Ever Feel Like You Don't Matter? Us Too. This Story is for You.

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9 жыл бұрын

Do the Jewish organizations you're involved with make you feel like you matter? If not, says Allison Fine, you're not alone. Find out how a social media expert turned synagogue president helped her community walk the talk of welcoming - and how other Jewish institutions can follow suit.
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@afrochick9142 3 жыл бұрын

My contribution and my efforts don’t matter. Things will get done with or without me.

@colbo1001 2 жыл бұрын

I feel the very same. I really do. I, probably like you, have no idea what to do or how to get out of this mindset. I have no idea and the future of this "reality" is uncertain and I don't know if there's a way out. BUT, I feel like the first step is hope. Maybe the key is to not feel like this is all inevitable and how it'll always be but to be hopeful it'll be different and can be different. It feels better feeling like there is a way rather than there's no way.

@Shafeek258 Жыл бұрын

@@colbo1001 uncertainty is really a good thing, u still don't how successful you could potentially become, u don't know you are lovable or not, the only way to find these things is to be uncertain of them and willing to find ing them out through experience , please don't Judge yourself too fast try new things and meet new people, u still have enough time to figure things, trust me

@echotube3111 3 жыл бұрын

Nothing really matters, and you can't change that, so just do whatever you want with your life. It's that simple

@sophiek5243 11 ай бұрын

The point of this video is to explain that we matter if we choose to contribute sorely because we can. No credit no permission no encouragement

@randyatha2703 9 ай бұрын

I often think i dont matter, nothing i say or do matters to a soul and im ok with that, sometimes it hurts

@sricharankidambi1330 4 жыл бұрын

Im 22 now and I am facing this same problem. I am not sure whether I really am or is it just what I'm thinking. But when people who I need the most talk in a formal tone and use less words during conversation. It really hurts 💔💔💔.

@missasteroids 4 жыл бұрын

My bestfriend got mad at me,she tried to fight with me,she played the victim,and everyone took her side,everyone hated me,they said so many rude things to me and told me to kill myself,I wish I listened,I got removed from the chat,and I asked my other friend and the owner made the other person admin so she can ban me or anyone else,I don't feel safe anymore

@sarahkousar1336 3 жыл бұрын

I have been in a similar place I don't feel as alone now 💜

@echotube3111 3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you had to deal with that, it's terrible, but how was SHE your best friend

@bobbiward9506 2 жыл бұрын

Not "everyone" took her side. I'm throwing you a metaphor... Human race is a lot like cattle or a school of fish. We all just chase the shiniest, loudest and/or most distracting thing that will steal the focus from each of our own self appointed defects. Why the hell is it easier to be our own biggest critics -vs- Our own biggest cheerleader. It doesn't help when it's so damn hard to find someone who truly listens? sick and tired of asking that same Ol' "F"in ???

@RAl-yz4wz 4 жыл бұрын

What's the point of this? How is this helping?

@echotube3111 3 жыл бұрын

IKR lol

@adventurer2700 2 жыл бұрын

I think she is saying that people put up walls and wonder why no one can or wants to get in. People don’t understand that others may feel the same way. While you are waiting for a call from them, they are waiting for a call from you, neither of you call, now you both think the other doesn’t like them. She’s also saying that we gotta be the change we want to see, not just do stuff so people can care or like you but do it because you know its right. Basically everyone is self absorbed and wants others to come to them. She is saying be the person you’d want at your time of need and focus on virtue alone so that if someone seems to not value you you won’t feel upset because it wasn’t your goal.

@twinsoultarot473 Жыл бұрын

I don't matter. I've NEVER been in any LEADERSHIP POSITION. I am a complete nobody. AND no one listens to me. I lost my family. I lost ALL money and opportunity I wish I were dead. I'm a 55 year old widow. A poor little old fat lady who stupidly walked away from my husband, when our daughter was young; this resulted in his death many years later. Then I had our adult daughter turn on me for life. I am a glorified Uber driver with a Bachelors useless degree. I wish I already died from that truck that was drifting into my lane a few days ago.

@c.c.margaret 2 ай бұрын

I'm sorry you feel so bad about yourself and I hope you are doing better since you left this comment 🌼🌹

@c.c.margaret 2 ай бұрын

Also I'm sorry about the things that have happened but everyone does things they regret