5 Reasons Smart Men Avoid Marrying or Dating Single Moms

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There are 5 reasons why smart men avoid complicating their lives by dating single moms, they are: #1 Cuckoldry #2 Responsibility without authority #3 Victim mindset #4 Money problems #5 Reprioritization of your time.
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@muskreality 3 жыл бұрын

"Shut the F up ur not my Dad" expect that at some point

@josephsmith9663 3 жыл бұрын

Followed by foot in their ass

@bryant1161 3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@darrelclancymorris9840 3 жыл бұрын

@Salem The Cat sounds like a good deal!

@unpopops 3 жыл бұрын

That shit will NEVER happen over here

@benmollitor3776 3 жыл бұрын

I would say, well since I'm not your dad I guess I don't have to ever buy you anything then !! No Christmas presents either.....

@LiftOffLife 4 жыл бұрын

You will never be more important than her worst child.

@TheKingTywinLannister 4 жыл бұрын

Good one

@lordeltorious997 4 жыл бұрын

Yes nice one 😈

@kyleprimetime 4 жыл бұрын

She won't even recognize or care about how the child is treating other people badly. Which is sad... mostly for the child.

@cj2075 4 жыл бұрын

Pure wisdom, my brother. You are so right. That worst child might be of legal age but it still won’t matter.

@kyleprimetime 4 жыл бұрын

@Greg Pettis True. Sadly Single moms are teaching these daughters how to use and disrespect men.

@peterabram62 2 жыл бұрын

The worst thing about dating a single mom for me was trying to be a dad to her kids and becoming very fond of them then when you break up you lose them and one day you're downtown and you bump into her and the kids and her new man who they now look at as their new father and you realize you never were their father, never will be and it was a mistake to try playing that role. Better to keep your distance.

@jerrys.1910 5 ай бұрын

Been there, done that! Even more stunning is the fact that the woman couldn't care less that not only have you been ripped from their lives, but they often have established a bond with you and they've been ripped from yours! Child's best interests are often LAST. If a divorced woman with children encourages a good relationship with the divorced father it is a good sign that she puts her kids' best interests first, even if she doesn't like their father.

@kellarkenderson9875 3 ай бұрын

Ouch! Yeah, I def wouldn't give it a try. That shit sucks 💀

@loki-thegodofmischief3288 Жыл бұрын

My step dad was a multiply decorated combat veteran of the airborne forces with over 18 years of service & I loved him with all my heart. He survived war but he couldn't survive his marriage, which eventually drove him to suicide. Never underestimate the psychopathic selfishness of a single mother.

@vsstdtbs3705 10 ай бұрын

Women are good at manipulation, before they did not vote, now they are the dominant voters. Politicians to get into power must target the largest demographic group which is women. Hence there are bias custody, support, employment and healthcare laws. Men need to dig graves as an insurance policy, because going through the bias divorce courts they will most likely lose.

@olakthesignpost9175 9 ай бұрын

Divorce has been the hardest thing I've ever gone through and I'm a vet.

@vsstdtbs3705 9 ай бұрын

@@olakthesignpost9175 Women are good at backstabbing while men are at war. Ancient rome collapsed because while the men were at war, being killed on the battlefield, the women would be demanding womens rights while they were away and got them. Happened also in WW1, women got more rights after the war, even though men were killed in the trenches.

@mansamusa2012 7 ай бұрын

🙏🏿

@dagmastr12 7 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss

@kevc21 4 жыл бұрын

LOL, first time hearing: "Women don't care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line and pick the winners." So true.

@21stcenturymale 4 жыл бұрын

1000000% correct

@josephj6521 4 жыл бұрын

kevc21 great line!

@delvindeberry1077 4 жыл бұрын

Bars

@kenburns4547 4 жыл бұрын

kevc21: that would be okay if women didn't mind sharing, but they demand for free for what men EARNED, as if she's never going to lose her looks; so you get a ten women demanding marriage with every one top man, giving him "free samples" until you have nine single mothers for every married one. Leaving the OTHER nine MEN to clean up the mess. JUST SAY NO!!!

@jrhamilton4448 4 жыл бұрын

Absolute truth.

@maikp5505 3 жыл бұрын

The problem with single moms is that they find a “ nice guy “ and try to make him clean up after the bad guy who had all the fun. Enough said.

@elithewineguy 3 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯 yelled at me for telling her how I feel but let her ex who got her pregnant drive her car and break it

@BangBang-hk4rg 3 жыл бұрын

TRUTH!!!!

@bpmakesithappen8395 3 жыл бұрын

FUCK THAT IS TRUE!!!!!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯

@mikebutler7121 3 жыл бұрын

Them bad ass kids I cant do it

@deemunson2919 3 жыл бұрын

Even worse, they never actually leave the bad boys alone when "dealing" with the nice guy.

@ballenkerr7843 Жыл бұрын

“Don’t let someone else make their problems YOUR problems.” Solid advice and sums up the whole presentation, and it is spot on.

@christopherhennessey8991 2 жыл бұрын

I am divorced and have three daughters. I find it amazing how many single moms- particularly the ones who have several children,will say they don’t like men who have children. Hypocrisy at its best.

@Nostradamus_Order33 2 жыл бұрын

It only goes one way

@christopherhennessey8991 2 жыл бұрын

@@Nostradamus_Order33 Certainly seems that way.

@kmaxbent7328 2 жыл бұрын

i agree but at after watching this video and my personal experience dsting a woman w kids is, i can honestly say I dont want a woman w kids, even though I have my own.

@andreswilliams1618 2 жыл бұрын

facts...

@BennieWilll 2 жыл бұрын

Isn't that how you get the Brady Bunch? 😊

@imopman 3 жыл бұрын

"Women don't care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line and pick the winners." - Damn , that is absolutely true - subscribed !

@ThiagodMoraes 3 жыл бұрын

I know that, so at the finish line just say to them "fuck off" I don't need your useless fake shrugs!!

@KO-im6sm 3 жыл бұрын

Omg what about a womans struggle? Get out of your own head. Me me me!!

@imopman 3 жыл бұрын

@@KO-im6sm I have heard many woman complaining in the media that there are almost no " good men " to marry anymore . I can see that would a challenge for them since men are starting to realize the game is fixed and are refusing to play.

@ScotchItali 3 жыл бұрын

And vise versa.

@ScotchItali 3 жыл бұрын

How is this guy's golden anniversary? I'm not seeing a ring. Lots of blatherings and one sided wound licking and hating on someone taking the responsibility of their offspring...you usually don't see daddy when mommy's taking charge and taking responsibility for something daddy's clearly failed at. Only victim mindset I'm hearing is the whiney judgement bitch speak griping about someone not paying attention to him. Go ahead, boys. You're just going to try to one up what I said... predictable. Lol.

@villesanti1 3 жыл бұрын

This is 100% true. I did everything for my step daughter, took her to soccer practice, swimming lessons, doctor appointments, cook for her, took her to the movies, horse back riding lessons, and everything was okay up until the girl turned 16. When she began going wild, there was no way she would listen to me and her mom didn't support me trying to set limits. For the past 5 years it's been hell. I'm telling you this by experience, never, ever marry a woman with someone else's kids.

@robharris4646 3 жыл бұрын

Bruh. 16 plus 5 = 21. Which is more than 18. Kick her out of the house, and then she can go maximalist wild all on her own.

@deandreslaughter7622 3 жыл бұрын

@@robharris4646 shit his wife won't let him, only way out of that is divorce

@ThaMobstarr 3 жыл бұрын

Do you think that her mom not willing to set limits has to do with the daughter not being your biological child? And yea well, kids turn out to be monsters, when they become teenagers. But it also kinda sounds like the mom wants to give you all the hard decision making and being the no-fun parent, while she can be the cool mom to her daughter.

@bryonwatkins1432 3 жыл бұрын

Been there three times!!!!! No more for me!!!!!

@EagleTV7 3 жыл бұрын

Coffee and a donut, maybe. But that’s it. Kindly say “goodbye and have a nice day!”

@paulbentley1705 2 жыл бұрын

I was flirting with a good-looking girl until I found out she had 3 kids. HELL NO!!!

@emmanuelboakye6915 2 жыл бұрын

Goddamn 😂😂

@ShadowDancer_ Жыл бұрын

Same af

@Everythingismeaningless344 6 ай бұрын

Hell naw to the naw naw to the naw naw naw. Hell naw.

@marknewton6984 3 ай бұрын

Who wants to be a step parent!😮

@shawnmendrek3544 2 ай бұрын

base d

@wgp8ntballer 2 жыл бұрын

Just broke up with a single mom last night...I broke all my rules and found out she wanted to make things work out with her baby daddy while we were together....shit killed me inside but made me stronger...thanks for the vids man...keep up the good work

@kevc21 2 жыл бұрын

Lesson learned

@talkingbiscuit4787 2 жыл бұрын

been there a few days ago be strong remain a conqueror

@valentinmitrofan5301 2 жыл бұрын

You dodged a bullet Jerry. Good job!

@wgp8ntballer 2 жыл бұрын

@@valentinmitrofan5301 yes!!! What a waste of time i tell ya!! No more of that b.s! My life is so much better without all that drama

@valentinmitrofan5301 2 жыл бұрын

@@wgp8ntballer happy for you man! I've been there also, 1yr relationship with a single mom, drama everywhere, etc. In retrospective I am super glad she ended it,she saved me from a life of misery! 😄

@frankgiuliano380 3 жыл бұрын

im broke. i married a single mom. i was used as a money pit. as soon as the kids finished college that i paid for.. i was dumped.

@Love-np2rt 3 жыл бұрын

Disgusting, I'm so sorry 😢

@linkbelt111 3 жыл бұрын

Well, you should have seen that coming? There were no clues?

@Hella333 3 жыл бұрын

Was she out of your league? Trade down and you won’t have that problem.

@R281 3 жыл бұрын

At least you got out. She did you a favor.

@Whoo_shem 3 жыл бұрын

@@R281 Ha Ha

@blackestknight1.0 4 жыл бұрын

*Dating a single mother is the equivalent of voluntarily serving a sentence for a crime you didn't commit.*

@echd1 4 жыл бұрын

On point

@weotalks2810 4 жыл бұрын

Preach

@epictetuswasright2824 4 жыл бұрын

You have a philosopher's soul.

@NameCallingIsWeak 4 жыл бұрын

A beautiful single mom wanted me. Praise the Lord, I didn't sell myself out to raising another man's daughter.

@blackestknight1.0 4 жыл бұрын

@@NameCallingIsWeak Dude. You dodged a frikkin missile. Especially the fact that it's a girl. You could have been falsely accused of molestation and it could have been the kid's father that manipulated the little girl into falsely accusing you. A similar thing almost happened to me but in my situation the kid's father manipulated the kid to tell the mother that I'm intimidating. Fortunately the single mother I was dating was able to interogate her kid and she found out it was the father's idea and manipulation to set me up.

@triguychubbs 2 жыл бұрын

I dated and married a single mom whose husband had died suddenly. That was a nightmare. Imagine being compared to a perfect dead man all the time plus all the things this guy talked about 😐

@Peacefullife0404 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@manueldealmeida9780 7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@CM-rg9zg 7 ай бұрын

Usually you are compared to a living deadbeat. Not sure what’s worse

@johnsontourney5986 7 ай бұрын

Lmao

@omicronceti6063 6 ай бұрын

Sorry my man but this shit is funny as hell looooooooool

@Summer_21446 2 жыл бұрын

I’m a 37 year old woman without kids & I approve this message!!!

@terrancefoster6613 2 жыл бұрын

Congrats on that you're part of the 1% that's rare asf

@DBSKxSECRETsarang39 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 28 and childfree.

@YouGetWhatYouFuckinDeserve 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 36 and childfree.

@kensoto4265 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@saynotohookups 2 жыл бұрын

49 and no children. I have found that men don't want to marry they just want to have a good time. With the way that some married men talk about their wives behind their backs and what they do it makes me glad that I didn't get married. That's not to say that I am not open to marriage but he really has to be the right one.

@poorasslawstudent 4 жыл бұрын

As a former criminal defense attorney, let me tell you, dating a single mom with a daughter is asking to be accused of molestation or rape later on in life. You have been warned.

@atvman1014 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes the mothers are dirty gross also

@mrhernandez8256 4 жыл бұрын

I'm looking to be lawyer .. any tips ? Family law . I already have a bachelor.

@atvman1014 4 жыл бұрын

@@mrhernandez8256 what is the paper for when all you have to do is use your mind and gut?

@xmangel6052 4 жыл бұрын

You drive to your office every day. You drive to the supermarket... You drive to go places here and there... As a Driver myself, I can tell you: you run the risk of getting into a car crash & dying or getting severly injured in car accident... You have been warned. Dude, everything has a Risk in Life. Nothing is 100% guarantee Safe or 100% free from problems. But that can't stop us from Living our Lives and marrying a woman who we LOVE with our hearts just because there is a 1% risk you might be accused of molestation or rape later on when daughter is older.

@poorasslawstudent 4 жыл бұрын

@@xmangel6052 some things are more risky than others. More importantly you don't fall in love and marry women who you don't date to begin with.

@waderivers3304 4 жыл бұрын

This guy makes sense. Whenever I meet a woman who bashes her ex or ex’s, a little voice shouts in my ear “You’re NEXT!”

@geoffdavis9681 4 жыл бұрын

I've been on dates where the woman on the first date immediately starts talking about her lousy ex, restraining orders, blah, blah, blah. The first date quickly becomes the last date as well.

@kenburns4547 4 жыл бұрын

wade rivers: and it's even WORSE if she claims he abused her and went to jail, playing the "damsel in distress" routine. Trust me, you ARE next. I almost was.

@controlshift975 4 жыл бұрын

You do realize men do the same thing right? Or are you that fucking ignorant?

@jleverette666 4 жыл бұрын

Yep my ex did that shit all the time now she's rubbing my name in the dirt

@waderivers3304 4 жыл бұрын

Jane Doe Thanks Karen I was unaware of that.

@tims4694 2 жыл бұрын

I'm guilty of this. When I was in my 20s, married a single mom. Almost immediately she got pregnant. Then after that child was born, she became hard to live with. The sex was bad (no more BJs) and she was trying to control all the money. Don't do it, guys!

@vsstdtbs3705 10 ай бұрын

Next time I date, she will either be blind or have a head injury. A eunuch is a great investment to have too. Some women voluntary blind themselves, and some boys voluntary castrate themselves. A blind women can not steal your kids, steal your money, steal your house, steal your job.

@redleaderone8429 10 ай бұрын

i did the same thing i convinced her ex to adopt . it was hopeless i got out free and clear. see you guys later

@marknewton6984 3 ай бұрын

No way.

@mchlrae7 2 жыл бұрын

I am in my late 30’s with no children and this video is exactly why! There are several single mothers that I know who fit this to an absolute tea! The victim role, looking for money, custody battles, etc. Its really sad. That is not a life that I want.

@illustractorydraws 4 жыл бұрын

If men in a relationship with a single mom are reading this: Take a week off of your job and tell her you lost your job and that you can't afford your current lifestyle now. Then wait.

@rockon88888888 4 жыл бұрын

Genius!

@adamlapinski7590 4 жыл бұрын

Genius! I actually did this and she hung up on me, wrote me one email stating she'd call the police for stalking, never heard from her again!

@rayme4raw 4 жыл бұрын

I've had male friends whose wives divorced them after they've lost their job, the weird thing is they get another job that pays just as well if not more a couple of months later and she still goes through with the divorce. Some of these guys weren't bad looking, at least an 8. How do women think that their sexual market value goes up with age? You ain't going to replace him sweetheart.

@paulkofa3238 4 жыл бұрын

2 weeks. A week is not long enough. Then just sit on the couch depressed.

@vel1hunnid348 4 жыл бұрын

@@adamlapinski7590 😂😭✌

@Icanbyorsuprman1 3 жыл бұрын

Statistically speaking, I've avoided my first divorce by not getting married.

@LilChisty773 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao good one

@AbcAbc-sp1od 3 жыл бұрын

Smarter than a lot of men lol

@TheCoachRC 3 жыл бұрын

Smart move, Joe. I take my hat off to you.

@Icanbyorsuprman1 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheCoachRC 39 years old and won't do it. Ever. I've seen way too many good men destroyed by bad marriages to bad women

@BishezicespiceFAN 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@anotherm2722 2 жыл бұрын

They used to call them "broken homes" - you don't hear that much anymore but it's for a good reason. Kids can develop mental problems or get a wild streak when things go bad. It happens all the time but taking a biological parent out of the house is usually a recipe for disaster.

@mooseyman74 3 ай бұрын

Now they talk about ADHD

@bankroll310 Жыл бұрын

If you're a guy that just started dating a single mom please learn from this video and learn from the comments below. Your new girl is NOT the exception, You will NEVER have your own family with a single mom. You are going to be living in a world of constant disrespect before you know it. Get the hell out of there, I'm telling you from experience. 10 years of giving the mom and her kids everything they dreamed of only to have them turn into enemies without any appreciation after our divorce. Don't raise another man's kids, start your own family.

@kacithegreat Жыл бұрын

Thanks you

@leocardoroger6270 7 ай бұрын

I agree single moms are very disrespectful and ungrateful void plus they never happy

@jaystrock613 3 жыл бұрын

I married a woman with a kid when I was young years ago. Her priorities were her self, her kid, her family, everything. I was not even considered. I was young and dumb.

@yacks6791 3 жыл бұрын

Why did you marry her if you were not a priority? In theory, the kids are as important as the partner. Each play a totally different role in our life. Guys, look for mentally healthy people!! Those that have gone to therapy. I have seen dads just like that, that have no idea about how to establish limits to be a dad and ALSO equaly a partner, and ihave immediately ran away!!!

@olga4072 3 жыл бұрын

I think she wasn't really into you

@idropagearbabye6822 3 жыл бұрын

Singe mom priorities.. 1 God 2 kids 3 job 4 home 5 phone 6 dog 7 ex 8 Mr right now Best not to get involved

@Fightfuryfilms 3 жыл бұрын

@@idropagearbabye6822 so true!!!

@michaelcooke8665 3 жыл бұрын

And now you're a wise man👍✌👏

@Daniel_Martin777 3 жыл бұрын

Its like Nuclear War. The only way to win is not to play

@scottlowell493 3 жыл бұрын

"Shall we play a game?" "No. No we shall not."

@milleniallgt9715 3 жыл бұрын

Right from the movie “Tron” nicely said....

@ronaldmorrison6013 3 жыл бұрын

War games?

@valuecalc 3 жыл бұрын

@@ronaldmorrison6013 , that, too.

@murder1625 3 жыл бұрын

@@ronaldmorrison6013 like a fallout 76

@venturabay 5 ай бұрын

"Hang out at the finish line, and pick the winners"...I like that line

@centralintelligenceagency9003 10 ай бұрын

The worst thing is, I knew all this stuff, but when my first ever girlfriend confessed to loving me, I didn't care about her two kids. Everything this man said came true, especially being lower on the list of priorities than the spare tire's air pressure. That lasted about 5 months and cost me a lot of stress, but at least now I know what I don't want.

@faridali3062 4 жыл бұрын

There's nothing new in what he's saying. A lot of men actually are aware of the dangers of dating single mothers but rarely adhere to the advice to stay away because of low self esteem issues.

@vinnizle 4 жыл бұрын

Definitely agree. Low self esteem and desperation often lead to this regardless of if they know the consequences or not

@efesezer8206 4 жыл бұрын

i try my best to stick with what he says and i havent dated any single moms yet but man its hard to find something other than singlemoms after college years it seems like. i broke up with my gf the last year of college and its been 4 years since and i cant find anyone besides single mothers that are available, all the girls are pretty much in a relationship already. it gets lonely sometimes.

@kyleprimetime 4 жыл бұрын

Single moms are easy. It's easy sex. The problem is you got to leave before the 'family illusion" traps and manipulates you.

@kellyfontes7757 4 жыл бұрын

That is why it is important that it keels being said

@kellyfontes7757 4 жыл бұрын

Listen young fellas.

@Lateralus46x2 4 жыл бұрын

List of priorities: 1) Her 2) Her Kids (including activities) 3) Social life/social media 4) Pets 5) Shopping 6) Job 7) Trips/clubs/bars 8) Ex, keeping him happy and attached 9) Family 10) YOU. These are normal circumstances... throw in alcohol/drug abuse, personality disorders, feminist friends and or financial issues and you got a beauty 👌

@Candlelight787 4 жыл бұрын

Tzar size truth bomb!

@vincebastier9815 4 жыл бұрын

She's a multicorn.

@fullcircleessentials 4 жыл бұрын

💯

@emileriksen2481 4 жыл бұрын

WHich kind of loser woman do you hang around, lol

@lanthonyperdum6430 4 жыл бұрын

You hit the nail on the head my friend !!!

@ianbubble1378 4 ай бұрын

Also worth noting: As you work towards your goals and become the best version of yourself, the dating pool will get smaller and smaller, and you will attract more low quality women. DO NOT settle. At all. Stay single for as long as possible, if not forever. The amount of pain and regret you will feel for "settling" for trash will undoubtedly leave you in worse shape than before. Inner peace is everything. In today's day and age, it's nearly impossible to get peace with or out of another person.

@demetriusgaines59 4 ай бұрын

Big Facts!

@mendesvideo 9 ай бұрын

When my brother was 23 he married a single mother of one little girl. He did not have a college degree, neither did she. They were both on a low income. To make a long story short, he got married on a Saturday, the following Monday he had a family to raise. Over the years his health deteriorated, he didn’t have any time for himself, didn’t play sports, and eventually he had his own daughter. He’s never fulfilled his dream of traveling the world. After he got divorced he had to pay child support for the two kids, his own the the other guy’s as well.

@mohammedali 3 жыл бұрын

Here's my story. I was only hooking up with a single of 2 kids. She started doing everything right to win me over and get into a real relationship... as the relationship went further, i couldn't discipline the kids anymore. She didn't do all the nice things she did when we first met. We were getting into arguments. She started talking to another guy and all of a sudden left me for him. YOU ARE NOTHING TO HER! IF SHE LEFT THE FATHER OF HER KIDS, SHE CAN LEAVE YOU JUST AS EASY IF NOT EASIER!

@kevc21 2 жыл бұрын

She can and she WILL. She won't be tamed.

@andreigarin6564 2 жыл бұрын

It’s ok. That’s part of your unique journey. God won’t judge you for the self shame you may have felt and may still be feeling.

@battish123 2 жыл бұрын

Ooo she won’t flinch bruh and every other guy that comes in her life, you’re gonna be the bad guy!

@kevc21 2 жыл бұрын

She's never yours. It's just your turn.

@nightowl6811 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 😂! Been there done it all! Now I’m 49 and glad I never wanted to get married! My only son is now 19. Ww3 around the corner and I’m going to die happy 😊

@naturalbornchiller158 4 жыл бұрын

They hang around the finishline and pick the winners. Never a truer word said.

@armadillotoe 4 жыл бұрын

Women don't want to do anything, they just want to be there when it happens.

@stevenkoehler6018 4 жыл бұрын

Yup

@jshepard152 4 жыл бұрын

I heard it as "hang around the finish line and fuck the winners."

@lightninlad 4 жыл бұрын

I have to admit, that quote really sticks with you.

@RichardYCheng-RSCLaw 4 жыл бұрын

True, but they have to marketable enough to get the winners.

@justintimesYT 9 ай бұрын

100% true. I was married to a single mother. She would fantasize about eventually changing their last name to my name, loved when I got them things, etc etc. But when it came to real issues and discipline, I was a "bad father". Her words. She ended up having an affair and left. Tried to weaponize her thousands in divorce trial fees from her ex against me, the whole nine yards.

@redline350zHR 6 ай бұрын

Damn bro.. my ex single mother of recent ended shit bc she wants to be alone. Shes goin thru a divorce with a shitbag and she lives with his parents bc she has no family here in the US. Shes from peru. 10 yr old son who i was always good to and got along well with. Eventually she said i was “too much” bc i actually cared. My problem is i got attached to her and idk how to let it go man. I need some suggestions or something i keep trying to make it work or at least be friends idk why

@josetheman239 2 жыл бұрын

A single mom asked me for money 2 days after payday. I wasn't planning anything serious because here in Africa it's kind of frowned upon to take home a single mother, but damn that shook me. She assured me that she would pay me back unlike most women, she was different. She payed me back with extra, as a way to manipulate me since I was pulling away at the time. Weird.

@dex.cameron1855 3 жыл бұрын

Married a woman with 1 child. I told her something about her kid. She told me not to tell her what to do with her child.....that was the beginning of the end.

@valilucifer9356 3 жыл бұрын

Welp you stepped on that bear trap

@gamerleo 3 жыл бұрын

@Calamity That is solid advice.

@yayaokok3561 3 жыл бұрын

no the momment you married her you sealed your fate my friend

@jlogan2228 3 жыл бұрын

Yep, thats why i dont date single moms bc its not YOUR kid if im still providing for it and taking care of it. Its OUR kid now and you WILL let me perform my fatherly role including disciplianrian or you will take YOUR kid and leave

@dex.cameron1855 3 жыл бұрын

@@valilucifer9356 Ya live and learn.

@johnschmidt6431 4 жыл бұрын

I,m 66 years old, this is very good advice!!! Have seen everything he alludes to all my life. Listen up !!!!!!

@josepalacios2819 4 жыл бұрын

@She-Ra Princess of Power i like this question. I was expecting more too.

@echd1 4 жыл бұрын

She-Ra Princess of Power there’s no need for extras 😆

@peterwilliamson8721 4 жыл бұрын

Instead of giving young men crosses or crucifixes around their necks,we should put condoms in them.

@PhilJonesIII 4 жыл бұрын

1954 was a good year. Same vintage here and I agree with what he says. Too many anecdotes to relate but the bottom line is that such a relationship can open up dynamics you can't hope to anticipate. And you are absolutely not in control, even if you are an alpha.

@coolramone 4 жыл бұрын

I dated a single mom. I was at her house and she says, "You need to leave before the child gets home from school."

@MultiDiceman Жыл бұрын

I was dating a women with kids recently, 2 to be exact. She was such an amazing women but i couldn't get over the kids aspect because i wasnt in the position to really be an effective boyfriend and by proxy a step father. I know logically the best decision was to leave her so she could find a man ready now to handle her situation.

@josiah5776 2 жыл бұрын

I've been a step-father and in several relationships with single moms (yeah, I know). 100% spot on, especially the part about responsibility without authority. Every one of the women expected all the support of their kids, but when they trashed my place or were disrespectful, it was always, "No, these are my kids." No way in HELL will I ever even date a woman with kids, much less marry one. I don't care how good her kids are or how good a head she has on her shoulders. It never turns out well. I prefer being alone to being a step-parent again.

@ronimatos90 2 жыл бұрын

Sir, I'd like your opinion: I don't see nothing wrong with dating a single mom on a non exclusive fashion. I mean, I don't want to get involved with her children, her life, etc.., I just find her kind of hot and an interesting person to spend some dates, and already asked her not to build expectations towards me. No serious relationship or any of that business. I don't see any big risks; but, am I wrong?

@bouncebackstronger1294 2 жыл бұрын

That's what im doing. The woman im talking to has a heart of gold and is doing well financially. Only problem is that she's 4.5 years older :/ I want to have kids and if I were to marry her/get serious, we'd have to move fast. I'm still working on my career/am not sure where in the US I want to settle down. Stuff gets complicated once you move past lust

@bouncebackstronger1294 2 жыл бұрын

Marrying younger takes a lot of pressure off both the guy and woman. Women shouldn't be having children 35+

@bouncebackstronger1294 2 жыл бұрын

Wish this chick was at least my age. Then I'd at least take the idea seriously. But the age difference makes it impossible for me to commit beyond friendship

@josiah5776 2 жыл бұрын

@@ronimatos90 I cannot speak for you. While I wouldn't recommend it, everyone has to do or try what they feel like doing. It's how you gain experience. Just beware of the pitfalls and watch for the signs. You might find a rare unicorn. Personally, I think those chances are very slim, but you are the guy on the ground so you have to make the call. Good luck.

@Donnellatilery 3 жыл бұрын

I'm a single mom (one kid) and I wasn't offended by this video. I've seen my single mom friends bring baggage to their relationships and wondered why the guy wouldn't commit. I have a good job, nice place and the father lives in a drivable different state. we get along as co-parents but people are terrified to date me. I am not interested in getting married since I'm an older mom and I have a comfortable life - very lucky and rare for my situation. I see why after watching how horrible single moms treat men. Wow. This put it in perspective and the only women that will be offended are the users.

@jak4032 3 жыл бұрын

A rational woman...a gift.

@theironhorsegamer2097 3 жыл бұрын

They become offended because the shoe fits

@Cookiebunnysweetumserr 3 жыл бұрын

This is embarrassing for you. This guy talks about single mothers all over his channel over and over even though he is a single father and all the same if not worse can be said about him not to mention him saying all this is insulting the mother of his children which says plenty about his character. Him and the “men” agreeing with him in this comment section are disgusting and sick have you read these comments???

@theironhorsegamer2097 3 жыл бұрын

Looks like the shoe has fit once again. And since it fits so well the anger overflows with some

@yayaokok3561 3 жыл бұрын

@@Cookiebunnysweetumserr the comments seem mostly respectful. For the most part its stories about peoples experiences and non of them are hateful, if anything they seem to be regretful.

@BigRockyD 3 жыл бұрын

So many kings in this comment thread. Stay strong my hard working single brothers.

@Cbd_7ohm 3 жыл бұрын

King Kong Kush

@davidturner1641 3 жыл бұрын

Amen bro

@mikev2024 3 жыл бұрын

FUCK YEAH!

@jessesdomain444 3 жыл бұрын

Im not single but this guy spits knowledge. We dont even want kids. Worlds gonna burn soon so why create another mouth to feed

@Will.Flavell 3 жыл бұрын

@@jessesdomain444 Plus the world is overpopulated it’s uses up our planets resources faster and it increases poverty as well as pollution

@starsaber9631 6 ай бұрын

1. She's a single mum 2. The kids not yours 3. She's a single mum 4. The kids not yours 5. Their not yours responsibility to look after and provide for them 👍

@kochb01 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Rich, everything you said I found true including the cats taking priority and I had to laugh. I’m currently dating a single mom of a trouble teenage daughter. She’s a wonderful person and a great mother. She’s doing the best she can, but at the end of the day she will likely have nothing left over for herself or our relationship. To the single moms out there who have good a valve guys who do the work in their life. Consider showing some extra appreciation.

@tikaroxanne7286 9 ай бұрын

Don’t let others whose experiences weren’t good make you change your mind. If she is a good person leave it at that. Her daughter is almost grown.

@theanabolicviking 4 жыл бұрын

Remember when you date or marry a single mom, you're just settling for someone else's leftovers, and the cherry on top is you'll NEVER be a priority... Stop settling! As always, great content, Rich.

@KeenApollo 4 жыл бұрын

Yea but everyone is someone leftovers.

@louuiee_knows24. Жыл бұрын

@@KeenApollo Fr lmaoo

@marknewton6984 3 ай бұрын

Who wants a well plowed field? 😮

@jaxteller5607 4 жыл бұрын

Cold hard truths. Despite 95% of men won’t follow that advice and still play captain save a Hoe.

@timheidel5849 4 жыл бұрын

did it once...and ran the next time that situation came my way again...

@psgamer3741 4 жыл бұрын

Com on man they can do better

@NYPATRIOTBX 4 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo captain save a hoe 🤣🤣

@ew4937 4 жыл бұрын

Well spoken pimpin💯

@georgeanastasopoulos5865 4 жыл бұрын

Excuse me, Jax. What you say about those women, and calling them a "Hoe" is wrong. Calling them a whatever is disparaging, and clearly offensive. If you cannot get along then don't have such a relationship with a woman, who has kids. But it is good that I am forewarned about such a woman. For me it is about Miss Right.

@Rida-sx4bj Жыл бұрын

I dated a single mother for about a year, and she was certainly wonderful and very beautiful, but the fact that she had children with another man made me not emotionally attracted to her, so I ended the relationship and found another girl without children, and now we have completed 3 years of dating and we are ready for marriage.

@luc1d356 5 ай бұрын

😂 good luck with that

@Rida-sx4bj 5 ай бұрын

@@luc1d356 thank you

@jerrys.1910 5 ай бұрын

You have a positive, strong likelihood of marital success! Key being;; you are exercising friendship first and establishing a deep relationship. God bless you young fellow...and I wish you and your lucky bride happiness and success in all life's endeavors.

@XVNRX 5 ай бұрын

@@luc1d356why you say that?

@luc1d356 5 ай бұрын

I don't believe in marriage in those days , it's rigged for men. There are few exceptions but getting married is like playing russian roulette with 5 loaded chambers. I try to not push my opinions on others though and I respect everyone'se choice and opinion. If you want to get married , okay. Just be prepared and know what is ahead if you want to take that road.@@XVNRX

@joecombs7468 5 ай бұрын

Something I saw a lot of growing up in Florida. Two older people (divorced or widowed) have adult kids & grandkids. They meet & decide to get married. Then (usually) he dies first. As his wife she inherits everything that was his, including the things he wanted to leave to his kids. Then, when she dies, everything goes to her kids and his kids get nothing. Not Going To happen With me.

@kurt6410 4 жыл бұрын

Society not only glorifies single mothers but they shame men for not wanting to date or marry them. It's the mans fault for not wanting to raise another mans kid. How about placing blame on the woman or the father?

@swlc5555 4 жыл бұрын

@Endless Nameless There are a lot of women with a kid(s) overseas who try to find an American/European husband to take care of them. But thinking about the last two seasons, there really haven't been that many. In the current one the only one is the Filipina Rose who rejected Ed. Varya-no kids. Lana-no kids (definitely a gold digger). Annie from the Dominican Republic-no kids. The model from Brasil who married the rich guy- no kids. But no doubt, just like here, most of them are looking for the ATM.

@jonm3131 4 жыл бұрын

Glorifies single mothers?? Everyone in this comment section is talking down on them lol...

@danieldiaz4692 4 жыл бұрын

I know right. What kind of fucked up logic is that? My pathology does not have to conform to anyone else’s.

@anthonymcmorris192 4 жыл бұрын

You had it right the first time. How about placing blame on the woman and not the father?

@KarateWrestler205 4 жыл бұрын

Society now shames men for not wanting to date chicks with dicks we can’t win

@CptCoitus 4 жыл бұрын

I worked with an old timer once, and I still remember his profound advice: "The screwing you get isn't worth the screwing you get".

@visamedic 4 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure it’s “the screwing you GIVE aint worth the screwing you’ll get”. Either way...it’s sound advice

@armadillotoe 4 жыл бұрын

I read this on the bathroom wall in a strip club. "Is the fucking you're getting, worth the fucking you're getting?"

@carmichaelmoritz8662 4 жыл бұрын

just dont be a fool , go with the flow and enjoy the ride . like all rides the end comes . get off the ride and go to the next .

@stevenkoehler6018 4 жыл бұрын

There’s some real truth

@YoungNinja-117 4 жыл бұрын

@@carmichaelmoritz8662 I agree with this. Just gotta handle with caution.

@jamesmontano8047 Жыл бұрын

I really appreciate the logical advice. I'm done with single moms and will starting reaching for the higher fruit! Thanks again Rich!

@jeremiahm1413 2 жыл бұрын

Subscription earned for putting the 5 reasons in the video's description, giving me the option of sticking around or taking the cliff notes. I stuck around. Well done!

@jellyfishsii 4 жыл бұрын

Every single mother i know personally is in a constant state of bad decision making.

@michaelcummings6178 4 жыл бұрын

THEIR ENTIRE LIFE ! !

@tedsell1455 4 жыл бұрын

Par for the course 🕷

@kuunami 4 жыл бұрын

No exceptions. I got talked out of my reluctance to date single mothers or women with tattoos by a female family member about a year and a half ago. I dated a woman who had both. Bad move. What I've noticed is that when things blow up in your face, the woman who gave you the bad advice will be nowhere to be found. It's almost as if they work together to put you in a bad situation even if they don't know each other and the guy is family.

@StephenWestSyd 4 жыл бұрын

Most women are bad at decision making

@tedsell1455 4 жыл бұрын

@@StephenWestSyd or even making Dinner

@Kalmworld1 3 жыл бұрын

I was married to a single mom and divorced her after a year due to all these reasons

@MrSmith-on1qz 3 жыл бұрын

My brother did the same thing. They are generally really difficult to deal with. It’s not worth it. Good for you getting out quickly.

@Cbd_7ohm 3 жыл бұрын

Used mom = worn out transmission

@unknownu5264 3 жыл бұрын

@@Cbd_7ohm worn out engine, tires and mufflers.

@716tg3 3 жыл бұрын

@@Cbd_7ohm time for a trade in 😂

@carparthero 3 жыл бұрын

@@Cbd_7ohm oh geezus that was a good one LMFAOO 🤣 be kind, a woman would never speak disparagingly of a man that was no use to her 😉

@Howto-uz6rf 2 жыл бұрын

I dated a very beautiful Single mom who had two children for three years and she was a doctor, she was watching me everywhere so I wouldn't date any girl, and every day she cried and said don't leave me alone, she was madly in love with me because she wanted to get marry because she was 33 years old, last year I lost My work because of Corona, and she started to change before she was calling me every night and no longer doing the same thing and after six months I found out that she was with another person and every day she was lying to me and I still suffer psychologically from the effects of the relationship. Think then think before you get involved with a single mom who has child .I was 29 now I am 32 The worst thing I did ever 😔

@bagpussisevil2877 2 жыл бұрын

@Louis Tea Enjoyer Single moms don't sump you, they release you!

@80skid83 Жыл бұрын

@@bagpussisevil2877 so true

@allenblack3785 Жыл бұрын

dude dont beat up on yourself,,,,any guy is going to JUMP at the chance to date a beautiful doctor,,,,kids or no,,,,,,,,,,but that she was lying ? thats frightening

@novadomenavedomia Ай бұрын

This is not end of the world, life is is like land mine field, you never know where you will pick up new lesson, this one you describe, is cheap tuition into school of knowledge.

@SJ-qq6xu 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏 I’m a woman who doesn’t know how to say this to my brother . Sending this to him now . Btw , gentlemen , all women know this but keep it to themselves. Typically mothers tell their daughters everything this man just said when raising them . So if you’re actually open about what you think about women with children, it won’t be their 1st time hearing it .

@ironadamjohn5376 4 жыл бұрын

Keep single mothers single. I'm doing my part.

@kingstature9274 4 жыл бұрын

Ok this one cracked up 😂

@ryanweston9677 4 жыл бұрын

jane Wilkinson-Tancock the same. If you’re a woman of high value, there’s no point in dating a single Father either. Other people’s kids suck

@ryanweston9677 4 жыл бұрын

jane W. You have a high tolerance level then, for whatever reasons.

@echd1 4 жыл бұрын

jane W. Same

@echd1 4 жыл бұрын

jane W. Why a woman would think dating a man who’s financially attached?

@jleigh404 4 жыл бұрын

I wish the men in my life (family, and business partners) would take this advice seriously, the amount of money and time they spend to try to please the kids of the moms they date is beyond astronomical. I am a single childless business owner, but also no single dads need apply. I chose no children for a reason, I’m certainly not raising or helping to support someone else’s children and deal with their ex drama.

@johnbopp4813 4 жыл бұрын

Your post is extremely spot on. You're absolutely right about not dating single dads. I tell my buddies who don't have children themselves that they have no business dating single moms!

@kyleprimetime 4 жыл бұрын

5 years thousands of dollars. Photograph lessons, ski trips, trips to visit family, events, restaurants and school supplies..... I lost my job and said I'm having a hard time. Never asked her for any help just told her things were getting hard and I feel really stressed. She tells me our relationship is over and never contacts me again. What the hell was I thinking?

@prepordietryin9119 4 жыл бұрын

@Dr.'sorders yeah I know. Like it's the manly thing to doto take care of another man's offspring. And you're not a man if you don't do it. I refuse to follow that logic.

@kyleprimetime 4 жыл бұрын

@@prepordietryin9119 Good

@TheMegillahguerrilla 4 жыл бұрын

@@kyleprimetime You were thinking there was still some decency

@Puggy42069 2 жыл бұрын

10:42. Wow. You just opened my eyes. I'm considering dating a single mom and you perfectly described my situation. She was interested in what kind of job I would have after college and called me a "nice guy." I perfectly fit the description of a "beta provider" and she is looking to me as a viable option.

@ChaosRUsEnt 2 жыл бұрын

The Red Pill in real time. Good for you brother.

@80skid83 Жыл бұрын

They will chill and hang with you if you're financially stable, even if she doesn't really like you

@CM-rg9zg 7 ай бұрын

Alpha seed, beta need

@Americanpatriot-zo2tk 6 ай бұрын

Run!

@BreadFred3 Жыл бұрын

Every guy should date or "hang around" with single moms for 2-3 months just to give them life lessons. Single moms are just headaches. Even being a friend with one. For me, it's all recurring phone calls of needing help.

@racebannon96 5 ай бұрын

“Borrowing Money” that they have No intention on paying back.

@BreadFred3 5 ай бұрын

@racebannon96 Oh yeah. Been there and I was just a friend to a single mother.

@LogeySmalls 4 жыл бұрын

Remember boys, 1 kid is a mistake, 4 is a pattern.

@SovereignStatesman 4 жыл бұрын

But either way it's NOT YOUR PROBLEM, so don't take it on.

@401Ryder89 4 жыл бұрын

Tom Evans facts

@mrhernandez8256 4 жыл бұрын

Some kids are planned . I planned my kids.

@SovereignStatesman 4 жыл бұрын

@@mrhernandez8256 ALL kids are planned, albeit subconsciously. That's why you never tell women you're snipped. Why dodge a bullet when you can shoot blanks?

@SovereignStatesman 4 жыл бұрын

LoganKirkman: But YOU could simply be her #2.

@johnbopp4813 4 жыл бұрын

Richard is right. Divorced fathers will spend more time raising another man's children than his own. THINK. ABOUT. THAT.

@ThisLeprechaunWrites 4 жыл бұрын

It's true. My cousin's dead beat Dad left them and my Aunt for a younger model who left her husband while he was in a hospital bed after having a stroke. Classy lady. And now my cousin's dead beat Dad is raising that guy's two sons, whilst turning his back on his own sons. WTF? LOL What a loser.

@manusiakerdus1233 2 жыл бұрын

It's true.

@marcd2743 6 ай бұрын

Dated two. One was nuts, one was nice. Done with that now. Points #1, #3 and #4 I did not experience but point #2 is soooo true. Responsibility without authority is absolutely correct. Very well said. You get to a point where you naturally want to start bringing the authority you have in the relationship to the children but have to pull back because they are somebody else's kids. It becomes awkward because by having that natural fatherly role diminished ,it starts to erode you as a man in her eyes as you do not assert your male authority. I'd add a point number 6 too. If you're a decent guy you will begin to bond with the children. If things go south in the relationship you will not only lose your gf but also a proto-family. Bad for you, bad for the kids.

@unitedfranchise7622 6 ай бұрын

Dating a baby mama is the most stupid thing I have ever done

@stevenbrown2522 6 ай бұрын

What happened??

@vysearcadia7222 3 жыл бұрын

Not going to lie this one hurts hearing because I owe a ton to my stepdad. He helped raise me into the man I am today

@nervamerc 3 жыл бұрын

I had a step mother and she was vile to me. But I know people with big hearts who are good step parents, and people who adopt children. There's still good stories out there. I know the childless say stupid things all the time. An these self centered men are just as shallow as the women they complain about

@_AnniesDragon_ 3 жыл бұрын

@@nervamerc Amen to that. Sorry you had a bad experience with your step mom, she sounds horrible. My husband's step grandpa married a single mom (his grandma) and became one of the greatest role models in his life. He treated him like his own flesh and blood and left an incredibly positive impression in the life of a child. Step parents, grandparents can be great influences on kids and be loved equally back, I guess it just takes a special person to do that, and tbh most people really arent that special as seen in most of the comments on this thread.

@JahannamHellfire 3 жыл бұрын

My mother was a beautiful, kind woman but my single man step dad was a evil, evil and a evil stap dad, my stap dad didn't have children of his own...

@saynotohookups 3 жыл бұрын

@@JahannamHellfire I know a woman who dated an evil guy for five years. Her children had to be dragged through that. The daughter attempted to run away from home twice when she was ten or eleven. The woman chose the boyfriend over the children. She eventually left him and she had to move to another part of the country to do it. I know that she feels bad about it but it would have been nice to at least give her children a genuine apology for it.

@ashm4938 3 жыл бұрын

You get genuinely good step parents out there, but the whole situation you were fortunate enough to experience is quite the exception to the rule.

@TheRealSephiroth 4 жыл бұрын

Heres a classic "SHUT UP YOURE NOT MY REAL DAD!" 😂😂😂

@terencejay8845 4 жыл бұрын

I went on a date with a single Mum. She invited me back to her house. Her 12 year old son came in to the kitchen while she was making coffee, pointed to me and said 'What the fuck is He doing here!' I left 3 minutes later. Done.

@KarateWrestler205 4 жыл бұрын

I reply with I know ya momma call me daddy

@TheRealSephiroth 4 жыл бұрын

@@KarateWrestler205 whatch em reply with "Okay grandpa!" 😁😁😁

@KarateWrestler205 4 жыл бұрын

RadiantPunk a lot of people go thru that I feel for you it’s not your fault g

@KarateWrestler205 4 жыл бұрын

Shan Ming he can call me grandpa all they want I’m still gonna bone their mom later

@LaurelAndElm 2 жыл бұрын

All so true. Dated a single mom with two kids and it became hell. I’m way more financially stable, in better health, have freedom, women want me, and I’m so much more happy. Never again

@jagrench62 2 жыл бұрын

My dad told me that love is a misunderstanding between two fools, I wish I would have listened. Men listen to everything this guy says intently been down this road too many times there's too many single women out here to tie yourself up with somebody else's problems.

@jonsalt3241 4 жыл бұрын

Don't forget her three rescue dogs...there more important than you too!

@wiseonwords 4 жыл бұрын

@Dr.'sorders - sounds bloody sick!

@kyleprimetime 4 жыл бұрын

@Dr.'sorders I girl just told me her dog is her one and only because she is 30 and has no children.

@michaelcummings6178 4 жыл бұрын

HA HA HA HA HA HA ! ! ! SOOO TRUE ! !

@prepordietryin9119 4 жыл бұрын

😂so true

@fredwilliams7893 4 жыл бұрын

Dog lovers yea no thanks!

@eljipito 4 жыл бұрын

So true!!!! Sooo true Richard!!! I always tell it... Date a single mother if you love to always live in frustration!

@prbmax 4 жыл бұрын

Not enough "So true(s)."

@captainsisko7629 4 жыл бұрын

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@janesmith7744 4 жыл бұрын

Yep... it’s why i don’t date dads ... divorced men with kids ... big no no

@kavolis 4 жыл бұрын

oh, come on. We all know that single moms IN THE BEGINNING of a relationship will give you the best sex possible. The legend about MILFs is truth... at lest for a short period of time :) This is why men continue to date single moms.

@georgeanastasopoulos5865 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the real, sane advice, eljipito. However, it is that a man has not found Miss Right.

@kmjack72 2 жыл бұрын

Good info brotha, it's my first time seeing your page and I wish I would have seen this year's ago.

@andrewpalacios1363 Жыл бұрын

What’s up Rich! Thank you for this video man, I’m a product of a single-parent household unfortunately, and I’ve seen how horribly the step father situation can end up. I WILL NOT end up in the same situation!

@kalcor1360 3 жыл бұрын

Anyone else absolutely love reading these 100% true comments?

@walt6043 3 жыл бұрын

It addicting

@yayaokok3561 3 жыл бұрын

I love the part where he explains, decent looking women arent rare. Succesful well put together men are rare. They are the prize, women want them, and men want to be them. Feeling great after this enlightening talk, high fives all around yah!

@Johnflaxman974 3 жыл бұрын

I just left one

@kauffrau6764 5 ай бұрын

Yes. The comments are pure gold. People sharing their stories so we can learn. ❤

@vinnizle 4 жыл бұрын

Biggest thing to me is that someone had a kid with her.....and still didnt think she was worth having around. If even having a kid couldnt force the last guy to stick around then that's a big red flag. He'd rather pay child support than be with her

@TheRahsoft 4 жыл бұрын

you will find as said below that the women make that choice( and in turn remove the children from their fathers lives with the support of the family courts). Tell me how many you know would walk away from their kids knowing that its likely they will never see them again?even men who are abused put up with it for fear of losing their kids... the big red flag is what the prospective single mother you want to date did to the father of her child( because she will do it to you)

@michaelcummings6178 4 жыл бұрын

ALPA WIDOWED ! !

@Savvynomad225 4 жыл бұрын

Women usually do the breaking off, because daddy state takes care of them.

@patnor7354 4 жыл бұрын

Women are usually the ones breaking up, but that's an even bigger red flag.

@kuunami 4 жыл бұрын

To me it shows a few possibilities. 1)She's not capable of maintaining a healthy relationship 2)If it's the guy's fault it means she has terrible judgment in men or deep down she's really only attracted to guys who are a mess and women always cheat when they're not with the type who they're truly attracted to 3)She got knocked up because she was sleeping around The "it just didn't work out" explanation is ALWAYS bullshit.

@tracyjae209 Жыл бұрын

I’m a single mom and I completely agree. I like men, as in I like that they’re protectors, I love their masculinity, and I would’ve loved for my ex husband to have been a stand up father and husband. He is a good dad now and I’m grateful this divorce motivated him to be a stellar person in their life. It didn’t work out and that’s okay. I’m sad for our kids , the most because they don’t get to see us both everyday, and that’s hard on the kids and hard for anyone coming into a broken situation, plain and simple. There’s no way for a family to break up and there not be some sort of emotional damage across the board. I’m damaged. I don’t believe in intimacy outside of marriage. I don’t believe other people can truly love others kids the way a parent does. I’m concerned bringing other children into a new nuclear family, because our kids grow older and if the parents children are opposite sexes, this can be a HUGE problem. Any parents of children that don’t see this can be a huge problem, is lying to themselves. (LOL as I’m writing this, you just said this). So yes, I completely agree with you and as a single mom will not date and don’t care to have a partner. I’m old. I’ve lived. I’m fulfilled in my career and day to day with my children. I’ve made my decisions and know those decisions led me to a place where dating isn’t in my cards. Marriage while my kids are home and school aged has no room for a new partner, so it could never lead to a new marriage. As a single mother, my advice to women is focus on your children, that is your priority, if you are concerned about finances, you can change that. There’s too many opportunities out there to lie to yourself and make excuses as to why you need someone else to sweep in, have access to your kids, take time away from your kids- it’s not what you want. AND you don’t sleep with someone you aren’t married to, because they’re probably sleeping with many others and as a mother, you need to prioritize your health and promiscuity isn’t healthy and very dangerous. So yes all great points and as a single mother I completely agree that it would be unfair to any guy who tried to ever build a life with me because I’d never love him the way I love and protect my children. It will be a very empty existence for you. I will not ever do this to another innocent human being who had the best intentions. It would be cruel.

@shznn 10 ай бұрын

quite the essay but let me remind you that even though you might somehow figure out the financial part, young women still need sex. What you're saying is basically deny that

@TheNightlonewolf 2 жыл бұрын

His every single word was true to the point. I’ve been in my Hell for the past 20 years, and my step daughter helped create my Living Hell, and I’m just a Zombie in a loveless marriage ready to move on to my next life. DONT get in relationships with mothers with kids, you’ll end up in Hell like me

@Dave.mcclinton 2 жыл бұрын

Wow you serious bro ? 20 years , what age did y’all get married

@hopeislandful 2 жыл бұрын

Yep same happened To my brother. Got involved with a woman who already had two kids. She has multiple mental issues and they've broken up with their own two kids now. Whole thing is a nightmare

@johnjames2817 Жыл бұрын

The kids were actually great to me. Their mother was the real issue. Even they knew and acknowledged she was messing up.

@alexblaze8878 3 жыл бұрын

I got entwined with a single mom of three kids about a year after my last kid left the house (I had full custody). She was beautiful , loved me like crazy, etc, etc. Long story short: she moved out of her cramped tiny apartment and into my large home and I ended up paying about 50% of her and her kid’s living expenses. I had no authority while she doted on her two girls while being overly harsh on her son. About a year later I tried to talk to her about how I thought she was being unfair to her son while refusing to hold her girl’s accountable for their behavior. She basically told me I had no say in the matter. Soo, I said okay you’re out! She moved out a few weeks later and I’ve never looked back nor entertained the idea of dating anyone with kids...other than the occasional hookup.

@drew7481 2 жыл бұрын

Feel-good comment.

@MCLBC 2 жыл бұрын

That's right brother. Single-moms are for banging only...

@SanDiegoBiz Жыл бұрын

You dodged a bullet. Your lucky she didn’t accuse you of molesting them. I know that sounds harsh, but lots of women will do that. They make you look bad, than take you to court and since it’s women first whatever they say is believed and whatever you say.” regardless of the facts “ is thrown out the door. You got off easy, count your blessings everyday!

@alexblaze8878 Жыл бұрын

@@SanDiegoBiz eh, her kids were 14 and 15 at the time and I highly doubt they’d have went along with that lie. Who knows though.

@jeffthedriver8402 3 жыл бұрын

You are 100% correct. On all accounts. I just ended a 11 year marriage to a single mom and everything you mentioned is exactly what happened. Wish I saw this 13 years ago

@fredvanvogt59 2 жыл бұрын

Been there, done that. Her son seemed to constantly, married and in his thirties, want to push in and want attention. Then he had kids. What a wedge. Now with grandkids I was totally on the outs. What the son wanted was be constantly involved. Didn't like us away more than three weeks. I ended it at great expense!

@Jonaythan Жыл бұрын

I'm 38, no kids in tow and just 8 months out of a 14 year relationship with a 29 year old who gave me no children and had none. So that was a waste of my prime years. I had an even more wasted marriage when I was 21. Now I find myself having met a woman who is 38 and has children and I honestly considered it for a moment.. Until I saw this video.

@jowizo8773 10 ай бұрын

I don't think this guy's say on single moms..should stop you from trying with her. It's his opinion but may not apply to every man...set your "terms and conditions" at the beginning with her otherwise you could lose out on being happy because of such unrealistic discouragement. Why don't they also talk about the good things that come out of dating a single mum.. you could be a great hero to a hopeless Child.

@tikaroxanne7286 9 ай бұрын

@@jowizo8773Right not everyone’s story will be the same. They should have chose better women and took better precautions.

@peternorthrup6274 Жыл бұрын

My X has been married 3xs more since me. We have a daughter together. I see my X over the holidays and every time I deliberately call her current husband the wrong name on purpose. I call him one of her other Xs husbands name. She corrects me and I tell them both I'm sorry and tell them I keep getting the men mixed up there's been so many. Boy she gets mad. I do it every time.

@Hansenstephenc 3 жыл бұрын

I married a woman with two kids and everything he says is true.

@michaelmcmaster6464 2 жыл бұрын

My condolences

@mussumbafelix 2 жыл бұрын

I will put you in my prayers

@josephstewart9578 2 жыл бұрын

Every single word

@pablonaveira7050 2 жыл бұрын

dead man walking

@tumlakimwaitumule 2 жыл бұрын

Ticking 💣

@i-never-look-at-replies-lol 4 жыл бұрын

Five reasons to avoid single moms: her, her two kids, and her two baby daddies.

@MrJaybone5 4 жыл бұрын

Good enough for me to avoid single mothers.

@nickgunz 4 жыл бұрын

Lmaooooo

@RackedandStacked 4 жыл бұрын

This video could have been 7 seconds long. XD

@MrJaybone5 4 жыл бұрын

@@RackedandStacked All he had to say was. "Date a single mom, you'll be sorry."

@novakanedj1 4 жыл бұрын

Ouch! I know someone who has just taken on what the OP has just said.

@MikaelGymBro 2 жыл бұрын

Never forget this legendary quote: ''Single mothers don't want love, they need help''

@Crmpies Жыл бұрын

True

@erinknowles8431 Жыл бұрын

I call B.S. - I have been doing everything for my kids since my divorce and I expect nobody else to help me and I rarely need it. I think this can be true in cases but not all single moms date looking for a sugar daddy.

@loveoflife709 Жыл бұрын

@@erinknowles8431 bet you've been getting money from a man

@JoeyMo973 Жыл бұрын

@Erin Knowles Thats respectable that you handle your business. you might be an exception but that doesn't mean the rule isn't true.

@timetraveler2518 2 ай бұрын

Or "Single mothers don't want love, they need your money"

@stevenleslie8557 2 жыл бұрын

My nephew married a woman about 3 years ago that had some serious mental and personal issues. We tried to subtly tell him he would be having problems with her if they married. Predictably, they did marry and her life continued to spiral downward. She died of an accidental overdose about a year later. It was so sad. My nephew then started dating a woman with two children. We tried to tell him this could be trouble down the road. Again, he went forward with the marriage. So far, so good. I wish them the best. Hope it works out.

@NjauNjambathi. Жыл бұрын

"It's one of those things you can't explain to anyone. You have to experience it to believe it LoL."

@InstinktiveEntertainment 4 жыл бұрын

Dating a single mother is like buying an expired lottery ticket.

@vrabo3026 4 жыл бұрын

But a lottery ticket implies there's a chance you'll be rewarded.

@lordeltorious997 4 жыл бұрын

Not if it's expired 😈

@lordeltorious997 4 жыл бұрын

@Anal Sex Stinks yeah true but is her tubes tied

@echd1 4 жыл бұрын

Anal Sex Stinks you’re thinking of pump and dump

@MarineVeteran99 4 жыл бұрын

@Anal Sex Stinks If the kid is over 16 shes already old. 16 the kid is STILL at home.

@211willieparker 3 жыл бұрын

The crazy thing is, even if a woman have grown kids and out of the house, her grandkids take the place of her kids. Its not worth it period.

@jf2164 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao might as well turn gay they are always gonna choose them

@As_A________Commenter 3 жыл бұрын

This is very much true. The myth is that once her kids are grown that she will have tons of free time to “finally have a life of her own” but the reality is it never stops being about “her” family.

@xZazax 3 жыл бұрын

this is very true

@kevc21 3 жыл бұрын

Wow. Thanks for the heads up.

@kevc21 3 жыл бұрын

@@jf2164 heck no. Rosie Palmer is much better.

@othasida2639 4 ай бұрын

I have a friend who announced his engagement on IG, he about to marry a single mom who got 5 kids with 2 baby daddies and her tubes tied, and he got no kids of his own, I didn’t even bother to say congrats

@The1cdccop Жыл бұрын

I replay this video every time I think, "I can make this work".

@bruceblocker1545 4 жыл бұрын

Married twice. First time, wife was upset one day when I was not at home when she thought I should be with her. She packed my belongings and placed them outside. She later apologized and we reconciled with one strong condition. If her answer to a disagreement was to put my belongings outside, it would be the last time. Four yours later, she broke my trust. When she decided that instead of apologizing, she would pack my things up and put them in the living room, that was good enough for me. She eventually apologized, but I told her to chalk it up for her next relationship. Second marriage, my wife of 7 years thought the grass was greener on the other side. When she realized it was only artificial turf, I was already gone. I loved both with only 3 rules. 1. Know who you are, 2 Don't sabotage our marriage, 3 Don't mistake my cherishing you as my wife as something some one else can do for you. When you are a man, expect to be with a woman. If you choose to be with a girl, expect her to act accordingly.

@quan243 4 жыл бұрын

❤️

@eliot5220 4 жыл бұрын

Self preservation brother cause when she leaves she’s with somebody else and don’t give a damn about you.

@ShamblesMD 4 жыл бұрын

Seeing as you are a marriage veteran,can I get your advice on my current position? My former fiancee did that to me too. The final dtraw was when she dropped my stuff off at my job. That embarrassment of my boss coming to me and telling me to put my stuff in my car killed me. I didn't care that the invitations were already mailed out, my family hated her anyways, and instead of celebrating our marriage on our wedding day, my family, friends and I celebrated my breakup. Now I've been married for 8 years to a champ. She likes to cook and clean, she's a kindergarten teacher who loves kids, and she keeps me in check, by which I mean she reminds me at times why I'm the man she married just incase I ever forget my purpose in life. Sadly though, we don't have kids yet because she has a condition that's preventing her from getting pregnant. Although the good news is she's slowly getting better. What made me trust her the most was when we had that discussion of possibly not having kids, she responded that as long as she had me, she didn't care, even if we did In Vitro Fertilization with another woman's eggs, because she "would only see me in them". Sadly however, because of my last relationship, I can't tell if she has some ulterior motives or I should just enjoy the ride with her? I'm choosing the latter right now and I'm at a point where I'm thinking it's safe to assume that she's genuine and I can put my guard down around her more and let her get that much closer to me. What do you think?

@burmiester1 4 жыл бұрын

@@ShamblesMD Just enjoy the ride, sounds like you found a good woman.

@ShamblesMD 4 жыл бұрын

@@burmiester1 Yeah that's probably going to be the plan for at least the foreseeable future. Sometimes shd just seems to be too good to be true. Now she does have her flaws and somewhat of a troubled childhood (Mom abandoned her, leaving her with her dad, 2 little sisters andbaby brother), although she doesn't see it that way because it brought her and her siblings closer together. Also, we are exact opposites of each other, but we have the same ideals. She can get on my nerves a lot, but I blame that on her parents, because her dad's no prize either; choosing his new wife and her daughter over them. This messed up her siblings, but not her. It was like subconsciously that she understood the nature of humans at a young age. Either way, thanks for the input. I honestly like getting outside advice incase I ever put on rose colored glasses without knowing it. I made that mistake before and it felt like I wasted 6 years of my life.

@neckutter 4 жыл бұрын

I stayed with my ex wife for 14 years. Helped raise her daughter from 4-18. She’s now 21 and we had a coffee together to catch up. My ex has remarried and this little girl who I raised(dad was in jail) said she had 3 fathers. I was dumbfounded. I loved her like my own and I was “just another of the 3” after I put 14 years of PTA meetings, driving her to school, teaching her how to fight, teaching her about boys... and I’m just a number. It didn’t hit me so hard until right now.

@markmittens 4 жыл бұрын

You did the right thing but this is why people shouldn't be so concerned about being labeled a jerk you are only a jerk to people who aren't allowed to exploit you. This sounds really difficult hope you bounce back.

@parentaladvisory66 4 жыл бұрын

maybe you took it out of context. young women are horrible at communication.

@Skiiwa 4 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what happened to my step dad with my real mom...

@YogiOabsReborn 4 жыл бұрын

I wonder why you didn't ask about your ex-wife's past 14 years ago.

@jahwhoo 4 жыл бұрын

This guy just saved you 10's of thousands of dollars and most importantly years of time. 🙌

@ultimatejoe71617 11 ай бұрын

Let me just add my experience to validate more what he’s saying. You truly do not matter to single moms. And the women wait at the finish line couldn’t be further from the truth. I was in an off an on relationship with a single mom for 5 years. Talk about dignity. When marriage was proposed it was always a point of contention. Loved her daughter as my own, took care of them sacrificed for them. Yet after all this time the mom wanted the child’s dad to be more of a “dad” to her daughter. Even though I was the one spending time the most time with her. Taking them on trips building memories and being their. You are not a priority, you’re an accessory. Remember that.This guy’s boundaries are a huge tip. Take his advice. You aren’t going to loose. Build yourself know your worth always remember you are the prize. Great video subscribed!

@damianlopez7630 Жыл бұрын

Awesome Video. Thank You Rich Cooper!!!

@alexroyster182 4 жыл бұрын

I'll never get married. I own my own house, Truck, car and no need to be in that prison.

@YesDaddyTDPop 3 жыл бұрын

I knew since middle school that being married is straight 💩

@josephcartaphilus9433 3 жыл бұрын

It quite literally could end you in prison. Child support, nut case lies calling police, etc.

@BobRooney290 3 жыл бұрын

a neighbor of mine said the same thing. then he got cancer in his 40s. in one year, he went from being a biker and hiker and loving life, to not even able to walk to the bathroom. he sat for weeks in his own piss and shit. nobody came to help. he didnt even have the energy to push his own wheelchair. he eventually died a painful death since he couldnt make it to the chemotherapy appointments. the last thing he said was that he wished he had someone, anyone, to give him hope of a fighting chance. or a revolver, lol. most people get a brutal cancer, but later in life, and they usually have a spouse or kids to help. just sayin.

@alexroyster182 3 жыл бұрын

@@BobRooney290 I'll probably die of massive heart attack in my 90s like my grandfather if I get cancer I'll deal with it. I had a friend who had cancer for 18 years and she did it on her own. I would go shopping for her and take her to appointments. And also checked on her everyday. Sounds like your neighbor didnt need a wife or kid to take care of him sounds like he just needed a couple real good friends to help out. Too bad he didn't have any good friends. He probably would still be alive today. I'm lucky I got three brothers that got my back and all are younger. Those are the best friends a man can get. I got their back always and they got mine.

@Hella333 3 жыл бұрын

You’re a catch! Any woman should be lucky to have you :)

@brianmars8624 3 жыл бұрын

I've dated single moms; 2, 3 dates TOPS. When it comes time to meet the "kids", I'm out! I've never let it last more than a few dates (for fun). I don't care about your kids, not interested in paying for their dinners & vacations or dealing with the drama. Great video. 100% FACTS!

@lvteachme973 2 жыл бұрын

I say find another playground. There are many attractive, single women without children who are not looking to get into or rush serious relationship. No need to scrape the bottom of the borrow.

@Nostradamus_Order33 2 жыл бұрын

More power to you. Just tell them that you have kids of your own to meet. She will bolt.

@leeleban6813 2 жыл бұрын

Obviously...but money get everything done... Bitcoin investment helps

@bannedbycommieyoutube5time920 2 жыл бұрын

Just be careful not to knock one up

@oliwiakokoszewska3282 2 жыл бұрын

So long you're open about not being interested long term and everyone's happy you do you.

@uclajd Жыл бұрын

You see single moms on dating apps whose profiles say, "my kids are my life/universe/whole world." I always laugh to myself, "doesn't leave a whole lot left over for your 'significant' other, does it?" And the kids are always "amazing!". No, your kids are average and I don't want to raise them.

@TOT__TV Жыл бұрын

God I love that part “My son is something special” No he’s just a bad ass brat that only you think he’s special because you have no choice but to

@alessandrobernardykayyara206 2 жыл бұрын

Rich, you are an amazingly smart and experienced man. In this video you literally described my current life. In a way i feel happy about knowing what i should do with my life from now on. Thank you very much!

@chrisliv8973 4 жыл бұрын

I am a woman. I always tell my brother to not date single moms. Never, never, never.

@kateholland4102 4 жыл бұрын

I told my 3 brothers that exact same thing

@chrisliv8973 4 жыл бұрын

@@kateholland4102 You seem to love your three brothers as much as I love my 1 brother. As sisters we have to look out for them! Cheers to you!

@refinedgent3942 3 жыл бұрын

You are a great sister for that. Not many girls do that anymore.

@paulmunro3175 3 жыл бұрын

Listen to the women around you who care enough to warn you; they know themselves better than any man can ever hope to know.

@ChrisGS1982 3 жыл бұрын

That's good advice but sadly my own sister became a single mother who is now dating a younger man whos family are spoiling her and her children so much, they are even paying for her and her boyfriend to get a deposit on a house for a mortgage.