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Eye-Gazing: this simple exercise CHANGES your relationship

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Shane Melaugh

Shane Melaugh

Күн бұрын

In this video, Ollie talks about his experience running a 7-day eye gazing experiment with his girlfriend in order to increase intimacy, trust and connection.
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@ddemaine
@ddemaine 3 жыл бұрын
Who wouldn't want to eye gaze with Ollie.
@russellstarmore4836
@russellstarmore4836 3 ай бұрын
Excited to try this with someone else! I HAVE tried this with myself in the mirror though. This can also be powerful to develop more connection with yourself. I've even sometimes experienced mild shroom-like hallucinations by doing this. It's very strange and can be sometimes freak you out but staying with the practice and breathing is key. Loved this video!
@GoldenNomadics
@GoldenNomadics 3 жыл бұрын
The was a fascinating watch, I look forward to doing this with my partner the next time we're together.
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha. Best intro ever (in this challenge). Calvin (from Calvin&Hobs) would describe Ollie's eyes at the beggining of the video as "Bambi eyes" perfect to ask Santa (or mum) for a flame thrower. Shrek's cat is a good example too. ;-) My last try on this experiment led to an akward feeling of not being able to feel the limit between me and the other person. The frontiers fell down somehow. I don't know if there is a matching expression in english, but in Spain we say "los ojos son el espejo del alma", something like "the eyes are a reflection of the soul" I guess. If this is true, eye-gazing is for me something similar to a gentle caress soul to soul.
@shane.melaugh
@shane.melaugh 3 жыл бұрын
Haha, so true!
@boukm3n
@boukm3n 7 ай бұрын
I first discovered this in my BC (before Christ) days at a shambhala Buddhist meditation center. About 30 young adults in one room for an hour and a half. First a 15 minute meditation warm up followed by a group discussion around the room checking in with each other. We would then randomly pair up with someone in the room. We would sit on pillows directly in front of one another. One side would close their eyes and would just listen to the other speak for two minutes uninterrupted. After that was done, switch sides. At the end of that. We would open our eyes and do this. They called it the Dyad. Same process but for about 4-5 minutes. Dude, it felt like I was seeing this person’s soul. Kinda nuts.
3 жыл бұрын
My oscar goes to Ollie, by the way. He's natural. Best actor in this video challenge. 🎥🏆 (In my opinion, of course).
@GreenJessy
@GreenJessy 3 жыл бұрын
Love it! So beautiful and yes eye-gazing is magical
@shane.melaugh
@shane.melaugh 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Jessica!
@LivingDanceForm
@LivingDanceForm 3 жыл бұрын
I love the intro, could watch it again and again. You have sucha great ideas for filming. And eye gazing worthwhile anyway.
@shane.melaugh
@shane.melaugh 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou! Hope it gave you a giggle :)
@mikeypotts4732
@mikeypotts4732 3 жыл бұрын
I used to do this with my ex and she couldn't hold the gaze for more than a few seconds. I couldn't relate at the time, but now I don't think I could do this with someone else anymore haha.
@ansu108
@ansu108 Жыл бұрын
Wow thank you for sharing your experience! 🙏 I will defenitely try this
@shane.melaugh
@shane.melaugh Жыл бұрын
Let us know how it goes!
@Ze1kor2
@Ze1kor2 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, great video. I 'm a student who - in the current pandemic - has not made a whole lot of connections with people. I am thinking about engaging in eye-gazing with someone I like, but am not close to yet, and maybe even strangers in the park, who knows. If it comes to it, I will return to this comment section and share my experience. Cheers!
@shane.melaugh
@shane.melaugh 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing. We're going to do a video on eye gazing with strangers too. Good luck!
@Mamamadness
@Mamamadness Жыл бұрын
I’m going to do this challenge. And as you said just came up into subconscious lol
@iinathaniii2
@iinathaniii2 10 ай бұрын
I just naturally did this and came up with it for my relationship where I felt we were hurting ourselves cus we weren't being our genuine selves in our worst moments (and we wouldn't be able to if making eye contact)
@bandaloop3759
@bandaloop3759 Жыл бұрын
Now add lsd
@My2Stents
@My2Stents Жыл бұрын
Just curious but are you still together with Margarita? My bet would be no … didn’t like her responses
@bedtimestories948
@bedtimestories948 Жыл бұрын
Loved it!
@wonder8nw1
@wonder8nw1 10 ай бұрын
Nice couple for each other
@HGAitssimple
@HGAitssimple 2 жыл бұрын
Oy it's Ollie!
@nevena216
@nevena216 Жыл бұрын
Why i cry when doing this?
@JeremiahWdabullfrog
@JeremiahWdabullfrog Жыл бұрын
That's a scary intro
@simsima4636
@simsima4636 10 ай бұрын
Tried it many Times, This shit doesn't work
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