Reacting To: Air Force Pilot Obsessed With One Woman.
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3 жыл бұрынAir force pilot obsesses over one woman that got away, looking for advice on how to get her out of his head, and move on to better things.
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@KATASTROPHE69S 3 жыл бұрын
This is off topic, but… is Fight Club a red pill movie?
@curryman3628 3 жыл бұрын
@@KATASTROPHE69S obviously
@SonOfTheOne111 3 жыл бұрын
What’s the point of all of this? Increasing your “game” only keeps you playing games. Is marriage and family ever a good idea? Or should our lives be all about making money, looking good and fucking lots of women?
@thebotfather9508 3 жыл бұрын
usually white people are afraid to speak on bIack issues for fear of being cancelled, but i think Rich should speak on this: "Melli Monaco - A Black Man Who Doesn’t Date Black Women 😳OMG"
@southpole380 3 жыл бұрын
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@tubenachos 3 жыл бұрын
Dude is a pilot he can choose any woman he wants 😢
@invisiblerevolution 3 жыл бұрын
The modern woman doesn't care about what a man does... only how he can satisfy her needs.
@whatithinksingh 3 жыл бұрын
Emotions bro. Understand.
@deplorableb.r.4211 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. To women, pilots = travel.
@santana9434 3 жыл бұрын
@@deplorableb.r.4211 lol what
@domirican81 3 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t even have to talk much… Pilot: Sup. Her: What do you do? Pilot: Fighter Pilot. Her: (hands him her panties) 💦
@macdaddy2727 3 жыл бұрын
I've been in the Air Force for 18 years. I've seen this same situation time and time again. I'm not sure why a man of his significance would even consider dating another military woman. These women are pursued so heavily since the time they put their uniforms on for the first time. It's absolutely insane how many options military women have, they will take advantage of every single time.
@ramiroramirez6580 3 жыл бұрын
This is true. I f’d up and dated a med chick here at my base and the sex was great, but took me time to realize she had many red flags. Partying being the main one.
@medicisounds1384 3 жыл бұрын
Military women and law enforcement women are a NO GO ZONE Most of the girls that join the military are low class and are passed around the platoon
@sixten7920 3 жыл бұрын
@@medicisounds1384 yah these women are in situations where dudes are around a bunch of other dudes most of the time so they just wanna get a nut, and the women are vastly out numbered so they have tons of options.
@coldsteel2105 3 жыл бұрын
It's the same with young women in college and everywhere else, not just in the military. The only difference between a garden tool and a regular chick is that a regular chick is more worried about her reputation and more discreet. Instead of waiting for a unicorn, learn game, spin plates and do the work. THERE ARE NO UNICORNS. Let the women worry about serious relationships, because it benefits them more than men.
@terrorrbabbletwo 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on. Been in 15 years myself and had to learn the hard way. Statistically, we have the best looking women compared to other branches but looks aside, pretty much every female in the military behave the same and have that same sense of self entitlement when it comes to men. It’s even WORSE on deployments. You already know. E’s secretly hooking up with O’s is obviously forbidden, but happens more than people realize. I’d rather be single than date another AF girl 😂✌🏼
@Ken-no5ip 3 жыл бұрын
You gotta know when to stop chasing the enemy mig..
@aboredvi3t 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha comment of the year
@roberthagedorn290 3 жыл бұрын
@@aboredvi3t Yeah. I'm thinking about that one. I second the vote.
@nicfirebear 3 жыл бұрын
“Every nickel is a dime in the military.”
@barrygregory913 3 жыл бұрын
I'm obsessed with Noelle Anzivine and was also in the Air Force ironically 🇺🇸
@bigfudge6580 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@SH-gc3vy 2 жыл бұрын
I’m the IDF we would say: “Every Thistle in the city is a Rose in the desert”
@SH-gc3vy 2 жыл бұрын
I’m the IDF we would say: “Every Thistle in the city is a Rose in the desert”
@SH-gc3vy 2 жыл бұрын
I’m the IDF we would say: “Every Thistle in the city is a Rose in the desert”
@JohnSmith-ld8hg 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a fighter pilot myself, so trust me on this: there are no cheat codes. You think it's that simple? Just flirt with chicks anywhere and pretend you are a fighter pilot, and see how easy it is. TLDR: it's not. Socially, being a fighter pilot gives you three seconds of attention with women, like many other things. If you play it well, it can be used to initialize contact, build some clout or provide social proof in some situations. However, it doesn't turn your mindset into some natural alpha Chad. It doesn't make you aware of sexual dynamics. It doesn't cure you from oneitis. It doesn't turn you into a sex god. On the contrary, military personnel are oftentimes heavily inclined to sacrifice and to "do what's right", resulting in bad decision-making with women. Most coworkers I know are very unaware, and do the same types of mistakes Rich is continously trying to teach men about. It helps in another way, though. Being a fighter pilot includes a lot of practicing, physical training, and personal development. Countinously pushing ones comfort zone, learning how to fly, how to fight and how to lead, will develop you as a person and build general confidence and self awareness. These things will build your character and can help your game/life, but this can also be achieved by many other means. Any person wholeheartedly engaging in a craft/skill/training will achieve similar traits. Becoming a fighter pilot boosted my game just marginally. However, the things I've learned from all the Rule Zero guys have boosted my game tremendously.
@dannyrazavi5957 2 жыл бұрын
...It’s my dream to be a fighter pilot. I’m a SrA, deployed right now but headed back to Cali soon and in my last year of uni. What do you fly?
@CEWIII9873 Жыл бұрын
@@dannyrazavi5957 The only thing you will ever "fly" is a burger grill
@spectator6964 3 жыл бұрын
The woman needs to be a complement to his life. She should always be SECONDARY to the pursuit of excellence!
@TechnoVikingAviation 3 жыл бұрын
They are called help meat for a reason guys, remember even God knows that!
@stevensmith5254 3 жыл бұрын
@Cmndr Roy Fokker why should she be above your friends unless its just about sex and that wont last.thats a player narsistic attitude unless your just starting out a relationship.this guys advice seems off.
@ED-yd3xd 3 жыл бұрын
Lala say ahhhhhhhh....
@user-ek4ic2ip9e 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of non-pilots in the comment section remarking how pilots can just take their pick...well as a military aviator, I wish that was the case, but in my experience most civilian women either do not understand or care what I do, are not interested in learning, or worse see it as a red flag: "He'll never be around" "I'll have to move all the time" "That's dangerous!" "I just don't _get_ the military" "Military guys are all low-brow conservatives looking for housewives" and so forth. Actually one of the more disappointing realizations of my adult life.
@qud3913 3 жыл бұрын
Then quit military and stop being a lap dog for the government?
@abram_gw 3 жыл бұрын
@@qud3913 You have a US President / career politician from a political dynasty as your profile picture dude
@qud3913 3 жыл бұрын
@@abram_gw And? Is he the government today? The government absolutely loathes the guy I replied to, not to mention we've been taking L's the past 50 years. The best a US pilot can do today is kill some family in Syria & Iraq or drop some weapons for ISIS.. etc.
@abram_gw 3 жыл бұрын
@@qud3913 I understand where you're coming from
@skikarno739 3 жыл бұрын
They get angry when I say the "chopppah" has a weight limit...your mum has to "weight" on the tarmac...emeny close..... boom
@Euro316 3 жыл бұрын
As a current military member having a similar problem, what you said about them being 4's thinking their 9's is painfully accurate.
@RedM-lk6fk 3 жыл бұрын
Holy shit. I caught myself making excuses for why I couldn't get over my first girlfriend even 10 years later. I told myself she had qualities that not a lot of girls held today. Got the oneitis bad. I will be buying your book.
@supertruthfortynine 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's an illusion. Believing you have/had the one! Loads of birds out there. They're all or nearly all the same. Pretty much. Once I realised this my life improved massively. As I no longer cared all that much about things that weren't worth caring all that much about! I'm seeing 3 birds at the moment. They're all different, yet all the same as well. Enjoy!
@shitmandood 3 жыл бұрын
10 years later? Jesus, dude. Oneitis doesn't last that long...My oneitis stopped many years back once I realized this wasn't a thing that was just happening to me alone, many have it... Once I realized it was all bullshit, that lady stuck in my head faded out of the picture. I didn't even understand why she was there or why she wouldn't leave for so long, but I did understand it was my own mind dreaming up fantasies.
@supertruthfortynine 3 жыл бұрын
@@robertrecchia2642 this is absolutely spot on.
@drsoorajkiranrs9884 3 жыл бұрын
Once we start watching this channel there is no going back..
@DK-rt5wq 2 жыл бұрын
Haaa Bilal ikka, sheriyaanu 😆
@ch3nz3n 3 жыл бұрын
The best way to get over someone... is to get on someone else. If homie is a pilot, he should have no problems getting a few other someones.
@leandroestradatv 3 жыл бұрын
This seems cliche but in fact it's true. Or into some new projects
@kasrakh86 3 жыл бұрын
Real talk. The real crazy thing is this guy can spin plates with woman in different countries since he's a pilot.
@Simon-og5vy 3 жыл бұрын
But no worse feeling than the post nut clarity that she’s not as good as the ex . I rather just be alone for while than experience that feeling
@agirlyman 3 жыл бұрын
It's funny that he says "she has no red flags" yet she's not with him. I think that's a huge red flag.
@jrhamilton4448 3 жыл бұрын
Brother I'd put down a grand betting she's dating a guy who isn't nearly as cool as the pilot but that dude is probably completely aloof to her may just be dating her for temporary kicks ie, friends with benefits where as the pilot has puppy eyes for her. Chicks know this they can sense it.
@blues9934 3 жыл бұрын
Former combat arms trade here. I can say even ugly girls get tons of attention on army bases. Bunch of bored army guys some who are stuck on base most of the week, whos standards don't exist will constantly be trying to get in her pants flooding her with attention, it will never be worth the headache.
@osher7788 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true, I served in the IDF, in some bases the ratio of men to women was like 700 to 1!
@shitmandood 3 жыл бұрын
They want to play musical beds at the office.
@CEWIII9873 Жыл бұрын
@@shitmandood Ha! This created a great image in my head
@AbelMusa 2 жыл бұрын
Heartbreak hurts so fucking bad. It can make everything you've ever accomplished into dust. I totally understand this guy.
@CEWIII9873 Жыл бұрын
Don't have a heart - have a pump simple
@somguy728 3 жыл бұрын
The airforce needs to up their standards, how can we expect him to smash our enemies when he can't see the one in his own bed?
@ian2372 3 жыл бұрын
It's the Biden era. Our military is now woke and cares more about feelings and "white supremacists" than war fighting.
@AP530 3 жыл бұрын
Who is the enemy??
@Volksinformant 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate. Oneitis is a very dangerous mental condition for every man out there. It can destroy your integrity and it is as dangerous as a severe mental depression. If left untreated it can lead to death because of suicide or unemployment and homelessness. Been there done that. The worst: she didn't even care. NEVER AGAIN!
@spremegraphy8296 3 жыл бұрын
Another guy from Portugal here, be your own mental point of origin, put yourself first. That should erase oneitis by itself.
@jose37maria 3 жыл бұрын
Portuguese here! I'm in same boat :/
@jose37maria 3 жыл бұрын
@@joaoportugal8618 after I broke up with her and sent her some heavier messages, she never spoke to me again for herself, apart from the 1 week thing when she sent me an invoice that I needed and had already asked for a long time. . Apart from that she says she doesn't want to talk to me, much less see me. Whenever she saw me she would reconnect with me. But now even when I start the conversation she doesnt talks to me and I'm blocked in everything.
@---nj7hl 3 жыл бұрын
@@joaoportugal8618 Haha I'm a female. SMH. As a female, I wished I knew about this in my 20s. I had One-itis. It was baaad. Thank you for the info. I AM Gonna Put myself on a Pedestal And Do Me. I guess I'm too "alpha" and lmao guys just stare. Blessings. And Thank You for Your Service. I Salute You!!!💎
@neomacchio4692 2 жыл бұрын
Volks… wow. Maybe the best comment I’ve ever read. Cheers mate!
@zesticide1010 2 жыл бұрын
There's a saying in the military, "If you branch of service wanted you to be married, they would issue you a spouse.
@TekkLuthor 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't wish Oneitis on my worst enemies
@everardoreyes1411 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@joemar9234 3 жыл бұрын
Rich Cooper, write the name of your next "book"
@richardhickok3523 3 жыл бұрын
I got thru stomach cancer and my wife passing away easier !
@TekkLuthor 3 жыл бұрын
@@joemar9234 I should write that book myself. Id put a chapter in there called, "get laid in 60 seconds"
@supertruthfortynine 3 жыл бұрын
The guys right. There's loads of birds out there. I renember as younger guy thinking every bird was 'the one!'. They're all the same. Lose one, just look for another. And the next one will probably be not that much different to the last. And the one before that...
@JamesParus 3 жыл бұрын
when I was like 19 and in Army(airforce), we took part in this big Fair/expo and we had one fighter pilot there. guy was short and small, but women flocked him the whole day non stop as he stood there in the green flying overalls. that was a eye opener. jeez. My friend looked at it and said, "we need to get those flying overalls".
@jdmdecal 3 жыл бұрын
Something I can share with fellow pilots who seem to think unicorns exist. Thanks!
@launchpadmcquack4971 3 жыл бұрын
You got to know when to hold em, know when to fold em, know when to walk away when the dealings done….
@johntuzinde3190 3 жыл бұрын
Hotboi and Future recently said: " Nobody special, I think all these girls the same".
@petergreek38 3 жыл бұрын
After 15 years of marriage I betatized myself through 1000 concessions. After she cheated I should've been devastated but I'm not. Essentially I realized the fault was mine because I lost my frame. You have preassigned frame my dude. You walk into most situations with the knowledge that you're an AF pilot, good looking/fit and successful. Don't pedestalize women. It's the worst thing we can do as men. She should be clawing to get at you, if she's not, move on to the next one because she's not worth your time. You have to believe that you're the one she needs to catch if you want them to believe it too.
@manthings1568 3 жыл бұрын
Im in my 50s married divorced, plenty of GFs since and looking back, yes over time even the most masculine men become betas in LTR. It is scientifically proven that single men have more testosterone then similar men in mono relas. T drop is slow and insidious. Its hard for men to notice.
@petergreek38 3 жыл бұрын
@@manthings1568 48 myself. The great news is. Diet, exercise and focus on financial well being brings that T-level up and unlocks that Lion within. I had declared bankruptcy, lost the house, my job, she cheated on me and now divorce. I should be floored. I'm not. I'm relieved. I can focus on regaining what I gave up. Being single is freedom.
@manthings1568 3 жыл бұрын
@@petergreek38 Yes I agree freedom is great. Ive been single for a few months but Ive been managing my T for 4 years all naturally currently in mid 700s so all good.
@johncorson6599 3 жыл бұрын
Even if they are clawing at you, it doesn’t mean they are worth it. I just put the kabash yesterday on a gf because the clawing for commitment was overbearing but she had already disrespected me and trusting her was out of the question .. shes insecure as hell and has been her whole life, at the same time pushing her will and thoughts on me as if they are my own .. no respect from her .. no thanks .. her response to my putting her off on any commitment (faithfulness and commitment are NOT the same thing though commitment is widely considered to be the same as faithfulness ) .was to make sure I knew she was going to continue, in harsh fashion to me, to return to how she was living her life prior to me .. she thought also ALL the women at her job were jealous of her .. so ridiculous .. no wonder why I never met ANY of them .. she was afraid they would try to get with me is my conclusion and I know I’m not that good looking but I have a good job, savings, etc and am relatively even keeled about most things .. I feel relieved though the gf wants me to feel pain .. the pain is wasted time ..
@petergreek38 3 жыл бұрын
@@johncorson6599 I have never had issues dating. I managed a toppless bar for years and met the lowest of the low and have dated women who are absolute 10's as in looks, charm, femininity, respectful and intelligent. I've found that reminding yourself to always live in abundance is key. women would rather share an alpha than stay faithful to a beta male. so they will jump through hoops if they know that not only do you have 0 tolerance for any of her BS but you'll replace her without a second thought and she knows that you can. this is a powerful tool that keeps a woman in check and brings out her natural and instinctive submissiveness, her feminine and maternal instincts.
@realtalk2036 3 жыл бұрын
Women choose Pilots because it's a cool profession and the guys out of town half the time... give them time to keep CHAD in the mix
@ramiroramirez6580 3 жыл бұрын
Really good info!! Especially someone like myself who is enlisted in the Airforce trying to become a pilot myself. I happen to work on Airplanes and recommended your book to one of my 27 year old pilot friends I met at work. He happened to have lost his girlfriend due to her leaving him later in his airforce career after they were living together and he proposed. He read your book after my recommendation and likes the content!
@ChrisESil 3 жыл бұрын
Advise for AF Pilot: 1. Buy Unplugged Alpha Printed Copy. Don't get the Audio. Get the print book so you can carry it with you, read it, and re-read it. It's a lifestyle and that's a Bible. 2. Are you a student of fighting arts? Doesn't sound like it. A person involved in fighting arts tend to cultivate a savage mentality and don't sweat the small stuff. You may have the outer body of a Lambo, but still running a Corolla engine. Tom Cruise look? Sounds like a pretty boy outlook. Get rogued, look like you have no issues breaching a door, walking in mud, and jumping in the cage and killing. 3. What worked then, won't work now. Being a pilot may have carried you for a bit, but that ain't going to cut it anymore. You need to get in there and do the work. Remember, it's a De-Selection process, not Selection. Instead of sitting in a fetal position, by the corner, around a pool of urine, rocking back and forth soobing for being ghosted, get up and start doing the work. Be safe. Be dangerous.
@LuisDiaz-bo8jq 3 жыл бұрын
Really liked your comment. I can feel the wisdom on your words
@Scottirulez 3 жыл бұрын
Stop shilling his book, you can get better information for free on the Heartiste blog
@GTpereira17 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Rich for all your great self development advice !
@BallisticAviation 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not even an Airforce pilot and my relatively simple civillian ratings already get me further than I ever imagined. Can't understand having this oneitis when you've achieved the demi-god status of Airforce Pilot.
@keanowhitmore8009 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah exactly, so many dudes average everyday Joe's put so much effort into building themselves and there career to be able to have access to many women, and they never seem to get a break, and all these rich celebs and high ranking official "alphas" are getting run through the cleaners and cucked left and right, I've I got the chance to be high value or whatever you know damn well I ain't catching no feelings, you only have one life theres gonna be a time where you'll need a forklift just to get it up. Have fun while your young
@---nj7hl 3 жыл бұрын
@@keanowhitmore8009 LMAO ur last sentence got me rofl. 😂🤣😅 Female here and learning a lot.
@motorbikemadness5773 3 жыл бұрын
She just exhibited a HUGE red flag: Dating more than one man.
@elmarsupial6483 3 жыл бұрын
I have two kids, If my marriage collapse I'll never get married anymore. I just don't care
@googlespies 3 жыл бұрын
You care. That's why you're smart enough to never get married again.
@Toxic_Male_Minimalist 3 жыл бұрын
You’re not hers, you’re just her turn.
@FirstLast-tx3yj 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha you're not hers its just her turn... Ur sentence is just Fu**ed in so many ways
@Toxic_Male_Minimalist 3 жыл бұрын
@@FirstLast-tx3yj good
@samhot0 3 жыл бұрын
I m not hers, it's just her turn....
@Faisal-cz5if 3 жыл бұрын
The truth hurts but it’s necessary
@tomcripps7229 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Rich. I don't have this problem just a little down in the dumps and needed to hear my big buddy.
@philippegauthier9692 3 жыл бұрын
she as no red flag dude , she dating multiple men at the same time , you just don't want to admit it
@amans6105 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for all your great work
@bigwrig0485 3 жыл бұрын
Well dating multiple ppl at same time and drops you and comes back only to drop you again seems like a red flag to me
@carni4873 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like homie doesn't know how to stay on his purpose & chase excellence!!!
@sipusic03 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely great advices👍
@diveshs295 3 жыл бұрын
Abundance mindset is priceless.
@manthings1568 3 жыл бұрын
Im in my 50s I thought I had a unicorn, she had a very low body count, is sexy in great shape, healthy, great career, hard worker, independent, has her shit together...but a very bad exercise addiction that took most of her time and energy on the weekends. Lasted 3 years and now over. THERE ARE NO UNICORNS. There is always some issue.
@SonGoku-zr9nc 3 жыл бұрын
She already wasn't a unicorn when she lost her virginity before marriage let alone having a body count at all
@---nj7hl 3 жыл бұрын
I feel as a female No one is Perfect. I guess best thing to do is choose what is the Best for You.
@blazecosko7506 3 жыл бұрын
I have that same shirt, Hollister shirts fit really well
@massimobargagna5641 3 жыл бұрын
if you can t walk away you are the weak one
@JoeMercersWay 3 жыл бұрын
Oneitis is a tough bug to shift. Working hard on it (deleted her basically) but I get the feelings of frustration that she hasn't just gone from me. Doesn't stop me getting on but I guess time is a healer. I just know on the flip side she'll have forgotten all about me so it's just a frustration that I can't just kill it off easily. Just keep working on myself and perservering but I'd love to just have an off switch for it.
@NickRedstar 3 жыл бұрын
This is common in the military. I have a brother that was in the army. He was high ranked in a high profile job. He was married 3 times. He invited a train wreck of a woman into his life. Now he’s in illegal trouble because of it.
@harvestingseason2725 3 жыл бұрын
Does he have kids?
@CEWIII9873 Жыл бұрын
How much was the reward when you turned him in?
@sendtacos1824 3 жыл бұрын
Tacos for the algorithm 🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮
@ingenierosdeexito2862 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice Rich, I'm having several points for me
@juanluis2092 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Rick. Great content brother. Really enjoy it. Which books would you recommend to learn/improve game?
@28goldenboy 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't know Rich shopped at Hollister lol
@jtoneal3344 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice. I have caught "Oneitis" about 6 times already over the years. Currently suffering from it now. So I am dating multiple women currently (I had dates with 4 different women this week and banged 2 of them), working my butt off with new business projects, and working out just about every day. The Oneitis is still there but like a dull annoyance such as a minor tooth ache that festers.
@coldsteel2105 3 жыл бұрын
Instead of waiting for a unicorn, learn game, spin plates and do the work. THERE ARE NO UNICORNS. Let the women worry about serious relationships, because it benefits them more than men.
@harvestingseason2725 3 жыл бұрын
Fax
@vernefits1953 3 жыл бұрын
awesome book
@justdewit 3 жыл бұрын
Need to get my game up too!
@1simo93521 3 жыл бұрын
Dude is suffering from saviour complex, he feels the need to 'save her and be a hero' like a lot of military guys. Basically a blue pill alpha.
@dadteaches 3 жыл бұрын
Zoomie is still stuck in the mentality he was before the military, where people made fun of him. He would serve himself well if he just dropped that part of his life and based his life and how he acted based on who he is now.
@jackassqwe2 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not easy being a pilot for the air force. I’m about to enlist and know there will be people like him around.
@gurpreetsingh-em4vs 3 жыл бұрын
He needs to become a pilot of his inner self as well
@_Balaur_ 3 жыл бұрын
The Ghost of Sparta saving lives and taking names
@whitenip84 3 жыл бұрын
US Military Veteran and traveler here. I love traveling because of the different women I meet with different cultural views. You're content is great and it fortifies my beliefs that most western women, especially in the US (specifically Los Angeles) are not worth the hassle. You can find hotter chicks with more burning desire for you in another country being an American than being an American in America.
@hgrgrnd1206 3 жыл бұрын
The longer I'm in a healthy relationship, the more I realize how counterproductive some of this information is. It's good to have some red pill awareness, but don't wear it like some badge of honor. If you do, you'll always see women as the enemy. It's not a healthy way to live. Sure be a little vigilant when selecting who you're going to spend your life with. But trust me, there are good traditional, God fearing women still out there. Set your intentions correct. Most men are just simply trying to game women. Thats what these communities teach you. If you game, don't be shocked when the game turns on you. Peace red pill'rs, I'm out. Even if my relationship crashes and burns, I won't return to these toxic ideologies ✌
@stevec3526 3 жыл бұрын
I am married now, however some of the most toxic women I dated I met at church.
@Sohelanthropus 2 жыл бұрын
@@stevec3526 lol for real? Mind sharing some quick info on that?
@stevec3526 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sohelanthropus Personality disorders...
@Sohelanthropus 2 жыл бұрын
@@stevec3526 I feel that, I've met a couple of church girls myself, most are aight but this chick Sophia was a crazy manipulator bro, to this day just thinking about her gives me the shivers
@fit4taskfit4task49 3 жыл бұрын
Once is a Mistake.....Twice is a Choice
@tonyhouston205 3 жыл бұрын
Just ordered TWO Unplugged Alpha, for me and a friend
@aragon988 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not an expert in psychology, but in some cases like this, people tend to choose someone who is actually treating them bad, or at least not good enough. Normally most of the cases goes down to an earlier past that they went through, guys find themselves repeating it subconsciously. He mentioned that he was the fat guy in the school, well maybe and just maybe that's a good start to where these problems are coming from. If you are reading my comment, consider meeting a real therapist with real understanding to human psychology. I'm not saying the advice that will come from these red pill community aren't good, it's actually perfect to solve the outside problem and the current situation. Where the real problem might reside deep down untouched.
@kenrehill8775 3 жыл бұрын
Seemingly in this world, nice is better than good.
@mikeingeorgia1 Жыл бұрын
There are WAY more land mines in the minefield than daisies lol
@adrianafit4098 3 жыл бұрын
Been there LONG ago brother, time heals all.. You have to walk away and allow time to do it's thing on this one.
@bryantharris5914 3 жыл бұрын
Women's are confusing if you try to talk through their logic with them, but become pretty transparent if you just watch their actions. If she's banging someone else, you weren't her first choice, the best you could hope for is clean up duty while she keeps looking for whatever she considers her next top shelf guy. I think your energy would be better spent on finding a woman who does see you as top shelf.
@ashog1426 3 жыл бұрын
I been kinda goin through this myself...it never ever works.... the girls becomes an unattainable thing instead of just some dumb girl who farts all the time
@harpyeagle5814 2 жыл бұрын
A pilot I worked with, real cool guy, got loaaaads of women. I saw it first hand 😂
@manthings1568 3 жыл бұрын
I've come to the conclusion that spinning plates may not be the answer or not the single answer. Not giving a fuck about dating is a very good option. I consider myself a mid-high value man and Im at a point where Im good with a woman or without. Just caring less about relas. If it comes I take it, if it doesnt thats ok too.
@tonymccartney2829 3 жыл бұрын
this
@deagor4578 3 жыл бұрын
Spinning plates is a huge factor to this mess
@MTG9878 3 жыл бұрын
Dudes gonna wind up like GOOSE, flat spin out at sea!
@davidjohnson-kg5gm 3 жыл бұрын
I received a ton of value completely different way of thinking
@metalkreatorx37 3 жыл бұрын
"He's lost it Goose....he lost that 'common sense' feeling to oneitis" Goose: "Oh damn I hate when that happens"
@Pentoute45 3 жыл бұрын
Her main red flag is to not have genuine desire for him. And that’s an eliminatory one right off the bat. Ive read Rich’s book and the chapters covering game, dating and texting should be applied to the letter. No jet fighter science (pun intended) and for a pilot, the results are basically guaranteed. “Talk to him Goose !”
@BoltUpright190 3 жыл бұрын
I hope the woman he dated wasn't a runner-up to "Miss" Nevada. 🤣
@mouthpiece200 3 жыл бұрын
I tell my girlfriend I do every girl in town. She doesn't believe me.
@starguy2718 3 жыл бұрын
Other aviation terminology: * get-there-itis * target fixation
@ajhill5094 3 жыл бұрын
She DOES have red flags. And she is in the air force (same for all branches of military) and she is getting bombarded daily by countless men. When I was in, I had a ground rule; never get with another service member.
@blondewoman1 3 жыл бұрын
'She has no red flags.' 'She broke up with me' 'She is dating another man' --> THOSE ARE HUGE RED FLAGS
@paulplart7896 3 жыл бұрын
Great videos, I am allowing men here in Pyongyang to follow your channel. Dating is hard here to.
@Ace.0.0.0. 3 жыл бұрын
I am surprized you have access to this channel. Even the PRC removes certain internet addresses from their people.
@joegaragozzo1640 5 ай бұрын
Air Force Pilot literally translates to panty remover. Come on bro....don't do this to us.😂
@jemand8462 3 жыл бұрын
"your game sucks" okay..... and now what?!
@pat2oven 3 жыл бұрын
For the record that’s a naval aviator for the thumbnail
@se7ensiinz 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine being a badass Air Force pilot and having Oneitis… c’mon dude?!
@keanowhitmore8009 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, the shit we know now especially in 2021 dealing with women, how in the hell you gonna be skimping for one chick.
@LeeJF1 3 жыл бұрын
That's just the external tho we're more than what we do but it can help of course. Real recovery's an inside job
@mouthpiece200 3 жыл бұрын
I've found the girl of my dreams, she is amazing and no girl can measure up to her ever. I've done this many times.
@beats995 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@jasgap 3 жыл бұрын
Spin plates that’s it
@thiscouldbeatrap 3 жыл бұрын
Where we can learn about "game" and improve it? A good book title? THKS!
@thesurvivalist. 3 жыл бұрын
Sad!
@tym5583 3 жыл бұрын
My family just went into the army and is obsessed with his gf. I'm sure she'll leave him why he's gone
@filippavlakovic4478 2 жыл бұрын
youtubers; don't focus on women also youtubers in 99% of their videos: here's what you need to know about women
@hydroxychloroquine5078 3 жыл бұрын
Airforce pilot should have oneitis only for the plane he flys.
@olhcolhc4066 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of times when you are ghosted is not that she didn't like you, is that she is in a relationship and tryed you on the side that's all... especially if you are Mr. pilot
@buxxlife 3 жыл бұрын
Hey man, can you talk about the topic of death? I'm 17 and I keep thinking and fearing about watching my parents pass or my loved ones down the road and I can't sleep at night please guide me
@jemand8462 3 жыл бұрын
I think the number of right swipes on tinder doesn't mean that it's because of the job description. In my experience, pilots (civil and military) are a specific kind of people, they tend to look a certain way, which is mostly very attractive. Same applies for dentists and some doctors. So it could be all because of looks, not job. As for doctors, my experience as one is that it'S also all about looks, I don't get many right swipes, no matter if I put my occupation in the text or not.
@SuperArt7 3 жыл бұрын
Being in the Air Force myself it's wild to see him have them mentality when saying you fly would get you so much ass. The pilots i know never have a problems getting women.
@terramatela6351 2 жыл бұрын
Well when women leave or ghost you constantly, it just means you get more opportunities to move on. I don't really like dating a lot of women at the same time (they get clingy and spiteful that I have s*** to do) however, even though I never say it directly, they get a sense that I have options and I move on fast. In other words, you have to relish a breakup, because this gives you an opportunity to see other women. Honestly, for every girl who you might think is one-of-kind, there's 20 girls she is friends with who are exactly the same and 100 more you haven't met because you don't want to be with anyone else but the one who you don't want to move on from. I think the biggest red flag about the girl he is into is that she won't give him 100%. As a high value man you always have to accept nothing less than 100% from your woman.
@smeet69 3 жыл бұрын
to summarize.. this AF dude got no game, imagine that.. he should have been a sailor...lol
@Dan-cg8zl 3 жыл бұрын
Looool
@VampiresCrypt 3 жыл бұрын
This is unbelievable, I mean the training the guy must went through is so hard it surpasses dating and even freakin women but I guess the brain doesnt know that!
@DanielEarl 3 жыл бұрын
Where do you start with learning game? Are there any resources for beginners?
@mococaboy17 3 жыл бұрын
david de angelo
@DanielEarl 3 жыл бұрын
@@mococaboy17 thanks
@hareeba5879 3 жыл бұрын
Corey Wane is the best for game etc
@Summerlyfecapital Жыл бұрын
The most logical resonance of the UNICORN MYTH is the fact that all of us with beta oneitis have a different unicorn. It’s not the same litter it’s litterly any girl who brings gratification to the Man U think u are and exposes the truth about esteem . If the unicorn is real then we all love one small pool of girls . Not possible. Hey . Even if she is a unicorn, it’s not your unicorn it’s just your turn to ride . Lol
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