Sithembile is our last born daughter. Yes; she went through a rough patch at a very tender age; got divorced at age 29 after they were married for 4 years and 5 months. Her hubby divorced her because she would not agree with the path of worshipping he was deviating to.

Five minutes in and I am already learning... I loved the part where she said it's all about choice. ISo good

For a while now I've been watching podcasts where people that are being interviewed are divorced people within the church. I'm noticing that the voice or opinion of God regarding who to marry seems to be disregarded or rather maybe confirmation isn't being asked? I believe that the lord we serve is so faithful that if we were to seek Him regarding the people we are supposed to marry then he would intervene. I think as a church in SA we forget that we also need to be led by the voice of God when it comes to choosing our partners and not for us to just take matters into our own hands. We cannot trust ourselves to make such an important choice rather let us trust the one who created us. I think we forget that marriage itself is ministry so God's glory should be reflected by it. I think we need to emphasize to the church more about being guided by God's voice especially when it comes to this matter because marriage is a covenant that isn't meant to be broken. The rate of divorces that take place should be a sign to us that there's something we are missing, we are missing the voice of God. Our judgement is not sufficient, especially when it comes to such matters.

I know they say divorce is painful,but my marriage was more painful and I’m going through divorce right now and I still can’t forgive myself for not doing it earlier

Divorce is painful...but the grace of God is sufficient ❤ I saw the grace of God when I was going through the divorce.

I followed her ex hubby on FB and honestly, I discerned the 360 turn she talked about. Though it must’ve been hard to do, I’m so proud of you for choosing God over your ex-husband. May God continue to show off his faithfulness in your life, sisi Sithembile!

Yoh! My sister. You nailed it. We make our husbands the kings, idols and rulers of our lives and we neglect our personal relationship with the One True King Jesus Christ.

Why does it feel like you are telling my story 😩😩❤️

One thing about God, angeke avume unyawo lakho lushelele 🙏🏼 I also got separated because of having an alter introduced in our home…. Soze sana 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Why am I crying 😅😅😅...

Greater is He that is in us, than the one that is in the world.

You are so good in interviewing Queen

Listened to the entire video and I couldn't get how a true born again, spirit filled blood washed child of God could possibly get married to a pastor who later turned out to be a Sangoma without any signs or warning of danger. As a divorcee myself I've studied this topic intensity because I really wanted healing and understanding. One thing I've noted is that the wages of sin is death and divorce is truly death. I've learnt that God always warns His children of danger and we choose to listen to Him or chase what we want, mostly due to lack of knowledge, lust of the flesh or pride of life. However, I had my aha! moment when Sithembile mentioned only in the end that the elders of her childhood church did try to warn her against marrying this man. So God did warn her but she chose what she chose, the wages of sin is death regardless of what our hearts may think.

this was so beautiful to watch, God Restores my sister and its how you narrate the story it shows you are fully healed, learnt and understood why God had to make you go through all of that❤ you are so beautiful and for the fact that you chose God He is going to reward and you still young marriage will come God willingly❤❤❤

Wow, plz keep sharing such stories. We go thru hardships on closed doors and think your alone and no way out. Holding on and having faith that tomorrow will be better is what we need. Thank u. Loved it.

Queen, you definitely know the assignment. Good job . Sthembisile, you are such a strong and beautiful woman of God.

Sthembile my daughter..you are beautiful..I am taking my hat off for your God our God and for you.Thank you for choosing your God and choosing yourself.I am happy you are co parenting your little girl.. Soldier on my daughter❤ ❤

Spiritual dancing I remember those days home Oasis girl. yho divorce compared to grief it must be really tough wow. I'm so proud of you girl you are helping so many people

Refreshing chat highlighting Gods restoration.

Just stumbled on this and m so taken by both of you ladies nibahle. Sthembile you are a strong blessed woman❤