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Eternal Families: Pastor reacts to LDS Teaching

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@HelloSaints
@HelloSaints Жыл бұрын
I didn't know Latter-day Saints teach the concept of eternal marriage until I started this journey. What else can I learn about this concept?
@ArielRosie
@ArielRosie Жыл бұрын
That the LDS believe they become a God themselves and have their own planets.
@germanmarine6582
@germanmarine6582 Жыл бұрын
@@ArielRosie saints unscripted covers this very well
@howardmcomber8578
@howardmcomber8578 Жыл бұрын
Talk to missionaries. They sacrifice and pay their own way to teach people at no cost and whenever and wherever they are willing to learn. Make their day and ask them!!!!
@Dr._Grant_R._Fairbanks
@Dr._Grant_R._Fairbanks Жыл бұрын
@@ArielRosie No, they don't. They believe that good people will inherit THIS planet after it has been perfected.
@beno22iscool
@beno22iscool Жыл бұрын
@@ArielRosie that is stupidly dumbed down, we believe we can become god-like in eternal life, the have our own worlds thing is something that hasn't been explained in depth as it isn't as important in the mortal existence, we will inherit this planet is the main teaching and its been misheard and misused a ton
@andrewplehn4805
@andrewplehn4805 Жыл бұрын
We believe that we get to be with our families AND with God. Neither God or our families replace the relationships we have with the other. We just believe we get both.
@adamjonsson
@adamjonsson Жыл бұрын
Exactly my thought. I don't worship my wife, I worship God. How great have been God's gifts to us in our earthly life, how much better can he potentially bless us in our post-mortal life, why not eternal families. @Hello Saints, Jeff, I'm curious if there is anything in the bible that says that families cannot be together in the life to come?
@valerieward7697
@valerieward7697 Жыл бұрын
Interesting earthly marriages say it all” Until DEATH do you part”’lTemple marriages say” for tiime & ALL eternity!”’based on our covenants to Love God with all our Hearts, Mind & Strength…. Our purpose in life There is a reason we call God our Heavenly Father and his SON our Savior & Redeemer! This to is usually not understood by most of Christianity …what beliefs you have as Christians basically true however there is more!!!!
@kathythompson6616
@kathythompson6616 Жыл бұрын
If family is not to be with us eternally, why have a family at all? We may as well all be selibate and childless. Some find fulfillment in that, most would not.
@montiraruba2831
@montiraruba2831 Жыл бұрын
@@adamjonsson Many things have been lost in the Bible. Hence, the Book of Mormon is the most correct and complete book of scripture on this earth.
@montiraruba2831
@montiraruba2831 Жыл бұрын
@@valerieward7697 As we all know that many things in the Gospel of Jesus Christ have been lost in the Bible. That is the reason The true Church of Jesus Christ had to be restored in our latter days.
@erinr2496
@erinr2496 Жыл бұрын
love this! I'm LDS but my favorite part is learning more about YOUR faith and doctrine! I love the respect and open lines of communication.
@rosaliefullmer4957
@rosaliefullmer4957 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jeff, I really appreciate the respectful way you are approaching your Chanel. I truly believe this channel was inspired. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, I would like to clarify that our doctrine does not teach that our spouses are more important that God or Jesus Christ. We believe the most important relationship is always first with Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we may return to our Heavenly Father. Christ first, always. After Christ, our spouse is the most important relationship. However, we do believe that as both the husband and the wife strengthen their relationship with the Savior, and draw closer to Him, the relationship between the husband and wife becomes stronger, and they too will become closer.
@emilycreager2269
@emilycreager2269 Жыл бұрын
Like the triangle analogy! If you, your spouse, and God are in an equilateral triangle, than as one of those three relationships grows closer (you to God, your spouse to God, or you to your spouse), all of the relationships will naturally get closer, too!
@Vetionarian
@Vetionarian Жыл бұрын
A man and woman come closer to God by being together not seperated. God gave Adam a companion Eve because it was not just to produce children but for Adam to access true joy. If God is powerful enough to cleanse sin, make wrong right, conquer death and cure all ailments, why would he not want us to be joyous with our virtuous and loving marriages in heaven? Does he really just want us to only worship Him and not become like Him? I passionately believe God wants us to live as eternal family units and not just worship Him nonstop. To me, a heaven where I only worship God and do nothing else and cannot see my family or live with them, isn't heaven and I want nothing to do with it. Eternal worship with no progression or growth sounds pointless.
@MS-zj2mf
@MS-zj2mf Жыл бұрын
It should also be noted that we believe our bodies are a temple as well, but there are ordinances and covenants to make with God that can only be done in the temple
@jonnyhilljackson5788
@jonnyhilljackson5788 Жыл бұрын
when you going leave lucifers church?
@andreaosthed7989
@andreaosthed7989 Жыл бұрын
@@MS-zj2mf Agreed, our bodies are considered temples which is why there are so few members who have tattoos and why we stay away from addictive substances that can also damage the body. Like Elder Holland mentions in the beginning of the video, the temple is a place of learning and progression as well as a place where we make covenants with our Heavenly Father as we call him.
@jenniferroach595
@jenniferroach595 Жыл бұрын
Adam was with God in the Garden and everything was perfect. He could talk and walk directly with God. But it still was not good for him to be alone.
@taragonleaf8005
@taragonleaf8005 Жыл бұрын
An excellent point. He was already dwelling in the prescence of God, but God himself declares that needs a woman.
@rsrguy
@rsrguy Жыл бұрын
@@jacobsamuelson3181 why would anyone want to leave Christianity for a religion created by a warmongering soul, created from whole cloth 600 years after christ atoned for our sins?
@elmongo1537
@elmongo1537 Жыл бұрын
¿Está mal tenerlo todo y desear tener con quién compartirlo? ¡Qué razonamiento tan pobre!.
@Irvingdector
@Irvingdector Жыл бұрын
Good point
@walternate2914
@walternate2914 3 ай бұрын
And had Adam and Eve not fallen, they would have remained in the garden forever, together, as man and wife. So when we are restored to that paradisiacal state through Christ’s atonement and resurrection, we will live together as husband and wife forever through the sealing power of God.
@reillydevine12
@reillydevine12 Жыл бұрын
God created us not only to be with him eternally but also with each other. Of course we should never put anyone above God but we also are created for each other and should desire each other for eternity as well. When we look at Gods first creation of Adam and Eve, we see the model of what heaven and life with God is. We are together as Man and Woman in the Lord forever.
@markcavandish1295
@markcavandish1295 Жыл бұрын
@@pauletteforeman2194 What a bleak and depressing outlook on life
@FLanklinBadge
@FLanklinBadge Жыл бұрын
@@pauletteforeman2194 See there are plenty of things we need to learn to let go of: sin, our fallen human nature, worldly pleasures. But I believe the wonder and miracle of God is that He is eternal and so are the good and godly things He creates.
@RealLadyG
@RealLadyG Жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautifully said Reilly. The Holy Spirit guided you.🙏🏽❤️
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
When you see God, it should not matter who or if anyone else is there! God is all we need! Peace!
@dixiemontgonery131
@dixiemontgonery131 Жыл бұрын
Truth is sometimes hard 2 take, but God is God and we are not. His word (the Bible) is truth. No man can change it. Thank u brother 4 speaking the truth.
@gregoryjack5080
@gregoryjack5080 Жыл бұрын
I enjoy your videos so much. They help me remember and appreciate The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I don't believe my wife acts a replacement for God. In fact, she helps me see and learn how to be more like Him. When I have bad days, days where I feel like I can't go on, she has always been their to remind me of all the blessings God has provided for us. She always reminds me to study the scriptures, to continue to pray to Him who gives me daily breath, and to never give up. Thank you for making these videos and hope you've started your journey in the Book of Mormon. You truly will love the BOM and see that Jesus Christ you and I worship is the same Jesus in the Bible. If you like, visit 3 Nephi 11 and read 1-14 before starting from the beginning.
@andrelima7698
@andrelima7698 Жыл бұрын
And Gregory, your marriage is also essential to your exaltation. Jeff is great, and when he learns what are our beliefs for exaltation and what comes after, and the roles that a marriage plays with exaltation, it will totally makes sense to him.
@elizabethe3281
@elizabethe3281 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way as you. I will be with God and Jesus Christ, my eternal husband will be a bonus. I created 4 sons here on earth and I can’t imagine going through the next life without them.
@DrDoerk
@DrDoerk Жыл бұрын
@@elizabethe3281 why don't you believe what Jesus said about this?
@nightdragon5223
@nightdragon5223 Жыл бұрын
I believe it's better to begin at the beginning to come to an understanding why God called Lehi and his family out of Jerusalem and their sins and teachings and what sins are we to not be doing.. Also to come to know Christ warned warned us there are only 2 churches. Also the Doctrine of Christ is plain to understand in the 2nd book of Nephi. If you read from the beginning you get a sure foundation of why the Book of Mormon was preserved.
@tedmorgan98
@tedmorgan98 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the sentiment and the attempt at understanding. I think what you might be missing is the doctrine of exaltation in relation to eternal marriage. It’s not just that Elder Holland merely wants to be with his wife forever, but he wants what is promised as part of the sealing covenant with Her and God. The aspiration of Latter Day Saints is not just to live in the presence of God, but to receive all that the father hath through the sealing covenant unto exaltation. D&C 132 gives the doctrinal context for the LDS view of the need for eternal marriage and exaltation. Look into what Joseph Smith taught about why eternal marriage is necessary to our vision of heaven. I love your willingness to learn about my faith and what motivates us. I do think you are missing the bigger picture though. I understand why, it’s a lot to learn and take in. Keep up the good work.
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
…since you mention D and C section 132. Do you also embrace the message of plural marriage? That you too can become a god and have multiple wifes?..verse 62, “ and if he have ten virgins given unto him by this law, he cannot commit adultery, for they belong to him and they are given unto him; therefore is he justified”… do you believe this?
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
…contrast this to what Jesus actually said in Matthew 22:29, “Jesus replied, you are in error because you do not know the scriptures or the power of God. At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.” Is there marriage at, during or after the resurrection? How then can there be marriage “after” the resurrection? Clearly Jesus teaches us there there is NO marriage after this life, whether in the resurrection or after. We will, however, be in the presence of God and if our spouses are also believers in Jesus, they too will be in the presence of God and thus, BOTH will be together forever in the presence of GOD! This is what the Bible teaches! The inerrant word of God!
@toddsyoutube2679
@toddsyoutube2679 Жыл бұрын
@@BGCflyer I am LDS, and my understanding is that this means after the Millennial Reign on Earth, then there would no new marriages performed. We would still be married of we have been sealed and are faithful.
@hrv4908
@hrv4908 Жыл бұрын
@@toddsyoutube2679 Bruce fulfills the very scripture he references.
@tylerporter2171
@tylerporter2171 Жыл бұрын
29Jesus answered and said to them, “You are mistaken, not knowing the Scriptures nor the power of God. 30For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels of God in heaven. Matthew 22:29-30
@racheln4309
@racheln4309 Жыл бұрын
I’m Mormon. I actually agree with your thoughts here. When my husband and I got married (in a temple) we told each other that we would be partners in everything-except the those things that took us farther from god. I love my husband, but I wouldn’t follow him if he chose to abandon god. I love god more.
@cjammin4
@cjammin4 Жыл бұрын
Yes, this is what we in the LDS church believe. I think what Elder Holland meant is that being reconciled with both God and our families would be the ultimate joy. We also believe our family members each make their own choices and may not be with us in heaven if they choose not to be reconciled with God, He will not force anyone to be with Him. While that is very troubling to many saints who have family members who've chosen different paths, God's love will indeed wipe all tears from our eyes, probably more than they can imagine. We are created to live in families because it emulates God's family and the framework He's built for us to become like Him. He is our father, and is sealed to our Heavenly Mother (yes, we believe God has a wife), and without being bound with our spouse in that family unit we cannot attain the full glory He possesses and desires us to rise to. So while each person has their freedom to choose this and one's spouse may turn away from it, even still, all those who truly desire to become like Him will have that opportunity whether in this life or the next.
@artycuz6877
@artycuz6877 Жыл бұрын
*Latter day saint
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
@@cjammin4 …the heavenly mother concept would definitely be a distinction between LDS and all other Christians. I grew up LDS and yet never heard of heavenly mother until about 10 years ago. It’s a logical response to the idea that we progressing to become exactly like God the Father. He must have a wife, etc. Unfortunately, it’s not supported by the Bible, so 99% of Christians outside of the LDS church will not embrace this.
@eddardstark6554
@eddardstark6554 Жыл бұрын
@@BGCflyer That’s the point of modern revelation. Milk and meat. Remember, there have been 7 dispensations throughout history. The first dispensation was with Adam and Eve. They had the fullness of the gospel and teachings of Jesus Christ revealed to them through God, Jesus, the Holy Ghost, Angels, and visions. They taught these things to their children, but even one generation later, despite the gospel, Cane still killed Abel because he had the agency to do so and sin. Hence the world gradually fell into apostasy. The people of the Earth knew of Heavenly Father, Mother, and the Son to come. But Satan contorted these teachings and people turned to idol worship and the man-made creation of other gods that fit with their lifestyle and culture (like weather gods, hunting gods, harvest gods, etc.) Hence polytheism and paganism were born. Centuries later, because God loves us and gave us another chance, Enoch was called as a prophet who brought about the second dispensation and taught the fullness of the gospel. Some listened, others didn’t. The world became increasingly wicked and fell once more into apostasy. God saved the city of Enoch (some claim this to be Atlantis or Lemuria) and called Noah as a prophet for the third dispensation. Few listened, others didn’t. The earth was flooded and started anew with Noah’s family. After the flood, it was only a couple of generations later people built the Tower of Babel. God confounded their languages and cultures dispersed around the globe. The fullness of the gospel was taught, but was once again contorted and polytheism and Paganism made a return. Abraham was the prophet called for the 4th dispensation and his descendants (the Children of Israel) were the slaves in Egypt. Moses was called to open the 5th dispensation and freed the Israelites and they settled in Israel and Jerusalem. That dispensation has many records and many prophets were called (as they likely were in the other dispensations, but we just have records of the main ones who started them). But the Israelites fell multiple times to idol worship and complained to God. Disputations also arose over how the Messiah would come and who had authority to speak with God. The Assyrians and Babylonians scattered the Israelites and only the Jews and tribe of Benjamin resides in Israel. The other 10 tribes scattered around the globe. Malachi was the last prophet and there was another apostasy. John the Baptist opened the 6th dispensation and Jesus followed. The fullness of the gospel was once more restored, but many Jews rejected it. The death of the Apostles started the Great Apostasy. Probably the longest one lasting over 1700 years, as the apostle Linus of the Catholic Church died without passing on the priesthood authority that he received from Paul. We also see at that time that pagan worship was abound in the Greek, Roman, German, African, and Middle Eastern civilizations around the area at the time. While I believe the Apostles and many faithful knew of Heavenly Mother and the Son, teachings of them had to be subdued as to not confuse people of worshiping them. We only pray to and worship God in the name of the Son. But when people start praying to Jesus or Heavenly Mother (as many cultures prayed to Hera, Juno, Freya, etc. or even the “son” figures like Hercules, Apollo, and Thor respectively) it was blasphemy. So Paul and the apostles had a huge responsibility to teach about the savior’s atonement and gospel principles rather than confuse them with the possibility of idol worship. Had people accepted the message, then more things could have been revealed to them, but they died before the people could consume the milk, leaving the meat unable to be taught by scripture because, as we see in the epistles, SO many people had issues grasping basic concepts of the gospel of Jesus Christ due to their ancestral religions. So when God called another prophet to open the 7th and last dispensation, the fullness of the gospel was once again restored because God loves us and is giving us another chance (I also think he’s a very symbolic God and 7 is a holy number). Through prophetic revelation, Joseph Smith received a lot of the meat of gospel principles and doctrine, but because of the lasting effects of other churches and Christian history, many people had issues with it. They thought their mistranslated and incomplete bibles are enough and nothing else is needed. And while I love the Bible and it’s teachings, it’s not the fullness of the gospel of God. Humans have been prideful and hate new things. The ancient Israelites rejected Moses on many occasions, despite seeing miracles. That set a rocky foundation for Israel in the coming centuries before the coming of the Lord and why he wasn’t welcomed among the Jewish elite. That’s why the Romans, Greeks, Africans, and Arabs rejected the apostles. That’s why modern Christian’s reject Joseph Smith because they think we, for some reason, don’t need a prophet anymore because the Bible is all we need, even though it was arbitrarily set up by the Catholics in Greece and many things were omitted. That’s why the prophet died young and the Saints were expelled from Missouri to Utah. God has a wife and a Son. I think we will find complete happiness in Heaven if our families are there with us. But yes, they, like Cane, have their agency and can reject God and Jesus, and their teachings. Those worthy will still be blessed by God in ways we can’t imagine even if our families aren’t there. But families are essential to God’s plan. Heck, that’s even why it was revealed that there are tiers of Heaven: the Celestial, Terrestrial, and Telestial (representing the Sun, Moon, and Stars). Those who reject God and live in sin, based on their own agency, will go to those other forms of Heaven, but those who worship Jesus and repent will go to the Celestial Kingdom. I can’t remember which prophet said, but those in the Celestial Kingdom can visit loved ones in other Kingdoms, but they can’t go to the Celestial Kingdom to visit. So even if our spouses, children, parents, siblings, cousins, friends, and all manner of loved ones aren’t there with us, we can still visit them. We will be busy in the Celestial Kingdom, for sure, so visiting them may take too much time away from our eternal bliss and progression (as Latter Day Saints believe that we will become like God and Heavenly Mother in that we will have spiritual children and create worlds for them to dwell on to receive their own life experiences and hopefully return to us one day), but that’s not to say that we will ever surpass God. He will always be our God and we must obey Him. But we will become Gods and Goddesses as well. But never equal to God or Jesus or Heavenly Mother. They will ALWAYS surpass us in glory and power. So it’ll be sad if our families can’t partake in the amazing things we will if we’re in the Celestial Kingdom, but we can visit them if we so choose. Families are always eternal (unless of course they commit the worst of sins and become and “Son of Perdition” and go to Outer Darkness, but that’s a completely different topic and extremely rare. Even murderers, rapists, and devil-worshippers will still receive the lesser degree of the Telestial Kingdom, but I digress).
@bundlekeeper8133
@bundlekeeper8133 Жыл бұрын
All good Mormons feel this way I think.
@rodrigohuallanca662
@rodrigohuallanca662 Жыл бұрын
The more I watch your videos the more I want to become a member of the LDS church ❤
@charlenesmith2989
@charlenesmith2989 Жыл бұрын
We can have you meet with missionaries to help you learn more!
@JoyousGenealogist
@JoyousGenealogist Жыл бұрын
Come and see. The joy that feels my heart because of the gospel of Jesus Christ is so amazing. It’s a joy that you can’t have or find but through his gospel and from making and keeping covenants with God. We are covenant making people. I love his church and the temple where I make covenants with the father. 🙏 please come and see we would love to have you. It will change your life🙌🏼
@mrselizavl5250
@mrselizavl5250 Жыл бұрын
An eternally significant idea ❤
@AvadenSV
@AvadenSV Жыл бұрын
I don’t understand the point of your comment, Rodrigo. 🤔 You are already a member.
@jenbavender4187
@jenbavender4187 Жыл бұрын
Smart man. There is a lot to love
@hackerj23
@hackerj23 Жыл бұрын
As always great video! This video helped me understand my own theology better. We Saints don’t disagree with you that being with God is the highest goal, but we would say being with God and our family is the ultimate. In fact, in the highest heavenly glory (celestial) we break it down into a highest (eternal families) that is different from a celestial glory without the family. I hadn’t appreciated that distinction in those two sub-realms of the highest glory, but your video helped me better appreciate it. Love your content!!
@JackV2023
@JackV2023 Жыл бұрын
@twen7y2 Joint heirs with Christ.
@DW-yl9ww
@DW-yl9ww Жыл бұрын
Romans 7:2 For a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he lives, but if her husband dies she is released from the law of marriage. Mark 12:25 For when they rise from the dead, they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.
@JackV2023
@JackV2023 Жыл бұрын
@@DW-yl9ww there are answers to this. If one remembers that the first couple was not created to be mortal but eternal, then we can try to understand the rest. The Law of Moses that described the responsibility of a brother to “raise seed” for his dead brother is not the “power” that binds people for eternity. Jesus holds that power. I will leave it at that, but there is an answer to your question.
@DW-yl9ww
@DW-yl9ww Жыл бұрын
@@JackV2023 you are following "ANOTHER" gospel like the apostles warned. Joseph Smith was duped by a fallen angel ... Do you think God would write errant scripture then allow centuries to go by before correcting it? Wake up
@JackV2023
@JackV2023 Жыл бұрын
@@DW-yl9ww I apologize for upsetting you. I just was pointing out that in the doctrine of the Church of Jesus Christ there is an answer to your question.
@AutismFamilyChannel
@AutismFamilyChannel Жыл бұрын
It seems some Christians think we are substituting God by having eternal families. We are not substituting, we are accentuating the eternal, beautiful family, which is God's...His creation and union. In all of our dealings, especially our family, we are instructed to put God first. That has always been the way and will continue to be the way in the life to come. If a family member rejects God's grace, they cannot "keep you out of heaven" as some suggest. The person who was faithful to God will find another companion to be sealed to, if their current companion fails to follow Christ. Christ is the ultimate gatekeeper to heaven, make no mistake.
@hulligans2866
@hulligans2866 Жыл бұрын
Perfectly said! ❤
@paulturner3553
@paulturner3553 Жыл бұрын
The God/Gods/god/gods of Mormonism is not One God, and I need not go into why that is except to say that Jesus never was the spirit brother of Lucifer. Why do you Mormons tell white lies and deflect continually? Like the Democrats lies, it's the best you can do to get people with itchy ears to respond like sheeple and clapping seals. You can have Joe Smith, but I will go with Jesus and those who were actually with Him before and after the crucifixion. Their witness does not agree with the Mormon conclusions.
@avoice423
@avoice423 Жыл бұрын
So what of the commandment of God to Adam to multiply and replenish the earth? Does not that apply to everyone? Jesus kept all the commandments and therefore was perfect and sinless. I maintain that Jesus also kept this commandment, and therefore was married and had children, but He kept His Fathers will and sacrificed himself for all, that we might not suffer, on condition of repentance. Why is it so abhorrent that we should aspire to be like our heavenly parents? Does our children's success in any way diminish us? I think not!
@avoice423
@avoice423 Жыл бұрын
@@sagesaith6354 where did Jesus say we should not get married and have children?He spoke out against relations outside of marriage. To the woman taken in adultery he said go and sin no more. And what about the ten commandments, they were given to the Israelites, don't they apply to all of us? Jesus said he came not to do away with the law and the prophets but to fulfill them.
@SuchaSewandSew
@SuchaSewandSew Жыл бұрын
HI Pastor Jeff. Great video, as always. I appreciate so much the respect you show towards the teachings of all faiths, and especially to the beliefs of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. When Elder Holland says that heaven won't be heaven without his wife and children, the underlying assumption is that God will still be God and we will still worship Him in all His glory. Family doesn't replace or supersede God. He is the reason that there is a Heaven and He wants us to enjoy it with Him and with our families, however that may look for each of us. To your comment on idols, we believe exactly as you do -- anything can become an idol, whether it be an object or a person, and we strive to follow the teachings of Jesus and look to Him as our example of how to worship God. Thank you again, for sharing your perspective. I really enjoy learning about your beliefs and thoughts on what Evangelical Christianity has to offer. It helps to increase my faith.
@regan4001
@regan4001 Жыл бұрын
Excited to see your perspective of this teaching. As a member, eternal marriage is something I'm so happy to know is true. I couldn't possibly imagine eternal happiness without the marriage + family! Something that I always admire is the beginning of the Bible is the focus of Adam and Eve being together, not to mention countless other bible families. I feel like we (humans/people) are inherently supposed to be in families for eternity
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
…I feel your passion, however, what do you think of the words and scriptures Paster Jeff shared? Do you agree with him? If not why?
@USforYOu
@USforYOu Жыл бұрын
@@BGCflyer his words are exactly what the LDS believe. He just made them sound like they were opposed. In fact if you go back and listen to Jeff he says nearly the identical statement that Holland said. Jeff is picking and choosing things in all of his videos. He is either not understanding the whole picture of the LDS belief or he is hiding it for his gain to divide.
@cphorn15
@cphorn15 Жыл бұрын
@@USforYOu based on some of his other videos, I wouldn't say he's out to divide, at least not intentionally. I think he's probably leaning on his biases and understandings to fill in gaps that are otherwise provided for in the Book of Mormon, Doctrine and Covenants, and The Pearl of Great Price, and even the rituals and covenants we make in the temple. Lacking the context of that and a handy missionary to answer these questions, it makes sense that anyone would fall back to what they know. I know he's been meaning to get around to reading the Book of Mormon and I hope he does so soon!
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
@@USforYOu …pastor Jeff was quite clear about the differences in LDS and Protestant Christianity. He was clear about how the Bible came about and the “extra-biblical” evidence like cities, archeological finds and other evidences that show the places spoken of in the Bible are real. Unfortunately, we don’t have this for the Book of Mormon. Pastor Jeff commented on that, what did you think?
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
@@USforYOu …it doesn’t seem in any way he’s trying to divide, but he does show the differences in a respectful way
@milsteven03
@milsteven03 Жыл бұрын
I just so love the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints .My life change and I am happier now. Everything make sense for me.....I know I can be with God and my Family forever....❤️🙏 ❤
@Wojo375
@Wojo375 Жыл бұрын
I went to Bulgaria for work for a couple of weeks. In my off time I toured the city of Sofia, I saw old mosques, cathedrals, old Soviet block buildings, went up into their mountains and hiked around. I saw beautiful sites and got to touch history of this old old city. I even stood on pavers that were placed during the Roman empire. It was cool to see. However, there was something I was missing, I was missing my wife. Without my wife or anyone special to share the experience with it was as if I was looking at pictures on the internet. It didn't have much meaning or feeling without someone special to share it with. That is what I imagine Heaven would be like without my wife. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I think being in Heaven would be spectacular but being there with your family would be even better.
@kathrynehiersche1817
@kathrynehiersche1817 Жыл бұрын
That is such an incredible analogy. You made such a good point!!
@jkbeaudoin
@jkbeaudoin Жыл бұрын
I have said something similar in the past, but not in a religious context. As a pilot I tell family and friends that I have no desire to ever fly a single seat airplane or helicopter. The experience of flying an aircraft is amazing, but nothing compared to sharing it with others. When I fly others in my career, it's fun and exciting, but my favorite people to share it with are those that I love. That takes it to another level, and I'm giddy like a little boy every time I get to take a family member on a flight. I imagine the Celestial Kingdom will be the same with those who I love.
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
Heaven is heaven because we will be in the presence of God. That’s what the Bible teaches us. Understanding God who exists both in and outside of time and space as we understand it, can be a daunting concept to grasp, but that is why/how He is God, and we are not.
@bovaoifi
@bovaoifi Жыл бұрын
@@BGCflyer God sent us here as families…. It’s probably important.
@cabarete2003
@cabarete2003 Жыл бұрын
@@BGCflyer The two concepts are not mutually exclusive. Scripture teaches us that we have a Father in heaven. This is not figurative, it is a nod to who we truly are. It is one of the adversaries greatest achievements to get man to reject the idea that he literally a son of God. The mere statement that we are children of God fills us with great potential.
@bretthaymond
@bretthaymond Жыл бұрын
Love your series. I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Love how inviting you are to listening and talking about these topics. I think that some of the concepts you watched an commented on today were out of context of their full meaning. There are setups to each of the video clips you are commenting on that take them out of context. In fact many of the comments about Heaven being founded on God being there and his existence are the foundation of the topics the videos are then adding to, not in lieu of. I’d love to connect to help provide the context and full meaning for you so you can allow for a more fully understood dialog and meaning. Again, the irony of your final statement that all fulfillment after this life is through Him is spot on and in line with everything being shared once you have the context.
@GMoney-B
@GMoney-B Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the exact same thing but you said it better than I could. I agree with you. I could be wrong but I also felt that there is a lot of context relating to church teachings that I don’t think can be conveyed through one segment.
@steffensaff
@steffensaff Жыл бұрын
i agree 100% with this comment. i am also a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and i stand with these comments. i believe that heaven in it fullest is when you have deep relationships with your family and can share that experience with them for eternity. "God is love" which John writes and that love is what is shared not only between members of your family but also the love that God has for you and that love reciprocated back to God. of course, this is the ideal, like perfection, that Christ wants all of us to experience but that is very much not obtainable in an imperfect world. what about all of those that dont have a good relationship with their children, their spouse, their parents, their relatives? i guess they cant participate in the fullness of heaven right? "God forbid" no that is not the case. i believe that the gospel principle of eternal families is a call to make things right with your family, if possible, or pray to try and make things right if you cant do it on your own. heaven will still be heaven with or without your family but i believe that the fullest experience you can have of heaven is with your eternal family by your side, however in life the Lord makes that possible for you.
@bawesome5039
@bawesome5039 Жыл бұрын
If you watch enough of these, you realize he is making these as a wolf in sheep's clothing... He is not making these videos to unite, but to divide. To proselyte with the intent to destroy your testimony with flattering words. He isn't looking to understand. He is looking to prove he is right vs. understand and accept differences. He isn't what he claims to be. He wants you to disclaim your testimony and embrace his... This is anti-mormon literature in a digital world.
@GMoney-B
@GMoney-B Жыл бұрын
​@@bawesome5039 Lds member here. You are putting a lot of malicious intent in his heart that isn't there. How can he be a wolf in sheep clothing when he straight up says he is wanting to understand and also 'compare his religion with ours'. This should not be a surprise to you. Attitudes like yours give members a bad reputation of members condemning anyone who is of different religion. Nowhere is he doing anything in his videos to destroy your testimony. If you have qualms with anything he is saying you should look into it yourself. It's also not anti-mormon literature. That is a phrase from back in the day, so I'm guessing you were just born and grew up pre-80's where in the time lower level church leaders had a habit of claiming anything was anti-mormon if it had anything to say at all; good or bad from someone who wasn't a member. Don't be so judgmental. This is one of the downfalls of "church culture" where people not of lds faith talking about the church inertly and matter of fact are labeled as apposing the church. Step outside your perspective and look at it from his(others) perspectives. He doesn't know about the church, he is wanting to compare the differences between his faith and lds faith because he, others and myself and many lds members find it interesting to see things from a different persons perspective. If you feel this threatens your testimony then it seems this is merely a sign of a week foundation, otherwise you would see his videos for what they are in being harmless and of a man/pastor's journey through life trying to learn all he can about God and religions. When missionaries are teaching non-members who have a lot of questions or observations, the missionaries don't just leave and say they are trying to weaken their testimonies. I think where you are getting fouled up is in his interest in the subject and wanting to compare religions. He has many degrees in theology and is a pastor of another faith, so his interest in doing that should not be a surprise. Him being a pastor of another religion, I also am not surprised or expecting him to be going and preaching the gospel as we know it. One other aspect you might be getting fouled up on as well is that he is very new to learning about the church, and so he isn't aware of a lot of the church history, culture and teachings. For example he wouldn't know fully what Jeffrey R Holland was meaning in how heaven wouldn't be heaven without his wife. Just think of him as an investigator, that's kind of what he is really at this point. We treat investigators and should treat everyone with kindness and respect.
@kenziefrisk41
@kenziefrisk41 Жыл бұрын
Hi! I’m a covert to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I was raised in the Protestant Christian church in the Nazarene domination. I grew up with the same understanding and mindset that you have. I would love to see videos where you get to talk and hear from a converts perspective and why they left traditional Christian beliefs. I think this would broaden your insight! Have a great day!
@rabbithole2015
@rabbithole2015 Жыл бұрын
I had the opposite experience. I was raised lds and raised my own family to be lds. It was while I was serving in the bishopric that I lost my faith. I left Mormonism and faith in God for about a year. I started reading my Bible and I guess you could say I'm a convert to Christianity. You are a convert to Mormonism. I would love to hear why you felt the lds church was the true church.
@rosevirginiatasker7583
@rosevirginiatasker7583 Жыл бұрын
Hi, I was LDS once. But though I was baptised as a Catholic. I didn't really understand or knew the scriptures. In my 20's I went to Israel and saw the different churches, Islam and the Jewish people. In my experience there I decided to go to the original belief, those who follow God. Yes, I was converting to Judaism. But my brother's (who was LDS) wife asked me to listen to the missionaries. I did, not really understanding the bible. I was a member for 25 years. And had a experience that changed me from being LDS. I was reading the BOM as I did regularly and the D&C etc... as I was reading the BOM, the Holy Spirit prompted me to read the NT. And I did and then went back to read the BOM again. Thus happened quite a few times by the Holy Spirit, until I started to see the flaws on the LDS teachings and how they were MOT in keeping with the Lord's teachings. Over time I and my husband left the LDS church. And now in fellowship with the Lord. Eternal marriage is one of those false teachings, it tickles the ears of the hearers. But not scriptural. I hope for all my LDS brothers and sisters will wake up before it is too late. I pray for your all.
@cabarete2003
@cabarete2003 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I joined the church as a 19 year old punk with no desire to join a church. My faith at the time could not answer simple questions. I not only found answers in the church but experienced the Holy Ghost working on my soul. I was struck by Moroni's challenge not to ask God if the Book of Mormon is true, but to ask him if it is NOT true. The idea of eternal families not only makes sense, it is heartbreaking to consider any other model. The sting of death is not fully removed if we are not to be with our families after this life.
@eldenscity87
@eldenscity87 Жыл бұрын
@@rosevirginiatasker7583 Am An LDS Convert for more than 30 years Am A Bible Reader - and Would Testify that LDS Beliefs and Teachings Are Biblical and Scriptural I Know That The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the ONLY True and Living Church of Jesus Christ upon the face of the whole Earth and nothing else Had a numerous Bible Discussion with several pastors and Minister's since am in my youth and as a new convert of 3yrs And those pastors had given me antiLDS pamphlets Imagine the Church is still new then average Sunday Meeting attendance is only 37 including youth and children Am 16that time
@rosevirginiatasker7583
@rosevirginiatasker7583 Жыл бұрын
@@eldenscity87 Hi, thank you for your information about yourself. So, how is it that you say that the LDS church is the true Church? When the true Church has been on the earth since Christ walked the roads of Israel? There is only one church. From Jesus to this present day. And the bible contains the whole Gospel.
@mbilmey
@mbilmey Жыл бұрын
This video is a great example of how we can disagree and still have edifying conversation. I know a lot of people who need your testimony on how God will make up all our loss. That's definitely something we agree on, but different Chridtian perspectives can help expand and bring to our remembrance.
@jonnyhilljackson5788
@jonnyhilljackson5788 Жыл бұрын
liar lucifer is deceiver this hello saints oroves it
@rhay.brewer
@rhay.brewer Жыл бұрын
I am one of those that have come from a ...not incredibly happy family, but I am so grateful for the reality of eternal families. It speaks to the significance and intention of God when He placed us in family units. I realized one day during scripture study, that God united Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden where there was no death. That so powerfully says to me that marriage - when done under the proper authority of God (ie: priesthood power) supersedes death. This is why marriage and families sealed with priesthood power exists beyond death. I absolutely adore Elder Holland! He is an amazingly powerful speaker. It is not idolatry to only imagine a true paradise with our Father in Heaven when there is such a yearning in our hearts. And I do not believe that a loving Father in Heaven would allow for such wounds to begin with. I believe, like as you pointed out, that choosing family over God is bad, but that is more of an example of what I have seen with some members that has a child come out as LGBT or whatnot. These parents feel conflicted that God said to live one way, but they also love their children and they see things in very black and white "I cannot both love my children and follow God because God teaches differently" and so those parents leave the church in order to support their children. This is choosing family over God to me. As members, we believe that God has a specific plan to "bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man" and that plan is based on the progression of family. Wanting to be with our families forever, striving to live the gospel of Christ and enduring on the gospel path throughout our lives is not the same thing.
@genecole2082
@genecole2082 Жыл бұрын
Matthew 22:30 words of Jesus. There will only be one marriage in heaven The Marriage Of The Lamb ( We are His Bride).
@christopherperez8843
@christopherperez8843 Жыл бұрын
@@genecole2082 I just went to that scripture and a reference in the Doctrine and Covenants 132:15-17 is listed. 15 Therefore, if a man marry him a wife in the world, and he marry her not by me nor by my word, and he covenant with her so long as he is in the world and she with him, their covenant and marriage are not of force when they are dead, and when they are out of the world; therefore, they are not bound by any law when they are out of the world. 16 Therefore, when they are out of the world they neither marry nor are given in marriage; but are appointed angels in heaven, which angels are ministering servants, to minister for those who are worthy of a far more, and an exceeding, and an eternal weight of glory. 17 For these angels did not abide my law; therefore, they cannot be enlarged, but remain separately and singly, without exaltation, in their saved condition, to all eternity; and from henceforth are not gods, but are angels of God forever and ever.
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
@@christopherperez8843 …interesting how this contrasts to what is written in the Bible. Matt 22:29-30 Jesus Christ said, “You are in error because you do not know the scriptures or the power of God. At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; the will be like angels in heaven”.
@rhay.brewer
@rhay.brewer Жыл бұрын
I know it says this in the Bible somewhere but God can only impart that which one is prepared to receive. So we see in the blessing of multiple books of scripture, where one people could only receive so much based on their preparation to receive spiritual truths another people who are better prepared will receive a greater knowledge. God does not give us more than we can bear. It is why Moses, when he came down from the mountain the first time with the higher law and saw the people had built idals in his absence, he threw the slabs down and returned to the mountain for the lower law because the people did not have the spiritual strength to handle more. Having more than one record of God allows for further clarification and understanding of holy scripture. Especially when it involves vast differences in circumstances and social customs and traditions. Some things just don't translate completely from one language to the next. Have multiple sources of information allows for a greater understanding of the whole. I believe the Bible is holy scripture. My dad, as a historian, spent the last 40 years researching countless histories to have a more complete understanding of what was happening at the times of the books in the Bible being written - to understand the circumstances and customs behind it. His research has had a great influence on me as I have studied the Bible. But there are books mentioned in the Bible, that are not IN the Bible. There was, and is more scripture out there even besides the Book of Mormon. That's exciting! More scripture is amazing! I don't understand why people reject such an amazing opportunity to learn MORE of Christ.
@brycetwede
@brycetwede Жыл бұрын
@@BGCflyer I agree that eternal marriage seems to conflict with Matt 22 but I personally read that verse as "there are no weddings in heaven". That's why in the church it's such an emphasis to have the weddings here on earth (or by proxy) so they can be sealed in heaven (Matt 16:19). Again, I understand that this is a different interpretation than the rest of Christianity, that's just what I believe.
@xenohiraeth
@xenohiraeth Жыл бұрын
As latter day saints, We believe fundamentally that Heaven is being in God's presence. Hell is the opposite in that we are kept from God's presence. The degrees of Glory and Eternal Families can confuse that principle. Our families offer insight into the joy that can be felt there. And it brings me great comfort to know that my Family will remain with me in God's presence. Just as God weeps when one of his children does not accept Christ, thus distancing themselves from him, I will weep if my children choose not to follow me into God's presence. If they do follow, I want to be with God, and my family, glorifying him.
@tylerporter2171
@tylerporter2171 Жыл бұрын
29Jesus answered and said to them, “You are mistaken, not knowing the Scriptures nor the power of God. 30For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels of God in heaven. Matthew 22:29-30
@rasberryjamalicia
@rasberryjamalicia Жыл бұрын
Tyler Porter in that scripture you shared, Jesus is speaking to the Sadducees- a Jewish sect who didn't believe in the resurrection. Christ is basically calling them out on their own belief asking why they would ask such a question when they themselves don't even believe in life after death.
@rosevirginiatasker7583
@rosevirginiatasker7583 Жыл бұрын
@HomesliceDrummer You believe that after the Apostles died, that there was no Priesthood on the earth, as the authority was not handed down. And that the early Church went into apostasy. Correct? But is it really so!
@tylerporter2171
@tylerporter2171 Жыл бұрын
@HomesliceDrummer you are mistaken not knowing the priesthood or the resurrection…. Scripture and verse? 39And all these,👀having obtained a good testimony through faith, did not receive the promise, 40God having provided something better for us, that they should not be made perfect apart from us. Hebrews 11:39-40 Introduction of the book of Mormon: ….On September 21, 1823, the same Moroni, then a glorified, resurrected being👀🤔, appeared to the Prophet Joseph Smith and instructed him… 20But now Christ is risen from the dead, and has become the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep. 21For since by man came death, by Man also came the resurrection of the dead. 22For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ all shall be made alive. 23But each one in his own order: Christ the firstfruits, afterward those who are Christ’s at His coming👀 1 Corinthians 15:20-23
@veerebel7112
@veerebel7112 Жыл бұрын
How does it work when his wife dies, and he remarried. Does he get to heaven and his wives are surprised to see each other?
@Savannahesims
@Savannahesims Жыл бұрын
I grew up Jewish and we have a few theories on the afterlife. A large consensus is that we will be with our families in the afterlife. We believe families are bonded and connected through body and soul.
@prezp00nage24
@prezp00nage24 Жыл бұрын
Great explanation Jeff. In my opinion, this topic is one of the first ones we run into that starts to bring up the necessity of the restored gospel to enhance our understanding. While I see that these Biblical passages you shared tell us about God's ever enveloping love for us that we will experience in Heaven, which I believe is true, I feel like eternal family is one of those "plain and precious truths" that the Book of Mormon speaks of that the books of the Bible left out. I understand the heretical cringe you probably experience when you hear LDS people say things like that. However, this is one of the topics that without modern revelation, we can't find the perfect answer to prove it, or disprove it, in the Bible, so I completely understand where you stand on this matter. Here is my view, and I hope it doesn't come off as contentious, just what I believe to be the Lord's will for us: In my humble opinion, not to insist I know how better than people do about themselves, eternal family is something that deep down we all desire not in a sinful way, but in a spiritual way, so that we can be with those we love and worship our God together forever. If we deny this deep spiritual hope, it seems as though we have to deny something good and happy, and without solid Biblical proof of eternal family, I can see how we would be afraid to embrace it. However, I do believe that there is no solid proof against eternal family in the Bible either, just interpretive opinion. This is where modern revelation takes hold and restores covenants that the Lord wants us to take part of and established at the conception of the Earth but have been lost over time. This is how I see it, and probably how most other LDS would see it. Again, in my humble opinion, without the spirit strongly affirming the truth of the restored gospel through study and prayer, we cannot affirm the truth of eternal families through the 66 books of the Bible alone. If the Book of Mormon, Pearl of Great Price, and Doctrine and Covenants are true, then they are the most direct and unaltered words the Lord has given to us, therefore it is necessary for us to heed the advice of James, and ask the Lord of the truth of all things, take the ember the Spirit will provide to read and study the Book of Mormon, then take Moroni's challenge to pray and ask the Lord if these things are not true and grow the doubtful ember into a roaring flame of faith and truth by the gift of the Lord. Let not our faith stand in the wisdom and interpretation of men, but in the power, wisdom, and light of truth of God.
@charlottegardenhire6408
@charlottegardenhire6408 Жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts. The plain and oh so precious truths that are lost. I’m so grateful to know them!
@elmerguevarra1484
@elmerguevarra1484 Жыл бұрын
From what I have heard from him in another video of him, he hasn't read the Book of Mormon yet. I know if he would consider, and start to read latter-day scriptures more light and enlightenment will be upon him. Like the other comment above, I find his opinion faith-promoting for me.
@USforYOu
@USforYOu Жыл бұрын
This plan is prophesied in the Bible Malachi 4 5 ¶ Behold, I will asend you bElijah the prophet cbefore the coming of the dgreat and dreadful eday of the Lord: 6 And he shall aturn the bheart of the cfathers to the dchildren, and the heart of the echildren to their fathers, lest I come and fsmite the gearth with a hcurse.
@Waltvault
@Waltvault Жыл бұрын
Salvation is individual based. What pastor Jeff is saying is his salvation is independent from his loved ones. It even talks in the Bible about loving God more than family and putting him first. God will work it out and if you really believe in him you will would do the same right?
@prezp00nage24
@prezp00nage24 Жыл бұрын
@@Waltvault Yes, salvation is entirely individual and entirely dependent on faith in Christ’s atonement. Eternal family is simply something that if we each do our individual part, we can remain a family in the next life. We’ll never know all of the details, but in the LDS faith we believe coming to earth and suffering the fall is part of God’s eternal plan of happiness for us, and part of that plan is if we exercise our faith in Christ and choose to return to Him, our loved ones can be near to us and a part of our eternal happiness forever. So eternal family is seperate from salvation, but something we can have if we choose to accept the free gifts of Christ.
@Erika-nz7uy
@Erika-nz7uy Жыл бұрын
Loving these! I am a normal Christian (not Mormon) and have a fascination with the Mormon culture so it’s so cool to see this!
@rebeccajensen6746
@rebeccajensen6746 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jeff, my husband, who I am sealed to, died a year and a half ago. Our two little boys were 5 and 7 at the time. My late husband was a Godly gentle man, and the best father I have ever witnessed. It was and still is incredibly heartbreaking. I have never been more grateful for the doctrine of eternal families. I thought I believed it before, I thought I understood it before, and now I know I had barely skimmed the surface. I have witnessed Christ's hand in my life in ways I never would have believed had someone else told me about them. I thought I believed in Christ and His gospel before, but I really, really believe all of it now. Even though the doctrine of eternal families is a huge comfort to me, Christ is my biggest comfort.
@DrDoerk
@DrDoerk Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss, but eternal families is not biblical.
@JackV2023
@JackV2023 Жыл бұрын
Just like Adam and Eve were meant to be together forever, so are you. Your covenant will endure.
@DrDoerk
@DrDoerk Жыл бұрын
@@JackV2023 the covenant is until death..... Why doe you not believe what Jesus tells us? Instead you put the doctrine of a polygamous man above the words of Jesus.
@JackV2023
@JackV2023 Жыл бұрын
@@DrDoerk I understand you believe Jesus says what you believe. But I would invite you to reflect on the fact that when God created Adam and Eve and made them the first family there was no death. I have no interest in proving you wrong. I just would like to explain that your view is not the only one that could be considered Biblical, and that in fact Eternal Family is exactly what God created when he made Adam and Eve.
@DrDoerk
@DrDoerk Жыл бұрын
@@JackV2023 you can't prove me wrong when what I say is backed by the Bible..... There is not eternal family..... Christiana, not Mormons, will all be brothers and sisters in Christ.
@jongoff7829
@jongoff7829 Жыл бұрын
It's important to understand that family does not replace God, but that the eternal family unit is a blessing OF God to the faithful. It's like saying having your prayers answered replaces God, when the prayer is answered by God. Or that the feeling of peace that the spirit brings repalces God when it comes from God. As always, the respect with which you treat the LDS church is greatly appreciated. After all is said and done, we are all children of God, commanded to love one another, and that comes through in your videos. Thank you.
@tylerrickertsen4197
@tylerrickertsen4197 Жыл бұрын
I’ve watched, listened to, and read in many mediums as of late of the idea and belief that we were created for the sole purpose of this life on earth. That through this life we will ultimately gain a relationship with God and finally be in His presence eternally. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, I’ve come to know and truly believe that we weren’t created solely for this life. But the total opposite, this life was solely created for us. God created us and we had already lived in the presence of God as His spirit children. That we progressed as far as we could, how ever God wanted more for us. I think this is were we get confused and kind of separates us from the acceptable main stream Christian view as the purpose of this life. Why did we leave the presence of God to suffer and risk everything just for the chance to return to what we already had. For us, the idea of an Celestial eternal family is that reason.
@germanmarine6582
@germanmarine6582 Жыл бұрын
Mormon here. I think it’s also important to know that our job isn’t to put our spouse first. It’s to put God first. As Christ said, anyone who loves husband, wife, child, friend, or other, more then me, is not worthy of me. Family relations are important, in fact central; God being our father. They are important and good, but ultimately God is the author and upon him we should look and rely. As we as husband and wives look toward the father and move closer to him, we will become closer together. In Mathew 16: 18 And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. 19 And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. For us that power to bind on earth and bind in heaven is the Rock Christ was talking about. For elder hollands quote, I take it to mean yes he likes his wife, but more so that his wife embodies everything good and is a great example of what Christ is, if she doesn’t make it, then how can anyone. She is a great example of what it’s like to live in a heavenly sense. That’s my two cents If anyone puts their spouse before god, then they cannot be who or what is necessary to enter into the kingdom of heaven. Ultimately there are going to be couples who don’t both “make it” to heaven, Christ will make sure everything will work out, not that the laws of justice and be broken. “In the end everything will be alright, if it’s not alright, it’s not the end.”
@WorldSmithy
@WorldSmithy Жыл бұрын
Reminds me of the triangle lesson we learned in Sunday School. As the two bottom points of the triangle (Husband and Wife) draw closer to the top (God), they come closer together. That's the intent of the Lord, that's the natural function. But we should never put anything or anyone else before him. The promise of an Eternal Family, to me, was one of hope. That in the wisdom of God, he who knows all things, those bonds which I created on earth will be known. It's an assurance of personal value to God. At least, that's what it has been to me. I agree with your two cents overall, and I think that it should be noted that while we strive and seek for this promise of an eternal family, it's not a requirement or bar to pass. It's a a covenant, that if we as individuals draw unto God, we will be together in heaven. If someone doesn't accept the covenant, if they instead fall away from faith, then it is a sad thing, but we can rest assured that the power of Christ will heal, and all will be well. Just having to chip in my thoughts too. XD
@germanmarine6582
@germanmarine6582 Жыл бұрын
@@WorldSmithy very well said and a fine addition, thank you
@thomaspearson1919
@thomaspearson1919 Жыл бұрын
And Matthew 24 - 24 on false prophets the church is full of them.
@germanmarine6582
@germanmarine6582 Жыл бұрын
@@thomaspearson1919 I prefer Matthew 7:15-16
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
…well that perspective is more Christian than it is LDS in my opinion. I’d say, follow what the Bible says, and let the chips fall where they may…
@drewsclues5394
@drewsclues5394 Жыл бұрын
As a Latter-Day Saint, I found your insight really helpful, and even faith-building. I love that we can agree that the eternal presence of God is something we hold in high regard, and also that our families (at least in a temporal sense) are incredibly important and wonderful gifts from Him.
@prezp00nage24
@prezp00nage24 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I believe that Ike, Greil, Elena, and Mist could be a family forever if they believed in Christ.
@drewsclues5394
@drewsclues5394 Жыл бұрын
This is the greatest comment on the internet. (I know it took 8 months to reply. That's cuz I have reply notifications off lol.)
@carolfilgueira5472
@carolfilgueira5472 Жыл бұрын
Hello! I understand that as the concept is new to you, this may sound strange. I believe Elder Holland was speaking in this video specifically with those who already understood some aspects of the doctrine. Here's the point. God is above all things. I am the only one in my family who attends church, and I know I will be happy living with God. But we must remember that Elder Holland's sadness is about his earthly perspective of suffering, knowing that they became one, having to be separated. We must agree that it is a very sad situation! I know that families are eternal, and I know that this shows how much God loves us and that every aspect of his doctrine involves a lot of complexity. I suggest praying to God and finding out for yourself. Words can convince, but only the Holy Spirit converts!
@allop6881
@allop6881 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jeff. I'm a convert to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints from Mexico. I grew up a Catholic, a stounch Catholic, attending Mass at times on a daily basis. In my late teens I was convinced that I was going to become a priest, but then just before joining the seminary, I decided to spend a full week in prayer, to know with certainty that's what I was about to become was what God wanted me to become. I started my project on a Monday, I would come home from school eat my dinner at 3pm (Mexico style), then I would go to my bedroom and kneel by the side of my bed fervently asking God to guide me. I knew without a doubt that he would not guide me wrong, and He did not. By Wednesday, an American member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day saints knocked on the door of my house and in broken Spanish introduced himself saying that he had been told that we had a machine that he needed to borrow to make rabbit cages for a project that he was starting in my hometown to provide extra protein for the native people. I had just completed an English as a second language course and was able to converse with him in English, and he invited me to his home to meet his family. I immediately noticed something very unique and wonderful about how they carried themselves, and fell in love with the entire family. To make a marvellous long story short. I knew without any doubt that God had lit this man to my house as an answer to my prayer. Now 45 years later I still know without any doubt that God did not misled me. I feel that your heart is sincere in wanting to know about our church, and just know that whatever LED you on your quest to investigate the church is no coincidence. God is leading you to the truth. It was not easy for me to leave my church personally and socially, but I will never regret following what the Holy Spirit prompted me to do. I hurt you too follow the admonition in James 1:5 and follow the promptings that God will give you. You will not regret your decision to join His church.
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
Al, You too are on a journey! It's part of God's plan. The seeds have been planted and I pray that you come home to the Catholic Church one day! Peace!
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
@@sagesaith6354 Thank you! But to clarify, I do believe in a body that worships together and obeys all of God's commandments. This includes the Mass where the priests consecrates the bread and wine, and it becomes the body and blood of Jesus, as Jesus commanded at the Last Supper.True presence, not a "symbol" as just pieces of bread and water or grape juice.Jesus made it very clear that it was, in fact, HIS body and blood and not a symbol of his body and blood. God created us for community and we are to worship as a community, and the community comes together with the same beliefs. Just believing in God is a start but it is not a commitment to the true core of who God is in all His magnificence! We are not just people wandering around the earth believing in God and being nice. What distinguishes the faithful from the rest of the world is that true believers come together with one heart, one mind and worship as God commanded. Peace!
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
@@sagesaith6354 I agree. All Christians are brothers and sisters in Christ.However, non-Christians who "believe" in Jesus, hopefully, know the true Jesus, who we know IS God. Peace!
@jonathancarlson7659
@jonathancarlson7659 Жыл бұрын
@@sagesaith6354 I like your insight. Too often we treat religions as football teams where there are only winners and losers. The truth is that it will be far more tolerable in the day of judgement for a devout, upright, willing and sincere person who followed a wrong religion their whole life than a hypocrite in the true church. We should stop judging eachother by our affiliations and look more deeply into each other's hearts. This is the revolution that Pasture Jeff is participating in!
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
@@sagesaith6354 I understand your thinking. However, saints and demons who call themselves Christian, if they are sitting in the pews together, are all sinners coming to worship God! Their intent is to follow Christ. Non-Christians are people who do not follow Christ's teachings. And unless they believe in everything that Jesus taught, they are not following Christ! Peace!
@rebeccaleavitt1056
@rebeccaleavitt1056 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful statement made by Elder Holland that clearly is not only an expression of his deep love for and devotion to his wife and how much he cherishes her, but also his doctrinal belief that God wants them to remain together for eternity. God’s will, as laid out in LDS church doctrine, is that we strive for eternity together by marrying in the temple and keeping the covenants we make there with God and our spouse. Elder Holland also quotes a BIBLE scripture to emphasize that marriage between a man and woman is of great significance to God. He isn’t saying that God will not take away the pain and sorrow attached to the possibility of them not being together forever as a result of individual choices. He, as anyone who treasures this doctrine would, struggles to imagine an eternity without his wife and family. How beautiful. God’s great plan of happiness provides that families CAN be together forever. Pastor Jeff is twisting what was actually said and meant by Elder Holland in order to keep to his agenda of disproving LDS doctrine. How can a doctrine that gives us the hope and possibility to be with our families forever make anyone uncomfortable in anyway?
@brownstranger10
@brownstranger10 Жыл бұрын
Our personal relationship with the savior remains essential for salvation and exaltation. Without Him, we are lost. Our willingness to sacrifice and commit to our families teaches us to love deeply in a way that is extremely difficult to replicate in any other way and in any other setting. The unconditional love we develop for our family as we give of ourselves and our time gives us a glimpse at the perfect love God has for us. I believe that kind of love endures and God has the power to honor our sacrifices. What more righteous goal is there than to live in enduring love with God with the families that showed us how to love as he loves us. God listens to the prayers of those that ask him with sincerity the desires of their hearts and I believe that, not only is it a worthy and righteous goal to return to God with our families, God's joy is magnified by the same.
@lataifaleofa6115
@lataifaleofa6115 Жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL TESTIMONY THANK YOU SO MUCH
@hrv4908
@hrv4908 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. We can and will have both relationships, for there is not one without the other.
@bretthall5106
@bretthall5106 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jeff, thank you for your thoughtful insights and sharing of the evangelical position. I appreciate your tone and willingness to engage respectfully in areas in which we both agree and disagree. It is an interesting take to have eternal family as idol worship. I agree that some people may take it to that level where they miss the mark and make family an idol (more important than God), but no more than some people take Bible worship as an idol. There are some who are so strict in THEIR interpretations of the Bible that the Bible itself becomes an idol to them. The Jews did this with their scriptures in the days of Christ and missed out on recognizing their Messiah (they worshipped the word but not the Messiah who gave the word). Some people do this today as well. If the Bible replaces God in your life (the Bible becomes ones God rather than God being God and the Bible simply being his message) then it is counteracting the intended purpose of the Bible--to bring one into relationship with him. It does not make the Bible untrue--the Bible is true and it is the word of God, but people can take correct principles and doctrines and turn them into idols. If viewed correctly, eternal families are not an idol any more than the Bible is an idol. It is truth. But if you place it above God in importance then it becomes an idol. With the eternal marriage covenant we are actually covenanting not only with our spouse but with God as well, not to be placed over God but in a relationship with him, beneath him, but together.
@jonathancarlson7659
@jonathancarlson7659 Жыл бұрын
Very well said! The whole 'Bible worship' thing you just pointed out has been running through my mind all week!
@Waltvault
@Waltvault Жыл бұрын
The Bible is true in its fullness. There is literally no need to add or subtract from it. Joseph smith who clearly is a false prophet if you actually read the word and what the Bible says about salvation, changed and thwarted the gospel on how to obtain salvation. Grace thru faith not of works is the one that comes to my mind
@elliothuntington8980
@elliothuntington8980 Жыл бұрын
Brett Hall, I agree with your response. Thank you for articulating it. I can also understand, and respect the sharing of, the Pastors feelings in respond to Elder Holland's remarks. While watching him present his thoughts about Elder Holland's comment, specifically that viewing our personal or familial relationships more important than our relationship with the savior as an idol, is a valid point/concern. However, I don't agree that that is what Elder Holland was saying. I don't think Elder Holland was placing his relationship with his wife above, or replacing, his relationship with the savior. Regarding this topic, of sorrow one might experience if any family member were not with us "in heaven" my thoughts are turned to the third of the hosts of heaven that were cast out because they did not keep their first estate. Does God mourn their loss due to their own decision? I think so. I think it's hard for us, with our finite minds, to try and balance any form of loss or sorrow with "eternal happiness". It may be possible to have both eternal happiness and eternal sorrow simultaneously. Heaven would still be heaven regardless how we feel about it. But I think it's difficult, if not impossible, for us to either comprehend or express those things in our imperfect mortal condition. I'm thankful for agency, and that families can be eternal through the sealing power, which comes from Christ through his priesthood.
@DrDoerk
@DrDoerk Жыл бұрын
@@Waltvault yes, JS is definitely a false prophet..... Not sure how so much people follow someone who taught polygamy....
@janettesmith3025
@janettesmith3025 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos! I’ll be honest, a lot of the time when you explain the differences between my faith as a Latter-Day Saint and your Protestant faith… it sounds like the same thing haha. I get your perspective on idolatry, but I don’t think that’s what it is in Latter-day Saint doctrine. Families are central to our faith, YES! Who is God?
@briancrismonpetersen7885
@briancrismonpetersen7885 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jeff - Thank you, as always for this thought provoking video. I have spent many hours studying the Bible and many hours discussing these topics with multiple pastors from multiple faiths. I admire your sincere approach. I admire the love you have for your family. And your flock and your God-lead desire to show Latter-day Saints where they are misled as you see it. Certainly God is the only fulfillment. Thank you for sharing what guarantees you have and stating it in scripture. I personally believe you have made a distinction without a difference. You love your family. God gave your family to you. It’s so much of your life. He would most likely not take this away in the next life in sole favor of worshipping Him eternally as some sort of absorption or absolve by of all of our intimacies and familial bonds in favor of all having a single bond with Him, would He? But instead would require that we put in first in this life as we form these bonds. I believe our family bonds are a type and a shadow of what is to come. What is possible later if we have honored Him. As the blessed fulfillment of having kept the first and second greatest commandments of loving our God and our neighbors as ourselves. Please learn more about Temple dealings. Please study Elder Holland’s life so that you have the full context of his statement. I am confident that as you do you will have more fullness that comes from the necessity for us all to be bound together in God’s way. Ironically embodying exactly what you have stated as Heaven. Exactly as stated in Revelation. With sealing as the first methods by which we become bound to Him and unified together.
@winston1daniel
@winston1daniel Жыл бұрын
This is incredible insight! I love that you highlight the supreme value, pleasure, and satisfaction of existing in the presence of God for eternity.
@mikehouston6851
@mikehouston6851 Жыл бұрын
As always thank you for your honest and respectful comparison of our respective beliefs. I've really enjoyed understanding your perspective.
@ToolEnvy
@ToolEnvy Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jeff, thank you ... truly! As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, I believe your insights and approach will both help members of our church, and those who do not share the same faith, grow closer to Jesus Christ. That is a wonderful thing. Thank you again for your insights and what I believe to be Christ-like approach to contrasting views on scripture and doctrine!
@barendse1
@barendse1 Жыл бұрын
I really respect (coming from a Protestant perspective) how you lovingly convey the similarities and differences based on scripture and interpretation. It's refreshing.
@thomaspearson1919
@thomaspearson1919 Жыл бұрын
Read my comment at the top page..
@MsSprockets
@MsSprockets Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness!! God does what He does for His family, His children! Familly is what it is all about. That is why families are sealed together forever in the holy temples!
@jamesreed2475
@jamesreed2475 Жыл бұрын
One of the things I appreciate most about being LDS is that we are not just taught where we can find truth (Scriptures) but also to try to understand the nature and why of things. Those of us who love our family deeply want to be with them in the next life. For some of us that may not be possible. And of course God can or will do whatever it takes to heal or help us. The question is: why are we in family units? You say wife/husband is an earthly substitute for the Savior. God very intentionally placed us in units with Mother/Father and Brother/Sister. Why? What do they represent? Why were they given to us? Christ is referred to over and over as our elder brother. It's hard for me to conceive of a reason why God would organize us into very consistent and specific family units if they had no eternal significance. His nature is such that everything has intention.
@BGCflyer
@BGCflyer Жыл бұрын
…true, but Jesus is NOT our actual brother, He is God in the flesh as the Son of GOD. The ONLY actual literal son of God. That’s what the Bible says. Jesus himself even referred himself to being God and thus the Pharisees tried to stone Jesus to death. To put Jesus lower than God is “Arianism” which was the main focus of the debate in the Nicene council 325AD. It was proven then, like it is now, Jesus is NOT below God, but is co-equal with the Father and the Holy Spirit, thus three separate persons but co-equal as God. It’s the only explanation that answers ALL verses of the Bible both Old and New Testament.
@DustinPerry86
@DustinPerry86 Жыл бұрын
@@BGCflyer the uninspired men in the Nicene council did not prove anything. They voted on the topic; it was not unanimous. That does not mean anything was "proven". Christ Himself clearly teaches what is meant by being "one with the Father" in His Intercessory Prayer. It is about Unity, not essence. "That they may be one in me, AS I am one in thee." Clearly Christ is not teaching that we should be one essence with God here. John 17:21-23. The Nicene Creed is extra-biblical and apostate doctrine.
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
Jesus gave us families to help us understand who He is and what His eternal family looks like. He taught us that HE is the groom and we, as the faithful are the bride. When we reach heaven, we will be His eternal family. Jesus also taught that no one can get us to heaven except ourselves. We ONLY need God. We need no one else. The same is true in eternity. We only need God. When people think like humans, they doubt what God has given us. He gave us families to give us a glimpse into eternal life in heaven. If we do not place ALL our faith and love into our Lord, we feel that we NEED more; we need our earthly families to be happy in eternity. Peace!
@DustinPerry86
@DustinPerry86 Жыл бұрын
@@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 the two concepts are not mutually exclusive.
@hrv4908
@hrv4908 Жыл бұрын
@@BGCflyer Jesus IS our elder brother who was the God of the old testament. The rest of your comment is correct.
@tbarron1631
@tbarron1631 Жыл бұрын
Here's what I love about this video. We can have different understanding of God's plan for us and still be respectful. Thank you.
@leem3299
@leem3299 Жыл бұрын
Walking through a mine field with style and heart. Thank you
@stevenjohansen9588
@stevenjohansen9588 Жыл бұрын
Thank you again for your work and for treating my faith with such respect. It's nice to learn from you.
@JH-1775
@JH-1775 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jeff, I am guilty of replacing God with my loved ones. When my faith is stressed, I often tell myself my purpose is to be the best husband and best father possible. Your explanation of the all encompassing God is bringing me back!
@cabarete2003
@cabarete2003 Жыл бұрын
Of course, let's be clear that The Church of Jesus Christ clearly teaches that you put God first.
@DrDoerk
@DrDoerk Жыл бұрын
@@cabarete2003 which God? The one true eternal God, or one of the millions of gods that Mormons believe in?
@cabarete2003
@cabarete2003 Жыл бұрын
​@@DrDoerk I could ask the same of a Trinitarian. But of course, we do as Jesus taught...to become one as he and his Father are one by following the Father's commandments as given to us by Christ.
@DrDoerk
@DrDoerk Жыл бұрын
@@cabarete2003 the trinity is described in the Bible..... 1 God, 3 persons of God. Christians believe in monotheism and monogomy..... Mormons believe in polytheism and polygamy.
@cabarete2003
@cabarete2003 Жыл бұрын
@@DrDoerk In the Bible? Where is the Trinity taught in the Bible? It is a hellenistic borrowing at best. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is not polytheistic. We worship the Eternal Father through his son, Jesus Christ. There are other gods, but we only worship one god. There is plenty of biblical hints of the existence of other gods and of theosis. And, yes, we believe polygamy is a biblical teaching reserved for God's purposes on earth. I do find it amusing that non-members of the Church of Jesus Christ get so riled up about polygamy (which occurred in the Bible) where a man takes on an additional wife (why one would choose to, I have know idea) give her his name and care for her financially and otherwise, yet they rarely seem all that upset about a man taking on mistresses, lovers. In fact, many freely practice it on a Saturday and preach how evil those "Mormons" are on Sunday. And why? Cause The Church of Jesus Christ, with its 80,000 missionaries, is stealing market share from Christianity, Inc $$$$. You can't buy private jets, mansions and fancy cars if those pesky "Mormons" keep stealing from your customer base....I mean flock. Even those pastors not making millions can't keep the mortgage up when they are losing market share!!! Com'on!!! SMH @ Corporate Christianity.
@scottyraab2082
@scottyraab2082 Жыл бұрын
Simply put, God is my Father. I am his son. Jesus Christ is my Brother and my Savior. We are a family. We are all brothers and sisters. I want to return to my Father and have all my brothers and sisters with me.
@jessewilson7809
@jessewilson7809 Жыл бұрын
I really like what you are doing with this channel. I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and I appreciate this sort of dialog. I think it is great having genuine people such as yourself poking your head into our faith and sharing your thoughts and feelings about it with others. I like the videos but I feel like they would be even better if you did 1 of 2 things to make sure that you are understanding things from our perspective and portraying our church accurately: 1. Run your script for the video by an active member (maybe a leader) within the LDS church or 2. do more homework on a given topic than just watching a video and reading one document. Sorry if that seems overcritical... it probably is. I really think you do a great job! If you do want someone to review the LDS beliefs portion of your video scripts, I would gladly do that for you for free. Keep up the good work!
@HelloSaints
@HelloSaints Жыл бұрын
Love this feedback. Thank you!
@jessewilson7809
@jessewilson7809 Жыл бұрын
@@HelloSaints you're incredible
@hulligans2866
@hulligans2866 Жыл бұрын
Jesse, I love these videos too! Fun to see you on here. Great suggestion. 👍
@Earlfam
@Earlfam Жыл бұрын
Agreed. I like these videos but there always seems to be some aspect of our doctrine that is off such that the response and comparison is harmed as a result. It feels sometimes like straw men are being set up before you respond. And I don’t think that’s the intent. I want to see you nail our doctrine and then respond. When you miss important elements or misstate it in some way, it harms the contrast. Here, it was the misunderstanding of what Elder Holland was trying to say. He was not suggesting that his wife would replace God, be more important than God, or that TECHNICALLY Heaven would not be Heaven without her. His statement was a figure of speech, to express his love for her and his kids. We believe there will be single people in the highest kingdom. So, by definition we do not believe a family is a requirement for Heaven to be Heaven. But we do believe that the family is ordained of God and there is nothing about eternal families that is contrary to God’s plan. We believe God’s glory and greatness are complete and do not suffer in any way when we have loving family relationships that preserve beyond the veil. Again, I love your kindness and your sincerity. There is a real need for kind dialogue. And I’ve learned good things about your faith. So please know this feedback comes from a place of respect.
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
Jesse, As Catholic with a Mormon daughter and someone who has studied the LDS church for over 25 years, what could Jeff have possibly portrayed incorrectly about the LDS belief on eternal family? LDS DO believe that they will be functioning as earthly families in heaven. That is why you are sealed to your family while on earth. And you also believe that you will be procreating in heaven. The bottom line is that Christians only want to be with God for eternity. He is the epitome of complete love and joy! We need nothing else. Peace!
@lizfonua1892
@lizfonua1892 Жыл бұрын
I have really enjoyed your videos. Thank you for the efforts and time you put into learning and preparing these for goodness in the world. As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints i would say you missed the center point from our gospel perspective more so than other videos. This probably needs a revisit in my opinion
@littlebigband2010
@littlebigband2010 Жыл бұрын
God is a family man
@lindagracecox4265
@lindagracecox4265 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Pastor Jeff for these beautiful videos!! I joined the LDS Church when I was 17 when much to the chagrin of my mom I was baptized into the LDS Church. When she saw I was determined to be baptized, she changed her mind and signed the permission slip a month a month before my 18th birthday. Now 42 years later, I’m happily married to the man of my dreams, having raised 8 children and are now enjoying 22 grandkids!
@yamilinostroza
@yamilinostroza Жыл бұрын
Hi, Pastor Jeff. I really appreciate what you do and it's really instructive for me as a Latter-day Saint to more about the Protestant teachings and points of view about shared doctrines. I think I would use some of your videos when I had the opportunity to explain Protestant teaching. Regarding our teaching on families, I have never felt my family like replacing Jesus in my life. Neither my wife nor my parents sacrifice themself for my sins as Jesus did, but they are a way Jesus has shown His love for me. I believe that eternal families in the next life are a way Jesus and our Father are expressing Their love and giving us full of joy in Heaven.
@DW-yl9ww
@DW-yl9ww Жыл бұрын
Romans 7:2 For a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he lives, but if her husband dies she is released from the law of marriage. Mark 12:25 For when they rise from the dead, they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.
@AccelComm
@AccelComm 11 ай бұрын
@@DW-yl9ww Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.
@alessandra7852
@alessandra7852 Жыл бұрын
I lost my precious son 10 months ago and I am living hell on this earth without him here. In order for me to achieve happiness in the spiritual world without him, he would have to be erased from my mind and then having a family in this world would be a waste.
@oddlang687
@oddlang687 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video! Being raised in the LDS Church, I hadn't heard a clear explanation of Evangelical Christian beliefs regarding marriage and heaven until now. Your discussion on how marriage is essentially a temporary replacement for the love, joy, and fulfillment that is to come in heaven when we are with God was really enlightening to me. Thanks!
@angelathayer3559
@angelathayer3559 Жыл бұрын
I’m a Christian who was raised in the LDS church (who no longer believes in the doctrine of the LDS church). My grandparents were not raised LDS. Their two oldest children died together in a house fire when they were approximately 1 & 3 years old. I’m convinced that the eternal family teaching is how they were brought into the Mormon faith. Thanks for this video.
@donlechon9381
@donlechon9381 Жыл бұрын
Hi Angela, since you are a Christian and believe in the Bible let me ask you a question. In the story of Job everything was taken from him, but at the end all was given back in double portions. Except 1 thing his children's can you explain why?
@Mike-vg3ub
@Mike-vg3ub Жыл бұрын
I find it interesting that one of the top commonalities of NDE’s are that they meet a family member or several family members. Many times it’s not even a family member they ever met in there mortal life. Some have NDE’s with a kind guide and after returning back to this world find out the guide was a great relative that they never met. I believe there is more importance in family relationships than has been revealed to us during this life. On another note…another commonality of NDE’s are that they feel more at home in that realm than they ever felt in this mortal life. Many speak of a feeling of returning home. Some have experienced remember or being shown what promises they had made prior to coming to earth.
@latter-daysaintchristian4134
@latter-daysaintchristian4134 Жыл бұрын
I love hearing your perspective, Pastor Jeff. Thank you so much for helping LDS members understand their Christian brothers and sisters view of Christ’s plan for us. From your point of view, when does Christ become all you need? When does He bring us eternal nurturing, eternal fulfillment, and eternal love? Does it happen here on earth, when we accept Him and gain a relationship with him, or does it only happen after we die? If we can be in right relationship with him here on earth, then do we really need parents, spouses, childrens, friends, etc.? Would you be ok severing those relationships on earth, if you knew they were also in right relationship with God? In other words, I don’t think He gave us earthly relationships in place of or in pattern with a relationship with Him. I think He means those relationships to enhance and expand our relationship with Him.
@erinhartman9591
@erinhartman9591 Жыл бұрын
As someone who has left the lds church and become a Christian, I can tell you that the only way I got through leaving the church was this concept. I love my earthly family dearly but they no longer believe we will be together in eternity. Being in the presence of God IS enough for me. Now and in heaven. Latter Day Saints expect converts to accept the "reality" that by joining the church they won't be sealed to their non member family and expect the lds gospel to be "enough" for them. My non member inlaws didnt get to see our temple sealing but we were told that the ordinance was more important than our family's feelings. I think it's important to keep that in perspective. Short answer: Being in the presence of God will be and is enough. If a person doesn't have a testimony of that, maybe they have never truly experienced God's presence. That was a major change in my life. I realized that I never truly experienced God's presence until I left the church. I'm also totally grateful for the knowledge that I will never be a Godess.. or that I might have to live for eternity in a polygamous marriage. I am confident in my salvation and dont have to worry if I am Celestial or Telestial material. If is nothing else but praising Jesus for eternity and being in His presence- I will sing Hallelujah forever.
@latter-daysaintchristian4134
@latter-daysaintchristian4134 Жыл бұрын
@@erinhartman9591 the lovely part is that God loves us enough to give us what we strive for and expect. My family wasn’t able to be with me in the temple, either, but even the Bible tells us that sometimes we have to leave family behind in order to follow Him, and that we should cleave unto our spouse in God. I am so thankful for my temple marriage, which gives me power through Christ to help my family in many ways I wouldn’t have, otherwise. I’m glad you feel God’s presence now. I’m sorry it didn’t work for you before, but I’m so thankful it works for me.
@ricardomendoza3772
@ricardomendoza3772 Жыл бұрын
I can't wait to see your video when you read the Book of Mormon.
@maillemacanaugh1841
@maillemacanaugh1841 Жыл бұрын
This sort of kind honesty is sorely needed when confronting the subject of Mormonism. They deserve to have their teachings honestly represented, with respect, brotherhood, and charity.
@deathstar008
@deathstar008 Жыл бұрын
Hey Pastor Jeff, I've been subscribed for a while and love seeing your perspective from the outside looking in. I would like to echo what many others have said about your thoughts on eternal marriage in that we still see Christ and His Atonement as our focal point of worship. We are not idolatrizing our families/wives, etc. Rather because our belief is that God wants us to be together as families forever, it is important that we make them an important part of what we do.
@DannyAGray
@DannyAGray Жыл бұрын
Jeff, you continue to give the most sublime and wonderful comparisons and contrasts. I think this is one of those topics I would have fought you tooth and nail on years ago, but the beauty of your faith helps me realize the respect I have for the views of others. For all the sin I've indulged in and all the effort I've put into repentance, right now I'm just praying everyday that I qualify to be reconciled with God and get the privilege to worship Him forever! I'd be satisfied just to kiss his feet and worship him on my face. I just want a chance. I think Elder Holland would feel the same way - that God IS enough. That said, hoping to be eternally with our wives does not replace God or even put them before God. I view the idea of eternal marriage as an additional reward. I wish I could speak more to it. My testimony used to be much stronger and forceful towards it; but as I said, I've struggled so much that, right now, I'm just hoping to catch a thread of the hem of His glory. I'll let Him figure out the logistics from there.
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
Danny, When Jesus was choosing disciples, he told them to let the dead bury the dead. They were to abandon their families and follow! That should give you a glimpse into God's world! Peace!
@DannyAGray
@DannyAGray Жыл бұрын
@@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 why marry at all then? Why bother with children? Why not teach children to abandon their parents and move them into monasteries? Perhaps part of following Christ is learning the importance of families and marriage and the depth of respect and devotion that comes with it. I'm not sure why hoping to be wife my bride forever, and taking part in ordinances and making covenants to devote myself to her forever, could be construed as idolizing her or our marriage or putting her ahead of God. In the contrary, we covenant to hold to each other just as we hold to the Lord, and commit to growing in our faith together.
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
@@DannyAGray The whole purpose of our earthly life is to teach us about God and prepare for eternal life. Jesus taught us about many things through parables and example. He always compared marriage to the marriage of Himself and his church - He is the bridegroom and we, his faithful are the body of Christ, the bride.And that is heavenly marriage. Our earthly families mirror the heavenly family. God is our father but he is also our brother and friend. He is every part of our family all wrapped into one! Our spouses and children reveal to us just how magnificent the heavenly family will be. We love them so much. But God transcends all earthly life. It gives us a glimpse into how incredible heavenly life is with an all loving God who gives us everything we could ever imagine. God's ways are not our ways. He is so much more than earthly life! Peace!
@DannyAGray
@DannyAGray Жыл бұрын
@@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 is it your opinion, then, that we are meant to either be dammed to hell or else spend eternity as angels praising God?
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
@@DannyAGray My belief is that we will either spend eternity in one heaven - all of us, or be damned to hell. We will never be angels. Scripture tells us that we are right below the angels. God created the angels before he created man. Peace!
@joshpitt6187
@joshpitt6187 Жыл бұрын
I think there are definitely situations where Latter-day Saints are putting their family before God, and this provided great insight to why that should be avoided. I think the primary distinguisher in this discussion is that a Latter-day saint views the ultimate post-mortal existence, Eternal Life, as becoming like God in every sense of his being. Since a foundational belief in our church is that God consists of a Heavenly Father and Mother and we are their literal Spiritual children, then our emphasis on Eternal Families is really an emphasis on becoming like our Heavenly Parents and enjoying a life like theirs. It all circles back to our understanding of the nature of God and our relationship to Him.
@lindseyreyes983
@lindseyreyes983 Жыл бұрын
Exactly this, yes. And why not, if we believe Paul’s letter to the Romans: “And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint heirs with Christ.” (Romans 8:17)
@loriadkins6681
@loriadkins6681 Жыл бұрын
I am a Latter Day Saint, and I am divorced. I have had to anchor my faith and my hope in the blessings in eternity of living with my Savior one day. In this life it is He, my Savior who has given me comfort through a tremendously difficult marriage, to living in a better way divorced and single. I have learned that only the Lord can love and understand me fully and completely; only the Lord will never let us down. Whether married or single, we all feel alone at times and that longing in part is beckoning us to draw closer to Him who created us. I trust God more than any human, and am thankful for the many times I have felt held and comforted by the Lord in the deepest trials.❤❤
@Paxmann92
@Paxmann92 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video! I think our focus on the family originates from a focus on Christ. We definitely don’t put family above God. Our commitment to our family is because of our commitment to God. If our commitment to family were to ever come in conflict with our commitment to God, God takes precedence. But most importantly, our love for God should be manifest by our love for others. Satan would have us think salvation is individual and selfish. We’re only responsible for ourselves, ie I’m not my brother’s keeper. God’s way is to look outward and go after every lost sheep. Families are one way He does that. We are bound together in our quest for restoration with God.
@44Songbird54
@44Songbird54 Жыл бұрын
Love how gently & clearly you expressed the truth. Not YOUR truth. Thee Truth.
@janh1399
@janh1399 Жыл бұрын
If we have a Father in Heaven, then we have a Mother in Heaven. If God has a wife, that is eternal. If we are His children, that is eternal. So eternal families make perfect sense because that is how God the Father lives......in an eternal family. If that is important to Him, it is important to me. I love Him as my Father in Heaven. I pray to Him as my Dear and Holy Father in Heaven. I feel His great love, mercy, grace for me as His child. My dear husband passed away 22 years ago. We both loved God before we met. In our marriage, we love God first, then each other. God is the high point in our triangle of love. That is eternal and forever. We love one another better because we love God first. We love family better because God is first. Christ is the only way in this life and eternally. He suffered beyond comprehension to bring us back to God the Father eternally. He is the Holy Son of God, the Only Begotten Son. He is central to God's plan for our Salvation. Truth rings in my heart. Truth is eternal.
@skylerjensen8215
@skylerjensen8215 Жыл бұрын
Like many of the other comments here I too was excited to hear your reaction to the doctrine of eternal families. I felt the spirit of truth in much of what you were saying as to the warning of making our family an idol as it relates to our relationship to God and our perception of heaven. I am grateful for that insight and I do believe it’s something that many members of the Latter Day Saints myself included may be inclined to do (keep in mind I am saying this as a very active member of the LDS faith). That being said I also have felt the spirit of truth as it relates to eternal nature of the family and most importantly the man and woman marriage relationship. Though i love my wife and children very much I cannot control the choices they make or if they will desire to choose to follow Jesus Christ and his gospel or not. I know Gods plan provides the possibility of being together with my family but ultimately they like myself have to choose it. Ultimately I know this is my own experience and everyone’s path is different but we accept the doctrines of eternal families, the need for temples in our day, and continuing revelation through modern day prophets to be true based on our understanding of the truthfulness and veracity of the Book of Mormon as to what Joseph claimed it to be. I am excited for you to read the Book of Mormon and share your experience with it.
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
A few weeks ago I had a revelation and it was wonderful! I saw eternity in heaven - I was sitting with Jesus and having a wonderful conversation! This made me so excited because I thought, "how wonderful it will be that I can just sit with Jesus and talk face to face! That in itself is eternal bliss!!! Peace!
@MrDaveKC
@MrDaveKC Жыл бұрын
That's a great way of expressing the difference Jeff. Thanks for sharing.
@SLIMIEE444
@SLIMIEE444 Жыл бұрын
As a new Christian and former Latter- Day Saint (left last November), I cannot express how thankful I am that you put together this video. Eternal families has been my biggest thing to overcome. It’s so hard to let that concept go. This spoke to my heart and gave me peace. Thanks so much for all that you do!
@fps621
@fps621 Жыл бұрын
amazing testimony man.
@darkforgiven360
@darkforgiven360 Жыл бұрын
May the Lord bless you and guide you in your journey. It is never easy to leave the culture you know and have grown up with. Keep focusing on Jesus day in and day out. He will satisfy every need.
@mrbrit6746
@mrbrit6746 Жыл бұрын
Can I ask why you left? I've been considering joining, and have enjoyed meeting my local ward/missionaries - although I am still undecided whether to get baptised... there's something that I can't quite explain which is putting slight doubts in my mind.
@lesliegraham4735
@lesliegraham4735 Жыл бұрын
​@@mrbrit6746 Hi what kind of doubts? If you look at the very creation of God, before sin came into world, God joined a man and a woman together in marriage, so it wasn't a compensation for falling from God, it was the very eternal relationship that God wanted for a man and a woman. They were joined as one. Jesus Christ himself put it into perspective when he said, "let them be one even as we are one". This is often overlooked. Also, when it does say that neither is the man without the woman, or the woman without the man in the Lord, elevates the marital relationship of understanding the relationship that the son has with the Father and the Father with the son. The spirit of Elijah is about the sealing power of families throughout time and eternity. It is sealed through that very priesthood power, that is having neither beginning of days, nor end of life, means that what is sealed on earth by this power is also sealed in heaven. This is life eternal, that they might know thee, the only true God and Jesus Christ... No one can truly understand the power of God and how much he loves us, without understanding his revelations on the eternal nature of families. It is as is said on the Lion King, the circle of (eternal life) that is in Christ. Many of the misunderstandings of God come from post biblical definitions of the scriptures. They are not biblical definitions, but definitions from private interpretations. They were made after the prophets had been killed. The bible itself says, surely the Lord will do NOTHING without revealing his secrets unto his servants the prophets. Yet the creeds about who God is were made without any prophet on the earth and are all private interpretations of men. Man was meant to fall; it was part of God's plan. Jesus as our Saviour was not a backup plan, he was the plan, from before we came down to earth. We were in the spirit world, before the "in the beginning was the word". Even pastor Jeff describes this in his video on the three heavens that this concept in context, was to do with the physical expressions of the clouds and sky beyond and the firmament type of thing. Again without a prophet explaining all these things, there are too many private interpretations. If you were as an eternal, intelligent, all powerful being, were put in a vast room, that was empty and in complete darkness and were contemplating "as some Christian preachers have said God was doing". Would you just stay there for all eternity past, before you had an idea to create a universe and people to worship you. So, after trillions upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions, upon trillions........................ of eons of time, it came to you to create light and life. So, you switch the light on by your power and saw it was good. Would that be the actions of an intelligent being, who is supposed to be light, to have remained in darkness for so long. That is what the so-called biblical world expects us to believe when they actual want us to accept that in the beginning was an absolute, rather than a relative meaning of the creation of the universe, with its heavens and earths. We existed as spirit children before these creations were made. We watched it all happen, God created the heavens and earths for us. Before ye were formed in the belly I knew thee and ORDAINED thee. You do not ordain a concept or though, but a being, a person. Also, Jesus told us he doeth NOTHING but what he had seen the Father do, that includes the creation and judgment which the Father gives to the son to do. As Jesus is a spirit son of the Father, as we are, then Jesus would have been shown in vision what the Father had done before as a Saviour of his universe as he was exalted by his Father. The Eternal Power of the Priesthood has neither beginning of days, nor end of life, and all whom become heirs with Christ, receive that power and can then be one with him and with the Father and join in that group of being one with God and called eternal. There continues the circle of eternal life. It is the highest Glory of a loving Father for his children to become like him, in eternity. To deny this is to put limitations on God's power. This is my work and my glory, to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man (and I can say woman as well, as they are neither without each other in the Lord). Think about it.
@justinnovac
@justinnovac Жыл бұрын
@@mrbrit6746 pray about it and rood the book of Mormon you'll come to know of its truthfulness through the spirit
@chocolateguineapig7128
@chocolateguineapig7128 Жыл бұрын
Hey pastor! I'm a 16 year old LDS girl who stumbled across your channel and it means alot to me that you're fighting criticism with curiosity considering the amount of hate and attacks my religion gets. It would be intersting to see your reaction to the Book of Mormon after youve read it and pondered and prayed about the truth of it. I heard in one of your videos say you havent read the Book of Mormon but it would be very interesting to see a Christian pastor react to it after reading it. Thanks for your videos!
@erikrosvall775
@erikrosvall775 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to see someone on KZfaq talk about the importance of family and marriage. I love that you mentioned Paul’s instruction that a husband should love his wife as Christ loved the church (Eph. 5:25). Though it mentions His love for the church in past tense, I don’t believe His love stopped at the grave (Rom. 8:35, 38-39). Nor do I believe His relationship with the church ended with His death (Colossians 1:18). So, if we are to have the type of love for our spouse as the love Christ has for the church, to develop the type of marital relationship as Jesus has with us, what else could it be other than an eternal marriage? So when Elder Holland says “I wouldn’t know how to speak of heaven without my wife or my children,” I don’t hear idolatry, I hear “He that loveth not, knoweth not God; for God is love” (1 John 4:8). And knowing God is life eternal (John 3:16). I realize that we probably have a difference in opinion on what heaven is, but that’s what heaven is to me; eternal life. But I think you’re right. Just being with Jesus isn’t enough for me. I want to KNOW him, not just be with Him. If I am to ever truly know Him, it is by entering into a covenant relationship with Him and my spouse. Not some temporary arrangement where we agree “til death do we part” but “for time and all eternity.” By entering into an eternal marriage, I leave my past life behind and am born again in the image of the Bridegroom. And when I do, I can then begin to see the kingdom of God (John 3:3). And every step we take to become one in marriage (Matthew 19:3-6) we fulfill the hopes of the Savior that we may eventually become one with Him, as He is with the Father (John 17:20-23). Eternal marriage isn’t a replacement to worshiping God, it’s HOW we worship Him (John 14:15, Eph. 5:25). I realize that you believe you don’t need to be with your wife to experience paradise and I don’t disagree that being with Jesus would be paradise. But to me, heaven is more than just a location, it's about becoming. God bless you, my brother in the Lord and may He continue to bless us with curiosity. Ask and ye shall receive, seek and ye shall find, knock and it shall be opened unto you.
@howardmcomber8578
@howardmcomber8578 Жыл бұрын
Hosea’s story is a beautiful story of the journey of a family. Israel itself is a family. Most of all. Each family link is a link in the chain that makes the whole family of God. Jesus brings us into oneness! I am fascinated what you say in your service when an old woman has died following her husbands death a few years before? Why in the Bible did a brother provide children for a dead brother for the eternities if it didn’t matter after they were dead?
@jenessem9276
@jenessem9276 Жыл бұрын
Whom have I in heaven except you Lord? Thanks for the video, a former Lds now born again Protestant Christian My Lds family no longer believes we will be together forever 😢
@kinganalyze
@kinganalyze Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jeff for this great series. I heard you on the Leading Saints podcast with Kurt Francom. I loved that conversation and since then have watch all of your videos. I loved what you said about the Lord working outside our expectations and that he is doing something in the lives of people, especially at the intersection of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and the rest of Christianity. I have felt something similar for the last couple years. I believe that all followers of Christ can find strength by uniting in His cause for caring for each other, regardless of beliefs, in love and respect. I have been trying to learn more about the beliefs of other Christian denominations and I have loved your explanations of your beliefs, specifically with how they directly compare/contrast to our beliefs.
@michaelparrella1710
@michaelparrella1710 Жыл бұрын
Hi pastor Jeff, I like your desire to get to know the Church of Jesus Christ little better. It's been interesting to get to know your beliefs and views, as well. How has your study of the Book of Mormon been?
@tonyclark4618
@tonyclark4618 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your continuing conversation, I genuinely enjoy your videos. This video is interesting to me because I just had this conversation with my mother in-law on Conference weekend. She is an amazing member of the Evangelical community. Her and I have grown to mutually respect each other as we have wrestled many theological issues over the years. I truly love her and respect her opinion even though we disagree on certain aspects of the Gospel. Please don't take the following as me being argumentative, because I don't mean it that way. If I understand Protestant Doctrine correctly (and correct me if I am wrong), Protestants for the most part believe the following: 1) that we are in this fallen world due to Adam and Eves sin in the Garden of Eden and had they not sinned, we would all be there now. 2) The Garden of Eden was essentially the same as what Heaven will be after we are Resurrected; we had perfect immortal bodies and we were in the presence of God. "We" meaning Adam and Eve. 3) Due to the command to "multiply and replenish the earth", Adam and Eve would have had children, those children would have eventually paired off and had children, and so on and so on, just as happened here in the fallen world. Does this not describe families? Would not these families have been essentially eternal in nature? From a Protestant prospective, it's sounds to me like Eternal families in the Garden of Eden/the Presence of God was the plan all along. If so in the Garden of Eden, why not in Heaven? Do the ideas of Eternal Families and fulfillment from being in the presence of God have to be mutually exclusive ideas?
@latter-daysaintchristian4134
@latter-daysaintchristian4134 Жыл бұрын
This is brilliant. Very, very true.
@leishamortimer
@leishamortimer Жыл бұрын
I’d like to echo many of the comments here. I think this video is based on a (I would say ignorantly so) major misconception. We don’t believe that families replace God, but that we will live with God who unites us as families forever. Our most important relationship is with God our father and Jesus Christ our savior, and the Holy Ghost. The next most important relationship we have, is with our family. You’re right, God does come first. But through God we will grow closer to our family. The purpose of the afterlife isn’t just to be with God and tell him how great he is forever. It’s so much more than that! We have opportunity for growth! To become as God is with our eternal companion growing also to become as God is. One last thing. (Sorry this is long winded.) Please be honest in your quest for truth. With an open heart and a contrite spirit read the Book of Mormon. I was very interested in these videos at first. I loved hearing your perspective, but your sincerity of your quest has diminished with each video as you have yet to read the Book of Mormon with an open heart and contrite spirit. I’m trusting less and less your sincerity and thoughtfulness of what you’re trying to do.
@redplanet76
@redplanet76 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. His videos started out fun but it seems like every new video diminishes our true representation. Anyway, good comment.
@madigrenko4670
@madigrenko4670 Жыл бұрын
Having an eternal family and being excited about living with them in Heaven, doesn't replace God. He gave us families as a way to learn to be like God.
@jameswood3257
@jameswood3257 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jeff I had a bishop who was amazing. He would always tell my wife and I " God comes first, then your family, then your church calling. He always wanted to make sure our callings where not so overwhelming to the point that we could not keep God and our family above it. I think it's Important to realize that most of us do believe God comes first above all else, but it's also important to remember that we believe we are all brothers and sisters, and God is our heavenly father. I believe that as my wife and i grow together we grow with God and have a better understanding and love for God as we help each other through this life. Just like you said you would have grief if they were not there with you. Why wouldn't God want us together in his presence? Our sincere intent is to be back with our eternal family meaning God our eternal father and all of our Brothers and sisters aka earthly fathers, mothers, wives husband's, etc. Now how exactly that might come to be our how it might look is hard to say right now. I think it's entirely possible to put God above all else, and still believe in an eternal family while being in the presence of God with my wife.
@BellDavidE
@BellDavidE Жыл бұрын
Well said. I appreciate both the conviction and the grace with which it was conveyed.
@marjorieyarnell1926
@marjorieyarnell1926 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate so much this video! My 2 adult children are separating from me since I don’t support their lifestyle…I feel so empty as a mother but I believe like you said we are to focus on our relationship with God as our ultimate love relationship!
@majorattitude01
@majorattitude01 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your channel and content. It’s such a blessing for me to find a Christian who is willing to have these conversations. I’ve tried to find someone or something so I can better understand where others are coming from, but the ones I’ve found always felt belittling towards me. So, thank you for being willing to have an edifying conversation despite our differences! 😊
@mya_metzel
@mya_metzel Жыл бұрын
Amen. Heaven, eternal life, the blessed Hope we have in Him IS to be with Him forever as a family = as brothers and sisters in Christ (meaning the body of Christ). We are not going to be a family unit individually, but a greater family as a whole. Worshipping and praising our One True God. What a glorious life it will be. Great video analysis and remarks.
@sueznann8927
@sueznann8927 Жыл бұрын
If you want to learn about Latterday Saints, you need to read the Book of Mormon because that is the keystone of our religion 😊
@nick.s.c3102
@nick.s.c3102 Жыл бұрын
As a Catholic who really loves this channel, I just want to say that I think you did an excellent job explaining the orthodox Christian problem with the LDS eternal families doctrine. It was very charitable but uncompromising and clear at the same time.
@thomaspearson1919
@thomaspearson1919 Жыл бұрын
The Mormon church is one massive scam. $$$$$$$$$$ merchants.
@jcal6022
@jcal6022 Жыл бұрын
Honestly its kinda Funny as a former Protestant how little impact his position has on my point of View because Eternal Families is something that was revealed to me, and my Wife in Visions, and Dreams at appropriate correlations, and that is something I can never deny.
@heidiWava
@heidiWava Жыл бұрын
@@jcal6022 thank you for sharing! I listen sometimes to people who leave the church and like to hear their stories.. sometimes it throws me and my faith... And I'm grateful to see comments like yours that reel me back in, reminding me what I know is true.
@jcal6022
@jcal6022 Жыл бұрын
@@heidiWava As a Convert Ive come to find that The Church is a mish mash of Personalities, Life Experiences, and Perceptions. We should always put Jesus Christ at the Center of it. I've been a Member for 2 years now
@WranglermanLevi
@WranglermanLevi Жыл бұрын
Also somewhat depressing to say you don't need or expect to be with your family in the afterlife. What would be the point of having family relationships here/now but not in heaven? Are not we the children of God? It is clear that family relationships are central to our existence and purpose. By definition, heaven would include being in the presence of God and Elder Holland is not saying heaven is being with his wife, hes saying being there with God but without your loved ones would not feel complete. Think of a time in your life when you have the very best news, who do you want to share it with? When comparing all world religions on doctrine and theology, not one comes even close to the hopeful, optimistic, forgiving nature with unlimited progression of souls as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, that is a fact. Relating to family relationships, what might be a fun topic for you to explore more is "the gathering of Israel" from an LDS viewpoint.
@karrissabailey5492
@karrissabailey5492 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jeff, Thank you for following the prompting that inspired this journey you are on. The message, “Fighting Criticism with Curiosity” is one that I hope will take root. My 17year old daughter shared the video you posted of your visit to General Conference, which then led me to your additional videos. I so appreciate the thoughtful tender approach you have taken in comparing/contrasting religions. Listening to your observations comparing the philosophies of our two religions solidified my testimony of the truthfulness in the words of the Bible. I do not see contrast in our beliefs, quite the contrary, I feel harmony. Each gospel providing a validation of the other.
@dalelittle6519
@dalelittle6519 Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed your Eternal Families video and perspective, Jeff! Your perspective perfectly describes my understanding of "heaven" prior to me learning about the restoration of The Church of Jesus Christ through actual, modern prophets whom He has authorized. The power of your New Testament-based view of worshiping and centering our lives on Jesus Christ in this life--and the next--is compelling and beautiful. As Latter-day Saint Christians, I believe this is akin to our deepest hopes, as well
@tim-hypnotherapist
@tim-hypnotherapist Жыл бұрын
You are learning, you simply have more to learn.
@hannabfree
@hannabfree Жыл бұрын
As I am transitioning away from the LDS church I have really appreciated your videos to educate me more on the similarities and the biblical gospel of what most Christians believe and it rings more true to me. Because I agree of what is true from the Bible and that once it’s true then that truth would continue to stay true and not have to be changed through other scripture from the LDS church. I wish we related more to the Bible which is the original doctrine of Christ.
@rsgreen4086
@rsgreen4086 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100% and I am LDS. Being in the presence of the Lord is the ultimate desire. It will be made that much sweeter to share it with my family. In the church we are all brothers and sisters as well. It is going to be glorious for all things to be made new with no more suffering and pain! PTL
@AbundantlyBlessedMama
@AbundantlyBlessedMama 4 ай бұрын
Protestant here and I appreciate this series you are doing! I have always been fascinated by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and its beliefs. This has been so interesting.
@noduhj
@noduhj Жыл бұрын
I found it really interesting how even though I believe in eternal families and agreed completely with what Elder Holland said, most of what you said was actually also what I believe. I'd also again like to say thanks for how respectfully you make this a conversation where everyone can learn instead of an argument where everyone fights.
@lizkt
@lizkt Жыл бұрын
yes I agree, more often than not we have very little differences. even when there are differences they aren't usually major, just seen in a different way
@hrv4908
@hrv4908 Жыл бұрын
@@lizkt The Church of Jesus Christ simply fills in the gaps of the other churches. Hence, the fulness of the gospel.
@Waltvault
@Waltvault Жыл бұрын
@@hrv4908 yeah no it’s contradicts what the Bible clearly teaches about salvation
@hrv4908
@hrv4908 Жыл бұрын
@@Waltvault That's what the devil would have you believe to limit your progress.
@Waltvault
@Waltvault Жыл бұрын
@@hrv4908 “progress” this word goes to show how you clearly haven’t read the Bible in its fullness. We aren’t progressing towards Godhood. We are saved by grace through faith. Joseph smith was the one who was convinced by the devil to alter and change the literal scripture of Gods word.
@bryanquiros1601
@bryanquiros1601 Жыл бұрын
From Costa Rica here 🇨🇷 I really like your videos. I was raised Catholic and became Latter Day Saint then served a mission. The doctrine of marriage it’s not easy to understand at first, it’s like a puzzle, you find general truths then you need to find answers to more specific questions yourself. I started this process since I read the Book of Mormon when I was 14 and with patience I found more and more answers. Thanks for what you do and your willingness to ask and study sincerely.
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219
@windywithachanceofsunshine5219 Жыл бұрын
Come home to the Catholic Church!
@jameslow3264
@jameslow3264 Жыл бұрын
Jeff--I respect the approach you are taking and wish you the best in your endeavors. If you continue to approach questions and differences in this manner--you will end up in a good place. I hope it is as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints but if it is not--that's OK too. Our 13th Article of Faith states--"...if there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy--we seek after these things." Your podcasts are that.
@halloweendad
@halloweendad Жыл бұрын
I also think Pastor Jeff and this channel really emulate the 11th Article of Faith: We claim the privilege of worshipping Almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience, and allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may.
@TomorrowsChild86
@TomorrowsChild86 Жыл бұрын
Everything your saying IS what I believe as a Latter Day Saint except I believe just a little bit more.. I believe I will live in Gods Presence except with my Family… I know I will live with my Heavenly Father and with my Savior except my Family will be with me too.. ❤
@e_8074
@e_8074 Жыл бұрын
"Heaven isn't heaven without my family" is literally the reason God sent Christ to this earth. I respect and admire you for sharing your journey with us. And I wonder-could it be worth examining why evangelical Christianity seeks to relegate humanity to the role of spectator in relation to God? For example, God wants to 'save' and 'redeem' us so we can return to heaven and just be there and receive His love-but not progress to become more like Him? God emphasizes and works directly within familial relational roles-father and sons and daughters and children-but has no intention for us to find eternal joy in the same? It seems that evangelical theology insists on 'either/or' rather than the paradoxically and mysteriously beautiful 'AND.' The holy scriptures make one thing clear above all else: God does the impossible. God loves the impossible. God insists on the impossible. Justice and Mercy. Lose your life AND you will find it. Freedom AND authority, to name only a few.
@taragonleaf8005
@taragonleaf8005 Жыл бұрын
The idea of becoming joint heirs with christ really loses its appeal when you learn in protestant christianity that you don't really inherit anything. There's no further progress and you are in eternal singularity in a single status. But if we are joint heirs, this can't be so. If an heir to a kingdom doesn't eventually become king, then he was never heir in the first place.
@latter-daysaintchristian4134
@latter-daysaintchristian4134 Жыл бұрын
Separate in identity, one in purpose; faith and works: sin and redemption: death and everlasting life.
@taragonleaf8005
@taragonleaf8005 Жыл бұрын
@@sagesaith6354 It has been revealed as I said in the bible. We are heirs of the kingdom. Being a king's heir doesn't mean spending time in his prescence, it means becoming like him. Unless you have some way watered down God's holy promise with a less faithful interpretation.
@taragonleaf8005
@taragonleaf8005 Жыл бұрын
@@sagesaith6354 I'm not asking you to speak for God, he's already spoken. In fact the doctrine of theosis was much more prevalent in christianity before the Muslim invasions wiped out most non-trinitarians.
@godsoffspring4195
@godsoffspring4195 Жыл бұрын
Is marriage forever??..... Matt. 16 And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.
@corirussell657
@corirussell657 Жыл бұрын
I loved hearing your perspective on this and sharing the scriptures that reflect that. Thanks for giving me some peace about my husband leaving the church and refocusing my sight on Christ!!
@corirussell657
@corirussell657 Жыл бұрын
Also, great to talk to you and your wife lady week!! You guys are awesome!!
@seanrandall3559
@seanrandall3559 Жыл бұрын
This video has bothered me since I watched it. I guess it saddens me there are those that do not believe the most precious associations we should have in this life will not continue in the next. He says, “family is not everything despite the importance of it.” And, he values family relationships with his family that they are “the most fulfilling relationships we have is within family” and “We were created to desire and to want fulfillment with family.” He desires and even prays that he can spend eternity with his family. But yet he sees it as idolatrous. And he says, when we are in this broken fallen state on earth we replace him. Idol is anything that replaces God. First, I don’t think honest, sincere Christians look to replace God because we are in a fallen state. Least of all by focusing on family. And if focusing on family whether it is in this life or the next that would be idolatrous. If that were the case, we shouldn’t focus on family even here if it is idolatrous. Calling the love of family and desire for that continuation as idol worship I think is offensive to God. He put us into families by joining Adam and Eve together in eternal marriage in the Garden of Eden. Why do I say eternal marriage? Because the Eternal Father married them. What God does by His authority is not temporal but eternal. When Adam and Eve were sent from the garden it was together. They were to cleave to each other and worship and teach their children about God and the commandments. The intent was they would always return back to His presence together. Adam and Eve were taught how. Heaven will be heaven whether family or you or I are there or not because it is where God is. There is no reason that family and heaven and God cannot exist in the same place. Even the pastor desires it and said much of the same thing that Elder Holland said. Elder Holland was just more eloquent about it. The pastor I am sure unintentionally minimized Elder Hollands comments about heaven not being heaven without his wife and children by calling those desires as “happily ever after.” Of course, Elder Holland and members of the Church realize that not all of our families will choose to follow God and will not choose heaven. But the goal is to love and serve and help one another to want to choose it. It is not idol worship! It is not replacing God by assisting Him in His desire for His children to return to heaven. Family is good. Family is important. How can anything good and instituted by God ever become idol worship? God has prepared a way for families to be together forever and temples are necessary for that to happen! It is one of the few things we take with us from this life. I know the pastor doesn’t believe in the necessity of temples. But he doesn’t fully understand them. It is not merely a place for the Holy Ghost to dwell. But the ordinance of eternal families is reserved to be done in the House of God, by those who have that authority to do so, among other sacred ordinances. The importance of the temple cannot be understated. To me it seems selfish to want to be back in God’s presence without family or other loved ones and friends. A good desire to be there, but I think God desires for us to be there as families, as friends and neighbors. Isn’t that why we share the gospel with others? Isn’t that why we teach our children the way? Many will not choose to obey and follow Christ. We will need God to wipe away tears from our eyes and to teach us how to deal with it. God in His wisdom put us into families in this life because of the importance of the family and the benefits it can have upon His children. I believe the scriptures point to how important they are, Elder Holland used one in the video, 1 Cor. 11:11. Mark 10:6-9 is also an important one. Jesus taught about marriage from the beginning. Verse 9 says, “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Consider also the authority to bind on earth and heaven given to Peter and other apostles (Matt. 16:19; Matt. 18:18). Certainly, among those binding actions would be that of eternal marriage and family. And Psalm 127:3-5 3 Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. 4 As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. 5 Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate. And another one that I am not sure how Christianity views it is Malachi 4:5-6 5 Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: 6 And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse. Through modern revelation Latter-day Saints understand what this means. It is a welding link between the generations linking us together by the priesthood of God. That is why temples are important, priesthood is important, revelation and modern prophets and apostles are important. God wants to save as many of His children as will come to Him and be saved. The atonement of Jesus Christ is the greatest gift given to man and by these means those that never had an opportunity to hear the gospel of Jesus Christ will be able to hear it, accept it and have necessary ordinances done on their behalf. Sealing of husband and wife to children is also a part of that for those that didn’t have the opportunity in this life. It is the most merciful and just plan for the children of God, giving all the choice to accept or reject these ordinances and to follow Jesus Christ. These scriptures do not sound like family was intended for this life only. I believe in a lot of what the pastor said about heaven. But heaven and eternal families are not in opposition to each other but complementary. It doesn’t need to be an either/or situation. And most assuredly it does not replace God, but honors God. One of the few things we can take from this life is our relationships. If anyone wants to understand the perspectives of Latter-day Saints they need to understand from the beginning of the restoration. Consider there is a possibility the restoration point of view is correct. One can’t take the pieces of the puzzle of Christianity and try and make the pieces fit into the puzzle of the Latter-day Saints perspective. Some pieces do fit because Latter-day Saints are Christians so there are many of the same beliefs. There are many pieces that will not fit because Latter-day Saints believe in a restoration of the gospel of Jesus Christ and truths were lost from the time of Christ and have been restored through prophets and apostles in our day. Eternal families I am beginning to realize is one of those lost truths. I never assumed this was not believed generally by others.
@sei1391
@sei1391 Жыл бұрын
if you roll through the comments you'll see he only likes the comments he agrees with and doesn't actually take the time to read a perspective like this and actually formulate how it fits perfectly with the bible teachings.
@seanrandall3559
@seanrandall3559 Жыл бұрын
@@sei1391 I wasn’t sure if he would or not but I felt compelled to respond. Perhaps for those that do read the comments. I recognize after watching several of his videos his goal is more to convince Latter-day Saints they are wrong than to understand their perspective or even believe any of the doctrines that don’t fit his.
@vocalysemusicworks
@vocalysemusicworks Жыл бұрын
Our first and greatest responsibility is to find ourselves saved before the Father. We cannot drag anyone to heaven without being there first ourselves. Teaching our earthly families to come along is our second greatest responsibility. Teaching others not of our family is our third great responsibility. If we don't have those priorities in that order, we are fooling ourselves. How that Family of God is really put together on that other side, we really don't know. Really. If I awaken there, and find I get to spend eternity with God, great will be my joy. If I awaken there and find my loved ones and friends there too, greater shall be my joy. The first minute we open our eyes after we have passed on, we will have a thousand times more knowledge than we have now.
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