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I am a software consultant. 6'1, fit and easy going. Mortgage paid off and financially secure. Never married, no kids. From my extensive dating experience, average looking women can attract high quality men. All that's required to offset the average looks.....HUMILITY, understated confidence, above average intelligence (immune to peer pressure) and a sprinkling of tradional values. That end result can make any average looking woman much more attractive than the 1% super attractive women.

“Top Woman Don’t compromise! If they do compromise, they’ll punish you for it!” Heavy lesson there😮

Men: seek to be great. Find a purpose worth fighting for, be gloriously dominant and have fun doing it. Push your soul and humanity forward…

Why? Because weak men, rich ugly men, old rich men spoil them and their adulations at any beautiful women. Very few men try to find out women’s character which has nothing to do with her beauty. A beautiful women could have a beautiful character also but few and far between. Doesn’t mean a plain women have good character either. Every woman is different, individually.

Women math: 20 guys who make 50k are after me.....therefore I deserve a man who is worth 1 million dollars.

This is gold. Gold. There is so much wisdom here...very uncommon. Much of it is hard truth...hard to swallow by many, but it is reality. We have to live in reality, not in a world that we wish existed. As we teach parents: You must parent the child you HAVE, not the child you WISH YOU HAD.

Bless you Sadia. I gave up porn and masterbating and it transformed my dating life and mental health. Your take on how porn leads to voluntary solitude and the excuses are spot on. I found my spiritual health grew after quitting and I could really see clearly the evil forces. pornography preys on the man’s spirit.

Step 1: SAY you want nice guys. Step 2: GO for bad boys. Step 3: ASK where have all the good ones have gone. Step 4: BLAME men. Step 5: Get a subscription for cat food and boxed wine delivery.

“top women… if they compromise they'll punish you for it” Women in general will show passive aggressive behaviors if they compromised with you, like public or private ridicule, harsh or subtle criticism, or exclusion with family, friends coworkers , leading to shame and embarrassment of being with that man. That’s why becoming your best version and find with someone who admires you is key.

It takes a great man to love/ accept/value a great woman, a high value woman won't be easily influenced by trends, others and money, but she still needs to feel femenine and looked after. Money should never dictate the value of a person man or woman

Its like old 4chan green text from like 20 years ago. Find a woman who loves you more than you love her and hold on to that.

A woman in another department once said that people are a mess. I found it amusing, and the best definition for people. 😃😄

NEVER CHASE WOMEN, WORK ON YOUR HEALTH,CARRER, AND NEVER PAY ATTENTION TO THE OUTSIDE WORLD, WOMEN ARE A WASTE OF TIME CHASING..YOU DONT NEED DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE AND NOTHING BRING MORE DRAMA INTO YOUR LIFE THAN WOMEN.

I’m not in denial about what I can get, I just want a woman who isn’t fat!

Following the Onlyfans logic... the drug dealer isn't the problem the users are.

Love your content Sadia and Mark

Someone needs to give Sadia a hardball interview. It sounds as if she is advocating polygamy. The happiest women are those in competition for the attention of the man. How many managers of harems is she consulting for? What is her personal experience with polygamy and what is her attitude towards it?

She only wants to help "successful men". She said it herself. That tells you everything you need to know about her.

Shortness DOESNT make men less attractive.

I like the way you look within that background set. And I personally longe to move and evolve and be me and what I too bring to the relationship.

Sadia, you state that being a woman producing onlyfans stuff is really bad for their ego and mental health multiple times and then you go on to say that you condone it... why? You can understand the reasoning behind something without needing to justify it. Seeing as you are fully aware of the mental health effects behind this it just makes no sense to me I also don't understand how you cannot condone men subscribing to something you understand and condone women producing... how can you just blame the subscriber and not the producer? If the men are the real issue in society in this regard then isn't the producer also at fault for producing this? It's like being fine with pornstars voluntarily producing porn or drug dealers selling drugs but holding only the drug victim accountable or the porn addict. Both parties always should be held accountable, no?

99% of women that I know would not care about the high and I am 5,7“ and I never cared. I think it‘s his Character and charisma that matters. ❤

Thanks!

"Stop looking for unicorn behavior if you're not a unicorn." Sad when 'unicorn behavior' is simply having good morals, respecting and valuing people, and wanting a healthy, happy, stable relationship.

They are entitled because, people make and put them in that position

@Sadia Psychology To your point about shaming and holding OF subscribers accountable. I recently read a report published by OF. In it they stated 90% of their paying customers are married men. Based on this claim, It would seem the epidemic is of sexless marriages from my perspective. Could you tell me what you think is the reason 90% of paying subscribers on OF are married rather than single men?

I appreciate and agree that consumers of onlyfans and porn are the problem. Men are supposed to be the leaders of society, and when the leaders act this way, there are big problems. The content creators are not to be let off the hook, however.

Average woman here. Fine. I'll settle for an open person with a beautiful heart 🙃.

I thank you, you hit a nerve when I was in a debauchery stage for months in Brazil. I was just scrolling and never had heard of you. I cleaned up all the addition non sense - going on 6 months and back in the States. Not easy but it’s possible to control your impulses. One impulsive behavior creates another. Hard to wake up and realize i associated and dated nothing but impulsive alcoholics and addicts for decades. Just like me! Self reflect and get some discipline fellas.

I can listen to her talk all day it’s so informative and soothing.

As a fairly attractive independent woman, I've always tried not to use my looks to manipulate men. I've tried to treat them with respect and be understanding towards them. However, I often see them being intimidated by me or as soon as I start showing interest or emotions they back off. Maybe I am the problem but I really don't understand how we went from a society where men were the breadwinners and had to take on the entire responsibility for their families to what we are witnessing today. Men who want all the benefits that come with new feminism but at the same time get intimidated by independent women and would rather be alone, than dealing with the challenges of a real relationship.

why this kinda camera angle? maybe entitled yourself?

Evolutionary biology significantly influences a woman's choice of a man, favoring traits that indicate healthy genes and the potential for successful offspring. Financial stability ensures provision, pro-social behavior indicates protection, and physically masculine characteristics (e.g., strong jawline, muscular body, large shoulder-to-hip ratio, and taller height) signal good genetic health. On the otherhand, women with large eyes, a small chin, and full lips (traits indicating youth and fertility) are considered attractive to men as they signal healthy genes and reproductive potential. Studies also show that the ideal waist-to-hip ratio (WHR) for pre-menopausal women, from a male perspective, is between 0.67 and 0.8. This preference is believed to be a cognitive adaptation, as a woman's WHR provides information about her age, health, and fertility.

If there is no customer, there will be no business. The issue is truly the subscribers not just the OF content creator

Men, never take any advice from attractive women without husband, children and family life experience! Amen.

Top women don't compromise which is true but average women think they are top women.

Geez bros. Simple life and stick to your mission, the woman will come and add value to your life. A woman is someone to give your love to...she isnt your mission. And a mission doesnt need to be money based. First rule of magic....know thyself.

I love you, Sadia.

7:44 thank you for saying this - men get so hypocritical about this shit sometimes its exhausting.

It doesn't matter how big to us someone's trauma. What matters is how big to them.

An entitled woman is like an expensive car… the price can imply value and increase demand. But, sooner or later, low quality, unreliability, and high maintenance costs reduce initial enthusiasm. Then what you have is a used car

I cut zero slack to the men subscribing to only fans and such but to say that the content creators are Justified and the men are the real problem is like saying the drug addicts are the real problem and the dealers are understandable because they have a profit motive. I would have expected better from Sadia.

I would be a bit concerned if I was a male OF consumer and a client of hers, and she can't understand what's going on. While I'm not consuming any OF, I think it's as simple as doing the same cost-benefit analysis for men, as she does with women. While I personally don't subscribe to this, I can understand why a guy looks at the initiators of divorce, consequences, and then judge that it's not worth it. Besides, a study I read a while back, women at the bottom will outsource what they need from several men. Women at the top will find all they desire in one man. What man would voluntarily share a woman with several men walking in and out of her life? I thus suspect Sadia is either pretending she doesn't know, to get guys like me to comment, or lack wisdom. In either case, I feel like a fool for remaining a subscriber. Unsubscribed.

Woman just as friends can defintly also be entitled towards each other.

Since now women have freedom to make her own money and live independently without men, Men need to be above average to truly get women of high value. Gone are the days where Money can do everything.

to creatively express yourself to a live natural/civilian woman is such a pleasure & creatively satisfying thing. to see what DOES work for both. as the saying goes “all is allowed but not all is beneficial” is so helpful to not feel any shame about seeking women online - but men, you can have so much more if you just make a little more effort. you can finally experience reality vs just pure imagination & ridiculous findom (financial domination)…go broke on a real date 😂…just intend to do something & you’re 3/4s there.

Looks matter if your emotionally weak and entitled. The heart and looks matter, both.

What do you mean by:"the storms we are about to face"?

“top women don’t compromise” …dam…that’s real .

i love this..

Men have to understand that women are usually the ones that end relationships. At the beginning of a relationship tell the woman that this relationship will end some day. Never get attached to any woman and put her on a pedestal. When she leaves(and she will) let her go immediately and you won’t be hurt. She will come back eventually but never take her back. You will be the most sought after man from women for your masculinity and men seeking advice.

Please explain one thing to men, this will help more than anything else. Just explain this one thing please: Women. That is all, please explain that. Nothing women do make any kind of sense, even to other women. So please explain that.

Even if u listen her u realize that you can never understand wt women want. If you lov her she will hate u, but if u don't love her she will hate u too anyway.

Another coach says that it's the man who should love a woman more in a relationship 😂

I trained for many years to get my black belt in Jiu jitsu. Many times my wife would be jealous of the effort I put in to accomplish that goal. Even though she received time after and the training was a direct benefit to her. However she modeled for many years and I always supported her in going on casting calls and other modeling jobs.

That's how humans' brains work, always was like this and is always be... I think

that sucks. life sucks. have a good day anyway.

Chasing a TOP WOMAN appears to be akin to digging around in cat litter trying to find something worthwhile!

What happens is to this day society is unfair to women...and women see that there power is in the dating and sex scene.

All Women in my experience know that there are good men out there.

What she says about the opposite sex liking each other is correct

Content creaters and there subscribers go hand to hand in a cycle. if its anyone's fault. It the men that justify to subscribe to there desires of women. And women that desire to justify the money from men. It is a hard habit, and cycle to break. In order to break this. It would take something to dramatically happen to society that would be more than likely bad ti happen in this world than something good to happen. It would be a culture shock to how people live. What it would be can vary depending on the circumstances and stiuation.

Should be 1% entitle women It actually is 99.999999999999999% Good luck to all of us

Why do we need a slow pan down of sadias picture?

men , in my experience, like/love entitled women especially if they are loud they seem to believe that means high status

Most people have a job not a career

I’m 5 5 and while I’ve always been pretty decent looking the height was such an issue while living as a man. It kinda hurts to hear still. I really feel for the short kings. But I think it’s a tough pill that is so much better when swallowed. At this point I’m far hotter and of higher value as a woman. My enthusiasm for this gender really unleashed my potential as well as the aesthetic social benefits of presenting like a conventionally attractive woman. I experience two interesting types of men. The men that fetishize trans women and beg for their shot at one that looks like me, and the ones that see my transness as a sort of deformity. The later is one I saw play out with my mom who only has one eye and is an immigrant. I’d say my mom was exceptionally attractive compared to her peers and always presented very high effort. But because of her eye it attracted these exceptionally gnarly men who thought they were like doing her a favor and thus treated her horribly. I’ve sorta come to terms with the idea that women that present a certain way in Scottsdale where I DJ often will probably only be into a very specific type of person. And it’s not a polyamorous trans woman. Oh yeah btw I’m a Lez. To my short kings I’ll say this. I’d never be with a woman that thought less of me because I don’t have a V. If all you want is a woman that looks a certain way and you run into enough money you can pretty much buy that experience for a night or on occasion. But if you wanna be truly loved for who you are and not for what you have then maybe check your expectations on the aesthetics. Would you want an 11 that’s just bitter you’re not a billionaire? Or a n 8 or 9 that’s just happy yall don’t have to argue about money all the time? Also one thing I’ve learned from being exceptionally attractive as a woman with no surgeries under my belt. The 9s & 10s or the trans woman world and cis world who invested in the plastic eee look are often messed up in the head and like caraaazy insecure. It’s so sad how gorgeous they are in person with such incredible bodies and all they can see is their flaws. That kind of insecurity is gnarly to be with and live with. Be careful what you wish for. I hope as I do progress with the procedures I want done that I don’t lose touch with my confidence, body positivity and self love. Unfortunately so many bombshells do. I’m a pretty happy confident 6. Should I ever see 9 I hope I can handle it.

Yes yes yes exactly so you should only consider dating people within your own social status and CLASS … 😊

A super attractive woman is like a beautiful dream that ends when you wake up disappointed. Few people can live a dream in reality. Beauty itself does not demonstrate anything valuable if you have not developed sensitivity and emotional intelligence. Unfortunately, most beautiful people love themselves more and are very incompetent at loving, especially when it comes to women. Women in general, by their nature and by the evolution of humanity in general, are selfish beings and capable of falsifying feelings easily, and who are capable, through their averagely more irrational attitude, of making many wrong choices compared to men, who although started wrong in their development through evolution, they developed over time a greater capacity for empathy. In the past, as in the present, men made the mistake of controlling women either through excessive brutality or by putting them on a pedestal and in this way one can dominate, not through love through leadership and appreciation or exchange of mutual learning in - a very ideal condition, but through manipulation and self-manipulation through lies and denials of reality. Because it is very tempting and easy to pretend and cheat to get what you want than to bear the pressure of disappointment and the effort to become. It is true that every person wants the best from life, but do we know how to understand, deserve, or be prepared to appreciate everything we want or get? For this reason there are these prejudices, that the woman who loves more (and wrongly I might add), fights for the relationship, and the man who loves the woman more becomes unattractive and loses his masculinity, when in fact, if love is given how it is needed and to whom it is needed (that is, who knows how to love at a certain high level), is appreciated as it should be.

Women crave emotional drama.

This is something that I don't agree with because both people should be EQUALLY attracted to each other and both people should be 100% about each other. What Real Gentleman is out looking for or hoping for a Woman that wants Him more than He wants Her? That's BS! And, that Man has some issues. That's just not how relationships that last work... ... And, this Entitlement Thing for anyone that feels Entitled is ruining people, relationships and the World... ... Sadia, You say some Good things but this topic is something that You seem to condone to an extent. And, I hope that I am wrong but I feel it is because You are Attractive and because You are one of those Entitled Women. Again, I hope that's not the case because I do respect quite a bit of what You say... ... Sadia, I would also imagine that most of Your followers are Men because of Your attractiveness. Yes, You may have some Women followers but not as much as the Men... ... I continually say this, I have met, know and have romanced many Gorgeous Women and they tend to be some of the most insecure individuals I know. Their attractiveness is just that, a shell and no depth beyond that. I would Love to Truly find that Sadia is just as, if not more, Beautiful within as She is outwardly... ... I once had an older Gentleman say to Me as We saw a Very Attractive Woman walk by, '... It's ashamed that She will most likely Always be invisible. Because most Men will only desire Her for Her appearance and never care to know Her heart'.... (DEEP)

Men need affirmation and sex Women need love and affection Why do we complicate things?

That is not true. Most women are caregiver, which is why you should choose a man that love you more because anyway you're going to do more in the relationship. Woman gives ( her time, her body, working for paying bills of his sick mother 🙄...) men takes advantage and then cheats on you. :(

14:50 very interesting haha

I dont think the majority of women are entitled (some may be but not the majority) the majority no matter how they look they just wanna find a man who can love them and treat them nicely. So wanting affection, words of affirmation, gratitude and respect are entitlement? Because lacking these are the reasons why a lot of women file for divorces.

Humans see only forward...try to look back too much, u get dissy .....ride or wait...

"Blame the ®F subscribers" 90% of them are married So we need to blame marriage!

In much of American culture, average women tend not to find average men attractive and prefer to dabble in relationships or to remain alone. An increasing number of average American men are finding love and committed relationships abroad, primarily, for now, in the Philippines. But we're talking about a materialistic, spiritually destitute culture of ego-driven, unsustainable values. Relationships between men and women await the coming economic collapse and impoverishment of much of the West. Mutual need for survival may, ironically, restore a measure of humility to today's iinsanity. Those four or five village girls will look awfully good, and those girls may once again value the guys they can realistically partner with.

I cannot understand how anyone can pay for only fans. Unbelievable. But I think some of those men are so rich they don't care about $10K for dirt.

If there is no darama...

Such games

you need to find a women who love you more than you love her. that resonnate as one of the most cleaver thought that i never heard on this topic. but women don't love. they're educated to abuse and throw away.

Sadia please TALK ABOUT YOURSELF....your reality is beautiful woman reality....please do a study on dating behaviour based on the following variables (AGE, FINANCES, PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS,CULTURAL OR RELIGIOUS AFFILIATION,INTELLIGENCE e.t.c).

now she is just illegally beautiful for a psychologist 🤨

She is out of Control....unsub....

The whole thing sounds like too much trouble. Thats why 90%of men shoukd stay single.

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Men are EQUALLY entitled Women are EQUALLY entitled All of this non- expert “influencer opinions” online are hurting our world more than helping. Humility is a major issue for ALL people. Be a good person and look for a good person. Stop placing so much value on what random, non-expert, influencing strangers are saying. She has an opinion just as much as I do, you do, and everyone else does. Place value on being humble and not entitled yourself. Seek to be good and seek a partner woman/ man that is also good. It’s a compromise in a partnership.

In southern California, 4s think they are 9s. It's ridiculous. The real 9-10s want sports and rock stars. I know lots of tall, good looking, rich, highly educated guys who are with women who are WAY below them. It's not balanced at all.

You can't put it all on porn. That's an oversell. Of course it can be a major contributing factor, but that's an extremely narrow viewpoint. Just even asking why men would consciously choose that path would help provide a more well rounded take.

This “podcast”? was very weird to watch because only one woman is shown. It’s easier to listen when we see the other person as well, at least in my opinion.

You should stop making videos and start a family. Go forth and multiply.

The most beautiful thing about sadia is her mouth breathing into the microphone

Sadia you talk somethimes about men and woman and how one side hase it hard and so on... Did you ever read Esther Vilar?? Why is it that no one in the whole media talks and shows the bad sides of woman. Even we all can see it in the day to day life.

These videos need a better editor, seems very unprofessionally made, the abrupt ad announcements (both cutting in and cutting out) and then randomly a picture of Sadia in a full body shot that slowly pans down, what was the purpose of that?

So she is telling you they are children. Be careful out there.

Sadia has lost the plot 🤦🏼‍♀️

I agree with a lot of things Sadia said, but I can't agree with her when she says that wntitlement is reserved for the 1% girl. That's such a turn off

Hi Sadie, 50 year old single man. I don’t date, because the juice is not worth the squeeze. Like the three stooges said “ are you happy, or are you married “.