I left into hiding 4weeks before the wedding coz the red flags were becoming bloody red .17yrs later I dont regret my decision .Narcissist are so good to other people to shield their toxicity

I love this. You are God's favor personified. Thanks for edifying us with your testimony sister Annah.

You are such a living testimony

What a mature woman I really learned a lot❤

We see the red flags, then believe we can change and heal the broken. Wrong move.

My sister you entered the life of that broken man and broken family with your blessings and when you left, your blessings followed you too. May u continue to prosper!

Marriage desperation gets and keeps women in very toxic scenarios. “Men of god” average worst abusers and they know the church is where they will get billable naive desperate women who jump into marriages ignoring all red flags. God doesn’t call us to be dumb. He calls us to use our spirit of discernment.

It's like you're narrating my story. I went through the same route. I left after 4yrs as he cheated after tolerating all the narcissistic behavior

The willingness to endure and stay after everything puzzles me, faith is really a powerful thing. Am glad though you eventually left.

I hear everything she is saying neh but I can't wrap my head around this... You married into a family who's culture encourages leaving your kids behind😢. What kind of practice is this? What is the reason? What is your child supposed to do when mum or dad leaves them to build a home with another man or woman in a different location? Die? Hang in there? Be strong? See what they do with their lives? Please, may those who know more about this please balance me. How is God approving of a union that is going to leave his innocent children neglected and stranded. Children never asked to be born. Please stop leaving them with gogo's and uncles for marriage, please😢.

Indeed, you are a living testimony, my sister 🙏

Living testimony indeed ✨️

You are a living testimony mommy ❤❤

A Healed Queen❤

What a story ❤❤❤❤,

Amen 🙏🙏🙏 Beautiful ending with herself..

Prayer is a seed he is suffering the consequences and all your previous pains.❤ you mogal.

Who is this lady? I need her advice 😊, something to do with education career

I think your husband was a narcissist my sister, that what im picking up spiritually,bt there must be a reason why he targeted you. Probably God was trying to teach you discernment and to trust the inner voice when it speaks to you, cause it did warn you but you didn't listen. Im so happy you're healing

Interviewer : let the person tell her story in the beginning before asking questions that would form the end later .

Hey beautiful lady....you tried....am so happy for you....I trust you nicely reconnected with your own family...

The guest is so eloquent ❤❤❤

It is good to Allow the guest talk without too much interruption 😢

God restores 🙏🏿🙏🏿

Amen 🙏🙏 glory to God

I had to come back again...this is not God and this is not the work of Devil. THIS IS BAD DECISION AND BAD JUDGEMENT. IYOOOH 😮😮😮😮😮😢

Please invite Nozi Ntshangase

Happy ending 🎉🎉

Many young people who met their partners this way have either ended up in divorce or some are enduring loveless and abusive marriages by spouses who claimed to have been sent by God to marry them. Many such men are known to be problematic in their outlook and behaviour, yet pastors have allowed them to go on and marry innocent women! I wish she had listened to her family!😢

I don't think from the beginning you heard God saying yes maybe your consciousness was the one convincing you my sister no no this can't be. This one was sent straight from hell. So many people who where against this including your mom can't be wrong and it was eventually proven.

The marriage was disaster from day 1 shame😢but we learn frm our mistakes,it's true when they say what doesn't kill u makes u stronger...

Amen 🙏🙏

She speaks so well😢

Where on earth will you get a teaching post from? Bathong? He was not normal, jho! I love you, e tlo bolaya batho strue!

The man was not wrong to run his wedding his way, family comes first before church.

Horrible, Horrible experience 😢 ma'am but beautifully narrated. Unfortunately besides Pastor Chris who was mentioned in passing i didn't get even one good person in the story but the narrator...

But love yourself more Madam, marriage was never an achievement 😢

Desperation is a road to depression 🤞

Kao jaja ous Anna, how on earth would you quit your job for a man😫!

The bible says the blessing of the Lord ADD bo sorrow so please you didn't hear God say go ahead and marry, your soul and emotions told you to marry, DONT LIE AGAINST the Holy Spirit. God cant ask you to go into a covenant that is special to Him for Him to FAIL the people rhat heard from God were the ones that said dont marry NOT YOU Please dont exalt yourself, accept that you didn't hear God but your fleshly needs, let's humble ourself and have repentant hearts, cos now you making your HOLIER THAN THOU, I had a child before marriage, I was a christian, God spoke to me to Marry then marriage fails oooo God said it would be hard still marriages failed, making God a confused liar. I rebuke you.

But showing off ex bf Pic wasn't good

Iyoooh...this is a lot

Why are you showing your husband to be your ex picture? Absolutely wrong wrong wrong! Confessing that you have a child that was enough but showing him the picture hai no iam a man it will not sit well with me!

I’m just wondering how was the honeymoon if treatment was like that 😢

I'm not surprised, when things go wrong in a marriage it's always a man's fault.

Agreed this man is a narcissist. But I really hope you too have learned something from this. Like honestly ask yourself why you allowed this to happen to you. You need to address that, and work on healing that part of yourself. We all need to love ourselves a little more as women maan, so that we can have the courage to walk away when treated this bad.

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Joooooo mokgotsi 😮😮😮😮

All this debts while buying people cow he was really a problem

I don't believe this, a man of God can't beat his wife.

The narrative of a battered and bruised woman is tiring honestly, women are always presented with choices.

This woman gives me like Owami (my husband this n that) look like shes blaming everything to her ex ...can we hear ex husband story also....

Nxese sisi

The interviewer Queen needs to talk less .😢

This guy was in a cult.He gave up ur kids as sacrifice

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