Ex googler, Author and NRI Counsellor's Candid Conversation about Returning Back to India

Ex googler, Author and NRI Counsellor's Candid Conversation about Returning Back to India | R2I

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Nupur ‪@NupurDave‬ went to US for masters, worked at google, lived american life for 13 years before moving to India. Nupur has been working with govt, start-ups, and large organizations since moving to India. Nupur also explored several opportunities and wrote three books. Nupur has also helped 1000+ NRIs and Indians to get clarity of living abroad or in India. Lots of candid conversations and insights.
Here’s some of the topics we covered:
Background
Reason for moving back
Social/work life in US vs India
Misconceptions of living in India
Career transition from technology to arts
How did the idea of retiring worked out for her?
Perspective on Financial Planning
Info about 3 books
Any topics that we haven’t covered?
Advice for the future aspirants
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@supercrazydesi 7 ай бұрын

I have been living in US for 18.5 years with a large Indian community and friends to support. I still feel extremely lonely as I don’t feel I can call or bother anyone during weekdays. There is this hesitation. Loneliness is real and an epidemic.

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing your personal thoughts!

@rithwikj 4 ай бұрын

haha, but it's beyond annoying to have relatives drop in unannounced during working weekdays and then expect to be entertained - somehow that's okay in India. If you say 'no', they make sure to outcast you and pass snide remarks or insults in any gathering (weddings, etc)

@honeydewim Ай бұрын

@@rithwikjmaybe you are Americanised.. this is how people in India roll.

@xxxx-tb4de 17 күн бұрын

Honestly, it is mostly up to you and loneliness issue will not change by relocating.

@goddessvibes08 Ай бұрын

The hate for single women in India is real. But a lot of us are happier and content with our lives. Especially after coming from US. More power to u girl

@DesiReturn Ай бұрын

Thank you very much for sharing your experiences and thoughts

@iyyappanswaminathan7812 3 ай бұрын

This is one of the best interviews related to NRI’s…. She nailed it about the mind set of NRI’s…. Being an NRI for 20 years and living by spreadsheet I can understand what she means…I really appreciate and wishing her all the best..

@DesiReturn 3 ай бұрын

Thnaks for watching and sharing your thoughts. Glad it resonated well. All the best

@2aa22a 7 ай бұрын

She is so level headed...Free spirit....Seems like she never married. Very thoughtful and gives clear perspective.

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts. Yes she is very honest and level headed.

@honeydewim Ай бұрын

By far this is the most interesting interview on your channel, giving a different angle (and a correct one in my opinion) to moving to India picture. Loneliness and family is the only reason, for someone to move back no matter what they say.

@DesiReturn Ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts.

@abhijitguha494 6 ай бұрын

The elegant lady is right when she says there is a lack of human socialization in the US/Canada. But I feel it's becoming the same in India also gradually. Everyone is glued to their own personal devices & the interaction only happens in the virtual world thru a 2 by 4 inch screen. The human interaction is getting lesser everywhere everyday.

@DesiReturn 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts. It's so true about human interaction

@shashikanthchannagiri8603 7 ай бұрын

Very good information and Channel. I can only wish God Bless you

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and for providing positive encouragement. Please share with others who can benefit from the content. Thanks

@mannerivamsi5 7 ай бұрын

A different perspective and a wonderful conversation. Thoroughly enjoyed this episode!!

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

Great!! Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts.

@sudheerr4760 7 ай бұрын

36:25 - When you said "Throw the worksheet out" - I'm litterally working on that sheet when you said that and also since I decided to move to India after working for 8 years. You read the NRI people mind.

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts. Yes she summarized her observations very clearly. Good luck with move and hope these videos are helpful.

@user-nm3mr3lp7r 2 ай бұрын

People don’t be fooled. These are influencers.

@whatup307 27 күн бұрын

I've noticed that most of the people who are interviewed on here are not permanent residents or US citizens. unless I'm wrong. My experience is that I have been in America since I was 2 years old. I'm in my fifties. From my last two trips to India I have noticed a lot of the crowds in streets are in their twenties to mid-30s. The thing she said that struck a chord with me comma is that it's not about it not working out for me it's about me working out for the opportunity in India. It's true after living in a country for this long getting used to its ways. Something about India intrigues me and has made me consider coming back to live long term, but when I look around for women my age who live kind of the lifestyle that I live here in America, I don't really see it there. Here, women have a certain Freedom that they don't have in India. you can wear shorts and a tank top and go to the grocery store-- Or just go for a walk in your neighborhood-- without being stared at, or having people talk about you in a bad way. you can go to the gym ,like she said without being bothered. Or go on a date. I think the biggest thing I would miss is being able to drive wherever I want whenever I want, without it taking 30 minutes to go 10 miles.

@DesiReturn 27 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. We have quite a guests who are US citizens on the show. Sounds like you considered about India but based your experiences India might not be a right fit for you and its good to make a decision. Depending on one’s circumstances and preference, they can choose where they want to live.

@papercityvlogs4325 Күн бұрын

Absolutely true. I love my anonymity in the USA. It may seem trivial but the freedom of just throwing on t shirts and shorts and grabbing a cup of coffee is exhilarating. No one cares. Exactly. This is the best part of living abroad

@meerajha832 4 ай бұрын

I have met her in one of her in person session. If you review her Linkedin posts she writes like an American who immigrated to India and have started to learn about Indian living. Any person who has never left India can easily see through her posts on how naive she is about being an Indian. She is mesmerised by the nuanced unorganised chaos of Indian living. She speaks about her pre-US days but you would know she isnt the one she is portraying to be just for the sake of garnering relatability. Also she has a failed marriage. I dont want to get into her personal life but its important to take that into account while making big emotional moves based on her advice.

@RajivSambasivan 7 ай бұрын

Excellent, kudos to both of you!

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@SingaporeBuilds 6 ай бұрын

Starting is abrupt. Need more background as in home town, where they did engg etc.

@DesiReturn 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing your feedback

@deepthirao164 6 ай бұрын

I have watched all the episodes on this channel and this was ny favorite of all ❤

@DesiReturn 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching most of the content and appreciate your engagement

@Neelsworld2022 7 ай бұрын

Thank you Avinash .

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching

@98505177229850590818 7 ай бұрын

Good video Fortunately loneliness is not everywhere in usa . There is good social life if you are at right place with right person .. major reason you got bored or lonely because you were single and as your age increases and you are single , the group changes .. this happens specially if you are at 30 or above ….married people won’t be much friendly to you .. and bachelors are too young for you … many of my friends are in same boat… I am married with one kid and we have more than Indian chaos at my home always people friends ..we are in Arizona as well This video portrays usa as lonely place but it’s not …. It’s just her experience …also my experience is usa has very good respect for Indians as per my 13 years of experience in india …

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts.

@scientistswife 7 ай бұрын

True but your perspective will also change when children leave the nest and one starts aging.

@98505177229850590818 7 ай бұрын

@@scientistswife yes when children leave and you are alone many people shift to india …or many says they are fine with aloneness not loneliness .. I think it matters how you see situation ..

@scientistswife 7 ай бұрын

At a elderly life stage when one doesn't have kids around or partner . It's called suffering when alone. You may have servants but not family around

@SalviAkshay 13 күн бұрын

"Spend it now" really. Take advice with a grain of salt.

@londonds91 3 ай бұрын

"You are giving them source of income, you are being nice to them" Your employer does the same to you Nupur, but you are not a maid. Its not left leaning to call maid a help, its humane.

@DesiReturn 3 ай бұрын

True

@SR-mv2mf 5 ай бұрын

How to connect with the guest?. I am in a similar situation to her. I would love to meet her

@DesiReturn 5 ай бұрын

You can send a note via Instagram desireturn.official or send an email to info @ desireturn.com

@SR-mv2mf 5 ай бұрын

With all due respect I meant I want to connect with the lady guest here- ms. Nupur. Where is her insta or website ?

@DesiReturn 5 ай бұрын

Yes I know. I don't want to post guest IM or contact info public.

@lavanyay2767 7 ай бұрын

I can totally relate to it . I'm sailing thru this right now Avinash 😕

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

Thanks Lavanya for watching and sharing your thoughts. Each story is unique in some sort and very well resonate to some people. Please subscribe and share with others who can get value from the content.

@lavanyay2767 7 ай бұрын

@@DesiReturn definitely..keep doing the great work and inspiring us ❤️🙏

@DesiReturn 7 ай бұрын

🙏

@swok090 4 ай бұрын

Many problems Nupur faced in the US are because Nupur is single at a 35+ age. This is rare for Indians especially in the US. Your social circle shrinks, and loneliness hits you. Dating would be one solution to keep such people away from loneliness. Similarly, in India, women at that age that are single have a tough time. It is just not the norm in the society. The trainer not leaving you alone in the gym would probably not happen if you had any sign, even if fake, that you are married. I'm not saying, "why are you single, get married already". I'm just saying Nupur that many of the perspectives you shared don't resonate well with most Indians who are married and have kids. I'm sure you know this, but it'd be good to include this in your narration of your perspectives.