but the rest? Ahaha, no
@Olivialoverz
@Olivialoverz Жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one who had expectations for a proposal
@theyluvkendra
@theyluvkendra Жыл бұрын
“Will you marry me?” “Hell no that’s 24K GOLD!”
@Jiafei.YeHuanXiang
@Jiafei.YeHuanXiang Жыл бұрын
Well her partner would know she prefers single rings other wise what is he doing??
@elenaxthatxbitch
@elenaxthatxbitch Жыл бұрын
I get a few of those rules. But I’d rather have someone love me rather than force them too.
@Im_Rose_Ox
@Im_Rose_Ox Жыл бұрын
Just curious, but how does having expectations about how a memorable moment happens, make you force someone to love you. The only reason that list would be important is IF the person Did love her and wanted to spend their life with her…
@afailedabortion
@afailedabortion Жыл бұрын
Bro I feel pity for you. If someone has actually loved you they'd be willing to do all this. It's not like she asked for elephants flying
@Lilac23712
@Lilac23712 Жыл бұрын
Fr same
@chrisjfox8715
@chrisjfox8715 Жыл бұрын
​@@afailedabortion i think the bigger issue is more the relative superficiality of it. If the love is most definitely there yet circumstances just happen to be such that not every single one of these boxes are checked, it'd be silly as hell to say no to the proposal just because her nails weren't perfect that day. Getting her a silver ring because he knows she loves silver rings ok sure yeah, that's a layup. But if her and her nails look great to him, yet she wants to make the engagement awkward just because she feels like she doesn't look her best that day...I'd argue that that's her putting the perfection of the moment ahead of the love itself
@delwilson9113
@delwilson9113 2 жыл бұрын
Finally someone that likes silver Jewellery like me. but also you're wearing gold jewellery 😅😂
@iiSxapii
@iiSxapii Жыл бұрын
She said silver rings like if she wears finger jewelry it needs to be silver and also hey Twins! 😎😊
@Nadine12197
@Nadine12197 3 ай бұрын
The last one is a must😂❤
@sarah_qamar6944
@sarah_qamar6944 Жыл бұрын
Can we talk abt how pretty her fucking smile is like how tf r ppl that pretty
@ayshasiddika1806
@ayshasiddika1806 Жыл бұрын
*spencers bf taking notes* ✍🏼
@camboleyy
@camboleyy 2 жыл бұрын
I love how she has these it makes me laugh 😂
@rehnaanliker5931
@rehnaanliker5931 9 ай бұрын
Honestly valid, my nails are never done, and my skin tone is better suited to gold jewelry, but I actually think that’s a really good thing to talk to a partner about before buying a ring
@its.spookybrooks
@its.spookybrooks 9 ай бұрын
"ya i actually am crazy" -spencer
@naya7563
@naya7563 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you Especially with the asking your parents part I feel like that is very important and people don’t do that nowadays
@manuelsilva6244
@manuelsilva6244 2 жыл бұрын
Do you ask his parents? You cannot expect to be treated differently than your partener
@mark-qg6wd
@mark-qg6wd 2 жыл бұрын
@@manuelsilva6244 its a gentleman type of shit
@OllyhayOffittmay
@OllyhayOffittmay 2 жыл бұрын
@@mark-qg6wd someone hurt him. He’s asking that on almost every comment about asking the parents.
@naya7563
@naya7563 2 жыл бұрын
@@manuelsilva6244 no it’s really just a man type of thing. First the boyfriend has to ask the dad if he can date his daughter. Then the boyfriend ask the mom and father for their blessings for marriage. It’s just a respectful thing to do.
@dariadaniellemusic
@dariadaniellemusic 2 жыл бұрын
@@manuelsilva6244 she's not asking him to marry her though. If a guy proposes to her, it's up to him to have the foresight to make sure his parents (and hers) approve
@kaylynnfurmick6608
@kaylynnfurmick6608 Жыл бұрын
“If my nails ain’t done the proposal ain’t happening” Straight facts right here
@juliacastle2224
@juliacastle2224 4 ай бұрын
"YEAH I AM CRAZY" yas lady we know our worth
@kardelenkoc9746
@kardelenkoc9746 Жыл бұрын
"yeah i actually am crazy"😂😂😂😂😂😂 im too but im chill too
@alliecheney7420
@alliecheney7420 2 жыл бұрын
“I love you so much I can’t live without you. Will you marry me?” “Hold please. Yes is this the nail salon? I’m gonna need an appointment like right now. Ok brb babe”
@sp0rk
@sp0rk 2 жыл бұрын
I want a rose gold ring. My mom's wedding ring is *stunning* and it's rose gold. I also need something that won't hurt my skin. It's happened way too much.
@Anelly_Jacob
@Anelly_Jacob Жыл бұрын
Honestly girl, it’s crazy that you mention everything my fiancé did everything you said proposed to me on a beach in Cancun with my parents there💕
@localchadsshorts
@localchadsshorts Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry these ain’t legit reasons to refuse getting married to the man your in love with.
@vyktry5170
@vyktry5170 2 жыл бұрын
Completely agree. He should respect my standards and I should respect his. I want him to get me a specific ring and he wants me in a specific dress. Good deal.
@cuddlebug4208
@cuddlebug4208 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah no when you get married you pick out the dress so how is he telling you what Pacific dress to wear the only thing that’s specific is maybe the white and you don’t even have to do it and if you really care more about the ring then the person you’re marrying then that’s sad and Shallow
@vyktry5170
@vyktry5170 2 жыл бұрын
@@cuddlebug4208 I’ll get behind that. All I’m saying is that if I can have rules about my wedding so can s/he. If neither of them whatever. I want both to be on equal ground when it comes to being picky on what they want. If you’re talking specifically about the dress, I agree it’s you’re dress to buy, choose what you want. I apply the same to him. He buys the ring, he pays, he gets to choose what to give you.
@drifted9445
@drifted9445 2 жыл бұрын
Ms. forehead thinks shes so good she can have rules for everything smh
@stargirl506
@stargirl506 Жыл бұрын
u dead wrong for this 😭😭😭😭😭
@zoeybolen6053
@zoeybolen6053 Жыл бұрын
Morgan: *taking notes*
@ania1906
@ania1906 Жыл бұрын
spencer is so relatable omg
@salmahaji1552
@salmahaji1552 2 жыл бұрын
" I'm just gonna eat the ring 💍 😋 " 😂😂that caught me off guard
@TheMaztercom
@TheMaztercom 2 жыл бұрын
Standards? Lmao, I hope you get to 40 alone
@justbutterbeer
@justbutterbeer 2 жыл бұрын
Lol ikr
@nManix
@nManix Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@swiftie49908
@swiftie49908 Жыл бұрын
Omg same on the nails I hate when my nails are knot done and there is like a special occasion
@endersnipe422
@endersnipe422 Жыл бұрын
She wants all this and then turns around and slanders men also how can have rules for something when your not even dating
@Chippyeater
@Chippyeater Жыл бұрын
She was dating at that time but they recently broke up
@Jonas-ej7id
@Jonas-ej7id 2 жыл бұрын
Why don't you do the proposing yourself? Where are the rules for that?
@urlocalsimp559
@urlocalsimp559 2 жыл бұрын
She's kind of a hypocrite tbh. But I guess some girls want the man to do it
@fxjrulpzxi
@fxjrulpzxi 2 жыл бұрын
Right I thought she wasn’t traditional? She is tho 😆 it’s fine just own it. I do! Old-fashioned, traditional girl here. Stuff sticks around for a reason 😉
@georgepickensisacutie
@georgepickensisacutie 2 жыл бұрын
*”Bc if you put a burger on top of my ring I’m just gonna eat the ring”* 😂 -Spencer 2021
@Nova-fh2et
@Nova-fh2et Жыл бұрын
All I can say to the gentleman that takes the plunge with this piece of work...good luck
@Cant_I_pee_in_peace
@Cant_I_pee_in_peace 11 ай бұрын
Exactly. Hey she said it. She's crazy
@your_little_versailles
@your_little_versailles 11 ай бұрын
"Oh nooo...this women has standards"
@sunlitsebastian5156
@sunlitsebastian5156 Жыл бұрын
"WHEN" is a strong word lol
@anands6993
@anands6993 Жыл бұрын
maybe it's just me, but dying appears more appealing than being married to her.
@hayamirin6795
@hayamirin6795 Жыл бұрын
Honestly kinda of same 💀
@nManix
@nManix Жыл бұрын
Fax m8
@newme3059
@newme3059 Жыл бұрын
Of course ugh
@thetruth1972
@thetruth1972 Жыл бұрын
Bro spittin them fax
@thetruth1972
@thetruth1972 Жыл бұрын
@@hivekahuna1011 And this is our opinion plus it pretty toxic what she’s saying
@lindsayeasby2131
@lindsayeasby2131 Жыл бұрын
Why are all the commenters taking it the wrong way? “If it's the right person you won't care” no. If it's the right person they will know that she wants this and make that moment so much more special for her by doing this ❤
@cutchopweld5717
@cutchopweld5717 Жыл бұрын
Her parents have done her a huge disservice not teaching her that the Earth doesn't revolve around her . This is spoiled brat speak. Most guys with a spine/personality will swerve someone who is in love with THEMSELVES! 3 is a crowd in a relationship
@rgxe.
@rgxe. Жыл бұрын
@@cutchopweld5717 absolute facts. Her parents should be ashamed of themselves for raising her like that
@deliacozo8542
@deliacozo8542 9 ай бұрын
She is spoiled. The ring, the speech the nails it doesnt matter. Is about the love she doesnt care about that
@gabihanson8999
@gabihanson8999 4 ай бұрын
look at disney Princesses' first dates and proposals, guys😂🤷‍♀️
@A-V-E-R-Y100
@A-V-E-R-Y100 4 ай бұрын
Spencer is so relatable for the I will eat the ring if you put it in food 😂
@vianmusic_
@vianmusic_ 2 жыл бұрын
This is Spencer low-key telling the rules to her boyfriend
@varnika_13
@varnika_13 2 жыл бұрын
These are sooooo true! You are so right 😁
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